BIG FACTS FRIDAY- Unfathomable

had the introduction. What's up with everybody? Everybody feeling in the day day right in the day, winnergy winnergy my man, Corey Jacobs, motherfucker living in Extraprigan like the other life that z life after that guy like real for us out out of Corey Man. He's a real live motivation big shots out to the homing. Let's get to it. Come on, all right. So the word of the day that we're building on this don't bro You ain't got

no blame it. I think let's if y'all blow me though, I might just take a shot in a good way. I need a shot waiting on y'all. Y'all, don't broke my soul. So goddamn Okay, So the word of the day it's unfathomable, And the textbook definition of unfathomable is incapable. Left for rice on my car? Is your rice? You just ate rice? Yeah, flew it over here? My bad

rights to bro oh blame it on. Yeah. So the textbook definition is incapable of being fully explored or understood, impossible to understand, and the urban definition is something impossible to measure or something impossible to understand because of being very mysterious or complicated. Basically, so, what are some things that unfathomable? What are some of the things that are unfathomable? Some things that are unfathomable are how people make kids

but don't take care of them. Yeah, that's a good, that's a great Here, I think I think women are unfathomable to me and me and unftampoables women what I think, so completely never completely understand, Yeah, because we don't unfatholous on y'all, Like we can't fathom what dude can say unless he's a doctor can say. He's just fully understand women. You said a doctor, unless he's a you know, psychology, They still don't think he can. Yeah, they to put

you out. What kind of man could possibly understands not a man, Jake, Okay, what you're about to say, nothing, don't let it get in acting understand women. I'm trying to so I can build a get a loan and relationships and stuff like that. Don't happen, and it don't. It don't happen every time I think them closer. They completely understand a woman. But is that the attraction, Like you're attracted to a woman because it's a mystery, Like how you think? Like the challenge, the challenge? Yeah, I

love a challenge. Three opposite. Yeah, I think something else that is n'tfathomable to me is black people hating on each other and the jealousy. I just can't understand it. For nothing, Why do you feel like that? Because it's you feel like it's enough for everybody. It is enough for everybody. But I just can't understand, like why we do the things to each other we do to each other. It's just as long as I've been living, I just as I get older, I'm trying to understand it. You

feel me. This ship is just just really like second nature. It is. But why if we're talking about understanding you feel me? Like I can go back and talk about the you think it goes back to beyond slavery or do you think it started with slavery. It's no, it wasn't beyond slavery. We gotta go on history and history.

We're go on history. Then we're gonna go We're gonna get to talk about talk Jim Crows and all that type of Still we're gonna talk about putting your brother on the poech and you know, putting you in the house and creating you know what I'm saying, diversity within us, and then we all we know to live in four hunter years later, we still are doing the same thing right now, you know what I mean. So if I, like I said, I see it on my baby syndrome, you know what I'm saying, I believe in that. I

didn't live it, but I see it now. So it's like we lived, we left to believe that we was real peaceful people and we had them but loved in our culture. But now but it goes back to like if we're gonna talk about slavery and all that kind of ship, it goes back to them using those tactics to be able to do so we still it's still be in you today. So that's something that I just never understand because me, I come, I come in peace and I love my people. You know what I'm saying.

Do you think it could change? Like, do you think that there's a time there could be a time and place where black people can coexist without hating on each other or doing a little crab in the bucket mentality to what we could all just bring each other up. It's a reprogramming, Like I think it could happen, But you gotta reprogram a lot of people, and that make it. It makes you, It makes you if you like it.

You can't reach everybody. Yeah, and then how would you start because you gotta think about the people and they upbringing and where they're from and what they didn't see and their experiences. They're gonna look at us like you're gonna tell me what to feel or how to be When I didn't see this, this, this, or this nigga

then did this to me? Even the nigga who step out there to try to be the person to try to change it shot down, Yes, because of even gonna get shot down by his people, or you're gonna get shot down by the people who fear that the fear the train. You know what I'm saying, because they so it is inevitable to be who you are. You know

what I'm saying. I know me personally, like I would program a certain way, so even to believe and to think the way that I think now, I had to literally step outside the box and be able to be in funt of people and get crucified like facts how our parents going through Jim Crow they had to get you know, like about water holes is and like bitten by dogs and you know what I'm saying, all of this, all of these traumatic things and then like we not we as we but you know, the younger generation makes

light of it like it wasn't really a big deal. But they feel away about that because they actually had to go through it, and they don't undershade by the polio. The same ship, it's just a different way different. The same ship the Internet. It's the same ship. Is slavery. It is. You can just see it. You're slave to

that ship. You can got them. You really don't even know what people face looked like no more the in person the elevated one when iut leaving the house, me and two other people on the elevator looking at our phone like we never looked at each other, like we slaved to that ship. Literally, you got you can't go a day? You want the whole month without your phone? Yea, without some without the internet, other things like four days, I'm gone, Like four days, I ain't gonna lie. I

tried to do that. I was miserable as hell. I was all on big facts page looking at everybody else takes because I made a post about that, or the day. How people be saying that they have to fast from social media, Like I'm so focused on what I got going on. I don't got a fast from it. It's just recreational to me, so versus me turning on first four the eight or watching sports, I might be like,

and I don't do too much strolling. I'm always trying to figure out how I can reach somebody else, so I might get on there be looking at video right now, I'm on the Instagram. I'm trying to make the money. You know what I'm saying, they're paying it for real, I'm trying to keep getting paid. They what they hit

it and they're being a slave. They won't because if you get no. But another thing too is because just like they took my monetization for ninety days for some ship that wasn't even because somebody was making abusive comments on my on my post, I had nothing to do with it, but they took my monetization. But it's like the way they'd be coming to him for his page is going to be difficult because they are like some

bitches about it. Like no, don't get me wrong, no, because I get so many and fresh I'm like, damn, I going in and say if I put in reported me from two thousand eleven. They just sent me a video from two thousand eleven. I got thirty some thousand posts on my page. How the hell you even get that far down? Yeah, they did trying to take the page. That's all it really is. That's crazy. That is that is un both whatever. Okay, that's it. That that is Uh.

