BIG FACTS FRIDAY- Conundrum?

Is a life amazing really good? Yeah, life is wonderful, amazing good to be alive and healthy and here free and anyway? What's our? What's our? What's our word for today? What are we building on today? What's the Okay? Our word read today is conundrum? And conundrum is a difficult question or riddle, especially one using a play on words and the answer or a difficult choice or decision that must be made. So what's some examples of a conundrum? Um? Is the glass half empty or half fool? Yep, because

that's like a riddle. Question? Okay? To be or not to be? Question? Is the question? What is the answer? Um? Well, a conundrum that I was that I was looking at or whatever is whether or not you tell the truth to your partner or spouse about certain things to make them feel comfortable within themselves. So do you tell the truth to your spouse about if you cheated, not really cheating, but if you like their hair, or if they if you think that they put on some pounds or some

ship like that. Sometimes a little white live will keep the peace. And I feel like in certain sense ways like that the piece is more important than truth because that conundrum that's just a lot, is it a lot? Of It's a lot if you if you don't like their hair and you say I like your hair's a lot. But if you say you don't like that, but it's

not a malicious lot. But if you say you don't like the hair, and it brings on a bigger issue to the truth, the truth set you free, and then they can't handle how many people are really find to tell the truth about some ship like that and have an argument at home every night? Avoid argument? You could avoid it like, so would you rather walk around and the avoidance of tippy toeing against people feelings and lying

to yourself and others or around? No, for sure, But I'm saying, don't make it an abbot of just like the instance of the hair, Like just because you don't like the hair doesn't mean that somebody else or somebody else might like it. Like that I tell the truth, but I don't like that because you gotta you still, we gotta walk around together. But she cooked me something

eating I don't like it. I'm gonna be like this good because if she started making it all the time, I'm ana helper making we need you probably need I like it. I like the last tell you did, but look up on YouTube, but recipe belt, Yeah, we need some more seasoning. I ain't even gonna say it Nash. If it Nash, you know what I'm saying. I'm like, this is good because you made it with love. Y'all.

Y'all ever had like on your birthday, like christmhen somebody to get you a gift, you don't really funk with it, and now you make it tell on your face like you don't sunk with it, but you tell them I love it, like I tried, Like when people get when whenever, like I wouldn't give a funk what it was like whenever somebody gives me something, no matter what it is, I try. I don't want to say I try to be appreciative. I am appreciative because for me, it's about

the counts. But if it's something that like I don't need, or something that I'm not really excited about, I like I wouldn't hurt anybody's feelings or whatever, but like making them think that, you know, like this was a bullshit gift. I just write it out. So you said the thought that counts. But sometimes you know, when people didn't put any kind of thought into a gift, like you just got me something to say, you got me something. Yeah, but I still try to like to play it off.

You don know what about don't get you the man? You were, you living in your truth. There was no conundrum there. I don't really got to guess how you was thinking. But see, when the nigga not give me something, I'm cognizant of the fact that nine times out of tend I probably wasn't expecting anything from that nigga anyway, So anything from that particular person would have been a

pleasant surprise. And nothing is already expected. But if nigga gets you some ship he was getting that he just had on some giving away ship, like and they get you some ship he got from like uh a McDonald's toy. Motherfucker, you got this anyway, like you got you got, you're gonna throw PTSD. So I get you some bullshit ya know, you want to get it off your test. I mean just in just in the past, like you know, for

