BIG FACTS FRIDAY- Equanimity

What's the sensational? What's up? Look a real presidential over there. Bank. I just came bay of gathering about to drink some of these ship up okay, shouts to gather, spout the home away from home. You know what I'm saying. Let's get to this building. That's what everybody be wenting for all week. What we're building on? What word were building on? Today? Uh damn, I forgot Jane ain't here, So I gotta do the word. It's equanimity. That's how you say it. Yeah,

you gotta read it, you all right? Equanimity, composure, steadiness of the mind under stress, um used in a sentence, the frazile mother maintained remarkable equanimity when her toddler had an epic meltdown. That's speaking to me. It's basically composure, right yeah, holding composure, not going crazy. Uh, equanimity is keeping your I need to practice equanimity. We all should practice that, but we all have times where it's not

always possible to uh practice equanimity, right right? What's one thing that y'all know gonna make y'all lose y'all ships, like, lose your composure. I feel like it differs from situation situation, But like when I'm in traffic and people just like moving hell of slow. Now the Devin man me lose my composed speed up, specially in Atlanta because people Atlanta got traffic for no reason. You'll think it's a traffic jam, but it's just people just moving slow, you know what.

I started to get over that with all that traffic ship, but I still to this day like I haven't mastered. If a nigga just cut me off to go nowhere, you know what, nigga just cut you off the stop in front of you, like you ain't going nowhere. You cut me off, old that made me lose because it's like I can see if you was cutting me off and getting off the age and going somewhere, would cut me out just to be in front of me and slow down. That's one of the things. You got a

race to change lanes in Atlanta. Yeah, when I guess for me, when it comes to traffic, is there, um you know how like you over on one side of the lane and you got somebody that just fly they like they go four lanes over like that right there? Make me lose my ship? Yeah, because I'm like, you're about to cause an accident. I think for me is

a liar. But if I know you lying in my face, oh yeah, my composed when when the mothers just a lot of men just I feel like you're just playing me for stupid yea, yeah, insult to your intelligence and they'll keep and they'll keep adding more lines onto the lot of I can't control my equanimity then, But do you call them out and be like, I know you lying, or do you just keep it inside like this line? I guess I I guess I didn't gain equanimity because now just look at them for what it is and

just be like just write them off. I guess I usually try to convince some motherfucker to know that they lying, Like, tell me you lying more because I know you lying. Yeah, I feel that like on up to that ship. I used to be that type of person, but now it's just like just a lie, you man, fuck you sometime. Let me believe in the last them in their head they're really not lie. That's that's that's that's true. That's a big fact right there. Nah so much they like

people started believing they lie. Ye, not saying people like us, but I'm saying I know people that have lied so much that they'll they'll be telling a lite and I'll be looking like, you don't eve been telling that a lite about three or four years? You you you you believe that lie? Yeah, people, I feel like the motherful would be lying, Like fuck no, they lying. But I just ain't got no sense of accountability whatsoever. It's like

I ain't. I just can't. I can't. They're just like if I was in front of a judge, I'm gonna I'm gonna believe that lie, whatever lie I'm telling, I'm gonna believe wholeheartedly. Maybe that's maybe that's maybe that's the trade of being a good lie. You have to kind of you gotta believe on bullshit. But when the motherfucker got you did to write though, like why a lot to the mother who can't inconcierrate you and who can't kill you by a lie. All you're gonna do is

be like you. But I'm saying I think that's what it's personality traits. Some people just have them. Personality traits were like, some people are just liars. What do you think? What do you think? What you think people do that ship though? I think it's learned behavior. Then they learned in their household. What nah, I think they learned in their household. I don't gonna lie like particular person liar they parents was a liar, just my personal life situation.

Their parents were lives. So you think it's just passed on like learning hereditary hereditary learned. Oh you know what. I can see that because your mama would teach you, like when we go up in this store and we're gonna take this and we're gonna lie about it. And then if they're getting over on the daddy, like keep

this secret. And so now they just think it's normal or or they over here, they MoMA and Daddy lying on the phone and they know they're lying, so they think that's how it's supposed to be, like mama lying, But I guess a mama lying like an lie to mm hmmm. I'm not A lot of that ship be

passed down though, like gossiping. Just a lots of different ship be passed down from my parent that we like, you have to really unlearned a lot of ship because you could be raised by motherfucker's who was who don't even know that they're raising you funked up, yeah, because they they sometimes they raised you based on survival and ship. We can survive today and deal with the rest of

the bullshit later. Sometimes they raised you out not even knowing that they you know what I'm saying, Because you gotta thing, bro, all the bullshit that we ever did coming up, we thought that that was the right way to do ship, you know what I'm saying, Like, we didn't know nothing else. We didn't know that this ain't what you're supposed to do. This was what you're supposed

to do. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. Yeah, And then some people just lie for image, Like some people just lie and put the facade on for image because for one day, don't want people to look at them in a different type of way, or like they don't want them to judge them for certain reasons, so they'll

lie to fit in. Like if everybody on this phone like, oh, I got a new chain, blah bla blah blah blah blah, and I feel a way about me not being able to afford the chain, and I'm a liar, I'm gonna say, oh, yeah, I got a new chain that's on the way, know when I'm lying. Yeah, that's sounds like Instagram. That's on Instagram. A whole bunch of people on Instagram line to each other about ship that don't nobody got right? But is

it okay? So we we we've been through this before, Like if if if you are if if you feel like and you said this before, but if you feel like somebody can't handle the truth, do you a line be getting the truth or see just mute yourself? Like what do you do if you somebody can't handle the truth.

Like we're not talking about the petty lies that we're talking about, but we're talking about like telling somebody about their self type ship, but they can't handle it like that type of ship, Like do you tell them the truth and say fucking and just stand on being truthful? Do you lie to them to protect their feelings? And depends on isn't and how you care for him, if you care for him, if you do, if you really really care for him. I feel like it depends on

what it is too though. Yeah you know what I'm saying. If you if you look at if you ask me about some ship, like I said, some food, if you cut me some food, and it's just I'm gonna saying it good. You're good for that. They're really like lying though, because that she could be Nasty's fuck, ain't attacked, but ain't tacked, like just be it's good. That's lying? What about it? Somebody got some clothes on and they're like, damn in my fresh? Do we lie and be like

yeah when we know they're not. I'm telling them to tell you, but you don't got that ship on. Chad comes into play. I'm telling you because we've we've been down this road before. You bet to be very you bet to tread lightly about a female in their hairstyle, So you better tread lightly now, It depends on who she is though. If she already got her hair and securities,

you lie to her. But if she just a regular real you know what I'm saying, you can tell her honest truth because some of us we want to know the honest truth. But wouldn't lying about how you somebody looked kind of make that situation worse. What what I'm saying is if you win and it's not I'm saying like, if she got on some bullshit and I tell her she don't got on some bullshit and she think that she looked good, so she go out and thinking that

she looked good, the world gonna tell her the truth. Listen, if you, if you, if you're gonna get a suit and all that ship, so that if you decide to go just jump fresh right and you and you and you and you're messing with a chick and that chick, tell you from top to bottom that ain't it. You don't got the suit, Tell her you don't did everything all that. You ain't gonna tell me, you ain't gonna feel away. Hey man, she prevented me from the disaster.

Because if I go out looking like some bullshit is gonna look worse, just her opinion pain because somebody might like this, somebody might think you got it on everybody. That's true, that is definitely true. Yeah. So that's that's why I feel like, just tell the truth because at the end of the day, with somebody, with somebody, you know what I'm saying, put themselves together. If they feel good or they feel like they got it on, they feel good about the ship that they're wearing or their peerers,

that's all that really matter. It depends if you didn't want somebody with no separate them though. You know they can't take this, take criticism. You know what I'm saying, it's way you tell me be like it'side, but I think you should where it is type ship. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. You can't just telling this some bullshit. Then you might shut the whole night like, well, I ain't going, I ain't on, you know what I'm saying.

Or every time I do something, you always feel this way about it or not, and those ship so best it's best for you to be like, well, I like when you at this type of shift. I like when you have like this, I like when that you know what I'm saying, I ain't saying I don't like that, but I like this better better? Yeah, having having some

chat about it, But what about it? If it's somebody that like that's trying to nest with you, and she like, oh I look good, right, but you're really not attracted to her, do you at that point say yeah, you look good? Or do you be like no, huh? I'm saying, like, what if it's somebody that's like a girl like, oh, I know I look good to you, right, but you know you're not attracted to her, do you be like no, you ugly? Or do you be like what's that? Then?

I'm just not interested. Maybe you're prutiful, but not for me. You're beautiful, but not hung up on beauty. I'm hug up on if you can stimulate me, queen. You gotta stimulate my brain, you know what I'm saying. You gotta make me feel. You have to feel you outside of being able to just see right right right, it's bunchy bits. You look amazing. They don't they're not amazing. If you get what I'm saying, you feel the scream. Yeah, no,

you gotta have a full package. You ain't even gotta be pretty if you got damn made me feel a certain type of well, what you look like? I like you? Mm hmm. It's the vibe. Yeah, your funk, what you look like? If you if I like you, I like you, So go ahead, yake, No, I'm I disagree because I feel like that ship. I gotta I gotta be physically attracted to you before we before I can like you. That's a part of me, like me being physically attracted

attracted to women. You missed, you mistaken that because again, physically attracted to women. That's just what it is. Like. I'll take a pig with a weed if she made me feel like I want to feel. If you, if you, if you were stuck on that island what that woman called that, and she was a good woman, then you'll start to understand what really matters. But I'm not stuck

on the island. I got o go. I feel you gotta get what I'm saying, though, bro, like you could be looking That's that's how women be missing the blessing because they still dan't like in high school looking for the for the guy that looked like this, and your blessing could be in the whole. Who do do faith? Said, you know what I said. It could be your whole blessing. It could be who God sent to you in disguise, tall, dark and handsome, dunning or whatever the funk they be.

Won you're looking for that, but God just sent you an angel and you can't even see it because you're blind. Real ship, I'm gonna hear, yacht. What you gotta say, baby, what you what? What you what you gotta save? Baby? What you gotta say a little ugly, a little funny. Look at what you gotta say? What you and whatever she gotta say, whatever she got to say, Gonna feel a lot better when it's a fine face saying and now she said some bullshit and this is ugly face saying.

