Hello everyone, welcome back to another episode of Call Her Daddy. It is Alex, your father. Back at it again. I'm really, really, really excited to flash back to this episode. As you guys know, we're doing a little flashback for I.D.A. from the past three years of my episodes on Spotify. Okay, so Daddy Gang. Anitta may have been one of my all-time favorites ever. I remember her walking into the studio and the energy was absolutely
insane. We had met at an event the prior week and we hit it off. We were talking about all these sexual things together. I was like, wait, why are you literally the best person ever? She is an absolute icon, pop star. She knows how to twerk. She knows how to talk. She talks about all the sex relationships. Everything you need to know, you want to know how to give a blowjob? Anitta, you want to know how to be good in bed? Anitta, you want to know how to sing? Anitta, you want to know how to twerk? Anitta, you want to know how to be a girls girl? Anitta, like every single thing, this woman just embodies confidence in a way that I, I just was
enamored with her. So Daddy Gang, get ready. Anitta is a sexual fun insane episode and yes, she does teach us how to twerk. So prepare, get ready, sit back, relax. This is a perfect episode to kick off a Friday with a little sexy time with my girl, Anitta. What is up, Daddy Gang? It is your founding father, Alex Cooper. We call her Daddy Daddy.
Anitta, welcome to call her Daddy. Thank you. Daddy Gang, we are in the presence of truly someone that is just doing it all and I'm honored to be sitting with you today. Anitta is the most successful Brazilian artist to ever come out of the country. Billboard magazine has called her more influential than Beyonce, Rihanna and Lady Gaga. What the fuck? No big fucking deal, Anitta. In Brazil.
I don't know. International. You also are nominated for a Grammy this year for best new artist. Congratulations. Thank you. It is like your career is incredible and watching you grow has just been so fucking cool. But I know you.
For me, Matt at the baby to baby gala. Yeah, I need to hear what your favorite moment is from that event because I know we met like briefly, but we were sitting next to each other. I was dying. You are so funny. You're so charismatic. You have such a personality. What do you remember from that event?
I think our table was so fun. We had like very fun people with us and we had fun just talking about things that people would never talk in a fancy table of action. You know, dinner, I don't bake. Yes, I need it. And I like we meet in two seconds later. Anitta is like, so like how does your vagina smell? And I was like, Hey girl, what's that? We're like, let's talk about our but holes in our vagina as like a corporate spot if I person is sitting directly.
My favorite was also when they not that like everyone knows the baby to baby gala, but so there's like angels that work at the event. Oh my god. So Anita is like chilling and like now it's like towards the end of the night. Like people have left, but like people are saying, so neat is like, no girl, like I got an early morning. Like I'm going to dip out. And I'm like totally get it. I'll be leaving soon.
So everyone in the crowd is sitting and they're like, hey, can all the angel stand up to give people context. It's about 11 women in a crowd of 300. And they go, everyone, all the angel stand up. Anita just starts standing up. She's like, bye everyone. I got to go and it's a dead silent room. She's like, wait, and I'm like, Anita, it's only the angel worse than that. It's worse than that. Tell us.
In my mind, I thought she was telling she was calling all the women angels stand up all the women. And I thought all the women was going to stand up. That's why I stood up. And you're like, this is the perfect moment for me to like sneak out the back door. Only 11 people of like 300 and Anita literally sits down. She's like, motherfucker. That was terrible. It was it was a great moment.
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And cruelty free shop to face better than sex water proof mascara today at Sephora. Let's kind of go back through like your life a little bit to get to know you better what was life like where you grew up outside of Rio de Janeiro. So people don't think when when they see me or they see like my songs and whatever they don't imagine that I come from like the communities could call to the kid a little bit.
It's like the favelas when you go to Brazil there's like community places that like the houses are really close to each other it's a really like humble place and pull. I come from a place like that I was born and raised in a place like that my mom used to do the best you could to fake the danger and the bad sides of it for me and my brother. So we all see everything with like this beauty and playing in the streets things like that very like very like in the hood you know.
And but she always told us that away for us to leave there it's not that we don't like there but we all want to leave because we want a better life. So she always had that the only way to get out would be studying and we always did the best we could like studying and doing like all we could and I always loved music.
