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BIG FACTS FRIDAY- Recompense

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On the latest episode of BIG FACTS FRIDAY, the crew has a discussion around the word "Recompense."

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Big Bang. It is screen. You don't be on nothing, I'll be on b J okay, So let me ask this bring you big big fact visit the new website today, Big Facts Paul dot Com coming to your life from Revolt Studios in the A t l is yours truly DJ screen, Big Bankers here, Baby Jade, this here, big homie Kode that shot Jones in and it's time for big Facts Friday. Whoa slow clap? You slow clap? What's

the deal? What's my family was going on? I'm slightly disgusted because this nigger just blew me a kiss real yes, yeah, and I happened to be looking while he was doing it. Yeah, damn would like in three weeks in a row? What of y'all trolling? Kde y'all? Lasting happened y'all? Yeah, don't get me, y'all troll? Yeah, yeah, I got plenty of big facts. We're just speaking. Who'll be trolling you yet? Keep me real fast? The fan taking up on who you think? You don't be honest? Who get the worst?

Like nobody? You're not gonna do me bad because I'm not gonna met you. Yeah, I'm about to meet nobody. Do me bad. I ain't no victim talking about what's the word. What's popping y'all? Word? So goddamn the word of the day. It's fortuitous. Do you have any idea what that mean? Scrap? We've got something to do with fortune, but go for it, okay. So it means happening by

accident or chance rather than design. For example, you ever seen where like not even on a big scale, but just like somebody you know, they might just be a fund up as bullshit person, but they always hit the lottery and they always win. Like that's for fortuity? What just just by chance? Yeah? People people having things happen to them by luck or like on some fluke ship that you know that they didn't deserve. I gotta I gotta definition, y'all sent me things happening by luck? You know,

damn well you didn't deserve. That's example. Yeah, that's example. I know, good example of that lotterish stories. What well you send it and he re enacted it on the new ticket and he won a lot of again on the news. Definition check please, brother, you don't mind, but that a definitely the definition is happening by accident or chance rather than design. Oh yeah, so they tried to give it. I guess the example is like for us to understand, you can't say what that person deserved and

deserve what they get it. That's if you're at school and you're studying for like you you studying, you working your ass off for this test, you like this, you like really studying for this test. Right then you had a one student that don't really care bubble anything, and they bubble anything, get them the A and you that studied your ass off and you gotta be and you're like, how to funk that happened? But they just don't deserve

in that's really done. But that's the that don't deserve you bubble in anything and don't give a fuck because their frivolity fucking produced their fortuity. Like that before I was on happening by accident or chance rather than design exactly. The design is the person that's studying for the test, that's doing everything they're supposed to do. The other person is the one that just sit there, bubble up anything, but they get the A. And the person that study

for weeks and weeks to get this moment. Though sometimes you just be blessed some something happened that you ain't design a plan for you, just blessing. But the thing about it is who designed that we think we're going off of. I'm just keeping it real. You can design something yourself that's not for you. God designing everything right for sure. So what's for you is for you. So's chancer, by chance or accident or designed. They'll come for you.

What's for you? It was for you rightly. If if you, if you just find a whole bunch of money that was followed by design. No guys designed for sure. But it's still a flute, as we would say in the streets, because you already street dude. Just think about you already, the street dude that got all the money. You already got a whole bunch of money. Everybody in the neighborhood know that you got all the money. You find the money, But it's the people that really in the neighborhood and

need the money they don't find it. It's just that you're the bullshit. But they're supposed to find the money. You look at everything. That's a blessing for sure, for the blessing having yesterday, and it came to me as a blessing on your hot came with the streets in the hood called blessing. Sometimes music flute flute means some other ship. That usually the people that are on the other end expectedly the yeah. But we usually the people that are on the other end of the fluke are

partially in some way jealous of the fluke. You can you can unexpectedly fluke up and find your wife, though, but that still came from God. That's a blessing. What you're saying fluke bad. I'm just saying in our culture, and you knows, be like, and that's a fluke as ship that song, it's a fluke ship. But if we're saying to hit that song and blew up and ship and I'm here rapping and I'm going he was, I agreed.

But if we're saying that that God made everything happen, no matter how it happened, is there really a such thing as a fluke? Yes, that's what I'm trying to say. What I'm saying. What I'm trying to say, it's fluke bad or or just even exists. It is the bigger picture for sure. Y'all have used the word fluke. I heard, That's what I'm saying, yeah, what do you call it when a person trying to acting like they don't understand, Well, I'm not acting like I don't understand, but I'm saying

it's like like doing a blessing. Come, that's the fluke cash isn't even a flute. They went to jail. That's a flute to me for sure, Like, Bro, you know your aunt ain't polder, got them go need the house with no more for smoking, no blood. Fluke cain' with jail flukee ship. But if I find some money that don't go with that to me? Fluke is it does go with that? To somebody that didn't find the money, that feels like you don't get over there. I got

over there. He already found the money. I don't. I was just over there looking around nobody Like, what makes you a hater that I don't make you? They don't make me? No fluke because you your luck ain't like man. B Yeah, blessing definitely. If you're mad, nobody's got something got used. Hater ain't no no. If you're mad about a hater, listen, if we're talking about the definition of what is it for, what's the word for two? It is right, and we're talking about that definition. If you're

somebody that's some bullshit, I'm some bullshit. Yeah, okay, let's just say that you're the neighborhood bully. Let's just put that. Go ahead, go ahead, go ahead, go ahead. You a neighborhood bully. Right, you've been jacking all the kids in the neighborhood all month long. The mama over here in this neighborhood, she ain't got ship, her bills need to get paid and all that. She just needs some look,

she down bad. She been at the church and giving up her last money at the church, and we get system tied in a couple of weeks ago, she's been tithing their church, tithing that church. And then she goes right around the corner. And she go right around the corner. Two minutes later, you go around the same corner, you pick up a bag, and now that the word around

neighborhood bank just found fifty dollars. But we don't know what TV doing a hushbad time because her fluke ain't on and I must have did something to make God send me to bless. Yeah, and you don't know why he's bullying the kids. What have the kids kid how now, but you he's a kid too, right yeah me either way. Yeah you say he's a bully. Yeah if you're a kid now his kids kids ship. But if I find the money, bro flesh, how are you gonna turn into

a flute you hate? Think? Yes? It is? Yes, if things testifying, hating hesitating, that is, there's no you're gonna be. If you're mad at somebody else for having something that you want, that's hating. I'm not gonna be mad if your family I just find five, honey, I'm not gonna be Look well I'm not even Yeah he's like yeah food on you or some ship like that like that, but I ain't cut me and so on me like

but cutting me in right sore? The on the cashhot by mistake was that flu who he just blessed somebody? I just I sidn't have wrong gardener man sixty five dollars and my real gardener man like, shot, you ain't send me my money and I'm like, yes, I did send for the screenshot and everything. I've been asking this other gardener man for my sixty five dollars back every day. I'm sitting on request. If you're gonna get mad. That's a fluke on your end, But that's a blessing for him.

