BIG FACTS FRIDAY- FAMILY OVER EVERYTHING?

little tight Fanta party, long night. Yeah, Shy Jones, you did. Yeah, I can't complain. Thank everything good. They're making a play at gnute. That's what we talk about today, Big Facts Fridays. You know what I'm saying. We gotta keep it going, you know what I mean? So many people hitting us and enjoying our conversations. That's what we're talking about today. So, in a situation where your spouse or a significant other person's family member does something that you were like, y'all

get into it or whatever. Are you expecting your spouse or a significant other person to side with you or are you okay with it if they side with their family I personally, in the situation it's a side with what's right right because I could be wrong. That's the first. But it gets way deeper than that. Keep keep talking, I cause gets way deeper. Obviously. Just sign with me if I'm on the bullshit. No. But see, here's the thing though, I feelt you can't side with no motherfucker

who don't need no wrong. I mean, I don't give who they That's what I'm saying. I did something me, your mama came in my house and stowed something me, fuck your mama. And if you go with it to yeah, what if she thought it was her daughters and she didn't know it. You ain't You ain't got you ain't got no. Yeah, you ain't got no. You ain't got no reason to steal out of our ship, period, no

matter who then ship you thought it was. But you know, like some parents feel are like if it's their child, it's like it's theirs too, but it's not even really still for example, like if your mom and your dad come to your house and they just go on your wallet and they text you. Let's say she texts you like wallet, Yeah, like I ain't tripping if my mom. Different people have different situations. If they text you saying I got some money from some deceitful ship. You don't know.

I'm saying, secrets going there. You got them when all way up under the bed winning the shoe about ten thousands of a hundred thousand, fuck your mom, and then denied it. And it was gonna take that type of ship. And we on the way we found that because we had a gamera in the house and you were saying that you did some real fun ship. If she had a drug addiction and it's the drugs, well you got drug. They said, there's obviously the situation a drug addiction that

they might kick it one day. Yeah, we gotta get this bit help and she can't come over. Yeah, and and I don't. It ain't gonna be no side. Then I'm saying, like, you deliberately did some bullshit, and you know your mama, you know your people did some bullshit to me. But you're trying to get me to see it in a different light. But if you're like you did business with like your wife, brother or something like that, and the business went wrong, business different different, because they

can I would go wrong. I'm saying like, if you do some like you're saying like men men men personally sending somebody up like ship that you kind of can't come back from, like sending somebody up for some bullshit, even lying like if a bank, oh wife, mama, or some ship lied on him about some ship and they funked up what they had going on because maybe they

didn't like him. Or I'm saying, like deceitful, deceitful ship that's different than just ship that this happens within families, should be happening in their families, happening family, family, family ship. What I'm saying, it's like you're doing some ships some option like your brother, No God, them gave a nick my address to do something to me and I've seen it and the nigga told me, like, man did this?

You know what I'm saying, Yeah, how you bitch? How are you gonna trying to how you see some lighting it and you stay here too? What if it went through? Yeah? So if you own so, if you if you don't understand what I'm saying, that means you on that too. So you need to go on over the whim. So do you expect there not to ever talk to them ever again? Or I expect for you the hell of how I am. I have whatever, whatever, it can't get right until I get it right. If I don't get

it right, that you don't be right. Fuck y'all, fuck him, fuck her. They called me like, I can't he answer to talk to man? You know what you did, bro? Yeah? Yeah, and that's that's that's what talked about them like, there's just certain things you gotta understand that even though the person might be doing it subconsciously and consciously, there's some things you just can't come back from and should kind of know in certain ships you know better than you

know you already know. You know, if I go through with this and I do this, I cannot come back from this. That's for every human being, you know. And if you choose to go ahead and go through with it, then you're basically saying fuck me. I ain't saying like you can't gotten them be to be quadrant at the family union, but you can't brainy folks my house, nor more.

