BIG FACTS FRIDAY- Mind Ya Damn Business!

Facts Friday tradition shot What we got? Inquisitive? Inquisitive inquisitive um? The Urban Dictionary, Well, no, I'm gonna start with the textbook expreary. It says interested in, um, wanted to know someone else's business? Okay? Um. The Urban says curiosity the degree in which a person or emma wants to learn new things. And I'm a person or animal or person or animal nosy, Yeah, wants to but is wanting no new things? Being nosy? Not not wanting to know new okay?

Wanted to know? Okay, So let's let's just go straight into our topic from inquisitive with which is hiness? When should you mind your own business. But on the flip side, when should you not mind your own business? Because sometimes, of course, uh, I think most of the time you should be minding your damn business because I'll be minding my damn business and it's just better, you know what

I'm saying. Overall, But I mean there might be times where you might need to get in somebody's business for the sake of maybe helping them or saving them from some bs, you know what I'm saying, Like, you ain't supposed to just sit around and watch your people just crash out without maybe getting their business a little bit Like, look, I don't want to get in your business, but I just want to let you know that that ain't it,

you see what I'm saying. So what's the fine line between that, like many of business staying out the way so people don't call you nosy or inquisitive, but also being a person that don't just let your people just crash out and be on some bs how you laughing? You know? Um, I think it's it's definitely alignment between it two, right, So, like, if you're being inquisitive for the sake of trying to help somebody, okay, you should

definitely look into things, whatever the relevant situation is. But a lot of people be wanting to know information that ain't got ship to do with them, and they just want to know, like why are you asking me this? But even if you even if you're trying to help them, sometimes the feedback you can get from him is my your damn business. This is my business. But in that case,

you may be they may be your business. Like if I say, if M like a mom asking her son, what are you going like the sun stay with like a teenager or something like what you're gonna business? You're my business? Son. You ain't got no business saying my your business this before you've grown, So you can't tell me my my business because you're my kid. It's just said, though,

I mean it could be said. But what about when it comes to a significant others significant others and I think like best friends and family members is more kind of what we're talking about. Like, but they can get you with the same magic business thing. So say fascist let's make it like die Terry. What does somebody say, I went to the doctor, the doctor said my blood pressure messed up, And then you see them eating fried chicken.

Did you just let them eat the fried chicken and then just fall back or you know, the doctor said you ain't supposed to be eating all that. I literally met the fried chicken for real. Yeah? Why because if they did, they went out how they wanted to even good, how they want to eat? Okay, but what did you like know, like, dang, you just you can stop doing that? What if you know you're the one person that can

get them? Like what if it was bank and they're trying to tell Cass don't be eating no damn chicken. I'm gonna say some See, I think it depends on how much you care about the person who it is. It is much you care about it and who it is, Because if it's somebody you care about unconditionally, you ain't you don't care if they're mad, you know what I'm saying, Like certain people really don't get they mad at you

like I'm looking at right. I'm gonna just tell you right, if that's the case, don't be cool with me and throw down about you eating right, yeah, because I care about you. Now, if you just something like somebody it is what it is, then ship they stay not to eat chicken? Okay? So do you think them mind not minding them inquisitive, not minding the business people that be all another business. Do you think it's always illhearted? Do

you think they have some good intentions? Sometimes? You know that people always and everybody else business and want to know. I want to know. I want to know. I want to know. Can they ever have y'all y'all know something, y'all keep granted. Let's see y'all grants is funny. Let's say, what's I feel like? You know, mind you've been most people ain't gonna teach and they want to see you

crash too though. That's just what I'm saying. Like some people people like that are trying to do this to myself from you, like as she said, you're gonna let them eat the chicken. That wouldn't be my friend. Like I can't deal with about it like that because at the end of the day, we all got flowed flaws. And if you're saying you get a funk about me, how are you gonna just even if I'm even if I'm showing that I don't give a funk about myself. Yeah,

you get what I'm saying. It's just different people. People are different because some people might care but I ain't gonna say ship because I don't want Yeah, and then you got some people that don't give a fuck, and I still say something, don't even give a funk, you get what I'm saying. I'm just saying to be in your bidding, but I don't give a funk of your that not what so that ship just I don't know.

That's that's weird talking. It's a saw again. I just think it depends on who the person is and how much you care about them, right, because like, when there's somebody you care about, you don't care if you're gonna crash out, you know what I'm saying, Like, you're not gonna care how they feel if you're looking out for them and you had the best interest at heart. But how long do you try to drive someone the person

when they's like when they're just who they is. It depends on who it is, keep going definitely depend on it is. There've been somebody who I love, like my mama or a brother, somebody like that until we can't talk about it no more. We're gonna keep trying to think who that is. And then's they're starting to take a strong on your relationship by you by you being so quiz about they didn't yeh she and the starting to take a train on relationship because you try to

change this person. So how you do that? What you do about when they come down there? What do you do? I think at that point you take a step back because now it's starting to affect you because I love you so much that you don't even see you you're sucking yourself up and now it's starting to tear me down. So now I gotta take a step back from this

whole situation. Think that's naturally what starts to happen. Yeah, that's for sure, because like you can care about somebody more than they care about themselves in that instance to where it's like, damn, I know you're not supposed to be eating this chicken, but you keep on eating this chicken and you don't care about anything because that's what you want to do. But I care about how it's gonna how it's gonna affect you. And I'm putting more energy into trying to stop this ship and it's really

stressing me out. You don't get a fun but you can't another thing. I feel like you can't got damn see for a motherfucker. What they don't see for their self. Yeah, or you don't feel what they feel. So when you start, when you I feel like you gotts. Just open your eyes to who people live. Yeah, you see exactly who they is, just letting them be that. But you don't think to a certain extent, we're kind of all here

to help everybody else. You help other people get better, help each other if they want to be better, that's what adults. How you're gonna help them be better? You're gonna do it. Make you don't feel like your opinionated. That's all you don't do. You could be really come from a genuine place of love, Karen. I want to see you win. I want to see you be this person. But don't people be good who they is? So you know day you're just pre judging them, right, You're right.

You're trying to change the mother too how you see them, and that will never happen. What you think it is deep down to make certain people and maybe not for the right reasons, what you think it is, and make people not bund their business and be nosy like say, for instance, when I stay in a pot man's we might hear somebody next door arguing, right, And my thing is like couples domestic ship, they're gonna like they're gonna they're gonna have their own ship. Couples gonna have their

own ship. Right. So I think like, as long as it ain't like stop help me kicking my head like that, ain't you know what I'm saying, As long as they don't get extreme to the point of like deafer ship like that, I'm not gonna get in the domestic business because a lot of times domestic business be smoke on Monday and peace and love on Tuesday. You see what I'm saying at the end of the night, or you

know what I'm saying. So what you think it is in certain people that they can't mind their business no matter what the situation is, domestic, neighborhood, workship, relationship. Best, they got to know everything they feel. Like if they don't know, they almost offended. I think that they don't have any self identity, Like you ain't got your own business, like you you so caught up in what everybody else

doing that makes you home. Like if you take it with everybody else doing, you don't know who you are. So you so you ain't got no self identity, so you you ain't mine your own business. Yeah, that's kind of where it boils down to, especially like I think again, like you said, if they ain't no help, come save me, I'm trapped in a closet type of ship. Like when it comes to domestic ship, you're your own sister, because nine times got to ten, y'all gonna figure that sh

it out. Yeah, you be mad at me, or I may take it there because that y'all may be arguing, I'm we're here, ready to pull my gun out on him. And then now y'are back cool, and me and him

still got smoke like that's weird now, you know. And then now I probably got smokeing hurt because she felt like I took it too far, but he was just you ainking her up like you know, I just well, yeah, I mind my business and ship like that personal relationship, yeah, stay out for you know what I'm saying, Like even on opinion, like as my opinion, I know my opinion be so wrong and straight to the point, I just keep it to myself. Do what you feel, you know

what I'm saying. And they took a long time for me to get to that person but you got that motherfucker do what they feel? What have you seeing something that you know ain't right? Like for somebody under age? It did? What it is? What like? Ma kid, we'll definitely for sure first off your kids and yeah, then I'm gonna say something, what what what? What if? What if?

It's what if you're walking out the gas station and some other young kids from the like still a ribber from an old elderly woman or something, he's go you know that that that that that's when your morals and ship kicking right, you're automatic become a protective person, community business. Yeah, that's not being a nobody. Then that's really stopping a crime. But some young cultures say anytime you're trying to stop any type of crime and snitches, they want to call

it didn't with dinner with podessions. Yeah, but if I see it, If I see a nigger over the cut making a play, he's serving somebody. I don't even see that. I'm blinding it exactly. If I see a nigga stilling out of Walmart, the wal By, that thank your wal By, that ship, I see you doing anything, it's not directly affecting a human being that ain't my beIN. Yeah whatever, it's your partner business. What you mean, what have you

see somebody stealing out your partner business? I see my stilling on my potner like he got a clover store. You see some little young niggas you know, trying to do the little one too. She gonna have a camera, he got secured. Right, it's a business ain't to be watching, right, I got you. I feel now that turned you to a police. You do that, yeah, but you ain't gonna telling a man I put that ship down. It depends on which one of my potnership, how much you care about?