He probably six, Yeah, like he probably just pray. Is that your I He didn't get that back, but it's a blessing. Well say the needy to you are to bigger, bless you are a big talk about you keep that little money? You know that's we're gonna put it your Instagram. It's shame real but you wanted an au fluition for intuitus or no. But I feel like I do feel

like a lot of ship blessing. Ain't know fluke, but when you when you loose, when you're on to lose the end of the stick that you know what I'm saying, Like traffic be some bullshit bull anybody. I don't give up another But sometimes traffic could be a blessing because sometimes you get to slow your ass down and you look ahead and it's a badass accident and you he was flying. So if you just slowed your ass down, you probably would have been a part of that accident.

Yeah for sure. So hitting the lotto is a blessing. You played it thinking about it. If I played a lot of what am I trying to do trying I win. How the fund is that the fluke? I think for people, if somebody if whole yea and when you play that one time and you win, I'm like, I'm chosen. I'm chosen when you chosen flu When you're chosen, there ain't no fluke, ain't no flu I'm telling you if I see this ship happen, what about a nigga who you

keep looking at that anything they do work like? He just a fluke cash nigga everything this thing ain't never trying to be a motherfucker podcaster. Ship just so happened to fluke up and work thinking then't trying to be a rapper with record flup went school for business, trying to do the same ship you doing. He'll been dedicated, Bro, I made a hit record my first song exactly. How the fund is you? Your fluke or your chose? If it keeps happening to you, what do you sorry? We're

gonna agree that the word flint bad. All I'm trying to say is fluke is not bad. Like I feel like what Black is saying is that fluke only really enters into the equation accurately when you're speaking something. Yeah, pull it up one of the go ahead, go ahead, Jay, would you say no, I was just saying that Basically, what I'm getting is that fluke only accurately enters the conversation when it's something negative. That's what I look at

fluke as a negative connotation. Somebody telling me got them such goddamn such a happen negatives? You got a law suit or song that's a blessing. Oh look at that ship he would do act huh, but it's got to pay that. No, but the fluke can really I'm gonna screaming consignable and I like chance, especially surprised piece. There you go. Look, I'm saying the Hood turning, and I'm saying I just go to the mike and said one time three the hood turn fluke into the bullshit. That's

what I'm saying. The Hood like about accident. Like sometimes when you get in the car accident, you'll be so mad about this car incident, But then you get that man, you ain't even mad no more, think about it car. But when you're fromt the hood need to be like ship. Even the people that get hit ain't that over to get paid. Yeah, that's the best about the ripe to the person who owned the car, some fluke shit because the insurance may go up. They got mad. They gotta

go through the ship with him. You know what I'm saying this is, Yeah, you got what you an unlikely chance, especially a surprise piece of love, an unlikely chance. Yeah, that's like hitting a lot of a lot of them. Yeah, so ship money. I can't wait to fluke up on you. See what I'm saying flume? What about somebody fluke ain't fluke and you work for it? Working they can't be because they said that fluke is luck, so you're working

for it can't be. Look, you're like, if you work for that, you get up every day and got them build a house. It's not about to be the best house ever that one. But you can't. So you can't be. You can't be a fluid music man. He was a fluent music It takes a lot to put out a song though, but he was a fluent Yeah. Yeah. First, I think the fluke is when you ain't really trying. You want to try what you want. I'm gonna make this hit right now, But afterwards you might have known.

But during the process, you's like, I'm just working around saying what this ship about? Boom? Yeah, no, that's real. So I've been flucid like a month. I'm gonna fluke some ship. I gotta fit up. I should leave my design flu design meal flu was the opposite of this word? I guess for what's the opposite? What's the opposite of the front turans um? What's the sing? How you spend f O r t I t I O U s for titus? Nope, hold on, hold on now that spelling O r t U t u t i O spelling be.

You've been getting it wrong a lot of time. We stuff r tu I left the eye out. Tell me, I ain't see what you supposed to be the spelling be chump, I am oh did she try to spend it like she spent the d city after her? How they do? That's wrong? What you got? Three? What is? What's the antonym for fortuitous? Go to the mic mic the antonym of fortuitous for two for two fortitude they're gonna be that it's gonna be sounds like what misfortune?

You mean? What happening? Chance? No? No, no, we need the opposite the opposite of three, the opposite of it sounds like misfortune, the opposite of the unexpected blessings unexpected not blessings? First man? Three don't know? Man, what give me one of your flute mission? Uh? What's one of your flute experiences? Flute? All right? We got it, we got got it, we got how y'all go that? That's good? Though? What's the time you sloped up that ship? Man? I've been working for a lot of ship, I get. I

don't know. I can't have some fluke. It's misfortune, certain misfortune, misfortunate and planned in certain certainty because all of that ship is expected. What's the word for that? Though? Is that a definition for something? Or those are the I was standing? I was like what I tail a few weeks ago? And it was a long ass line, but I was trying to get in now, so different niggas was at the gate is supposed to be that? So I just walked in. There's your that ship? Ain't it?

Something about got that? Just so him bottoms ain't right that I'm good? Yeah, I don't know how it would have got in otherwise. Ship. So what you were coming to do? Work? Work? What? What the hell you was working for? Free? Because if you was working the job. No, I needed a bad, but it was a real complicated. But the person that had my bad couldn't get me the band because it was a whole bunch of checkpoints and ship. They weren't gonna let the back end. Yeah,

it's sucked up. So when you got that, you just buy flute, just literally just walk through the game. Did you take that as a blessing? Yeah? But otherwise I already leave anyway. So I like it. Man, this should have worked. This must have been like some volunteer ship. I like getting paid to go out. Now. I don't even not school that team. Are these the regular classes or the special home? It's home coming, It's home coming this when everybody come back. I found a water. I

found a whiter too. I took it to the neig House. One ship in their mother about two hundred seasons. I took him back to Drogs great tail, not under the game to him like that lady did that. But yeah, glad, you stayed like right around the COMA found that croaked Now, you stayed right around the combe took it. When I get big, I ain't gonna lie. I feel like my whole thing in Atlanta has been I guess like a flute is it? Because I feel like I ain't from here.