So I started doing music but also like studying everything I was my own manager for like 10 years me and my brother or partners so it was a whole job not only from arts but also like business when and at what age did you realize your love for performing. Oh no since since I was a little kid I was already like singing and when I was three years years of like four or five I was already singing and my family used to ask me like.
These questions like what are you going to be when you grow up whatever and I was used to be like I'm going to be famous I'm going to be an artist I'm going to have a pool with my house. blah blah blah blah that was literally me so you kind of always knew always I would pass through some pass by some places that I knew it was like TV places like studios or whatever and I used to open the window or go to the bus window and say like.
You guys are going to see me I'm going to work here blah blah nine years old I was always like this personality kind of crazy I love that so much though because I think sometimes you have to have that energy in order to get to where you want to get sure I was sure it was not that I said like.
Oh I want to be I was sure I was I would tell my family where I was going to live how my house would be the TV shows are going to be the people are going to meet I would beat like that when I was a kid I could literally like see and dream about this and like my family was like okay because it was a very humble way.
So they would never a perfect that in my life totally so they would be like okay and I was like you guys don't understand I'm not saying I want to I'm going to be there right there's no option it's happening do you guys want to come along for the ride or not exactly who were some artists that you admired growing up Mariah Carey was my first one.
She was my first D.V.I. and I had the opportunity to tell her that and it was crazy and then be on a phone with her for hours that was also crazy and for me she was the number one forever and then Rihanna and now I I'm sponsored by Fenty I did their Fenty show I do like photoshoots for Fenty it's crazy even when you're saying that like does it still feel serene.
It still feels surreal like how much success you've had I think we should always remember because sometimes and I think the industry does this to us they push us to think that we need always more more and more and more and I think nowadays with the Internet it's kind of impossible for you to reach everything everyone every time you got to be happy also you got to take time for yourself also so I think that
this speech that I used to have for my life for many years like you can be more you can do more never stop never give up I was like that and when I was like that I couldn't see those things that happened in my life I would be like okay yeah I'm at my right okay yeah I loved it but I couldn't like look and be like wow
nowadays for me it's like yeah we can definitely give up we can definitely go rest take a nap go to sleep we don't need all the money in the world you know a person the money doesn't mean happiness and the many as many number ones you get in your life that's not going to make you happier or not so for me it's like every single thing that happened that happened in my life I learned how to stop and be like wow
look at what I did this is so and then live that moment again I got to this reflection went because last year I got super sick right super sick I couldn't do anything I couldn't go upstairs in my house I couldn't do anything literally for three months I was like and I thought literally that I was going to die it was a whole thing and then I was in the hospital for so long and then I was like you know what I was just working working working
to reach everything and thinking I still didn't have enough and now I'm here and what did I get from like right did I enjoy it did I have fun did I do nothing that I and the thing that I wanted the most was like to travel to have more free time and but today is too much for you to be successful you got to be on Instagram you to tick tock Spotify it's so many things that you got to do we're just walking
doing we're just one human being to my how can we do all of that it's a lot so I'm not up to waste my life searching for for things anymore because I'm almost 30 now I'm 29 and I do think it was important amazing for me to do that for so many years but now I just want to rest if I get more success amazing if no
it's okay your birth name is actually Larissa yeah do you mind sharing why and when you started going by Anita so my name lady says very common in Brazil Anita is a name that there was just one character from a series called Anita and I wanted to be this girl because she used to say that she was like an 18 year old character in this series
she used to say that she didn't like to be just one girl she liked to wake up and decide which girl she wanted to be today want to be crazy to tomorrow want to be sexy and then I want to be pretty and then I want to be princess and I was like that's so cool because I don't want to I don't like to define myself and be like okay I'm this I'm so many things I like to discover every day a new me you know
and I think people have the necessity of defining you be like oh she is that and I like to be all what is the difference between Larissa and Anita oh my god it's huge it's huge I started my career 12 years ago here in America I am a best new artist that I'm joking but I am nominated as best new artist for the Grammys because it's a new career started from the zero
you know I left everything and it came to start here again but 12 years ago when I started there I created this character because me Larissa I'm very shy to be honest I'm very insecure I'm very like I don't like going out I don't like socializing I don't like doing anything you know I'm so the opposite of who I am when I'm in this character