Now you you know code, I don't be bullying you by with you. But yeah, how you tell you don't get no pussy, bro, because you still hung up on high bitch. Look, yeah we were what we're talking about. We're talking about for relationship. We're just talking about like what he took about for a relationship, right for relationship even even even even also just kicking this ship, like you still dating relationship just you know, like you know

what I'm saying. But they got so much going on. Man, you can fix a bit up if you don't want to be fixed up. Bank she ain't got no chuck that You're gonna have to do something. Now you go ahead. You you had to do something, you feel Yeah, I feel that some folks would be like, this is this is how I am. You should appreciate me how I am. Some women, Yes, we can hear you, then we can see you. Okay, what's that, y'all? What's up? Ship? Talking

about equanimity? Equanimity I don't forget what I mean though, to remain calm in the face of pressure. Oh, yeah, that's that's the word. But now we just talking about basically, Kodak. Kodak is vain. I care about Kodak is vain. So he don't care like if a woman is a piece of ship. He just cared about how she looked. And Banker saying that the new wave is um, you know, seeing somebody for who they really are. To make you feel, they have to make you feel a certain way. They

have to make you feel a certain way. They can't just be fine. They actually gotta have substance. But Kodak disagrees. Koda thinks that don't matter about the substance as long as she looked a lot of people don't care about that ship in real life. That's what we're debating a little bit man, You get one knee, pretty dumb bitches, man, she can't do nothing for you. Facts. Yeah, but a lot of people, a lot of niggers don't care about that because niks ain't really doing that. You Nika just

want the bitches and for a nut. That's a different way. I thought you were talking about shot as was what the question is you ask? I said, I said, Um, what happens if a girl that you're trying to date or a girl trying to date you or something she doesn't look good? Like? Do you tell her she don't look good and be like nah, like she's like, I'm into you type of thing? Do you tell her like,

you know, you don't look good? But if you're, if you're, if you're not attracted to people that look like her, why are you working with her in the first place? Were you really in my question and you wasn't really working with her yet? It's like a girl going up till you trying to mess with you, but you don't find her attractive. Do you tell her like you know, I don't find you attractive? Or do you Hell no, you don't, don't, I don't. I feel like that's extremely insensitive.

I just feel like you just kind of like herber Like what Banks said. I'm gonna see what she got going on, because I don't know how my blessing come. My blessing could be coming in an ugly bitch for him. I don't know. Hello a queen, bro. You know I mean the ugly bitches. I know that look good now lot the ugland beach with ugly fun they look great. I know some ugly bitches. That's still ugly too, but something some of them pretty ones fell off to a nose. You can fix a bit however you want. They got

something for everything you think. If she got a big note, we can fix that. A mouth fucked up, we can get a teeth done. She ain't got no as. We can take some out of stomach and put it on the as. This ship different, bro, But I think the bigger I think the bigger picture to the ship is is okay. Once you fix the bitch up how you wanted to look, you still gotta deal with what's on the inside. I'm saying, if I a you see what I'm saying, what banker saying, If if I like what's

on the inside, I can fix it. The however, I wanted to look it on the inside, staring out inside just like a fine bitch. I can't fix our inside. Yeah, that's why actually got the fixing. Like before you got she's there, ugly bitch, try to ho let you do you just curve? I said, no, i'mping to see if I can vibe with her. I don't know, she might be my vibe. And then if she just ugly, we

can fix that. Yeah. And all this long ass hell they got that you can put in a bit of head and all these makeups and ship they put whole faces on. Bitch of the day. But then again, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, though, because who's to say she's actually ugly. I'm just saying, if she is, we still can fix that. Was her spirit is clean? How many how many niggas is actually I heard building visions? How many? That's a difference she got sticking the bro

that's a deference talking about physically and bodies. These faces and got that gives them screws rate is ten bands. What nigger got that throw not putting that. We're not talking about the average. We're talking about credit cover and the goal rates ten bands the upgrade. I'm just saying, you can't even get good teeth. You can get if this bit ugly, that means she ready to work. So we're gonna work this bitch till we get hustle. Got there,

That's what I'm That's what I'm saying. It really in the real world mostly glad man, man, I would have got me a Messican woman. What I'm saying when you see the Mesican women was it being real real ship? When you see the Mexican women, hoo, we having paint on them and ship? The black girl gonna standing which you paint the house? The Misican womans and ship, they'd be paint tod ship and everything. Non people just came to fix two Basically, people just came to fixul ship

at my house and on everything. He was a man and his wife. I ain't gonna lie being from l A. Mexicans are like, yes, Mexicans are very hot like women man, because they're getting in the mud with them. Dudes. Man, The black girl uh, what better ground that level. No, I'll just say you can't tell nobody what makes them feel good. See how you all be like, how did

that nigga get her? How did she get him? It's a feeling that you get from that person, right, mm hmm, yeah, Like he left that girlfriend, he left that girl for this uglass girl. She don't make him feel like that. Yeah, speaking fast, speaking big facts like, I don't know what else to say, Like, it's like, how could you like, I don't know no what you say it is fact does It comes down to the feeling. It don't matter how. It don't matter how amazing the person looked or you

perceived them to look. Like that ship, that ship wear out anyway. I'm gonna grow all together. That's gonna wear out anyway. So we're in that rot even when that ship gonna grow out. So you ain't just been a build on anything. You've been already be built what y'all got, and then you're gonna invest in your woman already got you and know what you are. You're talking about the physical build of chick. You'll tell about the physical point.

We're gonna already be unbuilt emotionally and spiritually Yea, even if you go buy her Jay saying that, even if you go buy her ask and buy all that other ship, it's still gonna fade away. Yep, you're saying, after you you af you invest in the bitchess, she thinks she's fine, she got there different Na, No, No, what I'm knowing though, what I'm saying is, Okay, you're saying that that that, Okay, this bitch got good inside, and you're gonna build a bitch up to make her worth looking at that night

every night. But even if you build a bitch up to make her look like something that you feel like looking at every night after a certain amount of years, that ship is still gonna alter. Also, like what's already like you, I'm just doing that for yourself, this statement already like you. You don't have to get this for me. You just said the bench was ugly. I still like you already. I don't just like she's just not that attractive, y'all not getting what I'm saying. I guess you're missing

the point on what I'm saying. I'm saying, I'm gonna build up for perception for her, but but she may make me feel away that I don't. I don't see her how you see how people see her. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Yes, that's what I could see her with my heart. That's different, ship. I could see her with my heart. So she's beautiful to me no matter how she looks. But if she got low set his team, I may help her with her I already feel the way I feel about you. We're

not big. It's like it's like building and the beast, right, Yes, he's like building the beast. Okay, everybody, what what the fund you doing with this beasts? The beauty is like, man, this beast is beautiful to me. This is my beast. This is my beast. That's all I'm saying. I'm saying, like the end of the day, she's your beast. Yeah, at the end of the day, she could be the worst ship in the world to you, but be the

best ship in the world to me. But if I see that she feels like, well, I can't, I can't, like I don't feel right being around you because you you who you is? Who who? Then I'm gonna help her build a confidence up whatever whatever it is that she wants, not because I already like you for what you is. If you want what you think you need, Baby, I'm straight with you, how you is what you think you need? All about that one? Are you gonna tell me? I'm saying if you if you already made me feel hot?

If you're looking at her, are you looking at one particular trait? If you're not looking at it, light that screen, because you already do not fulfill me? If you fulfill me, Bro, I guess, I guess how does she already get there? If you're not even attracted to her? How did she get there to fulfill you? If you're not to women? Nah, but that's it. Let's let's let's let's let's let's create a hypothetical situation. Babe. All right, so you meet in

theory you a woman. We don't say, I'm gonna say who is you may wand up from women color, that's a nigger. It ain't wonder Jamie. So let's let's just say the woman has a couple of attributes. We won't A couple of attributes you don't care, A couple of wonder is attributes? What maybe she cross eyed? Maybe she is? But Bro, at the end of the day, Bro, they say a dark shades man and all types of ship. What you gotta look her in the eye, sit across from her the dinner table. We can talk to the dark.

You can't tell me about me. I know we can talk into the dark. So you gotta talk to the dark. That means you really ain't all the way embracing it because you think about it. That could we probably never see out And the second she make you mad, you can be like, damn, look at this cross side of as bitch. We just not seeing out of eye. She cross side, We go down to see out of the eye. So that ain't gonna work. Yeah, what about a mid? I'm saying though, bro, what about mid? Some of them think?

Think about this? Right? If you had a best friend as a woman right coming up, you know that this is a good woman, right, but she ain't all that hot, and you and y'all fall in love with each other, how did that work? You know this woman, you know her inside out. You got a chance to really meet her, You got a chance to know she's a good person, right m hm? So why are you? Why are you blind?

Aby how she looks? But if it's your best friend coming up, like you, you've already gotten past how she looks. That's what I'm saying, didn't I just say that early in the conversation, I said, if I meet a woman and I like and and she makes me feel how I want to feel, no matter what we could have. We could have met on some business, we could have

met on anything. I don't know what how we met, but if it turned into a physical or whatever type of relationship, like you're the one, I don't give a funk how you look, how the funk I put a against that because of who are worried about how y'all feel? A big fact Friday gonna feel about how she looks, because you know what you know, what you're saying is right, Bank.

But what I'm saying is, and I'm gonna pull out a little bit of my inner code that when it comes time to jump in that bare room or jumping that shower with that woman, but you cant you still got to be attracted to the woman. But it's proven that most ugly people have fat asses. I'm gonna keep when motherfucker's stimulates, I get something different. I'm a gemini. Motherfucker be on the same level with me. Mental. I'm already harned for you. That's just how I am. Bro.

If you if you got me right here, you got me all the way I can go for that. I just you, I can go for that. I'm just being real. If you got me right here, do well. Every time we we got it's never a dull moment. We cool.

