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Bobo and Flex

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It's your two faves bringing you the world's first cross-continental podcast.Bobo and Flex are on a quest to decolonize our minds, intersect our feminism, but most importantly, give us all the tools necessary to stay away problematic boys!Interested in advertising with the Bobo & Flex Show? Hit us up at boboandflex@gmail.com

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Episodes

what is cheating?

in this week's episode, we dissect a fascinating dilemma that unpacks the bounds of interdimensional cheating! we discuss: what is it exactly that constitutes as cheating? how does monogamy culture affect this? and so much more! enjoy!! FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL: www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SA Instagram: Bobo: www.instagra...

Feb 10, 202155 min

what happens when we die?

in this very spirally episode, we talk about near-death experiences! we recount the experiences of 2 people who claimed to die and come back to life, and we dissect the extent to which those accounts are fictional constructs or accurate depictions of the path into the afterlife. We also discuss the role of aliens in our cosmos, and the Garbovoi healing numbers ... and their effect on humanity. enjoy!! JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex THE BOBO&FLEX BIPOC FB GROUP: www....

Jan 31, 202150 min

meditation, trauma in the body & living in bad faith

Yaay new episode! This week's episode is very chit-chatty and all over the place. We talk briefly about meditation and the ways in which trauma lives in the body. And then we discuss all the various ways that we tend to live in bad faith and differentiate between actively living vs passively settling into life's circumstances. And, so much more!! enjoy!! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jan 20, 202147 min

ADHD, autism, mental health trends & the controversy of self-diagnosis

Let's talk about mental health!! In this episode, we unpack the realities of being neurodivergent and learning to live in a society that is inherently ableist. We talk about some of the ways that society is disabling and how that lives alongside the online trends of depression/anxiety. We also talk about the controversy of self-diagnosis and how culture, class, gender and race complicate the issue. So much to unpack!! enjoy!! JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex THE BOBO&...

Jan 13, 20211 hr 6 min

is it ethical to lie to kids?

This week we’re discussing the ethics of lying to kids. When, if ever, is it ethical to lie to your kids? How do we protect children's innocence and nurture their imagination and sense of fantasy without shielding them from reality? We discuss the context and cultural nuances that come with truth vs lies. We dissect the consequences of growing up under illusions. AND; we get into the growing trend of millennials hating kids. enjoy! JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex THE BOB...

Jan 04, 202144 min

wedding culture, moral responsibilities & the paradox of selfishness

We're back with a spicy and (very) divisive AITA. We discuss the age-old question "what do we *really* owe each other," and "what should we expect from each other?" We also discuss the toxicity of wedding culture and why romantic traditions carry so much weight. AND; we dissect why marriage has such a low success rate. enjoy!! JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex THE BOBO&FLEX BIPOC FB GROUP: www.facebook.com/groups/714593526047455 FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.co...

Dec 29, 20201 hr 21 min

shrooms, drug culture and the wonders of the human mind

What a spiraly conversation! this week, we're diving into the experience of psychedelics and how it affects your perception of life and self. We also discuss the politics of drug culture and the stigma's attached to certain drugs. We then finish off with a spiralyyyy conversation about all the different ways our minds work - and how that's all affected by the relationship one has with their mind. enjoy! JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex THE BOBO&FLEX BIPOC FB GROUP: ww...

Dec 14, 202058 min

conflict resolution, processing emotions and romantic love

In this week's episode, we talk about everything from conflict resolution, processing emotions and whether or not romantic love is sustainable. We discuss the nuances of conflict compatibility, the various ways in which we all process and express our emotions, and whether or not heteronormative relationships are sustainable in a world where women are conditioned to hate men. JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex THE BOBO&FLEX BIPOC FB GROUP: www.facebook.com/groups/7145935...

Dec 07, 202058 min

what is the perfect religion?

this week, we continue answering your questions! We talk about what the perfect religion would like ... if that were even possible. We discuss how ambition intersects with compatibility. We get into whether or on adopting kids is morally superior to having kids ... and so much more! JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex THE BOBO&FLEX BIPOC FB GROUP: www.facebook.com/groups/714593526047455 FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patr...