I can't understand why black people can't get along, but I get it, you know what I'm saying, because like, how are you gonna go living in this world to trust in nichols? Mm hmm. If we say, if we say today, okay, peace some months everybody, how are we gonna just start trusting niggas? How Are you gonna trust somebody that you would program? Yeah? How you how the

same way nine times I'd attend you unabashedly automatically. Trust these all teams who just like how you said, not you, but what I'm saying, just like how you said about how neig gonna take his card to a salteam before he'll take it to a nigga, and the nigga could probably do just it's good work for a cheaper Always it's always I'm in the world. Yeah you're a car part. Yeah, I'm in that world. And I tell you like this here with us, we lack communication, we lack understanding, we

lack the ability to be honest. You know what I'm saying. And nigga take your car knowing this your pride position here. No, he gonna still know what I'm saying, but he gonna be on purpose. But you count them. Yeah, yeah, it just be all type bush with with with with us. You know what I'm saying. Like when I started doing what I do. Now, you feel me because I came

from a background of call dudes that was funny. You feel me what I see on both sides because I'm invested in some on the sides, and I got this going on the different big communication. Man, if I keep community came with black, Hey man, I got you here. They're gonna be a week on this, but she did in the week. Come up. If I call you and say, hey man, I had this and that going on, Man, that week gonna turn into two. We don't do that. You're gonna pop up in a week and they's gonna

spend you. He ain't gonna pick up the phone. He gonna get the tripping like you come on, get it and don't want to get that paper called to be told he needed that paper for an emergency, or he rubbed the paper. He doesn't all the paper. That's the difference in the twoth side. He's trying to wait on another negative the payments, so he get your poet called. You know what I'm saying. We don't run business, good bro, We just run business at all, not all, but most

most so. You scared, Yeah, your super scared scars part of the mentality. Remember the old Big Fast when I said one of the one of the phrases you always hear if you just keep your ears open, is man funk that you hear that ship everywhere are you gonna hear that he were all guilty too, just us. I don't give what you do when you're gonna hear that. That's what I'm saying here. That's you don't hear. That's just that by screen, Jay got the gotta beat from

my man. That's what I'm saying that. That's the poison right there. If you can get that guilty too. We're all guilty. I'm guilty, we all. I've heard all of y'all at one point. Ship is just yeah, embedded, It's like, what is hating ship? Though? You know what ship is when you trying to pull down and not pay, and ship is when they don't remix what Hayden is. Hey,

it's really to me. Hey is when you are literally you know somebody is doing something good and you just trying to convince everybody else around you that it's some

bush what hate it? But it's really like, hey, there's really some ship where you have no reason to this, Like this person, you have no reason to not like what they're doing because they're doing everything right, but you feel a way about it for whatever personal reasons you have, because either you wanted to do it and you can't do it either they're getting some kind of attention that you wanted that you can't get. Whatever the reason is, it has absolutely nothing to do with what's going on

or their ability to be able to do whatever. Said, I feel like you can hate on me person if you lie on me personally. Yeah, that's just your opinion. M If you tell a lot, what are you trying to get somewhere and somebody blood, that's hate what you mean, like, if you're trying to if you got a move on and then's somebody said, no, I don't do that with him because blah blah blah, that's hate both of them.

Thing about not do is cliche, Like I'm a person that I talk about hating jealousy a lot because they go back to the word I don't understand it. You feel me, But it's like jealousy that's more jealousy what you're saying, you know what I I feel like, Hey, I feel like jealousy is more leaning towards envy, towards like the people that are close to you and that know you for real. I feel like, hey can also come from people that are close to you, but hate more

so comes from people that don't know you. And that just know of you and that are jealous. Will I think we even missus the envy though, because envious person is somebody that just won't what you got like that, Like you gotta watch envy in a sense to where it's like a person that envy you. It could be me watching bank do movies, y'all getting big facts. I gotta podcast and I come to him one day and I'd be like a bank, Well I want them why

I look up to you? You know what I'm saying, could be good if envy can be good, Like yo, you gotta look at look at the real definition is just like look at me congratulations in the same way. How like if you smoke a lot of weed, you turn into a crack. If you're envious and you keep being envious or whatever, you're eventually either gonna want to harm, want to do something. Envy turns into jealousy, then it

turns in the hate. Could because me as that person that looks so at the bank, like I look at the bank longest bank feed me knowledge, feed me knowledge. We're good. You get what I'm saying, We're good. So if he continued to feed me, not to feed me, not to feed me knowledge he passed a whale from. But what you're talking about is not envy. What you're talking about is admiration. Yeah. No, the admiration is just the ability to want to keep going. You get what

I'm saying. But envy when you look at the real definition of envy, resentful, desire, resentful, or something possessed by another's Now that's now you know what I'm saying. Envy, that's what. Yeah, so it's like to be but but but the resentful part is resentful? Is make it where it's a little bit it's negative. Yeah, like when you say you resent, if you take the resentful part. Although

in that admiration, that's what I'm saying. I just feel like envy, envy, jealousy, hate, they're just in the same family understapposable. But I think that some people can envy you and still love you and love you. Yeah, yeah, I know some people that like literally can love you but still envy what you got going through there? And then like like really, but how do you relation you set like that? That's positive? You have relationships where your

partners feel like they envy me and hate me. They really look oh god, I know they would you know they love me, I think like to even put that much attention into what you gotta have that love is a misplaced emotion. It could go that there, Yeah you could do that there. Yeah yeah for shure, I can go for that yeah yeah yeah because most mother couse,

it takes emotions to even hate on me exactly. But somebody could be if somebody could be very envious that you would still have your back, like still make sure no harm coming again, but they would still protect you from nobody, from everybody they just Enviously, you want to be what you can't, but I ain't gonna let nobody around you suck you up because I just what I'm gonna protect you throughout. So what are we talking about?

