BIG FACTS FRIDAY- Esoteric

What's up? What's up? Everybody? What's up? What's on? Everybody? Big Daddy's nice still over there? Okay? Yes, who we're going. Everybody feeling good, Everybody in good spirits, everybody focus. You know what I'm saying, every every everybody, Uh, everybody. Jordan year going good? Yeah about the joining year to the station. Is everybody really having a Jordan Year? Yes? Oh yeah, okay, I haven't won them North Carolina Jordan years. Didn't he

lose North Carolina? No, man, Now, that was his best that was his best time in North Carolina over Chicago. Yeah, because he was raw. He won, man. You know what it is? I mean, you know what you know what the hell ian man, Let's get Let's get to these words. Man, let's get to these words if people want to hear about these words what we're talking about today. Okay, the first word that we are using today, it's called isoteric, and I thought it was I thought that's what the

thing just said. It might be. Okay, we get we get a big dog. Okay. So the word of the day is esoteric, and it's the meaning or the definition. The textbook definition of esoteric is only understood by a select few. So it's like an esoteric person or can it be an esoteric oh said, I'm assuming that that esoteric is an adjective describing a noun, So it can be the state of understanding of a person, place, or thing. So somebody can be esoteric or right, you say, something

could be. So what's some things that we feel that are esoteric? And only a few people understand the Illuminati? Yeah, secret societies in general. Um, I think some people can be esoteric, for sure. Michael Jackson definitely probably esoteric. Like older Mike was definitely esoteric when he was old, when he was going both really because when he was younger. You know what I'm saying he's still like had a lot going on when he was younger. That lot going

on that he had was just magnified. So a lot of people thought that he was weird when he was younger, but as he got older, they thought they felt the general consensus was that he was even weirder as he grew up. You don't think like for Michael Jackson and Prince and stuff like that, like they were just private. It was private, me esoteric. I feel like Kanye West esoter.

How are the private? They were just private? Like Prince just got private and stopped being not like shot a you know what I'm saying, Like the people just get private and duck off and be like I don't want to deal with all these folks, but they ain't. I don't feel like that's hard to understand. I feel I felt like they were just private. I feel like not to keep talking about this guy all the time. I feel like Kanye West is hard to understand. You see

what I'm saying. I think Michael Jackson was on ESO, like what talking about like the skin stuff, Yeah, monkeys and ship you know what I'm saying, and abuse me a part like yeah, like that off the list. I don't think. I don't think that ship was esoteric. I think that nigga was just rich and they have shipp up to do with his money. It's hard to understand that that you you bound. Hell yeah, so the average broke Nigga, Michael Jackson and everybody was broken nigga. Yeah,

so rich people are esoteric. They can be. Being rich can make you esoteric. And the people that access to those types of funds to rich people broke people probably esoteric. You know what you remember like right here? Huh? That like when Jender Jackson said she she didn't know what those were. That's just that's just in the bass cap. I don't know. She might not. I mean, I ain't in the car to be word and no ship like that. But I'm just saying, like, come on, like, let's let's

be serious. I love Janet, don't get me funked up, but let's let's let's bring it down or not, so let's be for real. Her saying she don't know know about Cheetos, it's like somebody who ain't ate hadn't had a caviar yet us. So I don't know, like her saying that she doesn't know anything about cheetos is equivalent to someone's things. She said hot cheetos. She just said cheetos. She said hot cheetos. It's a difference. She probably don't know. I'm just saying she she's been richly too long. So

what is so? What is that equivalent to a broken nigga saying that I've only had regular truffles and had white. They never had caviar. I ain't never had caviar either. That's a nasty as hell. Y'all ain't missing nothing. Look, it looked like some bullshit. It's fish eggs. I'll take it. We take it. You've had it on several occasions. Jay, I've had it twice, and I like I had to get a second opinion. That ship was terrible. It's an acquired taste. It's not it's not something that like, that's

some ship they told you I was expensive. You know, I'm about to try this ship. It's some bullshit. Yeah, carry your bag, Jada herd eat an jovies. Yea caviar, Yes, that's the bro n that's the nigga on to come up cavear some crackers, but he got some candy up? Is life esoteric? Yes, very much. It's life. Hard to understand. Life could be hard to understand, right, it can be hard to understand some of the ship that happened in life.

Oh like, okay, so let me ask all this. Then it's death death, yes, hell yeah, there's people, it's some many ways you can die. You just dropped dead for no reason at all. That be your your cause of death. Just drop dead. She's just be happening in life. Understand though, read your definition again, understood only by a select few. I'm pretty sure everybody understand death, right, But like, what the different is it? Is it is it? Is it

death that's esoteric? Or is it what happens after death? Damn? Yeah, yeah, I think both, because don't because don't nobody know that's one that's that's one thing, like a hundred percent sure, don't nobody know what after that? She looked like home. Homie just said. Homie just said, though on the internet, he went to he went to heaven hell and he saw Rihanna or something like that singing umbrella Homieter. She said, he died and then as soon as he got there,

he saw Rihanna. He said, he saw Rihanna. I think he just he said he died and lost conscious loss. I guess they brought him back. They went to Hell around with the hell. The first thing he heard Sorrihanna in Hell confirmed that he died. They conferred the flat line or something like that. He was passed out watching MTV. Huh the homie homie just slip now and I ain't

even trying to be funny. Uh, God bless him. But Holmie to mar Hamlin kind of died on the football field and yeah, but then he say he's sorry, and he wasn't trying to cloud Chase. That's the difference. You want to say that the first thing he saw him was Rihanna. I just I can't take that serious. I'm just saying, maybe maybe he maybe that's for real. I just think that he really did think that he probably was dreaming though, so that he wasn't dead. You maybe

deaf is one big dream. What if this is one? What if this is one big dream? How do we know what happens when you die? Don't You died and come back? He just died and came back. And they won't believe what happened with this man. But he said hell, he said out of everything he could have said in the word about Hell. He said the first thing that halter Hell was Rihanna. He say nothing about no. He said that they were singing Rihanna. Right still, he didn't

actually see Rihanna. I forget why would But you know, Lucifer was the director of the choir. Oh man, before he got kicked out of Jesus, I mean, before he got kicked out of Heaven. It's getting very esotery. Yeah, I gotta say, we don't believe it from a niggle who actually died in ain't back. So how we're gonna say we've never been there because I don't know if he died for real. We cat, we cat, we cat, we cat this, we cat discredit his death. He discredited

that he's still here. That wasn't ship. Look man, oh ship, that's not believing that he died and went to Hell. Is just like a privileged person. I'm not believing that they have fights for welfare. I felt. I just feel like I've been leaving a lot like it's a lot worse music. You're hearing him. My opinion, if you if you went, if you went to Hell, what do you think the first song will be? Playing when you would be Rihanna, get him up top, hit him up, toufar

damn or go ahead. But no, but y'all think that when you die, your reality be whatever you was you was when you living. He probably was a nigger and just hate it and Rianna song, so when he died, that was just gonna be his torture in him. Yeah, I see what you're saying, like whatever, whatever your issues were in life, become repetitive in death, exactly like I I've heard like some people saying, like they like this life that we're living right now. They say they should

be going so bad. Sometimes they'll be thinking they they're in hell. But you know what I think though, like real ship And don't laugh at me because I'm not. I promised to you. I'm not trying to be funny. I think that like screamings, just asking what do you think? Like you see when you get the hell right? I think that once you walk through those gates and step out on that fiery plane, all of a sudden they started playing you can hate me, but stop basketball season

has return? Niggers. Shouldn't it be? Shouldn't it be? And I guess that alluding like hell on earth. But shouldn't it be like rats and roaches and all the worst? But you never know how might how might be lit though? Literally like you never know, like because you know, because just like Black was saying, we can't really we can't judge this, nigga because we never been there. We don't know.

