BIG FACTS FRIDAY- YOU CAN'T MARGANALIZE ME!

north side, south side, around the area. The girl back there with us in spirit. Okay, what we're talking about? What's what's on? Everybody minding heart for Big Fact Fridays. What's what's the key word for the day? Key word for the day is marginalization. Let' be doing some big as words later. The donated that that. Yeah, So let's start with what it means and how are we gonna

talk about it? Okay, So basically, basically, the urban definition of marginalization, or the urban definition of what it means to marginalize is to oppress, to blackball, to aligne, to smear the fame or discredit, or to lower public or private opinion or the status of an individual or group through hateful, deceitful, or misguided speech of action. Basically, it means putting a nick in a box for lack of a better way to put it, to shave it down

and trim it. Meaning like just like if you're my friend, I'm gonna use an example the black was given earlier, like if you're my friend and we're in the studio and like your job is to your job is to like sweep the studio or whatever, but we funk around one night. I don't have an engineer, and you volunteer and say, like, okay, I'll engineer you because I know how to engineer. I'll try you out, and you do like a perfect job. But I'm so small minded in my thinking. I don't want you to like blow up

and be an engineer and then outgrow me. So I'm just gonna tell you, even though I know, like I would rather have you as my engineer, I'm gonna keep you in your same little clean up the studio box because I don't want you to surpass me type ship. Definitely what they got, you know how they words and then you can say that another word beside it too. That's a straight up. So that's that's that's similar. But okay, did not hear what you're saying, so like that's similar.

Everybody kind of watched that Kanye ship. Is that similar to kind of how they was treating him on the Producer ship? Like you just type she said, yeah, I word, she just said, describe something else. Yeah, they weren't doing They weren't like intentionally trying, Like they just didn't see what he was it was going on. Marginalization has to

be intentional? Does it say intentional? You were just saying you can just say, think about this if somebody want to change their career, right, and this could be in the household or some ship. Like I'm gonna be real like when I started talking about podcasting, everybody, you're doing fine it radio? Why want you gonna podcast? You see what I'm saying. Hain't that marginalization? It's a person just thinking that you can't do it. But I don't know

if that's ill intent all the time. You right right like that, it's not what's what? What? What? What? Definition? That? That was the Urban Dictionary? You want the the Roman Catholic from the crack from the Saltines. Okay, you know how that though, But I think some of it do be ill intent, like if you do it, I feel like if you do it intentionally, like feeling like somebody might get bigger than me. Yeah, yeah, like I don't

want you to. And I know that ship sounds good, engineer, and I know that you don't know how good you sound, but I know how good you sound. Okay, So the Roman Catholic Saltine definition of marginalization is treatment of a person, group, or concept as insignificant or peripheral. M we got nobody. Peripheral means like okay, okay, okay, okay, Yeah, it ain't I don't even get that. Just didn't remember. And again the can you remember? He was like, y'all can't marginalized me.

And he was just saying that y'all the people were saying he can't do fashion, he can't do all this other stuff. He had all these ideas. Now mind, you ain't gonna lie. I thought he was tripping a little bit with some of that ship at first, but he ended up doing everything he said he was gonna do. But there were people trying to marginalize him, probably some with ill intent, but probably something that just felt like, man, this is one of the greatest rappers and producers at

all time. Can he really be as dope and fashion as he wasn't rapping and producing? That's just like, you know, that's really the right that they're just opinion. I'm saying like, if you in position to hold a person in a box, like to keep him in a box, But can you keep somebody in the box. You can't really keep on they could do it anyway. Person. If that person don't let that person engineer and they know they's a good engineer,

they can go somewhere else in engineer. What if they don't know that they're a good engineering games, that's a manipulation because if you if you've got the position to put me on and I trust you, but in your back of your mind, you're a hater. And every time I say I want to try to do some new ship, you're like, you're really not gonna be good. Yes. Have y'all ever seen flowers in the attic? No? No, okay, okay,

we'll just look it up and go watch it. I'm not been explaining this, but it's about it's about that type of ship. Yall, Thank you, thank you, But theiation could really be a lot more harmful than that, because if you if you you're just not giving me an opportunity. That's cool. I can get the opportunity to someone else, like you said. But if you're telling me that, man, you never and if you hear that ship year after year a year year, I really can't do that ship

that whole time. Nigger. You you're flying with you with the chickens. You need to be flying with the evils. I think sometimes people really don't know when they're doing that to people. I think that they look at them and say, Okay, you're great at djan like your bamba dj and stay stick to that because you can go out and here, but to go somewhere else. Some people don't even know that they're trying to stick somebody into