Like some single white female type ship just period. That's a lot of drinks now, y'all saying people listen, y'all are saying that people can envy you to the point and still love you and want to funk people up and not letting you just to you know who I wanta talking about as a female that funks with you, You know she fucked with you, but for some reason she throw the energy off every time. That's envy but she do. Look she loves you to do. But it's like I love you while you treat me like that,

you really ending me, you don't really want to be me. Okay, I see what you're saying. You know how you quit roll up? Yeah, but you know she loved me, but my face. Yeah, she'll be probably first to swing on somebody else for you or be a part of that. But I want to be in your space. I want to be. I want to be. I want to what you're doing. You feel me in time you have how close to what you're doing. That's some real ship. That was my son to he was like man being see

the different between you. You never had an idol. Yeah, that's why you don't understand certain ship. Like I get all, not all, but a lot of my ship from my kids because they tell me, like, you ain't never looked up to nobody. Yeah, like so over in your life you never had nobody that you looked that like damn my grandma nor grandma. Because you're the stronger person in the world and female. So I can't even hurt up into a certain my grandmama with that person, my grandma.

I looked at my mama. But I had a certain like jealousy towards like, damn, my mam wall be doing this and she'd be doing that. But when I got older, then I was able to back up and be like damn. I was like some bullshit. I get inspiration motivation from different people, but I never looked like damn the for godd nod I noticed and then make it hard like they're making hard for me. Nuck. I got little cousin, my brother, you know, I got family and what I'm doing,

y'all know the world we're in. They look up the ship like the doing this and that, and I feel like I can't do that with nobody. Yeah, I can't do it. I look at it like I guess I look at a lot of ship like man, be like, bro, what you trying to figure this out? Because I am like, bro, you gotta figure out no fun. I don't trying to unfasibly kick Let me say, you can't figure it out. You figure certain things out along it'sulous, unfathomable. We're not

getting big. But do y'all feel like you know all of that comes from social media because when we were growing up, we did not we didn't have like right there. You you couldn't just pick up your phone and see what it's just a magazine saying. Now it was just a yeah. But back then the bank coming to school and niggle who popping it? He got stuff, all right. But what I'm saying is now, like the conversation you

guys were talking about was looking up to people. Like back then when we were growing up, you had look up to movie stars and ship. You're seeing magazines and all that, right now the kids that your new Jordans, but you don't really look up to somebody. These kids you're talking about boys, you're looking to the guy that right. What I'm saying is, magnif you can see what bank eating, you can see what he's where, he's shopping at, you can see what his wife looked like, what the house

looked like. Just with it to social media then made it everybody can look a certain type of way. You feel me, So you got motherfucker. Now they can put they can go in the flea market and buy all the fake kicks and go on on online and be hopping. You feel me. You got this dude over here that's looking up to him. You know what I'm saying. So I get social media that made it the world. Everybody

can see it like they're popping everybody's celebrities. You know what, you can go on and do what you got to do. And I'm talking about be sleeping on the floor matchup. We talked about this all the time. You'll be sleeping on the bloor, match up, walking taking the uber. But you got that ship one. Nobody see you. You're the king of the world. You get what I'm saying social media, But on the busna missed the bus out. There's somebody gonna bust your heads. Ot, they're gonna bush you out.

But get what the folks over here gonna look at you like man niggy back that you feel me? You really see anybody get out the mortar, but you feel me, you really face You ever saying anything? Why do you say that? You man? Mothers turn him into something. He got somebody trick so you can. Yeah, you hate on live because the world. You can't heat on the lot.

Because if I'm out here telling everybody that this is a three thousand dollar coat and he said here like, girl, know that ain't my head he he Why would you tell h you so if you're kicking it like your jewelry real and all that ship and somebody bust you out that man, I'm busting and the Buster I'm a big hate. Yeah. I looked at it like fag watch. Buster was an expert observer. But I'm saying they're telling the truth, right, Yeah, somebody like that, I don't look

at like it so funny, my motherfucker. But you know clearly clear like you ain't know yourself because you're trying to God damn fake it till your making. But look at you get here. Don't say, man, no mother hate. Okay, alright, that's like I've just seen a clip what Turk said, Birdman had the Geneva's on. If a nigga would have said it back then, what would have happen? Said Nicole said it back then, and it will stop the emotion what that'd been. Okay, I bet you ain't got on Geneva.

But now that ship work. Yeah, fake it till you make it. They fake it till they made it. But then they rap about that some time. What they noney had You think they when they had a hard a thousand shout at them, been popping it. But they've been having money though, they could have, really could have when they happened. The truth is hating somebody. Everybody thinks, but I don't know wherever man you hate him? Man, it didn't go because you said he I used to do

a look right, I paid the way. I would get on there and I'd be like, you know what, let me find a way to give back. I'm gonna do y'all, y'all, I put it in, emailed me your song. I'm playing the night on Hill. Bro might get on here, you know, I know a lot of the they'll get on that. I might have thousand people. I'm gonna lie. And I had a dude on it one time. I tell the a bro, it's a new era. I can't tell you. You You ain't gonna make it this, ain't it? Oh? Hanging

like a motherfucker better? Want to tell me the ship show? And I throw my ship's opinion. I don't know what you creep that hate what I'm saying, it's lab judge. But if Nigga throws some ship at you before you even get the mic in your hand, that's hate. That part of I'm gonna tell you some part of the ship. We got a podcasts on Big facts, big facts, first class. Certain ship. I let people get by with because it's gonna be let them get by, it's gonna be hating.

So what that's what do you do that? Are you right? You're lying? But see my problem? That my problem today, That my problem car I'm known for being like stream I growed into the person right now. But what I'm saying, I'm trying to tell you. Laugh, you don't know. If you don't do somebody mixtape, they're gonna be like fun screen here. Hey, they ain't on my mixtape. Live my truth with it. But you gotta think about it too, though. That ship go both way because some ship you could

think wet can blow up. I didn't hate, go through the roof, go crazy, yeah, real life. But setting bak like, man, what the funk? They don't started now? We can't get you out of them now, you that's all they sell you on your bows and nothing like that. You can't find live by skinning the skinny is at Holliston. Oh the Caucasian store still got the good stuff, she said, the good stuff. I'm trying to see. God, man, ain't it's a fathom you say? Hate is on fathom? You can't.

