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By the Bi

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By the Bi is a podcast for curious minds and open hearts—whether you’re bi, non-monogamous, kinky, or just wondering what it’s like to step outside the hetero-norm. Hosted by a bisexual expat couple, Bradford and Angela, based in Sydney, we dive into real conversations about bisexuality, swinging, open relationships, BDSM, and the messy, beautiful realities of non-traditional love and sex.

Every episode blends personal stories with thoughtful discussions, listener questions, interviews with guests from around the globe, and the occasional cocktail-fuelled confession. We don’t have all the answers—but we’re not afraid to ask the questions your vanilla friends won’t touch. Whether you’re exploring your own sexuality, seeking practical advice, or just want to feel seen, By the Bi offers a welcoming, inclusive space for everyone across the spectrum. So pull up a seat, pour yourself something tasty, and let’s talk about the things no one else will. Oh, and by the bi… we’re damn glad you’re here.

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Episodes

197 - Dragon Night, Jane Untamed & X Awards

This week we interview Dragon Night, an Australian model and actor, who won Best Male Escort at the xAwards. Then we sit down with Jane Untamed and Jett Black to discuss the xAwards 2019 and what is in store for the xAwards 2020. To find those we talk with on social medias look here: Dragon Night: On Facebook: @Dragon13night On Instagram: @Dragon13night1313 The xAwards: xAwards.com.au On Facebook, Instagram, & Twitter: @Xawardsau Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want t...

Feb 26, 20201 hr 18 min

196 - Sexcapades VII

We’ve done it again! We go through all of our recent sexcapades over the last few weeks. Listen to stories of solo play, MMF threesomes, and group antics. One highlight is a partner who attempts to make Angela is verbal sub... Does he survive?!? This and more in this weeks episode! Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook Bythe...

Feb 19, 20201 hr 1 min

195 - Interviews w Sweet Release & Empire Industry Finance

This week we interview the lovely folks from Empire Industry and Sweet Release. Wanna learn more about the sex industry??? This is your place. Mentioned in this podcast: Instagram: empire_industry Web: www.empireindustryfinance.com.au FB: Sweetreleaseagency Insta & Twitter: Sweetreleaseau Web: www.sweetrelease.agency ————————————- Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social...

Feb 12, 202058 min

194 - Another Urban Dicktionary

This week we return to the bowels of the internet itself... urban dictionary. We are joined by The Gentleman so we at least have that! Stay to the end and help The Gentleman get his entry approved and upvoted. Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Wanna get your ow...

Feb 05, 202056 min

193 - Alabama Emails, Olympic Beds, & Stunning Daliah Amor

This week we read a listener email... FROM ALABAMA!!! We discuss who the true olympians will be in Tokyo. And we talk to fellow X Award winner and all around amazing human, Daliah Amor. All of the awesome stuffs that we discuss in the podcast are here! Wild for Wildlife — Only Fans Find Daliah Amor on Twitter: @daliah_amor @mistress_amor @Amorproduction Instagram: @Little_miss_amor @amor_productions Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help ...

Jan 29, 202052 min

192 - Who wants social sex? & How we learned to hate the US Sex Education System

Due to technical difficulties, we are a bit late this week - this is what happens when a computer dies. #SadFace This week we review a beautiful email that was sent to us by a listener. Then we discuss yoga... yeah I know. But look I mock people who do yoga... not actually yoga. (And we are persons who do yoga.) Lastly, we dive into the meat of the podcast... understanding the desires for social sex and, ultimately, sex education in the USA. It's bleak. Very bleak. Sit back, relax, and as always...

Jan 23, 20201 hr 2 min

191 - Swingset Takes Desire 2019 Review

HELLLLLLOOOOOO!!!!! This week we sit down with The Gentleman and FINALLY discuss and review our experiences at The Swingset Takes Desire 2019. We discuss Theme Nights, sexy times, wonderful people, relaxation, and why you should never leave your sexy accent at home! EVERYTHING involved with a take over at Desire Riviera Maya. Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!!...