a box that they're doing that. They think that they're supporting you and helping you go to go higher than where you've ever been before. Now, But it's a lot of it's a lot of people. It's a lot of people that do that on purpose because they are jealous of that other person's capability. So I think I think it's something like manipulation and some ill intent with some of that ship. But sometimes it's another phrase they use,

jack of all trades, master nothing. So you ever know that person that starts doing everything but they never finished that. They never finished I'm going to open this, I'm going to do this, I'm going to do this, something to do this, but they don't see it through. You see what I'm saying. So sometimes you're telling somebody of that, like I believe you can, but I believe you. But that's if you know it's a trend, right, Like imagine if somebody were to tell you, hey, man, you're great,

you know what you want to do a podcast for? No? I get that, But what I'm so I have the workout, But are you marginalizing? Are you marginalizing somebody if you're telling them, bro, I think that you can do twenty things. You can wrap, produce, DJ fucking dance, you can do all of that ship. But you need to see it through. You need to be like you know what I'm saying, Like you need to get to a certain place, finished something.

But you can't open a bunch of one. You can't start a bunch of businesses and none of them is making profits. Get that first business or two to making profit, not saying you can't do the third business. It is just that. But you can't say that though neither because then got them keep trying everything and then that it's a different it's a difference between it's a difference. It's a difference between failure and seeing it through. You are

a successful photographer. I'm talking about people that don't even get to the point. Sometimes you'd be like, shot, calm down, you're trying to do a billion things. You've been trying to marginal Shot about it, think about it. What I'm saying is everybody in this room, because of who we are and what we've done, it allows the other ship to work. Ship, show big facts everything that we're doing because of what we did, then we saw it through.

That's all I'm saying. See it through. Now you can do whatever the funk you want because you are Bank scream J, you are Shoy, you are you are Kanye. You know what I'm saying, Like, see that ship through. It's gonna make the Kanyak Kanye Kanyak. That's the mixture between Kodak and Kanyek. That's all I'm saying. So I don't think that should be ill intent because I don't have somebody say before every each other go do it.

But if it go, I'll be telling me because I'm like that, bro't but but do this too, That's what I'm saying. I'm gonna tell you the truth. Don't stop one thing. Yeah, if you want to leave it alone, don't just stop doing already paying your bill, That's what I'm saying, because do all this ship. I did what you told me, bag equip my job and went out on faith. Funked up. Bro, I ain't telling you to quench your job. That's great. I told everybody qu everybody,

so I can't say I'm mogulizing nobody. Everybody quick wasn't happy though, so it's kind of like, Bro, sometimes you see the people though, like these people are believe and I saw it in them, like be straight. I want to tell everybody that we're gonna figure this ship out. Yeah,

we're gonna figure that's not that's not marginalized. Definitely. I feel like the intentional part of it makes smoller ship yeah, because everybody gonna be like got Nam James bron started doing hell and be like what yeah, straight up doing hell. You get what I'm saying, then just some ship on the stages off the top of my mind. And I ain't thinking that she can't do until she showed him she can do it, and I'll be like, okay, hut, yeah, but me just knowing you never even got damn get Joe.

Hell but everybody, you ain't serious about doing that. It's up to her her vision work. In fact, it's not you don't gotta do. Like if I said I'm about do some ship, I'm about to do it. I don't need niggas to believe the vision. Because ship, I'm gonna show you. I'm gonna show you. I'm gonna trust what I'm about to do, and then you're gonna see And I'm not gonna face you for not seeing it because ship,

it's my thes and it's not your. It's kind of like if I say I want to design some ship, and I got it in my head what I want to do, and I describe it, but nobody else gets it but me. But I'm gonna make this ship look like I want to lookin. That's ain't, that's ain't. That's what makes each person special. That's what I Nobody look like, nobody, nobody had the same teeth pattern. Nobody had the same thing to print. What's for the next nigga ain't for

you even thought process everybody. Everybody ain't for you. So I could give you my opinion. You know what I'm saying. I give you my opinion on all days. That's what I had to change. I had to change it within myself, like trying to all of my point of view. You know what I'm saying, because the way I see ship, I'm speaking like, damn, y'all don't see this. You know what I'm saying. It's just like like that bottle right now.