You're gonna always hate on somebody people a nigga with a nigga with too much your opinion on another niggas for sure, But what if, just what if you asked your opinion? If you ask, depending on who you do, ask my opinion depending on who opinions? Yeah, ain't nobody else in this. But if you put a picture up on Instagram with some ship up on Instagram, you okay, if you put a picture on Instagram and you don't

like it, that's cool. But if you put a picture on Instagram and you comment, man, it's some bullshit you have. Somebody can say Banking Bank up the shoes on Instagram like he's fine, and everybody put in flame emojis and one person don't like it. That's that's that's because nobody tell you to come comment on that ship. You could have just the most attention showing you a little you're gonna say, you gonna say something that you're gonna be like, man,

what you got going on? But man, what's talking? But it's that one nigga that said why that he might really that really might not be it. It might just be putting the real battery in your back to make you feel like the skinny jeans on the nigga that's a founding, is what's happening? Come on by, you don't looking like spoiling ball And Brett told you like, d yeah, Ryan, you know you don't know. I have learned we can't use you know what I'm saying like dick pulling in

Dick Ryan ivy. I'm a firm advocate of that, but we can't use those words anymore because every no, no, not the other side. Like when when I'm watch up to my god dam screen, the people like because nigga dl me one time like O g so giving nigga proper Dick Ryan, I said, yeah, if you're doing excessively and then ain't responding, know you're doing too much? And yeah, they don't know you and you just he ain't even responding.

You gotta nigger that know you, that he know for a fact that everything you do ain't eight bro, and he tores in what does he do? Come on, I wants the fine line between pulling the hat and I'm gonna tell the truth that ain't it telling. You just got to be in the middle in the middle of something. You gotta know when it's ain't got that because I don't being caught up in that, and I don't give a funk with nobody to say that ship ain't going nowhere.

You know what I'm saying Like that why I started the ship showed like I don't want to wrap coming. Let's see, but bro, that ship is that ship will label you a hater. All that that why I thought it D nigga, that D nigga talk that ship line because you're putting too many shoes. Certain ship you can't even say because get what I could be saying, some ship right now and a nigga got there tied the mouffs. I can fit them, but they could be my man,

your man, they could be my man. But I could be speaking in general about some ship and they would be like, you know what, I can fit them shoes just like you ain't talking about him. Meet me now that they fit your shoes. They like with you, yeah, don't with you. I'm like that like that, y'all already know that. How yeah, I might be like by nigga, whoop the whoop, and why look at hill, I got a cat over here on I ain't even know you will prunch your old lady in the faith. I ain't

even know this. I don't know that. Like by y'all niggas out here being on the winnigga fucked up. Why I got two three nigga like man, nigga, he wants some smoke. I ain't need know this. He whooping on, he whipping on. You feel me, I'm just like that ain't right, but that that that ship come of being in like the light in front of camera and ship you're gonna say, certain ship that's gonna display your true character and everybody ain't gonna like it. They're gonna like it.

Everybody ain't gonna like it. Man. You know what I'm saying, Certain ship that I can help. I try to not do it, but you know I'm gonna live or some ship. I'm gonna bit fast on my zone on that motherfucking daily by black man. Yeah pulling, y'all can swing it from back. But get what that approach I take on life like as I go through this ship, man, and this ship continue to grow gray health. Man, you like

me a little bit? Man? When I leave it by myself, facts, my opinion on being my opinion, I ain't swearing it for nobody. Fact, you understand what I'm saying. I'm talking about for no about. If I want to say it, I'm gonna see it. If I feel it, I feel it. You understand what I'm saying. Ship ain't that's how I feel. I trying to put it like a little else because I can go to fun. Yeah, you know what, I'm two funds Charleston White out of him. But when he

pushed what he pushed. When he pushed, that's what he do. But they're saying like he does some ship that's super He doesn't. He does a character as a character to get people to understand like the bigger picture. So if his his theory is if I got to come out here and say something like crazy ass ship straight to the point to get all you niggas to look at me and listen. Once we're looking at you, listen, where's

the other character that's making me understand? You understand what I'm saying because you keep going on that character, y'all, nigga pull up over here, niggle with the stick. I'm shot. When when do you give what the When when do you turn out what I said? But this is what

I'm not gonna get what you're saying. I say, when do you get out of He don't has like a YouTube where he breaking down all the up because when you see him saying, but he says what you're saying, he's saying he knows what come with what he's saying. And he said, he said, you know what comes with it? See that, I just can't it'll be unfavorable for Nigga felt like I need to catch you and bust your ship open. He wrong, he wrong, wrong, but he knows.

She don't saying, get me dealt with you. They're gonna get me ready to die. But she home, went the all the day and he said, man to the Crypts. So whatever, I apologize. You know what I'm saying. That made me right. No, he apologized the Crypts and Nipsy, I apologize. See it that particular point that ain't me. I'm standing on what I stand on. You understand what

I'm saying. See that made me look back at everything And you didn't ever said like, damn play By, you really award it being a character and it wan't for the builderment of our people, because that's how you felt. I understood what you said when you say the crypts and niggas is in character. And I don't know Nipsey. I know because I tell my brother that all the time. But I don't know him. I know him, you know what I'm saying. I don't know baby Jade. I might

know Jade. I don't know the person that's on I do not know you. Period. When you get the pop in your ship and doing all that, that ain't what we do. When pop Eye shot on each other, that is how we do. I might not know DJ Scream. I might know Scream. So when you get to doing what you're doing, I ain't coming down off of that for nothing, but I'm willing to die back there, you understand me. So when he did that, I'm like, damn, I call my little cousin is a big fan of it,

like super better. They go too far now he's just doing on the internet. But I know a nigger like that if like I growed up aroundgas like that, just speak and say what they want to say, you know what I'm saying. Like, However, they go like the just the typical nigga out the hood, especially old niggas. I'm like, you know what I'm saying, Like that the typical NIGGI just doing that ship on the internet. Yeah, I say whatever, because a lot of niggas agree with a lot of

ship that they would be saying. Besides, you know, they don't tap you and say it and you're you're like, you see ship, but they ain't gonna nil that you say it's real ship in front of their fans because they got one nigga or the tars and they got tars and over there they're always making them feel like your nigga call. You're seeing here, you're seeing back being quiet on some ship that you know it's a humble like him. See that. They ain't saying no bullsht saying no,

no bullship. You ain't saying no bullshit No. Some of that ship, some of the like, some of the I agree with, like some of this, some of the ship. Like a woman. Okay, this is one thing I don't agree with. He said. It's not not not a woman over thirty, woman over thirty with no kids value. A successful woman over thirty with no kids doesn't have much value to her with no kids, with no kids. That's

what that man said. A woman over thirty, successful with no kids have has minimal value, like she doesn't have a large value of her like successful man won't sunk with her. He's saying that because most of the time you gotta break this ship down. You take a woman over thirty that's super successful. I call her a modern day woman. She's a modern day woman. Which modern day women they what we're talking about them with most men, they popping their ship. I don't need a nigga for ship.

