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By the Bi

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By the Bi is a podcast for curious minds and open hearts—whether you’re bi, non-monogamous, kinky, or just wondering what it’s like to step outside the hetero-norm. Hosted by a bisexual expat couple, Bradford and Angela, based in Sydney, we dive into real conversations about bisexuality, swinging, open relationships, BDSM, and the messy, beautiful realities of non-traditional love and sex.

Every episode blends personal stories with thoughtful discussions, listener questions, interviews with guests from around the globe, and the occasional cocktail-fuelled confession. We don’t have all the answers—but we’re not afraid to ask the questions your vanilla friends won’t touch. Whether you’re exploring your own sexuality, seeking practical advice, or just want to feel seen, By the Bi offers a welcoming, inclusive space for everyone across the spectrum. So pull up a seat, pour yourself something tasty, and let’s talk about the things no one else will. Oh, and by the bi… we’re damn glad you’re here.

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Episodes

403 - Destigmatizing STIs

This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford tackle a topic that’s often shrouded in silence and stigma: sexually transmitted infections (STIs). In this powerful episode, we delve into the realities and misconceptions surrounding STIs, aiming to foster a more understanding and informed conversation. Join us as we discuss the importance of education in STI management. We’ll also share personal stories of the social and emotional aspects of an STI diagnosis, offering insights on coping with stigma ...

Apr 17, 202452 min

402 - Double Header Weekend

This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford dive into the exhilarating world of the classic swingers’ double header weekend, sharing their steamy tales from back-to-back nights at the swingers club, Our Secret Spot. From the electric atmosphere of Friday’s Newbie night to the heightened anticipation and wild abandon of Saturday’s 10th Birthday Party, they’ll give you an all-access pass to the thrills, spills, and intimate connections that define such an adventurous weekend. But the escapades don...

Apr 03, 20241 hr 13 min

401 - Newbies Again!

Dive into a night of discovery and excitement with us on By the Bi, as Angela, Bradford, and a very special guest, Jen, embark on an unforgettable journey to Our Secret Spot for a “Newbie’s Night.” Jen, who has never stepped foot in a swingers club before, offers a fresh and exhilarating perspective on the anticipation, nerves, and thrills that come with exploring the unknown. Join us as we navigate the sights, sounds, and sensual surprises of the club, from the initial apprehension at the door ...

Mar 20, 20241 hr 7 min

400 - The Journey

🎉 Welcome to the monumental 400th episode of By the Bi! 🎉 Angela and Bradford are here to take you on a spectacular journey through the milestones, memories, and magical moments that have defined our podcast. In this landmark celebration, we dive into the essence of discovery, connection, and the boundless conversations that have ignited curiosity and sparked joy in our community. But that’s not all — we’re also setting the stage for the future. Get exclusive insights into what’s next for By t...

Mar 06, 20241 hr 16 min

399.5 - Back to the Start

Just when anticipation for Episode 400 reached its peak, we’re taking a momentous step back… to where it all began. In this special interlude episode, Angela and Bradford invite you on a nostalgic journey back to the origins of By the Bi, re-releasing our very first and our 31st episodes. It’s a unique opportunity to see how far we’ve come, revisiting the conversations, laughter, and insights that set the stage for everything that followed. We apologize for the edging, but we are certain that th...

Feb 28, 20241 hr 24 min

399 - PornHub Facts 2023

Join Angela, Bradford, and guests, Coby & Judy, this week on By the Bi for a deep dive into the intriguing world of Pornhub in 2023. Together, we’ll uncover the platform’s most surprising facts, from the year’s top searches to unexpected user trends, revealing what these statistics illuminate about contemporary desires and the shifting dynamics of adult entertainment. This candid discussion goes beyond mere numbers, exploring the broader implications of Pornhub’s data on sexuality, relations...

Feb 21, 202458 min

398 - Polyamory Logistics

Dive deep into the heart of polyamory with us on this engaging episode of By the Bi. Join Angela, Bradford, and their dear friends Coby and Judy as they unravel the complexities and joys of living a polyamorous life. From managing schedules to navigating emotions, this conversation shines a light on the logistics behind loving more than one person. Together, we explore the practicalities and challenges of polyamory, share personal experiences, and offer insights into making multiple relationship...

Feb 14, 20241 hr 20 min

397 - Performance Anxiety & ED

In this episode of By the Bi, Angela and Bradford tackle the sensitive yet significant topics of erectile dysfunction (ED) and performance anxiety. Join us as we delve into the complexities of these experiences, shedding light on their causes, impacts, and the journeys of those navigating through them. With compassion and understanding, we explore how these issues affect intimacy, self-esteem, and relationships. Our discussion includes expert insights, personal stories, and practical strategies ...