And then my brother, one of my brothers be this is my ship. Yeah. But if I'm just in a store, one of my homie store fin about some shoes and another niggas did the song that ain't my being right? What um ship those J Simpson gloves bro. I'm gonna stay out your business my business. But no, I just I think, um, I think a lot of people they want to be informed by ship that ain't got nothing to do with them. So like, if I hate people, ask me questions, why don't not nestarty? Because you know

why though? So you got so that the way of the world to want to know people being, but getting the people being and want to know people being in two different things. You are right, getting the people business is being involved in how the business navigates, but just knowing it's just to everybody's inquisitive who don't want to know ship? Right? Sometimes I don't want to know, though, because if somebody asked me, I can honestly say I don't know. It depends on what it is. Man, think

about criminal ship. Yeah, but I'll saying even past that. Sometimes sometimes when you know ship, it's like think about it. If you know some ship and the information get out and then the person want to blame. How did the information get out? I couldn't find it. Ain't saying secrets like you said, you know a secret. Niggas want to know that what everybody else knows. Oh yeah, nikas wanted to know what everybody else knows. You've got damn this stock is going to be this nick Niggers want to

know these the new shoes that's coming. Niggas want to know. No me put my input, like even if if shot got a new boyfriend, I want to know that come screen like worry that's cool. But I'm not going to input my input on her new one, right right? Right? I think this, Yeah, yeah, you're right, but here, yeah, I want to know because it's my friends. So I want to know what my friend got going on in a light, I'm inquisitive. But but but but if I'm stopping to be like, uh oh he got this kind of

car ain't get into business? Yeah, but what if the person ain't it? What if you feel like what do you what have you see something that gives you the vibe of I shot new person? Ain't it? Or cod that new person? Like you just get that feeling in love with right? That's point about being but knowing her? And she said something through Big Fast Friday, like I don't want no negative do this? She yeah, she got to see that in him because I saw that. She

should say. Yeah, sometimes girls and guys got different type of binoculars. Hey man, but who who am I to be the need to tell you about this dude? And then and that's what you really like about him? Now? I mean you're being there that is now you would hate it hate Yeah, but I can have my opinion to myself or to my wife or two screen. Yeah, yeah, but me bringing it to you. You might not take it that way, right, You don't bring into unless it's like nine one one like I saw him. I saw

him dumping a body in the truck something crazy. She should have been the reason behind about it for me. He dons to He don't do some ship like playing with kids that got on his laptops on his laptop here, Yeah, yeau. I know you got a daughter that it's different, right, But whatever that man do with it business his business? Yeah, yeah, my business. Um, what's what's some of the ways you can keep people out of your business? And what's some of the ways people who just can't help but getting

in everybody's business can stay out of people business? Feel like the main way to keep people out your being and started talking to people about your being because people are talking to people about their being and didn't get mad when they discuss it with their friends. Yeah, I don't understand that. How you mad? You don't told you motherfucker? Oh you're being Now they can use it against you

now you're mad. It's kind of like the ship you see on the internet, like will be like, oh everybody might be mother you put on that you put on social media you're mad at everybody is on social media and your ship. Now that's how they knew you put it up. You told them. When you push it on social media, you invite everybody have an opinion on what the fun you got going on, whether it's whether it's some ship you made up or you should have actually happened.

And now people have an opinion about you. And when you told somebody something, you told them they spouse, their friends they want to tell to They gave them the option to tell the ship to beat in your bidd You might want to say that out because once you tell somebody's out regardless, do you feel like there's literally no secrets. And once you tell somebody or something absolutely not secrets. So like if somebody tell you something for show, your spouse gonna find down about it. People know Peo,

people know the people independ details may change. The details may change, but it may you may change the names, change scenarios. But like you, if it's something to what you want to get somebody else's opinion on something, that something I was told to you, it's gonna get out a version of the story. Gonna watch that it's manipulated too, like it's people that don't tell certain business to certain people because they know it's gonna get spread. A whole

lot that logging. I know I ain't telling nobody, but you make up a whole story. We do that ship back in the day, like yeah, yeah, damn, I just took a major loss. Everybody that ship. You one nigga, everybody, but you know you only told that lot to one nigger and you search it. You want to spread to see what type of kickback you get, what type of

you know what I'm saying, how people treat you. Yeah, if you'd be like man that throw my call, ain't got no money, ain't you could be telling the motherfucking lie. But you I want to see how you're gonna treat me. Thinking that the nigga from from the South Korea, he did southre he did that ship a few years ago. He like a rumor came out like he died of some ship and end up being fake. He and he said he wanted to see how the circle will react

to it. That's how I go. I forgot KEIMN. John. Yeah, it was a fake room about his death and he said he can't. He put it out there to see how people would treat them or how they would react to it. But you gotta be careful with trusting your bidding with people who you think you love too. You know what I'm saying. They might not They might not know how important your business dear to you. So now you're telling your friends trying to get a a pinion

on my serious business. That ain't it, you know what I'm saying. So you know you gotta a friend or home girl or homeboy that's a motor mouth, sir. Ship. You can't tell them nless you want to get out. I got a couple of homeboy that I know talk like the radio. So when I want some ship out, I tell them because I know where I want well, I want this ship to spread, you know what I'm saying. And if I want my phone, want no shoot out, I ain't gonna tell them, but one or two people.

You get what I'm saying that you may not never hit the fans, sir, ship never hits the fans, you know what I'm saying. When you keep keep that ship tight as you wanted to be, you know what I'm saying. But do you fought a person? Okay, if you're in a situation to where you tell somebody your business and it could be big or small, whatever it is, and that ship get out. Is it that person fought for telling your business or is it your fat for even going to jo? But yeah, you just gotta take it.

So if you could find in somebody and things get out? Is your father for fighting that word this because you think about it, you think it's overrated? Is overrated. You can't confide to nobody unless you know they feel how you feel about you. That's why it's already. Yeah. And also you gotta think, has this person ever told me somebody else's business? That too? Because if you have, if you're always telling me about somebody else, you're probably doing

that other people too. You tell what you're getting into. Yeah, you know what you're dealing with. I got one best friend. Anybody tell me anything, I'm gonna call my dog now. Yeah, I'm gonna call it and be like why this person gets and we're gonna talk about it. Sometimes if somebody come to me for advice and I may not know, I'm gonna call my dog and like, hey, my home, my other home girl going through this and this, she's gonna give me advice and I'm gonna go running back.

But again, that home girl don't know nobody in Atlanta, So how does that work? Did you tell a little that you told someone else and got their opinion. I ain't gonna lie to you know. I ain't gonna lie but my best friend. So it's just like ship. You know, I ain't gonna lie. Now everybody knows business, but for real, that's like my best dog. So it's like she all

away and Callie. She don't know nobody in Atlanta. So if any of my Atlanta home girls calling me with relationship ship, I may call Danyelle and we may gossip and talk about it. I may run it back to you. It's gonna be helpful, but it ain't gonna get around the world. You get what I'm saying. But that's a female trait. Though it ship female do so search shit.

You can't searching. I'm not gonna tell. Even though I know she signed, she probably gonna still ain't gonna take because I don't know you you pushed about I'm not I'm not gonna take. I can't tell you to shoot out strength. I can't tend it to you because you're female, and I couldn't catch you on your emotional days and you could just say it back to me. If you said anybody to me, you said anybody, I look at it. Damn. Well, now if you're talking about somebody else being, yeah, I'll

tell you everybody to be. I don't even funk about that being because I don't get about it. Didn't nobody. I don't care. Yeah, you only know it because they told it to you exactly. I don't know because that does. Yeah, but what's the fine line in the relationship or marriage of maya damn business? That's why I was gonna ask NEXTMEI y'all, yeah, you got a man, you're being in the married piness. I felt like I felt like there is a line because you're still an individual, you know

what I'm saying. But if you know it's something that could potentially affect, oh, the household exactly everything you kind of kind of everything affaces the house, going to know everything, piece of Yeah, I was saying, what's the fine line of what's the fine out of speak? For me? I don't really have one? Okay, he did, but I don't. And I think that's because we live like different lives

to a certain degree, you know. So like he just said, certain stuff I'm just not gonna know in his life and you might not want to know right exactly so, but for my life is kids this this that you know? So for my life pretty much no. So I think it just depends on the person life. It's the same

thing in my situation. My wife always be saying I don't know all the industry ship and she talking about what her friends are SI the ship that I would never know because I don't want to hear because you don't want to know, you but that But that's the fine line because I don't want to know. But what if she wants to know? Then? Like like nor, I guess my question is what if the other person wants to know? Is there an open book, especially when you're married.

What is she? What is she? What does she said? I want to everything? That's what makes me comfortable. Everything everything need to go find that ain't gonna happen. What's everything? Everything? Everything? You know everything? Every day you want to ask, well, it's pretty much she do know everything. Really, that's what.

But that's why we don't know. My personal feelings as a man, did you tell your brothers you didn't tell that to no females, different conversations for different rooms, because exactly certain ship, it's just you shouldn't even feel comfortable

with telling your spouse. How is that just a man that's feel about it should being should be women too, because some ship is gonna show aside of me that I never want you to see you get won't to say even though you know, even though at times Nick's gonna be vulnerable today, wife, you're gonna be soft, You're gonna be whatever. But I don't want to show you a weakness so much checked my weakness that to do with my pother day, because I feel like because I was, I had a fear of this, I don't want to

tell her fear what I'm saying. A lot a lot of people, like a lot of men definitely feel like that because they, especially in our generation, like they fear that being used against them. Like if you have an insecurity or something that you have been dealing with personally and somebody that you're talking to wants to they want you to confide in them, they don't. Men won't confide any woman because they feel like them. Well, if we ever get into it and she wants, she'll use that

against you for sure. They both ways. Yeah, Nick, to think about it as most women, we are just more of an open book, so it's easier for us to confide in like whoever we're dating, tell us the whole life story, tell us are traumas and differently, then we wanted to do something back up in the Nick faith that he knows he uh, you don't stepped outside his zone and his character to tell you and you throw it back that ship might not might not never tell

you ship. That's true, but men do it though. They literally are not saying every man but the average man for show girls are confiding them with certain things. And you would get that that's why this is so and so and so and so like Na, yeah, we can't. We can't act like it's something that's something that's gender specific.

But I just know, I mean, and you might feel different, but I just as a guy who's done that ship before, you can fide to some ship and then they bring that ship back up, it's like that that's kind of hurt because I was I exposed myself to you when you know, typically we aren't supposed to be doing ship like that when they bring it back up are they bringing it back up in life? Question? What happened? We go?

