BIG FACTS FRIDAY- Idolatry

up everybody? What's had? Everybody good? That's good? Everybody smiling. Kodak already drunk, so y'all excuse him in advance for his I'm going to get drunk because I'm somebody got a baby bottom. I'm yeah, good baby. You always fresh, but you're a fresh shirt today man fresh? Oh? This this this straight out of Detroit. Okay, how you pronounced? I think it's like harryggerio ut. Yeah, what's up j what we're doing today? Yeah? Okay. So the word of the day brought to our good brother Bank and I'm

gonna give him his appreciation. Give later in the back. Uh yeah. Um. The word of the day is idolatry. And idolatry is extreme admiration, love, or reverence for something or someone, and reverence is a deep respect for something or someone. And a possible example is worshiping an idol or a person other than God. So you said idolatry is or somebody, Well, you have no idolize somebody because you know, technically, to most people, God is supposed to

be the highest almighty. So when you put somebody on a pedestal and idolize them as much as you would idolize this said God person, then technically that is idolatry. Okay, So what's some examples of I guess some people that people idolize. John Lennon has beets really idolatrized, Cardi B got him. All these big pop stars, rap stars, they all have fans out are just crazily they dedicate their hold life to them. Sometimes people just your own life too,

should your parents. So speaking of that parents and idolizing that brings me to my sub word of this discussion, which is the Oedipus complex. And who don't know? Okay, So for those of you guys who don't know, the Oedipus complex is the textbook definition is the obsessive attachment of a child to the parents of an opposite sex while showing envious and aggressive behavior towards the parent of

the same sex. So, just to break it down even further in Layman's terms, UM, I know y'all have probably seen this, maybe in person or like in like a movie or some ship where like the daughter matter of fact eaves by you. Has everybody seen he's by you? You remember how the oldest girl was like this with

um Martin fish not Martin Fishburn, but yeah, her dad. Yeah, And it was like it was it was so they were so close until it was weird, like not trying to be on a d ship, but it was like damn, you would think like they were fucking like they had some ship going on with them, Like, but she was so angry with her mother. It was almost kind of like she hated her mother because she wanted her father

type ship. And that's like what happens like with the Oedipus complex or whatever, And it happens a lot with like the male child too, because the male child is so close and involved with the mother. Just like shout

out the spiritual word. They had to post the other day where they were showing like text message threads, and in the threads, the guy was going back and forth with this girl that he had just started dating, and he asked her something and she taught him like he was being ridiculous or some ship, and he was like, fuck you bitch. I don't need any of you hos as long as I got my mama, Like like, yeah,

it's like some crazy ship. So like, I don't know if y'all have ever personally experienced or seeing it, but that's like my prime example of idolatry, like when the adepants complex sets in. So I guess in the conversation is like when when is idolatry okay? But when is it not okay? Like what do you mean safe safely? It's just like you look up to athlete, a rapper

or whatever the case is. It can be cool, but if you're trying to model yourself after them, and let's say they going to the path or do some bullshit, like people be saying they're not role models, right, so they don't make me a role model. Ain't perfect, but this person idolizes this person, So whether they're doing good, they're trying to do good like them, or whether they're doing some messed up stuff, they're trying to do some missed up stuff like that. That's when idolatry can go bad.

Right when you're idolizing and trying to model yourself after somebody that's leaning you down a bad path, then the idolatry is bad. But I feel like in order for and this is just my personal opinion, in order for somebody to idolatry somebody, they have to have some sort of either insecurity or social disconnect that will allow them to not want to be themselves and to model their entire life after another person other than kids kissable. That's

what I'm saying. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. But get the pass people that try to permanently emulate another person. That's like a problem for me. There have been some people that go as far as getting plastic surgery to look like some of these people, like Kim Kardashian is one of the people that are like, they getting surgery to look like her. So it goes beyond trying to be a fan of somebody, you want to be actually be this person. Yeah, and that's something is not clicking upstairs.

So so far far audience or for the audience, how close is then there might be a thin line. How close is idolatry to just Dick riding right there? There's right there, right there all the time, right there, all the time. I feel like idolatry and did writing two different things, because when you're Dick writing, you're just like, you're just trying to get close to this person and you want to get this parts some props. Idolatry means

you want to assume this person's identity. If somebody was trying, if somebody cut their hair, like Bank got go to you dressed like like Bank legal, that's idolatry. But it broke it up. I thought I was just just it's celebrity work. That's what we're gonna put it there. That's what we're gonna put it. That's what I'm saying. I was just gonna say. Idolatry is just like the admiration for somebody you don't necessarily want to have to be

somebody talking. Idolatry is extreme though, yeah, but a dream admiration, Like for example, it's a lot of people that like have extreme admimiration for Obama. People are not trying to be Obama. But if they do, they love this man exactly. Yeah, that's different though. That's why I was being quiet because it's like, yeah, it's two different things. A dollar try could immulate deep right, exactly true, But I could idolize a person in a way that makes me a better

person to respect. That's what I'm saying, in a respectable way where it's like I'm gonna get on my ship like so and so, I'm gonna get on my ship. They'b doing this, They'll be doing that to get on my show. Admiration. Yeah, it's still it's the same family again, but that's not extreme though. If you if you're just saying this person is inspiring me to want to do more for myself, what's admiration? What what is the admiration? It's kind of like, did just look like whatever she

