Episode 108: Sending Screenshots To Vince Vaughn

that's broken. Can't get my car out of Uber to a lunch dinner and I'm at all also have to call about apparently a gas leak, that people smell gas outside our house. What do you do on your game? But here's the thing. I did smell it really fast and then I ran inside to tell my husband I smelled it, because somebody came the other day and was like, m I don't smell it, and then so I just walked outside and I was like yeah, I kind of smell it, and then five minutes later I went out

there and I don't smell it again. So in the hill is going on? Is that US? Is that them? What's going on? Blow a gas it? I'm gonna tell you. At that situation of at the Lake House. So I have this small little shack of the lake house, and Sweet Jen, our girlfriend Jen Green, went and stayed at it for New Year's Eve. She smelled gas. Called the gas company. Thank God she had the wherewithal to do this. I had just done the remodel. They didn't close. Some

kind of valve or something that like that. The gas company comes and it was like off the Richter scale in terms of they were like, if you had waited like thirty minutes longer, this house would have blown up. Like that's so scary. Do not mess with gas leaks. Like have everyone out there to fix that. That's really I don't like that. Okay, so literally, just text me. I know our our contracts are just texting me and

he goes. I swear to God, I'm here and I don't smell it, but I smelt it and then I went. So I don't know what to do. I'm gonna call just good, good girl, because we don't need to which, by the way, we're just gonna jump right into it. Speaking of safety, this driver falling asleep at the wheel took on a life of its own and I this is just you and I talking. All of a sudden I go New York Post has picked up the story. Thank God you are alive and here to tell us

about it. So, for those of you that didn't know what happened, Aaron had they gave me a standing ovation at the Super Dome this weekend and alive and here with us today, Aaron. Sharon hasn't had a driver to take her from Chicago to Green Bay who fell asleep while driving. But it was a hole to do and terrifying. I don't know how you stayed in that car. Good for you, but what else was the fallout and were

you surprised by the reaction? I was. Our producer texted me and sent me the story and I just thought two things. That ship. I hadn't told my dad, who did text me a couple of hours later and said, well, I don't want to read about this ever again. Why didn't you get out of the car? And I was like Dad, I had Matt Lafleur and Joe Barry on calls, and then, of course I didn't want to say anything because I didn't want to Piss Fox off. Even though

I know they're so great about everything. But you know, there's always the whole don't be a diva thing that you have to think like. Being a diva is calling and being like my driver's asleep at the wheel, like you're not requesting a writer with the green m and M's and your dressing room. God, safety first. I'm not asking for yeah. So, anyways, and I did. I got a ton of text messages. Several players walked up to

me on Sunday. I was like, Dude, I heard about your story and I was like, while it was dramatic, I did feel like the whole headlines maybe out of it on twitter or whatever. I'll say Aaron Andrews Escapes Debt. Okay, you know what. I'm not holding. I wasn't taken under by a great white or an alligator in a swamp and I rolled him into a ball. And you know what I mean. Like who, we're good. I got the

guy a coffee, we got you know, we're fine. Any yes, well, that would be traumatic, and the fact that you bought him of coffee is like says more about you your you owe me three dollars and I won't be tipping. I got a whole thing about the tipping, though, on that situation, because it's the same. It's the same thing on the room service. Okay, when the room service UMS it already says gratuity included. Well, now, though, they leave that extra line for extra gratuity, and I'm sorry. Like

as again, I always feel like after preface this. I've been a hostess, I've been a waitress, I've been a bartender. I get the service industry, but you already allotted yourself the gratuity. You didn't even give me a chance to give you what I think you deserved for the prompt service, for this, this and that. So I'm gonna Throw Zeros

in there. Why are we getting more gratuity? It's already there, it's already built it and, by the way, the building gratuity is like that's fifteen, standard, twenty if you're good. This is actually a great thing to bring up. I feel the exact same way, but I always feel bad. I always feel like when they come to my room because we've discussed four bowls of grits this weekend. I'm a room service GAL. I Love Room Service in New Orleans. I love you. Let me here's the story and then