I don't think it's a said place me personal. I think it's whatever hell would be for you, whatever the worst thing would be for I agree, you know what I'm saying, Like if you die from if you're a negative person, you died a negative way or fund up way, and everything just continue be negative. But if you live a positive like, it's universe, whatever you do come to you.

So if you die peacefully, you might go be peaceful and they'll be your hid, your heaven that whatever state or state of mind or energy space you're in when you transition, yeah, exactly, whatever your energy is. I feel like that's where it continues to be. You know what I mean, me only makes sense. It's like when you go sleep at night, when you get through watching some on TV or whatever whatever you're feeling, that's what you're gonna dream about. If you drink you know, I m

hm the next day. You wake up the next day still groggy. If you if you you went to sleep drunk, you're gonna wake over the head. The reality is you can have hell right here on earth. Yeah, I'm playing like continuously, Like I feel like you, your head would be just a consistently bad dream that you can't wake up from. Oh, I don't think you feel to go somewhere and being around. I think your age is gonna continue to drink for having some bullshit. Or you might

just dream some peaceful ship for him. M hmm. Yea heavenly I don't know, but that's what I always have thought philosophy. Now, I've always thought that like man, yo ask Jim, ain't no heaven nor here. It's what your way is gonna be dreaming with your soul gonna drink that ship. Makes sense to me though, that's a great philosopher to care you. I'm saying that's an escestery ship like on a few I feel like me personally, Bro,

we don't know ship till we see it. So dude probably did go to his hell mm hmm, probably aggravate nomber what it's like here in the same song to him. Might may aggravate him. Mm hmm fire in this guy. Yeah, he ain't that much. Yeah, it might name, that's just any any consistent Probably he probably just a person that hate repetitive Rihana. That's crazy. No, No, when I heard body about making the stallion, I think they'd be playing that in Hell too, but on repeat. Yeah, you're hell nigga.

The viral Texas pastor says demonic forces were reciting lyrics to Bob Marley, Jasmine Sullivan and Rihanna and Moore in Hell. That's a hell of a combination the Devil's playlist. He was treated to the purpose of the fiery abyss perks what he was on perfect. I can't take this ship. Seriously. What's the thing that y'all think? Is terry a thing? Women? For sure? Women? That's a person though, right what women? Oh thing? I don't women. Damn. That's crazy, damn secured,

just kind of difficult to understand. Yeah, nobody understand women. Women because most of the time women don't need to understand women. That's a whole lot of stuff. We're gonna go into the whole nother yea. Yeah, the things they out number today. Man, you can't do that let's stick to the things you want to be like you just you say you want me, and then we're not gonna be and me. You want me to be on difference,

So you don't know what you want. You ask your woman right now what she wants, what she's gonna say, s It ain't gonna be clear cut, It ain't gonna be you know. Don't you just want you? Right or some there of What is it that you want from me? Just to be you? How do we get the argument? When I beat me? You was doing you too much? We've been down in this, Jake, I'm exhausted what you want? I just want you to be you? And I want all of you so all of me, love all of you,

want it to be him? How could he disrespect you'll ever hurt you? How? Why are the arguments? There are arguments? Because my nigga, even you want the idea you want me in the in the in the in the premise. Yeah, but if listen, the person wants you, there's no disagreeing, there's no nothing right. I want you with consideration to my feelings. So you don't want me? Yeah? You somebody? I want somebody that cares. That's what the funk? I

want somebody to care care about you and still be me. Okay, but if you care about me and you're still being you, your care for me will over ride you being you that will do something to her. You want what you don't want me because that would make me so what? What? What am I overriding? Gotta they gotta they gotta be. They gotta be some susceptions because it's like they gotta

be some giving take like to think what I'm saying. Okay, if if if not saying you, but if the woman wants the man and the man is physically abusive and she didn't know that getting into the ship, get out, true, you don't want him no more? You were bad. You don't want him no more. Yeah, you don't want him no more. I'm saying like, if you if you ask your woman what she wants, she says you. Why do

y'all have arguments or disagreement? But everybody be a misconcession of who she think you are, because a lot of people be faking to making it to me, you want the person you thought I was. Yeah, but until the person started punching her, and that we're gonna take are are to the person and I'm just again that was ever um used to be used to come home all that ship. Then this started not you know what I mean? I mean you know you know you you are you? Yeah,

but you can change. Listen when a person meets you, okay, when things changed it. I don't want you no more, So stop telling me you want No, don't agree that I agree with. So stop saying that you want me if I change something and then you don't want that you know, you know what? You know what you don't want me. They want to you that they know. Okay, so you don't want me to grow? No, I agree,

Like you can grow or whatever. But it's just like, at the end of the day, if you growing means that you have a total fucking lack of compassion for the way that I feel about certain things, then like, like a compassion, what are we doing here? What's the lack of compassion? If I ain't being me, I'm not beating on you, I'm not harming you. I'm not doing nothing to you. Only things make you upset is me

being me. We're not get what I'm saying is you might not be you might not be doing anything through me, per se But if you don't have any kind of regard for my feelings, or you don't fucking validate the way that that white Tom Brady White married Tom Brady, all starf fucking football player. They got a divorce because he was doing what playing football? You don't want me. But so it's down because your field shut up, call that hold on. So what you said is chewing up.

But again two things. First thing, we don't know what went on behind closed doors, but we can't just generalize that's what they said. She said she she thought it might not know who whoever they is, might not know what is actually going on. Okay, well we're gonna say, hypothetically, if they got a divorce because he chose football over that marriage, who did she want? She wanted her husband. She wanted a nigga who was gonna get up on

his purpose for bitch. That what she wanted, no football, because it had to be something in the beginning that drew her to hypothetically, queen, I think, I think, I think, I think I think it's I think it's like this I said. I think it goes both way. I think that if he if she was like, when are you gonna stop playing football, and he said, I'm gonna stop. I got you right, because then I need to retire

and then come back to life like three times. He did. Okay, then, because my purpose is calling me if you want me, you know how much I love football. Y'all don't understand what you're saying. Man, So when you when you do, you want me to choose you over my purpose? This is a great conversation. No that never choose over a purpose. But some people that that's what a bitch wants you to do. May you play football forever? A lot of dude, I've a lot of dudes. One thing about him getting old?

