This week we talk in depth about how we each feel about public displays of affection towards from earth other WITH other people. We recently went to an event where Bradford was very affectionate with another person to Angela’s exclusion and we dissect that a bit. Later, we’ve had a few listeners ask us to dive a bit more deeply into the Bicuriousity Camp. So we do! Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Disc...
Jul 23, 2019•52 min
Welcome back constant listener and new listeners alike! This week our show is All About Cock Rings!!! We have had a few folks drop us messages asking about proper use, sizing, and most importantly how to get them off! The Gentleman joins us as he had never used a cock ring. So we size one for him, get him into it, and then get him laid... then we talk about his experience! As a bonus, we answer the age old question that is on everyone's mind... "Can you unlock your iPhone with your cock?" So sit...
Jul 17, 2019•54 min
In this episode, Bradford regails us with a story from Adelaide where he went to a local ClubX and experienced their "Blue Cinema". It's quite a sticky story! We also talk about the latest Threshold Party that was recently held at Our Secret Spot, So sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiP...
Jul 09, 2019•1 hr 3 min
This past weekend we were fortunate enough to head down to Adelaide in South Australia and go to a Rainbow Party at a new adult entertainment venue cleverly called “The Rabbit Hole”. The Rainbow Party was designed to be a fun and safe place for LGBTQIA+ folks to come and get their sexy on. In this episode we’ll discuss the venue, the party, and, of course, we go into all of the dirty little details of the fun that we had there. If you are in the Adelaide area or plan to travel there soon we woul...
Jul 03, 2019•1 hr 1 min
Welcome faithful listener! This week we discuss something that we, ourselves, are trying to be better at, seizing the moment. We give a recent example of how we tried to seize on an opportunity that popped up! We continue this theme by discussing how we plan to be better with that at Desire this year, and we give an example of us deciding to watch porn on the new tv... and then have sex on the sofa. As always, thanks for listening!!! Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Want to help us out? Sur...
Jun 26, 2019•54 min
This week we talk about highlights from our recent travels with The Bed Hoppers and Naughty & Rocket. We discuss all of our memories from the trip and once again Bradford tries out his British accent. (It isn't good!) . Last we talk a bit about Pride Month and some of our recent activities around it. So get the cuffs and prepare to be held down! Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social me...
Jun 18, 2019•56 min
Hello hello! We had a bunch of listener comments and questions and thought it was time to do a Q&A podcast again. We discuss our recent podcast on Sex Positive Parenting, checking our insecurities at the door, and how sexy The Gentleman is; plus much more! Once again and by popular demand, The Gentleman is back to help us tackle some of these questions. If you have questions, comments, or rude remarks, please don’t hesitate to reach out to us! So take a breath and make sure you don’t make th...
Jun 12, 2019•1 hr
HAPPY PRIDE MONTH! Now let's talk about some bisexuality!!! Once again, in this episode, we invite The Gentleman back to talk bisexuality and swinging as we tell tales of our tenth (Yes you read that correctly!) Pendulum Party. We'll telling all of the deepest darkest secrets from Pendulum X and all of the naughty sexcapades that we had. So bite the pillow... this one might sting a bit. Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our ...
Jun 04, 2019•1 hr 5 min
At the beginning of May Angela wanted to celebrate her 40th birthday in style. So the team at Our Secret Spot organized for her to have a gang bang that finished with bukake. We invited The Gentleman back to recall the event... which was pretty spectacular. In this podcast we will describe the setup and the action, what it was like to be a participant and a spectator. We'll also give advice on how to behave if you are ever given the opportunity to participate in your own gangbang scenario. So gr...
May 28, 2019•1 hr 11 min
In this podcast we talk with Dr. Deb (Dr. Deborah Bateson) and Christy (Dr. Christy Newman) about sex positive parenting. We explore how to raise the issue of sexuality with children, starting the conversation, and sexual education in general. We discuss ways to create an open and safe home environment. A central theme is communicating on an age appropriate and child appropriate level in each family. And finally, how and when do you talk to your children about porn? Links we talk about in the po...
