this is episode 1 of our 5-part dating series ! We talk about gaining confidence to start dating, enjoy romance and staying away from problematic white boys :)TW: Sexual AssaultSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/...
Sep 01, 2019•1 hr 13 min
what does it mean to be woke? why do we aspire for wokeness? how can we grow without attaching to dogma? We discuss all that and more !SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.m...
Aug 25, 2019•1 hr 15 min
what are open relationships? does anyone benefit from non-monogamy, and how can we stay ethical while navigating unconventional forms of love!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com...
Aug 18, 2019•1 hr 4 min
a heated conversation on unrequited love and how to navigate those waters, and we discuss whether or not love and abuse can coexist.SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mami...
Aug 13, 2019•1 hr 9 min
Whew, this is a hilarious episode about all the dumb bitch decisions we keep making!! from wasting money to raw sex, we cover it all!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mam...
Aug 04, 2019•1 hr 1 min
This week we're talking all about karma, free will and the law of attraction. How do you manifest your best life when you have no free will? If there's no free will, can you change your karma? Our most existential episode yet - enjoy!!!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel...
Jul 28, 2019•58 min
This week we're talking about the loneliness epidemic! Is our loneliness self-induced? Are we misdiagnosing our loneliness? is the quest to be understood a catalyst for feelings of isolation? How does morality and ideologies affect our mental health?SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtu...
Jul 21, 2019•51 min
This week, Flex chats to avid Bobo and Flex listener and Love Island fanatic Anny Ma (@_annyma). At this point in time Bobo hadn't started watching the series so I had to sub in a very capable guest.This episode was filmed right around the time Michael recoupled with Joanna. So juicy. We discuss colourism, sexism, gaslighting and the horror of modern romance.SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagra...
Jul 16, 2019•59 min
This week we're giving life hacks and practical tips on surviving (but also enjoying) life during the apocalypse :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www...
Jul 14, 2019•59 min
This week we're chatting toxic friends, breakups and the merits or downfalls of girl code/objective morality!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtu...
Jul 07, 2019•1 hr 25 min
SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjilaFl...
Jun 30, 2019•45 min
What are the benefits of heartbreak? How to survive a breakup, and why does love hurt so much??SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFl...
Jun 23, 2019•1 hr 3 min
This episode will either drive you to an existential crisis, or lead you to enlightenment. hehe, have fun tho!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.yout...
Jun 16, 2019•1 hr 7 min
In this episode, we literally ended racism. Thank you for listening! :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: www.youtube.com/chan...
Jun 09, 2019•59 min
We talk about body neutrality, self-love and whether or not beauty is accessible to everyone!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex...
Jun 02, 2019•1 hr 22 min
We answer all your questions from finding body and sex confidence, losing your virginity, dealing with unrequited love!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo:...
May 26, 2019•35 min
Hookup culture!! Is it ruining us or liberating us? Are we (even) sexually liberated or have we deluded ourselves into thinking we are? Let’s dive into it!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www....
May 19, 2019•58 min
Are safe spaces helping or harming us? what is the intent vs the impact? Can we do without, and how can we level up our activism so it's inclusive but nuanced!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: ...
May 12, 2019•46 min
OUR SPICIEST EPISODE YET!!!! We’re diving into kinky sex and BDSM!! What’s healthy, ‘normal’ and where do our sexual fantasies come from? Let us know your thoughts, chime in - we’d love to hear from you!TAKE THE BDSM TEST: www.bdsmtest.orgSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/chan...
May 05, 2019•1 hr 19 min
How do you know when to fight vs when to leave? Has twitter (and instagram tbh) ruined how we navigate our relationships, and what does it even mean to practice 'self-love' in this day?SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instag...
Apr 28, 2019•1 hr 16 min
in this episode we're breaking down what it really takes to manifest your best life, and - is the idea of passion and purpose a scam?!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.ma...
Apr 21, 2019•55 min
We're diving into the topic of cheating! Is it really a dealbreaker? Do we need to destigmatize the role of side chicks? How do we let go of baggage from hurtful relationships and is infidelity and deceit really immoral?WATCH THE VIDEO VERSION OF THIS EPISODE ON YOUTUBE:https://youtu.be/-n0ZcM5qS5YSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/bobo...
Apr 14, 2019•52 min
We're revealing the truth behind the lifestyle and career path of being an influencer, social media performativity and we unpack how social media is basically launching us into the apocalypse :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: w...
Apr 07, 2019•48 min
Watch the full video here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KTWRYIVsluA&t=1213sIn this episode, we're unpacking the subtle differences between red flags and pink flags. AND, we're dissecting where to draw the line between settling vs. compromising.SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.yout...
Mar 31, 2019•36 min
This week, we're talking *Mental Health*! Is depression the latest trend? Is activism toxic? And how can we create better boundaries in our friendships?SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.ins...
Mar 24, 2019•52 min
Yaay! Our new segment where we answer your questions and scenarios on love, sex, life and everything in between!DM us at @BoboAndFlex on IG or email us your dilemmas at boboandflex@gmail.com :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: ww...
Mar 21, 2019•26 min
This time we're talking about the orgasm gap, the intersection between our feminism and sex lives and we dissect the age-old 'spit or swallow' question. Also, trigger warning: Sexual TraumaLet us know your thoughts and let's continue the conversation! SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.you...
Mar 17, 2019•58 min
Bobo & Flex dissect the age-old question: WHO SHOULD PAY ON DATES? Is dating broke men sustainable and what is the least problematic, dating etiquette :)Let us know your thoughts and let's continue the conversation! SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9...
Mar 10, 2019•1 hr 13 min
Thank you for tuning in!Let us know your thoughts, continue the conversation! Instagram us, tweet at us, youtube us!Instagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobomatjila_Flex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: www.youtube.com/BoboMFlex: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15QTwitter:Bobo: www.twitter.com/BobydahBaduFlex: www.twitter.com/flexmami Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Mar 03, 2019•1 hr 27 min
Thank you for tuning in!Let us know your thoughts, continue the conversation! Instagram us, tweet at us, youtube us!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:https://twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjilaFlex: www.instagram.com/flex.mamiYouTube:Bobo: ww...
Feb 25, 2019•58 min