We who you got me? Fucked up when you when you was young, when you was young young, you know you know you didn't never say some ship like, man, I don't know about a woman with no feet christy his feet or no, god damn christy feet are too totally Yeah, krusty feet could be fixed and big feet. Krusty feet are a hygiene issue. Big feet is speaking speaking hypothetically. I already had stake since I was sixteen

years old, right right, right, That's what we're saying. What I'm saying is, at the end of the day, if I feel like if I was to meet a woman and if I didn't have her, and that she made me feel exactly how I want to feel as a man, like she covers all angles, don't given what she looked like. Okay, so that that goes for to talk not to talk really tall, really short, really big, really small, really really really really white, really Asian, really black, really whatever, whatever,

just whatever. I ain't gonna say race. But if I meet a black woman, what if women like black women? You know what I'm saying. I grew up in the household my grandmama and my sisters. I like black women. They just so if I meet a black woman, no matter how she looked, because I feel like all women are pretty. That's just how I feel women and women, and especially I don't like I said, but I don't see some don't turn into some ship, So you can't tell me like, bro, have it the bitches y'all looking

at on Instagram? They ugly, Oh take all that ship off and ship there's some bullshit. Bro, we just see that bullshit. That that fix up costume. You're right about the costume and that fix up make all these bits you look like something. But that when they fix up, do they look set? Like he was saying, oh, y'all saying when you say nobody was just saying, who if y'all saying could be a this just ain't met the fixer upper yet. They ain't. They ain't met Bob the builder,

the mother who would send her to the right. Uh, the right stylist, the right hairstylist, the right facial people, the right nail people, the right he ain't sent them to the right people. Yet you're asking for it. It's a lot of fixing up. And when I can just go get a new car. I don't need car. The ain't a new car. Bit jumping out the bed for you do to fix the face of ship's saying he said, he said, he said, He's saying he rather just in theory,

hold out for the natural bad chick. That's all that the same, Yes, And now you want a natural bad piff you want to take that's already been fixed up. Now that different, You get a natural Now natural is different. Oh your Twitter you said you don't care if it's a bbl or if it's not the thing about it, No, bro, when we're not talking about ask think about procession. These days, we don't got to confuse what a real pretty woman was supposed to look like. Just real. That's true. We

don't got this ship confused. Yeah, that's true. That yeah, yeah, I agree with that. Like now there's something else that's been made up. All the fake ship look better than the real ship. Yeah, you have a badass, pretty ass lad. They're just pretty. Alicia was shot. She don't look the same as they made up bitches. Mm hmm. I think it's coming back around, though it is for sure, No, for sure, it's right, it's knocking on the dog. I

think it's coming back around. We're I'm saying it don't take much for a woman, but especially out of black woman. I don't even she look you got them putting them little gotting the eyebris and eyelashes and now that ship on the motherfucker she gonna look at your knee. Really, bro, don't take that much. But what's the word again? Equanimity? Equanimity? Equanimity? Think we just got off track. We always building equanimity and what what is it? So? M what is it?

The ability to keep your composure? Yeah, keep your composure and stressful situations? How does so how does y'all get to plastic surgery? Off of that building? We've got to talk about liars and liars makeing and liars kind of got to that do you lie to a woman or do you tell her the truth? That was kind of like my question that ran into that. So what are some other ways? So we know that A big way to we all agree that we lose that equanimity is

like blatant liars. But what's some other things. That's probably the biggest thing. When people take advantage of you m hm, or or or when people insult your intelligence, that's the same thing in lying to me in my face and something. It's the same family. Yeah, what about disrespect. I can't agree with that they take advantage of me because I ain't don't even let nobody take advantage of me. I ain't even never be the victim. H what about? What was it? What was just saying, try to take advantage

now try that's the same thing. You try to take advantam me, you lot of me. I get what you're saying. But she said, when people take advantage of you, now try it as a difference. I just did want because at the end of the day, I'm gonna get your head back. Yeah, but sometimes people, sometimes people get taken advantage of and they don't even know that they're being

taken advantage of exactly like exactly an end ahead. I was gonna say, like some people really go into that and make you think that they're being pure and genuine. But in reality, they have alternative odors, alterior motives, and then at the same talking what you said about like the whole get back or whatever, like that's cool and everything, and it's a process to be able to learn that the get back really takes too much energy and really like funs up your universe in like a certain way

or whatever. But the get back is is is, for lack of a better way to put it, like going backwards. I guess that's a woman ship because at the end of the day, if a man so was saying that he's been taking advantage of you a bit, I disagree me.

I feel like if you let somebody take advantage you, you know, when somebody taking advantage of you, I don't because because when because when you when you're when like you said, when you're one of those pure hearted people and you have a good heart and your intentions are

in the right place. People that don't have good intentions oftentimes are able to pick up on that and are able to adjust their motives to fit something that will make you think that you're actually helping them, when at the end of the day, they're actually like using you. It happens to the best of us. Yeah, I get it. It happened to the best of It happened to the

best of people pleasers. When you sit in to me, when you sit and think about energy, you know when somebody is taking advantage of you with somebody ain't right? You know it, you can feel it. I'll talk you just you just want to be slapped in the face with it. You don't want to believe what it is. You know, if you, if you, if you putting this ship on the scale, like we said, don't be a fat fried Like, what do they do this for me? Or do they do this for me? Or do they know?

So I know I'm being taken tooking advantage of off the real but sometimes but sometimes to take advantage happens before you even get a chance to put it on the scale. When ya gotta hear me, I'm saying, least help me understand when you might even over one time, but you're not gonna taking advantage of me more than one time. To me, Oh okay, Well that we got a totally different opinion. I mean totally they keep on they using you. Now you get over on me, Yeah

you got down, but what if the sunds now? But I think what go back after nig got out on you and let keep nothing to get out, then that's to me, that's taking advantage. Am I tripping a little bit? I think what they're talking about is, like, let's say wholeheartedly, like if somebody came around and they act like they were pure, they act like they were genuine with you, they act like they're genuinely trying to help you and all of that, but in reality, they're just trying to

get closer to screen to get the mixtape. So you don't really know that you're thinking that this is my boy, we're hanging out advantage of me? How did you take advantage of me? That's wo man. I guess just lying to you and then like using you, using your relationship. It maybe asking you for I don't know. Some people let me let me ask you this black real quick. So do you believe in second chances? Not really? I just all relationship people suck on me. I just to him,

I ain't gonna let you take advantage of me. I still folks me. I ain't. I don't funk, which I can funk with you. We can get money together, we could do being together, but I don't funk. Which ain't no second chance. But if you but okay, so let me ask you this. If you like, if you don't funk with somebody, how could you funk with him? I'm saying I could do. I told you all this ship twenty five episodes ago, twenty five episodes ago. I can get money with the motherfucking worst ning in the world.

I could do being with the worst ning in the world. But you don't have this. Oh, you mean strictly on like some business. Other than that, you're not other than that, I don't funk with you. Do you tell them you don't sunk with them? You know I don't funk with you if you try to take advantage of me. So you think I'm I'm just sleep Yeah, some people do be Some people don't know this. When people taking advance of food, that's not naive. You know how you don't know?

You know, you know, you don't never sucked over you. You You knew they were sucking over you when they were doing Nah, I disagree they got away with it. They did it more than one time. You knew they were sucking over you. I don't agree with that. You know how to queen you use a forgiving person I'm not, so I can't see from your eyes. I can see from mine. If you funck o me one time, you'll funk with me again. So I can't look at you

the same. This is you can't. I can't retrust you how because you say you saw it's trying to That's like trying to put air back into a balloon. Man, it's not gonna work. You said you're sorry, So I bought to retrust you all over again like I pought to love you with the same heart. No, I'm gonna just this motherfucker because you don't already show me your character traits how so you don't believe in like um no stories and know you you are sorry every time

I told ther, motherfucker, I was sorry. Even my wife I told him I was sorry because she was hurt. I wasn't sorry for me. I was sorry because I got caught. Let's be real, you ain't lying. M hm. I was sorry. I want to did it s ship. I would never do to her because I just know that's that's that's that's when I feel like, how that crossed you? Mm hmm. If I did something my own happiness, how the funk I'm gonna be sorry for it. I'm sorry for how it affected you. I'm sorry that you

found out real ship. Yeah m hmam being one hundred. That's how I feel. I can't tell screen code at Jay or shot how to feel how I feel. I think we've all had that moment where we're like, damn, we fucked up. Yeah, that's what. Listen. You can feel bad about something because you feel bad because of how the person feel that you care about. That's the only reason you're the case. You want to did it? You've never done something, and then why are you doing it?

You're like, Damn, I shouldn't be doing this. I did, and I'm happy I'm doing this to get caught you happy I'm doing it. I don't know about that I feel. Man. Man, I'm just saying, you ain't never You ain't never did some ship and on that ride home you feel bad about it? What? Or are you didn't like? You didn't like? What? What? I don't do something else? I'm more own on steal from old ladies and ship. That's ship I feel bad about.

I'm just saying hypothetics speaking. I'm not a I'm not a cheater, but I don't have partners that I feel bro, if I cheated, Bro, that's what I wanted to do. How to Funk'm gonna feel bad about nothing? I'm crying. Did you feel bad at any point? No? If she felt But I'm sorry that you. I just said that

I'm sorry because you found out. But what about like if like, okay, I got one, you just had what if you just had like a bad day at home and then you come to you come to work and somebody step on your shoe and you cut their ass out, you go crazy on them, but you're really just taking out your frustrations for at home. When you apologize, then are you sincerely sorry or you just like fucking I'm

still mad? Like how does that work? You gotta be sincerely sorry because it wasn't It wasn't for them exactly. That's what I mean. I guess I'm trying to get thank you if if I step on the niggatoel Edward and I cut didn't want to cut him? Huh at the house. You're already mad about things that's going on at home. You come to work. I've been looking forward. They're gonna get into it with him. I want to get into it with him be that way. I don't

like him. If I come to work right now, I came to work, should take you to piece me off to the thirties thousand degree. I don't take that out on y'all. Listen, listen to two sides of this. This is what I'm trying. I don't see no bout of that I want to get into it with. So sometimes sometimes actions that sometimes the actions that you're gonna apologize for, you don't necessarily know the like the results of that actions. So let's say you got a household, right, you got

a household, you got your kids, everything is good. You cheat, you don't give a fuck, right, you get caught. Now you give a funk because you got caught, like you say, but that funk up your whole household. So a year or two down the line, now you now you now got resentment because you can't be with your woman and your kids at the same time, or that type of like you got to be sorry about that? Who you're not sorry to? Your kids? Know what my kids? I ain't to. What's it my kids? Now I'm saying you

broke up the family that the kid. The kid want to see. We come from different we come from different ship. Bro, just say that, we just come from different ship. But at the end of the day, if I if I, if I cheat and she say, I have to league my kids. Hey, we need to figure out a way to co parent. This is what it is. My kids grown anyway, So I made all of this is hypothetical. No,

all of this hypothetical. Great debate. But if your kids walk up to you and say, Daddy, I'm saying that you did that ship, I told him straight up, You're gonna understand when you get old and get your older get this man ship happens. I'm living in real. This is my real. No. No, no, I don't know. I don't know what else to say. Oh else to say it, but no, no, you got you gotta speak to your truth. I just think I was if I said I'm sorry, I was sorry that I hurt you. I want sorry