Nov 29, 20201 hr 5 min

Q&A: did eve really eat the apple?

this week's episode is so fun! we asked you to send us in your questions, and we answered them! we talk about our dream dinner guests, we unpack whether or not adam gaslit Eve, and we try to understand why people still settle for unfulfilling relationships and whether or not romance is actually sustainable. enjoy! JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex THE BOBO&FLEX BIPOC FB GROUP: www.facebook.com/groups/714593526047455 BOBO'S PODCAST: www.patreon.com/bobosvoid FLEX'S PODC...

Nov 24, 202059 min

everything is a scam

WE'RE BACK!!! after a looooong hiatus - this week, we're talking politics, morality and the illusions of reality. We discuss whether or not there is such a thing as a *good* politician. We get into virtue signaling, woke culture and question the utility of pursuing political change. enjoy!! ALSO; we would LOVE if you could take this survey to help us learn more about you and the type of content you'd like to hear from us! link to the survey here: https://podcastsurvey.typeform.com/to/GptmSQ2A KE...

Nov 15, 20201 hr 13 min

bella thorne & white feminism

this week, we talk about white feminism! what is it, and how does it differ from intersectional feminism? was feminism as a whole, ever intended to liberate us? AND; we discuss Bella Thorne's white saviourism. enjoy! JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex THE BOBO&FLEX BIPOC FB GROUP: www.facebook.com/groups/714593526047455 BOBO'S PATREON: www.patreon.com/bobosvoid FLEX'S PODCAST: open.spotify.com/show/5P75s7GZlPY…nupPrompt=1&nd=1 FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.c...

Sep 13, 20201 hr 4 min

sacrifice vs compromise

this week, we talk about everything! we talk about the relationship between beauty, mental health and capitalism. we interrogate; who's responsibility is it to protect our mental health? what do influencers and celebrities owe us? we also dive into a juicy AITA and unpack the idea of sacrificial love and where we should draw the line between sacrifice vs compromise. enjoy! SUPPORT US ON PATREON www.patreon.com/boboandflex JOIN OUR FACEBOOK GROUP www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex JOIN THE BOBO&...

Sep 06, 20201 hr 21 min

make your statement and go

this week, WE SPIRALLL!!! we talk about ambition, success and the myth of permanent happiness. We also get into Plato's allegory and how it can help us understand each other's realities and help us have more productive conversations about race.enjoy!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexTHE BOBO&FLEX BIPOC FB GROUP:www.facebook.com/groups/714593526047455BOBO'S PATREON:www.patreon.com/bobosvoidFLEX'S PODCAST:open.spotify.com/show/5P75s7GZlPY…nupPrompt=1&nd=1FOLLOW US ON I...

Aug 30, 20201 hr 4 min

the aliens are coming

this week, WE ARE SPIRALLINGGGG!!!! we talk about aliens, indigo, crystal, starseed and rainbow children, the origins of humankind, the limitations of being in a 3-dimensional world ... and we figure out whether or not reality is real. hint: it's not!enjoy!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexTHE BOBO&FLEX BIPOC FB GROUP:www.facebook.com/groups/714593526047455BOBO'S PATREON:www.patreon.com/bobosvoidFLEX'S PODCAST:open.spotify.com/show/5P75s7GZlPY…nupPrompt=1&nd=1FOLLOW ...

Aug 18, 202053 min

people don't care

this week, we're diving into an extra long chaotic episode about wisdom teeth, the pressure to erode your health for the benefit of capitalism, as well as our argument for anarchy!! Enjoy!!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexTHE BOBO&FLEX BIPOC FB GROUP:https://www.facebook.com/groups/714593526047455BOBO'S PATREON:www.patreon.com/bobosvoidFLEX'S PODCAST:https://open.spotify.com/show/5P75s7GZlPYfSWi6VDiPHD?go=1&utm_source=embed_v3&wmode=opaque&t=1690&fallbac...

Aug 10, 20201 hr 17 min

AITA for cleaning poop off my friend

This week we're diving into some moral dilemmas! we answer the questions: where do we draw the line between altruistic vs invasive? what does it mean to be a good friend? when, if ever, is it appropriate to give unsolicited advice? and, is honesty really the best policy?Enjoy!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUB...

