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Lil Durk, Big Bank & DJ Scream - More Love Less Hate

Feb 01, 202052 minSeason 1Ep. 8
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Lil Durk joins Big Bank & DJ Scream. PLUS. Lola The Nurse Practitioner pulls up on The Big Facts Crew for an in depth conversation about mental health.

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The truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth. You're listening to Big Facts with Big Bank and DJ Scream live for first class Sounds, was the voice of DJ Scream. Big Bank Black is here and it's time for another episode of Big Facts, representing that shottown we got the one and only y'all wanted them on Big Facts. He pulled up a little dirk is in the building, giving up a little dirt, A little dirt, little dirt. What's up with you man? Now before we start? You know,

she dishing man raising right here. Man, you gotta sweat to tell the whole truth, nothing but the truth. Can you do that? Or you can plead the filth regardless. You're gonna do that regardless, Right, that's the way of being swanning. What's what's up? What's up with a little dirt? Man? Howlo? That is you're good? Yeah, I'm just chilling, managine VI. You know I had to put up on y'allo. Yeah, yeah, yeah, what's what's what's what's been going on? What you like

day to day? You know what I'm saying. Obviously you obviously always spending a lot of time in the studio. It seemed like you've been killing the features of lately. Salute to you on that. What kind of mindset you been in the later what you've been on. I've just been working, I'm saying, valid, trying to get out and get out of a certain zone. I'm saying, trying to overcome this hump. You know what I'm saying. Just go extra crazy when you say what you mean by hump.

Just um, I'm trying to like level up as far as like charting, I mean, more fastable, so like that. So not just like like that's that's my that's my number one, go streets forever, signed to the streets. Yeah, but it's like you got to give a certain hump to that put you in a different category. We never did for real. As So how have you been Have you having any change in the approach to your music of late, like let's say in the last year or two, like,

have you had a different approach? But yeah, I just started putting more meaning to my music. At first, it was just right Rob, like no, no subject for real, you know what I'm saying. So I just start just speaking to him, like speaking to the streets, speaking to what you're going through with your people. Is going through with people going through around me. I said, when I started stick to that subject, everybody around me start feeling

the more, even who was around me. But when listened to him, m hmm, how you feel about in Chicago drill music? Right? And I'm sure when you move around now you here like everybody on drill Music's good, New York is on it. How do you feel about that? That's good? It's good, it's perfect spread like like that's the whole goal of doing shit. Like if you ever want to do something and when people copy you and you then you know you're doing it right, like you

can't get mad at then. Yeah, how was it growing up in Chicago? Like it was legit? Like I was. It was different what I'm saying, the balance one the other, but it was. It's just different because when you step out that port, you're man by yourself, like you know, no matter what age you is, like it's the same struggle, the same story that everybody got. Mamain got this day locked. It's the same ship. So it's on you to overcome. I'm saying what we're going on at the time, But me,

I've been in my home like getting to it. You moved away from Chicago. Yeah, yeah, are you happier that? I mean, of course that's home. Yeah you feel like now yeah, because y'all embraced me like family now saying a lot of people don't do that. A lot of people don't get that. Like, so that's the difference to say, what's the difference between this city and your city? Just even not you, not you being from your city, just just like from the outside. What's the difference between non

in Chicago to you? Um, the main the main difference is y'all got a family vapor. Everybody love each other. Like everybody got difference in but everybody loves each other. You can you can call this neighborhood and this been coming from this neighborhood and squashed the beef. I'm saying, everybody back to the money. Y'all know want golden money to Chicago. It's like they don't wanna gold as warm.

I'm saying, So you can't. Ain't no big home you can call because the youngs ain't expecting on that ship. Just reckless, like that's just how it was. Then when the music came along and hit the scene, it really just said like it really just took off and said, just fun all that ship, no rules. Yeah, so Alana

got got a vibe that I need it. How you trapping up with some of the youngest though, Like if they're coming up like some of the youngest, that because you you probably admit some time ago you as wild. You know what I'm saying. But you don't like I funk with all of them because now I'm saying this, that's how I was, and I was looking at the future and meeting all them. I'm like, Damn, these niggas turned the funk up, what I'm saying. So now I

see how they're looking at us, like damn. So I just tried to do like a little shit like help him out, give them features or I'm come to the studio shout them out, post a music like to a ship, count like you ain't got that ship count like you ain't got an overdue that you're gonna make a hit just off knowing the dirt. Think I'm hard. What I'm telling calling as the phone, you call me all that ship. So that's how I embraced the youth, like foot all

the things. How did the whole six hundred movement start? Like your whole moment. How you started like from the beginning? Yeah, six huntre that's all. Yeah it was wrong, don't there? You know he was three hunted Okay, yeah the old okay, yeah, yeah, you know what about o TL Like how you start the whole ship all of that. That's the same ship with three like the same ship for real, like same block everything. But that's the block y'all from Yeah, it's

called them wrong like normal. Yeah. Yeah, So you got artist sign you to run? Yeah, I got King on Um, bubble Stix, hunt, couple more artist, Okay, who you locked in with in Chicago? No, you're thinking that they got to Chicago. Man, I can't even say that because it's a few of them. I'm saying. You know, you've got like Cowboy, You've got Polo g Herb and New Nigger, but you got Herb still shout out her, shout her.