If I say that, y'all see that that bottle? Um they and y'all like no, Like damn, I'm gonna be tripping because I see this ship. Y'all can't see this ship. That's how I used to be trying to because I can see certain ship what I thought I could see certain ships or I saw certain ship that niggas couldn't see and trying to force it on them. You just gotta do it so they can see it. That's with anything you do. You gotta do that ship so they can see. Like delity with time not your vision. Can

you like the trapped music out, bro. I always say we don't on that trapped music till talking about that l A like show how this ship y'all damn started off looking like what but that ship being bro, she ain't stopping, she ain't started lying around the corner like he saw that ship ship. I couldn't see you know what I'm saying. Yeah, that's the thing about Joe vision. You gotta trust your vision. If you have been like man, thanks, it's not worse. I ain't gonna do it when they

had it. M hm. Yeah, I ain't say it wasn't gonna work. I just doubted it. You can't want to, but e folk want and that motherfucker and when you're going there, it's cool. They got bar and all that ship. That ship cool. They're taking pictures front of the pink trap cards and all that ship. Real. Don't tell your day how you feel, king, hey man, everything pretty man. Anybody tried to bagin the eze of your day, and nah, you didn't get him a chance too. I couldn't give

him a chance. I don't even want to know your opinion would go out my first mind with everything I'll do. But I listened to everybody else though, But I gotta go with my first mind because my first mind on't never tell me to do that wrong. Makes sense, I like, chick go through it or whatever that is. Yeah, that makes sense what we're doing. Jake Big Facts Friday, Triple Big Facts. Okay, look, they send hord On, they sent me some topics. Hold, aren't feeling this set up? Yeah? Yeah,

this ship, this ship really split. Yeah, I'm saying my shoes up, house view. You know what I'm saying. Carpet feel nice? Let me see they check your dreams. That's hard, you can definitely, it depends on the relation. Depends on the relationship. You can't have no tops of relationship, not even that, because you can't have a relationship with somebody that's like into working and nine to five. If you

somebody like us and working the whole. Depending on the person, you can't depend If they don't understand what, they're gonna want more time and more of this and we barely have time for all. It's gonna be a problem unless

they are with you know, the entertainment lifestyle. They already know how everybody or they have to be hell, yeah, they gotta be secure and all sometimes they'll put you in a situation where you have to pack your job, but even do exactly I'm ben saying, if a person, Yeah, if a person puts you in the position you have to pick your job for them, then funk them because

they're not for you. But then that's different. What if that person been sitting there sacrificing on for like months at a time, like all right, I'm right and I'm right and I'm right, but this one day and just so happened that one day we got a big, big, big facts interview and we're like, okay, we got Obama, we gotta do this in that person like damn, we're supposed to be going here, blah blah blah. Are they fucked up now? Because they don't sacrifice if it's supposed

or not. But if it's if it's if it's supposed to be your if it's your dream, and this person, like I really loves you and it's really trying to understand you. I understand everybody has their limits and ship like that, but if they really love you, they're gonna understand that like this is your dream, you know what I'm saying, and they're gonna ride it. Out like I don't know no other way to put it, Like, I think that really that with friends relationship and you with

when you with me. I think the biggest thing about relationships, whether to be friends or like you know, somebody that you really look in love with, you really got to be able to stand on what it takes to be with them. So if you want somebody that's gonna be available for seven and be able to answer your calls any given moment, that might not be somebody that that's in the industry. So you may think you have found

the one, you you got close, but it's not. That's not the one, So keep looking for find somebody that's gonna be a cent of what you're looking for, because I'm not gonna I'm not saying with everything, but to be something else close enough for you to be able to work with. Because if you that's not gonna be

with me. And if I think that, if I thought that you were gonna be the person and you show me qualities that that aren't what I'm looking for, then hey, you know, I gotta keep I gotta keep looking because obviously it's not gonna work. Because I don't want you to feel lesser. I'm not gonna let you make me feel like I'm lesser for being with you. You feel me like if if it's not spoken to work, it's not sposed to work. I'm not gonna force it. I'm

not gonna force that puzzle piece to fit. Never. Never, never, it ain't forcing ship. We're falling back, right, people. Niggas can't make their relationship no excuse neither though. You know what when you say out what you mean like ship, you know how I had this if they had this bit Oh yeah yeah, nigga, you helped me back. Yeah, yeah, yeah, But that's why you can't feel like that. I'm just saying, you know, yeah niggas do. Niggas do say that, and

I'm saying you can't. You can't. You know. I under staying this ship every day all day today, feeling like man, they've been it been that bro. I'm saying that that's that you need to lead at this place to try in your mind. Yeah I got just trying your mind for what it is. But could it could be you? Yeah yeah, But but it's just like at the end of the day, at the end of the day, like if you have in your head already or in your mind or your heart or whatever, that this bitch is

what's holding you back. And y'all have a household or y'all have like you know what I'm saying, the situation or whatever. You're never gonna have peace in your house if you still have that thought in the back of your mind. So it's never gonna work for sure. Fact. Yeah, but you gotta you got guts dig into itself then and then it is you you still know then if it's you, you gotta win it up. Put it on. Is this bitch worth me changing who I really am?