and when I created this character Anita I wanted a person a persona that would be completely against hypocrisy you know people that are hypocrites that say one thing and do the other you know and that's what I wanted to do how many languages can you sing in sing I can sing in five languages it's because I sing it Portuguese Spanish English Italian and French
just a little bit I speak just a little bit and Italian a little bit how the fuck did you learn all these languages so I'm going to give a very good example right now of Larissa and Anita right okay so when I go to in theirville as Anita you get a deliberate entertainment right yeah so people ask me how did you learn so many languages they say what's
boyfriends whenever I wanted to have no a no language I would date a different guy and like different accents but in reality I had which is kind of boring the reality Larissa I hired different teachers from different places of the world and I would I used to leave them in my dress room for whatever commitments I had so I used to like get two hours of glim every day I would be studying this during this two hours the teacher would be telling me and I would be like
studying for these two hours I fucking love your honesty of like let me be so clear Anita is like if I wanted to learn Italian I'm going to date an Italian man I'm a fucking Italian guy I feel like actually I was just hiring people and they were just teaching me do you ever worry that like now being so honest about like the two characters that people will be like wait why what the fuck like this isn't the real you no because I think it's so important for me to have this clear
and to understand that I use my character to break rules to break to break boundaries and like things that limit us women to do all women women women that wants to be free insects women to women women that wants to be free and work whatever I like this character it brings it brings to us
self esteem confidence and something to look at even I do when I myself Larissa nowadays I look at me as a character and I be like okay I think I can get that from Anita and be a little bit more confident about myself you know it's so much easier for people to watch a movie and see that character and be like okay and understand the actor is another thing
yeah but they don't understand that musicians singers they do the same thing we do the same thing there's no way we're bringing the on self the person that we are at home the person that we are in family and bring this person on stage it's not entertainable it's not it's not different enough for people to look and be like oh this is special who is your favorite person that you've collaborated with on a song a Snoop Dogg that is for sure because I think him and Cardi B
because they are so funny and Snoop Dogg is very like simple humble and he's like everything for him is a vibe it's all about if he likes you if he likes what you're your energy if he see he has something kind of I don't know he sees someone and he feels the energy and then he decides if he likes or not I feel I think so that's what I think from him because I just feel like I can hug him and be there like safe forever I think it is one of the coolest guys
and Cardi B should just funny but good energy like best energy like high level I love that I was reading the list I'm like for all miss y'all yet Snoop Dogg Rita or a Cardi B so we needy Becky G I'm like back is one of my best friends miss y'all it was great energy too it was so good so good okay Anita you're also known for your dancing okay the Anita challenge went viral on TikTok which I remember just watching these videos and being like one of how is this not getting censored on TikTok
I can't even like fucking curse in my TikToks meanwhile people are like doing the challenge and like it's incredible watching it can you explain how twerking in Brazil is different than twerking in America because it's not even only twerking it's party in general I think here in America people in the parties they're more concerned about hold it with where to going what they're wearing and you know it's like the table situation
in Brazil there's no table situation you go to the party there's no table everyone is just one place mess together find out you know and we love dancing we love dancing sometimes we don't even understand whether you're singing
we just want to dance sometimes it's just the same lyrics over and over they just sing a different melody just same words always and we love it we just want to dance we just want to listen and dance what is it like being known for like the way that you dance though are you like so proud of yourself
it's crazy because in Brazil it started this fever of like oh we're gonna do Anita moves and Anita moves okay now we need you to twerk okay okay so this is gonna be iconic I think people will fucking love it is this the wrong surface oh my god okay okay so do you want music we've music you know it doesn't need to okay so you just go like to get into a pressure right okay and then you just do a third coat that's basically moving in with your feet
okay you're falling yes you know what wait that must be a lot of upper body you doing this Anita oh my god I could only dream no but your your the one is hard though when you do like when you do a circle but you stop in the middle so easy was I feel so crazy I love it
I'm like inspired now to go home and like secretly practice it but like not letting anyone know I'm practicing it but like I will be working on it next time I see you maybe I'll have a little bit of doubt and do you incorporate these into your sex no no it's not dance when the guy asks me to dance
I go like dance first he's never gonna fucking dance so I'm like what the fucking question is that wait you're like I'm not I'm not performing like exactly I get silly it's so when I'm like dance first you you dance I dance this episode is brought to you by Dermoologica Daddy