we'll get back to the gratuity. Writing it down. TIP The lady at our hotel in New Orleans. I tell her every time she is the best s room service taker. She has been there for years. I call up, I have a lady morning. How I don't have a lady there. I am being a diva. She's there, lady, you pick up the phone. Hello, I don't need to answer. How many? Like go through the whole thing. Uh. What do you want for your eggs? She's like. I'm like, Hey, how

are you? I'd love can I get some breakfast please? Sure, how many? One? What do you need? I'd love the All American breakfast. What kind of eggs scrambled? What kind of meat breaking? What kind of toast wheat? Do you want? Coffee or teat? Coffee? What about cream? Oh, perfect, we'll see you in twenty minutes. I love her so much. She is a NASCAR pist. I'm into that. I'm into efficiency,

so on it. The thing about the tipping is that I will say, I will highlight, I'll say, oh, it looks like gratuity is already included, and they'll say yes, like I hope, but I feel so bad. Okay, well, you're nicer than I am because I don't feel bad because you're already getting the gratuity and I I always tip if it's not already included. But if it's included, then I'm I can't be. I can't just be yeah, why do I feel bad? It's already including. It's I

know you're you're there are things. You're a very nice person, but there are things where I'm like, yeah, don't feel bad. You also feel bad about things like asking people for things that are part of your job, but that's neither here nor there. You know what I mean. I do um because there is, as you know, always this side conversation that you and I deal with a lot. There's always preconceived notions about is she a bitch, is she

a lot, is she a diva? And then it's like, yeah, I look bitch about some things, and one of the biggest things is like getting it right, which you you obviously relate to and understand. You put a lot of time and effort in. You don't want to be embarrassed, you want things to go smoothly. My travel, yes, with certain things, because certain things have happened to me in my life also too, I believe, like I've been on the road four days out of the week. Like you

have shitty sleep when you stay in a Shitty hotel. Blah, blah, blah, whatever. Thankful for Fox. Our travel arrangements are always so wonderful. I'm grateful for our travel department. They're so great. How many times can I say great? Anyway, Um, but yeah, I do think you don't want someone walking in your room and you're like, I don't know, just talking bad about you. I read something, I think it was Hillary Duff.

Maybe this was seventeen magazine. She used to talk about all the Times that, like the like, she would go to get her hotel room clean. She would feel so bad she would make her bed. Oh, but her hotel room. I do that a little bit. I will pick up before it's like I'll put the towels like in a corner or like if there's like trash and stuff everywhere. No, and just so we're clear, like I'm all about the tipping, but I just I don't think that we should just

take liberties here and have that extra line. So I'm the Asshole who has to write zero when you're already getting a tip. Okay, yeah, you're not cheap, so let's dispel. I would rather go I'd rather go broke than be considered cheap, like I will go above and beyond a book title writing this, but I'm gonna go broke at this point. I'm going around doing all this extra tipping. Here's a tip, give me. Apparently doing well. I oh that.

We got to get into that in a second, but wait, okay, we organized my thoughts because we only have so much time, which actually is a bummer, because these podcasts during the season should be a lot longer because we have a lot more to talk, a lot crazy weekend. We record this podcast on Monday, so we have two money night games tonight, which I'm looking forward to. I love to I love I love football so much. I get so excited that there is a game on almost every single night.

I'm like, it gives me like something'm like, okay, so tonight I'm gonna do this. It okay, Psycho. Today that I was I was I was like trying on wear stuff fore you guys. It's Super C and I put on the NFL network and like they're just going through stuff in injuries and I'm reading the bottom line. I'm supposed to be trying on hoodies and I'm, like I just said out loud, the NFL is awesome, like it's

just awesome. I know, and that's because we only get so many weeks of it, because it's the sport that only has eighteen weeks, not including playoffs. Okay, so you were on there, you had you had a crazy game. You were in New Orleans, which is always an awesome place, that you didn't say many daring the game greats. I'm gonna tell you why there's so many of you guys. Now. I got I got four names now. I told my career I was like, she's not saying my name and