for what I've done. So that means you would do it again? Yes, yes, yes, I hope that. Hey, just what it is, bro, I'm never a motherfucker who does anything. They're not sorry for what they done, truly, they're sorry that they hurt you. Man, if you go, if you if you at that job. Why the funk what you doing? If I think about it, let me say the screen

one thing about it. Most of these women, most of these niggas who feel like they don't want to risk what they got, they're not gonna do it that they know that we're in their world, so ain't even thinking about this. Look at the little kids. So why would I do? How are you gonna make a mistake and suck a dick? Bitch? That's what you wanted to do? How are you sorry? Now? You hate motherfucking sorry? Funk out of here? Man, he tricked me, stop you So you're gonna take a sorry? I mean she gotta take

you're sorry? You don't gotta sorry? What do you mean? It's more it's more common for a whole sorry. No, I'm just saying it's more common for a woman to take a man sorry when he cheats on her than it is for a man to take her sorry if she was take the same ship that women accept. I agree. I just said that y'all women, So y'all aren't gonna understand why I'm coming from. He said, it's way back. Why would you accept the same way that he would expect me to accept? Him cheating. He don't you just

do it? He never told you to do that crazy ship because there's there's uh, there's a fucking an egregious double standard in the world. Fucking that a fucking female. It's supposed to They don't suppose to. Nobody said that. Y'all said that you have a choice. So are we gonna be like? Are we gonna be? Are we gonna be? Like? What's what's what the fund is this show called Man? Because choice? Man? Come tell you, I'm sorry, Millia times you didn't have a choice to do? What the fun

you want to do? Listen to what I'm saying. Did You're missing the whole point in what I'm saying. In the world, and in the fucking westernized United States or fucking North America or whatever the fun you call it living in a woman is expected to no matter what the man does, sitting home with her legs, take care of the kids and fucking cleaning a weak bitch. I know some bits who feel like, ain't going for that? Fuck you, I know, plent on what ain't going for?

Not on that? Oh you're not, That's not what I'm saying. That's not A woman is not call that. You don't know what the funk I'm saying, Well, you don't know what you say, Go ahead and shame saying. What I'm saying is in a in a typical in a typical setting where you call that, I'm playing in a typical

setting where a man and a woman is together. The woman is expected to submit to the man, take care of the click, take care of the kids, clean the house, cook stick beside him, whatever, whatever, while fucking Papa can't go be a rolling stone, have no problem, no consequences, no nothing that's wanted. Three name a bit. During that ship you just had the one outside man. No. But what I'm saying that they ain't thinking about no igga to what no nigga, tomboy. That's what I'm saying to you.

That's what I'm saying to you. A bitch ain't thinking about what the nigga is talking about. But the nigga can't accept the fact that a bitch ain't thinking about what you're talking about. They can't. Nigga, No gonna fly, bitch, get your wings and fly on Birdie flying. That's not Berdie's flying. That is not mad that I'm gonna give you your wings and at the same time, at the same time, the stocking rate in the fucking United States of America is through the roof. No, no, baby, you're

speaking for I don't know. I don't know. What I'm saying is at the end of the day, if if I was in if I was in a relationship with a woman and she is upset with anything I do, if I snore and she had a choice to wake up and say I'm done, I'm crying, no matter how sad I look, how many lies I say that I'm sorry, bitch, you can say enough, that's enough. The buck stops here. Straight up, what bankers saying, that's cool. Everybody know. Everybody know. What I'm saying is that's cold. Let me say this

for him. I'm not trying to cut you out, but what I'm saying is that's cold for black and black is one of It's a lot of nigga whatever whatever, But it's most niggas say, okay, yeah, a bitch can

kick rocks whatever whatever. But then when they wake up the next morning and they realized that they don't have this bitch that was doing everything for him, that was making him feel how he wanted to feel and he just fucking made a rash decision to tell this bitch to go because he was in his feelings about his wrongdoing. Then okay, here comes the fucking, the fucking aggravated, stalking, fucking whatever whatever like that. Go for the bitches who're

taking kire of niggas. Man. When you when you, when you n you know how to cook your own meals, you know how to watch your own clothes, you know how to do everything you need to do. You don't need a bit for them, But some pussones. Okay, I don't say you nigga, who you? Who you got? Damn No, I'm not sure that's not what I'm talking about. A

nigga can know how to do everything for himself. But at the same time, if if, if, if this woman is making him feel like something that he's not able to feel like by himself, huh, why do Yeah, most men don't have a good reason of why they cheat. They be ego what most men just cheat just because it's kept. Then why they cheat? Why they're looking for

something else that they ain't got? Okay, No, because a lot of times they go cheat with somebody that's like not even on the standard of who they stop par Do you think that's your standard? That's what you think you think that's your standard. A nigga could be a whole dirt bomb than looking for another dirt bag. Bitch crying was keeping it real. You can't say you can

some be missing. I don't know what it is. He don't probably know what it is, but something be missing my computer, This ship better go there, somebody nigga on man. Most of them just do it just because and then like some niggas would be some niggas would be really in that relationship and cool with that relationship, but scream. They hang around number homeboys that don't got ship going and homeboys that cheat, so they'll be trying to fit

in with them. If you sit here talking about all the bitches you fucking, they want to be a part of that conversation with all the bitches they fucking, So they start cheating for no reason. That's why jay Z cheat. Don't be on safe because he can. Yeah, okay, we're gonna make all excuses in the realm. She she probably was on tour too much, he was missing something. If he was missing something, I ain't leave her and exactly niggas, won't they cake and eat it too. I can't eat.

I ain't gonna take that from a nigga. People. Won't they caking either, because I might go get something I can get from this bitch and I can't get from you, but I can't get get from her, but I can get from you. That's the truth. They eat it too, niggas. That's the truth, both sides. But I need this right quick. What we were just talking about. Man does do wrong. You could just choose, because you have the freedom of choice to say fun him and do away with him.

A lot of women don't do that. You get some mold bits to them add up to this one bitch. But then when this one bitch who's the cake that you want to eat too, goes and get a cookie, then you want to flip out and lose your mind. I already know what you is. I don't a little my mind or some ship. It ain't. This ain't man, don't What are you talking about? What you're not talking about the same thing? We can't be queen. I don't know.

At the end of the day, if she stepped out, then the the woman step out and the man lose their mind, but it was the other way. The woman's supposed to accept it. That's what you're said, but nobody said. I don't feel like some niggas gets what bro I'm gonna keep it always one hundring. I don't see niggas who girl cheat on them and they try to accept it. What you're gonna do, You're gonna run yourself crazy because all you're gonna do is think about what she could

have been doing. So the best thing to do is just leave alone like I. Like I said, my bis can have a whole another husband somewhere else. I wouldn't know, because at the end of the day, she respect me. That's good enough for me. But once I find out, ain't gonna bay to live with it. That's the difference. Niggas can't live up with that ship. That's all I'm saying. I gone and and he's said, and he and I gotta be smart about it. There's everybody, but everybody not

built like that. What he's saying is correct. There are some niggas that would probably most donna beat them. They gona be killing their seven, killing them, girl. Can they try to stay with them because they're so weak that they can't walk away. They try to stay with them because the don't want the negga to have them. Then when they do all that, they knowing they can't be with her. Bro, you know you can't be the woman that's a cheese on you? How How because are you

thinking about you? But you're gonna drink every time it's bitch lead, You're gonna think about, Oh, she's gonna go get that nigga. Anytime you do anything, you're gonna think about that. Niggas just like women do. Probably, But the end of the day, niggas can't deal with that and be a man. How are you gonna deal with that and still try to got them go out and get you some money to go out of hell and your business.

It's impossible for me. So I'd rather you just try to be the sneakiest bitch you can be on earth. I take that disrespect. You caught it consequences. That's just how I feel about it, because everybody niggas are always thinking. Bro. One thing about it. Bro the bitches to sneak his thing in the world. Well, nigga, bitch, you boted me, He'll be sucking dick man. What bitchapoted to do bitching up. Man, you're a dick sucker, bit. Shut the funk up straight up.

I'd have seen them crown nigga's dick. He cheating on me, But funk out of here, b is, bro. One thing about the hood. Fuck up when you grow up in the hood. Fuck up right now. My name is another nigga lash name. That ain't my daddy. I don't put my kids in another nigga name. I was boring into this ship. A nigga can't tell my sister kids is one of her babies is then another nigga name. Man, I'm not going for it, bro, so respect me at all costs, and I'm gonna respect you at all costs.

That's all I can say, because you ain't gonna convince me like and I respect Chante to the max. We get together all the time. We had some beautiful kids. Hey, man, when you buy a call, you get up. You get tight up when you buy how you get these? I need you, I need I need um. I need paternity test for my kids. There's something wrong with that. I've never found a man in her phone. I've never seen her out with a guy. I've never seen nothing but for my sanity and the way I see the world.

Do that for me, and I feel like that should be mandatory of any man. But you don't do you Do you understand how that could come off as disrespectful to the woman. If it's disrespect for that, mean you've been somewheret sucking dick. A real woman gonna be like, I don't give a funk what it is. Nigga, Come on, nigga, what's ending like she did? Let's go, Nigga, Na to me. He's gonna do it all that crime. I can't even leave it. She don't know, bro, she's scared. Bro, she

she's scared. If anything you own, don't you get receipts, you're gonna start up to get Let's say anything of yours. Don't you got receipts and titles and deeds to it? Am I tripping up? Whatever I could be? They're gonna roast me to coming. I don't give a y'all get better go checking kids, you know, like you and dad on your auntie side, not on. Oh yeah, I can't

hear you shot hear me? Okay. I feel like that's because you're only judging her off the way that you think when people do, like I said, the way I see the world, queen, But that's because you be on bullshit. So you already assume that anybody around and I'd be on bullshit. It's how I was domesticated. It's the way I see the world. What's the what's the word for that ship? Did you call that? No? No, no no no.