I ain't know nobody here. Yeah, like I didn't know anybody, like not one person. But you would think like all everything is by luck, by chance, like even emailing you. I didn't know what I think. So it's just like everything was just at the right place that the I can say that. I just I just having to be up at two o'clock in the morning when you put that ship out that I was spun to too. I know him to be sleepy. I was whenever you got no I'm saying. When I first met, was texting scream

the whole time we was texting. It was what a bro? He thought I was a man all the way into the end, and then at the end, I was like the way, I'm a girl. That okay, I'm a girl that okay. So like that ship was fluked out. Yeah, I don't know what I was thinking, but she was texting I hate that people. We goddamn d M and me like, yo, what's up? Bro? Like what broke me down? Like you're not you don't understand on my page that

I think Bros, what's your home? Girls though, like Jake the way on our ship through that trying to laugh at the back girl fluked away the whole ship hit me. Flukes are good. We can't do an interview. Squeeze that ship right up. I was there. You're just about to say so though we're talking about now she was saying she should continue to be a nigger. Wait, we got jake ship. Okay, so let's move on to the next um.

The next word that we have is recompense, and that means to make amends to someone for a loss or harm suffered, or to compensate them for pain that you've caused ze apologizing. Yeah. The example is everyone should share a momentary experience where they've had to make amends to someone because they hurt them or caused them or caused harm to that person. It can be friendships, relationships, family, et cetera. It's really about basically being the bigger person man.

I have ship. I mean chain, what's your name? Recompense change my name, and I have to do that every day. Chante make amends of everything. The truth you gotta bit you up. That's what this ship. Ship is, the biting up where the bitch you up. Recompense. But that's not that's it for him. Amends. Everybody ain't mindable though, Yeah, what makes somebody worthy of recompensing too? I think, I think,

I think, I think making amends is also making peace. Right, Yeah, we gotta be cool, But it ain't that you could just be an understanding. Yeah, you got have an understanding. I don't sunk with you, you don't suck with me? Were cool? No, Sometimes I don't think it don't care for peace. It depends on the situation, and it depends on what. Yeah, but I like if it's somebody, but if it's somebody who like, I'm not gonna have any

you know, running is with or whatever? Like you don't know that I don't care about rectifying ship with you? You know, No, you don't know that what they what I'm saying once it's fucking fuck if yes, ye yes, like like if because if you go, you got a chance to delete that funk you and it ain't that deep, delete that ship. You know we're gonna run into it wasn't happen or if it was, fuck you, was it like fuck you for a reasonable like a reasonable cause.

What I'm saying, I'm saying like sometimes it could somebody can say, suck you for something that you actually did, and you can see a thing. But now if you look back, you're like that I did did something well. Not even if I did something wrong. Somebody else did something wrong and they knew they did something something wrong and they stand on that ship. Why I need why we need direct You don't do what if it's wrong to you, But what they're standing on it makes sense

of why they're standing on it. You give what I'm saying, Like me, standing on my truth can bring can make you feel the type of way, but it's my truth, and it makes sense of what the funk I got going on? I mean said, if that's the case, that's everybody though. Yeah, yeah, but still it's still still I don't really feel like was it. So basically you feel like you should that a person shouldn't have to or

shouldn't be able to stand on their truth at your expense. Yes, do not stand on your truth at your expense or you can be you can stand or you can stand. You can stand on that ship, but be prepared, but for what comes with that? What you mean, I mean, if you if you're standing on your truth, if you know that ship is gonna conflict with me or anything that that got going on. You can do that, but be prepared to be a conflict with me or don't

stand on your truth in my space. Yeah, because basically, Okay, so what what she just said? Right? She said that um ending, the reason that hit him and person A might have fallen out is because person No, he's saying that if him and person A fell out and person A is standing on the reason that they fell out, then it's fuck you. She said that what a person a standing on the fell out, it's something that has

to do with their beliefs and their values. And he's saying, basically, stand on your values, but don't stand on your values at my expense. So basically, y'all saying, nobody's got them being open minded to how he might be thinking on how he might be thinking. Yeah, but I mean, I'm saying, basically, like, if that's the case, everybody stands on what they feel. So everybody's gonna stand in a in a situation, everybody's gonna stand on what they stand on because that's how

they personally feel. I think it's it's all what the blood is because it's like you feel some type and I feel some type wall Okay, I can't if I fult with you enough, I can't dig into myself and see if that's valid that you may feel that you know what I'm saying, like he might do feel like that because I did that, But fuck you if it's because I feel like I feel, but I understand, so that would make it be really not a problem, but

a problem. But at the end of it, if it's a butt still at the end of it, after you've reevaluated their perspective and their point of view, then there's no way of recon But it's it's in situation. It can be two people can be wrong. You get what I'm saying. I'm wrong, but I ain't wrong because of what you did to me, and you I'm you wrong, but you wrong because of what I did to you. Type ship. You get what I'm saying because you got

a battle. If you go tell one side of the story to Jake what I did to you, it's gonna sound like damn funk that nigga bank. But I don't never say my side. But you didn't tell what you did what I did you that whatever I did was the reaction. You get what I'm saying. But whatever you probably did to me to make me tick out wid out, you probably think, ain't then you know what I'm saying, Nigga, do something motherckers to do something to you and be

like that weren't really then, but you will out. But you get what I'm saying you, But they're going to tell you admit that sometimes nigga, we ain't got over some small ship that it really wasn't that really did over react. You're right, that's what I'm saying. You're right, you you right, you right. It might have did overact, But you can't tell a person how to react. If I have right now, I can't tell you what to do to me exactly. You can't tell the person ill

to react. Man, we need to just that conflict right there. We don't even need to be like that in a way because it's gonna co up again. They're gonna get worse, worse and worse worse. But we need just gonna hear it. This friendship, relationship whatever, because it's like certain people energy just don't match. Did you trying to be something every day on the phone? Ship go out? That ship ain't gonna go right? What could be around you, love you

and everything, but don't like you. It's just how it goes, yea for who you is, Like I funk with you, but I don't funk with you. If you want my family or my friend or I was supposed to be your friend, I wouldn't even talk to a nigga like you. But people be afraid to even just say that, like, Bron, we don't mix broun with you with me, and you don't mix bro. You your bags and ships are different than mine. People don't know how to just say that.

Isn't that people don't know how to say it or people don't know how to take it, because a lot of times people can say they don't know how to say it or take it. Yeah, but sometimes people say the ship and people don't know how to take it in and just see see it as that like if somebody tell you how they feel, people like nine times that attend Now it's time for them to react to your feelings, and that when it's not even fast for a reaction. I'm just telling you how to like. You

don't even gotta say it. You're actually consure nigga, Bro, we don't mix. When you call me. I ain't telling you invite you no way, Bro, that ain't my style of nigga. Ain't coming around you. I funk with you though, couldn't if we're cool as a motherfucker. If you need me, I'll be there. But that what you on and death when I'm always two different things. So and I can tell you that like you called me to search ship, but I ain't on that, Bro, I'm gonna talk about

what that is. I don't give a fuck up. I'm saying that so much that you're gonna know. And if it turns into resentment and hate, then that's what it is. But if it turned really're gonna respect it. Like niggas called up and be like, Bro, I know they ain't even called it with it. I know you ain't on that. I ain't even tell you to let let go here because I know you aren't gonna go. They already telling me.

