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Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Welcome to the Charisma Quotient hosted by dating, makeover and confidence expert, Kimmy Seltzer. Each week, learn from Kimmy and other experts about how to build confidence from the outside, in. She’s consulted thousands of people to revamp their style, boost their confidence and most importantly, find love. Her lighthearted, down-to-earth and practical approach brings a fun and knowledgeable style to the podcast. She alternates the podcast with solo episodes highlighting various topics, interviewing experts, reading questions and answering them with surprising answers and live coaching sessions.
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Episodes

Balancing Masculine And Feminine Energy: Interview With GS Youngblood

Here's a fact: ALL successful relationships achieve a balance between masculine and feminine energy. Now, that doesn't mean that men should be aggressive and in control or that women should be submissive and docile. In reality, when you are able to tap into the power of your gender, while understanding and creating space for others, you too can achieve the right balance for you and your partner. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy brings on a guest who knows all about harnessing the power ...

Dec 09, 202036 min

Eliminating Unbalanced Relationships: Where Are They Now With Kayla

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have direct, honest conversations with former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what changed since they started working with Kimmy, and the secrets to their success. In this episode, you'll meet Kayla, a young medical professional who has made a dramatic transformation since she began coaching with Kimmy. Following a bad breakup after college, Kayla found herself in a series of unbal...

Dec 02, 202038 min

A Gratitude Attitude Makes You More Dateable

This week on the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy offers a lesson on how to cultivate an attitude of gratitude. Studies show time and time again that people who exhibit a positive mindset are happier. If you can consistently live in gratitude, it will actually impact your personal wellbeing for the better which will, in turn, make you more dateable! EPISODE 169 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: A Gratitude Attitude Makes You More Dateable On this show, Kimmy breaks down her top tips on how to ...

Nov 25, 202029 min

Falling In Love With Yourself: Interview With Wendy Wilkins

In order to have a successful, fulfilling and healthy relationship with someone else, you have to love yourself first. I know what you're thinking -- that's easy to say but it's a lot harder to put into practice! How can you jump into the dating world successfully, all while working on your own self-love? This week on the Charisma Quotient Kimmy interviews award-winning actress, writer and filmmaker Wendy Wilkins to dig into the process of loving yourself on your drive towards success. EPISODE 1...

Nov 18, 202040 min

Dating With Sexy Confidence: Coaching With Kimmy

When you look at your body, what do you see? Do you think of yourself as sexy and confident or do you find faults when you look in the mirror? In this episode of Coaching with Kimmy, you'll meet Julia, who's eager to transform her body image, gain sexy confidence, and find love. Julia has struggled in the past to feel confident in her body, especially because she heard negative messages from men about her weight early in her dating life. Now, she's on a mission to take back control of her sexy c...

Nov 11, 202045 min

Getting Rid Of Your Head Trash: Interview With Noah St. John

Do you feel weighed down by all the negative thoughts, emotions, and feelings swirling around in your head? Whatever your circumstances are, sometimes it's really difficult to get unstuck and release the negative thoughts that dominate your mind when you're feeling the pressure. This week, Kimmy's diving into a term you may have heard: Head Trash. Kimmy interviews an expert in eliminating your Head Trash, Noah St. John. Known widely as the "Power Habits Mentor", Noah is a bestselling author, mot...

Nov 04, 202031 min

Spirituality And Your Love Life: Interview With Laura Michelle Powers

Spirituality is an integral part of the human experience, and for many of us, our spiritual selves are tied to our desires to find a lasting, loving relationship. If you're working on yourself (and therefore working on your dating life), tapping into your spiritual side could be key to getting to know yourself more deeply and overcoming what's holding you back from achieving your goals. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy interviews Laura Michelle Powers, a celebrity psychic who helps her ...

Oct 28, 202035 min

Time To Get Selfish: Coaching With Kimmy

Are you an “overcaretaker” and focus all of your energy taking care of the emotional needs of others rather than yourself? You might find yourself exhausted by your relationships because in the end you feel depleted and attract the “takers.” This week on a live Coaching with Kimmy episode, Kimmy focuses on how it's time to get a little selfish! Being selfish can improve your relationship with yourself, and can actually help build your relationships with other people! You'll hear Kimmy coach Spik...

Oct 21, 202046 min

Why You Confuse Chemistry Of The Emotionally Unavailable

Have you ever met someone you felt an intense emotional and physical connection with at first but then shortly after you date them they slowly disappear or give you crumbs? If your answer is, “Yes! All the time?!” — you might be exhibiting behaviors that attract emotionally unavailable people. On this episode of the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy breaks down five reasons why you could be confusing the chemistry of the emotionally unavailable with true intimacy, and what you can do about it. EPISODE 16...

