Episode 161: Pregame - Is He Worth A Second Date?

this works. You guys submit questions, we answer them, and I will do my best to answer without wincing because I've got a pinch nerve and a lot of people are on my last nerve. So we'll talk about in the full length podcast later. Because this is crazy. Behave your first up girlfriend? Who do we have? We have Ali, Bou seven and d. What's your love language and how do your partners show it? I don't know what's yours.

So I've read a in this gal in the self help Aile of Love and Barnes Noble for about three years of my life. Have you ever you've haven't read that book? Like the Love Languages Love Languages, haven't read it? My mind's words of affirmation and physical touch. So I like to be praised with words like you're doing good, sweetie, keep it up, and I like you to give me a smooch in a little pat on the boutet you know what I mean? Oas So yeah. Another one would

be like gifts is one of them. Another one is shit I forgot. I just I feel like you would be Let me think. I think you'd be a words of affirmation, gal. I think we were people that like to know that, like a little ada boy, that we're doing yeah good, or that will laugh at my joke maybe maybe laughing at my joke a little bit, listen serving others. Ryan told us is another one. Oh good Ryan, how do your partners show it? Yeah, I mean my husband laughing at my jokes maybe and listening. So yeah,

I don't know. Oh that's good, that's cute. My love language, my little new m around my neck well, and my risky for my gal well, you know, showering me. Would love my appreciation for you having a baby so I can babysit and watch him and love on him the rest of my life, which we have a lot to catch up on because so much has happened since the announcement last week, and I know that you're like, Okay, we got it. He's already five years old. I love

him so much, and I have questions, comments and concerns. Okay, okay, Miranda car Murder Right. One piece swimsuit or two piece swimsuit? Always two piece, even when I probably shouldn't be in it. I'm I am delusional about I think I'm a victorious swimsuit model, a sports illustrated swimsuit model. So I can't do the one piece because it got in my head that one guy told me one time, like I don't like one pieces, so now it's in my head and I even think that they're cute and there's kinds so

I can't go to buy them. But I can't do it. I can't pull the trigger. I have a bunch and I can't wear them. So two piece always for me, even if I shouldn't. So I hate wearing any piece. No, not that I'm moving a nude skewed kind of goal, but it just feel like I don't have the right you know what I'm saying. But I am more of a two piece And the biggest reason why I'm all for the one piece train. We've discussed this with body suits. My torso super long. Can't find a one piece that

fits without a little stretch way up there. Because when you're a model, when you're five ry ten and you have a size six foot and the oriniest hands I've ever seen this beach But yeah, I don't. Also something I never got into the high waisted swimsuit two pieces. Never got into those, but I appreciate the look on some people, and I wish I could pull it off. Here is this, I have these HiPhones that stick out, And I'm not like I have hip bones. I've just

always had these hip bones that stick out. It just it is what it is. And you pull this puppy high waisted with those two door knobs sticking out, it's just a weird look. It's not a girl that hits her hip on the countertop every time she turns the corner, because it's right at that level, every single countertop. Aaron's

like ow, I'm like there they go again. Speaking of right at that level, did anyone see the meme from Lake Tahoe and the gentleman resting on the the golf like rope and he wasn't resting on his hip bones. I'll just leave it at that will probably pouse me. Yeah, we'll excuse him and everything about him. It was like he was that turned on by the hole in one. Oh. He wasn't turned on. He was just resting everything on the roped off area. I mean security, We are not secure.

I'm not that I needed to see if vil will send it, because I know Ryan knows exactly what I'm talking about. I missed that. I was too busy looking at what's his name, Tom from vander Pump who we don't like, Scandival Sandoval, who was back on stage in pants that he shouldn't have been and we get it. But the best was the saxophone player, which, by the way, I love that you have a saxophone player. Kenny g

Line one the saxophone players. This is what he does for those of you watching on YouTube, those of you are millions watching. He's plays the saxophone. He's like and then he's like the band, still his phone, checking his phone. It was so good. I was like, this guy didn't give up shit. You know what. Any who got good stuff back with the originally scheduled program, you're up sister, here we go. Is it worth a second date when the first one really left you with no feeling of

a connection. I actually think it's not a bad idea. I mean, if you're repulsed, you're not into it. If you're like, this is never gonna happen. If he's just got a bad breath, vibe, a weird like you know, something that's creeping you out, I get it. But if you're like, here's me, I'll say it. I mean, it was great going out to dinner with my husband the first night, but I was like, he's cool. I mean, I don't know. But because I was going to do my own shit, Yeah, I have my own feeling. We

were like, oh my god, I'm marrying this guy tomorrow. No. No, because I was dealing with my own stuff. I'm in my head, I'm dealing with my feelings. I had broken up with a guy. I wasn't over it. I was like, whatever, so it could be you. It's not me, it's you, it's not you, it's me all the things. Normally it's not you, it's us. But in this particular case, give