You know what I'm saying. Even God Damn Pat Pat might be like he might call me earlier the day and we might be talking from be like, bro, I want to go to God. Now you're calling on it, I say, yeah, gy gonna say stop laughing. I'm just saying I'm just talking. You know, damn well, I'm not coming. Yeah,

that ain't my field. We can get enough another feeling to kick ships, more cigars, cigarettes, whatever, blunts, whatever, chill, But I ain't evenna go do no ship that I don't want to do, because that's gonna make you, that's gonna make us being everything everything around, You're gonna feel like different. You geta saying, everybody around, you're gonna feel your energy of yeah, something else we come here. This is what I want to do. So I'm chilling energy. Good,

everybody good. I don't given I know everybody sound man, got them. Everybody is to know how y'all doing. You're going to a certain certain place that you know you don't supposed to be here. You ain't even gonna be as you're not gonna be comfortable. Yeah, but do you think that sometimes comfort don't have to do, don't have

anything to do with the surroundings. That's all within yourself Because a lot of times, like everybody around you can be like happy, go lucky, welcome in, and you just don't. But our energy might not still mix. I'm saying, like I pick up on but what if it's your own energy. It don't matter. It don't matter who energy funked up or not. It's just I don't mix with that. You bring it, you bringing you concerned people, bringing certain ship

out of you. So if I'm around you, you bring you bring me to a point where I want to be like what you are. I don't even need to deal with you. If you brought ain't search it out of me. That don't that I don't want to come out of me. I don't even need to deal with you like that. You get wanna say, I want to be around the people that brain it. Yeah we're vibing. I don't want to be running up that brain it.

But sometimes you sometimes the best thing for you is just to be by yourself, Like maybe you don't even want to be outside. In general, ship is sucked up. I don't even I don't come around people because I know that ship is gonna come off the wrong way and it's just gonna cause a whole snowball of ship for no reason, for some ship that ain't even got nothing to do with them. When my ship is sucked up,

I stay in the house. You could be around for the people that are positive, happy vibe, having a good time. If you don't want to be there, it's gonna sunk up the it's energy for everybody. When you come around a person, you want to be cool this person, you do this, you this, but y'all can't. It's just never that. Yeah, that's one my ain't somebody like a room we walk into in the room, you know, I'm saying people strangers, Then we gotta figure out what the engine is what

my ends want to call that? Really some reason? Yeah? Yeah, I mean always got them bickering and little little sneak jabs and ship. Not even play that game, right because eventually it's gonna elevat into something else and it's gonna not end. Well, Zach, not even play that game. While we're gonna play that game. You don't vote me, don't vote with you. But we're cool. Were men, but don't mean we gotta be enemies or friends. Trying to push

the free envelope gonna make a nigga be enemies. Yeah, what about the people that like I don't know if if any of y'all have ever experienced that were like some people. It seems that the relationship or the friendship is better either via tax or via phone conversation. In person, it's like this ship ain't it? But like you could call me. We can sit on the phone for hours a week of texts all day, but we're in a

person it just don't mesh. Well, what about that? Like, do y'all feel like energy playing a part of that? Or is that like some bullshit because some people like I know, for me, I got certain friends like I don't. We ain't got to go to the club because I ain't off that. But we can sit on the phone and I could be there, we can talk all day. But in person, I'd be like, then we're doing I think you gotta establish boundaries. Know what's our relationship? Like

what our relationship built? Doot is our relationship is our friship built, don't get money together, friendship built? Don't trust? Is our friendship built? Don't goddamn you motivate me? Or you might tell a bit of the park what is our and then literally then let that be the basis go to friendship or the relationship, Like we're gonna stand on this point, We're gonna do this part to the max. Whatever else come out of that came out of that.

So if I'm your parting that you called to talk to on the phone or text, bro, I love You'll just tell your love of you. I might have talked for a whole six months. That could be our Friendshman, that text could help my life and help your life when I hit you like on Instagram whatever. Everybody ain't gotta be day to day every David, because people don't mix for really, like even family member, all your all

your friendships aren't gonna be uniform. Friendship. Friendship this one solid thing, like you know, it's it's it's people who I'm friends with who ain't seeing the years. But we may FaceTime, we may talk, we may um send d ms on ida or whatever, but ship we're just not in the space of life where we can have that

type of interaction on the day to day basically. But it's my nigga, I think, I think, I think um with people when we go when we have friends, we feel like they're supposed to be a part of everything that we got going on. Like saying, if I meet you as a friend, now, I want to be in business with you. You know what I'm saying, go together? Most friends go together. Yeah, I want to be in

business with you. Then if I want to be a friend and now I want to go to the club with you, you want to be a friend, Now I wanta goddamn tell you my problem on take that's too much all friends, that's too much. That's too much. And now we're in a really relationship now friendship relationship because we ain't gonna bite it, uh cycle between the two. One of them gonna have to be hindered the friend shop of the other business right or the leisure some

some of that. This is gonna have to be chopped down. Because now if you, if you're and you're feeling about they're just like trying to be and being with your with your with your wife, you family. If I'm man, if if I'm mad at you about some being or his mother came up, you aint my wife no more, but you meant my brother no more. Bro that day

you getna saying I gotta be different. But but if if I'm on some relationship ship, we wake up, man, Now I gotta got them dumble dumble back and ask you what time I gotta be here, What time I gotta that ship? Don't mix? Yeah, it's confusing, Yeah, it's no you it's too many emotions. Yeah, if me and co that okay, this is what we do, big fast, We pull up, do big fast whatever. He got some radio ship. We're gonna keep it like that. I'm not

feel to be that way yet. Let go bowling. Fact unless we do a big bowl off whatever about And if I do see you in public, he'saking my brother, Yeah, yeah, but we this is what we do and my man I might hit him on I see you on some workout. We might trail one day. Yeah, yeah, brother, see your workouts. Pull up for me? What what up? Like? Ship? But I ain't trying to be in code. I'm going to the Clark and down the ship with coding. You want to welcome to that. But I'm saying, but what you

can't even get in, you're gonna get me correctly. I couldn't get into the more House. I was good at Clark now. But that makes sense though, right, we're trying to do too much with people unless y'all I don't like, I don't see I don't see you as any less of a friend because of that. You're my man's Yeah,

exactly what I'm saying. I'm saying. If y'all certain people click like that, like they mind the mind freak should be on the same like we're on the same ship them though, So it don't matter what what you know, what I'm saying, What come about that? Okay, that's what it is. Some people, it just don't weak. Like if you got two three, if you've got two people of the same, that ship really don't work. Yeah, you gotta have You gotta help a person that ain't scared to

tell you the truth. Mothercker's ain't scared him. And you can be around me all day. I don't even about treatment how I take it whatever, tim and like bro No, but then sometimes I might get in my feeling all of you down, try to change your mind. But if I can't change your mind, ain't you the one? You get what I'm saying, Because no matter how you feel, how I feel, you feel, how you feel, that's when that ship won't hunger. I can't. I don't even how