You got it's different artists out there that you probably never heard of, but they funk with a different type of wave like Covinnett shout out Cold Ben like he got his own way, Like it's to the point where he's shooting videos for somebody. Different artists and these styles next day, So it's probably artists ain't ever seen or heard of. But like when he touching, they're gone, but they beat from Chicago. He shoot video. Yeah covid. Oh I ain't never heard, but he hard hard labels can't

even touch either one. Yeah, the one and he independed for real. Oh yeah, yeah heard. It's what they hope. It's a group on. Yeah, it's a group on. But he like the face of us. What's some of the ship they shot? Man? That I problem a lot of man, that's a lot of the ship. Didn't he do some ship for Drake? No, what I don't know he did. It's a lot though, Bro, he didn't. Any time you see these videos and they just be like with the Jills on it, Yeah, a little better than all them.

It's probably covid. I'm telling creative got him moms up there to him. That is to the point where artist like man, I shoot the video of code Ben be Riches there the morow shout out cold or like doing

this thing. But a lot of cameraman's out there just like I said, just that everybody gotta get that family to help each other win and shout out like you got the polo g I don't know if it was a way to uh, if you could think of a way to clean the streets of Chicago, what you think, Like, what would you do if you had the chance for them they gonna listen to you and be like, Okay, whoo, let's let's let everything be did in Chicago. Kid of beefs like the same had that much of stort over

the whole city. What would you tell him, Um, you know, that's the number one goal. I mean, not that's numb one goal to stop it, but the number one priority for like us in the streets and like politician wise to stop the violence and slow it down as much as possible and then start with everybody like just coming together. But like I said, it's hard because you probably got him over here thinking he that, but his young niggers

don't even respect him. So even if he be like when it's come together, they're looking at this as like, what are you thinking? That's how it is, bro Like that's why it's hard. It's difficult to get ready to whack him for sure, Like you can't just be like

it's all about you think it's chance. Went at the education system, he said, Look, we just need to put some money in these schools doing it, or you think it's just all that help, bro, all that help, Like it don't matter who's saying that, who's doing it, like it all help. So about him doing that that help a portion of Now you got to fix this portion, fix that portion or the city. And they got different

people for it. But this ship is going on that the's are gonna never better respect each other's side though, don't. It's life. That's what I'm saying, Like that's what I would telling him, Like when you asked me, like what could I do to God? I'm like, bro, some ship won't never stop. Like you're hearing the stories back then, wall y'all old. But like back then, I'm hearing stories by my uncle, my possum, how they ran the streets and and it's just like down there today they just

stopped ship. Like like now I'm just gonna let that ship go, like just search it ain't they're trying to stop it in two days. This ain't gonna work. Man. They're here, Nah, has been at them decades and ain't been stop getting work. They say, the mom's going down in Chicago. Luck, Yeah, we need you need to get you get it all the way down, Like it's just for everybody to figure it out, like in their own way, because it's impossible right now for somebody for one side

in the room with another side, like overnight. I ain't saying ain't possible just overnight. It just ain't gonna happen. Too many people, too many loved ones, and the ship been too dispised. One thing about Chicago artist bro my Son a little here and now he'd be telling me about let me see him nenna be disrespectful boy after that ship. Ain't you ever seen no ship like that?

But that's like the wave like it was to the point somebody asked me, like, how can we start a campaign and saying stop saying people dead, homes and weed never that's like stopping the violence. Like they got their man made. Like you gotta show him more than that. He's doing niggas on face and he's showing me nigga's on FaceTime with each other. Yeah, playing it all. But what are you at, dough? Yeah, really slide for real. But but but everywhere now it's everywhere, but he kind

of different. What's up? I don't know. It's the nigga ship. Oh, man, everybody them niggas up crazy. I don't nigga disrespectful, but yeah what at the end of the day, it's just a coach of it too. No, no Timo, his nat Timo in there just funked up right after that, did n't Tomoto? Are you doing this staying in Chicago to is everybody excited about All Star coming? There ain't nobody going. It's sucked up though, because because ain't a lot with everybody.

I said I'll talk to about it. It was like, man, I ain't, but they'd be like, ye'all know. But at the same time my head like, man, y'all got our city fuck up, like the whole ship, like the whole viewer, like man's beautiful city. Yeah, but say everybody be like hell like I used to taste, like it's it's places where you can go kick it on some tourist sh Yeah that beyond that playing vot gunning. Yeah, I don't know matter. I just went mad while he's safe and

just get in. He's going to get out. Yeah, yeah, you gotta go, Yeah, you gotta go. Yeah I got to. But it's just I'm picking and choosing what there was on from now you just gotta pick and choose what you're doing and how you moved. Yeah, I know you're not. You're not gonna tell you from the book me at the Trenches Club, I know better the club Adrian, they's been killed and that motherfucker out, that motherfucker. Yeah, just know there yea the show. Just buy something that had

a couple of niggas and up. But in Chicago need to get what then. Don't like each other, but get what they do. They respect each other because get the nigga sick. Ain't nobody to nick around him, Anybody get him.