Whatever happened that the women would pour out that hart and I would use I would use the ship that we told you all happened and do the shoot again. What you mean? What you mean? What you mean your deep dark secrets and stuff like that, you'll like him? Thinks like, oh well, so why would you do that? Then? Why don't you going to relationship? Why don't you going to relationship, a new relationship, telling, telling your new nigga, this nigga, the old nigga cheated on you for teen

years straight? Why would you do that? They don't even make sense because I ain't never just cracked the code for be like, oh but again, you're not You're not wrong. You're gonna get some sympathy, yes, yea, but that's game game. You just can't be open. That's not open. That's why we even talking about the past anyway. He gone, you know, well you why we talking about That's what I was gonna say. Yeah, why are you crying? Why you're crying over this nigga? Why we did not people like me

and you? But you do get squares and niggas that will be like what happened in your last work out. You do got squares, not people like me and you. But I feel what you're saying. But you do that, niggas, I want to know everything that happen to you. Throw that back up in your face. If you do the same thing, that's what you that's what you attracts, or you don't even got to be here. Tracks the old type of niggas. H If I meet if I wasn't married and I meet a new queen of day, I

don't want here. Next she went through sweethar going to show you how to be loved by bank. I'm not going to talk to you about nothing that happened in your life past me, before me. That ain't really highlight work. But why are you? Why are you? Why are you letting? Why are you letting old trauma affect new relationships? This is a new thing. Women do it. We discuss what we've been through. Yeah, so as a woman, Yeah, because that's how you're going in the hopes of the new man.

I'm I'm gonna do that, a regular conversation on what I've been through. Yeah, that's the type of person that, well you know, I'm not a one. But I don't think that's smart. I mean, now that you just broke that ship down to that, you're right, don't sound like what are we talking about this? How do we still think about how do we resolve this ship? And Mama, that's what you list? Know? What? What? What's that? What's

the resolution to that? Though? Like, but I give him this, maybe maybe forma tuma, but what did you building a relationship with that person? You want to tell them like

you're what makes you? What hurts you? The things? Yeah, and all of that you want to Yeah, if you, if you, if you, if you had a business, he had a business partner and they were stealing money, right then you get a new business partner, like bro fun with you, but I catch you stealing this money like that last dated but you don't have to telling but if you running, but if you're running the business, you got to tell your business partner not to steal. If

I don't get it, almost like a warranting moment. I'm not going to talk about all the things that my old woman did that I did not like because I'm not even fin put in her mind that I could go for something like that. But then that's you. I'm just saying that's way I think. No, I don't know how about this way. I think I ain't trying to even I ain't even trying to put that energy into this. Yeah, I've never thought of it the way that you know, Well, I want this energy in this this I'm a whole

new nigger. What what I went through made me a whole another nigga. But that for you, that's true. So why am I talking about that? Because I think what happens when you first started to meet somebody or you first started to date somebody, the question is, damn you cool? Why are you not in a relationship? What happened? Okay, what happened that normally didn't work out? You got some women that will say to be like, we grew apart.

Wrong women, not no woman who trying to tell that be didn't do all this and make this look like a sucker and any mindy looking like that. What you stay with alone? How your sucker? Both of y'all will sucker. You're some bullshit to it too. Parts to this story that we're a real go to thinking about it's too side of the story. But you really probably crazy. When the women go to saying, well, we just grow apart. I still love him, we're coparing and whoo whoo, but

we just grow grew apart. Niggle's respect that because not there's like a myth dew you get on saying the I'm thinking like they probably just grew upart. But I know it's something, but I don't know it then. But she she, this is how she's gonna ge get if I fuck up. Give me your game and all relationship

part of relationships, especially earlier on around game. But what if that ain't her situation because what you just said, Hell yeah, that sounds perfect when you break up with somebody, especially got kids, you co s. But you're moving forward. So why are you bringing this baggage to this new nigga? Is it baggage? It is bad that I think I think I think it's you could be over and talking about Okay, I'm a woman not gonna be like man, y'all be yes, No, maybe you know what I'm saying.

You asked a woman a question. She gonna were gonna go down, so you don't have the question. We don't have to talk about this again. I'm gonna break everything down because I feel like I feel like he may say, I think like that carey energy, bro. And I'm just not trying to bring that deal with that energy because why do we have to deal with that ship that has nothing to do with us. We're inviting the third party into some ship that could be going good. We're

good right here. So you're telling me that you used to that used to get about this NIGG for ten years and what am I gonna do with this information? How does this help our relationship today? When I got big, if I meet a new ship me and was to get the voice there, I mean a new chick, because I'm gonna tell that chick. I'm never gonna tell her nothing bad. I'm just saying I wasn't the guy for her, but that but that I didn't I wasn't ready. Now I'm ready, But again I think that that I'm not fish.

Don't play hurt. I'm glad you because that's never happened. Like, well, I think let's do something. Do that. Women women asked, women, women ask that ship all the time. Why are you saying that you don't want to and you don't tell him that, you don't tell them all that, you don't go into details. No, I ain't just went into details about the damn the girl because we asked m well, because we asked the details. If I'm still hurt about it, I still want her. I don't think you leave it

to other counsel. Not. That's what I need ship, That's what I need to That's what I'll be doing. If I'm talking about her. I'm not talking about you know what what she was in a physically abusive one and she definitely don't want. That ain't my business. I don't even want you. I don't even want you, babe. You got too much of co with that. I don't want that. Man, give me a frisky bitch man you're doing that. Look, I don't know. I don't I get what he's saying

because you don't want. You don't because eventually, why do you? Because if you're flipping around a woman the same same ship, right, you don't want to es Is he wrong for not want to deal with somebody else trauma? She did? She going through some ship exactly, and that's just gonna affect him. Woman, I want, I don't want. A woman might say this nigga cool, but he's broke, right, and he's fucked up right.

I don't want to deal with that right now. Maybe if he gets past all that ship, I'm not gonna be trying to get you pass nothing right. I need to meet a woman who's already focused on what she got going on and what she's doing with her what you went through this, nigga, because now they're gonna be insecure in me. You count too much about this ship. You got some women that never mentioned their baby dad and never mentioned their X, never mentioned nobody this about us.

Because if it's the pass, that should be the past. I agree. That's being in people business. I ain't trying to be in a business. Men, hug got bit in there, right, you ain't trying to be I ain't trying to be in that. I don't want I don't want to see him lay in, lay in, listen to how much so you really did? Lord this nickel if you went through all that with could you ever let's make an insecurity because you never loved me, because you ever loved me

that But fast, bro, you're not over that. You know what's crazy as women. So now I'm going to do for the funk you you know what I'm saying, but never going to start thinking about my bit you. I don't need the ship. You're telling me that I don't d you. You're making me feel sorry for my bit who I did Like that point, his point came around cash and my triple point. You see him crying to meet and I'm listening to you, like, really, I need to go home and take Yeah. Yeah, it's a cycle.

That's what my life. No, don't talk. Don't talk to your new nigga about your trauma therapy that. Don't talk to you about that trauma. Man, you meet a nigga in this age where we are not wrong. He already had his first love. But I'm saying this ship before he already had the woman and a little more than anybody. Okay, then when this new ship, this ship feels good because

it's new, it's fresh. I ain't did you wrong wood Woo, But I still you're telling me about how your first love did you, How the person you you thought would never do you, how he did you. All you're doing is reminded me how I did somebody that I really love. So why am I seeing him listening to this ship? They don't get fitted with this so called I'm crying? But what if it's like your first love and y'all come, y'all come back around. And now you're talking about the people.

We ain't talking about that, we're talking about us. You're saying, that's did dick and we'll come back around. Then we're back to go. That ain't happen. That's another nigger woman. Now, I'm just saying, that's just how it goes. That's another man woman. The time that we're wasting talking about your old trauma is the time that we could be spending making new memories. Because the age we are no, we're trying to build something exactly, So we're gonna take a

year or two to help you get over this. I need to go only jump into the ship we're in the build because I already done, got damn told down the building over here, that's sold my Buildingest if I'm going into a new relationship about the old relationship our building has clung run wrong? Why sing about we're gonna be seeing and having a conversation about crumble building. Yes, we had a building. We were looking at ashes and

ship rubble and ship looking at old rubble. We could be build and like you said, a big part of this moving on in life and anything, you're gonna have to know when the passage just to pass. Like like just dwelling in the past, you're right doing in the passage, you're really moving backwards, so you might as well going the highway and drive backwards. Women like women like women be thinking that they can got Damn, I guess they're gonna get a pitted part it from the new NA.

What is it that we just want to know what you've been through to we're gonna ask you about your Yeah, I think it's more so inquisitive. I ain't gonna peak for all women, but that I think for the average we can agree, right, it's just more so for being

you know, inquisitive. We just want to know what you've been so I can go back to that equally, if you if you are in a space like you said, Okay, if you're in this space and you're on this upward trajectory and you're just saying, hey, I would like to meet a partner that is with me. Cool. But then you do have some people who have both dealt with traumas and ship right, and maybe they can help each other through the traumas. It depends on how much the

trauma is I guess what I'm trying to say. It depends on how much is waiting how much so if I can see that this is still affecting and hurting, you think, yeah, that's what I'm trying to just connect. That's what I'm saying. You can be over whatever, but just talking like the things that you didn't been through. Have you've been to Africa? Just whatever? You just talking about the things that you've been through. Me personal, I don't want to talk to nobout about no another nigga.

I just don't. I would think that no nigga does. But there are niggas that would, I feel you because they be trying maybe doing some different trying to get into a situation like you don't gotta let's that's chatty, like, don't talk. I don't care. I don't care. There's nothing I'm gonna do with this information. I don't care to turn off it needed to do. But that's a turn off to me. What are you doing? What do you do to you? Baby? I would never let it up.

I don't talk about me being to me right right, I'm right here right. I don't want to talk about what I don't I don't want to know what does it do for me? What does it do for us? Yeah? Yeah, what's it doing? He treat me like a therapist and ship like I'm not. I don't got no advice for you. If you no, you need you need license therapists. I've been through some things in my life and I just want this to be right. I can respect that I

don't want to hear the details of things. But then the average person is gonna say, but what things have you been through? The average person? But I'm saying me, I'm gonna be like, baby, this this is different. Yeah, I don't want to hear the details of thing because now you're starting to let me see that you don't have a spine. But how do you know it's different? If she told you what she's been through? What you mean? If they haven't expressed to you what they've been through.