it's you know what I'm gonna do? I'M gonna just pick which names I want to leave off because I'm hard to he'll just throw it back to you when you're I can help you. So you're in New Orleans, bucks, Saints Crazy, Mike Evans gets ejected, Marshall Lattimore gets ejected. What was it like for you on the sidelines? Awesome. Being at the superdome is amazing. Anyway. It's just it is so loud. I think I had said in one of my one of my many I d accounts. The

tunes they pump pregame are just the best. In New Orleans. My sister's calling. I'm going to shut it off. They pump so many great tunes it's incredible. And they also do this thing where a player requests a tune. You, I think you wrote it. You should show Sam the whole time. Name that tune. I love you so much for saying tune. Are you on American bandstand? Why Year is this? Don't you just love the tunes this place? Just play. Oh God, I love these tunes. I need

you to Shom is that still a thing? The Music? I need you to make a playlist because I was such a good idea. Jarvis had his up there, Tomorio Davis, they did. It was so good. Yeah, each guy, they had their face up there and all and then it said which one it was that and then they come out. It's fire and it's it's cool and all that. Um, yeah, it's great because I'm always like ten years behind. I'm like, Hey, you guys heard this new drake album called views? It's like, okay,

we are onto the next. I'm so late in music that I need to get a new playlist. Music changes everything, and the set in the morning. It is seven am. I need a little pick me up, like rock jock jams now hits hair swing and Aaron. That the the music for the Chicago Bulls. Tell me that wouldn't get you fired up. So good, so good. So anyways, the place was bumping. Obviously both offenses weren't really doing too much. Tom Brady throws the surface tablet, you know, he throws

his helmet. That's always great drama to see. I love it. I thinking him fired up, like those shots of him being like and I was like, you know what, you walk into that huddle and Tom Brady's yelling. I got no problem with it, because he's like he demands excellence and I am all about that. And don't tell me that if you're on the receiving end of that, you're not like fun. Yeah, this guy gives a ship. After this many years playing this game, I better step up.

And it's always one of those you know my attention. First we're kind of worried. Did he jam his finger? What's going on there? I'm always trying to check, you know, what his temperature is on the sideline so I can tell the guys in the truck. Hey, he's really piste off. Hey, he just walked over to the offensive line coach. Hey, he's talking to Hanz on the sidelines. I always kind of helped them with shots. I feel like I'm a

CIA agent or a spy. You would be good, but there's times like I'm there and I you know, you catch his eye and this is after you threw the surface tablet and you're like whoops and you're like look away really quick because you don't want I do that with everyone, Matthew Aaron, like all these guys, because they know I'm looking. One time who said, oh, Randall Cop, this was so great. He had gotten this is not great.

He got hurt. He got hurt in the in the packers rams game, and I'm like looking over and I noticed like he's putting something under his Jersey while he had injured himself at that point, and he said to me, he goes e a. You freaking knew and he goes. You kept staring at me and he was like, I know, I'm sorry, and I was like, I wouldn't have said

anything on the broadcast. Until you can't, until the trainers obviously clear it and PR says okay to do so, but he goes e a, you freaking new and I was like I have my little tricks, like I know when certain things are going down, you know certain people to follow. You know, like I started like kind of

snooping a little. You know the actions and stuff, and he's it is true, and you hate when they catch you because you're like but that's an interesting thing though, because, and again I know that are are vast audience, is in terms of some people like football, some people just want to hear US embarrass ourselves. But the idea of what you can report and you never want to speculate, of course, because once it's out there, it's out there

and that whole thing not paid for that. Yeah, so it just sort of being able to govern yourself, because you want to be able to say everything, but you also need to protect the player or right. So that that fine line. That's I don't that's interesting. Yeah. Well, the NFL is a lot different from college and that

was one thing I had to learn. You know, in college I could basically repeat word for word what Tom is over screaming to his players, what John Calipari was screaming, but in the NFL you're not allowed to do that. You kind of have to paraphrase. And with injuries, I take two sides of it. I'm a wife. I don't want to hear my husband is you know this, this and this that I observed. Until that's clear, I just I don't want to hear that. I don't need their