You're not valuable because you don't need a nigga for nothing. You understand what I'm saying you You you don't want to be led, you don't want to be protected. You're saying all that a man, That's what he was saying. You know what I'm saying, Like, he's not telling you you're not value because most of the people didn't realize what the platform women was getting on his platform saying hey, why can't I get a top team man? Why can't I have a man in the top five, top ten

percent of men? So they was going on there saying, hey, what's wrong with me? You get what I'm saying. Women was getting on that. I'm saying, hey, he all he was doing was psychologically setting you will. I'm not gonna tell you you ugly. I'm gonna tell you, Beyonce, it's an eighth to me, right, and Kelly Rowland is a ten to me right. He's gonna ask you what you think you will. He didn't tell you he looking at you.

He never told you, oh, you were five. You're gonna get that because I'm a seven and it's no way you feel like you were seven. If I just like you just said, if I said, beyont exactly the point that I was just to say, you said it first, he said, say that she is to right, You said it first. You get the truth. You told me was eight, and I just told you it was eight. And I'm saying, you're looking at you and then you're really gonna do this to yourself. You're really gonna do that? Come on,

you ain't looking at yourself. You know that ain't a fist. You know you don't look like he said he can't be that. He and Kelly was because he felt like Kelly looked better. I do like Kelly. I do like Kelly to he was saying, and she ain't had no word. Shane died into ye say marriage. So they'll probably make a eight. Think she's probably announ but when he first was I still want to see Kelly with Nelly Jesus

Jesus Christ. Yeah, I just feel like I feel like a lot of this ship he was saying, and did have facts to it, like especially when he was speaking of like of high power men are like very successful men of them one and women that can like stroke their ego, Like why would he want a woman that's gonna, you know, whatever, you need your ego stroke, You need a woman to tell you everything you you I like that I don't need it, Like Kevin Sammuels was basically

saying that, you know, as a successful man, you don't need a woman that's gonna feel like she need to go out there and work or like she ain't got to do certain ship around the house, Like why would you want to deal with that? You're better, You're better. I was going to go get one of these girls that she would pretty much built, but I just walked up. But he said, I ain't gonna say I agree with the nig could he gone, And I ain't gonna be the nigg of the kid and saying you got them.

But what I'm saying that he was saying, yeah, yeah, he was saying a lot of ship. That makes a lot of sense. For sure, I ain't gonna but basically I feel like when because it's like women women women women still be stuck on that same dream as a as a kid, like the princesge dream, I mean the prince dream. Everyone, every woman want to try to create this, but it's not happen. I'm not. It's not about at

the time. If you didn't get if you didn't get that man out of high school or your first love, you want to take some of that ship off your list. You gotta don't. Come on, that's why so many women are single. Come on, I don't understand, but I agree, you're not gonna perfect Prince Charming. But you can't sit here and say, like if that first one around it, you know, nig you grow be turned into that nigga

yo king whatever, then that's what it is. But you ain't thirty five, thirty whatever, you got kids, whatever, you have been through a different relationship. Some of that she's gonna have to be relaxed. You gotta chill. What he's saying is is like when it comes to black men. And the only reason I'm speaking on this not because I'm a man, but because that's all I deal with,

and I understand black men. When it comes to black men, black men rely heavily on trust, and when it comes to trust, they when it comes to trust, they start kind of like chipping away at the trust early. So it's like, if you haven't been with this nigga since he was young, or if you haven't been with this nigga before he started going through life, ship or whatever, then he's gonna look at it like, Okay, you don't

know me and you couldn't. I can't possibly trust you or be loyal to you because you haven't been through enough ship with me. It happens, but it's rare. Ye, a lot of ship happened, but it's rare. We're not so at your age? Are you married? Single? Noship? How long you've been with better? Like three years? Three years you've been with butt it you feel like, but you radn't married, but you feel like, I'm super faithful. You trust everything, he's safe. If he left his phone right

here open, would you go in it? You wouldn't at all. Ye're somebody walked up to you today and tell this ship God damn you. Oh but I God damn fucking jade, and who who You're gonna believe him? I'm gonna look at him and ask him, and whatever he tell you're gonna go different. You're rare you understand what I'm saying, because most women literally won't. Every man, I know, I deal with this a lot to be that perfect nigga, because if I come into it and I meet you,

I'm way over thirty five. I'm foulding. You get what I'm saying. I meet a woman, I tell a woman, hey, look, this is what I got going on. This is who I am on the surface. Just this, that's the surface. I can't sell you know, dream I don't believe in selling dreams. I believe in telling you who I am, and then I know who I can beat. See, I'm not gonna meet no woman to tell her, oh look, I'm looking for marriage. I'm looking for a wife. I'm every woman gonna attract to me at that particular point.

Every woman can trust me when I'm right there in the light, that's mine. Fucking hut. When I meet her and I tell her, oh I just met you. I date other women. You know what I'm saying. That's number one you get what I'm saying. I'm this, I'm this, I'm this, and you decide to continue to play with me. It's the matri red peel, the blue pil pick your own poison because I just told you who I am? Fact right, No, no, but this did did way get tricky? An they can hear all that, but they believe they can.