did two weeks? It's like being very fond of somebody admiration, But idolizing is like you look up to It's kind of like what people do that. For example, if you have like a celebrity that comes from your neighborhood and you want to do the same ship that they're doing, and then this person then put a blueprint out there, like I didn't want to this school. I didn't did this. I don't want to beat you, but I want to beat where you are. Yeah. Yeah, this didn't say you

have to beat somebody. I don't don't say I want to be this person. I just have averations. I feel like y'all just added it's an extreme admiration, love or reverence of someone or something that's deep respect, deep respect for someone or what or what. Worshiping an idol or person other than God. The just say worshiping, and they don't mean I want to be that person if you worship.

But I'm just saying you'll kill yourself about that. Worship people worshiper sit there and go bout worshiping Beyonce because I ain't trying to kill himself over Beyonce. I think it's some people that stuff about you did kill themselves. You don't think people to worship no other person? No, I don't know people. Do people worship their parents? I want people worship their parents. Okay. Worship is like on your knees, worship your God. You know what I'm saying,

like praying to the person all you believe. Yeah, yeah, that ain't going on, but is it probably is going on. That's an extreme worship. I have extreme admiration. What's admiration? Version have extreme admiration for my wife's healthy. So but I don't worship her. No, No, extreme admiration and marriage is a key component of longevity. So but I'm saying I don't want to beat her neither. We never said

you wanted to be herd. But that what y'all said, dollars is that's what y'all just dollar you know what I'm saying. Oh God, I don't know if y'all got the word right. Man, I feel like I can't be teaching. Y'all don't know you send the definition. I said the word, so you're double check it, right. I ain't think I ain't seen that worshiping God. But if you were doing the words, because the worst is your job, if you were doing the words, you will never have to say

that again. I'm just saying. But at the end of the day, we won't get what. We'll talk about this because I said the word lading life. So if you I'm not gonna do this, is it okay to have okay? Him in the grapes? We gotta cut out breaking it down. Is it okay to have an idol like a young kid might idolize Lebron. Yes, I think that that's positive. Like when does that? Was my next question? When does

it become not healthy? And when did you when you become when you start stalking this person, when you try to like figure out where this person is, every goddamn dead, that's eminem and stand just to say that that's exactly what about weirdo? That ship went too far? Words? That's the word. What's the word word? The word word is some ship that Dick riding. Y'all making up ship. But this is what I'm saying. He wasn't that. I feel like, I feel like you actually be with that. But he

was that one. I don't think that's dick right man. That man was obsessed. That's what he was gonna ride all coundar gonna riding. Dick riding is a low fat version of idolizing. Nah the fat I think dick riding it's like, yeah, you don't check, you get exactly if I he on this person. Yes, Dick Rogers can ride innthing where he's dedicated to idolizing person. It's stuck on there just one nigger? What is faith drake, fake countdar fake dirt right phones, you're not let make a trolleying

and get bad you that movies all the time. I don't even want to be my gay. That's the fat party till the shoes. Everything you get pay for that. Kim Kardashian got a couple of clones out here that they pay it. She probably like, get on my No, they pay people for that in movies. You have different, that's movie. That's I'm just saying it's frolent. I don't think that that's big riding. You choosing to life? No, you not. They still can't choose to live that life.

If somebody get pay for time each and every time, if each and every time we came to say Kodak started to be a little more like you will, Dick did because he know me, my man, my man, that didn't. But if Kode was somewhere did different. Somebody that you don't know, you've been wronging full times. I've been counted a chat a dick rider. Niggas get called dick riders because other people that are around them feel like you dick riding Nick, and you don't even know him. Am

I right and wrong? But giving the nigga d day they call it anything did right? Getting the props to run? Yeah, they called me a right all the time. That's what I'm saying, So you can't say what. What I'm saying is that idolize, idol, idolatry, and dick Ride to me is not the same, not in the same family that I feel like it to me because I feel like a dick Rider is a person that just like she said,

she changed, he changing the fat. But somebody that idolatry and of dick ring, please please, I feel like somebody idolize the person. You just idolizing that person. Yeah, you're stuck on this now. If you see a nigga trying to be full five different niggas, he's a Dick Rider person though, but idolize it doesn't have time to focus

on anything else. I don't know. That's what I'm kind of quout on this subject because I don't know, but I feel like, I mean, personally, if if a person is idolizing the person, they want to be that person. If a nigga is Dick Ryan, he want to be whatever. Papa. Yes, I feel like He may be a dedicated Nick Rowder. He just may have this one person that he wanted. Dick right, really really so much, are really so much of a fan of this person? This is who I

want to model my life half You got that three? Yeah? What is it? Person to get noticed approval? Approval from that person, approval that different person idolizes somebody necessarily meet that person rights stuck on you, like for the rest of my life. Dick Riders don't even like you, just want to be around you to get your cloud off of you. And you know what I'm saying, just to be a want of use your idolizes you. Was probably

too nervous to even be in your presence. But they just wanna They just wanna be every aspect of your life. I look, I look at like you think talking about idolatry like safe athletes for example, right it's probably doing it in hospital tattoo. So it's somebody in high school right now. I probably look up to Lebron James that probably with that nigga number. He probably studied all this nigga moves. That's not Dick. Yeah, I don't think that's