You say, but this is different. She sat and be through some things, but this is different. You with me, now, how do you know what's different? Hey? When I when I, when I displayed the behavior that you can't deal with, and that's when you say, this is the same behavior. I have to walk away the difference. Fix it like sometimes and this at the beginning, when I tell you the things I've been through, you could have been like, well, I'm that some time. What you mean she said, do

you feel like that? If the person show you there, that's who they is. Man, people are goddamn censory because they care about you and try to be a different person because they love you. But who they are and who they are, they all lie. The lie, their thief, they're thieving, They're cheating. They're cheating, That's what they are. Some people try not to be that to to complete the love that they will have for another person. People do that, but that don't mean that that's not who

they are, and you know that's who they are. They just putting it on. I am I running wrong. You know who a person is. You know, you know when you meet a niggas, what kind of nigga he like? All these women be trying to say they'd be treated in this you lye, you've seen all the signs in the beginning with you see everything with every person in the female because you look over because you like certain things about it and you want to saying I like

certain things about it that this may change. I think people people Dave. People have the possibility of what they may become, especially women like we looked at him. We know you fucked up, but I know you could be some ships how that maybe you're gonna really love you. He's gonna try to steer his car that way as much as he can with no power staring flu He's still gonna try to turn that. But right, he is who he is, and you know he is. Yeah, vice

versus with a female, she is who she is. So what open to see all day and tell you got damn show attention to use to the Boots? But you like Boots? Yeah? How the fund company to keep saying this all day? And I know that she urged my nerve. This affecting me, It's affecting relationship to keep Windy harda Boots and my motherfucker out. But you like Boots. He's gonna learn to love that ship. But what get rid of Yeah? Yeah, giving big facts, man, this is a

good game. People can't evolved, though, they can't evolve, But you have to let them do it on that That's what I'm saying. You gotta let them do it in their own terms, on their own time. You can't force nobody to change for the sake of them, though it ain't. Of course, you can get it overrated to you don't think you can. I can think. I think you can only leave pushing somebody and you got your own flog.

That's how I look at ship. But when I say push, it's more like I can't keep telling me what all I need to do, but you don't want to do ship. No other accounts ain't here on that we both sucked up. Yeah, you can say all day about whatever it is that nigga under to you, but you might work too much to the nigger cat like cash working. That's an issue to this nigga. But how that's an issue because I gotta go get my money? Okay, how's the issue? I

gotta stay out? That an issue in what why one one one don't weigh the same like you're trying to make this make because because they're your feelings. That's why it's different big facts. Huh Right, that ain't the traditional way. I'm crying tradition. What's the traditional way? Then? I think people try to just like scale their logic like whatever. Every Yeah, a lot of ship they come with the tradition to now that niggas planted on brain up like

just different ship being sumissive. You know what I'm saying. You said, come on, we need to have a fool cook Thanksgiving meal everything. That's what the traditional grandmama used to do and did after that, you gotta bust it off every night you want to say the tradition. Damn you. You don't matter how time you are, how many dishes you did, how much food you cook, leftovers, whatever you got going on me? You got traditional woman with women with super woma. Yeah, the new women, get what you

got and what it is? What you got what and be traditional niggas. This our new tradition over here? How many wrong? You get what you got with anybody? For real? It's a jest. Next, people gotta start looking at to they self and see who they are to go ahead. I'm just like when you're in the relationship, you gotta you gotta step back and look at yourself. Yeah, and see everything that I'm asking for? Am I doing it? And do I just not? Not? Do I deserve it?

Do I keeck out that same energy that I'm asking for. You can't be stuck in your own mind thinking because you know who you are like you desicate me. I feel like I'm motherfucker' king Gosamander, but we're walking on rose in my mind ever, But I can't. I can't push that energy off on her expecting her to feel like that if I'm not treating her the same way as I want to be I want to feel Yeah, right, lead by example. You gotta lead by example. I don't

ask nobody to do something I don't know. But back to the other ship. All the women out there, stop telling me of y'all bid the man. Yeah, I mean I don't. I don't know, and that's just your side. And what if it's somebody that you really want to spend your rest of your life with you like they need to know every Don't you feel like you don't even know everything about your wife rest of your life? Jessica?

Do you feel like because you really know how to read like I can read certain ship after they read certain ship. But I'm sure y'all had the conversations about what, like things that she's been through, things she liked, things she don't like, not not in no super deep detail like kind of like what he was saying like that ship, then could you handle it? If you do, your partner was completely honest with you. That's not That's what women try to do. They try to pre plan a relationship.

That's what it up because you trying to. When you're pre playing it, you building expectations from another human being. How the fun you're gonna do that? If I'm telling you what I like, No, let me see if you what I like. Let me see if you would I like. If if I was to get a new woman right now, I'm not going to tell what I like. I'm going to see if she already what I like. Experience exactly. Everybody down trying to put you about to put that

mask on. You tell somebody what you like, they're gonna play the perfect act. It's gonna be the perfect role. It put them in character you don't get in the script. That's all I gotta do, just reafing the script line for line. The best way. The woman that I already know what you like, dash the one she just naturally doing the ship. Yeah she ain't even tell you like I got them walking into clouds of smiling like, yeah

she know. But if I got to continue to tell you this is what I like, or this is what I like that means you don't know what I like. So now when you're doing this fight, right all, you broke that down, down down. So if I'm saying asking a woman like, if I'm saying, ask you, what is it like? What is I'm asking? I'm telling you sharpen my game. If you don't, if you don't already like you, if I'm not already like you said we soul mate, I'm not already your soul mate, mate, because you're soul mate,

you like my bullshit? Right? Yeah, it's something about that bullshit. You can't every right though, because the real you come out one day. So you might be hiding some ship and then the real you come out one day and it sucks it up anyway, you see what I'm saying, Because they don't tell you what to be, how to be all that ship. That's why I see this is straight. I'm gonna be playing that role the whole time, and that he need doing some bullshit. Now you've been traded,

but she already know didn't nigga some bullshit? So she find out you on that still lame man A lot of ship that's overrated. But wait, y'all don't feel like you can't you know how people will be like, I'm in love with you. I love you unconditionally, y'all. Do y'all feel like you could love somebody without knowing all of what? You never will know everything. You don't want to know everything about anybody. I feel like the right you, you meet the right person to love you. But they

don't mean you're not even gonna remember what you went through. Right, that ship goes away for real, bro, because that becomes your therapy, that person, not what we're talking about, you my therapy. You'll never know everything like you my therapy. Now like fun, when I went that ship was a bad dream. I'm walking out. God. Yeah, so now you're telling me about the badad dream. You really just showing

me how to play my whole to me? Right, I don't know not a big fat women out there, listen, Damn how a bunch of is gonna be mad at you in the comments like, damn bag what you're telling them? It's the ship. We got kids, daughters and granddogs. Man, damned because but but that ship helped them too. Because I can meet a woman that I really liked, and she go to tim me that I don't like you no more? Yeahs too, my come with this now? Now? Now is putting me putting my mind on thinking about

what you're thinking about? Is she thinking about this? Nigga? Right? You know what I'm saying. You went through all this, you say you've been when the nigga teen years going through all this? I ain't taking you through that. You don't like that? What you like? That Team years tells you about telling the true? Some people are used to like dysfunctions. Some people are used to abuse. They don't know how to live without it. I'm telling you, so you just got to recognize that ship and read it.

It ain't necessarily about talking. That talking can be good, it could be therapeutic. But I'm telling you it's a certain ship you just read when you're around a person. You just learn how to just read energies and read people, and you can kind of look. You ever looked at somebody and they just seemed trouble, like they've just been through some ship, and it's like, damn, this person just gives a troubled energy, Like, but you could read seeing a woman that just you know, like she cool with

whatever she's been through. Yeah, she yes, she had peace with it, whatever it will, that what that will, right? You get what I'm saying. But now you meet a woman that like, I hate, well, I can't say I hate. I dislike a woman a queen that's telling me how much she hate a nick You get said because you tell me how much you hate it, I mean you really love them. To me, that's the thin line love and hate. That's the thin and ship of them. That's the worst ship. Knew to have a motherfucker that love

you and hate you at the same time. You can't keep talking about something you don't care about, right, Sure, you can talk about something either way. That's still energy that you're dedicating to that, to that nigga. It's energy that you could be spending loving me instead you spending that ship hating him. And you've been and I've seen women that hated nigga one day, me and too. Though. Yeah,

I'm for my personal friends. They'll use you the about the nigga that they hate, and then you see them with that neigga later on the week like damn, oh I did like that? They like that? Y'all know it? Keep thinking, keep thinking, don't go to you. Yeah she wasn't she want you to take it for what. You know what I'm saying. She was just talking. Yeah was the honey friend zone. He can be your friends. What I'm saying, what you're saying, I gotta be all that bro.

They queens today, man queen, then we're gonna call queen. They we're gonna slip up and calling bitches here another less queen word and king word queens. I know I'll be talking a lot man saying a lot of ship, but I'll be passionate about that game. Listen, you get some game today for sure, because it's even feminine members like your sister, like my sister know they can't call them to about nigga. I don't want to hear. I don't want to hear nobody the time about now. I

listen to my nigga's talking about their bitches. That different, but I don't want to hear no female talking about no nigga that you're still funt with. Come me to me you he's yeah, but sometimes people don't want People don't want to resolution to me. If you if you down, if you're saying, if you telling, if my sister called me right now and be like, I hate this motherfucker who I hate them too. You hiss up by saying that,

because you don't know how I'm gonna take that. If she's telling me she ain't, didn't even that mean I could rob him? Fact, But you don't really feel like that. She's just been right, like I just told, she just been just talking, Okay, But I'm saying that how much, how much time, and how many nigs have died behind talking? But that? But that's what I'm about to say. A lot of people don't want a resolution. They don't want to uh their problem solved. They just want to get

that off their chest. That's all they're trying to do. I understand it. But you can't tell a person who loved you how to take something that is a big fact. You get what I'm saying. You can't tell next. You can't tell like you just said. You can't if you come in and tell a shot every day. Man, you know it. I just feel like black just be wood

woo woo and shot. Goddamn shoot me. You can't tell how to take that because she loved you, but you've just been You love me with all your heart, but you've been to a person that's take any ship serious, right, the other person don't react, so you really put yourself in the opposition. That's a damn dog game to days. Women a niggas look at it though, you know, you know when you didn't with a different type of nigga who don't think it's far and who's just be looking

at women as women just be talking. But I know women that just be talking that nigga's fucked up and niggas and jail did all that behind a woman just talking, you get what I'm saying. And she could just be vting, But that vent can turn into some real ship. Cash can come in right now and be like, man, I ain't didn't she don't know what me and screen plot.

