Our ideas about how the world works are based on how the world meets our own expectations. Those expectations affect our experience - for good or bad- and can influence our reactions and responses to just about everything and everyone that we encounter. Interview With Christy Whitman: Managing Expectations And Detaching From Outcomes is the title of the Charisma Quotient Podcast Episode 141 hosted by Confidence Therapist & Authentic Dating Strategist Kimmy Seltzer. To dive into what this mea...
May 13, 2020•39 min
How to move conversations off of apps and dating sites and into actual dates. Coaching With Kimmy: Keeping Conversations And Dates Going is the title of the Charisma Quotient Podcast Episode 140 hosted by Confidence Therapist & Authentic Dating Strategist Kimmy Seltzer. This week, Kimmy's back with another episode of Coaching with Kimmy. In this segment, Kimmy works with a caller live to crack the code to what's holding them back from finding love! You'll meet Cara, a vibrant woman in her ea...
May 06, 2020•42 min
How to get a great handle on the right mindset for your dating life in the middle of uncertain times. Uncertainty While Dating: The Benefits And The Bad Excuses is the title of the Charisma Quotient Podcast Episode 139 hosted by Confidence Therapist & Authentic Dating Strategist Kimmy Seltzer. With all the mixed messages swirling around what will happen after this pandemic, it's undeniable that we're living in a state of uncertainty. In this episode, Kimmy dives right in to acknowledge the f...
Apr 29, 2020•22 min
Do you have a hard time knowing what to say when you meet someone? Are conversations boring and disconnected? Making meaningful conversations are key to having deeper connections with people. So what’s the best way to engage someone in conversation? In this episode, Kimmy interviews entrepreneur, speaker and founder of the Turnkey Podcast Company, Doug Sandler. He’s interviewed tons of celebs like Ariana Huffington, John C. Maxwell, and Gary V., and has mastered the art of engaging people one on...
Apr 22, 2020•32 min
Do you truly feel confident in your body? Do you lack self-confidence in how sexy you are? There is a connection and symbiotic relationship between your health, body confidence and attraction. This week, Kimmy Seltzer is infusing fitness elements to your style, emotional and social intelligence and talking all about body confidence. To help with this, Kimmy's bringing on an incredible fitness expert, Adam Schaeuble, The PHD (aka Previously Heavy Dude). Adam shares the story of how he hit rock bo...
Apr 15, 2020•36 min
Welcome back to another episode of Coaching with Kimmy: Where Are They Now? In this segment, Kimmy speaks directly with former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what changed since they started working with her and the secrets to their success! On this episode, you'll meet Heather who found Kimmy six years ago, recovering from a divorce as a newly single mom and how Kimmy led her down the path to finding true love. Right at the top, listen in as Heather thinks back to the ...
Apr 08, 2020•35 min
Did you know that clutter can affect your love life? If you're like us, you've been staying safe and healthy by sheltering in place to slow down the spread of coronavirus. With all this newfound time at home, you might be thinking it's time to purge your space of clutter! This week on the show, Kimmy Seltzer brings on Ken Lauher, a Feng Shui expert, consultant and coach who helps high-performers use the art of Feng Shui to declutter their minds and achieve their biggest goals. You'll hear how Ke...
Apr 01, 2020•37 min
Do you have questions about dating during the Coronavirus? Kimmy Seltzer has surprising answers to your love questions on this special segment where she answers your dating and relationship questions during this uncertain time. With the advent of the coronavirus outbreak, those of us wading into the dating pool need to get creative with how we create connections with one another without being able to meet in-person. While you can't physically connect with new people, in this week’s episode of Su...
Mar 25, 2020•36 min
Is it even possible with all that is going on in the media and across the world to be dating and staying connected to others during the Coronavirus? Kimmy Seltzer, shares her thoughts on maintaining personal connections in dating and in life with all the uncertainty and fear that is surrounding the coronavirus outbreak. Health officials and government warnings have kept an intense focus on a series of messages to self-quarantine as well as avoiding close personal interactions. For this week’s ep...
Mar 18, 2020•23 min
Why do some people actually accelerate and have success even when there are huge obstacles in their life and others don’t? Do you allow the constant walls in front of you get in the way of achieving the life and love you want? You have the power to break down these barriers by challenging the way you think and act. When you’re working towards a goal, how do you go about tackling your biggest obstacles and rising to the occasion so you can progress? This week, Kim brings on a global leader in bre...
