We have had so many questions about our recent trip to The Desire Resorts in Cancun Mexico and we were trying to decide the best way to answer them all, so we asked The Gentleman to come over and interview us about the experiences. We've split the interview into two episodes. In this one, the second of two, we talk about the days we had at Desire with the We Gotta Thing and Swinging Downunder partial takeover of Pearl. Did The Gentleman miss any questions that you were dying to ask?!? Send us a ...
Dec 18, 2018•1 hr 24 min
We have had so many questions about our recent trip to The Desire Resorts in Cancun Mexico and we were trying to decide the best way to answer them all, so we asked The Gentleman to come over and interview us about the experiences. We've split the interview into two episodes. In this one, the first of two, we talk mostly about the few days before Desire and then the Life on the Swingset takeover of Riviera Maya. Did The Gentleman miss any questions that you were dying to ask?!? Send us a message...
Dec 11, 2018•1 hr 16 min
In this episode we take you to Passion in Paradise in FNQ. We talk about the experiences that we had at PiP including the 2 classes we presented (blow jobs and cock massage & nuru massage). Next we talk about our most recent Pendulum Party (Number 7 for those keeping count!) and it was definitely a ripper! So very much fun. Lastly we talk about another recent meet and mingle party hosted some dear friends who were also at PiP. What an AMAZING party. We had so much fun and would highly recomm...
Dec 05, 2018•1 hr 4 min
Having had the luxury of spending back to back weeks at Desire Riviera Maya and Desire Pearl in Mexico we thought we would do a direct side by side comparison of the two resorts. We try as best as our brains can to remember every up and down of both locations. Note, that this is a direct comparison of the resorts not any of the sexy swingers staying there. We talk food, pools, hot tubs, beach fronts, discos, and playrooms to try and give you a full understanding of the big picture. So go grab a ...
Nov 27, 2018•1 hr 29 min
Aren't you lucky!!! A very special EXTRA episode this week! Whilst at Desire a couple weeks back we recorded an episode with the talented, sexy, and hilarious Mr. and Mrs. H from The Bed Hoppers. In this episode we discuss consent, compersion, and climaxes... Three extremely important C's of swinging. Join us as we laugh, sing, and have a few very serious moments (not too many we promise) in our conversations from paradise. (NOTE: You may also hear us sing "Labia Juice" in four part harmony! (Yo...
Nov 25, 2018•59 min
Whilst at Passion in Paradise in Far North Queensland, we asked folks to sit down and chat with us to rate their flirting skills and then to tell us their worst swinger fails. Boy were we surprised by what folks had to offer... We have tales of people abusing family heirlooms to folks who claim that they can taste STI's (Yes you read that correctly.) . The best story was awarded a very special gift from Geeky Sex Toys . So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for list...
Nov 20, 2018•1 hr 4 min
In this episode we've gotten The Gentleman back (by very popular demand) to sit with us and talk about planning a swingcation with play partners. We discuss what goes into selecting a location, timing, who to go with, and what to do. You'll get the whens, the wheres, the whys, and the hows of putting together a successful and memorable swinging vacation. We also talk about the pitfalls that you can avoid if you're cautious and prepared. So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, t...
Nov 13, 2018•1 hr 10 min
This week we finish our multi-part deep dive series dissecting Bisexuality. As you may recall, a few months ago we had a listener send us a series of research papers regarding bisexual peoples. We dug through those papers and are attempting to give you an overview on all of the amazing scientific information inside. This episode is the end of the trilogy! In this last deep dive into Bisexual papers, we define bisexuality labels and address the benefits to heterosexual and homosexual communities ...
Nov 06, 2018•52 min
HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!!! BOO!!! Do you ever think about what scares you... sexually? In this special extended episode, we aim to push boundaries and limits in a safe and secure space. We go through a whole list of fetishes and discuss our thoughts and experiences with them! We want to note that we do not intend to yuck anyone's yum with this podcast, but some of these are things that we are definitely not interested in. If you and/or your partner enjoys them, then as long as you practice them safely,...