Yeah no, I'm just saying. But you can't say they say you mean because you know, well every it is exceptions to every rule, like I always say, But that ship don't happen to where somebody, somebody not you, but somebody will be all. That's what I'm saying. A monthy you can never get into that ship because Monday, literally I'm seeing people. Damn they're ready to stablish, shoot each other and then too to be back. How many relationships

you think have been what's called dissolved. Dissolved me over right? How many relationships do you think have been dissolved by a person taking a person venting the wrong way? Get what I'm saying, like chant vent into shot and shot. You show me the energy that that you got for her being bitch? Fuck you father, because they're still my wife period. And I know what I'm saying. You probably gonna lose your jaw. You get I'm wrong me, But all this because of Vent. Now, he was just a casualty.

You're just a gargantee of some thin ship. She don't give a funcuse she still got me. I know she crazy. I know I'm crazy, But now you're getting in Nigga's business, being in Nigga's being it like she know her friend no, not to call me somebody y'all need Hey, this gonna call my phone? Are you gonna work around it? Be? You know she just feel like this to day. Don't try to talk to me because I'm mad. Yeah, we both mad, and my friends ain't gonna try to talk

to her. We're gonna figure this ship out when we sing it out. Because business soon as you get in the middle of now, you hey, don't want the whole in no more? Who you calling the hell that's my wife you're talking about now I'm saying. I'm saying, I'm telling her I want my phone, and you're like, no more because opinion could have been right, but you on her side or you're on my side, bitch, fuck you though you're a divider. Yeah, not a divider. You're a divider.

If you got an opinion on some ship, this, this function, yeah, that's already what it is, some bullshit. How you're gonna

have opinion on some bullshit that's already some bullshit. You're gonna have a bullshit opinion that's gonna put you in the middle of At that point, I think if something, if your home is just calling you in the event in or whatever, you listen and like I know for me, all my home girls and they got that bullshit with their niggas, I'd just be like ground you know, I ain't gonna even disrespect him of you, Like that's just what I say, because I just be like, I'm not

gonna say nothing because I know you're gonna be right bad. I ain't I'm gonna listen. At that point, I just listened some people didn't, specially family members. You know what I'm saying, You got feminine members that goddamn that's how it got Damn in laws. Donna vote with in laws. You know what I'm saying, because you may take it. You're taking this ship for what it is. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. You're taking this ship for what

it is. But you over on the other hand, putting it out here like it's this, but it really this. But then, folks taking this ship for what it is, is that right? You have to. That's what I'm saying. Like women have to be mine for that though. Yeah, I think we just emotional creatures as women that you gotta be mind for that though, because at the end of the day, you can meet a nigga that really like you, and you're gonna tell the nigga that and he go to see, Okay, I like everything about you,

But Debt, that's a character flaw for me. I'm not dealing with it. You get what I'm saying, because I know how far that leads to. Now you you you finished build before I even meet dude, You're gonna build me up. I hate this nigga, shore baby Dad, We gotta deal with this nick for you, But you don't build me up looking like they're getting kids and get the nick. You get what I'm saying, you got me.

I don't even know this nigga, but from what the way I feel about you and the ship he took you through, I don't like him, but I don't know both sides. I don't know that you got Damn I've been doing whatever you've been doing. The dude, I ain't heard it side. I just took the bitch side off the rip. Damn. Yeah, you gotta admit, big fans, I didn't got mad at my baby daddy and like talk some cash ship about my baby daddy and and not

like you explaining it like that. I can see why a person would had that energy and then later you'd be like, oh, we cool, and then the other person looking at you like bet you just said all this crazy ship, now y'all cool. He couldn't get chance last week and I had to work da. I literally didn't do the queen response. They're gonna make it seem like, well, he should have known that. I ain't feel like that. How I've done that before, laid in the bed if

for fucking laying down. You're telling me this ship, I mean my monot, this nigger. Now, yeah, that's our walls and ship. Thought they'd just be miscommunication because now I'm saying it like that like you said ben In, because that's me. I'll be venting. I should be mad. I gotta work, like, can you help me get a chance

to today? And then he telled me, now I'll get on the phone complaining bitch in the morning, the whole whole bitch ass all types of but just because I'm mad, right if me and I love you, what do you take me? Serious? Y? Yeah? And then the next day when he called me a shy I'm gonna compete, chance up blah blah blah blahm I okay, so yeah, a chance they just picked her up ba blah blah regular And then as a person mad as fun now and I'm looking like, why you got that energy? You already

already poisoned the water. Yeah, I ain't even see it like that. Thank you, bank. Thanks. That's especially when be ready to ride for you, Like if you know that I'm a react off, whatever off, any type of disrespect, you don't tell me, don't don't play with disrespect, like take ain't tell me then about I don't even her sister, her mama, her brother, because whoever, whoever she know, my energy is gonna change on them, interesting even my kids. She got enough because I feel like I was supposed

to be. You know what I'm saying, turn the fire. I'm gonna turn it up. So if I see something that's you. What I'm saying got her upset, I'm automatic gonna be upset. I don't even know what's going on all the way. So that's when we were saying, early, tell me everything, because she can't. You can't tell me, sir, because the smallest ship, like I just said, that's small, that ben ship. I'm taking that to the extreme because that's how I feel because I'm knowing how far that

can go if you come tell me. God damn well, I had filed it all in my pocketbook, and they're gonna want nobody here but your son. Well you're there. But then she gonna find up on the bed. I don't show then't my whole hand, So she gonna wait till she find or that ship. You're gonna you get what I'm saying, like real ship because you gotta know what you're dealing with, bro, what you're dealing with and who are you dealing with? Like, certain people don't take

love for play or protection for play. Some people don't take that ship for play. And I only I'm only thinking from from my point of view. So and somebody. So she go vetting to somebody about me. I hope they hope they don't feel how I feel when she fit to me about them. You get what I'm saying. You get what I'm saying. Yeah, I'm facts, big facts. You never get theirselfs cut off because now you can't even be her friend no more. Y'all got sneak and

be friends. You gotta sneak because you showing me that you gotta. If she had a pin, if you told because the women to do this. She will tell this girl all this bullshit about without undid for thirty years to her and then tell me, can you believe this this time to tell me to leave you day? Do she hate mass bitch? She ain't even got hate her from don't true? Yeah? She got me fucked up. She divide all. She's telling me she's seen you company, really

loves company. Why certain ship you just can't hear. You can't hear women talk. Yeah, the phone ring, I don't. I don't want to. I'm gonna watch this. Yeah, I don't want to heal like certainly something. You can just sit by that girl and listening talk. I know that you don't like going on on the room. Yeah, And you can't take our friendship serious because we would be

mad at me. She said, you can't take girls friendship like like I said, you can't take most girls friendship serious because certain girls that get into it over like the smallest thing. But be back. And I'm not saying even because if I say I ain't suing with somebody, no, that'sh it. But woman, what I'm saying a woman, a woman saying Sometimes it would be like, oh that was just yesterday, some bullshit, some bullshit, or it could be like you could talk. It is sound like we talk

to ship about our home. Girl. I'm already not your free and friends cool, nobody cordial, right, your friends, it's cool, everything cool, because I know how you just say fun the folks and then I'm still got ain't gonna be right. Yeah, I ain't gonna put myself in a position where you feel like you still DM me what's wrong? I want you to say, Nah, yeah, ship that all that ship come back through most of the time, and there are exceptions to every room. You should be minding your business.

Why do why do you men want to heal with women talk about unless they're talking to me. I don't want to hear what you're talking about to know another woman. I don't know why. I think that's it. I don't want to hear that ship because because at the end of the day, you're going to display a different character amongst your friends, because I may not want to even

be exposed to m hm. Why why put yourself in a position to see something or do something that's gonna turn you off for the person you love, Because I definitely wouldn't want mine needed to be around me and all my friends talking because if they tell them about all the hot girl ship, he's gonna probably think I'm a hot girl too. Yeah, manya business on that, get your man cave down, go out of it with all that ship staring. I don't stop out of that then, Yeah,

maya business to put your ass an event. Maya what's the world? What the world was? Inquisitive? Don't be so inquisitive. You got no business one of them. I don't be one of though. That's just me. See, I just think of ship to fuck. So the search ship, I don't want to know because I'm gonna make it something that probably ain't even break it all the way down when the other person that might just be some simple ship. But I'm gonna go down to the wrong ship. Yeah.

Now I'm thinking at every every party involved, at some bullsh I'm already saying what's gonna happen next, and what's gonna happen, So I don't even need to see no bullshit. I don't even need to see. Let me deal with the flaws that we already know we have as people. I don't need to dig for them, big c Yeah huh yeah. Some people capitalize off her, but that's a weak nigga. How you capitalize but you But you're giving the nigga all the tools to capitalize off you though,

how how? How how you just melt a nigga this month? But you know all you're biding it and third, that's all you at that point. At that point, yeah, I'm saying when when when y'all started then and telling them what you went through them. I mean temp like when

a long let's put the time on. If if I'm getting a relationship with you and I want to be with you, you want to be with me and you want me to know what you went through and you don't want to go through it again, how long does it take for you to get that out to me? It's time a long ship. I don't know the first six months, two weeks? Now we want to lie how long long? Probably within the first couple of weeks. That's

what I said. They're gonna know everything about about you. No, I'm saying if starting to drumma, you don't have to. I know we're about to be together. Like I'm not telling certain ship. It's like open book. It's like my business that I tell y'all. It's not it's like minnut ship.