Dick Rush, that's he. That's that's what they're gonna say. In the so so so y'all with Dick Ryan Joy, No, that's what That's what Gibody somebody was in the hood is. You can say that your joy he was talking like joy, walking like joy like he was doing the whole joy. Yeah, but join embraced him though, right, proper thing is he idolized. Still that's the proper right. But in the hood, you know that's true. Y'all know that's the truth. I'm not

saying this right, y'all, just know that certain ship. Don't you your body look good? You on the dick like anything. I'm saying that they're not playing what they're not playing in the hood. If you give anybody any type of endearment, natural haters, Yeah, yeah, so we just hating on each other.

That's what it is. You got some new shoes, Dick, right, like bro I like him just about his shoes because I just said, it's you nice a studio with brod doing even though this nigger can take you up out there. You're on the studio of brot Ryan is dicking ship and we're over here, man, Wait what you're doing. That's how they think I'm not saying, come on and be broking up with us. Yeah, yeah, don't get no money food,

but you want to be somebody the nerve. I feel like you know when the nigga color, Yeah you definitely you know the nigga pulling that yankee, that mother pulling im prominence to the well I got big. So that's a clear example of Michael Jordan and um kovid idolatree right, like not no funny jokes and ship. That's that's what that is. Whoever, I don't know Beyonce and Chloe. I guess you could say that that's a good one. My idol and I got to do my idol did business

with her and idolize. Yeah, because Kanye spoke, he really really talking about but yeah, he he pulling out too much of his own ship. Yeah, he pulling out he said, too many trends to be a deck, right, like when he went around jay Z. Even though idolize you, I'm still hipping you. I'm still breaking down barriers with my ideals with you, like you don't see, Like we've seen different documentaries and with with j were like man Snicker

is a genius. Like yeah, so Kanye, he brings something to the table that I can't be on your deck when I know what to do. Yeah, if the nigga gives you props, it's impossible for you to be on his dick if he if he, if he not knowledges and respect your point of view and whatever it is that you are bringing to the table. That's not that's not reverence for jay Z. But he came in with his own ship day Lane. It's the wrong words. Pause

a dollar tree. So what I want to talk more about this Oedipus complex though, because this is like a uh, this is like a big thing, especially like recently, like on Instagram and Twitter. So what do you like? How do y'all feel about that? And do y'all know anybody that acts like that? Because I know I do. I think it naturally happens, though I think naturally. Oh, you know, a woman, a girl gravitation towards their father. It's a certain love they can get from their father that you

can't get from the same. Yeah, I'm I love my daddy too, but I'm not like with like. But who are we to say? Well, no, I mean everybody everybody is first as they love different. Then what is it when um they say, like for a little girl, her first love should be her man, I mean should be her dad. The first love from a man should be her dad and her dash a teacher, like you know

how a man is supposed to love you. Such the woman, the little girl first person she's in love with is normally her dad because the dad normally is the person that shows her and how to mode the type of man she should have. So what is that mm hmm, is that I've never really grasped the whole concept of love versus and love, so Y'll have to talk. I don't know love. So when you when you love somebody, that means that you care for them. Okay, So here's

the thing with with love and being in love. So when you love somebody, it's like that means that you care for them, That means that you want to see the best for them. That means that you know, like nine times i'd attend, you're probably not going to do anything to cross them, my harm them. But when you're in love with somebody, that's when those intense emotions come in. And when you're in love with somebody, that's when it opens the door for those in love feelings to turn

to envy and hate depending on which direction the relationship goes. Okay, you explain, but that so you can't so you can be in love with a family member or I thought in love was relationships, it loves, That's what I'm saying. Most primarily in love has to do with relationships and people that you're romantically involved in. And that's why. But love can't be with your parents. It should it shouldn't be. That's why I say I never understood love. Love to me,

I don't. It's a different I'm gonna just say like, I don't know if it's proper or not, but for me, I am in the highest love I could ever be with my mom and my daughter. So however you want to put that wherever, I'm in love with my daughter, anything that goes on, I'm completely tired of. I don't feel I feel like we're just using the word and I feel like in love become with intimacy. I feel

like unconditional love is what you're saying. However, the highest love whatever, the highest love for your parents and your for your mother and your daughter, and I feel like to be in love you have to be intimate. We just said that, like five minutes. That's what they just said. And I just can't understand what. I don't really I just be blocking Jay now. It sounded like, but that's

exactly what she it is. You gotta be you gotta be into me to be in love to me, That's what and that's why it's so easy for what you think love ship to go the Okay, there will be nothing what you mean what you mean by that? What am my kid? You know? I like that and say it again. I feel like you're gonna have to be there will be no cheating If that was the case. People cheat too much. Is everybody in love every time they cheat? You got to think about that. No, no, no,

no no. I get what you're saying. I get what you're saying. You're saying, but just because you being intimate, nothing, no mean you're gonna be in love with a person. I feel like to be in love, you have to be intimate. But every time you was intimate, was you in love? No? But you no, no, no, but but I ain't never been in love with the motherfucker. I wasn't intimate with either. I feel you because I would have to give a funk about you in order to

be intimate with you. Yeah, we're saying, we're saying the samething to but she said just a fun yeah exactly, but that's still intimate. Yeah. But I'm saying, but I ain't in low there but the fun, that's what she's saying. But in order to be in love you, you're gonna have to know whether or not. Yeah, And that's that's where That's where. That's what I was saying. Makes it so easy for the in love ship to go left.

