BIG FACTS FRIDAY- Kryptonite?

A little backstory behind this. I got this shot at Marty Garl like probably like ten years ago and security guards no from you know, they got the little jail suits and the little gift shops on Bourbon Street, like they got all kinds of little ship. You know what I'm saying, you can put on it. Shart has been with me for a long time. I mean it has a lot of meaning, sentimental values. Yeah, it was the first time I had a hand grenade like all kind of ship like ha, No, like it's a drink. I

never been a word. What's words got to get out of live man? Y'all got experienced life into that because we like, Okay, so what the fund is? The word kryptonite? Okay, So kryptonite it's something that can seriously weaken or harm a particular person or thing. All right, let's keep it there. So kryptonite basically someone's weakness, someone's weakness to the point that they could bring them down and maybe bring them

to their demise. So I want to say generally, j I would, in my opinion to me, generally a person's kryptonite. The first or guest most popular answer, like on family few would be whoever it is that they're in a relationship with that could be one kryptodite. But I think whoever wants to jump out. I think we should expose some of our expose our kryptonite today to have it addiction, Yeah,

for sure, cracks appertonate. Well, I would say women women for you definitely, like no matter what, no matter what, I just so for you, not women, but Shante Santa as a woman. No, I'm saying you said women plural. Oh yeah, he's saying shant. That goes back to what I'm saying about the person that you're in a relationship with, saying women. But dude, But I don't want to say

I feel like it's going to be the demise of me. No, you just know that Shante is something that can affect it's women, like you said, because not even winning what I'm dealing with, Like because I can't see you hurt, I can't see Shane, I can't seek, I can't see it. It's she gonna make me like, no matter how strong, I'm gonna feel some type of whether And it's just that love for women, like if you gotta pretty bad girl, that walked through that, through that, through that, through that.

So so for you, you can't not wo's like in your mind life. So for you, it's a lust for a woman. For you, it's a compassion for women. Yes, okay, because it's a little different now this weekness, Yeah you got but I know what. I can't control it though, Yeah I know I control my actions for it, but I can't trust control the way I feel about it. Yes, that's where I'm at. You can't, then you don't have it in control. If you can't control, you do because I do want to fuck you, but not fuck you

because it's wrong. Yeah, I can still want to every time I see you did. But I think part of the Cryptonite ship it has to it has to steer you away from the ship you're doing on your path. Let's just say you get money. It has to be your lust for women not even lust for a woman, but I would it. I would rather stand in the argument with you all day. Then they got to answer my phone, like you you're calling me the other day, but you have to text me because I'm on the

phone argue, I know this really business. I need to click over holda. But no, I'm trying to get my point across. So that's sure, and I can't And I can't really let that stop me from getting money because I can't lose money chasing that woman. But I can't lose no woman chasing my money. But it ain't no cryptinite then because I'm not acting on it though. But soon as this girl come through this through this said

don't like damn she bad. So do you think that paying attention to that bad woman where we're getting that is you're still gonna get money. But do you think you've got a little less money because you got distracted, you ain't pick up your phone. You might not get somebody crypt money is your cryptonite? No, because I got discipline with with that too. Basically, kryptonite is the gas in the car on the road to destruction. Yeah it I don't think it always has to destroy you. I

think it's distract you. It has to distract you. I don't want to look at like that's because I don't want to put that tighter on hurt it. I'm gonna say that kryptonite is the weakness. It's like Superman gets the kryptonite, he gets weak, but he always makes it past. The cryptonite is my weakness. Gambling is your weak That that could be a cryptonite. That's because too much can't you can take your answer hapen the dough? Yeah, well I guess with y'all. Destride um, the word. The word

is like something. They can make you weak, even if you're a strong person. So it's like, but you can bounce back from it no matter how stronger man. Yeah, I can say funck you fail, But if you show me like you hurt or something, I can't say so how I mean, that's when the kryptonite kick in, Like she ain't working right? Yeah? Yeah I see something. Yeah, you can make me feel something even when I don't want to it. Yeah, okay, okay, So is that a good thing of saying like your kids could be a

cryptonite your kids? But but but I think I think saying that kids are a cryptonite you have an obligation to them, so it's not really like they are cryptonite. Is just like they're just getting on your nerves. Yea, your wife, but they don't make not you don't have the same obligation to your wife that you had your kids. You brought these kids here, you met, these kids wouldn't

be here. I'm gonna tell you why. Because a woman have a genetic connection to that child because she don't wan't care of it, so she's going to have a different type of love for Danny Man. Yeah. I think the cryptonite thing with kids just like maybe when they get older, like if if if you're crippled or blinded by the fact that like let's say the kid is on some bullshit or like Michael Myers is just saying,

you're saying he killing nobody. Kid didn't kill anybody, even though you just saw it, like my kid would never do anything. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. I think that that's when it becomes in the crypt nite if it makes you delusional, like your kid is a brother, you know, Yeah, that's chicken. Is that your crypt n e was your crypto Nite cash three slim kod that I'm still thinking about mine. I'm weird? Are you argument? Argument? She let argue like the argument? So I said it

as the law school preach. I was under the bad team. So and I want everyone except for like two. So y'all think everybody got got it? I'm sending something that can make them weak. Yeah, amazing, it's a happy realm. Yeah, that would you say? Unchecked emotion? Definitely? What's your crypta nite, Jake, I'm trying to think, like I'm really trying to accurately expose. Can be some people, porn camp anything? Right? What's my crypt night? Crack? Do I have cracking? Everybody? I saw

this documentary on cracking crack? What we could be a cryption night? Yes? We will be a crypt You're right. You can smell some mu's weired that you your ship done? You know people like that. Yeah you know what I mean? Alcohol? But family? Family yeah yeah sure, family yeah yeah, because like you know your family and ship. I know I wouldn't be funk with y'all y'all want my family but a week because y'all how that should be? Like that's real? Bro. If you weren't no kin to me, bro, I wouldn't

know you right. Oh you know what, sex could be a cryptonite. Sure, yeah, yeah, that's like top top goddamn, because it's like you could be you could be working with somebody and it could be a situation where like they did something you don't like or you can't stand them. You ain't working with him right now, but you like

to have sex. You might not necessarily be promiscuous, but you might like that person sex, and then that might be like, Okay, well these niggas whatever or bitches or whatever you deal with or whatever, but I like their sex, so I'm just gonna do it, and then I'm not working with them no more. And then you get sucked back into the situation you ain't never got sucked out sex and drugs at the time you got. You just gotta stand on what it is like. That should be hard.