I'm not like what I'm saying. What we're saying from the be getting another relationship beginning of the conversation when y'all said, when you're just talking to you meet a guy and you're just venting him about your old relationship, I long that that that that conversation. Yeah, okay, that's a couple of weeks. Yeah, A couple of weeks. You know my whole life, and that's your life. You're gonna know your whole How long it's gonna take him to

know everything that happened in that bad relationship. Let's say that that first little jump a couple of weeks months then, so in two weeks, I'm gonna everything you went through a whole another relationship two weeks talk about that. Yeah, not necessarily necessarily because that help a day. Yeah, you don't talking about for days? You know what I'm saying. Ain't nobody saying we gotta wake up and talk about the nigger and go to sleep, talk about the neighborhood. Yeah,

that short story? Okay? And then when you tell me that short story and I started being a certain way because of whatever. Now I'm a nigga too, right because your story? What you what you said? What you say I'm saying, if you didn't change, you didn't change since I told you this story. Yes, because that turns me off that you allowed yourself to even go through that for those many years that you just told me what No, I'm no man, know you know what what I'm saying.

So actual question how that made me weak? Okay? If you told me what you went through with another relationship, right and the things that you told what you went through, I feel like I can't deal with a woman that went through that. Am I fuck nigga now? Because I say I don't want to deal with it again than if you pretend like you want to hold up if I try to do it with it over the course of six months, no knowing that I don't. You don't know,

you don't know, you don't know what you can't you can't. Yes, but I'm saying, hold on all of this I went through right, you fe and you heard what I said. We had over lunch and we didn't have a long third of days and you do some function or whatever the case may be. You understand I'm walking away. I'm not dealing with this somebody. I'm just saying what you said,

you exactly what my question? What's your question again? Because if you just let you know what not to try, if you you know what, I want you to let me know how to try. And I got all the all the excitement at you and all the butterfly don't over money. Now, I know she didn't want to try to somebody leave her along I'm a nigga or real nigga. But you already knew that nigga because you because you already knew because we don't what about me? That's what

I'm saying. Okay, over the course of time, you're telling me what you went through. Right, we're already fun. Okay, we already every time? Uh huh. And then I started to see, like I really want somebody, that's all I want her. So I'm not gonna take her through that and my fund, you're gonna really gonna leave you? Yes, that's what I'm saying. You know you're not. They're gonna make you a fun but how you still make your sound what you mean? What? No? No, no no. But

he's saying he ain't getting Mary. They say, y'all fucking were and all the course I'm expressing to you all the things that I've been through, but we're both engaged. That's the purpose. Once he find out that somebother some way, Once I she doesn't been through too much and I ain't gonna take it through much. She got too much? Bad get you that women's eyes that's not ain't not you not you're not hurt, right, but women eyes if

it don't. If you don't, don't please say this. And womenies over a month or two months, we maybe don't to the common model, maybe sucking wrong. By now, I don't know, she's gonna feel like she's in love, so you're gonna be a fun ni. I don't pressed all this. I've been through all of this. How do you don't want me? You don't have a reason, you don't nothing, No, babe, I just feel like I'm not the one. How that ain't a women because you're not dragging because you would

be a nine nine times. No, if you're not dragging it, I'm not doing nothing. You're not. But but but okay, that's what I But do you feel like even if the last six hurt, I'm becush? How that's dragging it? That's not dragging. I was trying, he was trying. I'm trying. That's not hurt that we broke up and sad and cry to my friends. But just out you made to respect it when you've been into your friends? What am I? Thank you? Man? Nine times? I don't like am I? If it don't end up, you don't end up the

way the woman wanted it. Ud look if it don't the woman wanted. It don't matter what you saying to your friends. That's what I am. Whatever you're saying is what I am to your to you what you ain't know? No, God damn which one is it? Just fro my counter saying what the funk going on? Many ship just to fake bitches, just says retarded. But the queens pitches you're retarded, bro, Like, how the funk I go through all this ship with you? We've been fucking six months and I'm been were I

don't want to take you do this. I don't want to. You know what I'm saying. I feel like I want to. I want to date other women. I don't want to take you. This's not gonna work. I ain't going back and forth. I ain't give me no excuses. This ain't this ain't it for real? Real? But are going to call shant be like, let me tell you did? But what I don't sell? But we're real, we don't know the same. What what they say saying say is what

I am. That's what you're passing on your friend because you don't That may be my soul mate still saying, you know what, girl here real nickna women they're not gonna let you anywhere. You say this, nigga, just real need you want to other women? That's what you like. Ain't the baby you probably need to be with? Hell No, because she may like that Initially. Girls ain't gonna do that.

I still like you. You you you just you just kind of heard her feelings a little bit and she understand why that's why you're not a nigger, you know. But then no, I'm gonna tell you how that's gonna go. I'm gonna tell you how that's gonna go. Whatever it is, we can work on it. If I say I just like have a six with other women, that's true. They're gonna whatever it is. We got work on what you're saying.

We were working on it and I'm starting to do it. Yeah, I actually yeah, I'm gonna because you want to that many hubs you want sign you can't figure out like that, you can't figure out now. I'm just I'm just trying to like just you know, somebody holed this to the like, damn, I'll be doing that. That's me. You know what I'm saying. Which one is just like you, I ain't gonna to please you by trying to be who you want me to be. That's true. I'm gonna please me, but please

you by being me don't work. Fuck you, Yeah, because at the end of the day, no matter what I do, if I come be real like you know what Chante were looking like, what, Well, you're right, but I'm just gonna go and get my stuff. We can work on that. You're not saying we can work on what I really told you out of my heart, what it was that I want I want bitches, you're saying we can work on it. You mean you're basically saying you're gonna get

You're gonna get over that. That's what you're thinking. But Nigga coming to being all the way real with you out of his heart one thousand, which women say they want. But you're saying we can work on that. But you're not really saying we can work on that. You're saying neither you're gonna get passed that. I think when they say we could work on that, she in her head thinking I'm gonna work on something that you want no other thank you, But that's not I came in tme. Yeah,

that's not guaranteed. So when it don't work out, that work again. When it don't work out the way the woman wanted to work out, you are yes man, because you didn't all the way comply to her needs. If I don't apply to your needs, I'm a fucking or because my needs, my wants, my morris, I'm a funk nigger like women always just be real, be one hundred. I'm coming out to be all the way one hundred. Well you know what leg cross looking like this, nigga

gonna lost this motherfucking mind. So was it what you do? Cash? Did you put you in a position that you gotta Did you put you in a position that you gotta be a funny that? What I'm telling you is if I come tell you, baby, they just ain't working out between us, you'd be like, why because I want to be out more. I want to date other women. But baby, don't we we're gonna figure this out. Nigga heard, Okay, But what you meant when you say we're gonna figure

this out? I don't want you to leave. I don't want you to leave. But no, yeah that's what you're thinking. You're saying, Yeah, well you're telling me we're gonna figure out, because I just told you what I want. We're gonna figure it out together, and we can't because I already told you what I wanted. There's nothing to figure out when what you want to go back and forth? No, I want us to you want to make a deal. Look,

I want us to be there. It's a different it's a different creature because if you flip that around and a woman come and tell the man that was gonna figure it out exactly. Yeah, yeah, get depends on the guy. You never know what a nigga gonna say. Ain't no niggas gonna say. She could go out there and she's a nice young nigga. I feel like a nigga like me would say, I'm giving you your wings fly Bertie, I'm gonna let you fly away. But that should be respected.

A woman would still keep you in it knowing that they can't deal with the person you are. That's true. That That's what I'm saying, nigga, don't ahead to take that hurt, Like, go ahead, I want to go to thinking about Okay, he gonna be he gonna actually find a woman who could be that for him. Yeah, I want to be there, but I can't. I'm not that And so now I'm got them getting hinder this nigga. Now say here fun nigga when he do the things that he said he was, come on out you hinder. Yeah,

I'm saying it's still her. Yeah you can go. You Charles to just say. You could have laughed, but I chose to tape because you said we're working on that. Sh Right, you gotta plan. You have a plan when you say, okay, well yeah, get your ship. But we can say you've been hinder. It's like you don't want to be there. You've been You're being hindered because you're giving me mixed messages. Sweetheart. You're saying we're working on it. But then when I get you make a relationship, you're

supposed to hinder because now I'm going through stress. Oh my god, Oh my god. I gotta sneak around on this ship working on If we're working on that, if you are ready and told what it is and we're working on it, it should be out here. That's talking about. You're not being UNSOO can't talking about but I'm saying but but but you know that's not me. You know

I'm speaking to the third person. What I'm saying is if I if I, if I was a man, that felt like if I told Shane said I want other bitches, I'm still gonna try to keep it out of face, and then we're sucking a bitch together. You get what I'm saying. That's not sneaking around and just respect because you are my wife. But I told you what I'm about, you get Donna saying. So if I get caught up you in my phone, I feel like, why is you in my phone when I already told you what I'm about?

But it shouldn't be a caught up if we already know, it wouldn't be a caught up if we already agreed. It's not an agreement. Like I said, when you agreed, you agreed to something else in your mind. No, I agreed that we're gonna work on it, meaning that we're gonna come to gather as well as two people and decide what the stipulations, what's the no because it's never being a talk after that, it's just listen, listen. Shot.