Oct 30, 2018•1 hr 29 min
Hello again!!! In this episode, we brought The Gentleman back to discuss Pet Play. In the not too distant past, he came over to play and Mr. Atom was in full puppy mode. We talk with him about the mindset of puppy play, the actions involved, and exactly what he thought about the evening. We also discuss The Gentleman... and whether he is more Duncan (from Bob's Burgers) or Flexo (Futurama)? Or Elfo, Lucy, or Cyril? So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening...
Oct 23, 2018•1 hr 1 min
ZOMG!!!!! Tomorrow we go on VaCaTiOn!!!! We are off to Passion in Paradise before going off to Desire Mexico. In this podcast we talk about how to properly prepare to go on a swinger vacation. We discuss the planning that we did for the sexy theme nights and the the calmer days. Should you get there early or late? How quickly do you go nude? Should you leave the resort? What are your play expectations? We go through all of this and more in this week's podcast. So go grab a drink! Then, sit back,...
Oct 16, 2018•1 hr
We start this week with an amazing date that we had with a very sexy couple. A couple we both thought were way out of our league. (Spoiler alert: We were apparently wrong!) Also this week we continue our multi-part deep dive series dissecting Bisexuality. As you may recall, a few months ago we had a listener send us a series of research papers regarding bisexual peoples. We dug through those papers and are attempting to give you an overview on all of the amazing scientific information inside. Th...
Oct 09, 2018•1 hr 1 min
In this episode we catch up on some of the things we've done recently, including a discussion over the recent "Club V", a wedding, and a few of our dates and such. We also go through some listener questions that have come across our desks recently. So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodca...
Oct 02, 2018•57 min
This week we start a multi-part deep dive series dissecting Bisexuality. A few months ago we had a listener send us a series of research papers regarding bisexual peoples. We dug through those papers and are attempting to give you an overview on all of the amazing scientific information inside. This week, in part one, we define Bi-Erasure and Bi-Invisibility. We review the health risks that bisexuals face, we discuss overall life satisfaction, and we address minorities within minorities. This on...
Sep 25, 2018•54 min
In this week we sat down to chat with Madeline, a former sex worker who started out in the naughty massage business giving happy endings before starting work at a brothel. She talks about how and why she got into the business and regails us with plenty of stories of her experiences. (All names have been changed to protect the innocent... or guilty.) Ever wonder what it might be like to have your mother's coworker come into your brothel? Madeline knows. Then we talk with her partner, Cranky Bear ...
Sep 18, 2018•1 hr 14 min
Once again we have had many a message cross our desk and we've decided that we need to delve into them... So we are. We have dug through the malebag and picked a few of our recent messages from email, Twitter, Facebook and Instagram to answer them here. We always appreciate the messages we get and love responding to them! Hopefully you find the information useful as well. So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help u...
Sep 11, 2018•1 hr
In this episode we give a brief update on Our Sexpo Australia episode and then we go straight into the meat and potatoes which is a whole heap of reviews on some of the products we’ve purchased and played with over the last few months. We cover lubes, butt plugs, and even sexy chapstick (yes you read that right.) So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening! Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on s...
Sep 04, 2018•1 hr 8 min
Welcome back listeners! In this episode we discuss our most recent Pendulum Party at Our Secret Spot. (It was number 7!) We invited The Gentleman to come back and discuss his experience at Pendulum with us too. Later in the episode, we also talked about our sexy Saturday morning and then Sunday in the city, including a trip to Maxx Black and an overnight with some amazing photos! Whew... what a weekend!!! So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening! Find us ...
Aug 28, 2018•1 hr 13 min
Welcome back listeners! This week we are discussing our trip to Adelaide for Sexpo Australia. We address the fun and the major problems that Sexpo Australia has to offer. We then talk about going to a BDSM party, that we got invited to, called Switch. Lastly we chat VR Porn. We were lucky enough to get to meet and interview Michelle Flynn the brains and talent behind Lightsouthern, Australia. Links from the show are: Lightsouthern: https://lightsouthern.com/ Peer Rope Adelaide: https://www.peerr...
