If you've been through a divorce, you know it can turn your world completely upside down. Whether your divorce was contentious or not, you're tasked with the daunting step of forming a new identity, beyond your ex. This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Daniel Herrold, co-founder of the fast-growing community Divorced Over 40 (DO40), that provides support for men and women in the aftermath of divorce. As people form their new identities as single people or single parents, having the support of...
Feb 02, 2022•41 min
This week, Kimmy dives deep on the relationship between fear and flirting. If you're preoccupied with a fear of rejection, your ability to be playful and flirt could be hindered. In this episode, Kimmy live coaches Janus, who wants to get back out there and find a healthy, fulfilling relationship. Janus shares her past experience in controlling relationships, which has contributed to her denying the true expression of herself. EPISODE 229 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Flirting With...
Jan 26, 2022•37 min
The secret to realizing your dreams is to manifest them. You have the power to attract the love you want but first, you must become what you want to attract. If you're curious to learn how, listen to Kimmy's interview with an expert in manifestation -- best-selling author and speaker, Natalie Ledwell. EPISODE 228 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Manifesting Love: Interview With Natalie Ledwell Kimmy shares a story about a client who held on to negative messages about men from her chil...
Jan 19, 2022•36 min
Welcome back for another episode of Where Are They Now, Coaching with Kimmy! On this segment, you’ll hear honest reflections from Kimmy’s current and former clients. These conversations focus on how their lives have changed and where they are on their love journey since working with Kimmy. Listen in to hear the secrets to their success! This week, Kimmy catches up with Liz, a high achieving podcast listener who invested in coaching because she was ready to learn how to date and find real love. S...
Jan 12, 2022•40 min
Do you self-sabotage in dating and relationships? Are you quick to judge others? This week, Kimmy interviews Brandon Wilson, a communications and executive consultant who helps leaders and organizations identify the barriers that stop them for fulfilling their dreams. Brandon shares his story about the business relationship that nearly cost him everything. You’ll hear how that experience helped him develop a sabotage framework which he outlines in his book, Sabotage. EPISODE 226 of The Charisma ...
Jan 05, 2022•46 min
Have you been experiencing a pessimistic outlook or self doubt lately around dating? With the New Year right around the corner, it's the perfect time to reflect on your love life and determine if you could use a reboot. Right now, many people are experiencing dating burnout -- you're numbing out swiping on matches, you keep meeting people you can't see yourself with and you're starting to wonder if there's even a point to all this! This week, Kimmy talks through the steps to pull yourself out of...
Dec 29, 2021•37 min
Do you feel like you're dating the same person over and over again? You try to vet potential dates as best you can but somehow you always end up attracting the fixer-upper, the narcissist, the emotionally unavailable... and you're over it! In the end, you realize that your “picker” might be off. This week, listen in as Kimmy live coaches Ashley, who found Kimmy through her free Facebook group, The Love Makeover Insiders. Ashley is ready to meet someone great after finding herself and defining th...
Dec 22, 2021•41 min
Do you feel a sense of self-empowerment? It is a buzzword that is thrown out all of the time but what does it really mean? When you are empowered, you are confident and that confidence gets you the opportunities you want. This week, Kimmy interviews a guest who knows a thing or two about empowering people to live a fantastic life, Dr. Allen Lycka, who is a pioneer in cosmetic surgery, transformational speaker, author, celebrity and mentor in his field. EPISODE 223 of The Charisma Quotient Podcas...
Dec 15, 2021•41 min
If you've been a listener of this show, you know that Kimmy's philosophy is all about working on yourself from the outside in. It's the fastest gateway to embody the most confident version of you. This week, Kimmy interviews an authority on building a positive body image, transformational coach, Justine Sloan. EPISODE 222 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Building A Positive Self-Image To Attract Love~Interview With Justin Sloan Justine dives in to share her story about how she struggl...
Dec 08, 2021•33 min
If you have dated or been in relationships before, you know that getting hurt or rejected is part of the deal. We've all been there! It's scary to get rejected and it's easy to become guarded or fear being vulnerable. This week, Kimmy live coaches Stacey, a people-person who thrives in social groups but is having trouble opening up and sharing her true self when dating. EPISODE 221 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Letting your guard down when dating: Coaching with Kimmy If you've foun...