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and not looking for anything and so happy with myself and I don't have sex in months so many months I don't even remember the last time I have sex to be honest with you are you just masturbating no listen I didn't find anyone special enough that I would think like okay this one deserves to come here and I didn't find it yet you're spending time alone but I was crazy before I used to like fuck even like
when the person that we cross me on a street I'll be like you come here stop I would be like that how did you get that confidence just like go up to people because I was living Anita 24 seven of the time do you have a type of guy no girl breathing in the live I don't know there's something inside that comes and this something for some reason I can feel it and then I'm like so there's no type I can literally show you three different acts by friends and you'll be like what's the
sense between these people I love that what do you think is like something that you're most attracted to in a person I think we're there when they are funny I love when they're funny you make me laugh like love it and when they are confident little aggressive but in a good way I like when they are aggressive in a good way not like abusive relation have you found yourself in any like abusive relations oh yeah terrible but
I needed just once and then never again like in two months after this one guy ahead like for a year and something well I can look if I'm starting with someone in one month I can feel it's abusive and I'm like out can you try to give like if people are listening they're like like I think I may be in one like do you have any like signs or things to look for yeah because in the beginning they let you feel very comfortable
you know and then they start to make you feel insecure about yourself without saying they don't say you are less or not you know yeah they just make they point it's like they point things in other people that they are actually talking about you but they pretend they're not and then oh honey I'm
almost a psychologist like I look and I'm like hmm okay and then I start bringing shit over for themselves to think so you mean like they'll point something out in someone in a room yeah sure relate to you or is like what you don't have or or or just say like you see that's so
nagging my god kind of like to guide you how to not be are you usually the one breaking up with people or they yeah oh yeah I need that to change though I think that's why I'm waiting so much I want things to be different got it what is like a deal breaker for you in a relationship when I feel
when I feel suffocated I don't like that or when I think when I feel suffocated is the number one thing like when the guy doesn't let you breathe and like jealousy for no reason you know like to come on or needy like I'm easy I want to talk to you like 24 seven come on give me a break give me
a time to breathe right there's nothing more like unattractive which I get it we're all insecure but being a relationship with someone that's so insecure about you in the relationship it's like such a turn off you're like can you just like get into therapy muster the courage when the
guy is trying his selfish he tries to say he's doing things for you but he's actually doing for him he doesn't want to be alone he is needy he doesn't want to stand with himself alone but he says that oh no I'm doing this for you come on you're not I want to be fucking alone yet for for
a little time can you give advice to women listening that are like okay wait Anita you have not been with someone you're not hooking up with people like how are you so comfortable being alone so everything started and I hope people don't need that to change lives when I got sick that was
like when I wasn't bad thinking was gonna die I started to look over all the things with my life and I started to see all the things that I didn't want to repeat again it's not that I don't want to have sex with people anywhere please God I'm down I'm open I'm free tonight I'm just saying
that I'm rethinking the reason why I used to do things and how I was doing things and I want to do differently I don't want to have sex with a guy because I want him to fall in love for me or because I don't want to lose him I want to have sex because I feel like doing it because I
feel like this guy deserves my the queen going to you know I don't know and before I didn't used to like staying by myself hmm I used to just like need friends every time in my house friends every time I need a people yeah and now I don't need no but I can be alone like this for days
you know I'll cook my own food and be like life is beautiful I'm just you're chilling and I feel like we need to ask ourselves why are we scared of the silence what is inside of us that we don't want to listen to you know what what we don't like about ourselves that we don't want to
face it I'm not saying I regret the thousands of people I fucked I'm just saying right now I don't feel like maybe next month I feel like fucking thousands of people again just now I just feel like not right now I remember I went through almost this is I've never said this I almost went an
entire year in my 20s where I did not have sex and I was like totally happy oh I'm so happy like it was like just like a reclaiming moment for myself of like I need to just figure my own shit out and I don't need any penis getting in the vicinity of me while I try to I kind of want
but it needs to be a great penis it needs to be a penis plus a brain plus a tongue plus so many things you know it needs to be like a mix because it's a lot of work to have sex for me it's a lot of work I like to put a show on oh you do can you give us some tips Anita like if the girls are like