So beat you gonna roll out this on my knees and ship and the start giving out. This is my lass ship down there. So whatever, let me burn out, let me burn out of my passion. Then after that the niggles, who lord that lord that sport like that he's gonna be Now he's gonna be a commentator, maybe a coach. This is just what it is. This is what my purpose is. So you don't want me, you won't you on all this ship? Come with this tone

Brady ship. Hopefully one day I'm gonna be a nigga land in the house not thinking about football in nom no, bitch, I love football? Am I tripping? You? Right? What you said, what you said, what you said, what you say as full merrit especially if we speak hypothetically. But he couldn't. At the end of the day, I'm gonna go to Florida. I'm gonna go to Florida. You gonna lie? That wanna lie? That's what I wanted to do for your wife, for my wife. But morpise out weighs that, man, that ain't

a lie I do. Baby, I'm gonna stop because I want to please you. But my purpose, our way that this ship is calling me, it's like a gift from God. Man, what I'm saying is you're a gift from God. Then what are you doing? You waste some time landing up. What I'm saying is, Okay, the gift from God and all of that. That's understandable. That's cool. You're supposed to do that. You're supposed to follow your your your calling and your destiny and all of that. Like I'm not

saying that. But at the end of the day, if you entered into this union with this lady and you made this agreement that you guys are going to try to make this ship work. There has to be some sort of give with the take to give when it talk when it comes out to a bit, and my purpose ain't nothing to give a bitch fuck you in this marriage straight up because I'm like, I ain't gonna be good for now one of us if I'm not living to my purpose. Mad at you? Huh why get married?

What you mean she got? She got married? He was a football player. What are you talking about. What I'm saying is if you're if there's no give and if it's fucking bitch, I'm going all the way I was purpose. If if my wife was in her purpose, I would never try to challenge that. It's not about challenging that. It is challenging. You know, I understanding what I'm stop doing something that that you do that you're right now, you're just because coming in and tell you, bro, I

don't want you to beat fat nor more right. I had to go to Everet to figure this out. I'm not saying this is what this is my due diligence. What I'm saying is I'm not saying that you that you have to stop your purpose but if you if you agreed, however many years ago, that you were gonna fucking do this ship, but this lady and make this ship work. You have to find some kind of way to integrate her into the purpose. I feel like that's a leader, a compassing wall on the field or something.

You better enter yourself into my purpose because this is what this is. But then on the outside of my purpose, how think about think about it this way a little bit, J Like correct can tell Marla the King, don't be Marla the King, you know what I'm saying. And uh, Malcolm X's wife, I can't remember her name right now, Betty, but he's still But at the end of the day,

he's still. He might not have been there every night and he was still fucking bitch, has been doing all kinds of ship whatever whatever, But he still made her feel like she meant something to him. So you think Tom Brady didn't make his wife feel like she meant something to him. He might have done that in the past, but apparently he's not doing it now and that's the issue, clearly. So all right, let me ask you this question. Have you ever seen a female to feel like they're supposed

to come before, what a nigga got going on? Yes, sir, though all the time, that's so so How you can't see that with Tom Brady? Maybe his wife and I don't know what happened. I'm saying, we don't know what happens, so we can't. Okay, all right, put me. It's Tom Brady. I enter into the marriage. I'm fresh out of high school. We get married. I'm all, I'm the goat of football. I'm the goat. I'm the best quarterback ever. And you tell me I need to stop? What are you doing?

But I'm not gonna tell you need to stop. Stop if you say he needs to go back and think about his vials, he made right, that's what you just said. Yeah, that's what I'm not. But I didn't say anything about her being right by telling him to stop. I'm just saying that that queen, that's noting to negotiating. Think about this though, this this this hear me out. Do you think a little bit of that might have been her saying like, I don't want you to go out there

and get fucked up, like you don't had a great run. Man, They're just like telling the nigga, who's a fucking Vietnam vet. I don't want you to go get killed, and I love you to your death. Man, we and this ship. It's the better or worse man, Brady, if you're perfectly gonna make you lose both of your legs to this ship, I'm I'm a white gass and push you around the house. And just how did you go? Which one is? Bitch? Is just this or that? Is it for a better for you with me? Or you with me? Or you?

What is it? I can't make no excuse for nobody who trying to stand in the way nobody else purpose. I can't because what because because we think about it, Ja, what if? What if we're gonna assume what a stamping to Oprah? You need to slow down? And I think that's where the confusion with this whole conversation is coming in. I'm not ever saying that it's okay for somebody to stand in the way of somebody's purpose or to tell them that they need to stop or anything like that.

But I do feel like if it's supposed to be a partnership, then there should be some sort of pushing pull with the ship so that you guys can't figure out a way to make it work. Ain't listen together, You're gonna make it work, is baby? Let me continue to do what I'm doing. Ain't no pushing pull. When it comes down to purpose or are you are you? Are you? Are? You? Are you running in your desk? Then how does it pushing pull to that? How? What?

What are we pushing the pulling? You can't have any giving your purpose because your purpose is just how Then we then if something happened or whatever happens, if he step outside or whatever or whatever he feels like, and then choose her route and he don't have no happiness. Now they still lose and he he's gonna blame her for the rest of its life. I beat you quit

football for I could have been a god duh. And you don't never want to be something someone somebody else had to settle for, Like I don't understand, like like a lot of these wives do that, like they'd be with Nigga always through our school. Then just because you start seeing, Okay, I got a hundred million dollars now liquid cash. I got this money. You feel like that's enough? Maybe that time to live hapf lever. Other I wasn't doing this for the money. I really love this game, right, Yeah,

women feel like that's enough. We can Sometimes I can't say all them that's enough. Oh don't ya, don't go out there and get hurt, don't this whatever, whatever. But I ain't doing it for that. I'm a worried. This is my this is my water. I'm at water. I don't feel the same laying in the house with you like I feel him on that field. You can't not fulfill that. Yeah, but yeah, but that's when I'm not That's what I'm saying. I'm not. I'm not saying I'm

saying all the same ship that you're saying. But I'm just saying that. Okay, Well I'm not because you just said there said don't you go back and negotiate. There's no negotiating. Now. I didn't say negotiate, I said integrate. How can we integrate that. What I'm saying is, okay, it's women to integrate. Is willing to do I want to understand it. So look right, So what I'm saying, what I'm saying to you is I never I'm not

saying that. The whole standing in a way, the purpose making a nigga stop trying to come in between trying to put up a role blog all this ship Like that's wrong, I'm saying I'm on the same page with you, is that? But what I'm saying is is like you still you still have to make some sort of effort towards this relationship in the midst of your purpose. What's the effort? What's the effort? The effort is being a husband? But how are you? But how are you being a husband?