Mar 11, 2020•40 min
Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? where you'll hear from inspirational women and men who have found success in love and life after coaching with Kim. In this episode, you'll meet Julie, a vibrant, classicly trained pianist podcast listener who found Kim because she was feeling paralyzed by her perfectionism and overanalyzed everything which was preventing her from finding love. Julie shares that she was driven to work with Kim because she had reached the end of her rope and ...
Mar 04, 2020•31 min
You're a smart, strong, successful woman. In nearly every area of your life, you're operating on the highest level. But when it comes to your love life you can't seem to find a worthy partner despite your best efforts. In this episode, Kim and her guest, dating coach Evan Marc Katz, debunk 3 major myths about why smart, strong successful women sometimes have trouble finding love. As a dating coach to powerful women since 2003, Evan is a best-selling author and the who has helped thousands of wom...
Feb 26, 2020•48 min
How well do you know yourself? Do you know what your purpose is and how true to yourself are you being when you put yourself out there into the dating universe? This week, Kim has a special returning guest who breaks down exactly what the most successful people out there do to find their purpose and passion (and how you can do it too). Corey Poirier is a multiple-time TEDx and sought-after keynote speaker and host of the top-rated Conversations with Passion Radio Show. He’s interviewed more than...
Feb 19, 2020•34 min
Love is in the air this week and you deserve to soak it all up! With Valentine's Day on the way, now is your opportunity to invest in you by building your relationship with yourself and learning to attract love! Every day Kim hears from people who don’t know where to go to meet their match and has been wrapped up with their work life. An email from someone who would rather be alone than pick the wrong guy again. A Facebook message from someone who feels unattractive and fears being seen. The tru...
Feb 12, 2020•39 min
Are soul mates real? Is there one special, perfect person out there made especially for you? This week on the show, Kim and her expert guest answer some soulful questions: Does your relationship have a destiny? How do you find your soulmate? You'll benefit from the wisdom of Cynthia Clark, who has helped more than 7,000 busy professionals find lasting love and soulmate connections through the soulmate code system. Using the science of palmistry she helps you understand your love language for pow...
Feb 05, 2020•37 min
Do you believe that you are capable of everything you want to achieve in your life? Do you believe you deserve a loving, happy, and healthy relationship? This week, Kim tackles a BIG question we've all had: are you GOOD ENOUGH? It doesn't matter if you're already successful by other people's standards or if you're just starting your life's journey--we all deal with feeling like we're not *enough* for a lot of different reasons. But sometimes those negative messages are so loud that it negatively...
Jan 29, 2020•33 min
Are you afraid to put yourself out there or are you ready to speak out and be heard? Did you know that finding and owning your voice is a huge part of interaction and attraction? When it comes to finding love, owning your voice is essential - but finding the courage to speak up AND be vulnerable can be tough. Luckily, Kim's bringing on an expert at finding the voice from within - celebrated voice actor and coach, David Rosenthal. As CEO of Global Voice Acting Academy, he's voiced thousands of co...
Jan 22, 2020•37 min
We're back with the first "What Would Kim Do?" segment of 2020! Write in your dating and love questions to @SeltzerKimberly on Facebook, and your question could be featured on an upcoming episode. This week, Kim talks through how to conquer your fears around rejection, get comfortable with who you are, how to date as a single parent and get clarity on what you want in a partner. If you've ever struggled with addiction or addictive tendencies, you'll also want to pay attention to this episode. Ki...
Jan 15, 2020•28 min
Are you comfortable being seen? Now that it is a new year, it’s a great time to push yourself to be more visible so that you can attract great things. The image you project to others is a direct reflection of who you are and how others perceive you. So, you won't be surprised to learn that image is the first key to your ability to find love. This week, Kim interviews Debbi Dachinger. She's a media visibility expert, keynote speaker and author of three international bestselling books. She has bee...
Jan 08, 2020•44 min
Kicking off 2020 with an inspiring success story, Kim's back with another episode of Where Are They Now? You'll hear from Cathy, a client of Kim's who, after coaching with Kim, has made some amazing strides. Her confidence has soared! Her ability to take action in alignment with what she wants has built positive momentum in all areas of her life. When Cathy first got in touch with Kim, she was struggling with overthinking and overanalyzing which was causing some major anxiety and stumbling block...
