You've read every advice column on romance, endured years of therapy, bought every single book on how to find love...and yet you keep striking out in the dating scene! So, what's really going on? It could be any number of things, but... have you ever stopped to think that you might be overthinking things? If you find yourself getting stuck in your head, ruminating on what happened, what could happen, or what you want to happen, this episode is your answer. Kim will teach you to get out of your h...
Oct 16, 2019•29 min
When it comes to the initial phases in dating where it often feels like a whirlwind of emotions, romance and crazy-amazing sex, men and women have very different experiences. Why? Falling in love for a man isn’t the same as it is for a woman. On this week’s show, Kim interviews the celebrated bestselling author John Gray for a juicy discussion on specifically how men and women date differently. He is the author of the most well-known and trusted relationship book of all time, Men Are from Mars, ...
Oct 08, 2019•53 min
This week, Kim connects with her recent coaching client, Amanda, for another episode of Where Are They Now? This is the segment where Kim chats with the women and men she's worked with before to learn how their lives have transformed outside and in. When you listen to these episodes, you will be inspired and motivated to hear not only that these tips and tools actually work, but that there is sticking power to people’s successes. Amanda's story with Kim began 3 months prior to this episode as a ...
Oct 02, 2019•33 min
Do you feel invisible? Do you think that people notice everyone else in the room but you? Do you wonder why others don't seem to hear you, or maybe... you'd rather they don't look at you at all? On this week's episode, Kim talks through the Top 5 Ways You're Making Yourself Invisible and gives you actionable strategies to break that pattern. In fact, there are some crucial things you might be doing subconsciously to keep yourself invisible. Whether you're looking to be seen, or you just need a b...
Sep 23, 2019•34 min
When you put yourself out there in the dating world, you're marketing your social capital. That means your interpersonal value, your looks, your income and more -- it's all the value you bring to the table. The more your self-esteem increases, the more your social capital increases. This week on the show, Kim interviews a master of social capital, Cayla Craft. Cayla is a bestselling author, self-made millionaire, top sales influencer and host of the Mommy Millionaire Podcast. She went from savin...
Sep 18, 2019•35 min
Would you describe yourself as someone who hates confrontation? Do you do things simply to please others because you want to be a peacekeeper? Or maybe you find yourself in constant discomfort when there are tense situations. This week, tune in and listen to Kim's interview with powerhouse duo CrisMarie Clarke and Susan Campbell. CrisMarie and Susan co-founded the company Thrive! and have a brand new book, The Beauty of Conflict . They work with leadership teams, management groups, project teams...
Sep 11, 2019•37 min
We're back with another episode of What Would Kim Do? Surprising Answers to Your Love Questions! On these episodes, Kim answers listener questions directly. This week you'll hear answers about how to stop attracting unavailable guys, how to gain the confidence to ask women out without using gimmicks or pick-up lines, and how to adjust your online dating profile to entice the kind of person you'll actually like! If you're frustrated because you're not attracting or meeting the kind of person you ...
Sep 04, 2019•27 min
How many times have you been asked, why are you still single? Sure, it's frustrating to hear - but what if you knew you were self-sabotaging and contributing to your own single status? This week on the show, Kim interviews women's addiction and recovery expert, Tracy O'Malley. Tracy has helped thousands of women emerge from overwhelm to create thriving businesses. Kim and Tracy have a lively, personal discussion about the root of self-sabotage and how this dynamic keeps you stuck. Tracy shares h...
Aug 28, 2019•36 min
What are your dating fears? It's easy to say that you haven't met the right person or you're not ready for a relationship. With the potential for great love and happiness comes the risk of disappointment. This week, Kim knocks out the Top 5 Dating Fears that keep you from finding love AND gives you actionable tips to conquer them. Whether you get uncontrollable butterflies in your stomach before a first date or cringe thinking about the prospect of meeting someone new or perhaps your palms get s...
Aug 21, 2019•32 min
How do you maintain confidence throughout the dating process, even when things don't work out? Online dating has produced so many changes to how we date. Now, you can connect with thousands of singles in seconds, but how do you find the best match for you? When you operate from a fear of rejection, even the most confident people are not immune to the negative impact it can have on your dating life. On this episode, you will meet Katherine, who began coaching with Kim because she was in the marke...