Am I not being a husband by doing my job? Up? If I'm doing my job, I'm not. Don't have a job to me too. Okay, you knew, you knew. That's just like a truck drive, right, baby, I get loads. Now, just go to the West coast, come be gone something. I'm gonna be gone twenty one days out the month. It'd be cool at first, and she started seeing making money? Does she feel like somebody else? You're driving loads? Because

her time? Okay? But if I if I take the local loads and the money loads, now malays as nikel see, I think the bushes that you're talking about are like not the same bitsies I'm talking about. Which one you're talking about? Because like the the females that I'm talking about, are gonna be are gonna like they're gonna understand all of that. But like I said, they're just gonna want some sort of reassurance in the problem. I'm not saying

that the guy is not a husband. I don't. I can't say that Tom Brady wasn't the best husband there was, but football probably came first some people. Some women hate to be put second to anything. That's what it is. You hate being putting second, and you know football you're a second to that. You don't give people I didn't break his neck, break whatever. She just know when am I gonna not be second to football? Never, bitch, this is my purpose. You're not you're my wife. There's no

negotiating that. Am I tripping? No? No, that's a that's a very valid point. But I think you know, I think you know. I think you know what you signed up on, like if if a woman. Mostly that's why most niggas don't be in relationships because they knowing the end of the day, I can't grasp some when the nigga, when the nigga get to the to the point the way they add and me're like, damn, why the nigga, don't got no wi ship because at the end of the day, now I can't trust no bitch because I'm

my pillow. I couldn't deal with no bitch while I'm trying to change my purpose now I can't do that. But be got damn pluto, because I'm gonna believe that you love me. Yeah, the bitch I want to stay out the law. She she want to be, she want to be over there. You go the studio tomorrow. You can do this ship tomorrow. You can. Man, damn well, you got this studio so much. You're not trusting the process, queen.

So not become the negative I become. When I become the negative, I become now the fun because I don't I can't come in and get you dream. Huh yeah, it's just h yeah, because at the end of the day is just like and then this is like a real bitch to actually believe in your purpose with you and your dream, like I'm with you dog. Fuck that, let's go now. But what I'm saying is it you don't be believing that they can become who they becoming, then when they become who they become, that they want

them to change and be something else for them. No, but it an't. It ain't even that, because it's it's plenty of real bitches that believe in niggas all the way through to their dream and this and that whatever whatever. But it's just like at the end of the a like, I don't understand. I don't think y'all are ever gonna understand what I'm saying because it's like because we got

trying baby fat Fry to make us understand. No, because it's like and and this can be like a universal unisex thing, like for females or males, Like when you're dealing with someone, it's certain things that you need in order for that relationship to prosper and grow. Go back, excuse me, excuse me, so that go back to you don't won't me, So stop saying, um, it's me that you won't. You want a person that do those certain

things because I'm not over my purpose. You need a nigga that like what the same nigga that the Whobi complain about. Niggas don't have no idea. That's one thing about you. You hate the nigga with an idea, with what a clar mind and know what he wants. He's a nigga that know what he wants. He's basically, um what you called a misogynist. Misogynist. No, he not my son, he's um what I'm saying. I was trying to say, um, narcissists,

nigga that know what he wants, basically narcissist. Yes, not necessarily, I ain't budget because of what I know. That ain't budget. You're funking, Yeah, but you're only a fun in my opinion, in that instance, if you were doing something different in the beginning, what am I get? What one thing about it? You could be with a nigga that fas is perfectly while he's with you, true enough, and we're gonna fucking

stick together and stay down and nurture that purpose. But at the end of the day, you have to remember that, hey, I'm still here with you nurturing your purpose. But I can see if you was catching me up in some bullshit all this type of ship like what you're lying, But you're no nig I'm actually here doing what the funk I say I'm doing for us. So where's the problem, bro? Like, Okay, I think this, here's the question. Here's the question. Here's the question, Jay, that has to be answering for us

to make any type of progress with this conversation. A debate. What is the expectation or the one like what's the what's the I want to say, end good, But what's the expectation of the one? Like out of the man,

out of the expectation? If you if you if you meet a street nigga and he's a street nigga, and he's a street nigga in your head, are you thinking that just keep it real, you're gonna change him, like his passion might be being a street nigga or hustler or whatever the case is, right, No, if if if I'm if I'm getting with a street nigga or whatever, and I know he's a street nigga, blah blah blah. My whole intention and my whole purpose for this relationship

or forgetting with this nigga. If I wrote to love this nigga and I want to be with this nigga, is I'm going to support his street ship or whatever he has going on or whatever he has his mind on. But I'm also going to try to show him that he's bigger than just the street nigger I'm also gonna try to show him that this street ship that you're doing, you can take this ship and I can help you make this ship. Turn this ship into some legit ship so that you don't have to worry about it. You

don't want to be legit. That's what I want. It go the same, It go the same. Well, I'm not like you could be bigger than that dog. You don't want to be that. But but but it go the same way. It's my purpose a boom. It go the same way. If you don't want you want the potential that you think he has, that's what it be. But everybody in the relationship try to uplift and push the park.

That's not what they want. Yeah, the nigga might want to the nigga might want the female not to be a stripper, but she might just want to be a stripper forever till she can't strip the more. But he shouldn't at least try one time to show this you you don't have every night and it's other ship that you can do the converse, sack and to have the conversation. But that don't mean she's gonna stop busting it. Open it for the money. I can't try. But then when I see that this is what you wanna do, I'm

not gonna make an issue if I want you. That's what I'm saying that you men, you're saying the same ship, but you have to at leave try one time if you normally normally you're different. But normally when a woman comes at you and say, baby, you're bigger than just a street niggase, they don't want you to be no street nigga on not. They're trying to get you to see something clear. So you're just one of one of you. I'm historic. You're gonna say it one time, baby, you

could be bigger in the street. Think that's it on you don't kind of way on that, like that's that's never happened before. So j you're you're fucking dinosaur. What I'm saying is most of the time when need bit just be traveling, they say this every day. Now you get going that there, get in. You don't want you, queen. You gotta let people be who they're gonna be until they decide who they're gonna be, because if you don't, it's gonna be like forever friction and it's never gonna

work anyway. I totally understand that got to what I'm trying to tell you. At the end of the day, if a nigga ain't living in that perfect he will never make you have because he's not had. Yeah, we're saying that. That's what I'm saying. We're saying the same ship. But how do you know, Jake, because you're saying, never got the least said he said that you should think about changing. I didn't. I didn't say about I said that you you need to shut up that in real

life called that that't on the couch pushed me here. No, but what out what I said was you'd have been the cry to you. What I said was before I was missed because through by big Homie, but loney motherfuckers I was saying. I basically I didn't say anything about changing. I said that living in it. You're supposed to living your purpose, You're supposed to follow your dream, just supposed

to go down the road of your destiny. But if you enter into a partnership with another person, you have to at least make this person feel like they're connected in some kind of way to you and whatever you have going on. If you guys, are in this ship together. It's how I feel what's up. It definitely takes effort, but I shouldn't have to make you feel ship. Energy is what makes you feel ship. You come. If you come around me and you don't feel nothing, ain't nothing there.