Christmas and ship. You know, people get some ship, like I know you just got this somebody just gave you on some giving away ship. What what? What my bad y'all? What what what job? Y'all think? Is faced with the most commundrums the president, any politician anything, Scientists for sure, doctors, because doctor's got to come and give you bad news, but yet you gotta still have hope and faith that

it ain't that bad. Sometimes nobody's scientists because they ship they're trying to come up with and and what else you call it vaccines, and then they probably come up with the cure in the vaccine, but they probably sunk up some other ship exactly. Yeah, and then you got your ethical dilemmas like that, like damn if I get this person like the sit that be caught in side effects ship, Yeah, it's gonna cure your diarrhea, but it's gonna get your heart disease. Counsel is a comundrum, right, Yeah,

how should they can't figure it out? That's a riddle, you know what you mean. Problem, But it's a problem. That's a really that they're still trying to figure out. Chemo would be a conundrum because chemo, you have to take chemo to try to cure the cancer. You're gonna lose your hair, you're gonna be sick on some other ship, and it's gonna like funk up some other stuff. But

it's gonna get rid of the cancer. But you're still gonna have all these It's like, trying to find a cure for counsel is a conundruy, yes, And whether or not to take chemotherapy, trying to find cures, not just trying to find period with minimal side effects is a conundrum. And if you think about like the experiment experience treatment, you're saying trying to find treatment without with minimum side effects.

She was she was kind of on with the world leader thing because like world leaders have to be what they call diplomatic. So it's like in every instance, I could go float them up, but if I go do that, then they can do that to them. And then we got allies like those are really deep conundrums they got to figure out, like we'll be like, why don't you just go handle that? I can't just go ahead. They've

got a lot of politics. Politics period is a heavy conundrum. Politics, I think would be more so of an enigma than a conundrum. And enigma is like a mystery or a problem is similar to a conundrum. But a conundrum has a solution, you just have to figure out what it is. And enigma most of the time isn't solvable. So in the conundrum to be clear, has to have some type of choice affiliated with it, though like some type of

I don't think so. I think conundrum because I looked it up in another word for its mystery and riddle mystery, so maybe it's in the same Yeah, but an enigma isn't like there's no resolution to an enigma. Yeah, but is that that's the difference from this It is resolution to a lundrum. You can actually but you make a choice to resolve. Now it's two ways. It's a question and it's a riddle. This decision right, it's a riddle though did say something about riddle liddle, like like a

difficult choice or decision. Yes, that means you got to make a choice. Yeah, you have to decide one way or the other. You have to pick a side. But in an enigma, there's no side to pick, right, So politicians have many conundrums, doctors, scientists have many conundrums. But on a day to day basis, just living our life, we have conundrums, right, Yeah, But wouldn't it be like, what's a conundrum for you? Can be could not? Wait? Could it not be a conundrum for me? Because isn't

it sation? Sure, a conundrum could be choosing your outfit for the day, if there's outfits up there that could be a really big thing for you, in a really complex thing and like riddle like but you eventually have to make a choice to solve it, right, But for somebody else they might just grasp ship, throw it on whatever, you know what I mean. So I think food, the food you eat, can be conundrums, right, Some people make

that a big thing. They look at menus and it's a big thing and they spend longer looking at food menus and idols than they do even Yeah, I think it just depends on this person. In the moral conundial, that comes with like relationships and cheating and stuff. Like somebody. You could be in a relationship with somebody and they could say, I want you to be completely honest, you don't want you to hurt me, blah blah blah. But

you know you just cheated yesterday. You don't want to come to them and tell them you cheated on them yesterday because you know that could hurt them so that they come into the moral aspect of it. That's one one relationship. Oh don't because I don't know. I don't know. It's a it's a long tree. I mean I think that what you said, that can that kind of stretches into loyal to a little bit how you feel experience. But but yeah, yeah, I mean it's it's it can

stretch into loyalty end of the day. Some people how moral it's subjective, right yeah, okay, so yeah, we'll just say that because some people more it might be ain't cheating, right, yes, some people. I ain't cheating until I get caught. Yeah, so I mean then it may become a conundrum when I get caught. Yeah, for sure, it's you get caught, or some people can be just look, I'm cheating but I'm doing it in a way that they don't even come nowhere near you, so you don't even know I'm cheating.