I only want to hear talking on the phone with eat people, nor more, none of that, because at the end of the day, it's like, what y'all plot m yeah, yeah, because the bitch want to stow my tin thoutand if if she want your mama, she didn't feel that comfortable. You know, I'm saying, she wouldn't even know how to get in get up because I'd be around exactly exactly. I ain't even got that in my mix on the way she stowed it because I was vulnerable because of you. You,

So that would make that would make you in. It's through hand that because I wouldn't even be exposed to that. If it wasn't for you, exactly, your mama, I wouldn't even know this all like period, she wouldn't add access to my house, she wouldn't had access to under my bad she wouldn't have had access to none of my chance. I guess that's come from a man point of view, because if somebody in my family did something my wife, I'm automatically stepping up on that. You get what I'm saying.

So I guess because it comes from I guess to protect the energy. So it's like, but the female protective energy is twice as strong as that thought, or it should be. So that's what I'm saying. So if you can't understand that, then hey man, what are we doing? Nothing? M hm? No, go to it, go to honor like it has to be. But on the type I put, I put myself in a situation where it can't even happen. I don't do be it's with people. Family, you know what I'm saying. I don't even when you see me

A damn, that's it. I'm not friendly. We're cool, but I ain't friendly, you know what I'm saying. Like, I'm just being real because I'm not gonna open myself up to make you have to choose. They're not believe it, I feel comfortable enough to even do anything more. You're not. Like, I ain't trying to be funny, but what you're doing at my house, I'm screaming. The family can't come to the picnics, be outside. They can't come to the family

dinner or something. We can do that in family time, my immediate family, my kids, they're like my kids and there they're significant others and ship like that. I'm exposed to them, but like family members, like, yo, can my kids stay? He just got a jib. No, No we can. I can help them get a hotel. But I'm not putting people in my mix at all, not even my family.

Because your house is your safe Your home is your safe space where you're supposed to be completely and totally comfortable and be able to be yourself at all times. And you can't do that with a foreign object in your house. And you don't want people seeing ship like you gotta think, bro, when you bring people into your house, into your house with your relationship, you now they're starting to see how y'all really are with each other, you

know what I'm saying. So now that ship hit the streets and got damn, I gotta act a certain way because because he and the or she and now I gotta feel like you know what I'm saying. Now your people see I come home at seven o'clock in the morning and ship, you know what I'm saying, And now you gotta act like that's a problem when it's never

been a problem. Yeah, yeah, so so certain ship, you just don't even put your allow yourself, even the facts, even being involved in you know what I'm saying, Because soon as you do that, that's your fault. Like if if I got your mom around here cleaning up my house and she see a shoebox up now and she's just so happening to see it. That's on me because I add over the clean up. I clean my own shot up. I can get the people here clean up, and I can put the money in the car. Why

don't you whatever, You get what I'm saying. When you expose yourself a certain ship, you can't say how how it's gonna go. But me now knowing that I don't do that, That's what I'm saying. I said all that to say this, me knowing that I don't even put myself in a situation for a motherfucker to do nothing to me. So that means you gotta come. You gotta follow us on, break in, sneak in, so we find that out. You know you volt to say fucker. Yeah, yeah, Yeah,

that's what I'm saying. So I ain't gonna have you like the family reunion. I ain't gonna do that. Like we all let my ship. You know, we do this a groundma house. Yeah, well we do that at or let's let's get an airbnb, or let's go to a Parker bench. My safe is on. My safe is on because you know what I'm saying. Yeah, yeah, I get it,

I get it. I get it. People be knowing what the going on and then even outside of that, even outside of like bringing people to the house and you know, letting them in on your secrets and like that, people be having spirits and ship people's spirits like rub off on ship. You know what I'm saying, They'll fucking come to your house and lead a spirit at your house like that ship. No hell no, no that I said. I don't let people come to my house. I never understood.