You just gotta say, I want you to fund me when I want you to me. That's it. But I'm saying like some people, some people can some people can't separate the two because you feel like when you're sucking to go back together, like we didn't go to the other of the whole month, you can't funk me. Okay, we're back no, No, that's like he gonna like you, then you got to split up again. Then when you want to get fucked again. Yeah, but no, no, just

don't go together and just get fucked. But tell the man you just wanted to No, I can't do that. I know. What I'm saying is I can do that. I can cut somebody off completely and just sunk them and then that's it and then like they get in their feelings or whatever. But it's just like it took. It wasn't always like that from me in the beginning. Yeah, like it wasn't always like that for me in the beginning,

but I learned how to separate the two. Man, you know what they get to you know what, I don't feel like you know what, Baby, I talked to the person I got to talk to the pession. Yeah, we need to reconvene. That would bank give my ship together. Can see you later. No, but it's just like something.

But okay, so let me ask you this about the cryptonite then, so do you think that there's ever that there's a way that there's ever gonna be or that there is a way to completely eliminate the effect that whatever your kryptonite has on you has not if it's true, Boy, I can't say that because somebody's c kryptonite might be they alcoholic and they can overcome that. Can you be your own Can your mind be your crypt Can your heart be yes? Can you be your own cryptoite? Yes, yes,

they self because your crypt you worse. No not, I don't because your heart can make you make you weak too. The way you love people could hurt, could be hurt. That's my problem. That's my problem. That's my problem. Cryptonite emotion and that's my problem. That's my problem. You change it to your heart, that could be my problem sometimes. Yeah,

you know it can keep you in situation. I'm gonna queer y'all think that y'all like ninety point nine, right, because because something sometimes we are too too loy Yes, you make an excuse to be lawyal life, and then that be y'all downfall because y'all be loyal to people that don't even need to be y'a don't even need to be loyal to And it's like y'all like not even y'all, but like us because I'm a cancer and we're like all in the same group pretty much when

it comes to the loyalty ship. It's like you try to understand people while they're hurting you to a certain extent. Yea, and that should just be like pretty much, that should be crazy. That's there about most of most people in their heart. Yeah, how you feel about the point? I think that yeah, yeah, you can have multiples? Were not big? What's the question? Show? It was back when y'all was talking about the sex stuff. So shout out to spiritual word.

But I have a question. Do y'all think that good sex or a good vagina a good dick? What have you turned crazy? And or do you think that it's not like that? Like, it's not necessarily the dick that makes well, speaking from a female point of a view, you're gonna speak from the female point of view. You want me to do a call it now? I just waying, but no, But speaking from a female point of view,

it's not necessarily the dick that makes you crazy. Is the abandonment trauma and the attachment issues that go along with the dick, especially if the dick is what you thank you west side man. But what you're saying abandonment don't give an I want to hear what you say, I said, it's not it's not the dad. Basically the thing that you went through. What you once you got them, get somebody the fuck you. It funks with your mind to make you act to feel like that they cured

you from the ship that you went through. Like, Okay, now I don't feel abandoned because you put that pole in me? That what man? What what mean? That ain't nowhere near what the funk I said that. Let's say like now you all my fears are gone. I'm super No. No, what I said was like, that's of real ship. What I said was is that when you find a nigger that fucks you good and that fucks the life out of you, you have it's it's not the actual meat

itself that's making you crazy. What's making you crazy is the fact that when this nigga sucks you and weaves, you start thinking about, Okay, well, who else is this nigga fucking like that? Yeah? You know what I'm saying, what else doing this to it? Like? I don't. I don't think breathing can't help me. Hook from sex, she can have you, hook from head. No, she can help me and comes from as a person I agree with

that I agree. No, I don't care who you are now I can't help me ship woman are kind of like, get me, I don't. I'm gone on your personal personality who you are all that got to got to go with it. But it just or sex and no, but I'm do you think good sex is someone's energy to or just like someone's Definitely, because if I don't vibe with you, I'm not even going to allow you to funk the ship that coming along with vibrating on the

same freak exactly exactly. So it's so we can agree that, like I was just having this conversation with somebody, we can agree that two men can have like you and you can have sex with a man girl no hold on, hit me out you and you can have sex with like the same girl and to you, you can be like, man, that pussy was trashed, blah blah blah into you. You're like, no,

that ship was dope. And because if I'm not, if I'm not feeling him the same way that I'm feeling him, I'm not gonna suck him the same exactly gonna him and man and man like if me and him don't really like vibe or we don't really hit it off, then okay, it's gonna be just like okay, but if I'm but if this nig over here, I'm working with this nigg it and you know what I'm saying, I'm feeling him and I like him, and his energy is good, and I like the way that he's talking to me.

And the ship that he's saying, like the freakiest ship ever is gonna take place that night. Yeah, and but but that can't be for everybody, because I'm sure some people who have had like one night stands with some amazing sex and all that ship. But yeah, the same that she was already there from the junk though. But it's impossible for the sex to be amazing having great six yes, noell, But what I'm saying is in order for that sex to be great, the energy has to. Well.