What's so crazy? That's how in Chicago would be like all it is what it is, but like soon'd you step outside, she caught you step in the line of New York anywhere chicag everybody right together, So it'd be weird to say, like, god damn ship, bro, I can't need get your scrap, but I can't tell you good now that needs to be bringing to me. Told me that long time ago. He's like, I don't come your hood on your at your own ridge. Bro, I'm not

even said, but tell you like you're good, bro. Yeah, now that she could go on rial ship like Yeah, you'll have to tell him like, that's a man with me after hall. Yeah, we came out and shot a video at that one time over the way y'all being and ship with keeping out of me. Yeah, nigga telling we're good like, Bro, we ain't try that ship. Yeah, but we can tell you. I'm telling you, bro, shut up. Tell what's up to the niggas? Man? What's up? You know what I'm maan, Make sure I'm good. I can't you.

I don't know what you you think you might have that are thinking about it, but you you don't respect the nigger enough to say don't bring it back to the first conversation. Yeah, they don't give a funk Who are you with? Like period, you ain't if you ain't out there with them and on a daily basis like teaching them, they ain't trying to have none. That's y'all. That he was the man back in the that ship dead man. That ship. That's I'll tell you, like, if you one of them and still with it's to a

certain extent where they respected, but other than that, it's over. Yeah, you can't tell me then I'm talking. I don't think I try to come out to all this ship you did twelve years ago. None of that ship. But what I said, he ain't gotta stay it. And then you gotta get out of your new way. Man, stay active. One you get out of your way, you'll need crazy Bro. Everybody from the street fucked up. You know what I'm saying.

I know right now niggas thinking niggas have to wake up there then thinking niggas that ain't with them no more. This ship just Niga needs to be needing help. Bro scared said, though, yeah, you're scared to said like you ain't see you ain't got no just against a chick or something that you know this, you're not the one for Everybody knows that. I know how you rock. You know what I'm saying, You really got somebody right up to You know what I'm saying, that's what it is like,

that's how I do it either studio, huh. Exactly what I'm saying that we'll be trying to get y'all nigga t nig is how important it is to get you one female. You know what I'm saying. It's cool now I'm just saying, like, yeah, I'm going straight home. You know what I'm saying what I'm saying. It ain't bad if you ain't. But I ain't gonna add like the female to help you get super focused. Bro. Yeah yeah, bro makes you up. That's your second thought. I had

to crib. It was just all us in that motherfuler. We ain't never a hunting deeper every day. She like the fun this little boy shit. Maybe get on my ship, like so you need that extra extra arm hunt it for real, ship, though I didn't know anything I'm gonna get you know anything, but you know you got something. Hey, man, you gotta do what you gotta do. Bro, don't focus see ship that we can't see you get you anything. He's gonna backfire about a month, schmid ship man Smilla coming. No,

But I think it's important though. Man, I'm preaching that to the young man. I get what nigga's niggas who just in the street thuing he ain't have your moma't have your dad. You feel like, don't nobody love you, don't like people always them to. Yeah, that's what I'm sapping. If you got somebody like okay, somebody loved me, you start thinking different and moving different. I ain't even be runing around the stick. Got damn, bro, I'm gonna just

bringing the limpops. Ain't you know what? They either started doing ship different, you know what I'm saying, because you got somebody to I got two hands, you got all this ship. You know what I'm saying. No, they just makes you think different, like because you because Nigga don't have nobody, don't be loving me. Nigga, bro, you know what somebody brother who like the day to day, I love you hug ship like somebody waking up to today pistol. Yeah,

just waking up to that scrap. That's it. Like, but no, you because you got I got a lot of my gas, so I know, like, yeah, it's like where is that? Like it's over with? Like you know, Nigga's like, guys gonna get you got me and no, I bet we're gonna hit the property. We're gonna go them. If you go by all drugs, they're staying there. They're not leaving them more that just sho. I still love them the death. Yeah.

If you if somebody coming up wrapping man, you know you've been through some record deals or what he would you would you tell them to like put the brakes on signing the deal and try to do the end the ship and grind it out first. Or she is different, bro, because the deal don't work for everybody, and independent don't work for everybody. And you just gotta make sure whoever you sign with or funk with, just make sure they family.