I just only make you feel. I can substitute your feelings for a second by faking it. If you don't automatically feel me, you don't feel, so I ain't got it. I can FaceTime love you, and we've be in love. The fos oversee. The fo really fill each other being. They fill each other like no matter it's one phone call, I'm like talking about my significant other two times out of for three months. But you got women that be

truly favoul for these niggas because she fished huh catfish. No, I'm saying, like a dude that's off at war or nigga is working overseas or whatever. She's just mind of being an animal because she wants things to be right, like Kisha just did with Gucca. You think Gucca couldn't be there for Keisha when he was locked up, but she loved him the same because she knew one day I'm gonna come back, and he still got out and got right at his purpose. Okay, Yeah, that's okay. I'm

just I'm just being real. So ain't nothing like when I'm in that situation where I'm about. Ain't nothing I can do to to to make you like women want to lay up area day and do all that that makes you feel like I love you. No, but you makes you feel like I love you is be protecting and provided and every all those things. That's that's that's that's all I'm saying. That's all I've been that lady. That's what we're talking about. I'm saying. But providing material ship,

it's not. It does not necessarily make everybody feel attached. That doesn't. That doesn't do it for everybody. It doesn't for a lot of bitches, But it doesn't do it for everybody. Man. What it is is women live in a certain certain atmosphere that they think that their spouse is their purpose. Niggas don't think like that. Women think like women. A woman can think this is my purpose dis marriage, nigga, don't think like that. We can't take

this marriage certificate down here and pay these margages. Y'all move off emotions. So the thing about it is a motherfucker hate that comes second over anything that she knows she put in first. That's what it is. Mhm nah, I disagree. I disagree. It's not about coming second, or it's not about not respecting the purpose. But it's like the same way that you respect your purpose. If I'm doing this time with you for this purpose, respect me too.

Show me something anything like make me like, make me feel wanted or like I'm a part like I'm not. I'm not happy for anything. I'm not happy you're choosing to ride with me. So I ain't gotta make you do ship make you what if I don't already do it for you, I can't make you nothing but what I'm okay you're not. You still automatically do it for their significant others, so it's no matter what they do. I'm gonna time I see you, whatever, we do it

for each other. If I gotta make you in and fake ship you, then I'm still running game like I just met you. No, I'm not saying fake ship me. I'm just saying like, I'm not okay. It's I think I don't. I just don't think that. You just don't think checking in bad point. It's valid points. You know what I wouna be honest bank like, so everything you're saying, it's like dead don't. I didn't. I didn't understand certain ships to the like really sat down with my sisters

and listen to him. You know what I'm saying. I think the thing is, whatever the expectation is, you gotta kind of get it through early on. Like if she's gonna ride, she might ride, but say but one day at this particular point, like she want a different seat at the table, she want to be more involved, or she might she might just need somebody to talk to and she can't talk to nobody because you're off doing

what you're doing. She gotta respect that. But let's say like Jade is in a relationship and she really needs somebody and she don't want to just talk to no random nigga. She want to talk to her king and you're not available for So what I was saying that you have to kind of like the woman has to get out the things that she might need, Like, look, I'm gonna ride with you a hundred and ten to the end, but these are the little things I might need.

I'm just speaking about if they are some bullshit, like trying to stop you from being great. That's some bulls. Yeah, that's that's that's that's again again We're talking about two totally different things, though, but I get that like me personally. I guess I'm speaking from me me personally. If a woman is my queen, I'm gonna make sure I make time for her. And that's all I'm saying. That's what I'm not. That's what I'm saying. The communication of it,

that's what I felt. That's what I felt like you was getting at its communication. I'm saying, like Jay know what I'm saying code He probably know't I'm scream. What I'm saying is like I said, a woman will put you first over everything. Yes, would be upset that you have something first over her, not another person you have your purpose over or hurt. Think oh no, no it's not. It's not. I don't even think it's over her. I

think it's sometimes for her. It is. Yeah, what I'm saying, But they say, man, she says you want to go to the movie, but now I need to record be mad as hell at you about that. It's like, damn, you don't want me gonna get the money. You want to go to the movie, so we can do tomorrow. So we're gonna have a whole attitude and be mad about ship. We can do another time. But you want me to resketch you because of your feelings. That's not what I'm saying. What are you saying, queen, That's what

I'm saying. I don't know what you're talking. I'm talking about that porter, like come with me, to come with me, you want to come, come with me, call me and just whenever comes sit that's good enough. No, not for some women. It's not. For some women. They want to see you say no to what you're supped to do to please them. That that's not That's not what I'm saying. What the fun we've been we've been told to this old time. That's not I'm not. I'm not I've been

saying the whole time. I've never said fucking dissipated. Not dissipated, because that's the wrong one I'm trying to use. But I've never said fucking shun your purpose the bitch. I'm saying, like, just include the bitch and make the bitch feel like you care. Yes, what I'm saying is if they don't want to be included in net like we were talking about somebody, I don't want I don't want to feel aball, so I ain't gonna be excited to coming to the game. But what we want you need to quit. That's not

We're not well, I'm not talking about that. That's not what, man, we're wanting this ship. I don't see what we wanting this ship. Drink. I don't know when you get when you got lost in transit what I never said that. That's why I said. Men, you've been saying the same ship the whole time. The only part where you lost me at is where it's seeming like basically like it's a total disregard for the woman's feelings or the woman's it come to my purpose. There's no negotiating that. Bro. Listen,

how you're not understanding what I'm saying. There's no negotiating that. I never said it there. And the way you negotiate that is she wants you to do something different outside of what you have to do. That's the I'm not asking for nothing different outside of what you have to do. I'm just saying within the parameters of what you have to do. Think about me. That's all I'm saying. We're gonna talking about the net. We shouldn't be together about you.

I'm talking about the time that you want me to think about you over what I have to do. That's all I'm talking about. Ain't talking about nothing else. Hit The classic example, Michelle Obama said straight up when Obama, I'm gonna go be president, and this is what I'm gonna do. Like she won all the way excited about that ship, but she's riding. You know what I'm saying, he gotta be Obama. Yeah, Obama. Obama makes Michelle feel like or or does Michelle just have her all motion?

Or does Michelle or does he really? No matter what Obama dude does it for her, she doesn't for him. That's what I'm saying. Like at the end of the day, motherfucker, we want him, like, rearrange your nigga, rearrange nigga. Like if you want him, how is he not? Like? Okay, we started off this saying, mother said, I just want you right if you want me, Like I said, there shouldn't be no arguments, there should be no disagreement, that shouldn't be nothing because you want me and I want you.