Speaking for myself, yeah, that's what everybody is different, you know what I'm saying. But I don't see any I don't see how you can have set people have one night stand said it was the best sex to head in the life because they tired to Yeah. Yeah, man, let's get this nig what nice. I should just be edited ed step it right, already. It's not gonna straight for me to ask we had the best sex to Yes,

you can't get rid of jealouy we got screened. No, seriously, I think the sex it is different from I feel what you're saying for you, but it's different. It's probably gonna be different for you and her and other everybody

depending on what type of person is. You're right, because some niggas can't like I know, some use just fu bitches like different bitches, just like I can't funk with a bitch if I don't funk with him, like it ain't ship, like I ain't even gonna get aroused like a phone, like if I gotta like you, but I gotta. But yeah, I think it can be got damn on two and just fucking bit like round like I can't.

I never could. I never could meet a bit and just like be turned on by I gotta them that know you, Like, but I got a homeboy, yeah, like you're saying, I got a onboy too. He might fuck two or three bitches a day, like just because he just gotta. He gotta get his dick wet, like he can't help it, like if he doesn't, if he doesn't funk,

he's gonna go crazy. But do you think like when people are like that, that they're like searching for something mentally, Like if you like, if you're just out here just going to be up under, you don't even necessarily have to be sex, just moving from person to person and person from person. Do you feel like at that point that they're not like comfortable with self when they use

other people. I think every addiction comes with searching, no matter what the addiction is, could be sex, who drugs, whatever, it's avoid you know what I'm saying, You feel like you need this to be complete when you know you don't. Spiritually, you don't need anything to be so you can't just be a freak. You could be a freak, but that ain't the natural. I don't think a woman is supposed to be getting a bat beat up by a new

man every day. And I don't think the NIGG is supposed to be there for women or what I'm saying. That's both ways. I'm saying. I don't think you sho's what you think though some people just feel like that's what it is to three women a day, that's just what it is. That's that's what you can do it, that's what it is. Yeah, you're right, you got the injury for that ship. But if you got injury for

what done, what it is. I guess if I had to three bitches that I'm feeling like fun with him probably to three business day every day new ones, the ones that like No. Two or three is one talking about we're talking about man with three whites out three different were talking about I can't do that. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. It has to be something wrong with your mentor I don't want to see that many bitches like like I one thing, we haven't had the chance

for queens. I forgot we get all track. Oh none of the big fashion is and I want to bring one in like we haven't talked to no porn start, Like how the funk you can ship around and let like thirty different niggas just you getting paid whatever it is. Well, but poor starts don't hold on most part. Starts don't even get to the point where they're having sex different niggas a night. There's game bangs, but that's not the

average porn start that's doing that. Still every point start, I don't see other interviews like they head count is almost like five hundred plus. That's your business. Is nobody really that many niggas pooring niggas, It's not that many porn niggas, for ports start to be hun niggas. But you fu, you got the one point nigga three hundred times, this niggare three thousand times the same nigga out A whole bunch of times don't count. That's different. That's what

I'm talking about poring. Nobody's watching pooring and seeing the same ship over and over. So every time you do a scene, there's got to be a new nigg So that's another body on top of the bodies you're getting outside of porn. But I don't even think porn starts fun outside of their job. Dough. They for sure do, because at the work, that ship is not even emotional. But that's just like, but that's just like, but I look, I look at I look at the porn ship just

like a chef. Like a chef cooks all day, all all night long, whatever whatever. Then by the time they get home they don't even feel like cooking. On someone who sat down the interview porn stars, I'm telling you you're wrong. Yeah, because you know they're gonna go home and they right then they got good, they practiced, they had the pic job like they're faking that ship and the practice. Somebody over there, Jacket Hill, that's same way

you're saying. If you can fuck a nigga that you don't have no emotion for the didn't go another nig that you guys emotion for the opening. She probably could just acting then go home and actually have sick. Yeah, okay, so let me ask all this then, like male or female whatever whatever, could y'all lay down at night and love a porn person? What you say? Three three three three? He said, Hell, yeah, if I loved you know, and we came up with these together, and I'm managing the

money and I'm standing up with the camera. No not, That's why we gotta we gotta bring some tipe of porn person because like they'd be finding happy pown start. My girlfriend. I can't do that. I can't. I can't. She fin't gonna get bushed up by four five people soon. Yeah, I could be in a relationship with scrip. I could. Yeah, fortunately, and I'm fortunate to be married since I was job. But I feel like I could yeah, you know, listen, this is my bitch, and if you stripped it down

for good? What the niggas don't even know this lingo or don't know me? So I couldn't do that. I just laughed. I think if I probably could though, because I know some cool lad bit hard right now, hard right now. Some bitches do take serious it's a job and leave the job at the job. Probably be in a relationship with a scripple, with the typical scripple that we're thinking about when we think of scripples. Look at what you look looking? What could you be in a

relationship with a girl from goddamn Players Club? What a name? Will could you like? If you knew that was up? She wasn't doing nothing that did the club? Yeah she went at that party party that bread woul worry? Would you know that? What you mean? Your boyfriend? You got to trust They come in, They come in with trust that. You gotta take a lot of tests every week. That ain't trusts. You gotta take a lot of it. Ain't that I don't trust you, just I just want to

be confirmed. And what that's like her having you take a lot of techni tests? Why she at work. So what you're doing? Why she asked me a lot of tech tests for the things that I'm saying and I'm not doing, I'm a pass I don't think I want my girls what I'm saying for the things i'm telling you I'm not doing, I'm gonna pass that. If you have me for a lot of test test of things I'm that I'm telling you I am'm doing, I'm not gonna pay. So. So if you say when I go

to work, what you'd be doing ship chilling? What sack for you? Though? Knowing bet your girl walking out of there going to the club showing everybody had every night? Bro? What is really proud? Really? I'm just really trying to you know what I'm saying. Let's I'm just saying for me, I can see how a person would, But I'm saying I can see your person could if they got that, if they got enough strength, control and confidence to do that.