When you when you project, yeah, that's projecting. That's projecting because because of because of your sit could have been wrong. But I could have been right, so I could have been right. So I've been right. So right right, I'd rather be Man, I'm gonna call up there man, no more drinks, Man, go in that road. Let me never man, y'all think it's crazy, Bro, you can't understand. It's gonna be some niggers. I know y'all need coming like baby saying, Bro,

they're gonna lose their bit with you. Don't don't do what I do? Yeah, bit get it. I see why you would want one. You ain't never whoever babies look seemed like day to one. Well, I'm from whoever baby see like he whoever baby see like he got a fruture head? Really at the suburbs of the West Side. Nobody never been shipped talking that real freak Nick Atlanta talk right now. But you can't tell me how you look at ship. Yeah, it'd be the same girls who look at who know they got a nigger like, he

ain't gonna after over, he ain't gonna after that. She's been gulking. I don't know who baby it is. I'm telling you from about the real iff, I have a baby. Baby, we're gonna hit We're gonna hit them. Now. They're saying you could do it in the stomach. Yeah, you can't ship, But what woman would get upset about that? Though? I think for me, I wouldn't. I wouldn't deny the test because of course, if that's how you feel, you want

to do it, cool, But I still feel away. I don't feel like if we got to get a fraternity that though, Yeah, I would literally not like that. I'm not saying that like that, but I'm just saying that the relationship would never be the same. I looked like I guess, I just I guess. I guess it's a different because we were kids when we got together whatever, and she grew up with me, so she see how I was this mess. That's why she didn't take you in no way she didn't. But but what but what

do you think is this with the girl that's outside? Sir? Get you a blood test? That's different, but on a on a way more dumbed down level. Right, it's way more dumbed down level. Is she say, hand me your phone, it's in there. Whatever you want to see, it's in there. You show you on it, but get the past. Like when I asked for the blood testing. Right now my phone is wide open, look like the like the doors of the church. Right now, my phone is wide open

like the doors. I'm thinking as a teenager coming up trying to be in love and be in a relationships in all this, So ship, what does astify you? Old man? What does she ask for the phone? Then she asked for the phone? Didn't she know it's in't? Ugh? Uh? What are you talking about? Bro? So your first so your first reply is not gonna be you don't trust me? This is gonna be here on the phone. How can you trust me? Bro? What were different? Bro? We need I guess I don't know. Bro, we need to be

I need to be on another podcast. I guess this is big committed cast. I guess I'm talking about. I come up in era where I had to grow out of being that person. Dogm. I'm just being one hundred. So I'm speaking from these same folks who listen to this ship, listen to listen to me, who follow me and ship be them type of people that's coming up through that same ship, big faithful m hmm. Need to get your paternity tiest nick them them type of niggas do He's ain't them type of niggas who when they

got a good girl. The niggas who going on a whim Hey we're gonna get together. Membership revoked? Am I tripping? Bro? No? No, no, listen. You know the beautiful the beautiful thing about our conversations and Big Fast Friday and everything is that it's the different perspectives of See, I get it. I ain't necessarily a neggative thing like that, but I know nigga's that

thing just like that. Is that better thing like that because you're not probably dealing with a woman like that, Bro, I don't talking about niggas that dealing with then with Ja little Jojo, Little Jojo got a baby about too, Bro, and such and yes, you know she'd be at Cruicial and she knows she'd be back then kitchen with the them, and not like that about her brother project. But hey, no, that ain't even gotta be proud of that ship. That

could be corporate shipped too. So you you you're saying something maybe that should be it's twenty years old, like when I had my baby. Bro, my first child was seventeen years old. Bro, how the funk I ain't even trust me? How the funk I'm gonna trust it? Won't trust somebody else? Right, A right, That's all I'm saying. Like y'all, like this sounds like a foreign language. I guess caun we older, but I'm still we gotta speak from where we come from too. Now for sure, a

baby raising a baby. That's why I'm different with my grandkids. Now. You know what I'm saying, I'm not gonna tell these things to Raleigh unto the era when she gets here. You know what I'm saying, I'm not gonna tell them to my to my granddaughters. That's why I'm getting it all out now. Yeah, but Shot Jones, let's talk about you, Shot Jones. So if a dude, if you're go in a relationship with a dude, he's supposed to trust you,

yes or no? Yes, okay, Jake, If you go to relationship with a dude, he's supposed to trust you yes, okay, y'all to two out of a billion, because I think honestly for me, because I haven't been in many relationships. So if I decided to really be in a relationship, I'm just saying in a regular relationship, not really be a relationship a regular would because you are said you

would cheat though, Like that's what I'm saying. You already have said you will cheat, Okay, so let's take shot out of the equation so you won't cheat on no nigglen. That's cal Oh okay, it's it's finding me how, it's fighting me how man hey w W no flinning me how because because because here's here's here's my theory, like on the whole ship, right, I don't tie myself down

the niggas. So if if if I'm sucking with you to the point where I decided to make it to the point where a nigga can point me out and be like, oh that's a bit or whatever, I'm like, why would I do anything to jeopardize that if I've already made a decision that I'm gonna fucking take your seat. Yeah, they they didn't. Then being together two different things. Okay,

I just I quit. Bro Like, it's I love y'all girls and I'm feeling good is changed from rid to um white is a Kabernet Stop, ain't ya No, it's a shot a sweet reasoning. Oh yeah, that's sweet reasoning and sweet muscott are the two best kind. Mm hmm you drink the whole bottle. Yeah, I got another one over there too. I'm feeling great, but you know, to each his own, man, and I hope everybody who listening

got okay, yeah my bad. We're not near done. Okay, but you know, at the end of the day, Bro, like I said, Man, nothing that I did I could say, I'm truly sorry for nothing. We're not get big damn. I feel like I feel you, but I feel like maybe maybe sorry the word, but I apologize. Remorse bad, maybe remorse fo. You're going to be remorse get turned back in the hands of times you probably would not

have you right about that. Listen, scream You're gonna be remorsefullly if you see somebody it's affecting someone that you love. To me, you're not sorry, You just you just you just don't like that you hurt someone you love. So you really ain't sorry, bro, that that mother were like, I don't give a funk about that. You wouldn't give a funk either, So why do why do people say so? What? What in the term my bad bro? What does that mean? Like? What if somebody would say you might you might say that.

You might say to Day or Jade or whoever, like my bad that ain't I'm sorry? Though? What is that part bad parton me? That's basically like you know what I'm saying, part my bad part of me. I'm to my like, I'm sorry. You know what I'm sorry? Is niggas do that that I'm sorry? Y'all? Are the R the R and B singing sorry ship? Yeah I'm sorry? Huh the ones that I'm sorry, y'all? Never do this again? Trying to Day, You ain't bro, really be hurt? Being

hurt and being sorry two different things? To me? What's what's the difference? I feel like you hurt because you don't hurt somebody that you love. Sorry, Now you me explain the screen please being sorry is I would never do that again. If the time came for you to do something like that again and you won't get caught,

you will That ain't sorry, bro. So So if a nigger standing in front and judge about to get his time for say it whatever, and he looked over to the family of a person to say I'm sorry I did that to that person, you don't think that they sorry. You think that it's only because it hurts that family. You don't think that they have no remorse and they're not sorry at all. Bro the sells to make your aunts hair remorse. No, I got a good one. Somebody

you saw you everything into courts. Sorry, So someone can be sorry because what if you accidentally run somebody over You were just driving one pay attention. You actually run somebody over, kill him, So now you're different, that's different. I'm sorry. I might do something intentionally wrong, but bank man intentionally wrong, But bank ain't sorry that I took that money. Man, I'm sorry I got caught. I'm not sure what if you run out then make me shoot

his aunt and they ain't want to do it. Yeah, I might be sorry for because I didn't want to do that. Yeah, like what if you do something in the heat of the moment, In the heat of the moment, yeah, I can't for the money, I guess you'll not understand what I'm saying. I'm saying if I get a bit nomber off Instagram, call her, go funk her chante, find out how the funk? Am I sorry? That's okay, you're not because you did it, you really mean to you

meant to go and do it. If you lost chante or if the person lost their woman forever and the woman would never come back, would you have remorse and say, if I could do it all over again, I wouldn't do that because I didn't want to lose this person. That's why. That's not being sorry, or that's just being like, damn,

I fucked up. That's like accepting. That's that's accountability separate and remorse from being It's just like a nigga if a nigga, if a nigga get caught for a cramp and goddamn you just whatever the folk however it go, that what it is you accepting, what come with it? You're not sorry, that's what come with I did what I did? That would nigga turned the rats. I'm sorry, niggas turned the rats. I'm sorry, y'all. What y'all want to know? Because you're not accepting? Bro? What come with

this ship? When you step your grass in that water? Yeah? I better know how to swim. That's just what it is. Man. How are you gonna be sorry? You really ain't. You just don't want what come with this ship? What you did? Dog? Don't here wid Now you have some very valid points, but there are people who have remorse for some of the ship that they did, and I think deep down they're sorry them nigga sorry because they got caught and they're bitching up. Man. Yes, you know what the reason

that's the reason. Okay, let me let me let me ask you this. Name a nigga who undid something and being sorry enough to go down and say, I know y'all ain't gonna suspect no nothing, but I'm sorry I did. Now you snap that they go home and tell it, bit they've got so sorry I did this? Right, that's a sorry nigga who's sorry. They may do it if they're about to get caught. Don't count down. Niggas do that when they when they're conscious is eating them up. They could do it. That ship they are the way

to get caught like this. That's what I'm telly, I get caught that what they could do that they is going to tell it before the bitch tell you because it's ready to hear from. You are trying to beat the to the pups. Now that's a big fact. You better beat her to the punt telling nothing you've done. I'm sorry. Niggas who do that that? Niggas? Sorry? Yeah, I just can't live with myself. I need to tell you something. Yeah, and then ain't many of them out

there nowhere? Oh an, That's what I'm saying. Nobody's just like take that ship to the grave. So have you shot? Have you ever did anything that you want to go tell a person you did it? No, I'm since you got away with Now you'd be cheating though, So I don't know. You have a lie to a person and you know they ate that lie and you want to

go back and tell them. But I really a lie like years later, like ten twelve years later, I never did it, right, That's what I'm saying, Like it was more like no. But I'm just saying, what the fund is this show, Kyle Man, I'm just saying, like ten twelve years later, I'll be going to say something just because it's I don't even sorry. So everything I'm saying is a foreign language. I'm just being real. I'm just being I'm being one hundred am, I am I tripping.

You're not. You have very valid points, YEA from your perspective, for sure, you have very valid points, for sure. But it's a motherfucker's out there sorry because of what ye A lot of niggle just sorry, a lot of niggas just sorry, thought them nigga sorry and was sorry when it was out Yeah, m hmm are you talking about No, No, there's a valid point. You're saying that if you were really sorry after you did, you wouldn't do it, Bro, You wouldn't do it, wouldn't even mist you. We flawed.

