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Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Welcome to the Charisma Quotient hosted by dating, makeover and confidence expert, Kimmy Seltzer. Each week, learn from Kimmy and other experts about how to build confidence from the outside, in. She’s consulted thousands of people to revamp their style, boost their confidence and most importantly, find love. Her lighthearted, down-to-earth and practical approach brings a fun and knowledgeable style to the podcast. She alternates the podcast with solo episodes highlighting various topics, interviewing experts, reading questions and answering them with surprising answers and live coaching sessions.
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Episodes

From Dating To Finding Love: Special 200th Episode

This week on the Charisma Quotient, we’re celebrating 200 episodes! Over the years, we’ve heard stories from women and men all over the world around their journey to grow, work on themselves and find love. Today’s show is about honoring the process of dating, finding success in each dating phase and learning to love each step for its challenges and gifts. EPISODE 200 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: From Dating To Finding Love: Special 200th Episode Kimmy breaks down the three phases ...

Jul 07, 202159 min

Marketing Yourself To Attract Love: Interview With Steve Werner

Do you know if you are marketing yourself so that you attract the right partner? It's not about changing who you are, it's about marketing yourself well to create the right opportunity to find love. This week on the show, Kimmy interviews Steve Werner a webinar, presentation and event expert and founder of Monetize Your Tribe. Steve jumps in to share his story about how he went from knowing very little about marketing events to becoming a go-to authority in his space on how to market and present...

Jun 30, 202144 min

Breaking Free From Attracting Narcissists: Coaching with Kimmy

Do you have a tendency to attract narcissists? Have you noticed that your dates aren't genuinely curious about who you are? Do your relationships feel amazing at first and then fizzle out just as quickly as they began? This week on the Charisma Quotient, you'll hear Kimmy live coach Christina, who has noticed a pattern of attracting narcissists in her love life. As an army veteran, olympian and veterinarian, Christina has accomplished so much and is committed to regaining trust in herself after ...

Jun 23, 202155 min

Dating Networking: Interview With Amber Spears

Most of us recognize that networking is an essential part of advancing in business or a career. But, have you considered using networking to create opportunities to date and find love? The more well connected you are, the more opportunities you'll have to meet someone you might never have otherwise. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy interviews Amber Spears, recognized as a well-connected industry leader, entrepreneur, and Internet Marketing Expert who helps companies develop and optimize...

Jun 16, 202143 min

Detox From Unhealthy Relationships: A Healthy Dating Diet

Have you ever met someone and immediately jumped on an emotional roller coaster together? You had great chemistry and super high highs, but the lows were even lower. Before you knew it the relationship was over just as quickly as it started. If this sounds familiar, you’ve probably experienced a toxic relationship. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy shares five key steps to help you avoid getting involved in toxic relationships or “situation-ships” in your love life. EPISODE 198 of The Ch...

Jun 09, 202131 min

Awakening Your Body To Boost Dating Confidence: Interview With Malin Svensson

Are you hiding your body because you’re embarrassed about how you look? As summer approaches and your world might be opening up, you might be starting to think about looking your best and dressing for the warmer weather. Feeling attractive on the outside relates to how you feel inside and WILL affect your sexy dating confidence. If you're ready to improve your health and build a better relationship with your body image, listen in! This week, Kimmy interviews Malin Svensson, CEO and Founder of No...

Jun 02, 202138 min

First Impression Mistakes: Interview With Scott Carson

It's no surprise to hear that making a good first impression is essential, especially when dating. In fact, it only takes 7 seconds now to make a first impression. So, what steps can you take to ensure you shine as your true self and attract the right kind of attention when you walk into a room or even on your dating profile? This week, Kimmy interviews Scott Carson, an investor, entrepreneur, marketer and host of the Note Closers Show Podcast. As a proven expert in building relationships in bus...

May 26, 202143 min

Sexy Confidence After Divorce: Where Are They Now With Alexis

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have honest conversations with current and former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what's changed since working with Kimmy, and the secrets to their success. In this episode, you'll meet Alexis, who has gone from struggling with her self-worth to surpassing her dating goals in just 3 short months! Since investing in coaching with Kimmy as a 5-year "divorce-ivers...

May 19, 202140 min

Social Confidence And Dating: Interview With Robbie Kramer

When you walk into a room for a social event or date, do you feel anxious and get in your head? You want to feel and come across as magnetic, confident, and secure so that you'll make a good impression. But after spending so much time apart from others, your social muscles might be atrophied or maybe you need to work on building them for the first time. This week, Kimmy interviews Robbie Kramer, an expert who specializes in cultivating social confidence and improving men’s interactions and relat...

