This week on By the Bi, Angela sits down with a very cheeky Bradford to unpack his latest solo travel adventures—and let’s just say, things got spicy. From spontaneous Sniffies hookups and steamy cruise room encounters to massages that definitely crossed into naughty territory, Bradford’s been making the most of life on the road. Join us for a candid, hilarious, and oh-so-saucy episode as we explore the thrills (and occasional chaos) of solo play, sexual spontaneity while traveling, and the stor...
Jun 25, 2025•53 min
This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford had one goal: a sexy, well-planned dirty weekend. What actually happened? Well… let’s just say, things didn’t quite go according to plan. From unexpected detours to logistical hiccups (and Bradford going delightfully off the rails more than once), this episode is all about embracing the mess, laughing through the chaos, and finding the fun even when things go sideways. Join us as we reflect on how expectations can shape — and sometimes sabotage — a sex...
Jun 11, 2025•54 min
Before streaming, before OnlyFans, before incognito mode — there were blue cinemas. This week, we’re peeling back the curtain on the forgotten world of adult movie theaters: where porn was communal, seats were sticky, and trench coats weren’t just for the weather. We’re talking about how these spaces shaped everything from censorship laws to queer cruising culture, why the U.S. Supreme Court once had to define porn (and totally failed), and how a moody French romance film sparked a legal firesto...
May 28, 2025•50 min
This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford dive into a topic that doesn’t get talked about nearly enough—the post-kink and party drop. Whether it’s after an intense BDSM scene, an emotionally charged connection, or a euphoric night at a lifestyle event, the crash that follows can be real, raw, and confusing. In this episode, we explore what “the drop” feels like, why it happens, and how to care for yourself—and your partners—when the high fades. From physical fatigue to emotional vulnerability,...
May 14, 2025•55 min
Venture beyond the velvet rope with us into a world where fantasy meets reality in grand, public settings. From the anticipation of dressing up to the thrill of stepping into a room buzzing with like-minded adventurers, discover what makes these events a magnet for those curious about or deeply embedded in the kink community. In this episode, Angela and Bradford share their perspectives on the vibrant atmosphere, the community etiquette, and the unforgettable moments they’ve experienced. They’ll...
Apr 30, 2025•1 hr 8 min
We’re back, baby! After a little time away, we’re reconnecting, recharging, and ready to dive back into all things By the Bi. In this episode, we catch you up on where we’ve been, what’s been brewing, and how damn good it feels to be back in your ears. But that’s not all—strap in as we take you inside our latest (and dare we say greatest?) Pendulum Party yet. From sexy surprises to magical moments, this one had it all. Whether you were there and want to relive it, or you’re dreaming of your firs...
Apr 16, 2025•1 hr 3 min
Dive deep into the exhilarating world of pegging with our special double feature re-release of Episodes 83 and 84 of By the Bi! In these fan-favorite episodes, Angela and Bradford explore everything you need to know about pegging—from the basics of getting started to advanced tips for those looking to enhance their experience. Discover the joys, challenges, and intimate bonding that pegging can bring to a relationship. Whether you’re curious newcomers or seasoned enthusiasts, these episodes prov...
Apr 01, 2025•1 hr 44 min
Join Angela and Bradford on a vibrant journey in this episode of By the Bi as they recount their exhilarating experience marching with Biconic at the Mardi Gras parade. Immerse yourself in the pulsating beats, vivid colors, and spirited cheers that define one of the most iconic celebrations of LGBTQ+ pride and diversity. From the flurry of feathers and sequins to the powerful messages of love and acceptance, our hosts share their personal highlights and the unforgettable moments that made this e...
Mar 05, 2025•46 min
This week we talk about some of our excursions and play we’ve had at Chateau Vino in Gold Cost, an afternoon with The Gentleman, and more! Sit back and enjoy some sexy stories. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here ! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium ...
Feb 19, 2025•51 min
Dive into the heart of understanding and intimacy on this episode of By the Bi as Angela and Bradford play “We’re Not Really Strangers” with guests Coby and Judy. This thought-provoking card game is designed to deepen the connections between players through a series of personal and insightful questions. Watch as our hosts and their guests embark on a journey of discovery, revealing hidden facets of their relationships and personal philosophies. From lighthearted banter to profound revelations, t...