So but you're just saying you would fess up to it before you got caught. If you're that she said, you're saying, so you can make a mistake and hurt your wife feelings. You can't do that, bro. You did that ship, you made a mistaken got caught. That's what a slip come in that man, right, right, I got you slip. Don't come in and what you're doing. If it's in you, as in you, yeah, you made a

mistaken got caught, bro. Yeah, if it's in you, as in you so hypothetically thinking, thinking and speaking and speaking. If your significant other came home boo boo in tears like throwing up you know how people crying, throwing up

in their things. Sorry, it was a mistake. I was drunk. No, sorry, And then it's gonna be like that mean where the where a lady was sitting on the toiler and the nigga was kneeling down in front of her, and then he was like, yeah, I sucked her and then she jumped up and kicked him in the chest and knocked him over. But jay, am I tripping? No, you're not. You're gonna look at this like, Bro, you're not sorry? Bro, you just yeah, I don't think you accidentally steal from somebody.

I don't think you accidentally. Still I'm saying you can't accidentally. I feel you on that, but you can't. Actually if you stole it, just stole it no better. How bad you needed this? Bro? You're a thief. You ain't sorry? Yeah, because the bigger, the need, the less remorse. You just thought you were gonna get away with this ship. That bro that was saying, like she when she asked earlier, are you forgiving the reason why? I'm not? Because what if you forget? What if you got away with the

ship that I found out you did right? M hmm, what if that ship y'all need to try to pull on bank would have worked? I don't want to you. I'm sorry for ever. Mm hmm, ain't no sorry, fuck you? Who ever looked like you You ain't sorry. You're gonna funk with me? Yeah, No, that's a that's a great that's a great way to put it. Where were Yeah? Like come on, man, so we're gonna got them be like you know where it man? Bro? Really got there? Bro? Really side? That's the I'm sorry episode. I'm sorry. I'm

sorry your house tyl up, everybody. I think. I'm sorry. I had to it was an accidents. Who taking side? Know what came over a year? Who'll take it? Sorry to enjoy you crazy? So this is my last This is my last question. So has anybody ever told bait they were sorry? And how did you even do it? Iould be like, oh, what would you. Well, the fun with you ain't gotta say it, just let it be

what it is. Yeah, that's what kind of nigga I am, because on the fake ship gonna make me matter right, Yeah, make me look at you like you look at me in my face. Now you're gonna, like she just said, now you're gonna take advantage of me. I'm not a nigger you can take advantage of I'm never gonna play the victim. So when you when you when you go to doing the fake ship, now I gotta go to and get what Well, we didn't even try this. Now I now I'm playing the victim. So even my fun

with you ain't whoa to leave it at that. You don't do that whatever it is, they don't do it. We got explained with it. Then we gotta I m hm, can you tell me you're sorry? I know you're lying, because what if I didn't know you didn't call me and be like, bro, let me tell you what I did to you didn't do that, So you're not sorry until you get caught. Yes, man, A question that's sorry for you got caught. I'm crying name one h m hmmm.

Goust probably like damn, I probes did that, but he's sorry, Yeah, I probably should have did it right then. But do you take regret? Regret doesn't equal remorse. Yeah, regret equal remorse. But I think what he's saying is none of that all the way equation to just be sorry. Sorry? Yeah, But I have a question. Do you take up? Do you take like an apology the same as like I'm sorry? Is that like the same thing? See you thank what

you mean? Like somebody said I apologize? Yeah? Is that like is that more acceptable than somebody saying I'm sorry? I guess is what y'all call it circumstantial situation? What y'all call it, it's situational Like if you say something to me and you're having a bad day out the way, disrespectful something, then I could take that I apologize for that. You do something to me that could put me in harm's way or something that you know what I'm saying

that hurts me to my core. You can't tell you sorry about that before to hold me on a different regard. I feel that, Okay, it's just what it is. M hm. Treat me, love me like you can lose me, Treat me like I would like you treat your damn self. Mm hmmm mm hmm. Yeah, I don't know. Hold that. Hold that one took a million SoRs he texting her right now. I know you want sorry? Huh? I actually don't. You're saying she was sorry when that girl that got did you kick you out her bad? When I saying that,

you just made that up? No, on the like twenty five thousand Big Bets Fridays ago, you said the lady kicks you out your bad, out her bad and you saw her at the event. Hold on, hold on, hold on. I guess what since y'all, since I got excited and starts saying my points, I want to hear everybody else points. Now, okay, please can we do that? Huh? Say about just people people saying I'm sorry and and forgiveness and all that stuff, because you're supposed to give. Jesus said you're supposed to

forget called Jesus. You think telling him he was they was sorry. That's something the same judas. I'm sorry, bro. Now, I just asked to the crop for the Big cave and told me the folk for to do this ship. Oh God, pass bad, Joe. We're gonna start with you queen, what we're talking about? All right? So forgiveness and uh accept an apology? How do you feel about that? Um? I forgive, but I don't forget because I know for me, I deal with like anxiety and all the type of

other ships. So if I keep thinking about it so much, it is like turned me to another state. So I have to forgive you, but I'm never gonna forget. I'll handle you with like a long pole. Um um, I kind of when they come out I'm sorry. It just depends on what it is. Like if you can't say like you said, you can't say you're sorry for cheating on me because I'm like, ain't know even to you, right, But like if you say like I'm sorry I forgot

or I'm sorry. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. Like certain things I think I can forgive when it comes to I'm sorry, but when it comes to forgiveness, I I forgive, but I don't forget. What's what's really Okay, Okay, we're gonna start right then, what's really forgiving a person? If you, if you, if you, if you, if you, if you forgive a person to me? We had this conversation is gonna begive if you forgive a person, you really love them with the same heart, when the people

in the church forgive you, if you truly forgive them. Yes, So so what you mean to say, I accept your apology, Yes, but you don't forgive the If you forgive a person, you love them with the same heart that you love them before, in the same trust. Okay, well, maybe y'all correcting me, because when if it comes to that, I don't love you with the same heart, so you just yes, different levels of love like I can still um don't forgive him, then I forgive them. I forgive you to

the point where I can deal with you. I could deal with to the point where if I if I run across you, I'm not gonna let you funk up my day just because that's what I said. I still detest you and all that ship then, and I don't want my day and you mess up my energy and all that ship, then I haven't forgiven you at all. It's not forgive because I'm the type of person like once you do a certain thing, like if I see you, I don't want to see you. You my energy, I

feel it. It's like that's despise in the person. You cannot despise a person and not for You cannot despise a person and not forgive them too. You get what I'm saying, Like, that's that's like you you're saying. I just I don't despise you for what you did. Yeah, when you forgive a person, it's like clean slate. I don't believe in clean slates. I don't believe you un forgivable. Yeah,

I don't. I don't think there's a such thing as a clean slate because no matter what your subcon people people not people who have a heart, that there's people who do have a heart. I'm gonna I'm gonna be banked for me, for me, I don't forgive. I mean, I don't believe in, like completely like clean slates, because if you sucked me over once or you did something, I could like still be around you or whatever. But I'm gonna handle you a different type of way. You know.

Definition of forgiveness to stop feeling angry or resentful towards someone for an offense, flaw, or mistake. So at the end of the day, I get you said forgiveness screen yes, to stop feeling angry or resentful towards someone for an offense, flaw, mistake. So I'm saying I can't say you don't feel You can't say you don't resent them if you don't loving them with the same heart. Right, you're right because you have a fully forgiven No, not even the forgiving is

what you just said. No, but your definitions say that you can forgive somebody and you can love and then fully love. Right. No, you could love somebody from a distance. So you sline you can't. You can't kind of love somebody. You can't kind of I believe you could you be in love. You can't count a love somebody. You could love somebody from a distance. No, you can't. Let me Can I give you a? Hold on? Hold on? Hold on?

Can I let me get you? So when I say love somebody from a distance, meaning that like I love you enough to not want any harm brought against you, I wish you well, but I don't want you in my type. Uh, that's the type of forgiven this I'm used to kind of execute. Let's see. That's why I always say, like it's better to have loyalty as opposed to having because when somebody loves you they love you true enough, and you know, blah blah blah whatever whatever.

But love is an emotion, and that emotion can change at any given point and allow them to do something to harm you. But if somebody is loyal to you, that loyalty to you will prevent them from ever wanting to do anything to hurt They might even want to do something to hurt you, but that loyalty will prevent them from acting on that emotion. Like you know what I'm saying, Like the end of the day. At the end of the day, just because of man's or a

woman cheat, don't mean they don't love their partner. That don't mean that. That don't mean if you if you if you shot, if you go cheat on your dude right now, I don't mean you don't love him, right, I mean you wanted something else because you could be really hurt that she's hurt, he's hurt, But you're not sorry because that's what you want to do to please yourself. But if you love, But if you love somebody, aren't you gonna avoid doing things that you know are gonna

hurt them? If you loyal to them, love done, love done prevents you from doing that. Because again, love is an emotion because you love you too, right, So you want to make yourself feel how you want to feel, right, and sometimes making yourself feel the way you want to feel comes at the expense of somebody else's feelings. Hold on, hold on what what? What? What? What? What? What? You said? What about your scream? I basically jumped into it like it's just a Suddain the way I'm used to forgiving.

Like I don't know about the same pure heart from day one, clean slate. I don't know if I have reached that level, but I can get to a point where yeah, that that that that that's what that means. You just know, hold on, hold on malice in your heart for that person, but you forgave him. I just don't hold no malatine towards you. But it's still fuck you. Yeah, certain agreed. So how I forgive you? If his fuck you? You haven't people for that of you that give you.