I never understood that that first, Like I used on the one like ship, we just don't got the big ranch raised on like kids together, y'all, bring y'all and say like, no, no, that ain't gonna work. Because now I got Now we gotta day too far in our business. No matter if we're telling it to them or not. They in our business. They know we are arguing. They know God damn when you didn't come here. They know what this is happening. Is now I gotta respond to accordingly. Yeah,

you get what I'm saying. Like I never I couldn't see that because I'm thinking, like you, you just want to be stiff, You want all my time all that ship looking at it like a bit started looking at for the war, like yeah, they do need to go on. You know what I'm saying at it, like I accept you for you. They're gonna probably be on some bucks and were under we don't did our part with them. They need to go yeah, like they need to going

on on so we can do what we do. Okay, I get that, but I just couldn't get it at first because I went in that space. I was in the space with really fuck you too, like you know what I'm saying like like, but I get it because at the end of the day, you pride. That's when pride kicking. We can got them, we can got them sit, we can got them get get upset by some simple ship and it won't go nowhere, but got them. You're going to the room, out, going on the room whatever, whatever, whatever.

I smoke then with two tecon later, but then you know, you want some eat and then that ship changed back over to something else. But now somebody else here they know what I got. I gotta still from a bit, you know what I'm saying. I gotta keep that energy for them, which you don't even really fit the same way we're talking about last week about the Pride ship, because they know of this. Now I gotta act like this when I really don't feel like this. I'm really

over this ship now. I'm really ready to let go get some food or whatever I want to do. Either we sit there and no talk, we know this ship moving in a better direction. Instead of me saying I ain't gonna be up, they ain't gonna last night, I ain't actually cook, I ain't even been up. Sick weakness. Yeah, yeah, that's the facts. Now that with the energy due bro trying to go out there because you what you call it unconsciously doing ship, I'm gonna ask a little curveball questions.

So with that, with that conversation, and I'm not saying I disagree, I agree, but how do certain other how do certain other races do it? Because Latinos Asians, some of them have they bring everybody into the house, everybody, how do you think they do it? I'm just curious. I think they all probably leave their egos at the door. They're not niggers. So you're saying, okay, they they have less attitude and they have you know, well maybe not

the Latinos, but you know, because they're kind of spicy. Yeah, like like because you gotta look at how they how they work. You gotta look at how like and this is not like rationally discriminitary question or whatever, but you gotta look at even just how they work together. Like they fucking pack up in a car, they share lunch,

you know, they take shifts. You know, they do what they gotta do to help each other, build a pot so that the whole house and the whole family can fucking go save their money and go buy some ships so that they don't have to work it's hard anymore. Blah blah blah. Niggas ain't doing that. Niggas ain't helping each other like that. Man, Niggas are not. Niggas do not work well together generally. It's that in reality, I

hate that. I think that sometimes black folks didn't get together and work about one thing about Yeah, damn you be around any about it too much if they're not just snifficant their brings like slight tension, envy, hate because they've been applies to the ship. I think said on your mid tape, the more you show the niggas, more danger they've been come to. That's the truth. Mmates. Yeah, like I've never done that. The more, the more, the more person know about you, the more danger they is there,

that's the truth. Like, because they know how to manipulate you. Yeah, they know how to hurt you because because you don't told them you're deep, you know what I'm saying. So that's why so many people have so much ship so bought on end because it's like like like I said that week, because of that fair of discovery. Yeah, some people keeping friends just so their hand won't be exposed to who they really is. Fact ship, some people be like I gotta keep this friend because they know everything.

Yeah yeah, I'm saying, And I can't mate no more friends because I don't want to tell them ship. Yeah yeah, but then just like gets you to your therapist. That's what I just want to say. You need to tell us somebody you don't know. You got a mob boy, and what's that one of those people that's like, you know, free spirited and they just tell everything and the damn says they're like people who just don't give a funk too. I was thinking that too. There's people who just don't

give a what this person think. Don't think, I don't sure, just don't give a sure. But you've got certain ship that you you don't. You might not give a You told one person, but I'm saying that I don't everybody. You ain't never met somebody, but you ain't never met that person that you felt like it was too open to tell you anything. You know a lot of people like they don't like that. You ain't got to it.

You got to friends, to your friends and all my friends, not even friends, this to everybody, just to everybody's just walking a room and just just start telling you everything, and you just be like, damn business. Everybody else did? I just started talking not here when people when I'm around people that do that and like to start talking about all of their business and everybody else business, I cut them off like real quickly. I don't want to hear that ship. I don't no offense, but I don't

want to hear that this offensives offensive. The mayor is, I don't want to hear everybody business. I don't want to hear that ship. Don't put me in that ship because again that that goes back to energy, Like that's a whole bunch of like negative energy that they're dumping on you for no reason, and it's unwarranted, Like what the fuck they got a key plaque for you. Oh, what's up? Shots key? I need another plaque for the crib.