They believe you. Hep my puss is gonna be different than Everybody's gonna change him. That's what they always think. I'm gonna change his mind. I'm telling you who I am. Right, I'm telling you this. But throughout the problems, sure you ain't telling you. But then once I started to create feelings and you start to create feelings, you're letting You're letting me know you really won't meet a lot of you you want what you're telling me. No, no, I

told you. Because what happens is in that whole little situation that you just said, right, you told me you other women, you tell me this whatever the moment as a woman, the moment that you do a little bit extra of what that list you gave me, Like instead of normally if you come over after we have sex, you get up and leave, But the moment you lay up with me, now things changing. But I'm just saying, if you if you the point I'm making is, if you lay out your list up, this is what it's

gonna be. I'm not I'm not no, but I'm just saying, whatever your list is, if you lay it, yeah, I'm being a one. I'm telling you that. What I'm saying is the moment you do. But I'm just saying, or even if you say all that ship right and then now, let's say something happened with her car and she called you, and you'd be like, Okay, I got you, blah blah blah, you fix that ship for No, I'm just telling you, as a woman, what happens now. Now you just went up.

You just once you go? Are you going the extra distance they in that's gonna be the smoke over the mirror. You treat yourself. Yeah, you know, I feel what you're saying. But she failed to communicate. No, he communicate, He communicated, he communicated, You communicate your ne Let's say we sit here and do negative positive all of that. You tell me like, how to this relationship? This is what I'm gonna do for you. This is how this ship gonna work,

and we're gonna we're gonna agree to this. That happens a lot of people like especially if you're not doing it. We're together, we're just sucking around situation ship. We say, Okay, we're gonna do this. This is the rules and regulations of this. The moment that I'm just saying, the moment the man does something extra or he sit there and give her a little bit more attention now and everything. So do she do She's supposed to communicate, Hey, baby,

this extra is making me steell different. She's supposed to communicate. Give me a chance. Don't what I'm saying. What I'm saying, I'm not telling you that I can't get no feelings. But when it comes to the extra ship, when it comes to that nigger going above and beyond or whatever, a lot of women don't feel comfortable communicating that because they don't want to suck it up. Exactly, because even if she do communicating, you may be like, I don't

want all that shack in women. She's absolutely right, I want to ask him, But if you ask him, he may think of yourself, Okay, you just did that in the worst situation that's what I'm saying. Are you women type of why women always that's the same reason. That's the same reason you said, what why do women always got to take that approach like it's always we y'all

got to be the victim? Do you mean we got why do women always do saying you're saying, you're saying you don't want to say, then you don't want to get a clarification. Baby, I'm going to like this new ship. What are we doing? Because you don't want to hear the nigga say no, it's saying yes, that's what it is. You can't do it. Hold on, y'all, let's back up two things. You want. You love myself, I agree with

what you said. Yes, I'm slick lying to myself, but hoping and you ain't gonna be upset with the niggah. He's telling you what I'm saying. It's really so what the told you get. It's really more so that because if a woman sitting here, you we put out all the ship on the table and then you do something. You start bringing me flowers. Jay said me here for failure. That's funny. Flower. No listen now, that's don't listen like

this ship with good line of money. Okay, I want to, but look what Jaden saying is, I'm not gonna come to get that clarification now because I don't want. I don't want to suck the flowers up and I don't want to be the bitch that y'all was just complaining about, like all this and every since I did. What's going when you kissed me doing some ship? The bitch that I don't complain about? It's gonna be in the transparent what's going on with this? Yeah? Men don't the only

way we win, you know what? The only way I get to my feeling. Maybe tell me it's playing this plain should feel too good exactly and the only way it man don't make it like okay, y'all maybe the rare three men. Men don't make it easy for women to feel like you know, this is all my ladies out there. Men don't make it easy for women to feel like they can just openly communicate how they feel at that moment. Don't want to stop you from communication.

That's cruel. You want not what nobody's gonna stop that from being? I am communicated, communicate see me, did what I tell you say, woman, you have to communicate with me. You get what I'm saying, because at a certain point, if you're like me, I'm gonna communicate with you. If I'm knocking on you, I'm doing what I'm doing, and I got my boundaries. I didnt damn there told you my bounds. That pushes like if I walk around and hit you and then puts like I'm gonna tell you that, puss,

don't gonna communicate. But you're scared to tell me that I gave you a rose and it's making you feel a certain type of way. Yes, come on, lord, you ain't do that. I'm saying, you can't do everything with you trying to boost it. But I'm trying to be a humble with you. What I got. No, I don't even think it's really ego, be like, didn't get it that You're like, I'm I'm asking you. Are we in a committed relationship? Some people commitment are different, They're different

every commitment that I'm committed to you. We gotta committed relationship. Hold on everybody. Everybody. Everybody commitment I'm saying, baby will rap My commitment is gonna make sure you straight on what you whatever I got women commitment that saying okay, it's my commitment is to you women looking at commitment as monogamous situations, yea and commit I could commit to the fact that this is what we're doing. Commitment to this, but I do, thank you right. They don't mean that

I'm committed to whatever we degree? Well what I mean, baby? You give me flowers and women committing relationships, yoh will, but get what we are. I'm committed to the same thing. So something different on the other side, I will say women niggas commitment niggas coma know. I tell women this all the time, Like, especially when you meet a guy, you gotta act like if he got a relationship in like seven different languages, like are you in the relationship? Okay?

Is it the best? That's gonna try to fight me if they see me with you? Is it? Like? But what killer nigga's so well crazy about him? If you don't get what you don't want us one? Eight? It what female? I ain't got a dick in the coma name. One. You can't cricket. It's like him the cricket because you're worry I can lay up with you for two months. I love you. That don't mean that's why the trust so what. That don't mean you love it, don't That's why the trust so fun because it's on both sides.

What nigga ain't got a female deeply in love with him? And what woman ain't got a dick in the corner? Y'all got it to be only y'all got it better than we do for nigga to get we got it sucked up then, no, no, no, no no. I'm just saying when I say they got some nigga, that the fun. That's the side of it. That's what I'm saying. Because for nigga women, I always tell me, oh, I know you're sucking and it's hard to get some puissons when

you're a certain type of nigga at time. But for a woman, you can go right in that phone, hit their motherfucker open, called Joe blow from ain't wait? What what on? For real? What I need to do? What time? You're mad? You're gonna be like tripping on? Would make it so hard for niggas that ship. It's because dealing with other schlick ass bitches, yes, sir, like you got bitches of playing out, you know, what I'm gonna have a lunch break in two months, that's gonna last two hours.