mad having to be. If I might not call you from and say fuck you, we shout already fight you feel how you feel? That's real to me, you know what I'm saying. No matter I can't convince you of that, And I could be wrong, You could be wrong, but that's how you feel. What would change their mind? You know what I'm saying now, if you see it, you see it. I thought I felt like that because I'd be like that sometimes, Like I thought I felt like that until you make me see it and give me

a chance the process, and then I called it. But I'm a man of mine called and be like, yeah, you're right, Yeah, you get what I'm saying. Yeah. But some women, I'm gonna say women. I can't really speak for men, but some women I see when they come to their friendships, right, they think they look at it as if you go against me, not me per se. But some women say like, if you don't agree with me, and if you're not riding with me through it all, then we're not real friends. Some women can't take But

you got to ask yourself is your real person? Because when you do something wrong or when you know you're wrong, you're gonna look in the mirror and say, damn I wrong. So you can't you my real friends to mean that you're wrong. Yeah, but you know how they'd be having no friends. I'm gonna ride with you too, wrong or right? So they're like the right Now, I ain't saying, ain't gonna ride, but the I'm gonna tell you we're wrong. What's right with you? Though? Right? I mean, I don't

know what I'm saying. What's what mother feel like? I agree with you a lot of Yeah, right, I see how you feel, but you feel you you thinking about that if if, if, if, Kodak and jays Okay, here we go, Okay, okay, okay. It's how you tell me I'm wrong. There's rules to that, there's levels to that. You can't tell me I'm wrong in front of a bunch of people and you won't mind exactly exactly. Yeah,

the best thing if I'm wrong, damn it, we're wrong. Yeah, and then I'm gonna playing to say the side and then let you know, like, hey, I'm with you through all of this ship. But at the end of the day, this is where you funked up, and this is where you weren't right exactly. You gotta be down with me, completely in and out, inside out, around the corner down the street, in the national feeling. You can't. You can't play me like that. Either you with me or you

can me. Now, you gotta you gotta you know, as Hong as, we're gonna tell each other where we go wrong and what we need to do, they improve it. But you can't do that when we amongst other people outside of our comfort zone. The person that accept that they're wrong, though, what if they like so bullheaded they haven't grown into you in the streets. You're gonna be a little You're gonna be a little thick what you do.

That's when you came at another motherfucker float put you in a situation I tell you wrong about some ship and you and you know you're wrong about some ship. You keep on like, Okay, I'm standing on that. Hey man, you gotta standing that by yourself. Yeah, but I'm just saying I can tell you that SHO have million touch. Yeah. So if if if, if I keep telling you some ship, I ain't gonna made a control telling you you know what I'm saying, not spas and so it's like I'm

just different, bro. That's why I say, if if you're integent on match with people, you can't deal with them. You know, I agree, because you're gonna eventually it's gonna eventually blow. Oh, I get what you're saying, but I get that's she's gonna eventually blow up. What if? What if the person I told you that a hundred times, then what's at the end of the day. There's definitely a limit to it. But it didn't even have to do what that means you're saying, fuck me basically, yeah,

but I'm asking that like fun the hundred times. Let's talk about the first time, right, and like you first hell, like she said, just question, Come on, y'all. Question. We sit here and let's say right now, you're my dog me and you I know you outside of this ship, right, and let's say one of them do something and you spas and I know that your job on the line. I know that a lot of ship on the line. So if I'm going I'm grabbing you like no, you're

not a different wrong. But she just said, don't do that in front of nobody, said you ride with me around a corner, You ride with me when I'm right right, that's what that's my point of what women do friends that women do that, and me as a real friend, I'm gonna be like, no, bitch, we could fight outside if you want to, but I'm not gonna let you crash out in front of all these people. So you're gonna be mad at me addressing you in front of everybody. Cool,

be mad at the areas. Yeah, that's a different scenario right now. That's really around with you, that's run with it too. Yeah, what you're talking about is saving somebody's career, not from having the back when they're in front of them. I'm talking about the home, the negative project. I mean that, yeah, right,

And they aren't supposed to do that. They are supposed to have you back, but it's only certain people that will can't be able to do this right because you're not gonna bringing people from the streets over to the corporate side because you know what have happened, you know, understanding and vice versa. They may not keep bring your corporate that's over into these homes because they're like, okay, because people represent you exactly. That was mother got to

know you me yea with me, we all together. Don't know that I'm jay, I'm stream, I'm we all together because mothers say, big fact, that's what y'all. If they say you, they're talking about me. Yeah, so y'all. So, motherfucker gotta just to me to me take that in accountability that I ain't even go out here to do no ship to me to make y'all be like, damn man, that fun um any of them the whole ship up.

I can't. I'm cogni of that. Okay, maybe I don't need to smoke bloods all the time, you know what for the sponsorships or whatever, I'm gonna do it because I'm taking accountability of my actions that I will do some No, but for real, man, you have to energies everything. What the word was again? We lost? Got lost in time? Recompense have nothing to do with a conversation. Yeah, what the word? Apologizing right? And making amends? Yeah, I'll be

making amends. Well, does somebody come up and want to make amends with you and you're like, man, all that ship? Are you the bullshit? It depends. It depends on the situation, because you gotta think some people, some people don't be

genuine with this ship. It would be like a convenience like, Okay, I don't want an issue with this particular person or situation, or I need this person to do something, so let me go ahead and apologize in advance and let it blow over for a couple of days so we can back like we're cool, and then I can ask for this favorite that I need. I ain't gonna say that. I feel like a lot of relationships and friendships they

could be bunded back. It's just like, say, ego, because you need to know, like really funk with you, but I don't funk with you. But I don't but fuck you. That's how that should be like. And then it'd be so far gone it's like I don't even know you no more. Yeah, we should have been fixed that years ago. Why don't you let it go on too long? It

is over? You know what I'm saying, Because you don't say it's ship that I don't even know about, on this ship that I don't even know about it, and and then come out, is it gonna be triggered points We're just gonna be looking at each other crazy? Yeah? Yeah, repents? What is it? Recompense? I got a random question. You

don't have nothing to do with this stuff. Do y'all think that people can really we probably talked about this before, but when it comes to like um, recompensing and and figuring it out with friendships, you think that people can go with the whole truth and you can tell them that end all be all truth of why you don't sunk with them, and it'll be okay, that's the only ways, the only way actually gonna get fixed. And but just

think about that, because fuck you, fuck your mama. I said this, I said that, grandma, baby mama, you go out like you gotta be like know, you said a lot of yeah. I know you don't say this ship you got it bad, that what that woo, But but you can't tell the exactly how you felt when you felt like yeah, But then that does that make your

faith then? Because because like I'm just saying, how can you really ready might bring it up like brow, I get all that, but you said exactly yeah, man, because you see it, you're right, yeah, because that's what it be most of the time. But I think I think recompensed in this day in time two going into twenty twenty three is just saying it ain't no smoke when retrusting niggas, yeah, ween, reloving when read nothing but recompensing

cane like each other, pictures and whatever whatever. But you know what I'm saying to some people compensing, I might recompimp some ship, man, I recompense some ship, though, but it depends on what it was. You know what I'm saying, Yeah, ain't no money involved. It's just a bunch of bit ship on my side and your side. We're just being we're just being bitches. I can totally be like that,

ain't nothing with anything. We just do being bitches. You said this, I said that, you said this, I said this, And when you ain't even never nothing, you're talking them for me and didn't then you ain't touch your girl, ain't touch my girl. We ain't nothing. We just we're just bitching. I can totally let that go and see you and really funk with you, because that ain't nothing.