Appreciate the key. No, but that really the other day, it would be hard not to keep people out of your business when you family and ship like that. You know what I'm saying. The only way you can if you set boundaries. Yeah, I mean, look, family don't know some of the business. It's family business. You see what I'm saying. But what I was I got that for my grandma a long time and go like She's be like, don't go to running your goddamn mouth by We're going

to my house for everybody to break you. Goddamn I'm gonna break your ass. Not you know I'm gonna break yours. Yeah, so we learned that earlier. But you'll get your back. It ain't happen in the first place. And I was told talk to about it, Yeah about it. Don't be going to talk to everybody that asked. Was worse than fucking cutting up in school, Like like you at school, trying to beat your teacher. You get your ass killed. My grandma brought my head one time. Man, see that

what to your head? Bushed it? I still gotta get like bushed. I was too bad. She mean here with skate on the old old ass skates too good. But she might have made the motherfucker curving running trying to run on curtain and hit me in the head. She picked me up, take me to the hot hill, and folks like, so what happened? She looking like, don't talent, It's gonna be worse if you telling like ship, I fell out my bike, your hands, don't say not nothing crazy.

She gonna push your ship into ship. So we learned that ship early. Bro, Like all that running your motherfucking mouth about somebody, she said, nobody likes to tell till that's about anybody in my family what I'm winning, ain't nobody never told my dad and my brother nephews because nobody the game. Because she was just instilled as a child, like if you come home and ship that happened in the house, and she said, who did it? Prepared to

get your head with whoever? Everybody? Everybody else you like, because if you say screen, did you come in front with your Yeah, that was my god, mom, But did you just ask question? She might let the girls got them get away with your ass, say who did it? You want to. I'm just saying that, like we see the ship heaven, but she who often to stay gone to the get passed out because they ain't ben to be here. You know what I'm saying, I'm really got them go high. I want to eat here. Yeah, I

ain't see it. I don't know. I don't know. Then I used to get your asked with for losing fights. Not grandma. Grandma dropping a fight. She acted like sheally breaking up, grabbing you, but grabbing a little by by the y'all stop stopping the mouth out. But you have got them like you into your teacher, to the councilor you think some of that you think you think some

of that ship start with tattle tales of school. Yeah, it starts with tattle tales, and it starts with niggas that can't properly defend themselves and they get beat up and ship and they get abused in school and they

fucking they want revenge. That's where most of them, Why do you like, I honestly feel like that's where a lot of these like police officers that are brutal, and you know they do like the most and extra ship to people they are bred from that like when they were younger, they were taking advantage of this is the power to control, I feel like because they didn't have

any when they were young. Some of them club security guards be on that ship to some of them, some of them cool with some of them like extra, this is my club. You're not getting it. Security guards just be pussies like they're just big for nothing and that's

the only time that's my club. Bigh matters be some holes like yeah, that should be I don't know, that should be lame, Like I'd be feeling bad because just like just like for instance, like I don't know if you've ever been to like Central Station like back in the day, but like man, I didn't see Central Station

security like do some niggas. Some some niggas like the dirtiest, like you don't even able to do it too, yeah at all, Like niggas niggas said, really ain't even had no business in there, like type ship like got like folded up and bent up out of their shoes and tossed out the door on their ass Like yeah, them

niggas used to take that ship personal. I think they used to probably get like incentives for every nigga that they used to like bend up and ship like that ship was out of control like every week, like y'all gotta do this to this many niggas. Like now they don't really you on this ship. Yeah that was hard on you one time. Now security and they're like all right,

well you got it. Yeah this club security now like everybody know everybody, everybody knows everybody to like I think the security nowadays, like recently when the last couple of years, I think they're scared to get shot. We'll think about them two situations, um shooters alley, Well, oh I think somebody got bounced and then went back, came back and like the nigger you know what I'm saying. They don't

happened a few times. So I think, like you know, you're looking at the hourly rate verse what it is your life? And then it all goes back to what we've been talking about for the last couple of weeks. Pride and ego. Pride and ego. So who you saying got the produc ego? The security are the people who got to ask me. Initially the security had the pride in the ego, Yeah, but the person got to ask me,

couldn't could they might have been wrong. They might have winning the strip club trying to touch all the strippers, got their ass kid got kicked out, but they couldn't take the fact that security beat the ass and kicked them out and that product in front of people. Don't put your hands on them, leave, put your hands right, put your hands on put your hands on right, and then that's like that's like your hands and put what

