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Bobo and Flex

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It's your two faves bringing you the world's first cross-continental podcast.Bobo and Flex are on a quest to decolonize our minds, intersect our feminism, but most importantly, give us all the tools necessary to stay away problematic boys!Interested in advertising with the Bobo & Flex Show? Hit us up at boboandflex@gmail.com

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Episodes

navigating cross-cultural dating and living with your partner

This week we're discussing some relationship dilemmas: how do you live with your partner without killing them? How do you navigate cross-cultural dating and how to set boundaries during corona. Enjoy!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www...

Apr 20, 20201 hr 7 min

is depression ever an excuse for being a shitty friend?

This week we're all over the place! We have a chat about communicating our expectations and boundaries with our friends. Maintaining relationships with your depressed friends. And what relationships will look like after corona. Enjoy!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_...

Apr 13, 20201 hr 10 min

is anger a useful tool for change?

This week we're playing a game of Reflex! We talk about the benefits and pitfalls of anger and sorrow, we talk about learning to deal with people's negative perceptions of us and we talk about why we will NOT be having moderators in our facebook group. Enjoy!!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.you...

Apr 05, 20201 hr 9 min

2020 is the year of realizing things

This week we're talking everything from corona, to race, to conspiracy theories. What does it really mean to be a good ally? how do we protect our mental health during quarantine season? what is corona here to teach us? JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75S...

Mar 29, 202056 min

lessons we learnt too late in life

This week we're playing Reflex! We talk about the lessons we've learnt throughout the years, adulting, the education system and we dissect what it really means to live a good life. Enjoy!BUY REFLEX THE CARD GAME HERE:https://flexfactory.store/collections/reflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.yo...

Mar 22, 202053 min

corona virus: is this the beginning of the end?

This week we're talking about the coronavirus epidemic! why is everyone stockpiling toilet paper? What is corona here to teach us? Will capitalism survive the wrath of corona? SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matj...

Mar 15, 202052 min

is the law of attraction a delusion?

This week we're getting philosophical: we chat about the law of attraction and how it intersects with privilege. Do we give ourselves too much credit for our success? How much does the law of attraction play into our delusions about ourselves? And; is there a fundamental purpose and reason for human existence??? WHAT IS IT!!!!ENJOY SPIRALING!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflex...

Mar 08, 202052 min

is being pretty the ultimate privilege?

This week we're talking about pretty privilege! how is beauty affected by the white gaze? is beauty for leisure or survival? is it democratic or elitist? We talk about this and so much more. Enjoy -and don't forget to follow us on socials!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCpl...

Mar 01, 202057 min

"self love culture" could be why you hate yourself

This week we're talking about self-love! Is it realistic?? can social media and self-love coexist? AND; is depression the new hourglass figure?? how do we learn to love ourselves when we've internalized depression as the coolest new personality trait?SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/...

Feb 16, 202058 min

do abusers deserve forgiveness and grace?

TRIGGER WARNING! This week we're talking about abusive celebrities, complicated legacies and how to live alongside abusers - particularly when they're in close proximity to you.SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.mat...

Feb 09, 202050 min

introducing kinky sex to your vanilla partner

Today we're answering all your questions about sex! We talk about how to avoid performative sex, navigating sexual incompatibility and most importantly - how to give excellent head lol. And so much more! Listen now!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInst...

Feb 03, 20201 hr 9 min

so, how are we going to end racism?

In this week’s episode, we talk about RACE! Why is it so hard for POC and white people to understand each other? Should philanthropy always be virtuous? And is ending racism a worthwhile pursuit? Click to listen and let's continue the conversation on social media!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www...

Jan 26, 20201 hr 12 min

how do you get over someone you never dated

This week we're answering your questions about love and relationships: from getting over heartbreaks, the line between desperation vs assertiveness and attachment styles. SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFl...

Jan 19, 20201 hr 9 min

incompatible love languages

This week we're talking about everything from love languages, self-awareness, astrology and whether we can ever escape being trash.SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:B...