I don't have that because because I'm obsessive with my wife, I'm just being something Nigga's got that I don't because like because of who I am too, if I was alb't know, because I'm gonna start feeling like Nigga's going to the club jet to ce bank bit strip. But that that that I got to come from within standards, what you stand on. I ain't gonna go for that. I don't give a damn if I ain't got no money or ship dance, just something that I'm not for

the hell for sure we can figure something inside. Yeah, no, yeah, I I couldn't do it because at the end of the day, because that show, that show that that that is your ego that got you saying who you are? Hey, they's here a bank. Yeah, this MG is what I

stand on. I ain't even I ain't go for that now, but I'm still you know, I'm still putting my ego in place too, because I would feel like I would feel like, God, damn, Nigga's just gonna go just to you know what I'm saying, So that would that would stop me from me even though thinking of that like that would be one of the reading that would be one of the reasons like for me to justify where

you can't. Well, I wouldn't want you to do it like na, because you know too many people know me and got the which I ain't negotiating this bitch like you don't even ask me. But I'm just saying like it's speaking from a point if it was to ever happen, you come up, if it was an ever come up, Yes, I wouldn't even like I couldn't because of who I am. But if I was a nigger, you said, if you was a squire, the use her when she was at work a nigga. Yeah, regular nigga were trying to figure

this ship out. Yeah, go ahead, you got No, I don't fell off. I don't now you look good man? Hey man? How are you being? Man? I can't tell you what I can't get in the way. And best if I met you like that, it'll be different like you you see, I'm thinking from my bitch that I got enough. But can I go meet a bit and she'd be my bitch? Yes, but she ain't gonna be how my bitch is that I got today, she's gonna be that's my bitch. But we're telling everybody all that

ain't on my face? Could you do that? No? No, I don't know. The word is secure? You know how your experience can't say that? Eience? What go on in the club forever? You're always gonna be there like I don't see strippers fucking behind the DJ move in the bath room, in the car, in the parking lot, like that's always gonna be there. Kind of person you can have a squabb is going to work doing that same ship,

sucking the ball man. Ever, it depends on the person too, for sure, absolutely, But it ain't gonna be attained by some ship that you ain't seen. You're gonna, yeah, you're gonna be telling about see, but one thing about it, no matter what type of bit you got, you're gonna know what you got. One thing that you know, Scripple, she could be a point stuff you don't know what you got when you got it. Just can't you take other men doing that type of ship and looking at

your wife and everyone. But I don't agree with I don't even I don't even. I don't agree with that because at the end of the day, true enough, you might know what you think you have, but every bit can deviate from the plan. Sure, I think that scribble for sure. And she got a boyfriend, she's single, the right nick she is single. She proach'allah if the right person, Uh,

what kind of proach you? Then you sing? I agree that, Yeah, I agree certain people coming out how you man so that in general though, that in generally to me, I can't. I can't say that I just happened faster. I can't say that I just said that. But yeah, yeah, I can't say that. Some people stand on prompt. Yeah yeah, I don't damn who you will? Yeah, if I'm my hood and all Scripple can't stand post. They really entertainment instrument.

But she in the fun the check, which means in her check is based upon what she does, which means she's gonna do whatever she has to do to get the biggest amount of that check. Five desk. That's getting really paid. That's what I'm saying that. And she's a real entertain she's a real scripper. She's a real stripper that just that gets past and say, hey, look what I want to hear that No, get mon off this year. You know what I'm saying is get real month off

this year at that you can't real for you? Yeah no, And I'm not even talking about it. But but if you got you got press regardless of what you do. So you want to you want a script club and you got pros, you can can't we can't say that just you can't. Ye, yes you can you, Yes, you could be a stripper with princes, with ross and strippers. It's strippers. That's not what I was saying, girls, it

was not what I was saying that I'm saying. What I'm saying is okay, it's it's man, I know because where I go what I'm saying that I just got different. You're saying. You're saying it's strippers that get paid, make real money off dancing whatever whatever. But if it's a neig that comes in there and says I'm going to give you ten thousand to suck this constantly goes, bottle up your ass all and split it, spit it back out. You think she's not going to do it not out? Yeah, not,

I don't know. It's but it's most o black. What is this? But that's still a pion though, Yeah, that's the pig. That's the true that's the pi. I hope that it is a bit. All right. Let me tell you this. We gotta me. I'm gonna get this to the strips. The hold. The women job is to see fantasies too, So I hold, we're supposed to feel like I would yeah, until you try how many times you don't dance all night? She doing all the ship, licking over your dick everything, tell you yeah, give you the

number everything before she started dance. You try to call this bitch and ship different. I do think black Dad, like the real you just bought a fantasy nigga on the old sale fetasy for real in a great at it. Yeah, but in the process of that sale, what else is she putting in that cart? But you here dreams? You know what dreams? Dreams and cost her bottoms? Nigga, there's a dreams there's because of being got down dance you

grab your what you're jog jog. If the bron giant walking to cli right, and he approached any girl in there and say let's let's go, I got for you, you're she going in the We can't say that I agree with Yeah, get turned down that like these holes winn't turn out that's in the one than yeah one be bit you don't turn down like that, but the whole jests won't go offering them that that that that that kind of pipe, the who started that offer that

type of paper? Bost a bit up for I can bost a bit up for nuts you need to do at that little bit of watch calls nothing bee read about or call that night. I'm alright wrong, and some many bits ain't look, ain't get that bitch down. Won't go to one percent time get a whole hum of thousand,

it's one. It's lowest them. I don't for that, right, I got for that cool, but that still is in that one percent true that if you got a girl, but with what we say, she's going to work in a strip club, girl, Yeah, I ain't got that girl. What make you soloing to be had a bit of the weapons inde I get, yeah, yeah, yeah, you have question. So you think that all strippers are something in some way they turned to a prostitute. No, I don't think that. Hell no, that's not what we're saying at all. I

know plenty of strip of that they do help prompt. Yes, yeah, exactly that way. I just wanted to clarify because that's the conversation sound like we were saying. So I just want to clarify I didn't say that though. That didn't say if you're in a strip club you have no prospal exactly. So I just want to clarify that. But you were saying, but saying they pro mean they're gonna automatic turn to a prostitute, exactly, no different principle, I got, yeah, exactly.