Because this might be this who personal I'm dug down inside of me to see who I am. I haven't been explaying this to this bitch. I've been trying to be somebody else, super nigga, you know what I'm saying. I've been trying to be super nigger when I'm not. Fact. So is this worth me being super nigga or not? Is she super bitch or not? Or not? So you're gonna change all these ways and be this perfect guy out them? What are you gonna get? What's gonna change?

You can change for the better for yourself. No, but I'm saying the better for yourself. Maybe, how how like what's working for me is already working. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm cool. I just need to go hard on my hustle and every whatever. Whatever you're saying, it's holding you back. If the female is having your mind set to where all you can think about all days beefing and this and that and this and that, that's what holds you back.

That's the only part. It's sucking with your mind because the bitch ain't got no handcuffs on your Now that's telling you not to go outside. You just care too much. So and you're caring because you're trying to be something that you're not, that you're not. But what if her complaint is that you're just a selfish person. What if it's not it's just like you're a selfish person, you know,

you know, what if it's not that? What if you heard it like from Numan's people around you, but you ignore it, right, You've been just ignoring it like I'm gonna just do this ship. And she keeps telling you this, but she's accepting you for who you are. But now she's telling you like, okay, this selfish, So you're gonna stay selfish instead of like, I'm not that sacrificed up. Yeah, it depends is she worth me changing my selfish ways? But who's the same that you're selfish? Because selfish is

a matter of opinion? What am I selfish? Power? Because what am I? Don't buy you with your nail back? No, I'm myself first selfish? What's give me to us? I'm just saying, like, okay, let's put us some people are selfish. We know that, like your selfish. But like, okay, let's say you by you saying I'm not changing who I am.

This is who I am in this relationship, even though your girls saying I'm not liking who you are right now, hold on and hold on up and you won't change like you don't have relationships for example, like you who typing it forever? And so if she's sitting and saying like I have a problem and you're being selfish right now, and you said, man, this is just who I am, Like you don't think that person from the beginning was that selfish when you met me? Who did you thought

I was? Whatever it is to come up that I've been this person, then you we were. My question is if a person asks that became selfish. That's something I would have to work on. That's what I'm saying. If a person asked you to change from being selfish, is that person saying I want you to change for me, or is it changing for you yourself for the betterment

of yourself? You get what I'm saying, Like, if I'm telling you to change from being selfish, I'm not saying it depends on And it could be you could be being selfish towards them. They could be coming in doing all the work you ain't doing ship here, and that makes you selfish then, and she could be at the house saying you selfish at the house. Dave could be like you selfish when it comes to the duct tape ship. You ain't helping we here, So now you're a selfish

person all around and change that changing yourself changing. But you're saying changing from being selfish. Um, it really all depends on what your definition of him being selfish is. No, she's saying. If everybody everybody around you saying you're selfish, but your girl is doing that's really nagger your attention, Like this ship is with your character and you're sitting here saying this bitch saying I'm selfish, and it's really not just this bit, just everybody around you saying so.

In that case like that, the girl tells that's a character flaw. Character flaw. She's trying to make the In that case, she's trying to make the person better. But if she's the only ones and and him selfish dealing with if she's the only one saying that yourself, we need some further investigations or sometimes people can say you're being selfish with time. A lot of people in relationships normally when they're saying you're selfish, just a lot of

times just more mostly time. It's not necessarily what you're doing for. But but but don't you supposed to be selfing with your time though your relationship is y'all time, isn't it. Oh well, she we need to make this. You're right, you're right, but hey, whatever we got when you're tell him to do that, this was left. That's not true. So you want me to get all work to make You want me to make time. If I ain't got time, you should be happy and you should

make time. That's what everybody said. Cast Cash said, you make time. But see how it shouldn't be a situation where I have to make time. If I'm hustling doing what I gotta do. You know what I'm saying, all these hours of the day to make sure that we're straight, and you someone sitting on your ass and you got a whole bunch of times and then you're not making time. Doesn't make it, doesn't You're not saying that she's nothing. Bit.