And that's just like that could be the same. Lying is lying, cheating and cheating no matter what some people, Okay, some people, And I'm just saying like some people might feel like ship I get cought cheating and and to some people, cheating could be conversation. Some people, cheating could be going out with What do you consider cheating? Starting up? What do you start cheating? What you mean is it cheating just when you start talking somebody else? Or is

thinking about it? Once you think about it, you cheating? Period? Agree? I agree for your brain from there starting to you were starting, she don't even think about it, don't even come to their mind. That's a lie. Once you do you when you feel in your mind or something that you're not comfortable that you wouldn't tell your partner or whatever, that's cheating. I disagree. Now, the deeper you get into that is they don't want you, They didn't want you.

Thinking that that's what she did is not controlling that have y'all have a y'all have an understanding that we don't think about other ship. We don't physically and act other ship, I think, because you can't, it's cheating. That's like if a if a girl walked, if a stripper come right here and started dancing, all you mean, married or not, you're gonna look at her as she is different though, if you looking looking at her, looking at looking at her and not cheating, I had to have

a look you're looking at I want? Okay. So if you're look at a woman and you see her and be like that, my woodfucker, that's cheating. But sometimes, but sometimes you setime. If she's right there and in your head you're thinking I would fun, I want to, but that's what I wanted. Let's again, it's not me. So if the stripper bitch came shaking her ass whatever whatever, you're looking at her, she looks nice, then you strike up a conversation with this bitch and continue the conversation.

That is the beginning of cheating. At the beginning, they're in the beginning face, but it also goes back. But you can cheat. Does your significant the way you look at the motherfucker? That's cheap, But does your if she looked at you the same way, that's where I started. That's the connection. This walking to motherfucker you. You got certain eyes you're looking at I'm ready I do it to you. That's what I'm saying. You're am I right

old the camera crew, y'all feel free. This ain't the regular deadly y'all can speak speak y'all mind, please, she's not cheating. Don't just telling everybody up? What are you saying? We're seeing cheating the act up? What the ye you're looking? You're looking you're looking at the motherfucker like because you're really trying to be chose, you know what, time know them. But but she don't look back. She ain't going Now I'm gonna look greatly, So what are you trying? So

what do you consider that? Trying to like the tactically select her. You shot your shot the house or some cheating ship. You're probably gonna end up cheating. But I don't anybody but if you, if you, if you to be chosen or is that cheap? Yeah? Sure, don't say eve not because you're for the engage, y'allo? Yes ya, I'm not going all day that that like literally get up, spend three four five hours to get dressed to go out.

That don't mean that she want to look up for herself, that she's going out on the proud and why why because she's doing it for her yourself. Don't mean going out. I'm saying, get fresh on that dresses. You're trying to goddamn be singing. You're trying to shot shot if you put that shirt on. And when I did, nobody say nothing. You feel some type of away that you ego. That's what she looked good. And this even works when y'all

do that when you got hold on, hold on. So you're saying that if a woman got a nigger, you should be this. And she decided to get fresh and fly and go to funk out. She going out to prowd and get fresh and fly different sexy, okay, sexy with her home girls brunch, but just get dressed all day to go to brunch and what they dresses on looking flies a bit. They're not doing that for you, niggas man. But you know, like, oh, you know what

I'm saying. Yeah, if you're trying to you know, if you're going there to try some extra phone numbers and we're trying to if you put if you're putting that ship on for a couple of ments. You're cheat. You're trying to bust your ego because if you know the risk when you leave the house yourself fly. When you leave a house fresh and flying, you're trying to just be flesh and fresh and flesh crest and fresh and

whatever you go on the brunch. Then when you leave the house with a fucking mental invisible sticker on your forehead like I'm for sale. No you don't. I don't agree with that, because there's plenty of times you get fresh and fly, look good, take your pictures, send that ship to your nigga for you to come home and be with him. But you know what you're trying. When I was getting ready, I have, and you go out

all day and don't nobody say ship to you. You're not gonna feel no part of your ego or offended that we're not talking. That's the same thing. I'm not saying that I'm not gonna feel no type of way. But if my home like, you look good, I'm gonna take. What does it matter if you got to go out and get attention. If you're nigga already giving you attention, you're walking out and he's like you're great, that it's mentally compliments, compliments I'm taking. I'm taking his attention for granted.