That's what it is like that people don't still on the same can't. I can't. I can't take out my clothes and go on the meal strip club right right right, You're gonna take off her clothes and going screw yeah. Yeah, So whoever does that got different? She got yeah exactly. But it's not saying that you know, prostitute or not saying that anything is wrong with it, But it's just we just look at things differently, That's what I'm saying. And you can't say just because the mother coming out

with fit the third thound knowledge could be drake. I don't want that money holds trying to step they face on what it is like. I don't even want to be able to get out there. I go fuck a brocash nigga for I f a drake, but got some bitches like that, No, when I'm don't go nigga for free. But what I'm saying is the percentage of those types of bitches like seeing a giraffe, I mean, yeah, it's wanting the lights, does exist, slim the nuns, slim Nuneah. Sure,

I don't know what you're saying. I want to put out that because the most of the strippers of black women mopefully. I have a lot of friends, and I know some of them standing on prompt thank you. But I also know some of them saying, friends that you have this certain perfect person coming down hoping to go man and thinking like what I give you? You know what I'm saying that just you know what I'm saying, I got you big called me. So, so should you

be okay dating? Depending on your principle is gonna be whether or not you're okay dating a stripper or taking one serious depends on you. So okay? So I feel like I feel like, since we're talking about principles and morals, fucking asking should a nigga be okay dating a stripper is just asking like should a hetero sexual female feel comfortable dating Little Murder? Who? Who? From P Valley? It's the guy on Valley Man. We won't even talk about

that ship. We didn't even got to talk about P Valley. We can just speak about a man playing a gay character that's with a heterosexual woman. You said a female being okay with the gaming. Basically, she asking like, as a woman, would I be okay with dating from a principle that morals perspective. Guy that plays a gay scene inside of us, that's playing a gay character, but he's

not gay. Allegedly, he gave you gotta be somewa gay to I mean about like you could date the gay port stuff like not that mean everybody know you gay too? So no, everybody knowing this n and and they're saying, play this gay scene standing on princeps. I ain't even to play that, how much you're like, it ain't even a part that we're gonna like we walked in the sane like like like y'a buck hips going in the door like that, like its senior waiting that he walked

in first, then I walked in, and then you walk out. Y'all, y'all, y'all. He got to show the extra scene like I did walking in the dit don't say that. I was gonna say if he was doing some ship like that, maybe then the p Valley ship. Now that's just a little extreme, Like what about what about a guy that had to see what they had the car heed they leaning in for a kiss to go to another scene like about the kids held up and before we go, before we go any further with this, Um, this isn't like a

homophobic discussion. We're just speaking on personal preferences of like you know what I'm saying, what we're doing, don't I want to? Yeah, Like that's that's still just out like for me personally, Like you know, I live the LGBT community all that. You know, I love a woman, but and I have nothing nothing against men, Like I think I ain't gonna lie. I think I probably accidentally dated somebody's sexual men before in my life, Like I ain't gonna lie. I don't really judge that did you fuck

him without me knowing that? I think he was gay? How the hell you fucked somebody and you didn't know I didn't know. Everybody don't come out and say that they're gay or that they deal with the same set. See that be the funked up part, like oh yeah, y'all changing ship something now that's I don't remember the original could you know I was following it? So yeah,

let's get back on topic. Um, so goddamn, my crypticinized mine is so mine is so I can't go for that, And the reason I'm gonna take it back, tell you not my cryptinite, my cryptinite in my heart. But she got it. So what I'm saying, I'm just being one hundred yeah, like just what is y'all? Yeah, I'm female like they got it, but I'm around like it's just what it is. But I'm shape shake huh, ain't somebody my wife, I'm gonna shake my crypt Nash, just stop

giving the funk about the bitch shot Jake. I'm gonna be a just controlled control it, you know what I'm saying. And the only way you control it, you don't have to hurt nobody control. You just gotta sit boundaries. Yes, that's what I'm saying. That's boundaries. Sit boundaries to what it is and not allow you to be my kryptonite. You get what I'm saying. Boundaries in kryptonite, Boundaries in kryptonite.

But the boundary ship if they aren't put in place off top, it's kind of hard to implement boundaries after after do it all, y'all do it, do it, They're gonna be upset. It first is going to go through a a goddamn see if I can change your mind. No,

it's not. It's not even about them being upset. It's about the personal guilt that you feel from having to say no, no, don't matter because if you have to chet boundaries, No, I don't agree with that, because if you have to sell boundaries, obviously something wasn't right to begin with. It shouldn't be any guilt with setting the boundaries.

That shouldn't be at ease at that point. But that's how we that's that's that's when your heart becomes your cryptinite because it's like, it hurt me to even have to tell you know, yeah, it hurt me to eat and healthy, standing my truth. Yeah, to set the boundaries like and I would rather be really hurt myself, didn't hurt you. They don't go like that. That's when they've been called crypting, like because in the same thing, if a mother can't respect your boundary and they don't love

you what you love them. Yeah, they're basically saying you anyway, like negga suffer with me, m m funk, how you feel basically right, Yeah, or they're just being selfish. They just want to feel how they feel, like your boundaries is making them uncomfortable, so but they want to be comfortable, so they don't care. Your person can know that you love them so much. They know you ain't gonna do it too what it is, but they willing to accept it.