Don't look at the money first, Like you can't look at the money because you have the money with no support, no no vab and then when you go broke, you just like everybody else. See, I'm rout to take less of money with a with a with a machine behind me because I know what I'm gonna make for real, have a whole lot of money. Then don't funk with you now you you funked up over with Yeah you gotta have you don't have shows nothing you with. You had to clip on Instagram where um what you had

to line about French Montana. He jumped in your comments and it saluted you and everything. Y'all. Y'all been back on Rocket like speaking basis the studio. We just did like anything something, Oh y'all Rocket Rocket, Yeah, my boy, that was my first time like with him for real, okay, cally so like we chopped it up. It was weird at first. It's weird because it's still with you, Like, yeah, he was one of the early ones to salute you

to everything, you know what I'm saying. Yeah, that just but it just it just the type of ship I'm trying to try to aim for. It's like speaking to the streets, like just sticking to the name of the voice, you know what I'm saying, because like talking about that mother was looking like damn, I always wanted to know what happened, and you just give it to him and they mut in the music now when they listen. Back then they want to listen, but now it's like it's

like damn, talk up, yeah, shout out French though. So that's dope. We can look forward to some music coming out from y'all. That's real dope. That's real dog. That's what else you got up your sleeve for the twenty bro? What can we what can we look forward to? Torn festivals? I'm excited about this one album. Man, it's gonna be crazy. That is that one? But your boy? Yeah, you know, yeah, I'm speaking to the cold. I just cracked the cold. I just cracked it. Yeah, A lot a lot of

people gonna crack on the head. But this ship is gonna be next level for sure, Binkles next level, Man, Dirt, appreciate you coming through, my brother. You know that I ain't gonna ask you this, Amzy. I didn't. I gotta see Dirk all the time. Talk to him in the head space like you know what I'm saying, next level? Yea what I'm saying. Like you locked in? You know when you left people they all right? Yeah, you know what I'm saying. Mentally, Yeah, I'll be I'm learning from

y'all to ship. No real list. I'm always you tuned in. Yeah, like you show you show her love, you show a little too. This Nick right here, you know it's inside ship like that makes you Oh man, show that we locked We appreciate you Attle. You know what it is. Big Facts is official salute facts on social media at Big Facts five Live for first class sounds. You know what it is, Big Facts DJ screen right here, Big

Bank Black. We got a special guests up in the building because we've been asking every artist that come through here about their mental health and are they all right and all things of the such. So we want to give it up for doctor Lola. Dr Lola has joined us on Big Facts. How you doing, Dr Lola? I'm well, how about yourself? So introduce yourself to the world and let him know who Dr Lola is and what you do. Okay,

So I'm gonna correct you. Everybody calls me doctor, but I'm a nurse practitioner thing, okay, Instagram or Lola Okay, it's dopamine thing. Okay, Lola, Lola is here. Yes, it's cool. Um. So i am a psychiatric nurse practitioner. I've been doing this for over ten years now and it's my passion. Um. I went into it like ever since I can remember.

I just love mental health. So I went into it, and now that I'm in it, seeing our black men suffer is what I'm why I'm here with you guys today while I went to black and because if you look at research, according to Health and Human Services, black men only utilize find a ten percent of mental health services, yet they faced the most obstacles today in this world. And so why is that? What is the what is what is the fear? So the first thing let me let me ask you, is that the stigma of all

the stigma of mental health? Right, it's kind of like this thing like if somebody has some mental health issues, ah, you crazy, stay away from them. Stay away from them. So I think the first thing is whether you go to a licensed person or whether you just go to talk to somebody you feel comfortable talking to. A lot of people just don't want to talk to nobody about their mental health issues. I openly say I went to

a therapist when I touring heavy. It was too much anxiety and stress for me, and I went to a therapy, especially since you know, and it was cool, you know what I'm saying, just to be able to talk to somebody about what's going on, and you find that you're gonna get like real simple answers. You don't be that complex, but just being able to talk to somebody is uh,

is pretty cool. So I guess from your perspective, what's the first step if you're feeling like stress, anxiety, or some type of mental health issue, what should the person do first? UM? I think the first thing they should do is recognize what they're feeling. UM. If you don't recognize it and admit that something is wrong, then you're not going to go get help. So that's the first step.

And then knowing who you're safe people are, who is someone that you can talk to because I think a lot of people are afraid of judgment, ridicule, shamed, doubt, things of that nature. So if you have close people and you're like, I like the quality your safe spot, people that you know, hey, I'm feeling like this, and someone who was like, you know, Okay, you're feeling this, so let's take you here, Let's do this, or let's do that. I think those are the first things that

you have in order to get it. But being able to recognize that you do have a problem. And then outside of that, like how how do you think like artists and athletes and people the such should approach it because I think a lot of them just trying to sweep it under the rug and they don't want to talk about it. Like, how do you think they should approach it if they're feeling like we saw Summer Walker, right, Summer Walker just came out and was like, I can't do the rest of this tour is too much? You

know what I'm saying? How do you think that people that are highing the fame rank should handle it? Um? I I think this is my opinion. I think anybody who gets into Hollywood needs to have a mental health evaluation. I think that should be something that should be in

everyone's contract. I think that's something that and somebody should be on board on the label, like somebody who they can talk to, like if I'm having an issue, hey, or even seeing weekly or monthly or whatever the case it maybe and so they can get it out of them, because sometimes you don't recognize what you're going through and somebody has to tell you. And I'm like, if you think about it, like when I look at black man, I think all black men in America suffer from some