May 12, 202138 min

Cultivating Chemistry On Dates: Coaching with Kimmy

How much do you rely on physical or sexual chemistry to create connections with dates? If you answered, "All the time!" then this episode is for you. This week, Kimmy live coaches Maggie, a vibrant woman who's ready to get back into the dating scene to find an intelligent, attractive man. The problem is, she just isn't physically attracted to the guys she's meeting. EPISODE 193 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Cultivating Chemistry On Dates: Coaching With Kimmy Kimmy asks Maggie to ju...

May 05, 202153 min

Stop Hiding Behind The Masks: Interview With Michael Brody-Waite

What does it mean to be your authentic self? You've heard the buzzwords, but do you really know how to put all these theories into action? This week, Kimmy interviews an expert on living authentically, Michael Brody-Waite. Michael is an acclaimed speaker, Inc. 500 Entrepreneur, three-time CEO, TEDx speaker, and author of Great Leaders Live Like Drug Addicts. As a recovering addict, Michael's mission is to teach as many people as possible how to lead themselves by shedding the masks they hide beh...

Apr 28, 202136 min

Up Your 2021 Dating Game

Let's face it: dating is tough to navigate! No matter who you are, where you live, how old you are or your previous experience, dating during a global pandemic comes with a whole new set of challenges. This week, Kimmy walks you through the 5 best ways to navigate the new dating landscape and up your game. Whether you've taken a break from dating entirely or you went through a breakup in the last year, you can use these tips to start building back your social muscle and find success in love. EPI...

Apr 21, 202128 min

Finding Love After Divorce: Where Are They Now With Matt

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have honest conversations with former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what changed since working with Kimmy, and the secrets to their success. In this episode, you'll meet Matt, who found Kimmy through a flirt workshop as he was trying to get back into the dating scene after a divorce. Matt jumps in to talk about the challenges he faced in finding a relationshi...

Apr 14, 202136 min

Why Is Tim Storey Single? Building Dating Resilience

How do you come back from a setback? How do you stay resilient after a series of bad dates, no dates, or failed relationships? This week on the show, Kimmy's bringing you a special episode, with a special guest. What began as an interview, transformed into a coaching session with Tim Storey, widely recognized as a legendary life coach to professional athletes and celebrities (including Oprah!). EPISODE 189 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Why Is Tim Storey Single? Building Dating Resi...

Apr 07, 202153 min

Eden Sassoon, The Black Widow: Coaching With Kimmy

We all have walls. No matter who you are or where you come from, you might have experiences in your past that you'd rather not repeat. We build up emotional walls to protect ourselves. The truth is, you may not realize you're doing this or even know where it originates from. But, if you're willing to get curious you may find an opening that allows you to start the work of breaking down your walls. This week you'll get the chance to hear Kimmy coach powerhouse beauty icon and influencer Eden Sass...

Mar 31, 202135 min

Interview With Jon Birger: Powerful Women Dating In A Modern World

The dating world is changing, and that's due in part to shifting gender roles in our society. If you're a woman who's a high-achiever and knows how to accomplish professional goals, you've probably felt disappointed in the pool of men out there before. In this episode of the Charisma Quotient, you'll hear a conversation that will broaden your horizons about who could be the right match for you. Kimmy interviews Jon Birger, an award-winning magazine writer, accidental dating guru, journalist and ...

Mar 23, 202146 min

Cracking The Love Code: Where Are They Now With Molly

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now?: Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have direct, honest conversations with former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what changed since they started working with Kimmy and the secrets to their success. In this episode, you'll meet Molly, a healthcare worker who was feeling burned out by a string of dating experiences that went nowhere. When she heard Kimmy on a podcast talking about closet makeover...

Mar 17, 202137 min

Virtual Dating: Interview with Zach Schleien

Over the past year, the virtual dating scene has exploded. With people all over the world on lockdown due to the pandemic, we've all had to get creative and comfortable communicating using online platforms instead of face to face. This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Zach Schleien, co-founder and CEO of Filter Off, a new video speed-dating app that has taken the industry by storm. Kimmy and Zach talk about the ability of video to transform conversations with your matches from boring and awkw...

Mar 10, 202131 min

Letting go to attract the one: Interview With Hale Dwoskin

Letting go of what's holding you back often seems easier said than done. Even though the process of letting go of things that don't serve your best interests is often painful in the short term, the long-term benefits have the power to release it so you can attract something positive. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy interviews Hale Dwoskin, an New York Times bestselling author of the Sedona Method, who works with individuals and companies to teach them how to transform their lives by le...

Mar 03, 202141 min

Reasons You're Not Progressing In Love: Coaching with Kimmy

Raise your hand if you're feeling stuck, frustrated or like you're missing the internal motivation to put yourself out there in the dating scene. Are you doing everything you know how to do to meet potential matches but still getting left out in the cold? If this is you right now, you're not alone! This week on the show, Kimmy live coaches Susan, a dedicated social worker who's dabbled in the dating scene since her divorce but is having trouble progressing with men for different reasons. EPISODE...