Aug 14, 2019•42 min
Whether you're casually dating, or you're in a long-term relationship, setting boundaries is imperative! In order to have a healthy relationship, both parties need to be comfortable sharing their needs without fear of judgment or retaliation. This week on the show, Kim interviews relationship coach, and host of the podcast Love with Integrity, Silvy Khoucasian. Silvy has coached countless singles and couples throughout her career to have fulfilling, happy relationships by focusing on setting hea...
Aug 07, 2019•37 min
This week, we're doing something special to mark the 100th Episode of the Charisma Quotient! This episode is a conversation between Kim and the never heard before show's producer Anna, counting down the Top 5 episodes thus far. You'll hear a short clip from each episode and Kim breaking down the biggest Life Love Lessons while sharing some incredible client success stories around each lesson. Wherever you are in your love journey, this episode will have a tip you can use! It's like the greatest ...
Aug 02, 2019•1 hr 14 min
What do men really want? Are they only looking for physical attractiveness and sexual chemistry, or something more meaningful? On this week's show, Kim interviews dating and relationship coach Scot McKay, founder of X & Y Communications with his wife Emily. Now a four-time Amazon #1 bestselling author, Scot hosts the popular podcast Moutain Top and he has been invited to speak at high profile conferences and over 400 media outlets have consulted him, including ABC, NBC, CBS, Fox, BBC, MTV, F...
Jul 24, 2019•46 min
Do you consider yourself a relationship person and hate dating? Do you find yourself going 0-60 on the first date, interrogating the other person to see if they're your next soulmate? Or perhaps you are getting attached to the outcome with your dates. On this episode of Coaching with Kim, you'll meet Louise and hear about some surprising mistakes relationship-oriented people make when dating. Louise has been on a professional development kick, working on herself to be more confident and successf...
Jul 17, 2019•38 min
Do you ever wish you could change the story to your love life? Have you thought about talking to someone to help you do that? After today’s special episode, you will be inspired to do both! On this powerful episode, Kim interviews the popular Lori Gottlieb, a celebrated psychotherapist and NY Times bestselling author of the new book, "Maybe You Should Talk to Someone.” https://amzn.to/2JK3DqX Currently being adapted as a TV series on ABC with Eva Longoria, the book dives into Lori's personal exp...
Jul 10, 2019•37 min
Welcome back to the segment called, What Would Kim Do? Kim dedicates these episodes to answering your questions directly. In this episode, you'll hear a strategy for overcoming past trauma that may be infiltrating your dating life. And if you're struggling to determine what exactly it is you want in a relationship, Kim dives into several tips on how to gain the clarity you need to attract the right kind of person. For those of you not meeting the kind of people you want, you'll get some advice o...
Jul 03, 2019•29 min
Be vulnerable, be authentic... be yourself! It's a lot easier said than done. This week, Kim interviews Robert Kandell, a speaker, Amazon bestselling author, and host of the podcast TuffLove. Robert has taught more than 10,000 people using his expertise in interpersonal communication in relationships. On this show, you'll hear an honest conversation where Robert shares the defining moment in his life when he was not seeing or hearing his wife's needs. You'll hear how he and his wife at the time ...
Jun 26, 2019•34 min
Have you ever heard of emotional attraction? Do you ever wonder how to create more meaningful connections with someone when you first meet? Most of us are familiar with physical attraction, but to build a strong, connected relationship it’s important to move beyond the physical and learn to be more open in letting the opposite sex really feel you. This week, Kim dives into ways you can create a deep emotional attraction with your dates from the minute you meet them. If you feel like your convers...
Jun 19, 2019•31 min
Are you that super nice person who has a ton of friends, but not a lot of girlfriends or boyfriends? Do you find that no matter what you do, the opposite sex puts you in the friend zone? Everyone knows the feeling of crushing on someone who doesn't seem to notice or be at all receptive to your interest. And if you've ever been coached by Kim and you're a guy -- you'll recognize this week's expert interview! It's so exciting to have on Dr. Robert Glover, author of the celebrated book, "No More Mr...
Jun 12, 2019•53 min
Welcome back to the second installment of Where Are They Now! These episodes are a great chance to catch up with people who have previously been coached by Kim who are now in happy, successful relationships. On this show, Kim has a conversation with Stephen back from Episode 24 in 2018. When we last heard from Stephen, he was trying to figure out how to balance not diving in too deep, too soon and taking it slow with the women he meets. Since then, Stephen met a wonderful woman and they've been ...