I'm gonna but no, she playing in this ship. She playing, She playing in the fun She already knows when we come. Oh God, everything this bit got, this ship ain't gonna never know. No, he's gonna be at a convention in such a such and I'm gonna have a out of lunch break for two hours. Maybe what you gotta do on March You sure you need? You need your feet? Rob that she got the house, I got the wine

for us, I got this. Come on, y'all, women beyond the women feel like a lot of men get women too much credit in terms of, oh, we do ship better than y'all. I don't agree with women give they'd be like, oh, we cheat better than y'all, we do this better than y'all. It's not exactly because the only the only issue with that be like a nigga like he might not give a fuck, he don't care to. We live in the same world. We we we we breathe the same right. We live in the same world.

Everything that's accessible to me is accessible to you. Fact, I just might not give a funk about picking up your phone to go in that beach because I get what. I don't want to see it. I don't want to see I ain't trying to catch it that you gotta hit me in the face like I got that. I ain't trying to go searching for some ship. So if nigga, your cheating gang is gonna break your heart. Yeah, even you got all kind of apps. Man, Now they're doing

all the type of ship looked like a calculator. There's a call as you called somebody like man, come on, man, we're going throughout it. Man. When I was young, I learned this ship. My first little head nigger she was working with night ain't saying that her phone up on her brother said they'd be scream if you could add two numbers they were, but their mother gonna pop up. Brother every time. You know what I'm saying. I'm young, though, I'm like, damn this ship like they're gonna go that

fun like this show, brother Colin. I'm saying the need to coll and I'm like, damn, bro j car okay, cool, they're gonna they're gonna take you schlick man. I'll just said the Smoothie King and I'm not smoothieking tropical caufine, I hope, but I ain't looking bro. I had my phone in my hand right yeah, autumn smoothing bitch, and I'll drop me her contact. I was like, whoa, whoa that deep? That deep, that's deep. Ain't see that? This is good right there? They was talking and chat waddy

like this shoot get what he declined? The ship? Wow, that's strong right now? What I say? I never even seen that before, Like I didn't see that, but then I went back and see, like, man, you do that. You can't drop your contact your whole contact card? Yeahs all kind of ship's Yeah? That that deep right? See why? But for a run for h manner and I'm big, don't know what. He's probably already whooping on you, trying to get out of it, sending me your air drops

do play fine? Yeah, but they're gonna do. But he ain't had him to do. He ain't having them to do that. You're trying to trying to seem like we just out here reckless. Now just now you right down street two dollar. But you don't never see cats. They have a whole bunch of kids. Though. Are you doing here? You don't do them to hear them in the right time and not you're here. See niggas stuck them. Don't say kids drew them up. So quiet ship and evil.

It's just women trying to understand men and men trying to understand. Women are unfathomable, unfathoable. It is and it's not impossible. And I'm not saying I'm neither one of them. Dude, let me sit crazy, But I'm just a dude that seek I just seek understanding. You know what I'm saying. I come peace little, I just required it, you know

what I'm saying. But I try to enlighten women that Sometimes when I put it on the platform, women be like, oh, you don't know, they don't mean they don't have a lord, Like they don't mean I don't have nobody I care about, even the women that I care about, the woman I care about. It's like I'm always trying to get them, motherfucker to understand what you get what I'm saying, you know what I mean. Like, it's always trying to get them affucker to stand the difference side of a man.

I don't given now niggas say a man gonna settle where he has peace, you feel you're gonna And when I say that, I say this, he gonna You don't mean he ain't gonna be who he is, but she gonna get She gonna gain more of him than any other woman they're trying to life. That's what I mean. You could find piece of chaos. Some niggas like chaos. It depending on what kind of household they grew grew up in and how they grew up. You know what I'm saying. Like someth nigga like chaos like me, I'm

gonna nigga that's gonna express myself. So if I get into it, I get into a certain type of debate about the same type of ship A motherfucker think. I like drums. I don't like drama. I am a violet motherfucking person that I'm trying to correct that in my life. I grew up around violence trauma, so I don't want that. But if you come at me on some bullshit, I'm gonna check you on that ship. I ain't gonna let

you just think that's what's up. You ain't gonna just say what you want to say to me and thank that ship. Okay, So if it warrants an argument. Beat you. I'm gonna argue with you. You understand what I'm saying. And it's oh that nigga like that. No, no, move on. I'm gonna pick and choose my battles. You get what I'm saying. But I'm one of them dudes. I'm gonna sell the word. There is peace like I like peace. If I told you who I am, this, what it is,

this what I'm on, we're cool. But if you want to try to comflict everything I said everything is, you want to be combative towards everything. You can't be like that. You can't be this, you can't be there. Already told you who I am. You're trying to change who I am. They just they just folks just feel like at the end of the day because I had this come say and they just feel like a right all you said, that's who you were. But I thought you was gonna

grow up, grow up to be what what? So so you're saying you thought the things that I would do it with childish and I was gonna grow out of being That's gonna start another thing. But here's the thing, here's the big thing to it that we all forget it. I never told you the positives of what I wanted in my life. I only told you the things to prepare for, to prepare for. Yeah, I'm not gonna sit here and tell you that I want to be married. I'm not gonna. I'm not telling you expectation that I

might want to marry you exactly. You get what I'm saying, because I could have any woman that I won't if I tell them what they want to heal. I see that at the table, what you want to date, and I run my resume down boom in my resume, it's say, I want to know the kid. I didn't listen to you telling me that bullshit. You hear me, I'll tell you I want to be married. You know how to be the perfect man, the man they're gonna be the perfect man. I tell women you out come on, man,