Because when you're intimated, when you're involved, and when you're romantically doing stuff with a person and they do something that you feel like violates you, that love can turn to hate like that. But when you love somebody and it's generally not intimate or whatever, then you are able to work through your disagreements without it turning into some negative ship that would make you want to harm them. That's why I just people say in love with the

puppies and ship. I don't get it. That's what I'm saying. I never love you know the difference between just leaving it out of that. I'm just saying, I have somebody, people, you're so in love with my puppy, like I would think they're not being incident with them. That's true. But okay, do you feel like the truth I'm so in love I'm saying, I'm that's true. Person can't love you too much? Yeah? Yeah, so is that when they love you too much? Is that them being in love with you? I think that's

the man obsessively in love with you, sessive belief. Obsessively you know that wouldn't be obsessed with you? Right? Yeah? Now, I agree. I just think with somebody too much in love with somebody else or something else, it's unhealthy. It's not a love of love for theirself. You gotta have a balance, Like they say that is cool, But don't love somebody else to the point where you ain't, where you neglect yourself. You feel like when a person is it in love with you, that they love you more

than they love themselves. I don't understand that a love. I can't answer that. Do you feel like when a person is in love with you, that they love you more than they love themselves? Yes? Is that ever a good scenario? Though? So love somebody more than you love yourself? Like, what if they hold if they hold you to the highest regard. I'm something like would have like between the parent and the child. They can't say a parent and

the child because a parent creative the child. So it's like there's no limitation to the love there because like I actually I made you, and you know what I'm saying, Like, but when you come to like relationships and all that other ship, it's like it's a it's a thin line that person hold you at though you know this aproach and hold you to the high regard. How do they higher than you even hold yourself? It's like, shit, you help me love me through through You know what I'm

saying is that's give you're the other person. But if I love you, if I love you more than you love yourself, then that's a positive thing because like beautiful things can come from that because I'm gonna help you learn. I'm gonna try to help you learn how to love as best as I can. But if I love you more than I love me, then that is not okay. But wouldn't that be with that same example, wouldn't that

be the other person? What you like? You just said that when the person that says, um, I love you, right, I love you more than you love yourself, right, that's a good thing because I love you more than you love yourself. But for the other person on the other on the flip end, they're like, you love me more than I love myself. That makes me love myself more. Yeah, that's what. Me loving you more than you love yourself

is a beautiful thing because I'm gonna nothing. Only positive shape can come from that if it doesn't go too far. But me loving you more than I love me, Like, that's that's like I'm taking away from me to love you more, and that's not that's not a positive thing. How does that relate to somebody saying I'll die for you. I'm just curious. See that's the same thing, because it's

like I love more than I love myself. Because you if you, if you, if there's nobody in the world that you love that you sacrifice your life for, it's like you're not like you really love. Like I ain't know when the fun up in the seat. Something happened to a few people in my life before. I not let it happen to me first. Like we've about the wreck, we've spend around Spressway. I'm taking my seat that off to grab her to get in front of she hit

her head on the win. She looks ship, I rather hit mines, not saying that I love you more than but I can't I can't see it happen to you when I can't avoid it, and something that I can do. But in that same instant, you do love that person more than yourself at that time because protector that he'll be able to take it, take it better. That's what comes with that. Like, So in order to be really in love with somebody you and be a real protector, you have to love them more than you love yourself.

Is that is that generally something that only a man can do? No? Women? No, But I'm saying since men are the natural protectors and are technically supposed to be the protectors and all of that, and that scenario probably, but a different scenario, the woman might be better equipped to handle whatever the situation is that come with it. But that's just like giving a car, like if you

had like a little sister or something. It's just put it in the same way, like you have a little sister and you jump, I mean, you do exactly what he said for your little sister. So it's the same, yeah, for sure, Um, but women do it all the time for me, And though when they specially is like saying, we was talking about a few episodes ago, they if you make her look bad and she and she make an excuse for you or she takes up for you,

it ain't that she loving you more. It's it's like she loved your image more then she give a funk about how she's Yeah, you get what I'm saying. So that's the same thing, basically, right and exactly Motherucker's telling the undergo true, this niggle is a piece of ship. You'd be like not reading it, and you know, hell, piece of ship. What are you saying? He may be a piece of ship, but not appiece ship to me?