families to worry or any of that. So I'm a wife of a guy who used to play and like stuff like that would be reported. Also, you can't do that in the NFL. You can say so and so is receiving medical attention. I did say yesterday there was no athletic trainers that came up to Tom Brady and looked at his finger. You can do that. And then, obviously when Aaron got rocked, we showed the pictures of him kind of getting a massage on his neck, like

moving it around. But yeah, you can't speculate. You'd be in big, big trouble or report something that they haven't given you confirmation on. Yeah, good rules to follow. So okay. So that game was awesome. You've got a big one next week. You Got Buck month store game. Yeah, packers next week. So I loved both our offenses trying to figure it out. Huh? Yeah, but I think that's to be expected. I was just excited that they covered. Last night. I started chasing in my gambling man, I ate ship

in those early games, since Wolf Brown's Wolf. I knew better than to bet against Tom Brady and I did it just because there were so many injuries on the sideline. But again, why he's the go is in that defense. I mean, come on, Devin White, Devon up, this was this defense man better than last back. That defense is back and they're happy to about their depth. That's one thing that kept saying. You could use that on Amazon. A lot of good communication and their depth. They're really,

really happy about their debt. I love that. Communication is this thing on Um. So, yeah, so that's exciting. I love everything about that Um. So, so many good Games. But also, like the Colts, Oh my God, I didn't see that one coming this this into there's so many injuries on that side as well. I feel bad for Matt Ryan. But at the same time, like Cincinnati, the bengals offensive so many questions. It's only week two and

things are getting good. I know you say that, but can you believe, like I thought about it this morning. We're about to be at week three. Why we're already at week three. Like it goes by your weeks going? It does go by really fast. But there's still a lot of football to be played. Remember, Sister Fox has the Super Bowl this year. Yours truly, not yours truly, that one, as I'm putting with me be on the sideline for that. Okay, so that was good. We have a lot of things that we need to catch up

with that we teased about last week. Okay, first of all, the Amazon debut, like anything, ventulations. Thank you, thank you. Thank you. So it's Kansas City and the chargers. As expected, an incredible atmosphere and arrowhead. It was our first production. Like every production, there are things to work out. These are you know. I'm not worried about it. This is we have the luxury of Fox that Fox has been

on air for twenty five years. Day One at Fox is much different than it is twenty five years later. But I was very, very excited for our team and guys and women behind the scenes of work, tireless Lee. We weren't even supposed to be Amazon wasn't supposed to string games until next year. They moved up the whole launch date a one year because they wanted to get on. So yes, some things to work out, but I'm really excited.

I'm I can't tell you what an awesome group of people like get to travel with every year, every week, and you know this better than anyone, when you use the time that you spend with these guys like you're on the bus together, you're at dinners together, you're grabbing coffee, you're in team meetings. So like with Sherman fits and Tony and with like awesome, awesome people to be able to spend some time with and looking forward to that

show continuing to get better each and every week. Okay, now circling act to the things that we need to get caught up on. I was telling you the story about the Valet last time. So they lost my car. Have you ever had that happen? No, just packages and hotels, but go on. Okay, so I D Fox had our whatever, our dinner that we have every year with the crew and before Friday, right before the first Sunday show, and

you know you're gonna have a time at it. So you did the right thing totally and I just didn't have time to go home and drop my car off, or I would have done that to begin with. So there's gonna be cocktails, I'm gonna Uber Home. So I leave the car at the hotel. I go back the next day to get it. I don't have the little ticket with me. That ticket is somewhere in a clutch that's on the bathroom floor, somewhere. I don't know where that that I'm lucky that first even made it home. Ladies,

you know that move. We're in the morning. You're like, things are a little foggy and you're going, I hope I grabbed my credit card, I hope I got my license and I hope that new lip loss I spent on, which is an obscene amount of money, but I love this damp channel lip glass is in that perse because I always lose the expensive ones and the five other ones are still around from ten years ago. So I go to that purse. I don't know where it is with the little ticket. Forget it. Can't find the car.