I did. Yeah, yeah, but that's like the security for some security, that's like the safe word, like don't put your mother hands on me, all right, nigga, Like like that's like, okay, it's time to go. Like hands at that point becomes so down. We gotta respect thing that walking saying I ain't going nowhere, put your hands on dude. But if I'm walking, I'm leaving, bro, they don't put don't touch me, I'm gonna leave, and they push your

grass at the club. Then what then you then you trap me like saying i'd say that ship happen, I don't punch your hands on me. They're walking, they go all the way to the door, don't put his hands on them, and then when it get that yeah, they push, Then what what you're doing ain't the club. Ain't gonna I'm going to be in a situation where I'm not even to somebody general and on general populationship. I ain't gonna be in a situation where I'm touching those strippers.

Ain't gonna be doing those ship that goes against the community rules. So if you do that to me, then whatever I do, it's justified because I'm not on that. So you just come through the club move and pushed me out of the way that ship. Are you just putting me like that? You know I'm saying, no, they ain't search me right beause right, don't do that to me. So I ain't even to be standing in the way. I'm probably to be in my own section and deal with my security. I have security also, and the folks

don't go So deal with those people. If you need to tell me to put my blunt out, tell him and he'll tell me the message. Don't say ship to me, saying to me so we don't even have to have no kind of interaction for it to be taken the wrong way or no ship like that. That's what these people are here for. My barrier before I even before I even get out of the color going to club. What we're going in an even to be don't miss something that they're like, God damn, they're searching it. Hey,

they know they ain't doing no ceerchain all that. You already got that understood. Yeah, come on, they got you coming through this way right. So now if I got to go to the doing am and he I D and all that ship, that would brain the bullshit. I ain't got nick stuff. Feel like you try I D. How you gotta be getting this ship? Yeah? How old? Yeah, like so that brain out. Then the nigga's security started looking like no bit it though, Yeah, so too nigga. Then my jaws show me I D my club and

then they go like that. Then they ain't getting in. If he ain't got no idea getting in my club, it's just it's just And then you're a thirteen dollar hour. When you know your attitude, you have to you have to refrain from putting yourself in certain situations that anything anything you're like, well, you know your attitude, like why would I even put myself in that situation? Why you

don't see me certain places? But it's just like even when I used to work the door at the club, like some ship you you just can't avoid because some people are coming to the club already with issues. Yeah, so it's like me, just like me, I'm sitting at the door, I'm taking money whatever, whatever. Like this fucking lady or whatever just got into it with her nigga, you know what I'm saying. On the way there, you

know whatever, whatever, blah blah blah. Now she thinks that she's gonna go back and forth with me, and all I'm simply asking her to do is pay so she can go past me and get in the club. But she got the female caddie blah blah blah, whatever, whatever, And I'm not I'm not here for that, you know what I'm saying. But at the end of the day, I'm gonna do whatever I can to go above and

beyond to prevent any type of argument or altercation. But at the same time, bitch, you're not going to disrespect me. And I didn't do nothing to say you just give me the money to pay your money and go to the who for that. Because I don't like the East Side Club days. Like we started off with, pull up, We're gonna cut the parking man up trying to got them, well you're paying, no goddamn parking blah blah blah. Then you get up there and you trip about got them

paying and get in the club. Then got there, you trip on the security and pat me down. You know what I'm saying, Like, that's these people job. It's all what you put yourself into. I could never be a parking attendant because I can't go through that. I can never be security because I can't go to that. Will never be the person taking the money to dope because because I can't, I don't know how to have customer service. That's so you gotta count of You gotta got into