Jan 14, 20201 hr 4 min

190 - A Look Back at 2019 & Forward to 2020

Welcome back and HAPPY NEW YEAR! In this episode, we discuss 2019 and some of our favorite moments and events of the year. We also take some time to look forward to our sexy wants and hopes for 2020. Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Wanna get your own prize fr...

Jan 08, 202053 min

189 - A Holiday Break

Well folks, we are taking a short 2 week break from the podcast for our Christmas and New Years holiday. Catch you in 2020!!!! Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Wanna get your own prize from Geeky Sex Toys? Head over here ! Please help out, and donate to Bi+ Vi...

Dec 24, 20192 min

188 - Swingset Desire Chats

This week we take you back to Desire and play a bit of Podcast Orgy. We have the crew from Life on the SwingSet and The Bed Hoppers UK sit and chat with us about all things silly and sexy. Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Wanna get your own prize from Geeky Se...

Dec 17, 201938 min

187 - Grand Opening - Our Secret Spot Annandale

This week we discuss the grand opening party at Our Secret Spot Annandale. We talk about the night and how much fun we had! We end the podcast with an a amazing email from one of our listeners and we discuss it. This was an email that meant so very much to us and we just had to share. Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook By...

Dec 10, 201950 min

186 - Another Our Secret Spot? Yes!

This week we are so very excited to be joined by Lawrence and Jess of Our Secret Spot as they take us on a walk through of their newest venue, Our Secret Spot Annandale. it was such an honor to be given a behind the scenes look as the club was being developed. Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram...

Dec 03, 201958 min

185 - Sharing pics...And highlights from Desire

In this two part episode we start with a question we oft get about sharing pictures on line... the shortened version of the question is... should I do it? In the second half we take you back to our last morning at Desire and the Life on the Swingset takeover. We were fortunate enough to sit in a circle with our dear friends The Bed Hoppers and The Gentleman and reminisce about the week we had just enjoyed. Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!...

Nov 26, 20191 hr 7 min

184 - Revisiting the Rabbit Hole

Welcome back fair listener. This week we discuss a recent trip to The Rabbit Hole for their second Rainbow Party. Sexy, sexy, sexy it was!!! We also answer a listener's question about opening up to a longtime partner about their sexuality. Not an easy subject, and spoiler alert... no definite answer. Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcas...

Nov 19, 201955 min

183 - 5 Languages of Love Revisited

Its a revisit blast from the past friends. This one is episode #28. Howdy folks! You’ve heard us talk about communication and the importance of communication with our partners (both inside of and outside of our primary relationships). This episode we talk a bit about loooooooove and how the two of us discuss and accept love. Focusing specifically on the 5 Love Languages. Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join ou...

Nov 13, 201952 min

182 - What's My Kink

This week we are so late... again #DesireTime (Apologies again for the delay! The internet isn’t consistent here!!!) This week we talk about discovering your kink. We invite The Gentleman back on to take a test from BDSMtest.org (You can take it too!). Spoiler alert... The Gentleman doesn’t think he’s kinky! Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @Bythe...

Nov 06, 201957 min

181 - Scary Stats

This week we are so late it’s scary! (Apologies for the delay, we are on vacation brain!) This week we dive into all things Hallowiener and talk about scary on theme porn stats!!! Wooooo. Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Wanna get your own prize from Geeky Sex...

Oct 31, 20191 hr

180 - Desire Prep with The Gentleman

This week The Gentleman returns to discuss our upcoming trip to Desire! We know our listeners are always delighted to hear from The Gentleman and this week the three of us sit down to talk about what to expect from our trip. He is excited, nervous, sexy, and horny... and I think a little bit aroused! Enjoy as our excitement levels crank up to eleven! Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here F...

Oct 23, 201955 min

179 - The Bench of Isolation & Other Tales of Swinger Solitude

In this episode we focus on situations where due to one reason or another we find ourselves in a club with noone to play with. We talk about times where we have not been interested in others and times where we might have found ourselves on the "bench of isolation". Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Inst...