But some ship like you don't broke in my house and you don't try to break in my house, or some ship or you know what, sad ship try to check me up or some ship like that, then that's different, different, But all that just to look wickedty wiggerty ship that she ain't nothing, that ain't name but the conversation to me, you know what I'm saying, she ain't nothing. We're not

got big. Could y'all recompense to somebody cheat on your own? Yeah, I mean you're saying, like be cool or be with him, stay with it, he said, relationship with I don't think. I don't think a guy should because it's the top. I'm gonna tell you why, because you ain't gonna never really goddamn forgive her. You don't never really forgive. But like, only what kind of nigga you any type of man.

It's something, it's something in the nigger that's want to be possessive over his woman life to a certain degree. Like that's why I said, man, just be the sneak as you can be. I don't not tell you not to do it. Just be sneaking. Don't get caught because I still respect. Don't get caught. That's all I can say.

Just respect this ship whatever. I don't know whether you know what I'm saying either way, because once it is, I can say I love you and want to be with you, but I how how I can just respect you as a person At that point, every time you she leaves your sight, she's doing what you think she did. She's doing it. Google, Google, Google, You let that woman go on and live her life because you're just got let go. You're gonna see that guy in your note

to every for months for years. You get rid of her, though you will heal you try to stay with I got that for women, y'all want women to recompens We don't want them to do anything. Can I can I say something and it's okay for you to go out. And there's certain things that a woman probably ain't gonna forgive,

Like I don't know, I'm not a woman. See the thing the thing is is like and I swear I'm not trying to like always be on the guy's side or whatever, but when women cheating, when men cheats, two totally different things. Like guy's cheat because okay, they might be corny or whatever. I'm know, I got plenty of friends, like I said, like my homeboy, dad, I got it has to fun three or four times a day. He got a girl that lives at home with him, but he just has to funk three or four times a

day like that. He can't get past that. Like if he doesn't funk three or four times a day, he might like shrivel up and die like type ship. But that's it's just a funk to him. Like it's not. I'm just being real, Like it's just you know what I'm saying. It's not it's not anything emotionally attached to it.

But when women like when females, when females, it's women like that too, But more women cheat from a place of emotional fucking attachments, not really attachment, but from like an emotional and mental place Like they cheat because they feel like whatever they got going on over here is not over. But it's not something that she's not getting whatever she needs, So it's not gonna be just like a fuck. It's gonna be like a fuck, plus like she's probably gonna fucking regret it and crying and think

about it again and then they do it again. I'm not what I'm saying men, but when a man cheat, right, as a woman, logically you would be like, we know that if he wanted to get down and whoever he cheated on you, when he gonna do it, and he can because she's gonna open it up because he can't. What I'm saying is, why is it so easy or expected for us to with the word repents, recompense and forgive and all of that. With him, it's easier, Banks said,

Banks said, Is she cheat? You got you got as a man as a man a woman too, If he cheat, let him go. If you if you think like a man that this woman is gonna always be on your mind for the rest of your mother life, you're gonna go crazy. But if you want the women to feel like I feel like, I can't tell the woman how to feel, So I ain't gonna say that. If you feel how you feel, you feel, I'm to my els a man. It's just like somebody I don't know. It's

just different. It's just like somebody stole from you and you gotta keep them around your family. It's the same way, bro. I'm You're still gonna be my family, but you ain't feeling I'm not feel to leave nothing nowhere. You don't know nothing about nothing, so I ain't no trust though. But I can't lay next to you. Gotta go home. You're just a volnamember. I can't lay next to you and don't trust you. Yeah, but let me do that.

I'm just saying, let me do this all the time they lay next to I'm just speaking for the women they lay next to me all the time that they don't trust then be out there cheating, and she's just trusting and hoping that one day he's gonna say niggas women. Some women, I don't know how women feel. Men feel like if the nigga can fuck, he can get you to do anything to me too. If nigga fucking a wotan I can, I can say, what's the past code of your house? Yeah, nigga for the bit of the

hotel room? Or let u somebody and go in the car anywhere outside. Now you ben start getting vulnerable. Now I know what kind of call you in. I can put a track of device in your call. You're going home? I can do whatever to this nigga. Wait, what do you say? Bring that ship back? Maybe if if a woman let her nigger in, she in, she ain't because of mental plays that went over my head. I was confused with because you're saying that a woman going Now

I be willing to tell everything because women twin. You're absolutely right, but to work both ways, because if if I understand what you're talking about, ways, but I feel the same way about a man, if he hollering at her and he was able to suck her, did obviously she need more to you than need what some women. I say something the instance for y'all to put in work for you, for men to try to cheat. I have to wait. I have to do without. You have to stop doing for me in order to do for her.

Period to my sleeping mistress, you pulling up dock and going you might gonna dropping. And then another another thing too, like what you're saying. I get what you're saying, but on the flip side of the ship, basically like to talk about what you am what blacker saying. In most situations, a nigga has more to lose if a nigga is able to get into his inner space, more so than a female getting into another female's inner space. Because nine

times out of tend, the man is the provider. The man is the one who is taking care of the household. The man is the one who's who if you especially like if you're dealing with a street nigga, he's the one that has the money. He's the one that you know has all this and that whatever, whatever. And your home is your safe place where all of your ship is at. So if a nigga is able to penetrate that layer and get access into that house, then everybody is dead. But if you if I gonna penetrate on

your feelings, right is se? I don't think she's gonna be on penetrating you're you're feeling. You don't know what kind of nigga you over your fun. You could be sucking my right whatever, whether right, yeah, thank you, But you also could be sucking what she's gonna killing just over there. You don't know where need you. She's not

bringing that nigga nowhere near you. Niggas know how to get no near that though, right, You understand how to get close to a woman to do what sneaky and do what make your life a living hell, make her life a living hill, and do it type of ship. I think it depends. It depends on situation to get your shack, because I'm gonna be with my bitch at the end of the day, I'm gonna show out. I'm gonna show out for her, like, oh she playing like that up in the show out, you know, Yeah, wish