former PTSD. Okay, let's uh first coming growing up most most I'm not gonna say all we're raised in a home with a single mom, right, so you don't have you don't know that, you don't have that father figuring the home to see what it is to be a man. Then we have social economic classes, right, so we come from different struggles. So it's a lot of struggles. So say, I hear people tell all the time, we were poor, we don't know how we're gonna eat. We had to

share a bag of noodles. All that is traumatic, that's that's traumatic not knowing that you don't know when your next meal is gonna come from our you know, if I'm gonna eat, So I gotta make sure I go to school so I can at least get breakfast in lunch because I might not get dinner tonight. Like that's traumatic and just growing up not knowing those things. And then let's not say you see kids with TV, if you see a man, it looks like you literally get

killed on TV. So now, back in the days, they say the cops was afraid of us, but now we're afraid of the cops. So you're putting your hand on the stair and well, don't shoot me, don't kill me. That's traumatic. All that is forms of PTSD. All those are traumatic experience that that black man face today you're right now coming from. You know, when I speak, I speak for the streets. So I'm asking questions like people

come from the streets. Do you feel like we automatically like like you're just saying the ship we went through, you feel like it's automatic? Uh, postraumatic stress? Right, how do we fix ourselves? Like if we don't want to go talk to because like you said, safe place, some people don't have the safe place when you're position that when you're in position that you the heads and say things to you, the head of your crew, of your

family or whatever. Who do you talk to? Like if you don't want to talk to you can only play Basically it's oh again, like I tell people all the time, because that's how it is in the African American community. They're gonna tell you, hey, go to church, pray about it. But God can only do so much the pastor and then go to school for this. The pastor doesn't have the resources that's available to help you to get to where you need to get. So if you don't know,

how can you grow? Right? I mean they can pray, but faith with that word like they say, it's dead. What if you're on the other end and you see somebody that's mentally mentally ain't right? What like what should you do? Like if you know somebody just ain't right, what's the first thing you think that? Because because sometimes it's like, man, if I would have did this and said this a week or two before, they might have taken their own life or whatever the case, maybe they

might still be here. So if you see anything wrong in any situation, what you what you think somebody should do. Um, I think they should go to that person, like, hey, let them know that you care and make it know that it's genuine because sometimes and like Nick Cannon just post is something the other day, right, I mean today I think and he was saying, um, what was the guy's name? Saying something about your Orlando Webster. But yeah, yeah,

I don't know till I mean Nick Cannon talked about it. Yeah, but yeah do that for he wigging out. Let me tell you there's people Okay, I get what y'are saying. An Tonio Brown wigging out? Who is that? Antonio Brown? The football player did everything, but he just lost everything. That's traumatic. He lost his job, he lost all his contracts, his children, his wife, everybody, and fast in the last year, not even in a year, in a couple of months, six months. So they had an arm robbery situation at

his crib. But basically his trainer was locked up and all that ship. And now they're trying to find him because I said he is a necessary to it. They can't find him. So my first thing was that y'all trying the house because he might if you watch the air. Hernandez ship. Football players are dealing with ct ship like it's on real ship. Like the dirty year old's got the brain of an eighty year old, see what I'm saying.

So that banging around and from all them hits, they say football could be the equivalent that had like dirty car accidents a year, and if you have one car accident, you can be sucked up. So imagine just consistently being just banged up and ship like that being let them vote kitching you'll have and then ain't letting them vote run down? Yeah, yeah it. I just think, man, coming up the way we come up. Man, you don't you

know what I'm saying you're doing? And then when you do have to strength to make yourself you know what I'm saying, to take yourself from a bad situation, the road to do that be so heavy that you do be fucked up in here, you know what I'm saying, Like, Okay, you make up in your mind as a child, Okay, on tired of belonging, I'm tired of you. Got there. I'm porking me like, and you just get on your ground, you know what I'm saying. All are you grinding? No

matter what you're doing? Husting playing football, basketball or whatever. It's obstacles down, you know what I'm saying, And you're losing people along the way. You're seeing people turned for the dollar on you. You see. You know what I'm saying. So here, yeah, that should have anything up, you know what I'm saying. So you you if you if you stay fucked up upon another bridge, you're gonna be retarded. If you go, get you to the paper, you're gonna go crazy, like what the fun is going on? So

that's why it needs to start in elementary school. They need to make it mandated. I think mental health classes need to be mandated. So when you recognize it, because so many people have childhood trauma that has not been resolved and the go until your adulthood and it's trying to late. It's like you gotta keep peeling, peeling, peeling thing.