What do you mean? You can't find the car? Well, do you have the ticket? No, I don't have the ticket. This is the kind of car. This is to make. The Model I came in last night around four o'clock, and I feel like I'm like working with the detective. I can't find it. Here's my fingerprint. Thirty minutes is going by and I'm like you guys, can I go down to where the car is and, like I will

look for it. They can't find the freaking car. Now I'm getting like upset because, and I'm not yelling at the Valet, of course, but I'm like you guys, just let me go down. I don't understand this. anyways, they eventually find the car because it's in a separate parking lot. But I want to know, and you guys am curious, which we can answer the question on our pregame. has anyone actually ever lost the car at the Valet and

the liability? If you go valet, are they responsible for buying you a new car if they can't find I would say so. With the problem is you don't have this ticket that they need. It's a signfeld episode. You. This actually is a Larry thing, as you remember. I told you like he would down little stuff or whatever. Yes, it's about losing the ticket. You know, when you go into a parking garage and it prints the thing out, you should just put it right in the Little Cup holder,

but you don't. You put in the back pocket. Then you go to leave now and paying thirty five dollars. I've been there five minutes. I can't find the ticket. Are you good about keeping track of this thing? I'm not even good at keeping track of like I I went to a massive meeting Whoa the other day where they told me I needed my license to get in. I forgot my whole wallet at home and I didn't realize until I was five minutes away because I had my wallet in another purse I'd use the night before. No,

I'm not good at okay, good. Who are the people that are good at keeping track of those little vallet tickets and the parking garage tickets? My Dad, he keeps everything in his wallet. That's like this big I don't know. I got a lot to work on, so I'm going to write that down and chalk it up to it was one of them. Well, I mean, you'd have a lot to work on if you've driven home from a Fox. Oh No, no, no, no, no, no, no, because after after my accident, my parents would disown me if I

ever got behind the wheel of a car. My brother and made a decision drink and drive when he was much younger and flipped his car and had a lot of issues because of it. So thank God he's okay and also why we can't have drivers fall asleep at the wheel either. Sister. Okay, so that's uh, that was light. This is why we do gratitude lists every night. Tyson and I were very grateful, but everyone's fine and alive and well. Okay. So that's the story about the Valet

and the lost car. What else? Vince Vaughn? Oh Shit. Okay, last episode I talked about how I called out Vince Vawn and this is another thing. Is it read receipts or read receipts? I still don't know the answer to this, because he read it right. That's what I thought, not R E D, But are yeah, you get everybody gets it. I'm the idiot. Go on. No, no, no, because I had this conversation. I said to fits and I was telling Ryan Fitzpatrick the story and he goes, is it

red receipts or read receipts? I go thank you, I don't know the answer to that. Okay, catching you up quickly on the story. Vince Bawn said that he would come on the show. This was when we first started, two years ago or whatever it was. Since then he has not not responded to any of my inquiries. Uh, he's read them, though, but he has read them because the red receipts were on. So I got Sassy, had a few cocktails, said please come on the show. He

didn't come on the show. He still didn't respond back to the text messages and I was like fine, fine, if you don't want to come on. So I was telling this story last week on the podcast and then I screenshot at the messages that I had sent to Vince to show our wonderful producer Ryan the correspondence you guys. I screenshot at them and sent them back to Vince Vaughn.

The fuck I sent back his own messages and I was like no, that was your sweat factor, like you know that feeling where like you respond on a d m about something you shouldn't be saying and it goes to that person, which have all so done, and then had to triple axel and lets my way out of that situation. The second I sent it, I was like, well, I didn't realize I I take that back. I didn't realize I had sent it to him until Ryan were still on our call here afterwards, and Ryan goes. Our

producer goes, I haven't received him yet. I was like, Oh, maybe bad WIFI. They just have it right through. I then look and it says Vince Bonn's the last person. I was like, I sent them back to him. Now, at this point we are in a critical juncture of this correspond it's okay. So thank God Steve Comes out. Steve Goes, what's going on? I'm freaking out. I said I just sent the screenshots back to Vince. I'm trying to explain. He goes. You got to say you were

you were a lerning him for the red receipts. He can't go thinking you're just throwing these screenshots around. So good, he came up with that. That's so good. That's so good, Steve. I would have never thought of it. He goes, you need to say right now, six minutes has gone by. You need to say that you're letting him know that the red receipts were on. He goes, and then you need to send him the EMOJI. That goes like this, and so I'm doing that, like you're in trouble face.