you had to play women. Women we want to know like it ain't necessarily to pass close and women want want of no business. So it depend on what kind of man it is too. If it's one of the pillows off in this niggas that's gonna tell all his lady or wife business or niggas do that. I ain't saying there's pillow talking as big. Don't tell everything. Even

somebody they just smash it. They're gonna tell everything about their one, like oh, you just got this done, and you insecure about this and this and that because you didn't win. Pillow talking, that's not the norm. It happens all the time talking to the women. I'm not saying, ye like that that's going doing whatever he's doing on this woman. That's the lowest because it's like, yeah, but the don't go today. Boy, I'm trying to tell, let

y'all be talking that pillow talking. Y'all don't realize what y'all say when y'all have sleep. But oh god, that's why I'm saying. But I would rather be pillow talking to be in my house tied up, getting ready to die. We're not comparing the two. That's not what we're doing. What I'm saying is for a woman, y'all guard and handle your emotions and what y'all wold secret to yourself. Right. Yes, So if he go some bit and be like she

can't even cook, push she can't. They niggers do that when a man is cheating on whoever he's I'm not saying everything, but I'm just saying normally, man cheating or whoever he's with right to a girl that already know he has somebody, he's not about to be over there with her, like damn, my wife be cooking, she was doing. All he's gonna do it downplay the bitchy cheating on to this woman. That happens all the time the exist and so now you went pillow talking to her to

get try to get her cat. So you're gonna tell her all my business. So now when she getting mad at you, Nigga's do it. We see it. We see all the TVs, all this ship man that he would go, he would go, let go. I feel like when a man is really gassing a woman like that, they're only doing it, like you said, sholl just to get to

the pussy for real. So once they get to the point where it's like I can make this woman feeling that she's my side, but she already feels like she decided as he is, or whatever the situation may be, they do is gassing it just so he can make her feel better about the situation for herself, so she can't give up and feel more vulnerable. And if it is even Pillow talking, I mean he's gonna go to

her because she didn't get something to him. They made him vulnerable to be like, I'm might open up, and it is if he's Pillow talking to her and she had to do something. I don't know, man, the nigga, I don't know. That's how a man is not about if he cheating on his girl, well whomever, he not at that girl house praising the bench she cheating on. He's at that house talking thinking about what you're trying

to do. I'm here to get some pussy. And I say, like, even if y'all have that cold, normally, what it is you're trying to get her to be comfortable or whatever side chick position she is. So in order for her to be here and stay comfortable, you gotta let her know that the one at the crib ain't what's she's

supposed to be. You're not gonna tell her that. I'm not leaving most, I'm just saying Most saying basically, the nigga game is to make her feel like you got a chance to be that exactly, so you downplay the woman that you really with for the side chick. But in the midst of doing that, you go pillow talk.

You go telling this woman business to this lady. So you're giving this lady ammunition so when she get mad at you to go up to your wife and be able to say this, this, this and this and this and see how he's want to be ready to kill but say and saying it's like this is just me personally. If I was the type of bitch to funk with and nigga that was already involved, I wouldn't even want to hear about this bitch or I wouldn't even want

to know anything or wanting. I wouldn't even want you to try to make me feel like, Okay, yeah, you might be able to get in this position because I know, like you witness bitch for a reason, and you over here for a reason, and you're a reason for being on. Here's the fun and that's all we need to do. That said earlier, But what you said earlier is women don't cheat like white don't know. No, I don't don't know. But she to bring back what you said earlier, the

average woman don't cheat like that. The average woman cheating with her emotions in her heart. Don't give a fun really what you mean if you cheat? Yeah, if I'm cheating on Scream, I'm cheating because there's a void there that I'm trying to men. If I'm cheating with Scream

on his wife, I really don't give a funk. It's like the bit the bitch what's the name from belly the other girl with the lollipop and the and get this big hair keeping the bitch that DMX was cheating arm with, like I don't give a funk, Like you're just coming over here the funk like whatever, like you know what I'm saying. And yeah, she she went back and forth with the ship because she was a child for real. But at the end of the day, like a real bitch, that's cheating. What the nigga? Don't want

to hear all that ship? Right? But then sometimes most of the time, but sometimes that man, Now he didn't low key card feelings for you. So in the midst of that, and you said, telling this thing, you can't just come to my house, blah blah blah, you y'all haveing y'all being he gonna now talk ship about the woman at the house trying to butter you up. They don't know that they're doing that, but they do that subconsciously. So now you didn't you know that she has the house,

she can't cook. You have to you know that she got know that this nigga is still go back to this house and right for a right. But you know that any of the ship that he's telling me exactly exactly. You know that. But now let the old girl hit you up. You got m o to throw it back in her face because now hedn't even go back and forth with you like cook cook beat you like you've been above. Don't lie. Yeah, I just lied to you about everything, because that's the perfect that you just gotta get.

Who the funk are you? Yeah? Yeah, I mean you probably got something that's doing us. It wasn't me at even help like that to Nia. Look like who no, that's not Roger be see you on the public Roger, I know we out. You know you're lying. That's my day I played for the Lantadolphin. So the moral of the story is that, uh recompense, what's the morrow of this story? And just don't don't don't be pells, you don't get caught. Yeah, just all it. Man. If you cheat,

don't get caught. Stop being sloppy because you get caught. Now. You gotta goddamn no, you ain't gonna let the folks go. You gotta got them just might try to be slicking your cake. Real ship, bro, you can't expect nobody to be with you after you don't cheat them if they change me to not deal with you what you're saying, Yeah, they like something's gonna change in relationship. Some people's gonna change.

That's real, that's real. You gotta you cheat. You gotta be willing to uh take the rest of your life to make it up to him. If you worsh the cheater and she got caught, you gotta be willing bit up like all you got it for them. You gotta be. You gotta be willing. If not, you can't make them folks beating in that they ain't because they already got that feeling that I just said, you're gonna have every day thinking about some old bullshit. I don't know, but

I think nigga's niggas can't take that ship. Niggas can't take this ship. Go ahead. We all feel like it's better to be honest with the person that you're cheating with what you mean? So say you're my girl, Jay, you know she my grad is okay to be on go honest with you about the situation. Better to be honest with hurt or do you keep them both the secret from each other? Na what you mean? No, you got you got you gotta tell you, gotta tell you. She got to know what's up? Back to do you

tell her everything so she knows what's good? Or do you keep it everything? It's just got to That's how it's going to teach you about that bitch that she asked the question why why I got one? Like, yeah, that doesn't even matter. But what's your question? What do you talk about? Going in and do this? What we talk about? There's nothing to talk. This is a release. I'm away from that right now, won't you? I won't mean,

but you won't me. I got that wants you to herself at some point, I mean, get caught up and that the name. That's what I was just saying. They about one thing, about a real bit or any itch. If I told you from the real just just what it is. I understand that you may start catching feelings, but still that's gonna steal be what that is, no matter what and all that a man, then I'm gonna have to go break the news. I got a crazy bit that thanks you want to God damn shold me.