But they're like, he ein't even to do it. I'm act like I don't want you to do it, so you won't do it. But if you do it, I'm gonna sept it. Yeah, if I really funk, which and I know it's for the better. I know it ain't for no disrespect you. I know it's for the better you. It's like damn that nigger book. I gotta respect that's the truth. Like I gotta respect it because that's what she is. Was Mothercker. Know it's something good for you, but not they ain't gonna make them feel good, so

they'll try to buck. Then you buck. It'd be like you know what, I see what you're saying when you buckok, not when you just buck and then got them negotiat. Yeah, you say, ain't goddamn. I want my own spot, but I'll sell it. Come over here to night. Nah, I want my own spot, and I'm gonna come here when I want to come there, not when you got them. You know what I'm saying. I want to take my ship and now I got my shirt over here. But I got my shot. I got come on and get

my ship, take the show. I got do this and to make shot brain close in and I no, I stay here. Yeah right, if you don't set them up, and then it's it's no struck. Give you no structure? How to plan work? Can't none work in the plan without structure, right right? So so that were weird relationship that don't be in relationship with feelings only no structure, no boundary. Now that ship ain't going nowhere, just emotion all over the plate doing whatever. Who help feel or

whatever they they feel? We're not getting big, but don't destructure after align with not just jumping up and changing the boundary. You can't do Hey man, I can jump and changing the every day if that would that wouldn't feel like it need Okay, I got you? How you

how you? How you? How you push it forward? Because if you were somebody and they're changing the rules of y'all agreement every day, Yeah, even though it's your achilles heal, your weakness is like, well, you can't just keep changing this ship to the point where I don't even know you know more, bet you said for better work you. I'm going through something. I'm changing this ship. I'm going through something. Man scream coming from gym and out part

of me. Yeah, I'm not the gym. I'm not the gym without by the way, Yeah no, you know what I'm saying. You're coming from, Like, yeah, it's cool to respect battles and change, but y'all, motherfucker change. They can't change that every day it did not even be not even sure. Let me tell you the frustrated about to change. You adapt to the change, except the change, and then they change again. Added you for why you even change? You know that's me. I ain't gonna lie that, damn.

And then they're trying to respect you by trying to adapt to your change. But then now, you man, he need change for real, Like, bro, I ain't really changing that part. I was in change, but I wouldn't rather try to change that part like and then he'd be mad, like how there you're supposed be my back bone? How the funk you let me change? You know? Damn? Well, don't let them change. They will go nuts. So they will go, Kanye, they will go big bang. Yeah, you

have to let them live. But you got another one thing about it. When whoever you get, you know, you know you met you know what you got when you met this person. It was like I was in decisive about where I want to take you on the first date. So you know that I'm at ordersome food. I thought I liked it. I ain't like that order some ship. I didn't really eat ship. You see the signs on

the board right right away, because you see that. You know what I'm saying from the beginning, don't like what you like about me, and then I can't deal with you don't like about That's some boys. Yeah, that's that's what I'm saying. That's like saying, okay, we all. You're saying, don't like what you don't like about me, and then like what you don't like and then what follow me followed me. That's for sure that that part is correct.

I feel like Kanye and Kim. I feel like Kanye like she really did no matter what he said, I wanted thee when I'm hardly whatever he did. I feel like he chose you to be hys therapist to me. And if you signed up to be hys therapist. You ship to me what he is. But you just said on that end, you can change the rules when you want to. So that's means the other person can change the rules when they want to. If you was already in decisive like me, don't start trying to trying to

goddamn match my energy. If that's not you, that becomes your No, don't know. And in the relay you noticed in the relationship you're going to start to rub off on each other. Some of that ship is a reflection of you exactly, exactly want to exactly. That's all same. I think a lot of times in relationships, it's not that they necessarily don't want to go there for real. I think that they get so blinded by the stuff

that they do like about the person. That's what this ship that they don't you think you can change it, not not even necessarily thing you just changing in. It becomes so around each other's like, I can't continue to ignore this ship. I can't. Yeah, the real feelings and how you feel about this person kind of slide out because bring it to their That's what I was trying to say this whole time, because I've been this way, and it's like, think I've been ignoring that ship, but

it's been getting on my nerves. And who fault that? You got to know they deal breakers, and who fault that is? You gotta know the deal breakers. I guess it's my fault for ignoring it and I bringing it to your attention and the beginning exactly, so they're gonna say, if you fun with me, fun with me all the way, don't funk with just to shoot you funk with. And then when you you get started, get irritated by the ship. You know you don't sunk with. Why are you even

trying to fun with me anyway? Because I think that because I think I try to tell you in the bi what's kind again? And then if you love her, you will make the necessary changes to keep up from being made all the time. And he told me to be I know. That's what I just saying. If she tell you that, yeah for sure in the beginning, yeah

for sure. Oh yeah, No, that's that's just where it is like, and you say you're gonna work on But I feel like if you tell me that the beginning, I'll be like with it, just me, Yeah, And then you try to say, well, I'm accepted. You gott accept it. Yeah, you can't come that's yeah. But they're not gonna they're gonna say they're gonna said it, But we're gonna, we're gonna set it for the day. Yeah, we're gonna until you get on my nerve enough. Now I'm gonna make

your funk nig because you didn't know. I feel like, but I feel like some people, some people don't necessarily go or get into all of that in the beginning because it's not deep enough for them to address certain issues. How you should you should when somebody don't never know how far it's gonna go. No, I understand that, and