Feb 05, 2025•59 min
Pack your bags and grab your lanyards—Bradford and Angela are setting sail on their first-ever swingers cruise! In this episode of By the Bi , we’re taking you behind the scenes of the ultimate floating lifestyle experience. From the anticipation of stepping aboard to the steamy encounters at sea, we’re sharing it all. Join us as we dive into our expectations, surprises, and lessons learned from this exciting adventure. Did the reality live up to the fantasy? How do you find your groove when you...
Jan 22, 2025•1 hr 5 min
Ring in the new year with a heartfelt look back and an eager gaze forward on this episode of By the Bi. Join Angela and Bradford as they revisit the hopes and goals they set at the stroke of last New Year’s Eve, exploring the victories, the challenges, and everything in-between. From personal milestones to podcast achievements, get an intimate look at how the year unfolded for your favorite hosts. In the spirit of renewal and growth, they won’t just stop at reviewing the past year. Angela and Br...
Jan 08, 2025•1 hr 3 min
Well it’s that time of year…. Take care of yourselves. We love you. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here ! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....
Dec 25, 2024•3 min
Step into the colorful world of queer flagging on this episode of By the Bi. Angela and Bradford explore the intricate and historical art of flagging, a coded language of colors and patterns used within the LGBTQ+ community to express identity, desires, and boundaries. Originating in the underground scenes of the 1970s, flagging has evolved from the traditional hanky codes to include contemporary twists like accessories and digital emojis. This episode delves into how flagging serves not just as...
Dec 11, 2024•48 min
Join Angela and Bradford for a very special live episode of By the Bi, broadcasting directly from the sun-soaked and sensational Xcape to the Tropics 2024! Dive into the heart of this exotic getaway as our hosts share their experiences, interviews, and unexpected adventures from one of the hottest lifestyle events of the year. From vibrant theme nights like Pop Culture and Dirty Disney to intimate conversations with fellow attendees, this episode offers a firsthand look at the thrilling atmosphe...
Nov 27, 2024•1 hr
This week on By the Bi, strap in for a hot and steamy recount as Bradford shares his tantalizing tales from Renos Relaxing, a popular gay sauna in Zurich. Join Angela and Bradford as they delve into a series of sexy adventures that unfold behind the sauna’s discreet doors. From flirtatious encounters to unexpected connections, Bradford reveals the exhilarating experiences and playful escapades that highlighted his visit. Whether you’re intrigued by the allure of a gay sauna or just in the mood f...
Nov 14, 2024•46 min
This week on By the Bi, join Angela and special guest Spanky as they delve into the vibrant and often misunderstood world of being a single lady in the lifestyle community. From navigating social dynamics to embracing personal empowerment, this episode offers a candid look at the challenges and triumphs faced by single women in a scene often dominated by couples. Spanky and Angela share their personal experiences, insights, and tips for thriving as a single lady in the lifestyle. They’ll discuss...
Oct 29, 2024•58 min
Join Angela and Bradford as they revisit a hot favorite on By the Bi—packing for a sexy vacation! This episode isn’t just about what to bring; it’s a full-on preparation guide for the upcoming Xcape to the Tropics 2024, featuring tantalizing new themes like Pop Culture and Dirty Dizney. Dive into the essentials of sexy vacation packing, ensuring you’re not only ready but perfectly attired for each themed night. Whether it’s channeling your inner superhero or giving a Dizney character a naughty t...
Oct 16, 2024•1 hr 6 min
Dive deep into the world of non-monogamy with Angela and Bradford in this enlightening episode of By the Bi as they tackle common urban myths about open relationships, kink, and sex. From the misconception that open relationships lack love, to the idea that they’re just about sex, this episode aims to dismantle the stereotypes and reveal the true complexities and richness of open relational dynamics.. Tune in to By the Bi for a candid discussion that promises to challenge assumptions, broaden pe...
Oct 02, 2024•50 min
Step behind the velvet rope with Angela and Spanky in this titillating episode of By the Bi as they recount their exhilarating night at The Erotic Ball. Known for its daring displays and uninhibited atmosphere, The Erotic Ball serves as the perfect backdrop for exploring themes of freedom, fantasy, and the art of erotic expression. Join our hosts as they share their personal experiences, from the eye-opening outfits to the captivating performances, and the deeper conversations sparked by the nig...
Sep 18, 2024•37 min
Dive into the fluid journey of sexual identity with Angela and Bradford in this profound episode of By the Bi. We explore how sexual identity can transform from childhood through old age, influenced by personal experiences, societal changes, and shifting cultural norms. Join us as we discuss our stages of sexual identity development, the impact of life events like relationships, and the challenges and discoveries that come with each phase of life. We’ll also share personal stories and insights. ...