Jul 26, 20201 hr 12 min

Jada, Will, August & Predatory Behaviour

This week we're talking about the Jada, Will & August dilemma. We talk about the difference between a life partnership vs a romantic partnership. We unpack what it really means to commit and be loyal to someone. AND; most importantly we talk about sexual consent and how that intersects with class, privilege and power dynamics.JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON...

Jul 19, 20201 hr 6 min

what is the point of representation?

This week we're dissecting the recent popularization of black liberation. why are companies suddenly so interested in black representation? We discuss the futility of getting a 'seat at the table,' why being 'the first black' is not success, and we unpack the popular idea that the black experience is improving over time.JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:t...

Jul 12, 20201 hr 3 min

are you morally obligated to love your family?

This week we're talking about family dynamics! We discuss the ethics surrounding familial love, we talk about the inability to escape childhood trauma, whether or not the nuclear family is an outdated format for raising kids, and so much more! enjoy :)JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com...

Jul 05, 202057 min

growing up in a black household

This week we're dissecting some AITA's, and talking about the very unique experience of being raised black ... but more specifically, being raised African. We talk about black parenting vs white parenting, and the exhaustion of being perceived as a strong black woman. Enjoy!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE ...

Jun 28, 202058 min

PLAYING REFLEX: is it unethical to own pets?

This week's episode was sooo funn!!!! we're playing our new REFLEX Expansion Pack, made by Flex in collaboration with Bobo :) we talked about everything from the ethics of animal agriculture, the moral significance of our thoughts, the paradox of moral obligations, AND SO MUCH MORE !BUY REFLEX:https://flexfactory.store/collections/everything-but-clothing/products/reflex-bobo-matjila-editionJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflex...

Jun 21, 20201 hr

why is cultural appropriation prioritized over black genocide?

This week we're extending our conversation about race! we talk about the personification of race, why cultural appropriation is prioritized over black lives, and we discuss whether liberation can or will ever be achieved! JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB7...

Jun 14, 20201 hr 12 min

do you think black lives actually matter?

This week we're discussing all things activism! What does it mean to be an ally to Black Lives Matter, and black liberation movements as a whole? Is activism still valid even if it's performative? Enjoy!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: ...

Jun 10, 202059 min

how your friends impact your success

This week we're talking about success! Do we need successful friends in order to thrive? Are we really the sum of our friendships? What does it really mean to be successful under capitalism? Is success even a worthwhile pursuit? Enjoyyy!!! And let's continue the conversation on socials!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO ...

May 31, 20201 hr 18 min

lana del rey, doja cat & antiblackness

This week we're digging into the drama surrounding Lana Del Rey & Doja Cat. We have an honest conversation about race, antiblackness and practical ways to navigate living in a white supremacist world and tackling racism head-on.JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_ig...

May 25, 20201 hr 13 min

learning to give and receive love

This week we're talking all about love and vulnerability! Where do we learn to love? How do we undo our toxic ideas about love? and how can we become more vulnerable in our relationships! :)JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagram:Bobo: www.instagram...

May 18, 20201 hr 12 min

the pressure to be positive on social media

This week we're discussing social media, toxic positivity and the illusion of permanence and happiness. This is probably one of our more philosophical discussions, so if you're ready to spiral, let's goooooooo :)JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SAInstagr...

May 11, 202052 min

what does it mean to be rich in 2020?

This week we talked about class, clout, Caroline Calloway, privilege and how that all intersects with romance! What does class look like in 2020? is clout a more valuable currency than money? and how do we navigate financial dilemmas in our romantic relationships without making our relationships transactional? Enjoy!!!!JOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:tw...

May 03, 20201 hr 9 min

what do we owe each other? moral and ethical dilemmas

This week we're discussing solitude and morality! Why do some people need more human interaction than others? What do we owe each other? kindness, compassion, or just basic human decency? And; how should we relate to each otherJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboandflexSUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON TWITTER:twitter.com/boboandflexSUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL:www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9u...

Apr 26, 20201 hr 6 min
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