Think about it, though you ain't gonna baby to go. No, put that in schools, because then the other kids who feel like they ain't retarded gonna be teasing, like specially sped where we go, but you're on that sped but that shop but needing, So no, I'm not talking about so right there, that's the stigma that we're talking about right now, right you just said it, you retarded, crazy, but that but that's why people are afraid because they

hear those words. But if we can desensitize it and make it and normalize it and say like if a man cries, are you see a little boy cry? Instead of saying what you're crying for? Stop crying your boy boys? Don't cry? Instead ask him like, what's going on? Why are you crying? So he can see you know, able to speak about his feelings and not have to boil it in and then before you know it, that's how you have these people who just snap because they're ready

to talk to someone. But if if people are more approachable and say to you instead, hey, let's talk about this, what's going on? Tell me how you feel okay, I can see why that's happening, that can prevent yes, and that can prevent the depression. That can prevent the anxiety because now we're able to talk instead of brushing it under the rugs, are taking it to church. And not to put this all on you, but that's your position for for our chop up and everything. But another realistic

part of it is just money. I mean health care don't cover mental health care. So it's like even if you got Obamacare or whatever the case is, you can go get your blood pressure or whatever checked down, it don't cover that, like usually zero percent. So I'm just giving you these problems because somebody might be watching and be like, I love to go get some help. I ain't got the money. So unfortunately I don't have the actual Uh. I just I posted it on my business page.

But actually it was a law that was passed, the Health and Disparity Law. Um, and whatever insurance you have, they have to give you the same amount, same benefits, equal as in mental health. Yes, so it was just past um. I don't know who, under whose administration. I don't want to so um. But yeah. So now because like in my I have my own private practice, and so when I look at client's insurance, yes, yes, so I'm able to see so they it's equal. Now it's equal.

So no, that's no longer a problem. So if you have some problems and you have insurance or people take cash and they'll work with you. We have sliding scales that people don't have insurance, and you know, you tell us any this is what I do I'm passionate about it, so it's not about the money for me. So if somebody comes to me and they're telling me they're suicidal they need meds, and it's like, I'm not gonna turn them around because they don't have insurance or they don't

have money, when can you nah? But for real, though, this ship is serious, Man, I see some little niggas. Man, I know, bro, you ain't got it all the ship you just said out your mouth. You're not the same the things you just did. Like I see people do ship every day like they just amazed me, Like, how the fuck is you? Could you do that? Like when you watch the news that I won't watch the news

and ship is depressing, Like how could you do that? Like, man, you're fucking crazy to kill your grandma, yea, your sister, your cousin, Like, man, I don't even know what the fun the world is coming to, Like it's something I think he's done the design to run niggas crazy, man, because you go to jail, we run your crazy enough. Like they got there trying to break you. You know what I'm saying. I got it's a lot of solid niggas that don't stay solid. Kept their brain get out

of jail. But but it's a lot of need to come on worst in Vietnam. But from the chain game, bro, like what we was saying, the whole is the biggest thing to break. You run the designed to break the next Um, Yes, the one that jay Z did a documentary on. He did. Yeah, but I mean you like it. You gotta have sunlight for your health for a book, Yes, you know what I'm saying. That's part of it. People don't like the vitamin D from some of all that ship.

You got to see something for your help. So if you're in the hole not seeing no light, I don't even know what you look like. Yourself ain't on mirror or nothing. You don't even know the fun You look like gonna lose it, no way around it. Yeah, it's no way. And I don't think and when you look at the because I was gonna work at a prison, but I just couldn't. My soul wouldn't let me. When I went and did my tour. And how they just put black men in cages for ne state free time.

I was like, they're not dogs, they're not animals. But um, but the mental health that's in the jails aren't even because there's so many Like if you look at the jails has some type of mental health illness, but they don't have enough providers to give them the services that they need. And I don't feel like it's genuine as well, because these big companies come contracts and they just they make money. The prison system is very little. That's why they got it when they could got damn all these

switchers watch and laws to where I got there. When they get you, they got you. You know what I'm saying, John t news Man, this ship ain't it ain't what it used to be. Manda, don't figure out this ship is a business. You know what I'm saying. They started it up as a business, but now they really putission effect like it's man, I know, some of the motherfucker locked up. It's pathetic. It's old, crowded. So I let somebody go. Eventually, everybody come home. I just got out.

I just got out, and you don't see him no more again, and get ja went back. Ship fucked up. Like I just think that them thes are afraid to say they need they're going through ship. That's all the part of being an adult females on me because lovely bitches they ain't got they ain't got it all the nigger they ain't calling bitch females. I'm sorry you big facts. So we just talk. We want to talk. I ain't

got about this ship. They can do whatever. Man. We got our own badge with you YouTube and for real bushes that the female be kind of crazy too, niggas be the niggas be. Don't randy girl crazy? Man. Yeah, but if a woman have told me, my hope everything I did, like so you said at home and came up with a story that you believe you probably was doing this and doing this, and when you saw up, y'all went here and went that that is retarded. I mean that is mental problem. You said, that's a mental

problem that they kept up, not kept up. You didn't get what I said, all right, A woman would make up a story in their head on what you're doing wrong and believe it. But it's not true. It's not true. It didn't happen. I don't even think of doing It's called delusional, correct, But I didn't even think to do that. Like the brain I said, you had to also remember the mind is gonna believe whatever you tell it. That's what I basically like. But that's that's like, that's a