We're saying that she makes time for the relationship. If y'all put a date on the scale and say we're gonna have a date year, right, and this is the time we have in a date because we ain't had a date and all this time and then big facts call and say we gotta do this, and you say, all right, that date, Well we we on. Yeah, we're gonnachle she's sticking SI because she's been doing having dates were you're selfish? Yeah, I if that's what I don't do all that playing it out in the future with

other people. Yeah, I don't. I don't do that, But I don't do that. We're just gonna do this set whenever, like, come on, let's wake up, let's go here, let's do this, let's do this. We're gonna make the time, but I ain't gonna promise you know, ship that I know. I don't even know what I'm gonna be doing next to We're gonna be nine, ain't that? Yeah, I can't even see that ship too far tomorrow. I can't even do that. Like, if I know you that type of person, that's what

it is. You can't. You can't just sitting the next twos. We don't do this, then there's some more important up now. I gotta show you what's more important. M M. They're gonna have episodes. Well, I'm gonna tell you, come on, we ain't ducking then, come on, whatever I got going, come on, you pull up with me. Yeah, but you have to be that type of person like and then and I don't want to call on squares with some nine to five squares don't get that because they've been

training into this is the scheduling. This is like we don't need to celebrate Christmas and that type ship. Yeah, doing knowing that like thanks you, I thank you, we cook on thank you, but Valentine days and that we don't even like we're playing for that. We're doing this ship every day. Yeah, every day of our life. We're trying us each other even when it was on some top of ship. You know what I'm saying, we're kids,

who hell whatever. I can't trying to go damn playing that would be sucking ish up, trying to play this ship out. How and how am I plan to love you? I'm playing today is I'm gonna wake up and I'm gonna do this, and I'm gonna do this. I'm gonna do this to my relationships. Ain't to my in life a relationship. You're trying to plan to Goddamn No, you can plan to do something nice for your mate, but I'm saying you're trying to plan the to get a feller m M. You know what I'm saying, planning to

make you love me more type ship. There's two people riffing and ship like. They're playing like Valentine's is gonna be good. That's some bullshit. You see what I'm saying Valentine's We're gonna get along on Valentine's. But that's some bullshit. Yeah, many one disagreement have on Valentine's. They just hold ship up. But if y'all have been acting like every day was Valentine's day Valentine's. They really get that. It's like, all right, yeah, I love you too. M yeah yeah no, but yeah

you can get some money. You gotta get you somebody that met you. Hustle facts absolutely, and then you're really kicking the over again. Be a double hustler, either one and then you gotta because a fellow hustler is gonna understand like the ends and out to this ship and how everything goes, and like they're gonna appreciate and be grateful for those times when there is time that was the worst like relationship I ever entertained. I was talking

to a chicken. I asked her, like, you know what ship? What do you want to do? Like? What do your life goes? I don't dream of work? Like what? Like what do they any answer the question? You don't dream doing nothing productive in your life. That's because you'll be trying to dake these girls with them on your camera. Yeah yeah, but I'm like, damn, like you don't wanna do ship? You don't. You don't do in your life nothing. I can't, I can't. Why do women think damn, and

this might be some bullshit and this ship? Why do they think they're more valuable than niggers because we are bullshit. I'm sorry, y'all are because y'all have have kids, and you know what I'm saying, y'all are for that. I'm just saying, it's not even not No, you are more valuable to the world than a man. But I'm saying, in a relationship, why do you think your feelings are more valuable than miss like you're a queen? Like we put them. We're putting them at the highest we could

clean My mom and my grandmama, old women. You know what I'm saying. I never loved no by the way, I love these people, So I get that part. My grand baby that's a female, I love them more than anything in this You get what I'm saying. So I get that part. And I'm saying, like, in a relationship, I think it's because a lot of women. And I could be wrong, I could do, but I just think that a lot of women And it goes into the next topic that we have to so let's keep it going.

I think a lot of women aren't used to men expressing their feelings in a healthy manner because a lot of men, A lot of men aren't used to even spressing their feelings, for one. So when they do express their women, I mean express their feelings, sometimes it comes off in a way that a woman is not used to. So now we're like, I don't mean you know this ship, But in reality, he's really just expressing their feelings. We're

just not used to it. A lot of women aren't used to the love language with a man being emotional. But see, the thing is a lot of niggas, a lot of niggas have like suppressed trauma. That's true too, you know what I'm saying, And a lot of niggas are or like shell shock when it comes to like the whole love and expressing emotions and expressing their feelings and you know what I'm saying, all that kind of ship.

So when they are able to finally find somebody that they can open up to and that they can like talk with and just put everything out on the table with a lot of females most often times are not equipped to be able to handle that, and we hold

it against me. And sometimes so if you sometimes as a woman, I ain't gonna I have done this before a bit, yeah, yeah, yeah, sometimes are equipped that from the women that are equipped, men around from the women that's that's equipped, and yeah, because they because sometimes some in in that case when they run, it's because they kind of feel inadequate to a certain extent, and they also feel like, Okay, a woman that is equipped to handle this also requires a lot more in most other areas.