So what do we are? Why are we being about? So? Whatever we do, however we do it, my purpose and your purpose. Your purpose is my purpose. It shouldn't be a disagreement. It's you're real time that you you mad cause I can't take you to eat. But I'm gonna go to work. I can see if I'm gonna go to the club. That would be different. Some some women feels like me and work too much, or men do this too much? Do you do that too much? Yeah, y'all ain't ever heard of that or see that. That's

that's that's what Brady did. Thank you. We're not get big, bron. We said this same ship forty five minutes ago. Bro, that's what you didn't get it dead to me. That is the Terrian a man, a man. You better shell out before I write your box. Bitch. Now you saying that ship man? Yea, that ship that's a terry man. I can't understand that. Some people do, but I can't understand that. How you say you want this person, but you want to all sure that person? No? You want

you want? You want? You want to you want to customize in the clay form, Well you can got no let me push this in, push this part in, take this out. Now. You're right, you don't want me that person. You're trying to mold something. Molding back moting bad both ways. Yeah, moding. Moting is bad when it's being rejected, because when it's being rejected, I mean that person is already who they is. Moten ain't bad when you goddamn Okay, I see and I feel that. Yeah, let's do that. You're right, motors

bad when you see him. No, they ain't going for that bitch, and you started trying to push it on me. Hell yeah, that bad. Hmm. What's just kind of like it's kind of like a nigger quitting his dream career or whatever you want to do to make his baby mama happy. You know she want under stay at home, being stay at home dad and ship try to help with the kids. He want to go out and be

I don't know, power range or some ship. He's not living what he want to do if it lives to a baby mama that high start fighting all that old ship because nigga, spress dots. You're not spending your perfect can you ain't been another like her? That's all. That's all. He knew how to do, and he stopped doing that ship to make her happy. He gonna be mad as fun every day facts. That's just that's just, that's just Terrik. That's oh Terry Hello on that there. We can do

one more string, do another word? Jay h jay, feel like a nigga. Pol to got that she gonna go get one. They trout nigga and he gonna got them go work at winds and got them bring out the burgles right now. You ain't selling dying bags. And you better than this bro. Now you can be a pharmacist. That neig gonna be a drug dealer. I'm nigga like, no, I ain't how you mad at that man because he did what he wanted to do. A woman or the person is supposed to motivate but not not. I ain't

saying on me. Motivate me in different way and go show me, show me babe like a little babe. I just did this. Do what we can do this we that's when you can do. Show me the way we can do this weekend. Weaken weekend. Then they's gonna look at that. You're like, oh that ships really make him money. You can't tell me to stop trapping or hushling, whatever

the funk I'm doing. Bro, Bro, you keep bro listen, listen, listen, listen, hold on, hold on, huh, hold on, listen, you keep you keep saying that somebody's trying to tell somebody to stop doing some ship. Nobody's trying to stop anybody from doing some ship. When he came to the street nigga ship, all I said was motivate this nigga and try to first initially make this nigga understand that he could be bigger than the street nigga, like the same way you alright, alright, alright,

alright me ask you this. What you think the first step is to showing a nigga suck gotta leave you by example. That's it. You gotta show him how it's done. Talking to me about ship. Show me that, even if you not, that showed me that you're on the path of being the person you want me to be. How much of me show me this? Show me the same drive. Okay, that's just like me. If I want to lose weight, I can't sit up and tell you you need to go lose weight. But I'm just laying in the bed

saying this. No I'm gonna get up every day then then be like, hey, what you're gonna do? You will you want to come up with me? You see this ship dropping off me. I can't just tell you some ship that I won't do. Yeah, how the funk? I'm gonna tell you to try ca the yard, but I ain't never try. Okay, That's what That's what I'm saying. I'm saying. So you're telling the Nick he could be all he could be, but you got what you're gonna donna still running around glob with you what you want

me to do? I'm just heck, look at because doing what you do, nig gonna be like, hey, baby, what Nico gonna start asking you? You ain't gotta tell him that ship making, that ship doing what that's now even already been to doing p P P. That's how never start PPP the benching first that she doing that kind of money? So what was he going to know? Trump? It's a little bit of a rewind. I think we touched on this a little bit before. But what was

j Now you're not so what what what? What? What? What? What? What? What? What was Tish supposed to do with ghosts in power? Because she wanted him to be the best. Was a piece of ship sucking the driver wasn't that she wanted to put she seen, she knew was better, better finishing. She tried, really get your stick to kill. Yeah, that's how I go, mother, be SkELL of growth bro. But she but hold on, you said, she like ghost. Let's let's put the bullshit aside a little bit. We said,

Gelle married a football player. Tasha married a drug dealer. But he was a drug denner. You already knew was purpose drinning. Wasn't no nigger that wanted to be stret and then it was a drug dealer. And I was weighing suits. I mean, he's trying to be a business man, that's what I'm saying. Yeah, he was already trying to be that. He was in a drug and then already had clevelands and all type of shop. The story is, if he wanted to be adult out of the rest

of his life, she should have been with him. But if you wanted to become a businessman legitimate per se, she should be with him else. At the end of the day, you're my wife, go for that. What's that right? Thank you? Yeah? She just she just she feels like she didn't fit in that world. Oh ta, yeah, in the world she because she knew it. And I said, all she knew was the street ship of goots like this, Uh okay, okay, b she gonna get us hot. That's

how she's looking at it. She probably were coming from a good place, but that's all she knew. He had non I grew up. He blew, he blew, he blew up. When they argued, have said it like, no matter what, you're gonna be the same hood rap from where I find you. But the thing about it was he or was he not trying to drag alone though we're taking with him? Yeah, oh yeah, for sure. He really ain't had no choice. She knew too much. What about he?

But I'm trying to think it's so far ago. I'm trying to think that he get on the bullship before Tasha, to Tasha get on the bullshit before him. I think it was like I think it was right around the same time. But at the end of the day, I just feel like she put a roader out with me. Got yeah, sure you got the bad she didn't she going sting money out of the counts. All type of ship man got it and that's a movie. I mean, that's a um move it over. But in real life

to me, some women and then gets what. I'm gonna keep it real when you do on your purpose, a real one. Feel like I tried this nigger cain't go for it. I fought with him more. You know what I'm saying. Because when we're gonna try you to see if you'll go for it, and if you go for it, now you're forever puts. I'm gonna try you forever. Well you stand on there, she's real. She'd be like, he ain't on. I'm gonna keep trying, but he ain't on. And ship worked both way. Now, yeah it's some fake ship,

but it worked brown away, motherfucker. Try you try you up, bro, to see not as real it's really going down. Well, some come up every time you time you can hello your business. I need to get mine. Yeah, I gotta do this real ship, bro. I don't know, man, it might be some um misogynists or narcissist ship, but I feel like a nigga, real puss ash nigga to let a bitch take him off his game. That's that ship.