I get that. But some people feel like some people that I know and that I've talked to, when it comes to relationships and ship like that, like they don't, for lack of a better way to put it, want to open that can of worms that early. Why that's that's that's the worst ship in the world. It's the best time to open the can. Yeah, it's so I can see. Man, what you gotta do with niggas is you gotta let the nigga do what it is he do,

so you see exactly what you want to do. Sure, do what you do, then you can access assess if you can deal with it. You can't come in telling nigga's what you don't like, because nigga is gonna try to adjust to what you don't like, but still be doing with a lot of niggas. But a lot of niggas too. When you come in telling the nigga what you're doing, don't like a lot of niggas look at

it like, man, it's bit on my back. I'm not going to deal with this ship yes, or if he's really fun with you, he gonna act like something, act like this bitch one. You feel like I need to come in out, so I'm gonna start colling it out. But then I think it ain't what you're saying. I think it's livery to people can determine a whole lot of stuff facts. Yeah, and especially us because we're tend to tout at each other into intu to each other. Yeah,

black people, black people, yea. From the place of defense. When we started the conversation, I wanted to respond back to what you were saying. When he was like um with somebody and the woman she said she accepts something and then later on she tried to change it. I don't think that they necessarily try to change it. I think, and she say like, okay, I'm accept this part of

your this flaw of you. At that point when you notice that it's bugging her, I think she wants you to take into consideration that, Okay, it's affecting her now. So I want to make this change for myself. How is me? How people? Because it's like we know that our people are against like our people, and like when you see it, like so with knowing that what are you wanting to do? Knowing that what are you want

to do that? Knowing that your people are scared and your people I feel like if I told you this is who I am, and I continue to show you this who I am, you start geting frustrated about that's your issue. That's how I feel. But then you can't feel like you would love me enough to change me. Yeah, I do not necessarily love what is it? It's like, okay, if I love you enough to accept you for all your flaws, for all this time, with every time it's been, and then you know how that's a flaw to you,

not me. I got the only way to being flaws. If it's a flaw that makes me worse than I am, that's what the flaw is necessarily, because you can be flawed. Its fun and you not know this your own flaws and everybody else around you noticed them, and a lot of people don't tell you about your flass, so naturally

they're significant. Other will be the person that to put it in your face, like, Okay, everybody else around you may not be telling you this, but it you really flawed and it's affecting them, but they're not telling you. But I'm gonna be the one to tell you that's different. That's different, that's different, that's different. Always have but you trying to be like a flow of exa. You should watch how you do liver that dumb meassic. Yeah, black is flawed and you is his woman, then you shouldn't

know experience some weeks. So it should be calculating how to see it, how to brain into one where he get it, because because if it comes out the wrong way, it's gonna but you already have like most geminis, right,

most geminis are very defensive. So if a person brings something to you because I know a lot of times for me, I bring something to somebody and I could be like very like thinking about homma said how much, how it's gonna come out, how you can perceive it, and I can say it to you and you can still take it as me trying to bash you. And then now how you come at him is going to

at the time, and how he's gonna yeah, exactly. What's some things you say like non negotiable things just for example, or like okay she feels if she feels like this, ain't she feels like I want you to drink. Drink That's what I'm saying. I'm something about like something that you're just not gonna change, or telling me I'm just grown whatever. How I dress like your clothes, like why you come outside like this man? You don't give a funk, You ain't shoot everything. How does the flow that ain't

gonna flow? That? Who I am? Let's take that one of how you dressing on what if at this point she see you as like, nah, you're a mogu, you're hold, you're mobile, and your boss and it's a lot of people that look at you in a way that you don't look at yourself, So you need to walk out and carry yourself like yourself as me. So, yeah, if she's my woman and I'm on a different pause west collosition, that's who's supposed to tell me that? Exactly right, you're

right about that. They're still that's still, that's change. Don't mean that, don't mean not happen. But she's trying to change you for the better. Exactly how does for the better? How does for the better when we gave them up? Are they already mean that? Walk around? The motherfucker a new balance? But I might be one of them kind of niggers, cheap turn it out outfit. But how how how I address it? How are I dress gonna make

you look? Make people feel like I'm something different? I go to a board me just like this, because that's something that's who Bank is so basically telling me I need to put on the front. No, no, that's not that's not making me. Okay, I got another one to me. Let's say you this bank, right, A lot of people look at you and then they let's say that they look at you as he's not approachable. I don't know bank and bank, and from my understanding, Bank could be

him won't he stick? You don't want people around him, you know what I'm saying. And then your woman see you like, Okay, y'all doing big facts and we're going to bigger, bigger meetings and all that. I don't I know that them people may look at you and be defensive. They may and they don't want to place. So she's telling like, Okay, instead of you wearing your gym clothes every day just when you had those meetings, how about you just put your jeans on in a collar shirt

so then those people will be more everybody. But but but that's everybody. That's that's still a amount of opinion because I feel like, nigga, if you're the nigga that's getting the work done, I'm footing your what you look like, what you got on? You got that dope, nigga, you got it. That's how I look at it. That's true, that's how I think. I think that. So I think the situation as a look at Tad Turner, everybody who comfortable and I want to put it on that. So

both ways, it's still opinionated. The difference is he's saying this is who I am. So if you really love a person you're supposed to make again a conscious suggestion, Hey, I think you should do this with If you don't, I still love you. Thank you. That's you, and then and then and then and then when you and then when you, when you, when you do that, like babe, this is what I think. But and and then I say what I say. If you accept that, that's gonna

make me go back and think about it. Probably you don't accept what I'm saying, like this just me, that's gonna make me stand up. But if you like I'm just saying because that's what it is. And then I actually feel like she just said that could that's I'm gonna take it. I'm gonna take it in there. That's right, right, that's that's if you got everything like then I tell you got it started. It's fun. You need my shoe And it's kind of crazy because most women don't understand that.