side of it's just bad. If I like, it's just bad. If that's mental help, man, yeah what I'm saying, what about it's just as bad. If let's just say a rapper he rapped, ain't never been in the streets, and he really think getting paid for getting paid for this. We're getting paid this, so he didn't character I'm telling you, they go off the set is still think that's who

they are, Nigga, know they ain't that. They just still being careed to, trying to treat whatever you're telling and so they get caught and call it the tupocs drone. I'm not saying TUPARC was or what. I'm not here for that, but I'm just saying, like they tell theirselves that they are hard, and they really think they're hard, you know this black fact. Yeah yeah, I'm like, but I just look at them, nigga like wrap, nigga, man, shut the fuck. Nobody care about no rap. I'm to

a female bro, this has happened to me. This that scorn me. I come in out and you tell me what I just did. When I wasn't even thinking about what you're thinking I could have been doing, and you really believe it. So I was listening to your podcast the other day and you were saying the four agreements I read that book. The number one don't assume. Yeah, exactly,

you can't assume ship, man, You can't. Everybody got their own movie in their head like that will say, you got your own movie in your head with you, the actor, the producer, the directness. So you're doing whatever in your favor. You the start in this movie, like like you said with the rappers, need to wake up in the morning, look in the mirror, find the TV, their favorite TV gaister and um him. Yes, I'm hard man. This ship just that's all that ship Mills bron Yeah it is.

And just for the record, my final statement is we all ain't nobody a hunted. But I'm fucked up. I know I'm sucked up, but I ain't making up ship in my head. But I'm sucking up far as goddamn. I'll just be tweaking, you know, let me tweaking out and ship like. But I ain't got them just lying them. You got people that were really locked through themselves, man, what that is. That's just a motherfucking lie that ain't retaling kind of different terms like we got bipolar right,

So it all the pens. It's all individuals. I know. Some nigga know they lie. Bro, You know you like shut up, that's mental illness. You can you hay you have because I tell them, like, bro, how bro, I just see you a damn laugh you know me. I'm telling me, you're like you brother, and you got the walk off and telling me allways, but you still lying. Yeah, you know what I'm saying, no matter what in your heart, but yeah, what's it's hard? He's still like Yeah, he's

a made you know, convinced himself of a lot. There's one thing I never did. I never try to do, not even even when I had court cakes and ship Like you know what I'm saying that she got there, you know how you bucking all way to the end. Funk that funk that I ain't do it. I ain't do it. I didn't do it them folking. I came down from five years to two years to probation. Now when you get down in probation, hold on, now, I

did countter do this. Only gonna take that probation. What I'm saying Nigga would keep on and then go get twenty five years that she only one of my betters like free Ji Farrell to faring them know that whatever happened. You know what I'm saying, whatever happened, he put a two that little of that time at first, like Jabard did the same thing. Were telling me, Bro, don't go to trial. You know what I'm saying. But in your mind, you like funk that I got these folks beat and

that should have fucking run up. Bro, I can't make you. No, I ain't never make a false story up in my head. Bro, you can't do that. That's my only side. That's the only part that get it me. When I see a person like I might tell the person you just's retarded. But I'm saying that because you know you lying, bro or sweetheart, know what I'm saying. You went through my phone and seeing whatever you've seen. Now you don't draw the whole movie reality. Yeah you made a whole movie

of this. I'm tell you what it is not just hit the whole one time. Man, it's all. No, you love her. I don't know that. I'm just saying whatever just whatever not me say. But you know what I'm saying, Like people just make up stories and they so what do they do? What do they come to when it comes to give me your Instagram on that lett help if they want to, if they want to start the narrative to get help. Yes. Um, so I'm located in Fairville, Georgia. UM.

The name of my practices Mindset Healthcare. UM. I do medication management, group therapy, individual therapy, UM, HIV prevention, UM, substance abuse treatment. Uh. Just I mean, like I said, mental health is so broad so and I just gotta ask you some real ship. If you get a little stressed out like you, like you, you ain't a hundred percent either, right of course not we all have. How do you how do you deal with some of the things you do to deal with we won't say your

mental illness, but just your pressures and your anxiety. Yeah, I mean I definitely suffer from anxiety that I have a bad people they got up, they have plenty, they have CBD. Man, I've been taking some little pills because we got Yeah. Yeah, no, if I don't advocate, that is that stuff addictive? Okay, So let your kidneys and it might be bad for something else, right, So let me hit topics on the medication. Let me hit topping on medication. So medication is not for every disorder, right

it is. But if I have somebody so the thing I don't like about when it comes to medication, when if somebody has diabetes, right, their diabetes type one, their pentcres is not working correct, we give them insolent. Nobody shames them for taking their insolent. So why is it if I have somebody who's depressed, who's attempted suicide several times, somebody who has anxiety, anxiety so bad that they can't even drive the work, why are they shamed for taking medication.