So I'm not ready for all of that pressure. So like, okay, yeah, I'm gonna funk that ship. I'm gonna just leave because she most of the time hold them accountable, like that woman is gonna hold a man accountable. And most men don't like accountability because they feel like what the funk they think is going and how they feel is just that,

you know what I'm saying. And a lot of men just don't like expressing themselves because they was taught, especially black men, was taught that you for show, you're not supposed to cry, You're not supposed to seeing weak at all. So and if a woman do get those emotions from them, they said, I'm I'm not to see a lot of niggas.

A lot of niggas be burnt too, because they'd be like they might have like been with a bit forever, you know what I'm saying, might have kids about this bitch might have whatever, whatever, and then they like opened up themselves and expressed their emotions to this bitch, and this bitch took their emotions and turned it around and use it against them. So when they finally do get with a bitch, they really understand it's really trying to

love them, really trying to cater to them. They really trying to bring it out so they don't have to like sit around with all this ship bottled up. They'd be so scarred by this other bitch till it's like, man, I ain't ain't gonna open up to this bitch. I love it and I know me, but I'm not gonna go too traumatic. Yeah, like I ain't doing that. I'm

never doing that ever again. And that should be so fucked up because it could be two people that are meant to be together that are the perfect compliments to each other. But yeah, but he's fucked up, this other bitch. And guys, to me, I think some guys, man, some guys perfect, I mean purposely their relationships up when they feel once they feel like a girl starting to tug at a certain emotion, I ain't trying to ain't trying to do this, Yeah, trying to ut like this. Yeah,

I'm too much. Start some Let me start accusing her being a hole. Let me start it. Let me yeah. And a lot of niggers don't even don't even make the concertive decision to far back. They'll just goes to bitch. That's true too. That hit me in the piece. Got make you make her things? She did something to make you leave. Sound like I'm not saying that sounds like NARCISSI. That's what they do. That's what they I'm not saying I do it. He said it doesn't I religate out

there go yeah, because I always back. I ain't you say that aitherway. I don't know how to handle this one. No mass understanding when when when you got we might take the ship back up, but back up because she's gonna always think of the possibility when what happened. I don't even know what I did. And he's gonna come back.

But something niggas ain't mom. And it's like it's just like it takes extreme patience to really try to love somebody that's never been loved properly before that all fati, that's a job, that's like that's passing by to be small that get what we take. Hats all to any woman that's able to love a nigger that's already sucked up that ship. But I know, bro, I'm fucked up. Bro like niggas is fucked up. Bro, Oh, niggas fucked up because the way you think it's so fucked up,

no joke. But you can't put me like that. I know you don't like, you don't like what you want? What you want? You want, you want something? Why are you here? And it should be so fucked up when they fucking with a bitch, they really don't ship just but they just love them and make them a better person. And they're so fucking it's like traumatized from this other bitch. It's like, bro, like man, that should be crazy from the other bit. Some most niggas, we don't talk about

any traumatized from their mama. Most niggas, from a lot of niggas be having real mama issue. That's big mama issue. Fight you said a lot of them mama issues. Yes, I think that a lot of men have real mama issues and they don't know how to address it. Like just think about your mom is supposed to be the first person that person. So imagine if your mama so you don't even know, like, don't matter what if you

left your any lady's bitches be having daddy issues. Different. God, it's different, daddy issues different different, I don't personal different. Let me tell you, bro, a person can really because the same ship that Nigga's got to get from his mom is the same ship gotta get from her. Name telling you, I'm telling you listen, I'm telling you you can tell your mama is different. Like no matter what

your mom can do, what for their mama? Mama telling you people that don't have that daddy, niggas ain't at home like my daddy nis like that. I agree, I agree with you. I agree with you. I'm saying this girl is like like a little more is I'm talking about as adults as adult is something happening y'all. Most people like you want my mama. I wish my mama was here. Nigga's mostly as saying mama. Everybody saying niggers just saying mama. What y'all talking about? How many times

ain't hurt the world? The world? The world is like this, even though mother, even though there's so many big commercials and so many big stuff that's go for women. They it be fa today. They only show you ship. Niggas really care more about their mama. Don't get your mom and your life. You probably everybody a little that mom. Your mom is supposed to be the first person everything. I disagree because there's a lot of it's a lot of it's a lot of niggas out here with you.

We said that. They said that okay, mama issues are more important than daddy issue pretty much, and I said that, no, that's no. I said that the nigga, a nigga without a mama is gonna have the same kind of issues a bit without a daddy gonna have. It's the same ship. Even it's the same ship, it's the same ship. A nigga without a mama is gonna have the same exact issues that a bitch without a daddy is gonna have.