piece a chance and him a chance. I agree with that, because maybe he's having an off day, you know, and maybe you are too sec well exactly, so go for it, Sarah, give him a second chance, which remembers me. In the full length podcast, we have something about a first date that is worth elaborating on because you guys were awesome and we're going to start a new segment. Here's a

preview of Throwback Thursday. We were talking about it first dates, and your guys's responses were some of you guys were amazing. So we'll get to that later, all right, Next up MJ. Rodriguez as ZM God. I wish I'm such a more on MJ. Rodriguez. That is the z M. Sorry I screwed that up. How to regain confidence after losing it? Well, what are we doing? John Knife? I know I need more information, but I think in general I always adhere

to Scott Thompson's rules for success in life. My father has all of these, you know, John Wooden like quotes. He's always like, it's not you know how far you fall, it's how quickly you get up. It's one of those things like I equate everything in my life to sports, so like if you have a turnover or something bad in my life has happened. Think about your life in

four quarters. It's not over. The game's not done, so like think of it as a minor step back or a small little turnover, and think like, do you want that to be the end of your story? Probably not, so keep going and that will be a distant memory if you can get past or over that hump. Speaking of athletes have I'm on episode four of The Quarterback. It's really good. It's really really good too. I'll say this, it's not for the casual fan. I mean, I'm not telling you not to watch it if you're not a

casual fan. But Jarrett and I were watching part of it yesterday and it had Mahomes And can I say this too, Because I'm someone that's always like Tom Brady, Aaron Rodgers, it was really nice to follow guys now. Patrick is the exception, but he's also the face of the NFL right now, who's really cool with Marcus Mariota and Kirk Cousins to follow other guys and see their lives. I appreciated that. But they had this whole regimen that Mahomes is on during the season, and it's what he

does with his own private strength. Coach and the like different ways he twists his body, so if he falls that way, it's not going to be like, you know, a freak reaction by his body. It was really really good, and I looked over at Jarrett and I go, this is awesome, and he goes, this is fucking awesome because a, you don't really see into these guys' lives before like that. Also, CHRISA was thinking this and Jarrett said it. This isn't even their team practice, this is their personal stuff that

they put in. And then you've got the annoying reporters that want to come in and do this sit down interview. It's just it. I love those guys so much. I'm so grateful for their time, but watching it really really made me even more grateful for just the time that

they make. They have zero time with their families. Zero. Well, it's funny that you say that because someone that we know very well was saying that about his own life, where it's difficult to make time to do a show like that because you are so limited, and then you to do those sit down interviews and do those things then to further your point, which is why I'm so thankful.

Like even I just came back yesterday from doing an interview with a couple different guys, and I just appreciate it's even their off season, like making time to do those things because they're going to camp in a few days exactly. So athletes, thank you for making time. Because, by the way, you don't have to love you. This is for you, sister front row seat. It's cute. Name is Mac going to travel? I love that we get back questions. No, baby, is Mac going to travel with

you this season? And congrats? Oh, thank you guys. And also I'll say this on our Real podcast that comes out on Thursday. Thank you guys for all the amazing messages and support. It was really really cool to see. We'll talk about that, but I don't really think so.

It's really hard. Chrisen knows this when we travel, I mean especially, we've talked about it, like you're literally I can't see me really having Mac Hay, Matt, Can you just hang out on this public bathroom floor at the Atlanta Airport while I absolutely change my clothes and get into my companies. You good with that? Here? Here's your pacifier? What about your burpcloth? Got that too? Great? Look at my mommy? What did all I mean, so many stories. We had our first big puke anyways, so now I

don't think so, but you never know. You never know. Last, but not least, Whitney Welker moving in with my boyfriend what to expect? Prep for bathroom stitch is always a big for me. Now here's the thing I live with Monica Geller from friends more add OCD about cleanliness that I have ever been in my life. I have now turned into him, which says a lot, because you are clean, miss missus clean. But I wasn't always like that. I just I would tread lightly the first couple months because

it's your man. I know, you think you know your man, but you're moving in with him, and it's a whole new ball of wax. Don't you think like little things about like the way they sniff at night, or like the air conditioner tempts and shit. Okay, that's actually this could be an entire episode in and of itself, because I am a psychopath. If you're not home, turn the AC off? How care are we paying the AC on? Because we've talked about this at no, let's have it running,

you know. Well, that's Whitney. I am currently in the same exact situation because Steve and I are going to move in together officially, and is that breaking news here? I think we talked about after the break in. I was like, what are we doing? I was like, you're never at your house anyways, that's breaking new here because I wasn't told. Yeah, So you know what, it's a great way to follow up the baby news. You guys are more getting together. Here's the thing, guys, every day

will breaking news. This just in and we've got some headlines. So we're all out of time on the pregames. Stick with us Thursday. We'll talk about Matt, we'll talk about moving in together, We'll talk about and why I'm obsessed with Goldiehan and Dolly Parton. Love you guys, thanks for your question. Calm Down with Aeron and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio. For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.