The talk be for you to stay. The talk don't be for you to have no bitches, but for you to have another house or for you to have whatever it is that you want to that, don't be that. That talk is for you to stay, for you to get over it, king get over that. But are you going through something? Yeah? Why you want what I'm doing? What I'm not doing? That's in your mind? That be and we're gonna take bitches out smoke weed? Yeah, you

see what I'm saying. If I'll be like, well, Bay, I just got smoke weed, and how man funk that? Only damn about the neighbors complaining or whatever, you'd be like, we can work on that. But every time I smoke it gets on your nerves. You get what I'm saying. Yeah, So how does that work? They don't. We're not working

on it. You just you just what you call it optimistic not what Yeah, when you don't want to what they call a cold kind of body, you just it's just shaking up to God damn to take the top of this flow, you know what I'm saying. Like you don't like it, People gotta be one hundred with what they don't like, bro, And if they can't deal, they gotta be able to be like, I'm not dealing with that, but what's one What's one hundred for a man? Though? When you're dealing with a woman who don't even know

what they want. Women don't even know what they want. Then said their friends don't even know and they ain't even doing then, but I don't even know what's wrong with me. M m. They know what I'm saying, not that I'm saying. They could be all the way into you, but it just it ain't. I don't know why I want to be with the sick. Yeah, I don't know why. I just want to. I want to get into it today. I don't know why women, that's just women. I want to have something to vent about. I ain't been venting

in the men. Emotional creatures. Well, yeah, the emotional creatures. Bro. That ship is a project, is a science, the project trying to try to figure it out. No, you think that's trying to figure men out. Y'all. Don't talk about shyn't express your emotions. I spress my motion to the foots. So whenever it comes down to where it comes down to already to see it everything. Yeah, yeah, everything, I feel about everything, like, ain't no gray areas. You ain't

no gray areas. So if I if I decide, you know what, this ship just ain't work what what can she say? She used to be like, Okay, nigga, fuck you, you're like I've been telling him, it's not gonna change. Like the narrative is gonna always be built. One month you're the best, next month you're the worst. Your friends gotta be tilling like y'all friends gotta be like, do you ever listen to your friends? Like this bitch is stupid?

I know she because she told me that about like real ship for show listen to something like you are too? Why she listening to you? But you know that Like I know this, I know it, like because we listen for the ven you got a real friend, They let you get it out and they hang on the phone and tell you they spelled. Man, my friend crazy is here? She running a man crazy because I want to tell her she wrong, but she's so crazy me I was gonna be into it. That's just how it goes. So

do women help any real friends now? Because I think that you can really tell your friend when they're wrong to not not on not on a touchy subject. You can't. You're not, though, I do now, I see what you say. No, I definitely have. I understand exactly what you say. I get because at the end of the day, if I tell you too much, then it's gonna hinder if I tell you the truth, it's gonna about relations. Yeah say,

I think it's yeah, okay. I was about to say, you can tell your friend the truth, but you ain't gotta do some massive detail like I got my homegirl Raven. She'd be going through crazy as ship. I did say her name. I forgot what we used doing. I ain't gonna say what. No, I'm not gonna tell, but she'd be going through some ship. And when when we're talking about it, I literally be like, man, you know you throw it off and I'll tell her her part and

I leave it at that. I'm not gonna go into full detail long to piss her off, but I'm definitely gonna tell her like if you know you kind of started that ship you're talking to how they take constructive Criticisa, And then she had telling me like you know what you're dealing with, you know what you're dealing with. Certain people are a different type of personalities, like I'm not they go asttional opinion on some ship that I'm head strong back the fu nig opinion. That's how I feel.

I ain't nigga change my mind even if I'm wrong, sucking, I'm wrong by myself. I ain't changing and that I'm wrong. But you got people that will go vent and want somebody to feel like they're right. And your real friend, noe, this one of the times she want to be right. That is true. I wanna let hell be right. Damn we are fake. Yeah, like I'm gonna he'll be right to night and hang on the phone and tell tell goddamn beat one tail bank up in the tail bank, man,

why and I'm gonna break it. She gonna break it all the way down to me and be like, yeah, she wrong. Yeah, people go back. Yeah, you can't go back when they like when they calmed down in the middle, like oh yeah, but tell you then. But after moment, that's when we really need to tell them that, man, because yeah, you gotta telling in the heat of the moment, like hey, I'm now you tripping, ya, you're tripping, you're tripping, you're tripping, Get mad at me whatever. Calling when you're

out your feeling. That's how I do my be mad with brother. You call on the ballhead nigga, then bro, don't call me, nigga, you let you want the truth real ship, because if I don't, I don't give a funk about you. And that's not saying that you don't give your friend is just a female trait. Bro. Yeah, y'all don't even know because y'all saying y'all thinking like

trying to make a right damn nil. Yeah. Sometimes even though you know you're wrong, you're trying to damn them, make it see logic, try, You're trying to twist the logic just enough to make it seems like this person is coming down on the right end of it. I can see what you're coming from when you don't see where they're coming from. Now, that's the I see what I tell you ain't coming from you. I feel you see what you're right due to the fact of his

past history. That's when the nigga's automatic just here fun So I can never agree with him over even when you're wrong, because you are really told me all the you are bent at all the fun ship. So I'm gon say nah chantell big na, not this time it's you. I can't say that because then you're gonna break up. Well you would about when in twenties twenties. Oh man, So if I'm wrong about this now, he was wrong about that then and that's wrong. But in this that

sounds real. All that sounds real, petty and stressful what we're doing, you know, And I don't think it's stressful in our brains when it's coming out. It's not. It's just nature than the else. We're not got big. Oh this podcast touched one woman heart to be like, I'm gonna adjust my thoughts and take accountability. Did we have

that on this show? And take accountability for my words? Okay, actions is a whole another thing, my actions and my words, because words to men are worse than actions, and then for women is the actions that's worse the words exactly. But they are all the same. It's all abuse, not be killing. All my words they all abuse. And you feel like the nigga is supposed to come back from it when he damned there can feel some of the words you're saying maybe sharp shootings, ak what I'm saying.

So that's why you said how you mad at me? Because I'm a fucking on you bitch. Fuck you you're a piece of ship. You can't you mad at me. You can't say she can't say she's saying. She's saying, that's why I said, because I'm but then that should be sitting over here mad on the nigga about some whole most ship what he did up. But what about what you did to me? So I'm patted too. This is retaliation, okay, But once you retaliated, it's a fight. Yeah. But so now blow for blow, you can't. You can't

come back from everything though. That's why you gotta be careful what you saw. If I did something to use Yeah, exactly enough, I did something of you as a helpless person, and you just took that on the chin and you just helpless cry. Now I gotta show remorse and be like, damn on some bullshit. I gotta take it on accountabusiness. But when you hit me, if I punched your in the face, you punched me back. We're fighting, bro, we fighting this blow for blow. Ain't nobody the wrong ain't

nobody the right weight. But if I don't did some bullshit to you, and I see how that I just hurt her and she didn't. She didn't try to hurt me back, she didn't return the energy. I need to make this right. But once she's putting your once you put on the same shoes I got on, bitch, fuck you, it's up. We ops. It's the low road. Some people use to take the low road and not the high road.

It's the low road. It gets lower and lower. But what I'm saying is the friends that you've been to when you because you're gonna call her soon the nigga do what he do for you, even rich pop. Yeah, when you catch your nigger down there in some ship, you're gonna curl gain without checking the right thing is gonna be like calm down, calm down, calm down, don't don't calm down, strategize your move. If you're gonna do something, strategize,

don't go and do something that you're gonna regret. Because he may feel he can come back from that, and you may feel like he can come back in that, but you feel like I want to hurt them before we come back from this. Make it even. That's what a lot of women think, but it will never be even. Never for sure. No. Yeah, I'm just saying, like for people that go through ship and their relationship, like certain certain women ain't going for certain ships, sir, men ain't

going on certain ships. That's just how it goes, you know what I'm saying. And if I meet a woman back to that, if I meet a woman that showed me everything that she went for with another nigger, to me, that show that sholl do to me, I don't agree with that to me, he said. He's saying that if if, if it's still on your mind and you're talking about it affects you, it affects your energy, that person still

has some type of holes if they don't. And I'm just talking to you about the things I've been through, that's what you're talking about. But I'm speaking on when you have met your soul makes your true love, and y'all depart, That's what I'm speaking on. If I depart from stake, I ain't funk another bit. She'll never be another one of the here. I can get another woman and we can move up and try to get us some money together and have a business slash marriage relationship.

But I'm not to try to get this back. So I'm not even to talk to you about her, saying you get because once I started telling you about her, you're gonna know that's my soul mate. And the things that I went through with her. I'm never going through this with you, bitch. The ship and I went through with her. I ain't even gotta tell you this. My energy is gonna show you this, So I ain't gotta tell you my vulnerable ship that I don't went through

with this woman. Yea to let you know that I got that side of me for you to try to check check them bums and get your feeling hurt. Yeah, ain't even that guy. I just say I was a messed up guy for a queen, and I guess she got tired of my bullshit. Not tell you hubble or ship because me tell you hubble shit how I felt that. Let you know to me now, these are not fact the bank fact to me. Me tell you all the things that I went through with her and expressing everything

the hurt that I went through her. To me, that's showing you how much I cared for her. Yeah, but you've been with somebody for so many years, the person gonna feel like you care for them regardless each other. But you're still type of caring Carolina. When I'm im to me, if I'm speaking on it, if I've been about this person, I still feel like I wish that

could have been better to me? And do you feel like it's the way you've been about it, like like how you talk about this person because you can talk about to speak for me if I'm talking, if i'm if I if I'm telling the scream about Shante, I'm telling him because I want some answers and try to fix what I even did or fix what we're gonna. So if I'm ever speaking to anybody about my wife, it's not because you're a It's because, hey, brom I what am I missing? Yeah? Yeah, that's what I'm speaking

about it. So I didn't finished speaking at about to no bitch about this or to know another woman about this, because I'm not trying to fish that. But women do the total opposite. You get what I'm saying. They give been about some ship to a nigga, to somebody else, trying to let it go, but confused, could want to fix it, could want to let it go, could want

to they don't know. I see what you're saying. Yeah, right, If if I'm somethinghere sitting here enough, if I'm if I go to a therapist to talk about my marriage, what am I trying to do? Right, unlet's his post marriage. I'm trying to figure out how not to talk to another woman about this marriage. You get wanna say, I'm trying to get it off to some people that that's not it's gonna hinder my relationship with them a therapy. This ain't gonna I'm gonna get this off the you

know what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying, or my kids or my parents or something. I'm not bringing ship to another relationship. Because if I'm speaking on this woman to another woman, she don't know you still love this bitch. That's just what it is. M hm. Ain't if I'm if me back, it's talking about to another woman. I want. I want my bitch. I only want you. I'm just here for the heat. Ryan, Goddamn, I'm not here for you. I'm here for you. We're talking about us now, to

see us on picnics and ship. You know what I'm saying. Yeah, I just always felt like me personally, So was that rebound. I just always felt like me personally. I never wanted to get in shape bank, you know what I'm saying, and do all this and be this new nigga with a new bitch already keep mine. M hm. You know what I'm saying, I'm gonna get it right. I'm gonna get it right with that one. I can't got them

do all this bullshit. Ain't gonna get it right with somebody else that's a fun nigger to me, no matter whether it is, no matter how bad this, because it's gonna go bad when I get what he's gonna go bad too. It's gonna be bad times right right, because I ain't peep this bitch flaws yet. I just met you. So you your best? You start taking the wings off? Yet you got that done? You still you still don't? You still got your fills on? Right arong me? Why ship? Yeah,

you know what I'm saying, like straight up? So what am I doing now? I'm now I'm counting an uncomfortable situation, trying to make some ship, trying to make the same ship already had, recreation ship you already had. The grass ain't always greater facts. You know you know how that ship go? Broh, God damn d well happily ever, hel, I'd really be trying to figure out, Steve. I don't what are you talking crazy? It's real ship. I'm just trying to put the folks down. A lot of people

they think about it, think of this last day. I say, a lot of people go through the whole turbulence of the whole ride, ride that bit all the wayman to build a bit of dead. Why do you think so? Because they love each other? I don't care if they care. Care they care about each other. You don't talk about what you don't care. Why do you have to build ax because we were better because we love the No, I don't think they have ain't better with no bitch.