Its factual facts. There are exceptions within relationships hips. No I'm talking about even like I'm standing on my either way, I don't feel like issues are more. They're pouring and more. There are fathers, there are the bigger the thing not having your mama. Female ain't got no daddy. Right, That's what I'm what I'm saying. There are there are are that she's still is gonna be lacking certain ship, bro, that don't be lacking if he got that's true right now,

That's what I'm saying. It's gonna like something. But what I'm saying is if you don't have if everybody don't have my mom like you you right, You're gonna turn out way more fun up if your daddy having loved, if your dadd true, it depends on female. That's what we're saying. That's what I'm saying, turn into mothers. I'm not taking away from them. I'm not taking away from the daddies that pick up the mom The same point this is, there's a sens there's a session about need

a moment, bro, Yeah, everybody, everybody. I'm just saying, you don't need damn one of them. But at the end of the day, you you you, you would be more comfortable time to your mama than your dad. I'm saying like in a relationship. In a relationship though, for Nigga to have his mama, you kind of know how to treat a woman. Advice versus advice versa. You know Mama, that you gotta set of the same thing. A woman who got your dad, they know how to treat the man.

You got more passionate for him. Yeah. Absolutely, because you're a daddy girl. So now you now you're trying for the same energy that you had love for your daddy as to your husband. Autely, that's what I'm saying. I think it. I think it. No, I think it's fair to say there's an exception to everything. Without it, I'm saying the majority, like a women without their father, that never had their father, they fucked up. Not saying there's

exceptions to every rule. There's women. That's women, that's that's there's women, that's men who didn't have their mama who are Okay, it happens. There are exceptions to every rule. But overall, trust me, like it's the same. It evens out. Once you got your mom. Look at you got your mom, especially got one good mom. You're looking at your you're looking at women as Queen's exactly disappointed my mom. Right, you're disappointed when you meet someone who's not to that standard.

But that's that's that's been my dad, your standard up. You know, I've been there with me, what I gonna call my dad? You know what it is, then you can try to find it within the man. Yeah, exactly that you need to match with your daddy be doing because yeah doing, And now I can't do it. It's not gonna work. But there are my white dad and what kind of got? Now you know how you can't throw it out to daddy? Crazy? Well white dad and fried Fried like, I think that's what it comes out.

But there are exceptions to everyone. But okay, so this all discussion about mama issues daddy issues. All that brings me to our next topic, emotional intelligence. What's that? Okay? So shout out to our money von money underscore v on Instagram. He wrote in on the next Big Facts Friday, Can y'all have a conversation around how important emotional intelligence is? And the textbook definition of emotional intelligence is the capacity to be aware, of, control, and express one's emotions and

to handle interpersonal relationships judiciously and empathetically. So controlling your emotions? How important is it to control your emotions and to know how and when to need to be able to control them in the relationship in life in general? Let's say, let's always say life in general. Definitely life in general.

I saw I was talking about on Twitter terday. You know, they've been doing like little public pranks and ship Nigga was like he put like a piece of cardboard on the nigga back and Nigga's in the comments, like, Bro, the blasts that nig he did that ship To me, you don't throw your life away for that ship like that. That doesn't seem like the most intelligent ship ship to me. That's an example. But I feel like some niggas do think like that. They first they first example, they first

my head, I don't think I'm in danger. So you get shot in the problem not on your head. But like Nigga, like you're doing you feel something soft and get your back saying he said, you're gonna get yourself time to think emotionally intelligent, like is you're gonna turn around like the fun? Right, it's like that, but what the fun? What it's like? Said do that now? That's what it is? But but but yeah, exactly the first thing you do, bag right, you did in situate it

dangers out here? Danger bro, you are you gonna get shot? But y'all, y'all seen them pranks on social media may be going to trying to tell you doverybody, Hey, you can sell they don't touch me, man, all that you can't nobody I see you is dumping like a Teddy bearer. He was sting, got their tissue balls and niggas in the walmart like that. Put a box over somebody head and they walk into the park line. You put a box over their head and they put the whole box

of that. I've seen that. Man. There's a lot of shots. Man. Yeah, but how about it. You didn't some of that all right? Some of that that's the first stage of kidnap. Yeah, I fear for my life. I was scared as head keep talking about something. Some of that ship, some of that ship. Definitely some of that ship. I was scared of that. I don't know that that. It was dark. I'm trying to time. Yeah, I used to get locked in the closet, went on, do that could my teeth? Man?