So we've had to go work on this because there ain't goin be nothing. Why already told you what it was. But why do men give the side check the option, but give the woman that they quote don't quote love that she don't get no your selfish like the side chick get the option of if I want to deal with this, what I'm gonna get out of this? You We're gonna break down the rules and the regulations. Like when you got a side checking you you're in a relationship and you tell them like we just said, you

tell them I'm in a relationship. Y'all gonna go down the rules and regulations. Don't me that'side. You don't don't call me at this time, don't do this if I hurry up a hang up? This is y'all go down. And then at the end, she get the option if you want to choose to deal with the situation, yes or no. But the person that we quote unquote love don't get the option to choose that they want to be with that bullshit or put up with the bullshit. It's just that you just gotta deal with it. You

ain't with you are gonna deal with it. Loyalty you give your loyalty to your side check versus the person that you quote on quote love. Because the side chick get the options, they know everything, They get the options on what the funk they want to deal with. But the person you love, you don't. They don't get the option if they want to deal with it. They just got to deal with it. They just gotta deal with it. You don't get the option if you want to deal

with it, they just have to deal with it. If you in a relationship with somebody you find out that they're cheating on you or whatever the case may be, right, if they stay with you, you consider loyal like you held me down. You understand we could right. But if they leave, it's like, damn, you're just gonna let me leave because of that, you know what I'm saying. But the side check you gave all the options to. You

told her the option. Know, once you find out, you got your own, But before you even have to find out, before you even fun with the side check, you tell her, Hey, I got a bit. This is the rules, this is the regulations, this is what you gotta go. Who you want to deal with this? Yes and no, these are the rules. You've got five rules and regulations. If you funk this up, we're not gonna deal with each other.

And the side checks say yes, I'm in. But the person that you're in a relationship with, they never have that option. They just gotta deal or they gotta Yeah, you gotta get you gotta get caught up. You gotta get caught up. But see the thing, the thing is, I feel like I feel like the side bitch is

an extension of the safe place. Like the one that you love is your safe place because you know that's your security, But the side bitch is also your safe place because that's where you feel like you can release the weight of your safe place and your security. She's get get another bit, uh, not a bit, get the other queen option right, But if that's the case, then what's the point. No, you get the point. We give the side check all the options. The ball is actually

in the side check court. They are no, they have the option to dealing if we go with baby boy just said of letting her know the game, and he just said he in a relationship with me, you give you give her the option of if you want to do with she know what you come with. She know if you're gonna pay one bill in a month, you know what the fun you're gonna come with having a side chick is because you can't tell your main check.

But that the whole thing is, that's crazy that you give so much loyalty to a side a side check or somebody that you don't even know, like the rather than you even care about, like that the option, but the person that you're supposed to love so much don't have the option. They just yeah, h yeah, that's what

I'm saying. I feel like you're giving that the side chick, that loyalty or that option because you're trying to make sure that the boundaries are clear so that you don't hurt or affect or you know what I'm saying, that's the point the love of your life. Yeah, yeah, it make sense. J Jay the advocate for cheating, But it's it's like what you call it two yeah, go ahead, bro with you can to say that's just less responsibility. I'm responsible for your feeling. I'm all the ways responsible

for her feelings. You get what I'm saying. So me coming to tell you this, and you may I know you even't understand this ship. So when I come to tell you this, I know that's gonna break you down type ship even though it's wrong, but I know it's gonna break you down. Give your option is okay, it's just like, but giving the nigga option is you know what kind of nigga you got, and you know what kind of bit you got. You know what I'm saying.

So if I meet a chick, if I meet a chick fucking up owner nigga, she would call that bitch and I started sucking. Now I'm falling over the mirror. I don't fat to be like she gonna do me the same way. You get what I'm saying, y'all. Just tell my home girl. She got them, she got caught, She with a nigger, left her nigger and start being with this nigger. And she was just like it was

so good. That was that. You try to make it something else that don't work right now because now he already know how sneaky you he thinking about all the time I do. That's just what I'm saying that, you know what I'm saying. What you're going you shure, I'm saying the doubt right there, Like how that made you? Man?

I made Joe Schnik in mine though, Yeah, you get what I'm saying the same way with with with a dude, if he if he if he cheating with a woman or whatever, how she gonna be able to trust him if he if she ultimately be in a relationship with him, to not do the same ship that he's been doing. Like, bitch, every position gotta be feeled. If I'm in with you and this person says she don't want to be with me no more, that don't mean it's gonna be me and you. That means somebody else you got to be back?

Right now? You're good right here, like this is the balance. This ship feels good right here with you? What real ship? Because we may not be able to be together every day? Energy might Don't you just hurt feelings with that one. I ain't trying to hurt the feelings. I'm just saying,

but you just crushed him. What you mean like side checks in that one statement, because like Jay said, she said, normally you will move her up you said no again, Like I said, hands on, what kind of you gotta side chicken, y'all, y'all go together for real, But you just got somebody else too, Like you don't even be there with that here person. But this is your person. That's different. I'm saying, if you got a side, cheat, just aside, cheat to deal with nigglas date do all

the other do not exclusive? Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, yeah. If you're exclusive, you got two bitchies, you got two bitches that you got two women? Yeah yeah, yeah, you're in two relationships. That's different. I'm just saying, like you just got some ship to hand out. Yeah yeah, yeah, you got ship to hand up. But who trying to do all the others? That's saying about the field nick in the house nigger ship, Like you gotta feel nigger.

You got the house nigga. You know, the field niggers know that the house nigga is superior to the field nigger. But at the end of the day, the field nigger knows. If I do a good job in the field, I'll be able to move up in the field, but I'll never be able to make it to the house, re Na. But for real though, don't you just don't get caught up. But I like that what you said, shot you should get you should get for it an option and just be prepared to move to your house, be prepaid to

certain people, be paid to get smacked. Man, maxim attention to you make you don't even want to cheat, you know, and there ain't working, but it's out there now. I wouldn't that's the same thing as cheating. What she said, Yeah, yeah, what you think about? I don't know, man, I ain't no advocate advocate for cheaters, Jade is No. I'm just asking for real niggas because I know I deal with real niggas on the daily basis, and I know how that ship goes. But when they're gonna be heading now

that ship crazy. Man. It's like when you come from certain places, man, you just be looking forgot now. I ain't gonna make no excuse for the or for myself. Not real ship. When you come from certain places, oh nobody, you just be looking for God damn, the raw, the crowd. You know what I'm saying about, man, I don't in a little say what I'm trying to say. Next week, Tune in next week I'll tell y'all love O w w W. Thanks for tuning into Big Face. Make sure

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