Dec 01, 2021•36 min
Do you feel stressed and negative around this time of year? Being single can be really hard as holidays approach and it’s easy to be sucked into a negative spin. This week, Kimmy shares an impactful and motivational episode around the power of gratitude. As Thanksgiving approaches, it's a reminder that we have a lot to be grateful for. You deserve to acknowledge what makes you happy! When you live with a positive mindset, you are setting the stage for happy dates and satisfying relationships in ...
Nov 24, 2021•29 min
Do you feel that you are worthy of love? Maybe on the surface, you want that but deep down you are not sure. The first step to achieving anything you want is to feel and believe you deserve it. It's true when it comes to happiness, business and love. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy interviews an authority on helping people become leaders of their own destiny, Daniel Gomez. Daniel is an award-winning keynote speaker, author, coach and podcast host who empowers his clients to build epic ...
Nov 17, 2021•44 min
Expectations and norms around dating have shifted drastically over the years. Now, technology has a massive impact on the culture of dating. If you're in your 40s, 50s or 60s and entering the dating scene for the first time, learning all these new rules can make you feel like a total fish out of water! In this episode, Kimmy breaks down how to navigate the modern dating world by demystifying the biggest changes and how you can get up to speed. EPISODE 218 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titl...
Nov 10, 2021•26 min
Is your voice not as strong as you would like it to be? Do you find yourself bending over backward to please others, while pushing your own needs and desires to the side? In this LIVE episode of Coaching with Kimmy, you'll meet Debra who's venturing back into the dating world after leaving an 18-year marriage. She is working on finding her voice and letting go of people-pleasing behaviors so that she can stop attracting controlling and narcissistic kinds of men. EPISODE 217 of The Charisma Quoti...
Nov 03, 2021•39 min
Have you ever felt like you keep dating the same person? No matter what you do, you keep ending up attracting the same type of guy or gal and you're ready to make a change. If you're a regular listener of this podcast, you may have heard Kimmy's five dating archetypes for women. To hear more about each one, check out her exclusive audio course This May Be Why You Suck at Dating https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer In this episode, you'll hear about one expert's dating arch...
Oct 27, 2021•45 min
Do you follow your intuition? As you move through your love journey, trusting your gut can be a huge advantage, but how do you know how to interpret what you feel? This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy interviews a leader in listening and leaning into her intuition, Noel Elie. Noel is an entertainment industry professional, model and actress, and founder and CEO of Noel Elie productions where she works with people to help build their brands, get media features, and more. EPISODE 215 of The C...
Oct 20, 2021•37 min
Do you know how to network to increase your chances of meeting potential dates? Your ability to build strong relationships is essential to your success in dating. The stronger your network, the more likely you are to meet or be introduced to someone who could end up being the love of your life! This week, Kimmy interviews an authority on creating and cultivating connections in business, Michael Roderick. A former high school English teacher, Michael capitalized on the power of strong connections...
Oct 13, 2021•47 min
Have you noticed a pattern of dating or attracting emotionally unavailable people? Do you find it difficult to open up with new friends or in potential relationships? In this episode, you'll hear Kimmy live coach Dawn, a self-described social butterfly who has no trouble having fun and attracting men, however you’ll be surprised to hear how her flirting has been used as a love shield to deflect her from going deeper in her interactions. As an proclaimed extrovert and waitress, Dawn is great at m...
Oct 06, 2021•49 min
Are you dating later in life? Dating in your 40s, 50s, and 60s is different! Especially if you're jumping back into the dating world after a divorce or a long-term relationship in adulthood. Often, your identity was tied to your partners for so long that it can be tough to find who YOU are again. Dating has also changed in the last decade and now is the perfect time to understand how to date smarter so you can find who's right for you now. In this week's episode, Kimmy addresses the biggest dati...
Sep 29, 2021•29 min
Have you ever gotten swept up in the magic and romance of a movie or a song? Do you ever ask yourself, “Why can’t I find love?" The truth is that it's a lot easier to depict a picture-perfect whirlwind courtship in a romantic comedy than to replicate that experience in real life. When it comes to finding love, it may be more beneficial to *create* the love you want, instead of searching for it. This week, Kimmy talks to Adam Gilad who is an Emmy-nominated producer and writer and founder of Kyynd...