But assuming my little brother get out of the car to about chase her down, tiles up putting this in the clouds heaven with man, Man, I ain't going for none of that. What's she doing? Terized like chasing that down? Man? Soon Man, like she crazy the coming putting the box in your head? That shooting. Yeah, I ain't even that guy. Damn ask them ship. He turn around laughing like the kids in the bathroom and screamed like candy man and turn like shot you sucked up. So you're gonna let

him put a box on your not a box. That's different. He was to put the box, the spencific one I'm talking about. He leaning like a piece of cardboard on his back, was leaning yeah, and did you just turned around like man? What? Yeah? That was that was it? That's all I did. That's different. Yeah that you got, yeah box, that's feel threatened like this, I just too much. Yeah, you might get your head when fin see like that. No, but if nun put a box in your head, I

feel like you do gotta brand. That's a reasonable threat on your life. Yeah. So so emotional telligence, like what if what if you're coming out of spot and you see somebody breaking in your car your ship. That's different, but it all the way you got your first your fire reaction, your first reaction nigger breaking in your car. Yeah, your fur reaction, especially if you got with yeah, you're

gonna shoot him. That way, and you better be looking around because he needs like breaking in no card without no gun neither. They're breaking the clubs or whatever. You breaking that, don't turn the ship to a car jacket. Yeah, if that's what's going on, like a self defense or some ship. Yeah, get nigga breaking in your car. They got pilces too. But I'm saying that. I'm saying if you if you bust them in, the police come who

the police put the cups on. Ye the dad nigger Now he now from your window in the house and you're just busting. Yeah, you might not. You might not beat that. No, No, you get you get off on that. If you go white man, you want to see what you do the weapping in the car, you're gonna get off. Going white man, you want to steal as a weapon in the slot, you're gonna get off. But that's what I'm saying. There's a little they don't that's not considered

imminent danger. When you're my way after you gotta right to get shot. Go on my land. I'm trying now, this is this is pulling up. If you got in your head, bro, but just come on my property. You can grab a motherfucking love more weed either if I blame your So you had my ship. Okay, so we talked about this a big fast Friday and we all have what if you gotta ship in the hand. I don't want you to get away with my property. Bro. Yeah you can't kill shoot you in your ass ki

Yeah yeah, yeah you can. You ain't going to jumps in where you ain't going to jail. Yeah. If you put up a fight with your ship and saying freeze with my ship, stay here to the police, get here, you do anything popping man that man, I'm just saying, you gotta go through the You gotta say he did that. You gotta be the proceduus heel like. You gotta say he did out in fear of my life. You gotta go. I thought the nigger had I saw? I thought, how does and depend on what time of night it is? Nighttime?

You can blame my nigger. I don't know what he has. I don't know what he had. It was dark. I don't get a funk. What are you doing if he at nighttime? He's dark. I thought he was running here. I didn't know he was running away a big nig. It was more than one of them. It looked like it was a group. You can't say how I shot you in the bad bro, he bitched up, try to run. He was threatening my life and try to run. I blame that. I don't know. I was looking. Yeah, I've

been riding before. I'm I'm sure shocked one thing. And they and they did that new ship with Nigga got them. You ain't gotta hand the form middle nothing though. Yeah, yeah, everybody. Now, I want to say it started at top of the year long as you what seventeen. I thought they already had it. It was an open car you had to I'm not Georgia. From my understanding, it was an open carry. You have to have to permit to conceal your weapon.

Fact you end on your hip and all that. Now you have to be it has to be on your hip invisible. You can do that no matter what. But the license is to conceal it and put it in your purse. Right, and you got sticks up now? Anybody can hide your name clean, You're good. If your name clean, you good, funk all that. You can do whatever you want. Your name clean, you good. What they just said and nig away nam yea that happened yes, recently. You can have your MoMA gun. She can go in and buy

your name good. You can carry real sheet mm hmm. That crazy man and ship. All this washing going on, they're doing that, not with this ship about that way. Everybody be ready, Like I gotta go give me some boots. Now. These kids ain't fighting him all they whatever these kids been having anyway, but in school with it. So emotional intelligence basically is it's important. But there are situations where that ship gonna go out the window. Basically, that's what

we just see. I think I don't even think we touched on like the tip of that because we just started talking about some dumb sh they call that. We're talking about the type of board and a goddamn dig it with a box shooting some sprinkles out of his

mouth talking about boom now. But like, but like real ship was, Like I feel like emotional intelligence is important because it really if you have emotional intelligence, you have discipline and restraint basically emotionally intend to know when you tripped on trip and just I guess, rearrange it, and to also know how to receive other people's other people ship too. I think what other people go through over just saying control yourself, know how to control yourself. No,

when when the whole No, when the phoone? Yeah, and what makes you tip? People got to know what what's gonna make them set them off? Like you know what I'm saying, Like you could call you could probably call me a bit. I ain't gonna trip, but you call Jane a bitsh your swing on you like you can just need to know, like what's gonna set people off? When the phone man? Emotionally intelligence right there, you know what's what's what's gonna react, what's the reaction, what's your trigger?

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