Oct 14, 202029 min

Narcissists No More!: Where Are They Now With Jane

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now?: Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have direct, honest conversations with former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what changed since they started working with Kimmy, and the secrets to their success. In this episode, you'll meet Jane, an accomplished, dedicated physician who was realizing she kept attracting narcissists. As a podcast listener, she reached out to Kim on a breakthrough call two ye...

Oct 07, 202045 min

Mastering Charismatic Communication: Interview With Holley Mignosi

Did you ever wish that you could be more fun and charismatic? Well, then you’ll definitely want to listen to this episode where you’ll learn how charisma is a learned skill. If you've been listening to this podcast, chances are you know it's possible through Kimmy’s teachings but you’ll hear a deeper dive into some tangible tips that will help you be more magnetic and attractive. This week, Kimmy brings on Holley Mignosi who is a speaking coach, storyteller, and hypnotic body language authority ...

Sep 30, 202042 min

How To Give A Great First Date: Interview With Matt Artisan

Are you feeling like all first dates are boring or superficial? What if you had more control over the dates and actually created amazing dates filled with chemistry and desire to see your date again? First dates should be fun, playful, and exciting! But all too often, people describe their first dates as completely dull and dry. This week on the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy is on a mission to eliminate bad first dates for good! Listen in to a lively, fun interview with fellow dating coach for men Ma...

Sep 23, 202038 min

Creating Conversation and Chemistry: Coaching with Kimmy

Are you feeling like ALL of your first dates are boring? Does it feel like pulling teeth just to get the conversation going? This week on the show, Kimmy tackles how to take control of your first-date conversations all while creating chemistry. In this episode, you'll hear Kimmy's live coaching call with Kay, who's been having a series of boring first dates with no attraction factor. EPISODE 159 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Creating Conversation and Chemistry: Coaching with Kimmy ...

Sep 16, 202031 min

Working On Yourself While Dating

Have you ever thought that you should press pause when it comes to working on your dating life in order to work on yourself? This week on the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy addresses this burning question. Since COVID hit, many of us have been spending more time at home. Finding love might seem like the last thing that deserves your focus. Shouldn't you be working on yourself right now instead of focusing on dating? Kimmy's answer to this might surprise you -- working on yourself IS working on your da...

Sep 09, 202028 min

What Do You Really Want?: Interview With Kathryn Ely

Do you really know what you want...especially when it comes to your dating life and relationships? Getting clarity on what you want is one of the most important things to figure out so that you can attract and design the love you deserve. This week on the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy brings on a special guest, attorney turned Purpose and Productivity Coach and host of the Imperfect Thriving Podcast, Kathryn Ely, for a conversation about ways to discover exactly what you want and how to go get it. EP...

Sep 02, 202027 min

Stop Using Sex For Love: Where Are They Now with Lissette

Welcome back to another success story episode of Where Are They Now? This segment features Kimmy's direct, honest conversations with former clients about where they are on their love journey and what's changed since they started working with her. If you're looking for the secret to their success, these episodes provide a roadmap for you to follow. EPISODE 156 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Stop Using Sex For Love: Where Are They Now with Lissette In this episode, you'll meet Lissett...

Aug 26, 202037 min

Emotional Intimacy In Relationships: Interview With Rabbi Manis Friedman

Have you ever experienced true emotional intimacy in your previous relationships? This week on Charisma Quotient, Kimmy invites world-renowned author, counselor, lecturer and philosopher Rabbi Manis Friedman on the show for an eye-opening and thought provoking conversation about emotional intimacy. Whether you're currently in a relationship or looking to date someone to get a deeper connection with, this conversation delivers a nuanced look at how many elements of modern dating and love prevent ...

Aug 19, 202040 min

Dating Again After Narcissistic Abuse: Coaching With Kimmy

Have you come from being a target of emotional, verbal or narcissistic abuse in a relationship? Were you blamed, belittled and isolated to the point that it clouds your ability to be open to meeting and trusting new people? This week on the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy takes a measured look at how to recover from a relationship with a narcissist. If you find yourself repeating a pattern of dating narcissists or getting involved in one-sided, toxic relationships, this episode was meant for you. EPISO...

Aug 12, 202052 min

Top 10 Dating Mistakes To Avoid During A Pandemic

Let's face it, there's A LOT to pay attention to in your dating life nowadays. You're swiping through matches, trying to figure out if you'll have chemistry with your date virtually, all while dealing with living through a pandemic! At this point, you may have convinced yourself it's not even worth it to date right now. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy dives right into the Top 10 BIGGEST Dating Mistakes you could make during this unprecedented time and ways to avoid them. EPISODE 153 of...

Aug 05, 202030 min

The Power Of Focus In Attracting Love: Interview With Debra Kasowski

Do you allow distractions to get in the way of your goals? Have you noticed that your ability to focus on achieving the things you want in your love life often feels impossible? This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy brings on an expert in helping people harness the power of focus, Debra Kasowski. Debra Kasowski is a Certified Executive Coach, a three-time bestselling author and the host of the podcast The Millionaire Woman Show. She is dedicated to helping her clients discover the power that...

