Blunt With My Bestie

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Join Raf and April as they navigate marriage and parenthood through challenging conversations with a funny sense of humor. It’s easy to lose yourselves and each other once you become parents, but we’re here to show you that it’s possible to not only stay connected, but also find the fun in learning how to be better for each other and yourselves.

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Ep. 14: Update On Our Kid Getting Bullied

This experience was both stressful and heart-wrenching for all of us but we're glad it got resolved in a way where our child doesn't have to feel fear coming to school, which is one of his favorite places to be. Thanks again to those who shared stories and showed support! Our besties are the best! Don't forget to submit your Dear Bestie letters HERE These can be questions, stories, jokes, or even topic suggestions you'd like us to discuss! Sky is the limit! Follow us on Instagram @bluntwithmybes...

Mar 03, 2023•28 min

Ep. 13: Different Parenting Perspectives

The tension was high but Raf was higher so this episode is full of laughs along with serious conversations about what are different perspectives are as parents. Join us for another fun episode and don't forget to submit your Dear Bestie questions here ! Follow us on IG: @bluntwithmybestie @aprilsbeautifulmess @rafsantodomingo

Feb 23, 2023•45 min

Ep. 12: Valentine's Day!

Raf gave me the most least expected surprise this year for Valentine's this year! What has been your favorite Valentine's gift? Do you celebrate Valentine's? Dear Besties Submissions go here ! Follow us on Instagram: @bluntwithmybestie @aprilsbeautifulmess @rafsantodomingo

Feb 15, 2023•33 min

EP. 11: Don't Tell Me How To Feel

We talk about how to help without overstepping and respecting other's emotions while properly communicating through difficult boundaries. Raf is happy for the Dear Bestie submissions so we dive into them as well, keep them coming! For Dear Besties submissions, click HERE ! Follow us on Instagram: @bluntwithmybestie @rafsantodomingo @aprilsbeautifulmess...

Feb 01, 2023•41 min•Ep. 11

Ep. 10: Anger Is A Healthy Emotion!

We go deep on emotions and why we shouldn't suppress them in this episode along with talking about the importance of releasing what no longer serves you. Raf and April continue to learn more and more about growth and are just here to share the journey so come along! For Dear Besties submissions, click HERE ! Follow us on Instagram: @bluntwithmybestie @rafsantodomingo @aprilsbeautifulmess...

Jan 25, 2023•44 min

Ep. 9: Lessons of the First Born Child

We're doing our best to do better for the next generation but sometimes it can be hard and has us feeling like chickens with our heads cut off! Listen in and then let us know how you plan to or are navigating parenting your preteens, especially if this is your first go around. Dear Bestie Submissions CLICK HERE

Jan 18, 2023•40 min

Ep. 8: How We Process Emotions Differently

We couldn't be more thankful for tools and resources like Human Design to help us better understand each other and our kids. Especially when it comes to being emotional, it's given us way more insight on how to deal with each other in times of stress and challenges. April needs time to process and Raf needs to understand the root of the issue instead of avoiding it. At the end of the day, we work as a team to continue growing even when it can be really hard sometimes! If you'd like to order Huma...

Jan 13, 2023•46 min

Ep. 7: Random Q&A

We really enjoyed answering the random questions and as funny as they were, it helps you get to know us just a little bit more. Keep the submissions coming! Looking forward to recording more episodes this year! Happy 2023!

Jan 03, 2023•33 min

Ep 6: Don't Get Left Behind

This week we talk about the importance of growing together as a couple, and not being left behind while the other excels. Oftentimes, there's one partner who is more invested in growth than the other and this can be challenging. But what if you just needed a different approach? Raf and April speak on how April was able to get Raf on board without force and the lessons she learned on what not to do. They also responded to their first "Dear Besties" submission about the roles between parents of be...

Dec 27, 2022•40 min

Ep. 5 Navigating Different Parenting Styles Together

We get asked a lot about how we parent, knowing that we are very different from each other. We go deep into this in today's episode along with sharing the ways we come together as parents in order to nurture safe and secure relationships with our kids. We're also so excited to open up our new segment called, "Dear Besties" where you can share your stories and ask us questions about life, love, parenthood, and anything else under the sun! Contact us through this LINK or in the submission button o...

Dec 20, 2022•42 min

Ep. 4: 7 Tips For A Healthy Relationship

Today we're sharing 7 of our top tips for we keep our relationship healthy and strong. Let us know which step is your favorite! Also, for those interested in ordering a Human Design Blueprint, you can send me a DM on Instagram @bluntwithmybestie OR email me at hello@aprilsbeautifulmess.com.

Dec 13, 2022•42 min

Ep. 3: Manifesting Meaningful Friendships

We had so much fun talking about how we've manifested some pretty amazing friendships over the last few years along with sharing a fun Q&A exercise you can do with your partner. Let us know if you give it a try! If you like our show, please don't forget to subscribe as well as share with your friends!

Dec 07, 2022•45 min

Ep. 2: Happy Wife, Happy Life?

Find out how we REALLY feel about this phrase and why we prioritize our own happiness. Expecting someone to "make" you happy can only lead you both down a road of resentment and disappointment. What would it look like to come together as two happy and whole people giving 100/100 effort in yourselves and each other? If you're not following us already, head over to Instagram and follow us @bluntwithmybestie For inquiries, contact us at bluntwithmybestie@gmail.com...

Nov 29, 2022•45 min

Episode 1: Meet Your Besties

Whether you've been married for one year, 10 years, or 50 years, we believe in always growing together and as individuals and we do this by staying blunt with each other. It can be hard work but around here we find the fun in the messiness and business of life so that we can remain, well, besties! Hope you enjoy and can stick around for more future episodes!

Nov 22, 2022•20 min

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