Feb 07, 202448 min

396 - Live Xcape

Take a sonic journey with us in this special live episode of By the Bi, recorded directly from the sultry and sensational Xcape to the Tropics last November! Angela and Bradford bring the vibrant energy, exotic atmosphere, and unforgettable experiences of this unique event right to your ears. Immerse yourself in the live ambiance as we share tales of sexy tropical adventures, intriguing encounters, and the spontaneous magic that only a setting like this can provide. From candid interviews with f...

Jan 31, 202456 min

395 - Two Winners and a Mangler

This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford are taking a deep thrust into the world of male pleasure with an up-close and personal review of three popular male masturbators. Join us as we explore the ins and outs of these products, giving you our honest opinions and insights. From the sleek and high-tech to the surprisingly simple yet effective, we’ve tested them and are ready to share our findings. We’ll discuss everything from design and usability to the sensations each one offers, and whether...

Jan 24, 202440 min

394 - Inflatable Play

Look at me I’m a Pool Toy!!! Get ready to puff up your podcast playlist with this squeaky episode of By the Bi! Join Angela and Bradford as they share their bouncy and buoyant escapades in the world of inflatable suits. From the sensation of slipping into these larger-than-life outfits to the playful and unexpected interactions they bring, we’re not inflating the details of our experiences both in and with these whimsical wonders. We explore the allure of inflatable suits in both a fun and kink ...

Jan 17, 202450 min

393 - Interview with Robert Brooks Cohen, Bisexual Married Men

In this insightful episode of By the Bi, join Angela and Bradford as they sit down with renowned podcaster & author, Robert Brooks Cohen, to delve into his latest work, “Bisexual Married Men: Stories of Relationships, Acceptance, and Authenticity.” Cohen brings to light the often underrepresented narratives of bisexual married men, exploring the complexities of their experiences, relationships, and journeys towards self-acceptance. Together, we unpack the themes of his groundbreaking book, d...

Jan 10, 202456 min

392 - Happy New Year 2024

As the year turns, join Angela and Bradford on this special episode of By the Bi for a reflective journey through 2023 and an exciting gaze into 2024. We're taking a stroll down memory lane, revisiting the most impactful moments in our sexuality and relationships from the past year. What changed, what challenged us, and what delighted us in 2023? Then, we cast our eyes forward, speculating on the emerging year, potential opportunities, and exciting possibilities that 2024 holds for our world of ...

Jan 03, 202431 min

391 - World Records Part 3

Continuing on from our previous two episodes we dive into more bizarre and amazing records in sex and the human condition. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here ! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See a...

Dec 27, 20231 hr 14 min

Christmas Special 2023

Happy holidays you beautiful humans!!! This year we have a small gift for you. A song written by one of our amazing Discord peeps and a sexy story written by… one of our Discord peeps! Get away from the craziness of Christmas, tuck yourself into a corner for a bit, and have a bit of fun with us. Merry Christmas to all and to all a stay sexy! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook ...

Dec 24, 202317 min

390 - World Records Part 2

Continuing on from last week’s episode we dive into more bizarre and amazing records in sex and the human condition. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here ! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.c...

Dec 13, 20231 hr 4 min

389 - World Records Part 1

Step into a world where the extraordinary meets the erotic in the first installment of our captivating series on By the Bi. Angela and Bradford embark on an eye-opening journey through the Guinness World Records, spotlighting the most breathtaking and unusual records in love, lust, and human intimacy. From marathon kissing sessions to astonishing feats of romantic endurance, we highlight the stories and the people behind these record-setting moments. As we unveil the extremes of passion and conn...

Dec 06, 20231 hr 2 min

388 - Holiday Gifts for All Budgets

Ho-ho-hold onto your hats, because Angela and Bradford are unwrapping a sack of saucy Christmas gift ideas on this holly-jolly episode of By the Bi! From ‘naughty-list’ luxuries to ‘budget-friendly baubles,’ we’ve got a sleigh-full of sizzling suggestions to make your season sparkle with seduction. Whether you’re spending like Santa or pinching pennies like Scrooge, join us as we jingle all the way through the best naughty and nice treats that won’t leave your wallet frosty. It’s time to turn up...

Nov 29, 202353 min

387 - Fun in Life & Swinging

In this week’s quirky yet enlightening episode of By the Bi, Angela draws an unexpected comparison between swinging and… dog training? Yes, you heard that right! Tune in as Bradford attempts to untangle this surprising analogy while they both dive into a discussion filled with humor, bewilderment, and perhaps a few ‘aha!’ moments. It’s a conversation about fun, the nuances of communication, and the unexpected lessons we can learn from our furry friends. Don’t miss this unique blend of laughter a...

Nov 22, 202345 min

386 - Xcape to the Tropics 2023

Join us, Angela and Bradford, on By the Bi for an exclusive and exhilarating recount of our latest escapade: Xcape to the Tropics! In this episode, we invite you to live vicariously through our experiences in this sultry, sun-kissed paradise. From spontaneous connections to unforgettable moments, we reveal the steamy, thrilling, and often enlightening encounters that made our journey extraordinary. We’ll share the highlights, the surprises, and the transformative experiences that only a place li...