Jul 29, 202033 min

How To Stop Hiding: Where Are They Now With Lisa

Do you wonder if it’s ever possible to find someone who actually cares for YOU for a change? Are you done with hiding and dimming your light in fear of being seen? These are some of the questions that Kimmy’s client asked herself before she found love. Kimmy's back with another installment of Where Are They Now? On these episodes, Kimmy has inspirational conversations with former clients who have achieved success through her or group coaching programs. It's so rewarding to showcase these episode...

Jul 22, 202040 min

Managing Gender Roles And Communication During Stress: Interview With John Gray

Before shelter-in-place orders were enacted, you may have been a little pickier about who you were willing to date. But now, after months of relative social isolation, perhaps you're starting to think differently and value things you didn't before. This week on the show, Kimmy interviews one of the greatest authorities on relationships between women and men, Dr. John Gray. Back by popular demand, the acclaimed author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus joins Kimmy for a second time to dis...

Jul 15, 202055 min

Ditch The Dating “List”: Coaching With Kimmy

Do you have an open mind when it comes to your dating life? Or are you so busy checking your list to see if your date has potential to be your long life partner in fear of picking the wrong one…again? In this segment of Coaching with Kimmy, you'll meet Emily, a single mom who's on a quest to find her ideal date after getting out of a toxic marriage. If you find yourself struggling to progress on dates, you may be dealing with the same need for control and fears you'll hear Emily describe in this...

Jul 08, 202038 min

Summer Dating Forecast And Navigating Relationship Trends

There's a new feeling in the air this summer in this unfamiliar world we're all in together. Maybe you're reopening your dating life or maybe you're feeling tired of trying the same things over and over with little to show for it. This week, Kimmy talks about how you can use this summer to redefine how you date so you can find a healthy, successful relationship. EPISODE 148 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Summer Dating Forecast And Navigating Relationship Trends This week you'll hear...

Jul 01, 202027 min

Getting Over A Dating Dry Spell: Coaching With Kimmy

Have you ever had a dating dry spell? No matter how much you're swiping or trying to put yourself out there, you can't get anyone to engage with you. While this is frustrating and can make you feel like there is no one out there, this episode will give you concrete tips on how to stop these spells in their tracks. EPISODE 147 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Over A Dating Dry Spell: Coaching With Kimmy This week on Coaching with Kimmy, you'll hear her live conversation with Li...

Jun 24, 202036 min

Digital Dating Trends And Social Connection: Interview With Geoff Cook

Right now, you're probably longing for real, human contact and you might be feeling stressed out and lonely. Moving to socialize online as you're observing ever-shifting distancing guidelines can be daunting, but you may have a better opportunity virtually to connect with others than ever before! EPISODE 146 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Digital Dating Trends And Social Connection: Interview With Geoff Cook This week, Kimmy addresses this issue with an authority on the topic of vir...

Jun 17, 202027 min

Modern Dating Trends: Interview with Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu

We are in the process of redefining how we date, communicate and fall in love. We're all navigating the challenges and opportunities of modern dating, especially with the advent of online dating platforms. Whether or not you have engaged in the online dating world, there are some very real trends that have a strong impact on the courtship process. EPISODE 145 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Modern Dating Trends: Interview With Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu This week on the show, Kimmy...

Jun 10, 202044 min

A Dating Pandemic Success Story: Where Are They Now With Dena

This episode proves that there is still potential for dating success despite the obstacles felt during this pandemic. Kimmy's back with another inspirational episode of, Where Are They Now? On these shows, Kimmy has inspirational conversations with former clients who have achieved success which will motivate and show you that finding love is possible, even during a pandemic! EPISODE 144 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: A Dating Pandemic Success Story: Where Are They Now With Dena In t...

Jun 03, 202037 min

Loving Again After Loss: 5 Steps to Moving Past Grief

Loving Again After Loss: 5 Steps Moving Past Grief How do you move past loss to find love again? Grieving and loss are inevitable parts of life but right now, you may feel unprepared or overwhelmed. Before you can move forward in your dating life, you need to have the tools to move past grief and rebound. EPISODE 143 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is: Loving Again After Loss: 5 Steps to Moving Past Grief This week Kimmy addresses our collective experience of loss at this time. She breaks down ...

May 26, 202028 min

Reopening your dating life again. A three phased approach

How do you proceed to reopen your dating life and find love even in this new world where we continue to practice social distancing? ⁣ ⁣ As we all start talking about reopening, no matter where you are in the world there is a new normal. And it looks quite different than the world we once knew. ⁣ ⁣ EPISODE 142 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Reopening your dating life again. A three phased approach.⁣ ⁣ People are now forced to slow down, build emotional connections, be more thoughtful...

May 20, 202032 min
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