What's it better? What is better? See you? Yeah? Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I agree. We can't be mutual. Every time I see him fun that is because now you're mad because of what y'all could have been and y'are not that so okay, Okay, I agree with that. Okay, So I ain't thing with four ships. If you gotta nigga so well talking about you, calling you out type of niggas, will he mad because he won't still be around you? I agree? Get what I'm saying, like niggle going over they like like, but

I don't know you no more. That's the person that made peace with this ship. Fuck you, that's the real fuck you. If I'm saying fuck you, that mean I love you. I ain't saying nothing. It's fuck you for real. That Come on, bro, don't do that. Bro, it's saying the guy. Damn Joe, Joe, go to sleeve. Show what you don't fact? You speaking facts? What's your Listen about everything you said today? I agree with I ain't lost that. I want it back now you're you're you're hitting the day.

I ain't cheat. Yeah, right, no matter where they take to keep it, I'm gonna keep it. Yeah, I agree. Don't go chase the waterfalls. You know, people do find happenings outside of what they You know what I'm saying, I stiled up. You gotta go with nothing, so many fine happenings outside of you. Gotta go with the relationship. You can ye, relationship can also it's reality, can't it can't. You gotta go with your heart. It can't end. There

can't be ading to certain relationships. It just comes to a point where it's now you ain't even mad at each other. So this is the conclusion of this part of our life together. That's why I always say, if that comes to if we come to be like we're cool, and it just be like this ship ain't hey, this ship ain't it? Then I can respect that. I can't. We can't get you don't caught me and some ship or we don't we're all going about some ship and we break up. That ain't gonna break up to me.

To me, that's just to misunderstand. Now we just got them, can't be around each other, wing all that. But they're just like, yeah, that's just what it is. Yeah, yeah's time to let that go. But if it's like we're in Twitter, you're mad about something and then got them, we're moving out. You move out and I move out, that's bullshit to me. You know what I'm saying. Nobody, you're still donna be mad and you see it. You still don't want to when you see him, you still

don't want him or whatever. But if it's just like ain't there, it ain't there, and you gotta respect that. I ain't never felt that. H We're some big bank in family on Big Facts Friday. I hope you all got some game today. Man, it's free games, free game else can you get free? I don't agree. I'm gonna be a fun Later on, we agreed with you got me, I take to agree. I'm not just saying, like, man, what do women really want the truth? Yes, yes we do. We talked about this stuff. But okay, when I'll be

telling you the truth, you'll be saying I'm crazy. They wanted with the want with do they want the truth? Okay, okay, okay, I ain't gonna say that do they want you? Can't women accept the truth? Yes, we can and we want the truth. However, to pick back off what you said, we ain't you we hear what we want to hear. You understand what I'm saying. So that's not the truth. I'm saying that what they want to receive it that truth. I agree, but we won't hear it. But honestly, we don't.

We don't process it because we still we still trying to date and love the person we want you to be, yah, become be or whatever. And then to hear that. But still what you're saying earlier, what is it? Um? What did he say? What you say? What? What's the what's the movie? You want the truth? You can't want the truth? Thing? But when you get the truth, can you receive the truth? Have you not receiving the truth. You don't want the truth. Shot, you want a hold on you want the truth. You

can't receive the truth. But neither one of you guys can't tell each other how the truth may make the other person feel. Even if you tell me the truth, you know what he's asking is if he wants us I just told you that you said, I don't want to hear that. You know was a public he said, I don't want to hear that. Yeah, so you don't want the truth? Like this the truth? You're like, we don't want to hear that bullshit that does ain't believe it?

So which one is it not true? But it's like we're not gonna receive we we feel like you Lyne, you wouldn't be telling me this, you know what I mean? Like, yeah, we were like you ain't just you ain't just say that, like I know you just say that. That's how we But we really want the truth. Yes, because a lot of you tell I'll do it, nigga, tell the truth and you believe that this is the truth your actions, Yeah, then that's what we beat ourselves up and because ourselves

out to call our girl friend. Yeah, just get on the phone, call our girl friends to be like that funk nigga? Do you know what I'm saying? So you're if you're action and you're what you said in the store, don't add up. I'm like, shut up, you just talk. But if you're telling the truth. If I told you I got a whole wife and kids, but you'd be like, you don't know being no cancer, you can't telling me it's a FaceTime are what? But I told you the truth?

But you heard you how? I'm like, because you ain't in Kansas, but I know how even married over face. But I couldn't be ready to run away. But you ain't touched on kids as you would have been in cancers. My bitch could be locked up. You don't know what miss, because I ain't tell you the whole truth. Oh God, ain't that's not the truth. If I say, baby, I got another wife and can how you want to take I got hold on the wife and can man talking?

But really got when you came back and see you haul with a Candy tag on it, and take me to Candy and meet my bitch getting out of jail and we beat together. Now you believe it, you ain't gonna make man, ain't gonna shoot that ship up. That's gonna be wait, you shoot man. That's what I'm saying. So you don't want why the moon is getting killed. Everybody your body standards, everybody who rented than you, because they ain't going any name everybody's I say, if I

keep preaching, it's plicking me. I want more than one white, I want three white. I keep saying this, she's gonna feel like, shut the funk up. Yeah, okay, Then if me and her around and get a divorce and I go get three wives, she's gonna be like, Okay, that's what he really. That was his truth. You heard the keyword the voice. So that ain't not issue. So so womens from their treat if you are you allowed them, so women, if you allow them, okay about them? Held on,

Wait a minute, he thinking what he said? He said truth? Whoah, you know he's said it's like three in relationships sometimes even both ways. You say ship, and I might be guilty of this too. You say ship, but you know they just kind of everybody brushes some off. He does it too. He brushes it off. I don't brush out keep it. You didn't like everything, but you say something to say something soud like that, you're telling the truth with me. You want to see it, little ship, I

take that joke. Relish the serious, doing the serious. Oh I'm making up ship now sayings generally we are brush of the three wise you were like you, yes, you're saying that's not the truth. Bang if you think it's complicated. When one wife said you're a bad look, he's gonna be with three wif taking this out. Okay, we're gonna figure it out. It was like I said, baby, I wanted the voice. I want three boys. What's gonna say. But we're gonna work. We're gonna figure this out. We're

gonna work this out together. But you know what, part part of part of it has to respect that. So listen made this post. They gotta go through. I gotta take my part of figuring this ship out. You you do gotta read. You gotta read female language. What she's saying is they're got ready to go to war for you. Before any of that, I ain't let you just walk up with three bitches. We're gonna figure it out. Fight

about it. Might get you might get to them. Three wis yeah, nobody, Hey, you can read home gonna come home, make them some sweet tea, and they're gonna fall out. You ain't gonna never see him again. What's coming to She's saying, she's going and they're gone, and now you got to bury these homes. She's saying, she's going to distance for you. You gotta I figured, yeah, make him a sandwich, give him something to drink. You don't come on my podet already got you on your mother all

the motherucking line and ship. Okay, like moving the cup off like she's getting up like that side. You know how to make a nigga say that side. But so y'all know all the games because I don't went through this ship. You didn't not go to feel the games like damn I did, wait till I got home at three o'clock. So now you're gonna make it. Put it on yourself right and it should mean and you walk past the kitchen before you got back kids, do but fix it down. He bought to pop up with yes, yes,

you want to toast it. You mean Jessica waking about to sleep making seances she has Now I might be getting cussed out. I'm eating the sandwich, but she made the sandwich. But you the gun that can take the cussing out. Oh y'all got I want you to make myself with love. I always like, don't cook me ship yeah yeah, making it happy back, don't taste like happy? Yeah, that's me when I like you made this with love. But you gotta know what you gotta. You gotta be

accountable for your own bullshit. Like I could have got on made my own dad with frisbee and too him. He gonna still eat it. So what Yeah, I didn't know a nigga bro. I used to make my grandma water and ship with ice off the ground and ship good. She didn't called me all the way down the street. I don't get don't give me some walk. I dropped nice in men drinking. I saw the ground, so I don't want I want it with love. Have she catched me in the house and make me. I'm gonna make

the water with love. You don't call me all the way from playing outside. That's how I feel. I'm woke you up. Woke you up about your sleep? That sounds ainting to take right. I might choke on this ship, then why you wake your up? He was gonna get out. He wanted to talk, just yeah, yeah, just make up ship. But I want to say, women do the same. How the funk? I want to y'all, y'all, y'all, y'all trying some ship just to see it. We'll go for it. Yeah,

women do that. I say were Trump. I'm going for it. That's what I'm saying. So if I'm gonna go for it, you better go for it. That's all I'm saying. We're going for a lot of ship. No way, you're going for everything. But if I got to get up and you're going, yeah, this is a real city, name it your name, we get out came today. I go, hey, listen, Triple w Dot, Big Facts Potamn from thirst and we got dish washing ship. I gotta go in there and wash my cup out at it. I moved the pots

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