what do you mean put a show on like give us some tips like what do I like to enjoy myself I like to feel like I'm like dancing and performing is it a deal breaker for you if a guy is not good at it like eating you out I teach I love you I would teach I would say come on let me say something do
this do that and I don't like when they go like this like they put the tongue very um hard and they go like and it's like you go like it's like a little like slithering and you're like it's so bad I was this day these days oh by the way I didn't have sex with guys this whole time with girls I
did have mm-hmm so I was teaching this friend of mine how to how to eat a pussy these days and she was like oh it's that easy and I was like yeah I came in three minutes she came in two we you were practicing on each other yeah and we're just friends yeah there was no like sexual connection oh
no I was just teaching her you just like took off your pants like here's my vagina let me teach you fuck okay like we need some tips it without taking off your pants and uh do you have any like what like one specific thing that you can adjust for the men or women
listening that could maybe just like help my god I will say first of all for girls for whatever guys girls to eat girls personally I think it's kind of different for each girl I don't know the things I like can be different from the things yep other girls like me
personally when I'm doing that with a girl I go nice and slow I do circles and then I just do up and down and I do side by side but like slow and wet and not like you're eating a pasta is just like you are in an ice cream that it's cold and you cannot freeze your tongue if you go
la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la you're gonna freeze your tongue you're gonna feel like ice cold and um yeah I just go nice and slow and then I put a finger on it and I don't put the finger on it like no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no know you know I just but it like nice and slow small movement movements and like just smooth you know and and then And like I don't go in the crazy side by side. I like, I just go in this move. Keep going with the flow.
You know, and the girl is kind of gonna guide you. And then you can just put the finger in the beginning of the entry of the vagina. You don't need to go all the way down there. And it's not because the woman squirt that she came, there was this time this guy made me squirt like 20 times. And I was not coming. I was like, this doesn't mean something's happening. It's men that are obsessed with getting a woman to squirt. Let me look at me in the eyes of this camera. Stop. The next day it hurts.
Oh, it hurts so bad. Come on. I think sometimes men forget like, would you want us like jackhammering your dick? No, you like when it's like very wet. And like, you don't need it to be like, let's fucking go. Imagine we did that also dry. You would have rug burn, same for us. Okay, same for us. There is also like with guys, what I do, I'm gonna try to give an example.
I always use oil when I can when the guy is not full of like, some guys are like, oh, you're using, I love using lubricant, love it. And some guys think it's because they're not doing a good job. Shed the fuck up. It's just more pleasing. Yes, you use lubricant. I put the lubricant. I'm gonna teach you when you spot it. Okay, here we go. I put the lubricant and then I go like this. First of all, I go like this. And then this is one movement. And then you're gonna do something.
There's something you can do that. They are not gonna understand what you're doing. You could tell him to close his eyes. You're gonna do this. You're gonna hold here in the bottom and you're gonna do this. With the hands like this, you go down and circle, down and circle, down and circle. And then you go up and down, up and you do this, but up and down, up and down. And you do this. Don't, don't, don't. He's gonna be like, what is happening? But you should put lubricant on it.
But you go like this, don't do this. It's like, go up and down. Don't let it go. Just open up and down and you do this. Open and close, open and close. It was then you're gonna switch the pressure on it. And you're gonna be like, what is she doing though? Well, you gotta put lubricant on it. Right, so you're kind of like massaging down past their tip and then around their shaft while you're holding the base. Yeah, like this. Oh, that's magical. And then they get super confused.
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They're gonna feel like you don't have teeth. And just on the bottom. Because it's gonna touch the, yeah, because it's on up too, it's gonna look weird. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But if you've used only on the bottom, they're gonna feel like, you don't have teeth, cause you can touch as much as you want with this teeth here, cause it's not like aggressive. It's like smooth as the plastic. This is an educational podcast today. Okay, we are educating that. But this is bad. They don't like it.
Like the brand of the dantists, they, they will try to kill me. They're gonna say I'm built bullshit, cause I try to say that in Brazil. Wow, they all, they wanted to kill me. We, I feel like they would love it. Your, the sales are gonna rock kill me. No, no, no, that's not the purpose. This is health for people to take care of this. While you're sucking dick, you're also aligning your teeth. You're, you're, but people don't want to know about that. They don't do blow jobs.
They just were born from pure, sans spirit that came and this old guy, well, everyone is virgin. Today, I am, I am claiming that this is a great technique. And you can be fixing your teeth while sucking dick. Nothing better. I wouldn't say that. I'm not a dentist. I'm just saying, if you want to try, you try. If no, it's okay. Totally. If you already have one, pop it in. See how dentists hate me because they said that in Brazil. They hate dentists. They do.