I want some other attention. That it's the same ship the other I disagree. We just disagree to disagree. What they called it, they called it or they called it advertising. No counselor lated asked, was I socially cheating? So what is it? Social? It's a different type when you ain't fucking but you're doing some other ship. Yeah, but think of it. You're engaging emotionally cheating. That's the emotional cheating

is talking to somebody in communication. But when you when you're in Starbucks getting your confident to tell you look nice, and you hold a conversation, you just cheat it for real. You get because you wouldn't be that you want to do that. You're in cheap mold no women because because when you got women, bro, you can see bro, when you're being slow, you got some women. They got ton of it. And what they're doing they come into the get they want. I don't see you. You got hit

what you got on? Bit your change? You can't sell me cheap? How you gonna tell them money? You smelled good? Way that leads to but but you tell them like me, I should have good. I'm gonna say good. You open the door your ship. It's kind of like, if you're in a relationship is d MU, you shouldn't even open them? D ms you should you shouldn't open them? And why are you looking at making the ms, Because it's like, at the end of the day, if you're in a

committed relationship and you're fine, you just open that door. Yes, even if you're not sever she winked, shell fuck she looks. She if she looks. She took East Atlanta philosopher Gucci Man for that, showed her teeth because because instead of telling this nigger that you that you got a boyfriend, you could have just not responded to the d N. You opened the door for conversation that you can say if you and the in person ship is to the thing.

Because if you're in person or whatever and somebody's in your face, Okay, I can see where a bitch my thing, Okay, I don't want to be rude, whatever, whatever. But if you're in a d M and you open it and you could have just not, that's worse than being in If you open a DM, that's worse than being yes, because you could have just not responded to the d M. They got a whole other DM that you don't need. You got to look for that message. Yeah, that's crazy.

You look for that message. You told that nigga. Man, One thing about every every man know when a woman is not friendly. Yeah, that's your bottom line. Like you can already tell it on her. She even gotta be looking at me. She is not friendly. Buddy, there the areas just tell you. Yeah, she said she got a boyfriend, but she acting single. We're not get big bro. What about these schlick nigga who know what to say? You gotta man, Yeah, how long you had that problem? You smile?

You told me didn't Why that's funny. That's that's not funny. Fat Hello, that's all the stock giggling. If the garage open, the nig is gonna exactly professional. Professional, that's all they take. That's all they given. Nigga. Hope. You just gave the nigga hope your pal because they're like the nigga that you're like like all that goddamn going to work with a nigga like bitch been working with work work friend. Yeah, so that ain't change. Yeah, yeah, You've been working with

this nigga all the time. So every time I pitch you, are you going in man mad? Now? He want to buy your luncheon And goddamn, it's okay, beautiful. He come in this bit more than you. He getting a more compliment thing. You flowers all this bro she getting Fuck. No, No, that does not mean that just the shoulder to shoulder to the exactly. They doesn't. But they don't did, They don't built the relationship. I hain't gonna he's your bitch

more than you. I ain't it sound like or whatever, But at the end of the day, like black is all the way right because when women cheat, or when women step out, or when women do whatever they do and deviate from the plan or the relationship, it comes from an emotional place. And when just like he said, with the work nigger or whatever, you know what I'm saying, with the nigga you see every day blah blah blah,

you spend both of your time with this. So it's just like at the end of the day, if the nigga at home, you know you ya ya got nicknames for each other and ship and he gets he's going to be able to read your won't any ashes? Yeah, like, what's wrong to day? You're so beautiful while you're looking mad? Why are you get the COVID? Okay, let's get a girl, let's get it. And then after he was because you're gonna do this ship repeatedly, No it's not, but it's not.

