You can totally love yourself… and still not feel 100% confident. You can be in friendships or relationships where you're constantly overthinking, and forgetting to actually live your life because you're too busy chasing what they're doing. But here’s the truth: the second you stop giving a sh*t is the second people stop messing with your emotions. The minute you throw down a boundary? That’s when everything changes. Enjoy this repeat episode! Want our podcasts sent straight to your phone? Text ...
Jul 01, 2025•41 min•Season 13Ep. 87
Just when you think you’ve got this parenting thing down, they become teenagers and start pushing every boundary. Wendy Snyder, certified parenting educator, family life coach, and mom of two is all about helping parents ditch the yelling, threats, and punishments—and instead parent from a place of connection Wendy’s approach is all about raising good humans without losing your mind. She teaches strategies that actually work. If you're in the thick of teen chaos or just want to feel like a bette...
Jun 30, 2025•53 min•Season 13Ep. 86
We are in full summer mode, bringing you repeats of some of your favourite episodes! Including this one which seems fitting because Nat is currently at her in laws! In this repeat episode Nat snuck in a little sexy time at the in laws! Mind blowing really. There should be a point system for sex in different places. How many points for sex at the in laws?? Want our podcasts sent straight to your phone? Text us the word "Podcast" to +1 (917) 540-8715 and we'll text you the new episodes when they'r...
Jun 27, 2025•32 min•Season 13Ep. 85
This week, we’re sitting down with the queen of good hair days herself—Alli Webb. You probably know her as the genius behind Drybar, but that was just the beginning. Alli is an entrepreneur, author, mom, and total visionary who’s not afraid to dive into the real, raw, and messy parts of life. She just launched her brand-new haircare line, Messy and you can shop it now for 20% off using code CATNAT20 at www.itsmessy.com. Valid until August 26th, 2025. Want our podcasts sent straight to your phone...
Jun 26, 2025•36 min•Season 13Ep. 84
We blinked and suddenly it’s summer — and with it comes distracted driving season. People are missing turns, staring at their phones, or just completely zoning out behind the wheel. No surprise it’s one of the biggest traffic issues in the city right now. And with our own kids creeping toward driving age, we’re spiraling just a little bit. Confidence matters, but experience matters even more. Sometimes you’ve got to predict a bad driver’s move before they make it. Are teens even equipped to do t...
Jun 24, 2025•35 min•Season 13Ep. 83
In this popular repeat episode, we’re chatting about one of those parenting topics that always gets people talking—do you let your underage teen and their friends have a drink at your house? Some parents feel like it’s the responsible choice because it’s a safe space, while others are a firm no. We’re talking through both sides and sharing how we feel about it....at this moment in time. This podcast is presented by The Common Parent. The all-in-one parenting resource you need to for your teens &...
Jun 23, 2025•31 min•Season 13Ep. 82
We want to write erotica. But not your typical steamy story… we’re talking one from a mom’s perspective. We want more than the same old storylines where it’s all about him. We’re dreaming of a rom-com with a side of heat—where the main character is a mom juggling real life and still finding time for the GOOD stuff. Something with just the right amount of spice—because let’s be honest, we deserve more than another Hallmark movie. Could this be our next big project? Want our podcasts sent straight...
Jun 20, 2025•28 min•Season 13Ep. 81
We’re recapping Cat’s daughter’s 16th birthday party and yes… there was a full-blown backyard extravaganza. And it got us thinking—how did we get here? When we were growing up, birthday parties were lucky-if-you-even-celebrated situations. After 11, it was a sleepover, a frozen pizza, and a few extra blankets in the basement. Now it’s balloon arches, custom cakes, and themed photo booths. Birthday parties are officially off the rails. Is it time to bring back the basement sleepover? Want our pod...
Jun 17, 2025•31 min•Season 13Ep. 80
Some people you forget the second they walk away. And then there are the ones you never forget—because they were either so kind… or so not. This week, we’re talking about the people from grade school and high school who left a mark, and how something they said or did can stay with you for a lifetime. And now, with social media in the mix, it’s easier than ever for someone to get into your head and leave a lasting impact—good or bad. This podcast is presented by The Common Parent. The all-in-one ...
Jun 16, 2025•38 min•Season 13Ep. 79
Would you do it? OnlyFans drops a million-dollar offer for one video—would you do it? In this repeat episode, we ask the question that got us spiralling: How much would it take for us to say yes? One of us threw out a number and it was not what you might think! Want our podcasts sent straight to your phone? Text us the word "Podcast" to +1 (917) 540-8715 and we'll text you the new episodes when they're released! Tune in for new Cat & Nat Unfiltered episodes every Monday, Tuesday, Thursday an...