But that's the that's the that's kind of the goal of the aim. I've gotten a lot better than I used to be, so maybe I'll get to that point of the latest man. I'm sweet, ladies and ship and they forgive you they pray for you, they come, they come visit you when you did something they keep to their son or something that ship with a real heart, Like yeah, but ain't nobody on this call forgive the

right ship to you? How are you gonna forget how? Yeah? No, no, no no. That's very admirable though, But depending on take sories. But in certain situations, depending on what like what occurred, forgiveness is foolish. Thank you. That's all I've been saying the whole fucking podcast, Like, how are you gonna tell me you sorry by some ship that I that you know can make me feel how I feel or can hurt me. Yeah, I'd be foolish to feel like you're sorry for that. I just think what what you what

you're saying? Like I said, you have a lot of great points, but this is like science and ship. Right. If what you're saying is a hundred, I think it's true. Then that means there we have to erase mistake from vocabulary. With some people, there are no mistakes, No there, there's there. There are mistakes. Like she said, if I'm rinning down the street, got damn looking at my iPhone, I hit somebody there that that's a mistake, accident, accident of mistake,

that's an accident. Some about mistakes. That's mistakes, human mistakes of action. Now, I can mistakenly leave my phone in your car, that was a mistake. Hain't mistakenly calls you harm. So basically you're saying that an accident is some ship that you don't even see coming. Yes, and a mistake. It's some ship that you didn't mean to happen. Yeah, but you kid, I might I might call, I might take mistakenly go fuck. You know what I'm saying. I might call, I might call, I might call, I might call,

I might call. Y'all be like, bro, I don't let me. I don't made a mistake if I called my partner. But like, bro, I don't made a mistake to doing what let me whatever. I don't stepped out of my woman or some ship I made. You ain't know a stake, There ain't no mistake, and that you want some pleasant so you don't think alcohol can cause a mistake. Comfort from us to be like, hey, yeah, bro, are you're a good dude? You you ain't about it? What are

you some bullshit? Like everybody a doct up pedestal. Take scream off the pedestal. Laugh up there, and they told me, ain't no mistakes talking about listen, anything that you have to premeditate is not a mistake. That's what I'm saying. So in theory, we're getting rid of a mistake. Now call what is a mistake? So can't you mistakenly got there? So you're just walking down the street, got there? Yo, zipper flew open it a bit. Anything that you're playing

is not a mistake. But see, like, okay, just like when you talk about fucking, right, when you talk about like okay, when you talk about fucking, most fuckings are like actually when actually when alcohol is involved, you got drunk, So you mean to telling me you finished drinking. One on one, that's a plan. We're one on one getting drunk. You know what the mission was, what time it is? Sexually, Sexually, I don't think there's no mistakes. Thank you, my brother

for sexually. I'm just playing devil kids. But there are mistakes in life. You can make mistakes. The way to hear, you're gonna be stakly mistakes even being in that situation. So y'all, y'all land when the pop mistakenly got that with dead ass, wrong man, wrong wrong for them three pumps.

That's the waste of a cheese. Yeah, like what the wrong Charles been fixing that sing uh cabinet for that plus the whole season to think of that same cabinet, and it's the light even changing that same light bulb. Whatever you would do this no mistakes and again that was having And you can't be tricked, don't You can be tricked. Women can because they're moving off emotional niggas don't know. I'm gonna tell you one thing about women. I'm gonna keep one hundred. Women can't be treating they'll

be trying to treat their self. M they be knowing, Yeah, they try they best to treat their self. Gas Lighting at its finest tripest What that means, I don't know what that means. Hold on, let me pull it up so I can read you the clear definition. Gas lighting is like when somebody tries to make you feel like you're crazy for thinking something that you think and that you know it's true. So who guys like me? Yeah, I'm not getting no. I kind of agree with you, bank because a lot of times as a one at

least for me as a woman. You kind of know niggab bullshit not counter you know. Yeah, but you'll be thinking like, he ain't gonna do me like this. I'm a little bit different every girl. If it's they pussy on sway, you're neggna do something different than what he already been doing. On God, I ain't even gonna like he just did that the hooker. He still bitches you crazy. This is yeah, I am him a feet ain't who I am right, a biscuity cheat with you for five

years straight. Your bitch leave you and she feels like you ain't. She don't wonna get cheated all. He just didn't. That's a big that's a fact, Like women really think that like a sibish turn to your bit and she swear you're not gonna cheat on her. This is where when you go in that position, who pot to go on your Yeah, just being real, like what you're gonna do is you're gonna see a difference. Now, I'm not gott them, I'm not pulling up on your behind gob

the cans and ship. Now I live with you and I ain't down that much. So then you started to feel with she would fit h kids saying whatever we were doing, the sneaky ship, that ship out the dope. Now you gotta feel this pressure because now behind the gobs came with somebody else. Yes. Wow, and then you booing,

I can't believe how the fuck you can't believe? Well, I got you doing it weak be no, because you was telling her that I tell you ship and the women's brain, you'd be telling them that they're different, and you're cheating on x y Z because of this reason and that something different. Bait. You wiping my sels, my bitch, don't let me wipe you see me crying, nigga, don't be crying to the side. Might be I'm saying, they do it, so that should be like that should be

the first rond flag like it ain't right. You ain't gonna come crying to me thinking I'm gonna wipe up another bitches tears and you think I'm supposed to still give you something. You're gonna be okay, It gonna be okay, baby, That's what I'm here for. We're good. We I got you little digging recover he back to being back outside. But man, car it gather, I'll just playing y'all, playing game. But like I guess, I guess, I guess. I don't know what you guys are trying to be in life.

I'm just saying, where you guys trying to protect you guys future or whatever. I get it. But reality says, reality says, But the reality what does the surveys? The surveys saying, Man, hey, man, three, everything fucked up? Who believing in a motherfucker word the day? Show me show me your actions. I'm sorry, but don't you know I don't see some real convincing liars in my life, Like niggers would convince you right if I didn't know you were lying, I would swear that was the truth. M hm.

Tell me your door digging like that, like you a hollified liar. Bro, ship you put nigga put chills on your body with a lie, I'll tell you, man, funk out of here with that ship. Show me that that way di real when you you're going, when you're going, your cashing reel, you was real because everybody got a chance to do some puts a ship long as you're living. M's just straight up, you know that ship been going viral.

You don't know these people man like tomorrow. Inducing should you be like though, I won't know these people, brocause every everyday things changed. You know how many motherfucker could be in your girl or in your dude. I'll working on her, working on him liked h No, I'm saying, like a friend, it could be a friend. Why are you going through this working like that's working? They're working,

chipping away at chipping this bit a weight. Put that fucking dress on, chip it away because you instead of being a nigga, is she trying to be? She give her that she's trying, and then she hits you with I don't normally do this, but uh, I mean you know, I mean that hurt that ship. This is my first time. You just made me feel so comfortable. It's like I've been knowing you. Oh what I said? What I said? Uh? Oh that what's up? Man? You ain't said we're going on?

So how you feeling up the game? Man? You're putting that some real ship. No, I'm just I'm really drunk. Bro. Don't listen to me. Y'all know you spend y'all niggas beat You know what I'm saying. These girls are good girls out here. Huh. It's y'all one get y'all queens. You asked me for my bullets. My bullets dog, huh yeah, my bulls. If I be forgiven, yeah, go ahead. Yeah, we know he's been indicted. We don't really we already know what the colt because he already said he went

up to the bench after she put him out there. Yeah, after she kicked him out of man, he was like, what you doing here? You're speaking to me? We already know how you get it out yat because now when we're starting like, yeah, could that be forgiving? I don't be forgiving? Ship. I gonna tell like it is. I'm gonna be some bullshit. Y'all kick me off this. Don't give a fun I do my own ship. I'm on that bullshit. You don't tell how I feel whatever it

is to over the third bottle of wine. I got a whole he ain't got no parent guardian right for this ship. Bro, fake as ship man, I could be. I think I'm living. I'm gonna tell you the word thing it did, bro to try to live in this new age with morals? Bro, you feel like morals is gone? Nobody said tomorrow? Yes bro, yes man, everything wants everything started getting remixed. But even the food is remixed. Oh God,

I seeing this much counseling. Never m hmm. All this ship is going on all the knew as these everything has been remixed. Man, life has been remixed. Man, it's not pure no more. You're saying life has been remixed? Like like what life has been remixed? Like, I'm gonna keep it one hun bro a nigga light charged and white. Sound like like he's saying the wrong ship. But the man ain't really saying the wrong ships. It being real saying the wrong ship by the police ship because I

don't indulge in police. But he's not saying the wrong ship A lot of ship is. He's saying it's true? What other dude, ny who died? Um Samuel Jackson? He was Kevin Samuel, Kevin Samuel, Yes, Vin Stevin Samuel. Who the fuck is that he's not? He's not saying on real ship. I just hate when nigga's personally personalized that you know what I'm saying, started talking about different people. You know what I'm saying get kind of touching. But if you listen to the overall message, niggas coming from

place of what it is. You gotta think when the nigga is speaking the truth, that ship sounds so fucked up now because all were ship this sensor and we are living in the facade. Yes, all we hear ship that's already been like a caption like and need to get a chance of bad edited this ship edited. You come with the real then you're gonna sound like a fool. M hmm. Don't sound like you're living in the stone age, man, like this ship real life nikas going through ship in

real life. Man, A lot of you needs at home going through all this same ship they don't talk about. But he's gonna put on the face. You know what I'm saying. He's gonna put on the face for the world that ship faith to me. I don't you ever damn what y'all know, ask me anything I tell you, tell all of my being. I don't care because you know they don't give a funk nigga, look at me, bro, I'm already satisfied with who I am. That's the problem.

Everybody looking for acceptance from the from a motherfucker that still ain't gonna help you, funk. I care about you all accepted me. I haven't seen me no money. Yeah, to be real, like, who the fuck cares? Fuck you look at me and streets me like that'sh that retarded nigga, So would you don't even do it either way. I'm gonna be either retarded nigga or sensor nigga. That's smaller, and they still ain't gonna do ship for me, right, Yeah,