I'm doing that now. I'm doing that right exactly. So I was like, Oh God, I'm like you, panicking about text messages, which we need to get into. So I go, fuck funck buck, so I said. I write, I go just letting you know your red receipts are on, and I do the EMOJI. And now I've dropped the phone. I'm freaked out because I've seen he's got the red receipts on that. He's seen the screenshots. So now he sees that I've sent him the red receipts thing. And

guess what? I get back? Finally, finally, I get back a response from Vince or his assistant. I don't know if it's even Vince at this isn't the Middle Finger Emoji. It should have been. It should have been, but it was a very nice response, being like I would love to come on the podcast when x, Y and Z, but guess what? I sent him something back. Those red receipts were off. The Red receipts are off. there. You're welcome. You're welcome, Vince. I just saved maybe your marriage or

your other friendships or your business relations and ships. I don't know what I helped you with, but that is reason enough to get on this podcast, because no one else had the balls to tell you that those red receipts were on. Okay, so, for all you Weirdos out there that have those red receipts on, someone needs to tell you. And if you have them on and you know it, you're a bigger Weirdo. Why do you want

anyone to know that? They read your message? My face hurts so bad right now from smiling, not doing the Emoji ors like that. Is the psychopath that that that's going around screenshot and sending them back to the same persons? It happens. More, does it happens? It does. Who Does it? Kit? I'm gonna tell you. You want me to tell you. You want to name into umbrella exactly? Yes, give me a name. Give me a name. God, what a loser. Right am rince is never coming on and there is

definitely a restraining order involved here. But anyhow, that's my update for the week. Anywhere found. Vince hates me and happy week three. anyways, what have you been up to, because the gas still on? I don't know, I gotta call. I'M gonna call I'm gonna do the smart thing and call, but I'm gonna tell them I don't think you can go through our garage because we can't get it open. How about jared? He's out of town right now. I go, how am I getting my car out? He goes, just

pull the thing down. I am not. Vita vea from the buck's defensive line. I can't pull that thing down. That thing is heavy. I mean, I do not. It's just the dangly. Oh, because you're rich. Mine's very lightly, just the red little the thing in the middle of the garage where you pulled out. And why that? That's not ours. I need Vita Key Hicks and Will Colston, but I don't know Keem Hicks is availability because he

left the game with the foot injury. You know, I'll let you know on Sunday and she's able to report that it's been verified repointed if Jay Glazer gave it. Oh, hey girl. So anyone know Patrick Mahomes a stat line um? All right, so let's see here. Twenty five minutes. Oh my God, I'm just getting started. I'm trying to think of what else is new. Poor Howie, he thinks I'm yelling he gets very nervous when I yell. Oh wait,

so talk to me. You haven't really been in that. Well, yeah, you've done games before, but just how was it being with the people? What were they saying to you? Were they so excited to see you out there? I mean fans lickered up that have been marinating in the looking not to get inside say the craziest Shit. Oh, what were they saying? How to go? Well, it was, I mean tailgating in Kansas City at a time. I mean they started to it's college environment. It's fabulous, I know,

and I try to. I'M gonna be responsible and not drink before the Games. Maybe I should drink before the Games. I don't know. Let's just Jeff told could just be myself. So I don't know. Dangerous is who I am. No, I won't. I will be professional. But it was awesome. As you know better than anyone, atmosphere, whether it's a college game or NFL like people love their football. So that was awesome. And just being at a game, although I gotta Tell You, I need the game in my

ear at all times. Yeah, program I have a panic attack when I go potty and I can't hear it. In the bathroom, I have a panic attack. So we went out on the field with foreman's left Justin Herbert is injured. He's I'm like, I need I need it, I need it, I need it, I need it. So those that's something like guys don't care. Like guys are like, Hey, yeah, whatever, but you know what I need it for? I need it for and you know, not to be your mentor.