it with too many niggas at that door. You got to kind of have a patient to be at the dough. You gotta kind of have a patient to be like like Nigga, like Alex got all the patient in real Like right what you're saying, Hey, I'm not going to get into it with you. You You know what I'm saying, Like you gotta have a certain type of I guess

patient for that ship you do. I don't, so I don't even put myself in it, Like like I want to get the dough and get the money at the dough because I know I'm gona see some nigga to feel like I can't charge. I know I'm gonna see some niggas that I don't want to let it in. I know I'm gonna do. You know what I'm saying. So why the funk am I even at the dope

with my emotions? Right? That's a fact. Yeah, like certain ships, you can't even put yourself in the position like you know, they don't even fit you, bro, right, like you want to argue, you want to go back and forth somebody if you're trying to do this jumbe because you know you're not a customer service person. Bro. Yeah, Now club, a club owner is going to get a person to also like someone like ja that the community kind of

fully respected. Not to say you won't get it into it with nobody, but I'm here to get the money. You're to get the money when they see me that gotta pay. But in the club popping, you put in about out there. You just put put in about out of that don't know aboudy know some of them be soft though you couldn't put you couldn't put any you couldn't put any door person that club chocolate. What a security right that you could Okay right there, you couldn't

don't matter who get the money right right? And you're like blazes and all that, the old white man getting the money never heard of talking. You're right, But what you're talking about, why if you want to get in this ship, well you canna get squirted. Yeah you know. Station was like that too, Station was like that sent a station was like that man ship Josh used to be at the door of Central Station. That's the owner, right, yeah, the white man. Yeah, yeah, ain't know v I P

and all that. Ship You don't understand all that, Like, yeah, you getta pay. You know, it's a business, get it, So you gotta understand when you go into that business what's going on. But I do think alcohol, other substances ego get to plan and then ship can go the other way. Even restaurants like restaurants with waiters and waitresses and stuff, bartenders and ship. Certain people don't supposed to be in no position because you know, your attitude don't

fit this position. What I'm saying like, you can ruin a person the whole motherfucking me on the day everything, be ready to whoop your mother sucking because of how you feel. You know what I'm saying. I'm coming to be served, right, I'm a customer. I'm right. I want an extra pack of muster, So bitch go get it because that's your job. Yeah. Like, that's why I like Chick fil A in the nice neighborhood. They're supposed to

be so high neighborhood. They'd be like on point. Yeah, that's on, and I think that's that's that's what they got there. People to Chick fil A school, No, you know, when they get hired, they're going through the whole training. That's how they train. When y'all go through that Chick fil A line, y'all ask for y'all food in a different manner than when y'all go through that McDonald's line

because they energy nigga's trained. The McDonald's line different because niggas don't even really want to eat that ship bad. Let's think about the pull up to the pope eyes of the hood. What's your order? That's what they said, Chick fil A is, how are you doing today? It's a beautiful day of Chick fil A. Serve you. I can't I can't get on a bullshit with you. Oh you could get me a number one, Thank you so much.

There's a different energy than what's no because even if you pull up and they're like, hey, how are you doing? I want to let me get it up. It's when you're dealing with people that you know how you doing? What happen? You know what I'm saying? Being held Just be like cats black. You can already sense that this person don't want this job. Exactly. Check us on Glenwood. I used to go there all the time, mant people

be like that. It would be different, like different, not just black people, be different, people like you could tell she don't want he don't want jump right. Let me tell you something because when I used to bart him right, it used to be certain people that said, come and sit their ass down, and granted I may. I could look at them be like, oh, it's gonna be a hard time. There's gonna be some bullshit, so I may go.