Nah nah, But I feel like to even being the type of relationship that that that that that you have to love a person more than you love yourself. Does that come to a certain extent you really helped to you? Does that come with like marriage? So when you decide to marry somebody, it's like both of y'all telling each other like, if the time comes, I love you more than I love myself because I'm gonna protect you. He said, But that was that's in the vows though right to

death of a well through sitness in the hills. If you're gonna part of that, damn y'all give a pouty what just now? It wasn't joke. He said in the vow. It's so that door's part is in the vows. And I was like, if you're all gonna part at death, then just come on, we're going. I feel like you have to love certain people. I'm sorry. What was saying, um about can you get to that point of love before marriage? I feel as I think so, Do you feel like you already at that love once you decide

to marry somebody. Well, some people aren't. A lot of people ain't. That's a good point. I still love them more than what she was saying. You can marry somebody and still not be at that level of love that you that you there's a lot of people out here that are married that I don't really feel. Yeah, it's a bucket list thing for some people. That's a whole another episode. Love. It is on the bucket list. No marriage, marriage,

there's just one of those things. Just got to have a wedding, you know what I'm saying that though I'm saying it's on their bucket list. It ain't. That's why sometimes not blaming it on the girls, but sometimes it don't work out because it's not because it's forced, right, it's a thing they want to experience rather than the thing they want to commit to. M interesting perspective. Another episode idolatry. That's a good run though, so being uh,

being transparent to our audience. Is there who who do? It's people you're idolized. Yeah, not dick ry, but idolize. I have people that I like. I have a few people that like I love to death and that you know, like when we're talking about the love ship, that I feel super strongly about and that I want to protect in all of that ship. But as far like idolizing the nigga didn't look at I don't know who the person was. You didn't look at it. You might not

a quickly like a Janet Jackson or open. I don't know anybody. Like there's nobody that you ever idolized, like I thought they were cool, right, but you didn't think word? But I did. I didn't, you know what I'm saying. I didn't feel like I didn't I felt like I appreciated what they were doing and I appreciated like what

she did. Like take Opra for instance, Like I appreciated like what she did and how hard she worked to earn the money that she made to be able to make the moves that she was making to take care of her family, and but it wasn't a situation where like I was trying to emulate Oprah. Like, yeah, I can say that I've been inspired by men, but I ain't never idolized nothing. Not even know my parents. But I've had extreme admiration for a lot of people. But

idol just seemed like a heavy word. Yeah, Like if I just want to be you, I ain't never want to be Jordan was a superhero. I don't know what that mean, but I did think that Nigga was like superhuman to like, he's my favorite. He's my favorite, but I ain't. I don't want to play right. He's my favorite basketball nigga. But I don't want to be you. I don't want to talk like you. I don't want to be I ain't nether nigga. I wanted to be Yeah, I did when I was a kid. I ain't gonna

lie to y'all. I want to I idolized Lauren Hill and Erica, but I do. I swore by them being my lesbian parents. I am Lauren Hill's egg and ericabot to his body, Like I swear to you, like I really really really like everything that they did. When I was a kid, I was so into like even how I dressed a lot of that, Like I really idolized Erica. But I do, like I ain't gonna lie as a kid,

you know, grown that later trying to be now. I mean once I met them, like once I've seen them out just like, okay, they dope, Like that's a dope. But I ain't still down my phone looking for him now. But middle school, high school, yes, I was doing that might be healthy at that age, beah, honest, I don't know.

I can't journey. Whose journey I did in mind is definitely after seeing a documentary, and it really opened up to that ship for sure, like going from where he was back then were growing up in Chicago, chasing that ship to who we is now. That ship was inspirational, that's the key word. I think it's an inspiration and the idol is different. But I think you have to have parallel but they're different. Yeah, because sometimes people don't have an idolis they they have the idolatry for somebody

just off the aesthetic. Not there's nothing. It's really surface level, like you just want to beat them and beat them, just beat them, you feel me. But like when when somebody inspires you, that can also be a dollar free. But you're right by the journey because you may have came from the same spot. You may see some of the same traits you you have within them and you say, damn, that's me, Like I really I see their journey. So if they can do that ship, I can do that

ship too. That could be a part of it. I think that's healthy. But if you just want to be somebody to get plast surgey, look like them, walk like I'm talking like them, you're damn there like a clone. Yeah, yeah, I agree. So what would y'all say to somebody that, because this could be a reality, idolizees y'all, Well, everybody here might have somebody to idolize it. That would it be a family member, a fan, or whatever the cases.

What would y'all say to them? I would say that, um, I really appreciate the level of respect that you have to have for somebody to want to idolize them, but I would encourage them to just not like my my m hm dick, but I would like, I would encourage them to take whatever bits and pieces of me that led them to that inspiration and incorporate that into themselves so that they could be their own person with my

little bits and pieces, the best version of themselves. Yeah. Me, I feel like if a nigga gets any type of have any type of admiration, or get any type of what you call it inspiration for me, they already know like, I ain't a neig to idolize. I'm just a nigga. I can learn from a pick up ship from and then nigga and got it out. He ain't gotta figure it out either, you know what I'm saying. So if you if you're watching me, watching my journey, follow me, you know like I can't. I can't mimic that a

nigga can try to change. Nigga can't try to be something different, So you can't idolize somebody. It ain't even fully all the way in. You get what I'm saying. So you've been damn food. I lied me because I'm still trying to figure this you that, but we appreciate. I hope that that me wanted to figure it out. Me showing y'all that I can't do certain things or sit here and beyond TV or lose weight or whatever. Yeah, yeah,