What's the word for us? How would you feel for what he's doing listening fact thing to a bit of his job. You have me funked up. But I'm just saying that act that she is not cheating. It's a conunsrial eat its way? What any distracting dea from the plan. He's gonna go to split the crack even further. That's like, you get money. I have a question. You got a business partner? You getting money with this business part all of us SUD and the business partner. I don't know.

She started calling you at a different time. Is that cheating and you answer the phone? Is that cheating phone call? Is different than actually after presents compliments? Now, okay, she started getting about what did she start saying? DJ scream they don't do that? Okay, yeah, my wife exactly. Don't compliment me this, don't spail my right give the compliments to my wife to give to me. Read the energy when she comes around like you like him? Right, you

know what I'm saying. Like she's gonna be to read the energy like y'all too cool. So that's like everything like Sho has to be cool with take Jay has to be cool. I tell y'all have to be friends so we know that this is a friendly environment, you know what I'm saying. So at the end of the day, that's just what it is. You can't I can't have a female friend that's not friends with my wife right how And that's like cheating, right right, I guess because

she damn show can't have no men robbed. You are about to go eat, bro? I would give it that. How long y'all work together? You know I ain't speaking on nothing that no, Joe don't, I don't. I don't know. I ain't cool. So you know, a bitch at cool staying a friend female bro? Because you you how are you gonna then when you don't want to come tell the nigga? Well, you know guess what he said to me. You've been showing your teeth for two years. What else

he voted to say, I'm gonna try. But when about the women that just work with a whole bunch of niggas, it don't matter. But when you work with a whole bunch of niggas, certain women you already know, like that's like my huger Evan Evan to be around every nigger you can think of, even Hemma. They're not giving off the vibe that they'll go. But you've seen the women

that do. Especially you can already tell it, bro like she maing my trip, but you can, you can try to ays all that, but they ain't going, you know what I mean in close quarter together. We don't staying in the room together. I slept on the couch, you slept lights straight up? This ain't that? Am I right around? No? No, you're right. The out of your mindset is different. You know. Here they would fully agree with her. They just kind of more like light boys walking up on every homeboy,

like looking them up and down. And I'm home boys don't do that. But like I could sit there and have conversations with my home all of that, and I don't feel like, I mean, I don't know I agree because I feel like I'm kind of stiff. I don't be if I don't feel like I'm friendly, So I don't feel like Nick's gonna come to me and say anything to me. But at the same time, I don't feel like if a woman is fine and fly and she's having conversation with the man at this point, he

could fuck But what's the conversation about. And if it ain't about the beaches or the work, what we're doing, why what we're gonna get? Person? Why the fucking metal? What I ate last night? Don't ask me if my day was. Yeah, well we should have emotional no personal interaction. No, no, no, I gotta I got I gotta doAnd hey, I agree with everything, but I gotta kind of disagree with that because me, like, okay, like me and my friends are homeboys or whatever. Like we talk about all kind of ships,

but not different though. I'm talk about answer a colleague, a colleague, friends you work with, like you're actually friends with these people. That's different, and you work with your friends, that's different. I'm talking about if I come in this motherfucker, these these women been behind these cameras and ship. I'm not talking to these women about ship, but what's going on here, So what did they go to lunch? And they're talking about what they feel to do with the

other person this weekend. We're going on talking to my wife on my phone. Why the funk am I saying with somebody else? Like talking right on with my crew talking? I feel I feel you just said. That's just how I look at it. Yeah, there are because I have been trained like that. I have been trained like that. Like I can't be sick, bro, this ship is just crazy. But you can't do certain ship, especially when you've been in a toxic relationship. Yeah, everybody a little different, but