May 22, 2019•1 hr 13 min
In this podcast we talk with Dr. Deb (Dr. Deborah Bateson) and Christy (Dr. Christy Newman) about reproductive justice and awareness. We delve deeply into the diversity in women's health care, access to care, education, reproductive care and choices, male contraception, LARCs, and reproductive coercion. This is an extremely important episode as many of us take for granted our access to healthcare and more specifically birth control. Links we talk about in the podcast are: Queer Generations Study...
May 15, 2019•1 hr 9 min
In this episode we discuss Angela's solo return to the Bay City Sauna in Melbourne. We discuss her experiences and ultimately we dive into what she is looking for in a play partner when she is on the road and ultimately we answer the question that so so many people want, nay need, to know... How exactly DOES one pick up and hook up with Angela when she is on the road. Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here F...
May 07, 2019•58 min
In this episode we discuss some of the exploits (sexploits?) that we got up to in April. We also talk about a disconnect that we sometimes feel when we are outside of our tribes and safety zones and how it can be difficult to reintegrate yourself. Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us he...
Apr 30, 2019•57 min
A short while ago we did an episode on the economics of swinging and we were promptly sent a list of more econ terms and a challenge to apply them to the swinging lifestyle. We took up the challenge and I think we did a pretty good job! Don't believe us? Sit down and listen! We take apart a bunch more economic terms and principles and apply them to the swinging. So sit back and enjoy as we dissect Swinganomics! Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out...
Apr 23, 2019•1 hr 3 min
She’s heard Bradford’s tales of the sexy times in the saunas for 6 years. She’s grilled The Gentleman to try and get a better understanding of what a first time sauna experience is actually like. Well, this past weekend, Angela got to experience a night in a sauna for the first time herself and the result can be heard here. Listen as we tell you about our sexy experiences at Bay City Sauna in Melbourne, Australia. We hope you enjoy our sexy tails! So sit back, relax, and grab a cocktail. Proudly...
Apr 16, 2019•59 min
This week we recorded from a hotel room near LAX during a long layover. We talk about sexy adventures that we both have had whilst traveling, Bradford regails of visiting London and seeing our dear friends, The Bed Hoppers. Angela talks about going back to the first swingers club we ever went to, The House, in North Carolina. Then we talk about the two of us reuniting and meeting friends to go to Menages in Nashville, TN. We hope you enjoy our sexy tails! So sit back, relax, and grab a cocktail....
Apr 03, 2019•49 min
Economics, a social science concerned chiefly with description and analysis of the production, distribution, and consumption of goods and services... We can apply these same ideas and principles to swinging. Don't believe us? Sit down and listen! We take apart a bunch of economic terms and principles and apply them to the swinging lifestyle! So sit back and enjoy as we dissect Swinganomics! Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join ...
Mar 26, 2019•1 hr 6 min
What is a Neon Wand? A Violet Wand? What is electricity play like? The Gentleman joins us again for a bit of goofing off and a play with the Neon Wand. We discuss the safety of using a Neon Wand (boring but totally necessary) and some basic attachments. Then we get into the exciting part and talk about how to use the wand, what it feels like, and you can just feel the electricity in the air! Also, send us your feedback and let us know if the Gentleman is saying Rainbow or Rambo?? We will put up ...
Mar 20, 2019•57 min
This episode is dedicated to all of the recent sexy times that we have had. We break down and decompress over recent Tinder dates we've both had and Angela's solo experiences at Our Secret Spot. We then dive deep, ahem, into Pendulum IX and talk about a date we had with a sexy couple once Bradford was back in town. So sit back, relax, and stay sexy. Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social me...
Mar 12, 2019•57 min
In this episode we talk about our recent experience marching on the Bi+Visibility float in the Sydney Mardi Gras. We have a few snippets we recorded with some of the other participants as well. All and all such an amazing experience. We also also talk about our upcoming (okay it’s 250 days away but we’re excited!!!) trip to Desire with the Life on the SwingSet crew. We discuss each of the theme nights and talk about possible costumes for them. So sit back, relax, and stay sexy. Proudly part of t...
Mar 05, 2019•1 hr 5 min
This week with all of the travel and preparations for Sydney Mardi Gras, we decided to replay an old favorite of ours that we released on September 20th 2017. We also talk about some of the other exciting things that we have in store for the coming months. Keep an eye out for some great things in the future. Philia, Pragma, and Agape... Oh My! In this episode, we talk about 7 types of love as described by the Greeks. Listen as we try to work out what each one is, how we feel about it, and how it...