I'm listening to you. You don't even know what you were telling me this. You know what, damn babe, by man right here, we're right here together. We here to didn' nigga, No, he didn't want to hit sent you. It's some meiggas I hate that can marry some cheeks. They didn't you the nighte titty. You're telling any guy ain't gonna marriage. Why is some niggas got here to? Man? I know one. I hope you watch what the mayor of marribis foot in fourteen days. They were the divorce he called, He called,

he come here to. Yeah, like nigga's gonna ride. That's not just feel like I feel like God, damn, you get a certain age me and no women, you're gonna be like, you gotta kind of relax some Of'm not a relaxed point of my life, you know, saying. You gotta say you gotta relax some of your thunderds. Okay, Mike,

take a I'm just speaking hypothetically. You know what I'm saying at this point, speak on, I might take a If I like fat ass and pretty woman, I might take a little bit taken ugly, be with the fat as you know, show a pretty bit and I buy. So you know what I'm saying, Like this, at this what are you gonna do? Keep searching, put miles on yourself, your search your bit and just you know what I'm saying, Just she might, she might have other qualities that make

her attractive. You don't come back. She might be able to cook. Man, you gotta take fit fit it. You gotta take t get what if you take the mom that shallow like me? Like, how do hell do I break this? Shallow as hell? If I don't like it, I don't like it? Pint blank period. You know what I'm saying, Like, I like what I like, and I'm going to admit that to any particular bad I got married. Man, I ain't playing the game my life twenty eight years ago.

I'll just be speaking from salute my friends. Salute salute that to me speaking about friend. I'll be getting in trouble about my damn podcast. This should have been a whole argument when this should come out your thoughts. I get into it about that people that being my d im telling me to talk about this. Man, they're going, I get I can you talking about this? I get that. I get in my dem you could do a topic

on Yeah, you know what I'm saying. I get to talk Abel screen strange that moderated positions stay out lay out of a one time my podcast due my podner called me one day. He said, man, you need you need a co host on your little podcast. I said, for what? Yeah, man, you just gotta have that balance, I said, the balance for what I said, you're gonna be the balance. I said, Bro, when I get to talk about Nigga's cheat, you're gonna pr you kind of

had that conversation. You ain't gonna you ain't gonna have that conversation. Can get what you don't want your old lady to feel like you're doing Nate, ain't you. You ain't gonna talk about that. So what they here you look like me and don't here we're talking about they're really going on you. They're gonna hear that. Can talk about we're really going on whether you're doing it or not. We all got partners, we all see what's going on. Then we're going on. Man, this ship crazy being in

relationship or man. Like, every time every question your girl ask you sound like a suspicious like she suspicions. Because women do ask the question they feel like they know they don't you know, not like damn, we really you don't really know nothing? Yes, we do think, you know, when a woman to tell me something she really knew all the way, they'd be wrong sometimes, but they'd be really no, I ain't presenting the time she'd be right. Man,

she's the wrong name. What we'd be doing so much ship all they got to do against one out the pope and she'd be just some bullist. That's what we're going on. That you got caught up. Caught up, No woman, my life, No, no, I've had situation. I had to tell her, Yeah, we're going on this. Kids coming up and ship like they ain't never got caught like nobody

on my phone on that ship. Yeah. Yeah, but you know what I'm saying, like I ain't she she oh put it on a table, crazy to go here this at you man, But see that how women think though, I like y'all be doing it guests and sometimes you might be that. No, it don't beat that even even not even what you team like with with uh with certain ships like it'll be times like special woman that's close to you and love you. They can take some

ship and you know they watching. Yes, that's what I's gonna say that that my wife will sit that's a fun me. I wouldn't give a damn what he didn't a show, but you was a complete fun. Yeah. I've been through that. I've been through that. Any time would be like, nah, think you should do that? That ship and I do it that she don't go, right, I don't and ship don't go. You know what I'm saying, Like, Damn, I'm glad I ain't do that. Yeah, so you gotta you gotta trust the women and that you're like your

mama telling me to ship. My mamain never been wrong, grandma. You know what saying about it? This coach that loves you. No, because it's patterns and it's just energy and stuff. Just have it. I gotta. I'll be telling my cousin and like he created pattern for women. He's gonna talk to him at five o'clock every day. You're gonna do all this. As soon as you break it, boom you're dead. Yeah,

exactly that that. I'm glad. I'm just goddamn. Just you just decisive in the relationship like you never know what it is because when you start that routine, I got a home. But right now, like I noticed, nigga Mills, Bro, you you don't trick yourself to be a nigger that you ain't. Ain't he say you, like, yeah, as soon as you do, as soon as you be you, he can't here. He's stuck in and nothing like the het good with him. Yeah, he just gotta keep man. You think he and he moved all out of town all

this ship. But man, but you tripping? How like he love? How you know I love to take him out there? He didn't want to be in here around all y'all moving to no motherfucking Phoenix with no bitch. Man ain't my bad man to watch the kids and ship you know that follow her job and her dream. But he's following. He ain't even being a man. Okay, I have a question,

what is that woman? Like? Why do men feel like if a woman is very very very successful and then let's say he's he's a successful too, but that she may not successful if how long you can be like you? A woman could be very very successful in the man could be successful too. But in her position she may need to go out the state or something. And in his position he may still have the opportunities to go

with her. But if he if he goes, everybody gonna look at him like, oh you follow That's what I'm saying. He could still do his ship followed, he can do following her. Yeah, Like people that make sense? Yes, you got the man who following the woman? She's doing everybody doing me, but at going on nig following woman. He very he ain't got nag, he ain't got Let's go, baby,

your plans ain't gotta make no preparation on them. Hey man, he that that he ain't paying, then he dropping deep this I'm a dood Now if she say, Babe, I need to go on the money I gave you so we can do this. What do you think because now I'm the manager. If I'm managing the money in the relationship, my job just offered bill job. What do you think, babe? Let me check our money so to see that's different, that's unfathomable. What's having to pimp? Yeah, let me check

check my pub pilots. See, I'm just keeping the word hunt man. But I think we have went over time because acquired on the center over there waving ship. Anybody take We appreciate you, bro. Check out and my own Instagram is rich on my month A M O E N t A no spaces you know what I mean. Make sure y'all gonna follow me. Let's tell you be pisting niggas up on your girl too. I'm supposed to the truth hustling, Bro, I ain't gonna do them to tell the truth. Man, he does a lie. Call me

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