Jan 12, 20201 hr 23 min

tanning vs blackfishing

This week we're talking about plastic surgery, body modification, self-love and the thin line between tanning culture and blackfishing.SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTu...

Dec 29, 201958 min

what is the point of feminism?

in this episode, we talk about beauty pageants, feminism and whether or not to persist in making the world a better place.SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www....

Dec 22, 20191 hr 8 min

reasons why you should cheat

yaaaay another guest episode! we talk to Mukundwa about the ethics of cheating, trust issues and letting go of resentment. Enjoy!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bob...

Dec 08, 201938 min

how to break up with a friend

yaaaay another guest episode! we talk to Mukundwa about the difficulties of maintaining adult friendships, how to break up with your friends and how to navigate forgiveness without compromising yourselfSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: w...

Dec 01, 20191 hr 7 min

the incel epidemic

Incels!! Why do they exist? why are men so entitled to women? and what is the relationship between capitalism, patriarchy and incels. SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTub...

Nov 24, 20191 hr 8 min

Drake and the men who date teens

trigger warning: pedophilia and sexual assaultin this episode, we answer the question: in what ways has pedophilia been normalized? do the fashion and beauty industry sexualize children? in what ways does society encourage child sex abuse, and how can we all prevent it? Enjoyyy!!!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YO...

Nov 17, 20191 hr 8 min

has he checked for your hymen yet?

This is a brand new format - a chit chat episode! We talk about everything from the scam of the healthcare industry, who built the pyramids, T.I and the normalization of pedophilia. Enjoy!!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram....

Nov 10, 20191 hr 5 min

Q&A is my white boyfriend fetishizing me?

This week we're answering all your love & relationship questions! are racial preferences racist? do all white men have racial fetishes and how do you get over trust issues?SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matj...

Nov 03, 201959 min

what is the point of being a BETTER person?! ft. Mukundwa

OUR FIRST GUEST EPISODE !!! we talked to Mukundwa about the pursuit of kindness, intelligence and self-development. what does it mean to be a good person? and is the pursuit more important than the destination? how do we navigate romance in a pool of men who don't participate in self-development? Enjoy !!!Follow Mukundwa:Mukundwa's IG: www.instagram.com/mukundwa_I Said What I Said Podcast: https://soundcloud.com/iswispodcastSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www...

Oct 27, 20191 hr 20 min

who is responsible for ending climate change?

In today's episode, we talk about climate anxiety, Greta Thunberg and the robot apocalypse. enjoyyyy :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFl...

Oct 20, 20191 hr 4 min

are you ready to die?

Trigger Warning: Suicide - in this episode we talk all about death, suicide, after-lives and why humans fear death. enjoy!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www....

Oct 13, 20191 hr 4 min

Part 5: Toxic Relationships

this is episode 5 of our 5-part dating series ! In this HILARIOUS episode, we talk about maintaining fulfilling relationships, apology languages AND how to fight well!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: ...

Oct 06, 20191 hr 8 min

Part 4: How To Have The Best Sex

this is episode 4 of our 5-part dating series ! In this HILARIOUS episode, we talk about the importance of facilitating your own nut, the pros and cons of sex and finding sexual confidence!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram....

Sep 29, 20191 hr 11 min

Part 3: Transitioning from Situationship to Relationship

this is episode 3 of our 5-part dating series ! We talk about situationships, male-female platonic friendships and what to do when you fall in love with your best friend :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaF...

Sep 22, 201956 min

Part 2.5: Navigating First Date Anxiety

this is episode 2.5 of our 5-part dating series ! We talk about first date conversations, anxiety and flourishing as an introvert :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:...

Sep 15, 201948 min

Part 2: First Dates For Dummies

this is episode 2 of our 5-part dating series ! We talk about where to go on a first date, initiating conversations AND how to avoid situationships! :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.inst...

Sep 08, 201954 min
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