I hope you get inspired by that. But just know, it's just that's just the first level of Yeah, I'm still trying to slice through all that ship, mental ship all that. You know what I'm saying, basically telling them you're human, but sure you might see me like this, but sho, I'm human too, and yeah, get online. I got the same problems as y'all, still have the capacity to funk up, But it's just I'm at a point in the place now in my life to where I'm

able to manage those funk ups a little bit better. Yeah, for sure. But if you have a lot of the coda he had problems shot for me, I just I don't know. I think I'll just tell everybody I'm flawed as fun and I put my pants one leg at a time like everybody else do. And I'm I ain't the one that really just look up to. If you have anything you want to ask, I'm pretty easy as hell, So like you could talk to me. I'll tell you

how I got to me where I'm am. You know what I'm saying, I help you walk you to all that ship. I'm just flawed like everybody else. When I get big, yeah, that's another thing, like go ahead, And I got to say. I feel like when when people look at our dollars, try they try to think, Okay, I gotta copy these stuffs, like I gotta go to school, I gotta work here, I gotta work there. But I feel like with me, it's like, if you wanna do do ship that I did, I can't give. I can't.

You can't follow what I did exactly because we all have different resources. You may not have the same resources that I have, and so you do the same, the exact same thing that I did. It might not work out for you. But I feel like the thing, if you are somebody who's been watching what I've been doing from day one, ship, just don't stop. That's like, whatever you don't, whatever you're gonna do, just don't quit because

people get discouraged. I had a bunch of failures, but the things that made me fail got me here, and I couldn't I would I probably wouldn't be the same person if I didn't get kicked off the football team, if I didn't get fired from my first radio job, if I didn't get fired from tim Z. All that ship was important to get me here. Yeah it No, listen, no let me tell let me tell you what. No, let me tell you I did. But it's it's kind of like if you if you stopped working, you stopped working,

you know what's gonna happen. If you stopped working, you know what's gonna happen. So that's really what where it happened in that situation like that don't asked me to do a bunch of it I didn't agree with, So I just stopped going. So eventually I got a car, you know. But but all that ship, all that ship really led me to get here. So if you are watching this ship that I do, like, you're gonna have some fun up days, maybe a funked up week, maybe it sucked up month. But you can't stop. You can't

live the bad ship that in life happens. The bad ship in life that happens to you discourage you because so did that? Did that background experience traumatize you? Boom? You can't talk about it, and I don't care. You know, you got something that can't The position that we in, we have to give out certain information even if we don't follow it all the way. You get what I'm saying. So you might hear me say some ship, it sounds good, like I gotta figure it out. No, somebody else told

me that, But I ain't some of that ship. I won't be tapped in on it yet. Eiven. I just no better. But sometimes I don't do better. You get what I'm saying. So I don't want to sound you know, I feel like um contradicting myself when I say certain ship. You know what I'm saying, Like I can say all day, you're supposed to do this, so you're supposed to do that. Then turn around you see me online doing this ship

like yeah, and then they just said I'm being fat. Man, you don't do that, but ship, Hey, that's that's let you know. I ain't need to be exactly. I'm just giving a message like yeah, that's what we're supposed to be doing. But hey man, I'm I'm gonna suck up. I'm not saying that I'm doing it. I'm saying I want to do it. Yeah, I'm trying, but I'm just like, you know what I'm saying, I could start smuggling. We've forgotten them too or three months and then I want

to smoke it. You get what I'm saying. So I ain't even get on here me like weird is wrong. You know what I'm saying. I'm gonna saying, Hey, yeah, that are you thinking about. I'm gonna give you the pros and the on counse of ship, right, you know what I'm saying. But that don't mean that I'm always

gonna follow the prosau you're con artists. But for really or now, you have to put that out there because people look at you because you say certain ship and be like even the preachers in the church, even the preachers in the church is like, man, how this nigga saying this and he doing this? He just giving you the message that God's giving him to give you. That don't mean he ain't a whole fuck me when he takes that role bout just because he know the way

on me, he going that way. So that's why you don't supposed to worship people, right, because you can learn ship from anybody. You can learn it from three year old like phoo, my grand babymy timmy granddad. I don't say that, and we're being public. I'm just CUsing say a cusiner, she said, Dad, I don't say that, but I'm taking it is like, damn that is. You get what I'm saying. But I just learned something from a

four year old. I'm looking at it. There's nothing saying it like I'm saying that low but she heard me like, don't say that and it but that's a message coming from a little girl that probably came from God exactly. You get what I'm saying. So you can't just look at the person to feel like I can't learn from this person because of their mistakes, certain circumstances or whatever. Like yeah, that's why I take everything in and use it and see if it matches with my soul. You

know what I'm saying. I take in everything. Give a funk who said I don't dismiss nobody's conversation. They say something to me, I've taken in and see if it aligns with my soul. If it, don't throw that ship out. If you do, I keep it right. You see what I'm saying. Yeah, like you donna know like when when the reject and whatnot, Like you'll be a damned fool to try to reject something that you felt. That's who

we go wrong. Yet, somebody can say something to you and you know you feel it, but due to the to the person it is, you'd be like, I don't know what the fun you're talking about, But bro, you just felt that. So you're gonna dismiss how you feel because of who's saying No, you crazy people do that because they ain't even ready you know what I'm saying. It's easier to do stuff or to be a certain

way where you don't know. But if somebody tell you something and now you gotta hold yourself accountable, people don't be wanting to do no. It all take It all appears on the level of respect you here for the person or how you're taking in. Because Kodak can say something to J and j B like I mean, I can say something j J be like man because she know I'm some bullshit, but Kodak said she's taking in this. Okay, I go with that because code that really don't tell

me ship you get what I'm saying? Black, I always saying something, You get what I'm saying. So it's like I take it in different fromhen Screen said, because I must be fucking up. But bank On te him I'm sucking up, twining foe because he want to be perfect. But Screen pulled into the side and tell me this. It's like, Jay, check yourself. You get what I'm saying.