On My notepad that I have, I logged the game on one side and then on the right I will say what Greg is saying or what Kevin is making what he made note of. So when Herbie said a very strange throw there, you know, you could be like, Hey, oh, yeah, any of your fits? Have you had a rib injury? You know what I mean? So that's what could be great. I don't know. No, no, SIS. That's but that's exactly it.

That's why I need the game, because I love, and I'll text you even like during your game, like I love the points that the guys in the booth make and they're looking at from that's at this point like it's awesome. But yeah, in summary, it was great. Headed to Cleveland this week for the Brown steelers, both coming off a loss, but again, like anything can happen divisional game. Okay, I'm not gonna let you get off the hook here.

For the uncomfortable, you don't have to say that. You give the context of exactly what it is, but you get very nervous to send important text and so I don't know if anyone else out there is like that, where you reread it so many times and you don't want to press it. Apparently me, I'm just screenshot and sending it to God knows you. But yeah, you are a measure twice cut once kind of person, and I'm just going in blind to anything. So what makes you uncomfortable?

Because right before we got on here you were afraid to send a text message. I know, and even now I just want to make sure that I got the number right. So I'm going to go back after we log off and make sure I didn't mess up a number. So it's crazy, right with our job, where we are, like in our world and stuff. I I hate asking for favors for friends and I'm not even asking for

a favor, I'm not. I'm simply just getting word out on behalf of something to not reassure someone, but I'm touching base and and hey, you know, I hate it. I hate putting anyone on the spot, and I'm not putting anyone on spot. I hate the chance where because I know he's probably going to say no. So I just hate setting it up and I hate how this person may or may not have to word the text back. Appreciate it. Don't have time for it right now. You

know what I mean? Okay, I hate making them feel uncomfortable. I'm gonna tell what I don't. I don't know because we're women and we hate inconveniencing anyone, which is I had that with another situation a couple of weeks ago. I told you I couldn't pull the plug on something because I didn't want to Nix something, a relationship or whatever, and you're like do it, you and somebody else in my life for like, just do it. What's your problem?

Just do it. They don't care about doing it to you. Well, that's it, like okay, so I'm gonna open this up because I'm curious what you guys think that that are listening that idea, because you know the people that are asking for a favorite, you don't even talk to them, and so long, they're like, Hey, how are you? By the way, can you do that, like save me that? Hi, how you do it? Just cut straight to it. If you want me to do something, I did with this text.

I did say me the pleasant trees. But yeah, it's an interesting idea where we feel bad, and I don't want to just I mean narrow. It makes just women, but like maybe men feel like this too, but like you feel bad asking for things. I'm gonna stop feeling bad and just start asking for anything. Look at me to come on, and he's blacklisting me, black balling. But is it because we're women? Is that why we feel this way? Do men have this bone in their body?

I just don't know. And then I called my husband to tell him, Hey, I'm writing this text, and he goes in, yeah, and I said, but so and so said, I shouldn't even feel bad about writing this text because of this, this and this, and jared said, yeah, why do you fucking care? And I was like, I don't know, but I care. And now I'm on edge and now I'm going to check the numbers on the text to

make sure. Do you know what I don't you know what I don't miss is this feeling when you're dating someone and you're waiting for the Oh my God, did I get the right number? Maybe he doesn't have cell phone reception right now. Now three days have gone by and now I go I don't. I've never done this,

but I've this happened to me. Hello. If you send me back a hello and there's no response after three days, I am not going to ever respond back to that the hello which when you're first starting dating, I will. I mean, I haven't dated in a while, but I would definitely tell you that's not the best thing. Or even with like anything, if someone doesn't respond and you say hello. But that feeling dating and then like, should I right back right away? Should I not write back?

I just go right in. I mean, if we've learned anything from my dating history, I waste no time. Good, bad or and different. I do get I don't, I do, I don't. I mean, my God, it's like I just really need to take a beat, you know, but a time. So what a tune that was. We'll see you guys next week. If this feels for a text red receipts are off. Calm down with Aaron and Chrissa is a production of I heart radio. For more podcasts from my heart radio, visit the I heart radio APP, apple podcast

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