You manifested to seek my last week. You already putting this person on the bullshit you're looking at and what that guy? Yeah, what that guy on? And you already put the energy out there to day on some bullshit? Be right, because I'm typing of g I was just for say that I don't want to the old white restaurant and been profiled. It was them acting funny with me, and I'm like, don't you know I matched the bill

and tip. But what I'm saying, but I let them when they can do that, ship, I ain't getting Yeah, ship, but motherfucker, like just say I can deal with a person who really fucking up, but I know they ain't. That's their job trying, but they're trying. I do the most. I don't have them happen to. Sorry, I'm sorry. This is my second day and this is my second day here. I'm just trying. I'm sorry, it's my second day. That type of ship rather than the person that you tell

to go get the buster to get an attitude. Yeah, but times people come to the restaurants and bars and ship and act like because they're there that you become like their servants. Like although your do you think your servant a servants like safe? For instance, like if it's some napkins right there, and you'll ask can reach and get them napkins. You can't be like, hey, you can give me some napkins. You see what I'm saying that

servants ship. Yeah, yeah, you get your If somebody comes to you and take my dick to the bathroom, friends and they everybody got everybody order, They brought everybody food, got you your little extra ship, And as soon as they're walking off, people like, let me get a um, let me get a like all that ship, you get etiquette. You should have etiquette. Hey hey, yeah, yeah, yeah, all that got mad when the server switch off, servers on

your ass. You gotta go. You gotta have customer etiquette. Yeah, exactly. It goes both ways, y'all look like that. Let me get my much. But like if I forgot something, or if you forgot something, I'm just gonna be like, hey, you know, um, you forgot to bring me such and such order and I get this blah blah blah whatever whatever,

YadA YadA. But like if I keep having to remind you about the same ship and you've been back to my table four or five times, and the ship that I asked you to get the first time, you still

and brought it, Like okay, man, what's going on? You can do that with me if your attitude ain't that Yeah, like you could forget a hunt of times if your attitude ain't I'm trying to forget right, Yeah, you could get a hunted things like I just said about the persude, like what I'm saying, like like you're trying your best, but damn, I forgot it because everybody helse you man

what I'm saying. But if you like if I say excuse me, uh, and then he'd be like it's Sean, Like damn, so you just said the tone excuse me. I don't know how else to say because I don't know your name, like it's Sean. You know what I'm saying. I'm like, damn, Okay, I see that. So then then you start got there forgetting ship. I'm in my feeling

yeah yeah. But if I say excuse me and he'd be like huh, then then you'd be like, uh, I'm sure, and then I'd be like okay, cool, like the first few words before you know what I'm saying, like you ain't telling me, like what you suggest the ship like that on the menu, I see what you want like you're just standing like you want yeah yeah yeah if you want to eat ship, like right, you got that energy, it's gonna be like but but I get up a

lead though. Yeah, no, I'll do it all the time that that ship, that ship can spread, Like I said, a fault into that kitchen because a lot of time to wait is just cool or wait it is cool with the preppy people in the kitchen is like I don't even go And I'm saying with the motherfucker who I know gonna make it to that, So I'm gonna gout there. I'm gonna try to set the energy for the table off the rip, like hey, what's your name?

Because I know I got got them chante over or Jade or somebody ready to got them be on them before before the you get what I'm saying. So I'm trying to got them make cool. Let me be the one cool with us because y'all got in the middle of the ship. Y'all don't have a food spit on

or whatever whatever, because I can't eat this ship. But see another thing too, like I know you'll probably don't have a problem with this because you don't have hair, but like even like when it comes down to like when somebody's doing your hair and they got like bad energy, like when they're washing your hair or like you know, doing something to your hair, or whatever, Like when you're getting your hair done, like if your hair stylist or whoever,

like it's talking on the phone while they're doing your hair and arguing with somebody, you gotta attitude or you know what I'm saying, whatever, whatever, when they're washing your hair and like got their hands on like on your head and ship, that energy transfers. So like that's why I like, if I if I go something, I don't only let like one or two people the same one

or two people do my hair like every time. But if I if I I have gone had to step out because like these one or two people weren't able to do it. But if I'm like getting my hair washed or getting something done and this person is like arguing on the phone with somebody, or they arguing with somebody in the shop, or you know what I'm saying, whatever, whatever, I'll politely like ask them to you know, rent the soap or whatever out give me one of those little