I don't think the medication is bad because it's helping. I'm talking about you know the commercials when you see if you take this, it will help your heart, but your ears a fall off, and you'll be every drug and they have every every drug that um that is on the market. I don't care whether it's mental health,

medical has some type of side effect. Every drug does in natural healing, Like it might be better to smoke some weed than because weed is not known to have side effects or long term side effects, right, or there might be herbs or some other ship that people can use. I mean, do you agree or disagree with that? So I agree, um, from an individual standpoint, some people need medic Some people don't need medicine. All they need is therapy.

Some people do need medication. Some people, if they want to try herbs, there's plenty of natural remedies out there. We we we help. I mean it can until you start lacing and doing. I mean people do that. There's marijuana, tos CBD, it takes out, there's other things. I'm just saying, Uh, the th a c ain't there. So you don't you get everything that happens to you when you smoke weed, except you know, you don't get like the head rushing on.

You don't get high, get relaxed. But if you look at all the drugs that's on the market when it comes to mental health, our body naturally produces them. Okay, that's good to know, you know. So like I think my fear is just like it's a drug. So what happens when you decide you don't want to do the drug. Because I've seen people keeping a buck in my family get on the medicine doing better, talking I'm sucking with them. Then they get off of and I'm like, whoa, they't

way worse than that's because the medication was working. So now they're no longer on it. So guess what the back to where they started. It's worse. It's withdraw That's why I said. So it depends on if I have somebody who's bipolar. If it's somebody is bipolar schizophrenic, you're gonna take medication for a lifetime. There's no way around it. You don't think it's gonna be helped. It's a chemical imbalance, got you, all right, So it's just like being diabetic. Yeah,

your pancreas is never gonna work again. I hate the word never. I mean type one, not type two. It's a difference. With type one. Your pancres doesn't work. It doesn't produce the insunce, so that you have to take it. If not, you're gonna go into a coma. You're gonna get sick. Same thing. If I have a client who is bipolar, skis friend, they don't take their medicine, they're gonna running up and down the street naked, right, So they're gonna end up in the psychiatric hospital. Because they're

not taking their meds. Same thing. If you're not taking your instant, you're gonna end up in the hospital. So it's the same thing. So I don't think before we have these medicines, how the people coll That's my last question to you, Like, before we had all these medicines some hundreds of years ago, how did these people cold? They didn't think they was crazy, but she going over the world is. But you remember back in the day, they will remove your brain. But when they you don't

remember that. So y'all ever seen the one who flies the cuckoo nest? You remember that? Okay, So they used to do what's called the low back to me, and they removed parts of your brain because they didn't have medicine or either they would do U shock treatments. There was no medicine. So technology hasn't proved because they didn't have medicine. So that was But you gotta think, like back in the day, coming up. I just I'm glad

you said they're coming up. Back in the day, even when we were young, it might be two or three crazy people in the whole neighborhood, Like they're crazy. They're got that crazy man talking to this. So it's so many of that, so much of that sheet going on there,

like zombie laying. So it's like whatever they're putting in the food, back to the food, whatever they're putting in drugs, whatever they're the nigger consuming and seeing you know, your visual with the news with the Instagram backed again, funk Instagram, Instagram, social media, all that ship, bro, that ship is making you retarded. Yeah, I agree with that. Social media is

it's a devil in the curse. Yeah, because just think about just think about, you know, not being shading, and just think about the women that don't look that good in pictures to post. Think about what it does to them when they on trips and ship with their family time to take pictures, and she is like in itself, could be a stress waiting to see if somebody been put a bag coming up under your picture and some ship because when of your friends post, you get what

I'm saying. All that ship is psychological definitely, And like the pressure is the number one disability in the world, and suicide has increased, especially amongst teams with social media bullying. Cyber bullying is at all all time high because you know, back in the days when you get bullied when you were when we were younger, it was just in the school. But now somebody can post something on the Internet and the whole world can see it. So we appreciate you

pulling up Instagram. So we got to bring you back back. We're gonna bring you back once somebody a miss they got like an issue, like so far like we're good. But if we get artists like I need help, we're gonna bring you back. But substance abuse is an illness. Yeah, subce abuse is an illness. That's what that's that's your message to the artist. I look at substance as anything that you take that makes you feel good, that alters what you're trying to But I mean, I mean again again,

is he it's a difference. I don't look as marijuana is that bad because of the research that has been made behind it. Um cocaine also has some medical research behind it. So what you're looking at, you know I'm saying, but when you look at some of these drugs, we use them, Like my background is emergency. We used um cocaine. If a client is internal bleeding, our nosebleed, will give them cocaine and they'll stop the bleeding immediately. So we use some of these drugs to help for medical things.

Again yeah, yeah, they use it, but they will. This will be another. There will be another. Yes, okay facts big shouts out to Lola. You know what it is, Oh give your Instagram. Yes, yes, so again I'm in fanville Mindset Healthcare. Um, I told you. If anyone needs anyone to talk to or you know, we do it all. Also come and see us and my instagram for that is at Mindset Healthcare dot com. I mean I said dot com, but that's the website. But at Mindset health

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