People gonna receive ship different from whoever they come from, because you I might be telling her Jay, don't drink before you got damn, come on on the show, but then I'm drunk on the show. M you get what I'm saying. So like, but Screen and tell that because he don't drink. Damn. I think that come back though, to that love for somebody else, not more than yourself, but wanting wanting more for them to use something to come back to that. Yes, the same ship with raising kids.

It's like you can tell them something because you don't want to see them do what you already done did, but they're looking at like you it was okay for you. You know what I'm saying, But it was it wasn't okay. But did it already? You know what I'm saying. Yeah, I don't know. I guess what I'm saying. Y'all get what I'm saying. What I'm because I'm counting to the uber and Joe Bird nah, But you know, I guess it's the same thing, like if if I'm a drink, I'd rather look like a food in her Yeah, you

know what I'm saying. I'd rather be in the comment like I'd rather be coming mother to come in like think a bank stupid and me reading it it hurt me more reading it. They saying, Jade stupid. You get what I'm saying, But then that goes back to the screen saying, is that like loving somebody more than you love yourself, like you rather you rather you look crazy versus Jay looking crazy? Because you know what I'm saying. I just know, I just yeah, I can take it.

It ain't me loving her more than I love myself. It's this I don't know how she's gonna take I get on thentrol with them nigga like suck my dick. I couldn't come in and troll with them. She's gonna take it personal and not saying that her personally gonna take She may take it. I may feel like she's gonna take it personal right, or it may do something to her or traumatize or something. So I don't want to see that for her. But me, it's not gonna do ship for me because I know what my choice is.

I know I might be over here stuttering with words or all the goddesses would to say the wrong ship. I don't give it just sain't well I didn't. I didn't. I didn't have dreams of being a podcaster, So I can I can grow in these folks face in their eyes. Yeah, I don't get with them. They see me growing right before the eyes because it's something that I never thought i'd do. This, something going on me so blessing, So I can't come to motherfucking be God them Joe Rogan

the first couple of years of this ship. No, I'm gonna allow myself to grow into the person that I need to be in this ship. If y'all don't like it, fuck what it is? My tripping right now? So how do they go? But some people feel like they're supposed to get it immediately, you know what I'm saying, I'm a podcast to them this and they started to take things personal, especially women, you know what I'm saying. They're

emotional creatures. So if I'm saying, Jay, don't have gone me your mom, like, you know what I'm saying, because I know people reading it come in and they can't wait to bash women and bash people and bash us, bash that black socks with his white shoe. You know what I'm saying. They gotta do that. People gonna do that,

But he don't do it before doing next episode. Yeah, but I'm saying he don't give a funk, But y'all make yeah, and I gotta do to me, I gotta deal with that, seeing that you feel a way about ship that you shouldn't feel a way about. Yeah, it's like protection. I don't know a word. It's a better

word for it. It's not like loving protection over protection, over protection because she may not give a funk for real, but I just may see some ship that I may feel like she should give a funk about and give a funk about it. Yeah, over protection, I like it. That's true. So the word is idolatry and complex is complex. Yeah, I can't speak on that. I ain't never seen them. That is kind of weird, Like when needs to be kissing their grown kids in their mouth and ship own't

and like mama and they. But but a lot of do you okay, so you can't see how people household is raised like a dolt, like a man grown. A man keeps in the old don in the mouth. I don't kiss my daddy the mom. I'm in my daddy in the fucking mouth. I kiss my mom. Ain't the lips that's different. That's that's ain't my lips on them, but my bush. I remember trying to get in their hood, my kids dropping off and school. Don't do that ship, you know what I'm saying, Like you know what I'm saying.

I know they want me to, but they don't want me to at the same time, you get what I'm saying. I mean that's where like a lot of like I think the guys catch it worse than the women when it comes to like the edific ship, because that's where like the whole mama's boy like ship comes in, because it's like we're still on your You're still on your titty ore titty, like get off her tittyig like you know what I'm saying, Because it's like, but then that

also causes a conflict within relationships. But I don't care my grandmother, you you gotta get you, you God wrestl. So you had to get the pass from her, Like I wouldn't be with this girl dish along if my grandma didn't love her the way she did, like because you know it's like if I get sick, I gotta go there my grandma. Bid. I don't give how far we stayed, take me down to her house like this my medicine. I go leve her bid six hours. I'm back Dad. If I got the pneumon you that should

go away. Like so, I guess I had some type of complex when it came out to my grandma. But but it's some situations where like the mother is intertwined into every aspect of the son's relationship and he feels like yeah, and she feels like she knows what's best for him, but what if that's all she should do? So you got some mama haters though, Mama you do with the say you got some, but that's the mama feels like she knows what's best, and so she'll be trying to look for the woman that she wants him

to be with. Some mama's some mama's be feeling like be hating it. And see that this girl actually do love you like I doing the hates exactly, but let's hate though. Of course I ain't saying that as a majority, but that happens you and they do, and they do little spiteful ship. You know what I'm saying? Yes, no, No, I already had said that, my sister's my mama. Everybody like,