Jun 13, 2025•39 min•Season 13Ep. 78
Teenagers and their BIG FEELINGS. From sky-high highs to dramatic lows, it’s all actually pretty normal. Being self-focused is part of their job right now — it's how they’re wired. But that doesn’t mean we can’t help them process and release those emotions in healthier ways. Sometimes they just need permission to feel without being told there’s a problem. Teenagers are a different breed, in the best way possible. Want our podcasts sent straight to your phone? Text us the word "Podcast" to +1 (91...
Jun 10, 2025•31 min•Season 13Ep. 77
This week we’re chatting about relationships between girls and boys — the sometimes awkward, messy, confusing kind. From school friends to heartbreaks, what does it really mean when someone rejects you? You don’t have to be besties with everyone, and just because someone doesn’t want to date you doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you. Rejection is not failure — it’s redirection. Let’s normalize what real connection looks like — not just romantic, but supportive, solid friendships too. This...
Jun 09, 2025•37 min•Season 13Ep. 76
This week we’re talking underwear — the sad state of our current collection, how ridiculously expensive it is to buy the good stuff, and why we’re leaning into all-black undies thanks to the surprise periods of perimenopause. But post-menopause? Game on. Lacy, colourful, white, downright sexy — no more playing it safe. We’re manifesting a future where our underwear drawer is more “ooh la la” and less “laundry day emergency” (aka our current situation). Want our podcasts sent straight to your pho...
Jun 06, 2025•33 min•Season 13Ep. 75
By the time our kids are dating, apparently their plus-ones might be robots. Yep—literal robots. Sitting at our dinner tables, making awkward small talk… or maybe it wouldn’t be awkward because they’d be programmed to say all the right things? Either way, it’s a hard no from us. We’re totally here for robots that do the grocery shopping and make us dinner —but robot boyfriends or girlfriends joining us at the dinner table? No thanks. Want our podcasts sent straight to your phone? Text us the wor...
Jun 03, 2025•42 min•Season 13Ep. 74
We strongly encourage everyone to listen to this episode with Heidi Chance, a former undercover detective with over 27 years of experience fighting sex trafficking. Heidi shares what she’s seen firsthand, the dangers many parents don’t even realize are out there, and how we can start having the hard—but crucial—conversations with our kids to keep them safer online. Recognized as a Subject Matter Expert in sex trafficking and a trusted Expert Witness in trials, Heidi is known for her powerful cas...
Jun 02, 2025•35 min•Season 13Ep. 73
From chaotic pillow piles to pets on the bed, we’re breaking down what your sleep setup really says about you. Are you a hot mess under the sheets or a neat freak who fluffs before hopping into bed? Do you need total silence or fall asleep to true crime podcasts (Nat!!)? We’re diving into sleep habits, bedtime quirks, and all the weird things we do once we crawl under the covers. And also, should we be sleep divorcing our husbands? Why are we meant to share a bed for all of eternity??? Want our ...
May 30, 2025•25 min•Season 13Ep. 72
We’re recapping our amazing trip to the Bahamas with two of our boys — just the four of us this time. The other five kids stayed home (and shockingly… didn’t even complain about it). We put on the swimsuits, got our hair wet, and made core memories. It was the kind of trip that reminded us what really matters. And here’s your reminder: wear the dang suit. Get in the water. Splash around. Be in the memories. Your kids won’t remember what you looked like — they’ll remember that you were there. Wan...
May 27, 2025•35 min•Season 13Ep. 71
We are brining you one of your favourite episodes on this holiday Monday. As our teens get older, we start to realize something big: our voice — the one they used to hang on every word of — isn’t the loudest in their world anymore. Suddenly, we’re just one of many voices competing for space. Their friends matter. Like, really matter. The people they hang out with can shape everything — for better or worse. Are we on the sidelines watching it all unfold, or are we still able to step in and say, “...
May 26, 2025•28 min•Season 13Ep. 70
In this episode, Nat takes us on a nostalgic trip down memory lane—back to the days of makeout sessions that stopped just short of the main event: dry humping, plus a few of the unfortunate accidents that came with it. From the curse of khakis to doors that really should’ve been locked, nothing is off the table. We’re also officially putting out a call: we need a guy to come on the pod and tell us what it was all like from their perspective. Want our podcasts sent straight to your phone? Text us...
May 23, 2025•32 min•Season 13Ep. 69
We’re talking about the promposal Taylor got at her dance competition—in public, with signs and everything! While we love the romance of it all, we can’t get over the insane pressure these kids are under to make these moments Instagram-worthy. From giant signs to full-on public performances! Honestly, we’re kind of glad this wasn’t a thing when we were teens. What happened to a simple “Will you go to prom with me?” folded up in a note? Want our podcasts sent straight to your phone? Text us the w...