plastic caps. I'll pay them for their little service, and I leave because at the end of the day, like man, that ship, that ship is more like powerful than the tongue ship that we were talking about before, because people's energy is like transferable. Yeah, very transferable. It's contagious and like I don't want that ship on me because sometimes it's hard to get it off. No, I agree, I agree. I gotta protect that energy. Yeah, like all times, big

facts Friday, How did this even start? This great conversation? But where do we start? Always did we start with the mamas and the Okay, alright, so we got we got to the over that and we definitely got to

the bottom of talking about club coach. But I try to give everybody like, oh, you know, the service, the service industry, you know what I'm saying, one more thing to say about club culture, right, But you know, like another problem with these security is that like some of these owners be telling the security to be aggressive, to do this, to do that, and you know, bark on

these people whatever whatever. But then when certain people come and certain people buck on like the standard procedures because they feel like they're above and beyond these procedures and they go take the security to the owner or have the owner come out or whatever, and the owners like no, no, no,

they're good. It's like, yeah, like what the are you talking? Like, Like what is it like you want me to fucking bark on these people, or do you want me to make exceptions for people, because it becomes make sure you bark the artist. Yeah yeah, but it becomes make sure you bark on the motherfucker's we keep the ship. Nobody everybody got. But then they walk out and the security barking on Bank. No, no no, don't bark on Bank. Put

me your bark on to everybody. You know what I'm saying that you don't give a funk who it is. That's what I'm saying, like everything is based on you, though, don't they don't think you walk up to the dough. If I walk up to the door the club, I'm

coming with even security. I'm coming with what suck security for you even get a chance to even now if you're just acting like a whole bit, you know what I'm saying straight up, your hope ain't nothing else Because I came on the you know what I'm saying, before I even got up here, how to chip the parking nigga? You know what I'm saying, I'm doing overcompensation. I'm overcome and saying never about it when I'm coming through. So now, if you're just a nigga, that feel like this is

your time to drop your nuts. I gotta I gotta tell you that, and I gotta and if you keep pushing it like, I'm gonna have to show you. Like type, they had a little meetings before the night start amongst security, when they huddle up and they'd be on whatever they'd be on. I know that from the DJ and clubs and ship they got their agenda or what they're from to be on so you can set the energy, you

know what I mean was saying. And at the end of the day, it's all along how you how you carry it because the nigga jeb you don't beat the funk out of the nigga before you. And you can walk up and nigga start smiling or nigga be smiling, beat the nixt nigga behind or the niggle with you right in front of you, beat the funk out of you.

He ain't sunk with me. But you know what I'm saying, Yeah, because I ain't even put myself in that situation before and even get that far, I'm gonna either walk off or pop it off right because I know y'all nigga is here to embarrass a nigga. Damn, that's what they security. You think that's what some of them. Yeah, some want to the old mass. Someone just trying to get their

little money. Though I say something someone they want the holes in the club and scripplehole like he did what right, like beat your hand deaf for the whole like no, but Jennie heard the whole situation, like he act like you don't want to pay Yeah he didn't coming there straight being you up. Don't even got them get a chance like a like Alex not like say like you just don't the bitch word or whatever. She said. Somebody

disrespect her and y'all can't fly there. You get what I'm saying, because he's showing out for the bit she probably yeah, yeah, facts facts. I'm standing on the even that what they're trying to give me fun that I ain't got I ain't because I ain't got no But we're coming. We're coming on some players ship like him. Man, whatever happened bro, Well, but well when when we need no stories, we didn't even want to go, We're gonna pay you extra like whatever. People you just can't get it.

You can't get through too. They might made up because nothing. It's something that you don't even know why they still, Yeah, try to keep my job. Back to that school ship though it's something that happening fucking school, or it could be a motive. It could be I'm doing this because I know this is how my boss really is. I'm doing this because these girls right here looking at me already said I left whooping and the night about what it is? Hey, back to the people of service. That

got the cool people of services? We fun with security. Do your job got them? What is it? Waiters, waitresses, bartenders? You know what I'm saying, what these service people is out there? I know, I forget motherfucking the people on the plane, the stewardess and all that ship. Sometimes people be running them around on some bullshit too. If you're on some cool shit, salute to you showing some bullshit. That's it. That's our Big Facts Friday, Triple w Dot,

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