I'm not getting in the middle of y'all ship. If you don't like Shanta Chantey, don't like you, y'all figure that out, because I ain't gonna be the peek no side because I'm on both sides. So y'all figuring that out, ain't no call me. And because I know you're doing the ship, she doing the ship. I know what he is. I know my wife's bullshit. I know my sister bullshit. I know my mama's a bullshit. I'm not getting in

the middle of that. Then I gotta pick yeah and she my mama might be right this time, or my sister may be right this or my wife maybe right this time. But then when I say who right, I gotta go home and be wrong. So I ain't even getting in none of this because she will wrong land time. But I ain't say she's wrong, but I said she right. Man, y'all figure that out today. Don't figure that out. They ain't.

Don't call him hearing in it. I can't be in that. Yeah, my my my daughter and my wife, they held disagreement. I would I tell I love both of y'all. Ain't in that though. Y'all figuring that out as women, Because soon as I pick a side, I gotta stay there. You know what I'm saying. One argument, You pick a side, boy, you boy, you your side. I'm not doing that because I learned from experience doing that when you are not possessive as Yes, that's just what it is. The mama possessive,

the child, all possessive aunties everything. We are possessive, especially about the man we love. If it's a man we love, it's like no bit's stay away, the mama stay away. Anybody could take could stay away if they're gonna take a little bit of the love away from me. That's just what it is. So women are gonna always bump heads, and if it's your mama, your daughter, everybody's gonna bump heads. I'm gonna tell you why I do straight in the

divide and conquered ship. I straightened that, like, let let each know, you're not gonna make me love her less. You're not gonna make me love her less. You're not gonna that's not gonna happen. So if you're trying to be spite for the timmy something, that's not gonna work. Right, I'm gonna let you know when you're wrong in that, because that's that's what is it implement me. So whatever y'all got going on, y'all can do that a once, y'all when y'all put me in and I'm gonna let

you know if you're right a wrong. That's the only time I feel that makes sense. Yeah, But the moral of the story is moral story is Yeah, I can't analyze people, man, No, you can't. You can't. You can have an idol, you can't people. You can't worship people, not a person because because you don't see I Like, I've had rappers in the past that I'll be like, it's my favorite rapper, like fun with this knee, I learned somethingm this nigger, and then but when you meet them,

you're like, you ain't need them raps. So that's why you gotta just take the message. You can't take the person. Yea. That's the same way with with with with pastors and podcasts or whatever. Take the message or take whatever it is that you gain. Need people, whatever you learn, need people. Don't try to take the person because the accountable to the message. Yes, because then once you do that, and you start to grow resentment and hatred towards that person

because you they let you. Yeah, you feel like they let you down. How I let you down? I just told you what I said. I ain't saying yeah, but real though, because people hold you to that like, yeah, I hold you took some ship. You just because you read the whole Bible. You know what the whole Bible saying means and you could teach it, don't mean you

live it. That's what people gotta start understood. Yeah, It's just like um, people that teach you how to get rich, most of them don't be rich, but teaching you how to get rich, it's how they're about to get rich. You get what I'm saying. I may know how to do this ship, never made no money off of doing it. I just made money. Offer telling you how to do it, and you may go get rich off doing it, but I ain't never made no money off that ship. I told you to do that deep, but that ship happened.

Like the pastors, they could tell you adulterous wrong, this is wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong, and be right but living wrong, but living wrong? How is he wrong? When you called? But he didn't know him? He he man that ship living back your hard But you know, this is what I'm telling you gotta do. It's kind of like people like with doll seminars and ship and like, yeah, the panels and you know what I'm saying, all that ship

like that they get that's how they get their money. Also, I'm gonna show you how of your needs to want to know. I'm gonna sure you have to make a million dollars. You sell this ten thousand dollars ship a hundred times. Yeah, there's ten thousand dollar promo package. That's how they'll be making their money. Yeah, and never made it before they sold you that ship. And then back to the church. It's like, yeah, he knows that ship wrong, but he trying to get right to Yes, he and

he because it just got robbed up. The nigga New York that you got robbed, you know, he had, Yeah, he had the jewelry. Um, the niggas ran in the congregation and like robbed him and the congregation or whatever. He like, you know, he had all this jewelry, he had all these cars, He had this billion dollar house and all these properties and ship. But his congregation was in a bodega in New York that wasn't even as

big as this. But he was having you know, like his um constituents, you know, donate all of their money and this and that too, uphold the word the luxury lifestyle, which also included his luxury lifestyle. And now they're trying to say, like, um, they're they're trying to figure out whether or not he set up the robbery and like all this ship whatever whatever. Ye like, he's playing big time. But it's just like, you know, he's not a mention that he's a scam. Yeah, but it's just like until

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