Nov 15, 20231 hr 22 min

385 - Orgasms

Dive beneath the sheets and journey into the pulsating heart of pleasure in this tantalizing episode of By the Bi. Angela and Bradford peel back the layers of the elusive orgasm, revealing its intricate dance of physiology and psychology. Discover the seductive secrets of the body's peaks, and the whispers of the mind that heighten every sensation. Unleash your curiosity and let us guide you through the myriad paths that lead to the ultimate crescendo. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us...

Nov 01, 202351 min

384 - Freddys Revenge Halloween Sequel

Step back into the chilling corridors of horror with us as we revisit one of our most electrifying episodes on By the Bi! Delve into the horror genre’s significance to the queer community, with a spotlight on “A Nightmare on Elm Street 2: Freddy’s Revenge.” Recognized as a pioneering slasher film featuring a male lead, it’s brimming with layers of gay subtext and hints of BDSM. Plus, we’ll be re-sharing the top Halloween horror picks from our loyal Discord community. Whether you missed it the fi...

Oct 25, 202351 min

383 - Sexy Travel Checklist

Ready to turn up the heat on your next getaway? Dive into this tantalizing episode of By the Bi, where Angela and Bradford reveal their ultimate sexy vacation checklist. Whether you’re headed for a tropical retreat or a cozy cabin, we’ve got sizzling suggestions to ensure your trip is as sensual as it is scenic. From irresistible lingerie to adventurous experiences, learn how to pack passion alongside your passport. Hit play and embark on the most enticing journey yet with By the Bi! For more te...

Oct 18, 202359 min

382 - Sexy Anniversary Gifts

Celebrate love and passion in a whole new way! Join Angela and Bradford on this episode of By the Bi, as they delve into the world of sexy and sensual anniversary gifts. Whether it’s your first year together or you’re decades deep, we’ve got titillating gift ideas to rekindle the flame and mark the milestone. From silk ties to intimate experiences, discover unique ways to say “I love you” with a sensual twist. Tune in and transform your anniversaries into memorable, passion-filled celebrations! ...

Oct 11, 202345 min

381 - Satire - Do Not Try This At Home

Join Bradford and Angela on By the Bi as they humorously dissect the common missteps in the swinging world. Delving into uproarious advice, this episode highlights everything from the uselessness of communication to giving people unsolicited advice on their appearances. While wrapped in satire, our insights underscore the importance of genuine communication and respect within the swinger community. Eager for more comedic takes on the swinger lifestyle? Dive in, relish the humor, and remember to ...

Oct 04, 202349 min

380 - Compersion

Ever heard of compersion? Curious about how it could reshape relationships? Buckle up, listeners! Bradford and Angela are set to dive headfirst into this intriguing emotion. We’ll break down the essence of compersion, exploring its roots and how it challenges traditional notions of love and envy. Is it really the “antidote” to jealousy, or is there more beneath the surface? Bradford and Angela share candid, heartfelt stories from their own journeys, offering a raw, inside look at navigating comp...

Sep 27, 202358 min

379 - Gay Sauna: The Board Game

Are you ready for a board game experience like no other? Dive deep with us as we unpack the hottest game on the block: “Gay Sauna The Board Game”. We’ll spend the first half dissecting its innovative gameplay, delving into its captivating design, and sharing our firsthand impressions. Does it live up to the buzz? We’ve got opinions! Then, buckle up for the second half, where things get even steamier. We’re rolling out hilarious excerpts from our steamy gameplay sessions with dear friends Coby an...

Sep 20, 202344 min

378 - The Bonding Project Part 2

Welcome back to part two of our adventure into The Bonding Project. Journey with us as we delve into “The Bonding Project,” an initiative designed to explore, strengthen, and celebrate the myriad ways we connect with one another. This episode promises to offer listeners a profound insight into the layers of human connection, whether it be romantic, platonic, or something entirely undefined. The Bonding Project is more than just a concept; it’s a movement that challenges us to think about our rel...

Sep 13, 202350 min

377 - Bonding Project Part 1

Journey with us as we delve into “The Bonding Project,” an initiative designed to explore, strengthen, and celebrate the myriad ways we connect with one another. This episode promises to offer listeners a profound insight into the layers of human connection, whether it be romantic, platonic, or something entirely undefined. The Bonding Project is more than just a concept; it’s a movement that challenges us to think about our relationships in new and transformative ways. What does it mean to trul...

Sep 06, 202347 min

376 - Pendulum XXX

Dive into the sensuous depths of By the Bi, as Bradford and Angela unravel the steamy details of their recent Pendulum Party. This episode beckons you into the enticing world of pleasure, where the swing of the pendulum can lead to unexpected and thrilling encounters. The weekend was a whirlwind of sensation, a testament to passion and connection. From the tantalizing allure of the party itself, with its electrifying atmosphere and the promise of new experiences, to the intimate moments shared b...

Aug 30, 202347 min
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