Jan 01, 2020•31 min
This holiday season, Kim asks the hard question: Are you naughty or nice? What if this holiday season was about receiving more than giving? On this week's show, Kim reveals to 5 Ways You Can Be Naughty Instead of Nice in your love life. Listen in, some of her tips might surprise you! When it comes to dating, you can achieve a healthy balance by being a little naughty! This doesn't mean being over the top but instead learning how to set more boundaries for yourself and let go of the tendency to a...
Dec 25, 2019•24 min
So how many times do you cover your ears or put on a fake smile in fear of being yourself? How much energy do you expend worrying about being normal, proper or polite in order to be accepted? This week, we're getting *real*. Really freaking real by learning how to be your authentic self to attract love. Kim interviews Lisa Cherney, host of the ground-breaking Get F**king Real Podcast and founder of the GFR Squad. Lisa works with entrepreneurs and business owners to strip the masks and get real i...
Dec 18, 2019•36 min
Many of you may have heard of the Law of Attraction which is the ability for you to attract what you're focused on into your life. However, many of you may not have heard of the Law of Action...taking intentional actions that are in alignment with your goals. Without implementing the Law of Action into your life, the Law of Attraction will never generate results. In this episode of the Charisma Quotient, Kim interviews Rob Actis, the perfect guest to discuss the incredible ability to take action...
Dec 11, 2019•36 min
It's time for another episode of Where Are They Now?, the segment where Kim brings back former coaching clients to share success stories and progress. There is a light at the end of the tunnel! This week, you'll meet Ivy, a podcast listener of 2 years and a veteran of Kim's Flirt and Femininity Challenge and private coaching program. When Ivy started with Kim, she had no dating experience and had a lot of fears that were holding her back. She needed someone to hold her accountable to her goals a...
Dec 04, 2019•35 min
What does it truly mean to move from surviving to thriving? How do you maintain optimism throughout the challenges that life and love present? This week on the show, Kim interviews a powerhouse in the realm of thriving, Lou Diamond, host of the Thrive Loud podcast. Kim and Lou talk about the difference between surviving and thriving in today's digital age and how to push yourself to meet all the goals you set. The more you reward yourself for using a positive outlook, focusing on using and celeb...
Nov 27, 2019•36 min
Do you have a strong desire to change but lack the motivation? When you're trying to change your behavior, your motivation needs to be stronger than your fears, but how do you actually make it happen? This week, Kim delivers 6 Motivation Hacks that will help you stir up your passion and drive to make the changes you want in your life. If you listen to this podcast as part of your routine (we love that!), but we know it can be all too easy to listen, go about your regular life and put aside thing...
Nov 20, 2019•30 min
This week on the Charisma Quotient Kim and her guest, host of the Men on Purpose Podcast Emerald GreenForest are talking two major topics you might be surprised to find out are totally related -- Love and Money! Known as the Wealthy Life Mentor, Emerald shares the steps to her wealthy life mindset. You'll hear client stories and examples that show how interconnected the success of your love life and your money in the bank are. It all tracks back to mindset. Kim and Emerald's conversation will pr...
Nov 13, 2019•44 min
Are you a leader in your own love life? Do you have the courage to take control of your love life? This week on the show, Kim interviews a powerhouse in courageous leadership, Rich "Trigger" Bontrager. As a Motivational Speaker, Pastor, Storyteller and Coach, Rich helps people rise above what holds them back to create confidence and empower leaders and communicators. Rich and Kim jump right in to talk about Rich's childhood and how he has defied the odds and overcome several different health iss...
Nov 06, 2019•34 min
Kim's back with another episode of What Would Kim Do? This is the segment where Kim answers your questions by explaining what she would do in your situation. If you want your question to be featured on a future episode, connect with Kim on Facebook via direct message @SeltzerKimberly. On this show, you'll hear an answer for what to do if you're interested in attracting someone who you think is "out of your league". Then, you'll hear a question from a man who says he's looking for an emotionally ...
Oct 30, 2019•19 min
Engaging in a healthy lifestyle and creating balance between your emotional and physical wellbeing is key to helping you find lasting love in your life. That's why we're dedicating a whole show to helping you choose to live the lifestyle that works best for you and your health needs. This week on the show, Kim interviews Rob Dionne, a celebrated health and wellness coach based in L.A. who is the host of the Open Sky Fitness Podcast with his amazing wife Devon. Rob's latest endeavor is OCD, the O...
Oct 23, 2019•46 min