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Have you ever been cheated on? Once when I was 19, 18. So how did you find out? Oh my god, online. A fan, a fan told me. No. Oh, but twice. I was twice. Once was a fan told me, second one, I pretended it was a fan because I actually dreamed about it. I dreamed about a lot of things that actually happened. So there was this one time I went to sleep. This boy, I landed my car to him. He didn't have a car. I landed my car to him. I was already a singer. I was performing somewhere else.
He went to the place. And when I went to sleep, I literally went to, like in my dream, I went to the club he was. I saw him kissing the girl. He was wearing blah blah blah blah blah. The girl was wearing ta-da-da-da. And it was so clear to me. And I know I have these type of dreams. So I didn't tell him I dreamed. I said, hi. A fan took a picture and sent me. You were with this girl. You were wearing blah blah blah. He was wearing blah blah blah.
And then he was desperate and saying, yeah, I'm sorry. I love love love. After months, I told him I dreamed it. Have you ever got caught cheating? No. I'm so smart. I am so smart. How do you feel about sex on the first date? I don't care. Yeah. If I feel like I do, you just be yourself. And if he likes you amazing, if he does, and it's because he's an asshole. And not that he's an asshole, it doesn't match you.
And you just want him because of you think you need to have for something, but you don't. I love that advice. It's like, if you're good with yourself, who gives a fuck? If they, if you don't care. It doesn't matter. There was this one time. This one guy I went on a date after it didn't up, it ended up not happening anymore. I was like, he doesn't want me, blah, blah, blah. And then after two weeks, when I was like, better with my therapy on the on point.
And I was like, what the fuck I was doing with that guy? He has, he makes snow, so he kisses terribly. His kiss, I was like, where the fuck did this guy learn to kiss? It was like, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, it was the terrible kiss. The sex would be even worse. Why I was carrying so much. It was just our fear of being rejected. It has nothing to do with the guy. We don't even care about the fucking guy. So true.
It has nothing to do with the fucking person. The person sometimes is shitty. And we are concerned just because we don't want to feel rejected. I also think a good bit of advice is pretend in your head. Imagine if they were obsessed with you and they wouldn't stop hitting you up, then now, assess, would you actually like them? Like if you're coming from a place of like, they don't like me, I want them to like, that's just the chase and we get a ticket.
No, and then he texted me and I was like, no, thank you. No, thank you. Like you kissed like a frog. I was like, no, today I have my mind so in point. No, thanks. Some people you just go with them because your mind is not on point, right? And then you wake up one day and it's like, I'll leave you with it. What the fuck? What I was doing with that person? You're so crazy too when you look back and you're like, I can't believe I was fucking obsessed with that guy. You fucking sucked.
Yeah, sometimes you just need to like step away from it. How do you feel about sharing nudes? I don't do that. You don't. No. It's just because you're nervous because like you're celebrity. Before yes, nowadays I just think it's new. I think it's more sexy when you're wearing like panties or something that is almost showing but it doesn't show. I think it's more sexy. You play some more with the imagination to be honest. I love that. We're like having a hand on it, you know? It's more.
Even a picture of a dick. It's not beautiful. Come on. Getting a picture of a dick. Let's be honest. It's not great. It's not great. You're like, oh there it is. And you see that guy naked like it's not hot. That's not hot. What are you responding if a guy sends you a dick pic? I'd be like, I sent an emoji or something. I don't know. I'm like, that's not it. I don't know. I don't feel anything with that. What emoji? Um, the ice. You know these two eyes that look like. That's it.
It kind of doesn't say anything. It's just not to leave the guy in the red. I kind of love it though because then it could make him a little insecure of like, we hello and you're like, that's what we got. That's what we got. Do you like sexting? Sex what? Sexing. Like texting. Sexing. No. No. No. All these things for me are just not. I like the real thing. Come on. Come here. Come here. Let's. Yes. I like the little horny talk. Uh huh.
But not the sex like, I'm going to put my dick put in your pussy and bang it 20 times. I don't like that. I like the little horny thing. You know what intimidates you in the bedroom. What intimidates me a huge insanely huge dick trying to put it on my ass. That's very intimidating. When the dick is like huge. So scary. And it's trying to go in your butt hall. It's kind of not good. Because you're so scared. This one guy saw, I was like, okay, I think I'm going to try here.