Feb 26, 2019•1 hr 15 min
We all wonder if we are normal. In an article titled What Exactly is an Unusual Sexual Fantasy published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, lead author Christian Joyal interviewed more than 1500 individuals to discuss their fantasies and then categorized them into Typical, Unusual, or Rare. This week we take his data and break it down for your sexy ears. We discuss the percent of folks (male and female) who have a wide list of fantasies from "having sex with two women" to "urinating on my sexual...
Feb 19, 2019•1 hr 3 min
Curious to know who comes to Club V? You've head us talk about it now listen as Mrs. Atom and special guest Tiffany take you behind the door of the special ladies only event at Our Secret Spot. After, they go on a journey exploring the Ginger Bread Person, or, more accurately, the Genderbread Person...an infographic that breaks down gender. They discuss the different aspects of the graphic and all the parts that make up our gender identity and expression. This leads to a conversation about Club ...
Feb 13, 2019•56 min
Welcome back! In this episode, we invited back Cooper S. Beckett, friend of the podcast and all around awesome guy, to chat about sexual health and what it truly means to "play safe". Join us as we chat with Cooper about what his play style is and what our play styles look like. Sexual health is something that we take very seriously, and so, we think it is extremely important to discuss how we all approach play. Thank you and stay safe!!!! Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Want to help us ou...
Feb 05, 2019•56 min
Welcome back! In this episode we revisit a necessary but not always fun topic...STIs. We collected data from various organisations around the world to discuss the prevalence of STIs. We'll address which STIs are more common than others and along the way there is an impromptu spelling test for Mr. Atom...does he pass? A few STI testing and/or notification services that we mention in the podcast: bettertoknow.org.au letthemknow.org.au www.stdcheck.com www.thedramadownunder.info www.endinghiv.org.a...
Jan 29, 2019•1 hr 3 min
Welcome back dear listener. Since we've started podcasting, we have had so so many people ask us what our thoughts are about the Fifty Shades of Grey movie. Recently, we FINALLY sat down with our notebooks to watch this movie. Oh wow... why did we agree to do this? If you HAVE seen the movie (firstly I'm so sorry) you will listen to us rant, rail, and mock it incessantly. If you haven't, but want to, seriously its been out for 4 years... spoiler alert. So go grab a drink, sit back, and enjoy our...
Jan 22, 2019•1 hr 10 min
This episode is all about orgies! We being with talk about the health and safety aspects, play style conflicts, and some of the things we have learned from multiple origes that we have experienced. In the second half we tell some of our favorite recent orgy stories. Some of our expereinces from MMMF to MFMFMF to MFMFMs . We cover a lot of sexy times! Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social m...
Jan 15, 2019•1 hr 14 min
Hello and welcome wonderful listeners. In this episode we proudly present our first ever podcast recorded in front of a live audience. We recorded this midway through our week at Desire with the Life on the Swingset takeover and we had already had MANY firsts that we discuss. We sit with the Swingset crew and laugh (and cry... but hey, you know Mr. Atom) our way through this podcast. Listen in on some special sensual moments and connections being made that will last a lifetime. If listening to t...
Jan 08, 2019•1 hr 15 min
HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! Welcome not to 2019 but to 20BiTeen! In this episode, we interview the masterminds behind Bi+ Visibility, BiCONIC, and the #Bseen movement. We talk about each of these extremely important movements for the bisexual communities. We'll talk about the birth of these platforms and also the recent work we did with them for the premier BiCONIC party at a local icon for LGBTQI peoples, The Imperial in Erskineville. We then look towards the future and the upcoming float that will be in...
Jan 01, 2019•1 hr 6 min
Merry Christmas constant listener and new listeners alike! In this episode, we go on a Christmas Carolesque journey of our own swinger selves from the past, the present, and the future. We discuss how our styles have changed, what we look for in peoples/partners, and how we meet the folks that we play with. Thank you for spending your time with us! We recently hit our 3 year anniversary and we definitely couldn't have done it without you! Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Want to help us out...
Dec 25, 2018•1 hr 8 min