Sep 22, 2021•32 min
Everyone experiences extreme life events that impact how we think, act and behave throughout our loves. If you've experienced trauma, physical, verbal or emotional abuse in your family or past relationships, this week's episode will resonate with you. You'll hear Kimmy have a coaching call with Margaret, a healthcare worker who is struggling to move beyond her past and find love again. After leaving an abusive 11-year marriage, Margaret is focused on how she can shift her perspective to start at...
Sep 15, 2021•43 min
Dating in today's landscape can be intimidating. Gone are the days of being introduced to your person through family or friends as nowadays people are more and more likely to meet online. The world of dating apps is big, and without a concrete plan, you may feel like you're out in the wilderness. This week, Kimmy speaks with an authority on how to navigate dating online, Dawoon Kang, the co-founder and Chief Dating Officer of popular dating app Coffee Meets Bagel. EPISODE 209 of The Charisma Quo...
Sep 08, 2021•39 min
Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have honest conversations with current and former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what's changed since working with Kimmy, and the secrets to their success. In this episode, you'll meet Maricus, who is starting his dating journey for the first time since leaving his marriage and finding himself in the process. EPISODE 208 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is tit...
Sep 01, 2021•33 min
How do you care for yourself? Nurturing yourself and taking care of your needs is an essential part of being the best version of yourself. This week, Kimmy has an introspective conversation with Dr. Gertrude Lyons, a life coach, speaker, podcast host of Rewrite The Mother Code, and self-described mothering revolutionary. This week, Kimmy and Gertrude invite you to think about the art of mothering in all its’ forms, regardless of your gender. This episode is all about how to mother and nurture yo...
Aug 25, 2021•39 min
Have you ever felt like you were just dating the same person over and over again? Even though you've been working on yourself and listening to podcasts (like this one!), you still can't seem to break free from experiencing the same patterns. This week, Kimmy is going to help you tackle some issues you may not have been able to see before. Listen in to hear her Top 5 Love Shields that may be preventing you from finding the one. EPISODE 206 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: 5 Things That...
Aug 18, 2021•23 min
Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? Coaching with Kimmy! In these episodes, you'll hear Kimmy have direct, honest conversations with her clients to find out how their life has changed since working with her, and the secrets to their success. Today, you'll meet Meredith, who found Kimmy on a friend's recommendation and now has completely changed her story and has found love. EPISODE 205 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How Vulnerability Attracted Love: Where Are They...
Aug 11, 2021•37 min
Does the idea of confronting conflict in a relationship make you cringe? Would you rather avoid sharing your true feelings because you're afraid that sharing how you feel will cause more problems? If this sounds like you, tune in to hear Kimmy's interview with David Wood. David runs the world's largest coaching business for high-performing entrepreneurs, is the celebrated author of Get Paid for Who You Are, and is an expert in having tough conversations. EPISODE 204 of The Charisma Quotient Podc...
Aug 04, 2021•43 min
When was the last time you truly leveled up? Are you comfortable where you are right now or are you ready for the next level in your love life? This week Kimmy interviews an expert in reaching the next level of success, Joe Sanok. He's a keynote and TEDx speaker, business consultant, and hosts the #1 podcast for counselors, The Practice of the Practice Podcast. EPISODE 203 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Leveling Up Your Career & Love Life: Interview With Joe Sanok Joe dives in t...
Jul 28, 2021•32 min
What does it mean to embrace your feminine power? Are you open to receiving, letting men earn you, and learning to flow in your feminine energy? This week on the podcast, Kimmy interviews Petia Kolibuva, a women's transformation coach who helps her clients release what is holding them back so they can become the loving, nurturing, powerful women they've always dreamed of being. If you are struggling with giving off masculine energy or constantly being in work mode in your dating life, listen in!...
Jul 21, 2021•39 min
Do you flirt intentionally to capture someone’s eye? Flirting is one of the most common challenges people face when dating. If you're not a confident flirt, chances are you're holding back because you don't want to come off as cheesy, unintelligent or give someone the wrong impression. On today's show, you'll learn the *REAL* definition of flirting and hear Kimmy coach Keren, a travel nurse who's had some bad luck in relationships and wants to get back out there but worries because she doesn’t k...
Jul 14, 2021•39 min