And then his dick was so big, so big. And I was like, listen, I'm scared. And then he said, why? And then he said, this is something I don't think I can handle it right now. At this moment of my life, I cannot handle it as I think. Check back with me in a couple months. And then we just talked and cuddled and it was it. Have you ever had a threesome? Oh, so many times. Do you enjoy them? I do. I think it's cool. I like it. I think it's more. But you have to be very aligned with everyone.
You know? I have threesome, four, six, six, six, I had a boyfriend that used to like switch couples and all. Do you like the swapping thing? Yeah. Did you like it? Yeah. He was very comfortable and the people, he always let me pick. And it was just fun. It was very cool and respectful and fun. Did you ever get jealous? Oh, no. No. I'm jealous. I'm jealous. If I don't feel respected, I'm very, I get not even jealous. I get angry.
I think that people that want to potentially do three sums or four sums or orgies or whatever. Like I think you need to know yourself before you do that. If you're a jealous person, don't fucking do that. Know yourself. Sometimes people I think do it for their partner. And it's like, if you know your relationship, don't do it just because you think he or she wants to do it. Yeah, that's a big issue to be honest. I don't. Yeah, I think it needs to be very friends with your partner to make sure.
He also, there is this one time and three sums also with guys, but he wouldn't be with a guy just me. And he was super comfortable with that. He picked it and it was cool. I liked it, to be honest. But he let me feel, feel free with that. Do you like to use toys in the bathroom? I do. The guy got to be confident though. I know. But I do. Me too. And that's why I did my line of perfume.
When I did that, it was more about like, I was doing concerts and obviously I'm performing for like two hours and carnival is like four hours performing on stop, even seven hours I've done. And when you finish, you don't smell good, so let's just have a real talk. A butt hole smells like butt hole. If you go any end of the day, you put your finger in the butt hole and you smell it. It smells like butt hole. It's a place there is there inside locked in the dark, warm, hot, doing this.
The whole date. This is going to sweat. It's like under your arms. There's no way you're going to sweat. You're going to smell. It's there inside of your whole clothes. So I was like, I don't like, I'm obsessed with smell, right? I was like, I don't like smelling like sweat in my butt hole. And then a friend of mine told me, oh, I'm going to do something for you. And she did this perfume. And I used it. And I was like, I was smelling great even if I went to the soda dessert.
And I did a music video there. It was like 42 degrees Celsius. And it was so hot. I was wearing like a jumpsuit of plastic. I was sweating like crazy. And I was still smelling good. I was like, you know what? I'm going to make this like professional. And then I did it. And you just smell amazing. You're pussy in your butt hole. Smell great the whole time. And then I give it to the guys that I'm with. And they put in their balls and the dick and the butt stool. They smell great.
For me, it's such a like, a ton on. I love it. After I got this product, something I always done was like, forget, oh my god, my accident, my panties at the place. They smell so good. And smells insanely good, like strawberry or whatever, cotton candy. And this guy obviously when you leave guys, pay attention. He will smell the panties. He will smell the panties. He wants to know. And then he will smell the part that your butt hole is on it. And it's not going to smell like butt hole.
And it's just having. They always come back. Anita, you're giving us everything we need today. Okay. There's so few people that you can just like have an open conversation like this. Talk about your sexuality, your sex life. What do you want people to know about you as an artist and an individual if they're watching today and they're like new fans? Like, what would you want to say? I would say definitely what I said here. Like, I think I'm an artist that fights against hypocrisy, you know?
That's the artist I like to be. You know, everything, not only sex, but I bring up subjects, which is like talk about my plastic surgeries, talk about sex, talk about poop, talk about things that we all do. And for some reason, we live our lives pretending we don't. You know? And I don't understand what's the type of insecurities or I don't know that make people live in this fake world that just pretend life is just 24, 7 glam.
Knowing more about you now and knowing how hands-on you are with your craft, like you are running the show, you're your own manager, you do everything. I really respect you and I cannot wait to see what you do next and I can't wait for the new album and all of it. You deserve all of it. So thank you so much for coming on. Thank you. I loved it. I felt really at home. I hope people like it and I loved meeting you. You have great energy. You do too. I love you.