Sep 04, 2024•1 hr 11 min
This week, By the Bi takes a deep dive into the cutting-edge world of sextech, starting with an exclusive interview with the creator of the innovative FirmTech cock ring, Doctor Elliot Justin. Discover the science and inspiration behind this revolutionary device designed to enhance pleasure and performance. Angela and Bradford explore the broader landscape of sextech, examining how technology is transforming intimate experiences. From wearables to app-controlled devices, learn how these advancem...
Aug 21, 2024•49 min
This week on By the Bi, join Angela and Bradford as they channel their inner MST3K to poke fun at their past selves while unraveling the often overlooked costs of the swinging lifestyle. Swinging isn’t just a social endeavor; it can also be a costly one. From exclusive club memberships to the travel and attire that accompany the glamorous events, the expenses can quickly mount. In this lighthearted episode, we’ll guide you through navigating the swinging scene, whether you’re splurging or on a b...
Aug 07, 2024•54 min
Ho ho ho—it’s Christmas in July on this week’s episode of By the Bi! Join Angela and Bradford as they bring the holiday cheer to the heat of summer with a visit to Between Friends for their Christmas in July Party. This isn’t your typical holiday gathering; instead of snowflakes and sleigh bells, think sexy lingerie and Santa hats! Dive into the fun as they dig deep into Santa’s sack, uncovering what’s on everyone’s wishlist. From naughty to nice, the wishes revealed will surprise, delight, and ...
Jul 24, 2024•1 hr 9 min
This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford dive into the transformative world of therapy, counseling, and coaching with an expert from Orange Counselling and Coaching. Discover the profound impact these practices can have on personal growth, relationship dynamics, and overall well-being. Join us as we explore different therapeutic approaches and coaching methods that help folks navigate challenges and reach their fullest potential. Dan from Orange Counseling and Coaching shares insights into ho...
Jul 10, 2024•1 hr 7 min
This week we dive into coming out & religion with an interview with the creative team behind Hillsong Boy. Hillsong Boy chronicles the weird and wonderful experiences of ex-Hillsonger, Scott Parker. During his twenty years with the megachurch he experienced the dizzying heights of Christian celebrity, and the lonely lows of being cast aside, all whilst keeping a desperate secret. Scott is queer, and there’s no such thing as a Queer Hillsong Boy. Original music, autobiography, multimedia, and...
Jun 26, 2024•1 hr 26 min
Coming out can be one of the most pivotal moments in someone’s life. This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford delve into the emotional spectrum of coming out experiences. Do you “turtle,” retreating into your shell to protect yourself, or do you “volcano,” erupting with a bold declaration of identity? Both approaches are valid and deserve space and understanding. In this episode, we explore the different ways people embrace their truth, from the quietly courageous to the loudly proud. We’ll s...
Jun 12, 2024•45 min
Join Angela, Bradford, and The Gentleman in a deeply personal episode of By the Bi, as they reflect on their seven-year journey in a polyamorous relationship. This week, they open up about the evolving dynamics, challenges, and triumphs of their shared love and commitment. Does the proverbial seven-year itch apply in the poly world? They tackle this question head-on, sharing insights and experiences that might just change the way you think about long-term relationships in non-monogamous settings...
May 29, 2024•1 hr 6 min
Get ready for a thrilling ride on this week’s episode of By the Bi, where Angela turns host for a game of high stakes and high voltage called “By the Bi - I Hope I Don’t Die!” Listen as Bradford and The Gentleman put their sex trivia knowledge to the test, with each correct answer earning them a tantalizing shock from the Neon Wand, and each miss bringing a painful zap. This electrifying game will reveal just how much they know about sex, kink, and everything in between. Angela guides the game w...
May 15, 2024•1 hr 11 min
Step into the world of decadence and drama on this week’s episode of By the Bi, as Angela, Bradford, and their special guest, The Gentleman, recount the thrills of the recent Velvet kink party and the Rocky Horror Pendulum Party. Dive into the seductive details of these extravagant events, where costumes, role-play, and the spirit of adventure create a playground for the senses. From the lush allure of Velvet to the wild, time-warping fun of the Rocky Horror-themed night, we explore the highligh...
May 01, 2024•1 hr 23 min