Yeah that's that's that's like really game, yeah yeah, really to get somebody to do what you want to common common all ra ra ra ra, it ain't gonna come out because the you're gonna be rebellious from the rip jet to see how you take it, Like if I disagree with you, like, bro, I'm telling them books they never left. I'm gonna show him sitting to you. But it's like if I if you come to me and change my mind of something immediately, you can get me

to see yeah, I see. I mean you can tell it to me and not taking are like what babe, No, this is what I do. Depending on how you take. My initial response is what it's gonna be. If you'd be like, well, I ain't trying to start an argument. I'm just telling you because me and my person at work told me, and my sister was saying the same thing, like he need to start dressing like this because he's bigger than what he thinks. Okay, cool, I'm gonna take that in and now if you never say it again,

over that, and then I might start putting it. I might start whining, implement like certain things. I get there. But you at my own time though, yes, you ain't been to change to who you want me to be. You ain't no motherucking barbarie dog kind or even to do what. You know what I'm saying, that's just everybody wanted their free will. You know what I'm saying, everybody want free will. Don't want to feel like I've seen this woman say. One time they asked her, they said,

how do you wreck your husband? She said, I don't, but I think that I have earned the right to give what's card opinion, Dan, he will check itself. Yes, that's just said what it is. That's what it is like, throw it out there. And and and I'm I'm I'm because she said, I don't want to take his man who from him? That's all I'm saying. That's all I'm saying, like a nigga, a nigga, stay in the wrong yet

to show your right. But you but if you're showing me like I'm coming from a place, because you gotta feel like it's coming from a place of love, Yeah, you gotta fe it's gotta feel like it might be yourself. Yeah it might be coming from a place of love, but I don't feel it. And she's coming from a place. And you're trying to change me. Are you trying to be my mama or some ship? It's gonna be my initie. But then when I started seeing like I tried, I'm not even on even that you see, I tried. I

put it. I actually put on a suit and going to me, and I see how the folks respond different. But you know the beautiful thing you can show that a little bit like you was right, I put on this suit, But I don't that it depends on like you said, has has received how you taking in? Yeah, I have another follow up question for y'all as men, because now we talked about how y'all would perceive things.

If like a woman saying anything to you, But what about if you go to your girl and you're like, all right, I don't want you dressing like this no more. I think you should dress like the how she's supposed to take that and she supposed to be stick like you are, Like, what the are you trying to change me? I've been like this, it's the same thing. It's delivery, it would be the same thing. Yeah. I mean you're got some men that just feel like, no, like if I tell my woman to do something she needs to

be doing. But as a man, I feel like me person, I feel like, you know, you give your wife ship, your girl stuff, so I feel like, just buy what you want the well, she's gonna put it off, but sometimes she might buy what she wanted. And if it's a problem with you, it still falls up on the how you were Scott to tell her. I don't even there what you were really. I'm just saying, like, but if I want to come out of any kind of way, but I'm not here, but I don't even be with

the woman I ain't to be around. You gonna come out of that any kind of way, right, true? You know it won't be I took your out fine time. You ain't want none of that ship like that? Yeah, so you start some ship like they're like that the first day I see you with it, like yeah, oh yeah, but that's what you're saying. Okay, we'll go ahead around her during the winter. Now it's hot girl summer. Now she'll here booty out and yeah, yeah you know that

one a closet. Yeah, you don't see what allounge allounge like that. That's how you got to deal with him. Yeah, if she liked that, that's how you got to deal with But yeah, if you just don't like the way she dressed like that, then you got to deal with the how she dressed exactly. Because you can't change nobody man, not unless they want to. But you get hint to him. That's basically you said you could throw it out there.

How they take it is how they take it, but you can't take it person if they don't take it your way exactly. Yeah, but you what y'all saying, What about when you see that it's upsetting her? Yeah, okay, that's cool too. But al told you that I ain't standing on that bid then, so how how did that upset you? If something like you're working or not even working, like how she feel about um, you're hanging out laid or you doing something thing she feels like she's not

getting enough quality time or something like that. He was like the person, that's the person you met. Yeah, that's but that's what I'm saying. You know, you like banker saying, you know what you're getting into. People sometimes try to recreate their mental Yes, I want to change this now. That's all I'm saying. I ain't saying they're trying to be no got them as whole or whatever whatever. Whatever.

We can have a conversation about timmy, how you feel about it, and if I tell you, I'm gonna give you a reasonable explanation, like well you be all time? I'm like, well, okay, that's when I get my money or that's when the studio is over. That's when whatever, that's what screen you want to record? Big facts? What do you want me to do? I'm gonna stop my purpose for you. I can't eventually. I love you for

a living and that's the truth. I can't co it's you that that interrupt I can't convince you of that that I can't pay my bills off that. And then if that ship starts to still get on your nerves, it's like you don't give a funk about then, but how I make you feel? Yeah, definitely, then that's it.

Then it's trying to reassess the situation. Yeah, right for sure. Yeah, and then listen, Yeah, in conversation again coming from a place of love, and then the conversation just has to be real if it gets that serious in relationships we just speaking in general, if you get that serious, then some people grow apart, you know what I'm saying. If it gets to the point sometimes like well been real dreads like you said, you know what I'm saying, like,

people grow apart. Yeah, yeah, but you know this ship there for me, like there's big facts. I love this ship me. So we got a big jest in the building, salute. Man, you know what I'm saying, drop some gems. We're gonna get three a porn star girlfriends watching the point right now. We got point in the little corner that got there. He really got his phone on front of the camera, act like he's working when he watching on the thumbnail and three oh man the night. Well, you know what

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