Jun 05, 2019•36 min
Do you believe that you have the power to grow and develop your dating skills, or do you think you get what you get out of pure luck? This week, Kim has a conversation with Melanie Benson, a performance optimizer, author and business coach about how to have a growth mindset. Melanie hosts the Amplify Your Success Podcast and her success tips are featured in Bloomberg Business Week, Woman’s Day, and Parenting Magazine. There's a ton of talk out there about mindset - abundance vs. scarcity or fixe...
May 29, 2019•33 min
Every week, Kim talks through dating difficulties and how to overcome them. One challenge many people experience is trying to date while straddling two cultures. Whether you grew up in a family with strong cultural values that differ from traditional American ones or are exploring the dating scene from a foreign perspective in any capacity, this episode is here to help! On this show, you'll meet Fred. He comes from a culture where the values of his Muslim faith were paramount, and intimate relat...
May 22, 2019•39 min
Have you ever had minor heart palpitations trying to decide what to text a guy back? Do you spend more time coming up with a million "what ifs" about potential dates than you do getting asked out? Are you constantly worried about being rejected or not being good enough? If so, this episode about how to deal with dating anxiety is for you! This week, Kim interviews Shira Myrow, mindfulness-based marriage and family therapist who is deeply committed to helping people process painful experiences an...
May 15, 2019•37 min
Everyone has challenges with dating! Attracting the right kind of person for you is a skill you can build with practice. This week, you'll hear Kim's coaching session with Maria. She's a vibrant, confident, and successful woman looking for a man who can match her energy and inspire her. However, she has found that she consistently attracts the wrong type of guy for her. Maria shares her journey from when she first started working with Kim 4 years ago to now. For Maria, meeting men isn't the issu...
May 08, 2019•45 min
It's spring, and wedding season is here! If your mailbox is flooded with save-the-dates or your social calendar is booked solid for the next few months, listen up for an unconventional take on the weddings, marriage and relationships. This week, Kim interviews Jen Glantz, the founder of the viral business Bridesmaid for Hire and host of the podcast You're Not Getting Any Younger. After being asked by numerous friends (and strangers!) if she would be their bridesmaid, Jen decided to start chargin...
May 01, 2019•28 min
This week, we're diving into another episode answering your questions on What Would Kim Do! On this show, Kim fields multiple questions from listeners about how to get over the fear preventing you from making a change. You'll hear tips on how to look at online dating as a practice tool to flirt, engage in conversations and meet great men. And if you've had trouble connecting with men in general, listen closely! Kim shares how you can start getting comfortable being around male energy so you can ...
Apr 24, 2019•32 min
You've probably heard the old saying, in order to love someone else, you have to love yourself first. But that is a lot easier said than done. This week,Kim has a powerful conversation with Koya Webb, an internationally recognized yoga teacher, personal trainer, holistic health and wellness coach, author, and motivational speaker, who is revolutionizing the holistic living landscape. Kim and Koya talk about how to prioritize yourself over others so that you're able to help, give to and care for ...
Apr 17, 2019•38 min
Are you successful in every part of your life except for finding love? Do you have a hard time turning off your masculine, work energy so that you can show that feminine, sexy side? Or perhaps you never learned how to be comfortable in your femininity or you have turned off that side of you. Whatever your challenge might be, you will love this week's episode. Kim talks through how to tap into and use the art of feminine charm and debunks the myth that being in your feminine can somehow reduce yo...
Apr 10, 2019•29 min
Today we're doing something a little different! Last year, Kim coached Anne on the show, who was a master at getting to the first date, but had issues when it came to securing a second. If you haven't listened yet, check back to the episode from April 3, 2018 "Coaching with Kim: How to Get Beyond the First Date"! Now, Anne is back to tell Kim all about the amazing new guy she met last year and how she's changed since being on the show. Last year, Anne was a pro at getting guys to feel incredible...
Apr 03, 2019•30 min
Now that you're in a relationship, how do you keep the spark alive? Find out this week, as Kim interviews Relationship and Sensuality Coach Alexandra Stockwell. For 20 years, this physician turned relationship expert has helped men and women rediscover the pleasure, connection and freedom they want in their relationships. Alexandra has an abundance of tips on how to bring excitement and sensuality into even the most simple acts or touches. Kim and Alexandra talk through what they’ve taught their...
Mar 27, 2019•37 min