Feb 24, 202150 min

Getting Rid Of Toxic Relationships: Interview with Dr. Heidi Brocke

Some relationships - whether romantic, familial, or otherwise - are toxic. If you've been in a toxic relationship before, or if you're in one right now, you know how overwhelming and paralyzing it can feel to walk away from that situation. This week, Kimmy talks to Dr. Heidi Brocke, a Toxic Relationship Awareness and Healing Expert who herself spent years in a toxic marriage. Dr. Heidi specializes in helping people recognize the traits of toxic people in their lives and delivers the tools to get...

Feb 17, 202138 min

Dating From A Place Of Self-Love

With Valentine's Day around the corner, now is the time to give yourself a healthy dose of self love! This week, Kimmy invites you to take a moment to celebrate YOU, unapologetically. Whether you're dating up a storm or leaning into the single life or somewhere in between, if you're not feeling good about yourself, it will negatively impact the relationships and situations you attract. Everyone has experienced the sting of criticism and rejection that can hold you back from becoming the best ver...

Feb 10, 202131 min

Gamifying Your Love Life: Interview With Dre Baldwin

If you are trying to improve or learn a new skill set, whether that be in love, in business or something else, you will increase your chance of success if you have a strategy. Creating a new habit takes commitment and practice. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy interviews Dre Baldwin, a former professional basketball player turned YouTuber, focused on helping people build the mental toughness they need to accomplish their goals. EPISODE 180 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Gam...

Feb 03, 202143 min

Are You An Over-Caretaker? Coaching w/ Kimmy

Caring for and giving to others selflessly is an incredibly powerful quality. It's a beautiful gift to support and uplift others, but when it comes to finding love, it's important to make sure you're seeking reciprocal relationships so that get your needs met too. This week on the show, Kimmy kicks us off by describing the Top 4 Signs You Might Be an Over-Caretaker. You'll learn that you might be so focused on others that you unintentionally attract people who don't return the love and support y...

Jan 27, 202145 min

How To Use Humor and Play In Dating: Interview With Peter McGraw

A good sense of humor is one of the top attributes single women and men are seeking in their partners. If you're not endowed with the gift of comedy, can you learn it? This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy brings on Global Humor Expert, Peter McGraw. Peter is a marketing and psychology professor at the Leeds School of Business at the University of Colorado at Boulder and the author of the book, Shtick to Business . In this episode, Kimmy and Peter have a conversation about comedic theory as ...

Jan 20, 202130 min

Your Strategic Love Plan For Fun in 2021: Interview With Henry Penix

When you take on a major challenge in your work, your best shot at success is to create an action plan and tackle each step intentionally. The same principle applies in your love life. If you want to have a successful relationship, you need to make a plan and execute it guided by purpose. This week, Kimmy interviews Henry Penix, a serial Global Entrepreneur, Consultant, and Best-Selling Author who helps people create the leverage they need to win in business and in life. EPISODE 177 of The Chari...

Jan 13, 202135 min

Making Dating Fun Again: Where Are They Now with Harpreet

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have direct, honest conversations with former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what changed since working with Kimmy and the secrets to their success. On this episode, you'll meet Harpreet, a hospital worker who discovered Kimmy by listening to this podcast. Harpreet reached out because of her lack of self-confidence, poor body image and negative feelings around...

Jan 06, 202131 min

Top 10 Dating Mistakes of 2020

2020 will go down in history as one of the toughest of our lives. We were thrown endless curveballs -- and dating and relationships were not exempt! As this unprecedented year finally comes to a close, Kimmy brings you an episode dedicated to counting down the Top 10 Dating Mistakes of 2020 and how to put those behind us to attract the one in 2021. Women and men looking for love transformed their lives to respond to the pandemic and the dating process seemed to slow WAY down. Whether you used da...

Dec 30, 202039 min

Empowerment And Self Love: Interview With Susan Burrell

The first and most essential piece of finding lasting love is to love yourself. Maybe it sounds cliche, but it's true! True self-love is not selfISH -- it's an appreciation of oneself that grows from intentional action to support your physical, emotional and spiritual growth. In today's episode, Kimmy has a deep, honest conversation with Susan Burrell, podcaster and author of Live an Empowered Life! Your 30-Day Journey all about how to empower yourself to experience true self love. EPISODE 173 o...

Dec 23, 202036 min

Learning To Date Successfully After A Hiatus: Coaching With Kimmy

Now more than ever, dating is a challenge! If you're venturing back into the dating world for the first time in a long time or swiping through potential matches on the apps -- it can feel like a whole new world. And, if you consider yourself introverted or shy, striking up a conversation with a stranger on the internet can be even more daunting. On this episode of Coaching with Kimmy, you'll meet Becky, who's ready to get out of her comfort zone and get back out there. EPISODE 172 of The Charism...

Dec 16, 202042 min
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