Aug 21, 2018•1 hr 12 min
Welcome back lovely listeners! In this episode, we talk about reconnecting with sexy folks after many many months. Bradford had another trip to a sauna where he gets one more reference on his skillz. And finally, we discuss an awesome meet and mingle that ended in an impromptu orgy at Our Secret Spot. (Yes... it's a thing.) So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagr...
Aug 14, 2018•1 hr 4 min
Welcome back constant listener and new listeners alike. In this episode we chronicle an emotional tale of ups, downs, and how quickly we can fall back into very bad relationship habits. Yup, even us. A little while back, Mrs Atom had to take some medication that completely messed with her hormones and in a 24 hour period our relationship was knocked back a bit. Listen as we talk our way through this experience and what we've learned from it and how we would deal with it in the future. So go grab...
Aug 07, 2018•57 min
This week we sat down with a very good friend of ours and an icon of male bisexuality, Cooper S. Beckett, to discuss the importance of empathy, maintaining a positive attitude, and the similarities (and differences) between poly and swinger folks. Of course, we also take some time to discuss male bisexuality in the world and how we are affected by toxic masculinity and heteronormativity. So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening! Find us on social media!!!...
Jul 31, 2018•1 hr 1 min
Welcome back to Mr. Atom who is eager to regain control of the podcast! In this episode, we were lucky enough to catch up with the owners of Club Euphoria in Toledo Ohio to talk about how they got into the swinging business of sexy parties. We talk about their recent and extremely successful Pendulum 1.0 and their making it to the finalist list of the Annual Lifetime Awards. So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @...
Jul 24, 2018•55 min
What do baking cookies, sword fighting, turkey tap, and Chewbacca have in common? Yeah... I don't know either. But in the episode Mrs. Atom and The Gentleman tackle these subject matters and MORE. What results is a giggle fest like none we've experienced in a while. That's right, Mr. Atom is absent in this episode as he was traveling abroad and has no idea what is actually in this episode. (That's right, I write blurbs for podcasts I haven't listened to!) So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjo...
Jul 18, 2018•1 hr 11 min
In this episode we start off with a couple of rants. That’s right we got out the soap boxes! Then we move to a Pen Pal letter from our wonderful friends Mr & Mrs H over at the Bed Hoppers Podcast. We answer their Q&A and Mr Atom does his “best” British accent... whilst ending up sounding like Mrs Doubtfire. So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @Bythe...
Jul 10, 2018•1 hr 16 min
We are joined again this week by the beautiful L0L0 Lady to discuss what's new in her world. Listen in as we talk everything from swinger resorts, to HPV, to birth control, to L0L0's favourite sex position. So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord cha...
Jul 03, 2018•55 min
Better late than never right? We've had some conversations with swinger friends recently that alerted us to the fact that not everyone knows what some of the simple swinger jargon actually means. We hope to remedy this issue with this podcast where we go back to basics and discuss our definitions for some of the common words in the swinging vernacular. So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Faceb...
Jun 26, 2018•1 hr
Hello constant listener. This episode is pretty slick as we discuss lube and manage to slide in a lot of information and facts that you won't find tacky at all! That's right... it's a LUBE-isode!!!! So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here W...
Jun 19, 2018•56 min
Okay!!! We have had many an email in the recent past that we need to delve into. So we do. We have dug through the malebag and picked a few of our recent messages from email, Twitter, Facebook and more to answer them here. We always appreciate the messages we get and love responding to them! Hopefully you find the information useful as well. So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBi...
Jun 12, 2018•1 hr 7 min
Join us this week as we bring The Gentleman back tondiscuss our combined experiences at the most recent Pendulum party! Oh, look at all the sexy people; where do they all come from!?! Then we let Mrs Atom enchant is with tales of Femme, the First Ladies only night at Our Secret Spot. So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want ...
Jun 05, 2018•1 hr 2 min