That's just what it is. Right, I man, I despised that, Like, how can you How can her feelings matter that much that you're gonna put yourself in the hole. Mhm, those aren't the qualities of a leader. How she would never respect you? Well, she should want you, she should want you to. I just didn't feel like the woman should want you to, she should want you to the real ones due. But when when the mother looked at you as a pussy for real, but acting like they love you,

shes gonna try youth to the max. Now they ain't don't know real ship. I don't even feel you. So I'm just playing the game in a relationship. And goddamn whatever letever letever nigga fucked you to this ship, go out like that's what most most of this ship be. You know what I'm saying, Because at the end of the day, bro, when you know you gotta solid, bitch, bro solid, you know it ain't no extra terrant. It

ain't that because it's it's Michelle Obama. Right. I might have didn't want to do it, it's a keysha key or I might have didn't want to do it, but did you know what it is? Right? Right, I'm gonna find a way to love your purpose. Brother, this is what it is. So you're gonna so you can't add me and this ship. I'm gonna make myself so much of an asset that you to need me for your purpose. Stud of sitting around trying to make any make it, get upset about what's going on with what you're doing.

Gonna make myself so valuable to your purpose that why you're gonna. I'm gonna be right now with you if I gotta go school to learn what you're doing. That later made sure she was the best first later elver, even if I didn't want to do it, and they're gonna, theyre gonna, they're gonna hear about this ship. They're gonna see this ship. Nigga first, the best first lady, the best looking first lady, the best first lady ever, even if I ain't want to do it because my knigga

is the fucking president, It's just what it is. Definitely had an omotion for show. She had but she but she had on emotion. But at the end of the day, she recognized him as a leader that he he could have been. Yes, she tied her motion around it like down. They made that ship to some you know what I'm saying, And she probably been the whole, the whole, the whole, biggest key to the boss. She saw the vision. She

she knew she wasn't the point guard. She got the paint, they got them, got the rebounds, she crashed the boards. You were not here trying to take them shots getting They're feeling so far that they can't even and they can't what you call it in because they already and there feeling. They let emotions take over, you know what I'm saying. That's how I look at it, because at the end of the day, it's like, I'm upset about this ship. But Tom Brady, white Man, you could have

been so with him. Man, it's over. I bet he got on this year. Now she's gonna and he gonna and look good even gon get him a new bitch, a good one and be a sports commentator. Whatever. He don't still be like, who lose? Not me? And if you do this side to come back and he do get another girl, she's gonna be okay with that ship. What he knew, bitches, Okay, well whatever, yeah, the new Yeah, the new one's gonna She's gonna be cool with it. Shout alright, should played to your sixty nigger? Go ahead.

I don't know. I just feel like because it ain't sleep jay No, because we're saying the same ship. I'm saying most most, most, most, most, not most. But a lot of women do tend to try to test the man manhood by testing his purpose. Yeah you about that? Yeah, I wouldn't give a damn who you are? You knowing like and then sometimes it just be just you see, you know what I'm saying. And when you do it, you let her down. You know what I'm saying, you're

softened up man. You let him down like you're thinking you're doing what's right for her feelings, but she looking at it like, damn, you'll go for anybody for real? If you ain't standing on that, you're standing on that dog who you mhm? Real ship you because I know I can make you do something that you don't want to do. Now if I'm the wrong, I got caught up on some bullshit or something, and then here, yeah, I'm to put a lot of ships to the side. I got there, but you have to to bake me

do nothing. I don't wanna do. Bro. If I'm making up from an argument. Yeah that's different, bro. I'm I'm just saying, like, you ain't gonna make me do something that I don't want to do. Most women try that and he didn't go tell their friend. They that puss. So you so you're gonna be that pussy ain't digging in to do anything for a bitch stop bank. Oh yeah, and I hope you can't take you see this she knowing for thirty years, I ain't gone, ain't going bro out.

She she'd know where to pussy ash Nigga is. So I know you want to try Nigga like what's I ain't going? Bro? You know what I'm saying, because to think about this brouses side and we're gonna get out of here. How many times that you heard a woman say that's some pussy as ship that that Nigga did somebody else did in their relationship overheard them, but you don't recognize that some pus say if I don't, yeah, you will. You know what I'm saying. You get what

I'm saying, brother, Like you you know what was saying. Oh, I don't know how her dude go for that because she uh, but you're gonna try me like that like, I forgot that you said that that time. So we're not going either that that's something some of that ship though the other way too. You gotta stay in your ground. Oh no, you better though real I think when you do now they're gonna ak up. Said I think they love you more than you do. But no, hea, thing

ain't going from them. You gotta stand your ground. You gotta like go and go everywhere, like that's just what you're saying. In fact, you gotta stand your ground or do you just know when you can just easily just cohert somebody into not being themselves that you just it's just a switch that just clicks this like because when you don't listen, she's not gonna feel safe with you. Hey man, we might be getting I might get my

person at you. You're gonna turn into a whole bit. Yeah. Yeah, Like you can't even hear nothing, like when it does some sound like somebody that do you don't hear that, But you've been doing that. You're playing sleep but you're scary hill. But you think you think, you think, you think you think a lot of women like if they were the type of niggad is doing the other ship

the material ship and all that ship. Like you think a lot of women and like confused in their situations because it's like, well he does all this bullshit that this ship that I think I want or need or whatever the case is, but he don't do the It depends on how mature they are. Wait saying, say what you're trying to say that he's saying. He's saying, he's saying, dude, dudes,

most women get blind about the gifts. Yeah, but no, no that they on that Basically they on that jet knowing they would have been as nigger, but they enjoyed being on the Jetta. They're still looking a nigga who's standing on business? Ain't black? This is my livelihood? Who are saying coming in? You don't say hell do sheep? Listen? Man, but that don't last. Man. Somebody bits you ride that shot out forever. Bro. You ever seen you have seen an old couple, goddamn one of the stay up still

the older stay down, stay up down with that. Somebody set up somewhere. They had a couple of speakies and jup joints. Some ship back in the day. He didn't you know what I'm saying that we all got stuck, got all these great great kids. Go tell you, bro, like what the girl just said on other on the other episode, man, that she's been going on in the biblical days. But I don't get it sucked up? Oh man, Like, but listen, some bit you feel like this is the

best is gonna get for me? My caliber, bitch, you got the buck stops here. He believe this, Oh he believe on that to be that? Yeah, that what Jon Jin and goddamn little Mike might know what I am here right here? Shut up all that feeling ship. Huh. You have to come out of class here with Mr Bib Like, this is a this is a crazy world we're living in. Man, this is a crazy where we're living in. You'd be damn food. They got there the

soft fast, soft soft but Larry ship because they're looking forward. Man. Oh no, I'm sorry, man, what what es Arry? It's all everything? Not everything, but a lot of things. If you think about it. I don't understand women. That's what I took it. I took the conversation that way. It's that's some esssterry ship. Then I I love women like sure thing, But I feel like that's the way it has to be. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. That's