Oct 16, 20191 hr 14 min

178 - Coming Out Bisexual

Recently our dear friends over at Bed Hoppers podcast has a discussion panel on bisexuality. It was a wonderful conversation and we encourage you to go and check it out. A couple of the things discussed got us talking and we wanted to explore a few ideas further. Sooooo... here we are. Also in this episode, we had a few listener’s questions we wanted to answer. Including dealbreaker first questions -- in app, in person, etc. Also we discuss what clothes or accessories turn you on the most? And w...

Oct 08, 20191 hr 2 min

177 - Commitment & Enthusiasm (And the lack there of!)

Have you ever committed to going to a party or event and then on the night of the event you just don't have the desire, the energy, or the necessary enthusiasm to go through with it? If this is ever you... you are NOT alone. This week we talk about why we sometimes feel this way and what we do when we've committed to something that which we really don't want to go. Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Disc...

Oct 02, 20191 hr 9 min

176 - Guilt & Shame (also Pendulum XII)

This week we start with a natural progression from last weeks podcast on jealousy, envy, and FOMO by addressing guilt and shame. We discuss the differences and how we both experience the feelings. Later, we discuss Pendulum XII and the amazing, awesome, sexy fun that was. Wanna hear about a sexy human centipede...? It's in there! Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social medi...

Sep 24, 20191 hr 9 min

175 - Jealousy, Envy, FOMO, Oh My!

This week we touch back on jealousy, envy, and FOMO. We describe the difference in the three and we dissect our own experiences in feeling, managing, and mitigating these feelings. Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Wanna get your own prize from Geeky Sex Toys? ...

Sep 18, 20191 hr

174 - When Things Don't Go to Plan

Sometimes things don’t go to plan. This week we discuss a couple of times when things went just a bit awry. Even the best made plans can have a few bumps, we just have to roll with the punches. Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Wanna get your own prize from Gee...

Sep 11, 201954 min

173 - Furry and Pet Play

In this episode we talk about head space and the play space of Bradford when he is in pet mode. We go through a recent afternoon that he was collared and non-verbal... (I know right?) Listen as we discuss the mental ins and outs from both sides of the game with some interesting side effects and some amazing sex. Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @B...

Sep 03, 20191 hr 2 min

172 - Sydney Fetish Ball

This week we discuss The Sydney Fetish Ball a fantastic hell of a time that was a blast! We also talk about a recent play session with friends we made at Desire who were visiting us down under! In the battle of two subs... who was the subiest sub of them all!!! Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagra...

Aug 28, 20191 hr 1 min

171 - Urban Dictionary Best Sex Acts for Each US State, Part 2

In this episode, Bradford has once again been reluctantly roped into discussing Urban Dictionary’s "Best Sex Acts of the US States" -- But this time he is joined by The Gentleman! Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Wanna get your own prize from Geeky Sex Toys? H...

Aug 21, 20191 hr 22 min

170 - The X Awards & Sweet Release Agency

This week we introduce you to Jett Black of Sweet Release Agency and who is the mastermind behind the newest Adult Awards in Australia, The X Awards. We discuss the origins behind The X Awards, how the winners will be selected, and what the future holds for this new and coveted prize. We also discuss Sweet Release. His company that partners with adult businesses, independent sex workers, and entertainers to help them better market themselves with advertising and digital media. Sit back, relax, a...

Aug 14, 20191 hr 9 min

169 - Intro to Shibari & Swings

In this episode we discuss an intro to shibari class that we took recently at Studio Kink here in Sydney. What an amazing experience! We also discuss sex in a swing! As part of the new bed we borrowed a sex swing from Our Secret Spot and of course we had to give it a go. Is swing sex the best sex? Stay tuned!!! Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @By...

Aug 07, 201953 min

168 - Urban Dictionary Best Sex Acts for Each US State, Part 1

in this episode, Bradford has been reluctantly roped into discussing Urban Dictionary’s "Best Sex Acts of the US States" -- Southeast and Northeast... and it’s painful for him. Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Wanna get your own prize from Geeky Sex Toys? Head...

Jul 31, 20191 hr 1 min
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