I agree with you. Let let's bring this back real quick because y'all making me mad. Switch comunks up to God. But of the that's one of the biggest conundrus. But I know y'all probably gonna agree with me, and y'all probably gonna think of nigg on some bullshit. But I just I just know what that ship. I just know me I could come out. That's a friend. That don't mean you don't want the fun. I'm just wait to my opening. That's waiting on your opening, man, and wait

and waiting just like damn. I'm waiting for her to do it. Wait, just letting life go back. Eventually, ship, she's gonna be an opportunity. No, she's gonna come. You're gonna beat up being so nice. You remember her birthday or happy birthday. Damn, I ain't even remember all like dis nigga for kidding exact exactly you Damn there in the relationship this man, Yeah, yeah, damn he did that again. Now he did that. He I just you know what I'm saying. I'm just telling you what you're worth every day.

You deserve better. I'm not f going to that. You're not like line pushing out line. I'm just telling you. Smile, queen, keep your keep, you fix your clown all that ship broa banquets, kicking on, trying out, trying to trimming. No, you're not tripping. I thank you, sir, and old she saying, no, the ain't right. But certain women already know that, right, facts facts, Certain women already know that if you want,

if you got them, got one of the teeth. Is teaching your teeth of that white not a teach She ain't afraid to lose you. No better, she's scouting anyway. Like from the beginning to me, some people, some people will airy as I've traveled, not just say not to pick on them, but as you travel, some people are

aired you why are you looking at me when you're saying? Then, as you travel the world, you know that some people are just airing, just naive as they don't really mean and they might slip into some bullshit, but they're just Naive's fun. That's some people. Some women be a fell in love with a nigger, bro jacka you being optimistic about their friendship? I am crying. So they should speak period, Yeah they speak. This is this is the work atmosphere.

But I'm gonna do everything that a man is supposed to do for you. Okay, that's how I feel. Yeah, I don't Know's just put me in that situation that she she's like that, like she friendly. M Yeah, you got a nigga, not even with women friendly. You can see your friend I don't know, but you can see yourself friendly when you when you do got a nigger. And I think she friendly with the people she want

to be friendly with you probably, I don't know. Like I got certain like friends right that I would say that, um, I would consider friendly. I got certain homeboys that make say something like slick ship. Like, but we've been doing that since high school. We ain't had sex, but they had the chance. I mean, I guess they would, but there just don't let your wife go drinking with her just when you when you have a nigga doll like

certain ship, even though it might have been platonic. Certain ship. Certainly, even certain platonic ship isn't acceptable when you have a nigga or when you're in a relationship, especially when you're dealing with a crazy nig I agree with you got

you got to just possessive over their possession. Yeah, I agree, Like if you are possessible what it did, so certain compliments you can't even receive that Like for me, like one of my homeboys, being that I'm in a relationship, I don't even talk to him right now because I know the nigga gonna say some slick ship. And I know if my nigga said or here, but you're really keeping him on the back burning end and k you want to sun him to that's what you know, Okay,

but still your boy. But being comfortable in a relationship with him being your boarding what you mean you say she said, you're not talking to him because you know when you gonna say something, talk to him based off of the ship that he'll say. So why are you keeping him around if you know? Okay, so when you get with of your nigga or whatever. Okay, now, when you're and your dude get into it, then you you're gonna be talking to you. I don't call him when

we are that's bullshit. I feel like that makes me a bullshit bit. I'm not gonna call him when we at oys. I'm saying when I'm in a relation, when you with the relationships, that's what happened to go south? It can it be your boy game? Yeah, when we're not, When I'm not in a relationship, my friend come back. Okay, when your friend come back? When he back, that means he's a potential funck. No, it's not if you know where to fuck you, right, I guess. So why y'all

being freend get a niggas young sory? You know he won't as long as you Yeah, it's cheating because look back, if I don't do nothing that by dealing with him. No, I don't, I said in a relationship, So I don't don't see him. But when I'm not in a relationship that nigga not like, But did you got to cull him off to be in a relationship? That mean y'all in a relationship? No, it does not feel the same way,

because why why won't you? You got certain people that's been your friend for so long, they just don't get hold you with like, I just don't get friendships that more important to your relationship though it's not. That's why you cut the ship off on your in a relationship. You didn't cut it off your boy. What boy? We don't talk my boy? Eventually he's going to be your boy. Boy. No, he not your toys. I expect your man and be comfortable with that. Though you wouldn't be comfortable with me.