I'd rather be retarded me too. Brow. You gotta think, man, motherfucker's get mad at you because you don't like Bro. I look at all that ship. Bro, It's like, I don't give an if you got five follower nigga, promote my ship to your five followers, Nick, if you funk with me, all right, he'll be looking at that ship. Bro. God did me in the phone? He need? Yes, I do. I want your people to know you funk with me if you fun with me, all right. She's just fake

it for bro, This just fake it fun. I just she started making my head hurt, Like every day I wake up like Manna, move to Africa, screen that serious cheap and funk over there. Bro. You gotta deal with a lot of ship and they'd be having some wead ass day parties. Man, go there now, but you can go over there and turn up y'all seen this ship. They come saying, online, bron, whatever you're doing over here, go over there and do it. I feel righting on

black and funk, I go right and be a straight African. Hey, Big facts Africa trip got the gun in on the phone playing cost Hey, Hey, but we ain't got the plans. Yeah, they go over there like the planes they have in Japan with the beds on them. Yeah, all all the all the ship they go that far. I got them bids on hey man, big Facts, Yeah, gonna pay for that. Yeah, they could flight to go into l A in the morning till I got the beds on. Yeah. M hmm No, but on the real ship bright, this ship is so

fabricated breds like. And then the old niggas starting to do it too with the young needs. Mm hmm. There's competition with him. Now. I'm just saying, like throwing they just what do you call in the grate woodle mm hmm. What do you mean by that? Because I got I have a theory about that, but I'm trying to make sure I'm going the same place. They scared to stand on what it is, so they like it's cool to what do you call it? Move with town? What do you call reinvent and move with town? But I can't

take on these new morals. Yeah, I can't understand why somebody would do a crime and then go tell her. I can't understand that. Yeah, I can't understand why a motherfucker be ready to kill a nigga about a bit. It won't kill a nigga, nigga slappy child, I can't understand that. Now, that's a big fact. I can't understand why niggas died by community pussy. I can't understand that. I can't understand it. I can't understand, like niggas be

always said, man, my little hole said that. Nigga said, dude, why my little hole don't never talk to me about niggas talking to that little hole about niggas that we're going on king as a nigga, How could you even feel comfortable enough to repeat that that sherlottle how told you about this nigga Like a realnigg wouldn't even let that come out of his mouth what a hole told him? Like? But then also you got niggas out here pillow talking with like pete bitches that they're just having sex with

versus like thee. So then they don't even know how to handle it because once you pissed them off, they're going back to tell other people other ship. I'll be talking like that's different. She she's your wife. I'm talking about when niggas like pillow talk with they're gonna go hit the girls and then start telling creat ship. Yeah, like whatever the funk they got going on? Most of the time, nigga's pillow talk with bitches that are not

their bitch. They're trying to impress the bress nigga. Yeah, and then that's how she gets started. In my opinion, I just don't understand, Like it's just like I can't take that sorry ship, I'm sorry, because I know how I feel. If I say I'm sorry, you don't mean it. How if you look at reality? How do you mean that black? What's the thumbs up? I just got a thumbs up the button. Oh damn that at me. I'm crying. I ain't trying to do that ship. Then that ship

you see what I'm saying, said that ship work. That means that ship came on my picture thumb up. But look would you say what the question of queen what we just basically you can't mean is you're sorry? Yeah? Like when you when when I think about it, right, and then she's probably I'm probably get a lie heat from me because I say I'm sorry. I don't give a funk though, But at the end of the day, the truth is the truth. I'd probably be in that moment, I wanna be sorry because of how you feel, but

I'm really not sorry. How Yeah, well, you enjoyed whatever you did until you got caught. But what if you didn't enjoy it? Do you? Are you sorry? Then? No, that's a whole ain't sorry. But I'm like, damn, that was a mistake. That if you do something on purpose and you don't enjoy it, then that's the mistake. I ain't gonna say a mistake. I probably got damn. I'm

trying to think of another word for that. Ship. If you do some sh it you're not supposed to do and you don't enjoy it, then you regret it, and that's the mistake. So definietion sorry feeling distressed, especially through symphony of someone else's misfortune. Yeah, because just like Okay, well I guess I do be sorry. Now we got all awry here two hours later, two hours ryn, but do I care? That's what it up. I was sorry to hear what happened to your family. That's the context

of you. I thought sorry something thinking about I guess I do be sorry. We're two hours later, they're just like we've been arguing back apart with you for two hours. I'm sorry, not even to say I'm sorry, y'all, I'm sorry than buck you talking about I'm sorry. I'm sorry, y'all. I've been sorry before. But do you regret it? Give me the definition of regret feeling distress? No, no, no, I'm I'm gonna stand on what I said. But they don't be sorry. You'd be sorry about the way that

person feel. You don't be sorry for what you said with someone else, with someone else misfortune. I don't be sorry. You don't be sorry for what you've done. That's what I'm talking about. The only time people are sorry for what they did is if it didn't end up benefiting them after they've done it. Look at the context again, Like, here's another context. He said he was sorry for upsetting me. That's just like, okay, just said it. Was sorry for

upsetting me. I got a relationship example right now, hold up you right, Jake? You right screen? Now I do Beth, I just said it, so I'm really taking I'd be sorry for upsetting the person, but I don't be sorry for what I've done, right. I think remorse is the word, huh for your actions. Remorse is the proper word. What's the definition of remorse? Remorse is morse remorseful? Yeah, yeah, I don't be remorseful. I'd be yeah, yeah, feel with sorrow for your actions. Defend it was remorseful for the

crime he committed. Nigga, don't be remorseful. They don't bro to say that's the definition you think? All right, get it out? He regretted. Do you feel like if you all right, if a nigga get locked up for the p P P low, do you think he's sorry or remorseful? Probably now because he broke Yeah, the back end of the action can make you maybe sorry. Well, I don't know about remorseful. Man, I'm sorry he went about it. Yeah, the money was able to pay him for like here

gonna look back. That would be mad about yeah, because when you get caught you're thinking like Damn. I shouldn't have did all that flashy ship. I should have did right there with this money. Yes, I don't know. I don't know of nobody who got away with that ship. Who give a funk about some ship that they got away with? Okay, so I have an example. I got an example. Okay, So let's just say me and Screamer together, right, Hypothetically,

me and Screamer together and I go fukoda. Right, Let's just say I fun Kodak and Kodak has a small piece of meat. I'm gonna be sorry if if, if, if I get caught by scream and Kodak has a small piece of meat and I didn't enjoy it, I'm gonna regret making that mistake because I didn't enjoy it and it didn't benefit me the way that I thought that it was gonna benefit me. But I still did

it right. But if Kodak was if Kodak, you know, packed the sausage, and I fucking have fun and I want to fun Kodak again and you catch me, I'm not gonna regret it. I'm just gonna be sorry that you had. That's a big fact J as a woman, most women is most women that women cheat because when women cheat, right, they looking for something better. Yeah, and then when the nigga be like man bit back to

the nigga. Now she crying to you because the nigga and paying paying, not she wouldn't even gave a funk about you give a funk about what you say, bro, because my nine times out of ten, when women cheat, they're already done anyway. But yeah, I gotta make my duck. My duck is going to go for this. Sorry, yeah, big cold that m hm shi won't really hint, so you in our head, they don't really counsel now, Yeah, but we're mad. We gotta lose that. We don't even

care about whacks jade. If you're drinking and we don't see the cup, just let us know, y'all. But y'all best believe I'm gonna have my bottle of wine on the next one, bro, because like these these the wine brings out the healthy discussions. That's what I've been over here with. Yeah, yeah, I ain't gonna lie to you, ja. I really agree because if you go mess, if you cheat on your dude, or you cheat on anybody, and you mess with somebody that you feel like it ain't worth,

you'd be more mad. But if you feel like it was good, then it's like I'm gonna keeping with both of you'all. Queens say, we don't hear you know what I'm saying. Like women who don't cheat don't even have these types if you cheat, conversations that ain't even today voca, but don't little type ship. They don't even think like that. But I'm speak. Guys have been hu no, no, no, no, my my own speaking because I got hooke around, yeah, being around like I don't I know hella girls I

don't see. Yeah, I don't know that that that that are the bottom of my shoes come. But they're my friends. I'm there. Ear to if y'all watching the drop a coment right now, drop a comment below, yes, if they lying a fly? You know the comments swear a shot a cheeter? Did you comment? Swear I ain't ship in the comment? Ship revision like a motherfucker? What that's revision revisionist history because you definitely said that yourself. Oh I said I would cheat. Y'all got some more shirts, y'all

wanta do another one? Makes you like another day chip w big fest pot dad's jacket. That Big Fact called listen, oh Triple W that big fast do what we say? So sorry, what's the fucking moral of the story. I'm sorry, but not sorry. Yeah, sorry sorry equanimity. The word is equanimity, and the moral of this story is is that sorry is not sorry period. Facts say, y'all agree with me,

then yeah, I think you got. I mean, based upon the evidence that was presented, Judge, Judge bay no, but get away at the end of the day, bro, And I'm risking my whole relationship talking this ship with y'all, like, might be God, what course next we talk about this ship? But yeah, man, I think we all got. I'm sorry, we got x off man me and my daughter. But y'all can't tell me that I haven't changed. Absolutely you have. You've transformed a training You're a triple W dit Big

Facts Podcast. No, Bro, scream, this is when you came. But technically it hold look technically scream when you're transition what are you this gender transitioner, transition transformer, transformer there you go, Yeah, a transformer except the car. I'm crying because I decepted. Curran is the word of deceptive and we're not doing it to except exception. Hey, hey queen, y'all only motherfucker lie. I hope your boyfriend. Listen, Jay, it ain't ship. Shy ain't ship. Take that back, Take

that back. I'm telling y'all, bro, triple w trimple w w W do because of big facts, I can't keep a relationship anyway, so that don't matter. No, But I bus you deside, man. I love y'all. Thank you for coming out tonight. You could have been anywhere in the world, but you was here with us. But get that return into dog. Don't believe in my sorry's girls they lie. Call that playing step that anybody needs to step step that dude, this stand dad? You got a fat a

code that got you? All right? Or hold on? Hold on? How long this ship is already? Screen at two screen got the premium ZOOMA. I think we we should be straight. We still record. That's been crazy. If it stopped this halfway through, it'll tell you what stop boiler. The story is, y'all, go by looks. I don't who my pretty as hell? My wife pretty? So I was blessed, but I wanted ugly bitch mhm. But you wouldna you wouldna you wouldn't the ugly bitch wouldn't have provided you what you needed, though,

tell you that name chaste. I'm crying a scream, scream, what's your moral? The job? I'll come. I'm like a ship. I'm crying, scream. What's your moralder story? Oh? God, sh sorry not sorry, sorry sorry? What's your moral? The story? My moral of the story is the ship is sucking up my household because I'm getting cursed out from jail talking about I'm a cheater. Oh god, me too? Yeah,

like this, ain't it? Yeah? What's your more? Other story? One? Dark? Sorry, don't mean they knew what they was doing when they tried it. That sound it hurt? What's called that? She should have tried me like that? Let's fact. Many'll be hating on code cod that big o. I ain't gonna lie to you. Kodak's face tip me one time with a little light scared hottie with her feet on him one time, and yeah, Kodak Coda get on me. You just can't keep them big fat, that's the big fat. Yeah.

I think it's because yah be cheap on the dates. They just be tired of them cheap as I've seen him a note. You'll pull out the boy, you'll put out that credit card. Oh ship, seen it. But see my thing be trying to how you can't keep them yet, playing to freeze the coda. Yeah, take them gloves off. You can stop it. Then we just keep talking to y'all want you to talk, we can just stop in the top on the streets. Exactly. It's a big fat cat fitch