May 20, 2025•34 min•Season 13Ep. 68
We’re talking about "mean girls" and how mean girl behavior has evolved in the digital age. It’s no longer just whispered comments or exclusion at recess—today, manipulation can happen through group chats, DMs, screenshots and social media posts. Girls are being targeted in more subtle, calculated ways—using each other’s words against them, turning private conversations into public humiliation, and isolating others with just a few taps on a screen. It’s hard to know how to help. How can we suppo...
May 19, 2025•37 min•Season 13Ep. 67
How many times do dolphins have sex? And do manatees masturbate? This week, we somehow dove into the sex habits of mammals—starting with dolphins and then wandering into even stranger waters with manatees and whether or not they enjoy a little “solo” time. Which oddly led us straight to dinosaurs. Did they actually have sex? Or did they just lay eggs and call it a day? We have zero science degrees but so many questions. Want our podcasts sent straight to your phone? Text us the word "Podcast" to...
May 16, 2025•33 min•Season 13Ep. 66
Nat reveals her latest indulgence that has taken over her mornings - and maybe her waistline - bagels. The conversation spirals from there into why Cat works out and how great it would be to bring back the workout mentality of the 80's. In a surprise twist, Nat shows us exactly what her teenage workout looked like—and it’s not what you would expect. If you are only listening to this podcast, stop what you are doing right now and go watch it on Youtube. Trust us on this one! Want our podcasts sen...
May 13, 2025•29 min•Season 13Ep. 65
What’s really happening behind our kids’ screens? As parents, it’s more important than ever to educate ourselves to the max. We can’t assume our kids would “know better” — because when it comes to fast decisions and online pressure, common sense often goes out the window. N*des are being sent and received every single day. And most of us weren’t raised with any kind of rulebook for how to handle that — let alone how to help our kids through it. That’s why we need to truly understand what’s going...
May 12, 2025•43 min•Season 13Ep. 64
We sat down with Dr. Tammy Nelson, Ph.D. — a renowned sex and relationship therapist, TEDx speaker, and author of Open Monogamy and When You're the One Who Cheats. She also happens to be Ashley Madison’s Resident Sex and Relationship Expert... so you know we came prepared with a lot of questions! We chat through some eye-opening stats, hear real stories from Dr. Tammy's experiences, and unpack why people cheat. If you’ve ever wondered what’s really going on behind closed doors, this one’s for yo...
May 09, 2025•32 min•Season 13Ep. 63
This week we’re pulling back the curtain on what really goes down at dance competitions. When the pressure’s on, emotions can run high (like, really high), and suddenly moms become emotional buffers just trying to keep the peace. You're whispering calmly while your kid is spiraling because they haven’t eaten enough and their hair is secured with 37 bobby pins digging into their scalp. One wrong word could send them over the edge. Somehow, through all the tension and tiptoeing, there are lessons ...
May 06, 2025•38 min•Season 13Ep. 62
We’re joined by Shannon Lee Simmons — award-winning Certified Financial Planner, speaker, bestselling author, Chartered Investment Manager, founder of the New School of Finance, and personal finance writer for The Globe and Mail and CBC Radio’s Metro Morning money columnist. Her new book, Making Bank, is written specifically for teens and covers everything from managing money earned through part-time jobs and allowances to saving, spending, and even investing. Shannon also dives into the topics ...
May 05, 2025•37 min•Season 13Ep. 61
This week we’re diving into some of the biggest relationship problems couples are facing in 2025 — and Nat shares that one of them is her personal favourite . From mixed signals to financial stress to the slow burn of disconnection, we’re breaking down what’s really going on behind closed doors. And have you heard of “grey divorce”? It’s a new trend on the rise — tune in to hear what it is, why it’s happening, and why it might be more relatable than you think. Want our podcasts sent straight to ...
May 02, 2025•35 min•Season 13Ep. 60
Can you actually learn to be happy? We all know that happiness isn't something you can buy, but can money help make you happy? So many of us are living pretty great lives but miss it because we’re busy chasing the next thing, comparing ourselves to everyone else, or feeling like we’re not where we “should” be. If your life doesn’t look exactly like the picture you envisioned, maybe it's time to recalibrate. We’d love to hear your take: What actually makes you happy right now? And if you’re feeli...
Apr 29, 2025•37 min•Season 13Ep. 59
Teen sports are equal parts commitment and carpooling. In this episode, we’re talking about that tricky moment in time when your kid wants to quit sports. Do you let them? Do you push through? Some parents have rules like “one school sport per semester,” but we’re not in the market for forcing our kids to do things they’re miserable doing—because then guess what? It becomes our problem. When to back off, when to encourage, and when to just let them call it quits? This podcast is presented by The...
Apr 28, 2025•35 min•Season 13Ep. 58