the way it has to be. It has to be kind of you know what I'm saying, all balanced a little bit for it to be balanced, I guess you know what I'm saying, Like it's the true jade, it's the truth. But it's known well even as a woman. You know, y'all be on some other ship. And I ain't saying that we don't be on some other ship too, but you know, women be on some other ship because women be saying women be on some other ship. I'm an advocate for niggles, right because I feel like, damn,

you ain't hung up. Something happened. Okay, I'm an advocate avot advocate, is that right? Advocate? Yeah, I'm an advocate for me and because I because I'm one for one and I feel as if though I have nip seed, I speak to women, so I talked to him, so I feel like a woman knows what they're dealing with, no matter who what nig it is like, you know what you got, So do you love him or do you love Are you telling you nick you love him because you're hoping he'd be somebody that you wish he

would be m So I can't respect that. I can't best love him or the idea of him that you created in your head. Yes, I can't respect that because at the end of the day, that's fake. That's the same thing. It's goddamn silly. Exist Hold up jay back in what's your She she gotta come come here, might have died, maybe she ain't had that ship put up up, but you get what I'm saying. Stream. Yeah, I feel like at the end of the day, every woman know because at the end of the day, when they're talking

to the nigga, they feel like friends. They know. They only don't know when they're talking to their nigga. Yeah, they know when they're talking to their girlfriend. Girl, he ain't gonna he ain't gonna watching him come home tonight. What you know this nigga? Yeah, you know what you'll got into. So you're gonna learn the love that nigga or like. But you got niggas that are trying to change their selfs knowing they can't change, be unhappy and make what what what what? What are the what? What?

What are the nigga that they is nigga? They they're trying to change. Huh, what if the nigga that they is is a fu nigga and they're trying to change for the better because they know, maybe you need to just go find a better nigga and let me go get another a bitch that like fucked up niggas. Because this bitch that like fucked up niggas, you think that the just sound scream saying is if he know he what if he is trying? It's like what if? What

if the crackhead is trying to get off crack. I don't want to be on crack, but you're on crack. But she got to be able to deal with whatever that process he is for him not be on cracks. Ain't talking about the niggah who tried. I'm talk about the nig who already done accepted who they Yeah, So if I'm a sucking up nigga being me, I ain't trying to beat anything else but the fuck up nigga. So I need to find a bit too, like a funked up nigga. That's what I'm speaking on. Never nigga. Hey, yeah,

nigga try. Yeah, Now I can't go over that. Yeah, most people don't accept who they really are, you know what I'm saying, So you'll be trying to fake try when you know down well, bro, he ain't trying. Hey, this year, I think this year three of of therapy for me, man, and probably I don't got a lot of gem shots from the therapist boy or she really hit me with that. You gotta let people be who

they're gonna be until they decide to be somebody else. Yes, I agree, if you love this person like that's all I'm saying, bro, if you love this person for who they is, because at the end of the day, when you really care about somebody, right, you put yourself in a bullshit that situation by lying saying you want to try or you want to be somebody else when you know goddamn where you don't lying to that feeling like Jay was saying, for she left due to their feelings.

You're trying to be something that your nevil would be. M so that would turn but that turns you into a funk because you said you were gonna do this. I tried. I can't same ship with Tom Brady. I said I was gonna quit once I do win a ring in Florida. No, this ship Boma got them. Yeah, No, I I advised everybody out there at the top of the relationship, just a kind of own What you see is what you get. This is what it is now. I could evolved, you know what I'm saying. But what

you see is what you're gonna get. I'm gonna living an example like my wife. No, like I'm gonna work. I got a problem. I'm addicted. I'm a working holic. At some point maybe there'll be more of a work life balance and all that. Ship. But she went through the first motherfucker over half of this ship knowing that this nigga really be a fall in the morning because he believed or whatever the fun she didn't even unders

whatever he got going on. He believing that ship. Yeah, so he had three phone in the morning every night trying to figure this ship out. She accepted it. But it's for y'all though, Yeah, yeah, different about doing this. She was herself is as you just did. Didn't got back when he got them, put a lake in the backyard immediately, right. What about what about the women that hate the process, the ship that you gotta do to

get to the whatever the prize is. But they'd be the first one, try kind of reap the benefits of it. Fake ship, fake because you know what about that? You know what I hate about that? The niggas that go for that, no real ship and think about it is bro, motherfucker love you for real that don't give a funk what you got or how you get it or what it is. I love you all that. Goddamn who you can be or what you could be. If you looked at me today and I stayed the exact same nigga,

could you love this nigga? That's what it's about you if I never change anything about me, can you love him forever? Him? Now? Who you think I could be? Who I am? That's the key, bro, true story. They'd be loving the idea of a nigga because at the end of the day, damn, this is what I got. I got this, so I gotta love him. It's close enough. It's almost there is it is? That is close enough.

It's close enough. If you if you know, you meet a girl you don't like, she go to the club, but she you met at the club, and that's all she does, go to the club, back to back to back to back to back. He said. Somebody that what you do you to get rid of a learner did with that king? Yeah, she's a club bit. Yeah, that's what I was saying earlier about the strippers. Motherfucker, we feel like they can change you. Run and that ship, that ship, that ship. Don't do them and get get

your feelings hurt. You know what I'm saying. And then they get mad at you because you didn't change some ship that I never agreed to change. Man to me because your plan didn't work. I can't hear you, Jay, now you're thinking what you're thinking was motherfucker thinking they can love you out of being you. Mhm. I'm gonna show you somebody loves that. You're gonna forget who you is and be who I want you to be, not knowing that because I love me so much. That ship

ain't gonna work. Ye, This this is what you get. This is who you got him. But you know I'm nikna do the same ship though. You gotta. You know you got a piece of ship for a bit you're trying to. She ain't gonna stop, bro, That's just what she is learning. Love that king, or find somebody else, m or find somebody all the calls. Yeah, exactly. But I'm saying, but sometimes you stopped like you can buy bitch all the cars, all the whatever, get a teeth,

nails by the hell little ills everything done. She can look at the best top notch what's the top bitches? Uh? Whoever the printiest bitch in the where she looks? But if that inside ain't man detox, she's who she is king. You gotta take it to Baba and get a reader ship. Hey say this same yeah up screen, what we're doing. Y'all took this year to hold another level. Money said that died and came back to life. You have Big Fact Friday's conversations. We gotta keep them going by any

means necessary. It's your baby. We can do enough, but I don't want to do enough with our shop. You don't meet one week, we can't do We can't leave shot two weeks. No got we got? I mean ship we just set up. We can do it when whenever everybody free, everybody at the crib ships nice ship. Yeah, that's Big Facts Friday. In the last words, J Kodak bank that don't start on business. That on business. Don't let the business stand on you. Fact standing gets to do it. On www dot big facts pot dot com,

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