I said, we don't talk, so I I mean my niggle watched the show. If y'all out, if y'all don't run into him, you gonna treat like your boy, almost treating like what's okay? You know, saying a man, it's up, this is my boy though you know for real? Though, I mean people, I don't think everybody don't know bullshit. I mean people just move different. I don't heard about some relationships and how they move and it ain't nowhere near my ship, but maybe I ain't. You just got yeah, exactly.

You just gotta with stop, just like when me and my friends. Not to cut you out, just like with me and my friends. Like I know this might sound crazy or whatever, but the way that we greet each other, like smacking on the They smacked me on the ass about nothing. It's not nothing sexual or no chip like that. But it's just like when I got into that che like that, that's cheating and they got girlfriends. And that's

what I'm saying. It had have to stop. But he had to say somebody because he said something to me like, don't be doing that. But but that's just how But she was supposed to put it into that though. Okay, So at the end of that's like you like it, you change. Note she stopped. It's not gonna just automatically just just stop cold. Let you stop. Now, that's a big fact. I get stop that everything. Who ever thought to playing like that? When you're playing like that, this

nigga crazy and he is crazy. So that's why I cut off. Man, I know that. That's what I'm trying to tell you. So at the end of the day, and I had I really respect that though, because I just put myself in your shoes. Like a matter of fact, I ain't even brough him to be in the call with niggas because I know that's just how I am doing around with you. Know what I'm saying that, don't go like that, bro, even though we know and everybody know, but still he don't know. They ain't gonna never know.

I ain't gonna never understand why you got a male friend. Damn. It's crazy how life's biggest conundrum cheating What I think you can have to talk about me? Now? You talking about your friends, You talk to your friend about your man, Well, no, I don't. Didn't gonna get you back with me. I have. That's all I got is male friends because I don't have any old friends. So it's like what it is

your dude is dealing with ann. But on the other end of that, if i'm your your your male friend, I don't want to hear you talk about your because I'm trying to funk. I don't give a funk about you, gonna listen to nothing anything. I don't bigger diary for that pusson. I don't really give a funk. I don't know what you're telling me that you're not your ear don't But then again, I got back to what you said in the previous episode about a nigga knowing what

he got before he even gets her. But you think about it, don't matter what I got. It don't matter what I got. Cut the nigga and I am. I'm gonna I'm gonna have you and your feelings sometimes that I don't know what you might do due to your feelings. But you want to drive you, but you want to know that I could drive you, but you want to know that it ain't gonna go that far. I don't know what that some people want. Some anything is possible, and do whatever you're gonna do, but you're gonna know

that I'm not going to fuck you. Ain't gotta fun. You don't understand. You ain't gotta be fun. You don't even get emotions, don't even emotional. Cheat y'all what you're saying. But it's just like it's flirting cheating. No no, oh, well, I gotta telling, And then what does it lead? Because you're bored? She flirting? Three? What's the definition of firing? If you ask a woman what. You could ask a one what she's looking at and that could be flirting, right, Huh.

You can ask a women like, why are you looking at me like that? She could take that as you're flirting? Is that chet It depends on your It depends on your intent because you couldn't be saying what the fun you're looking at me for? And she was like, I like that type of ship. Now I'm not talking about that. You can just walk up to somebody like why are you looking at me like that? But why she would looking like that? But you asked them why are you looking at me like that? And she just said I

thought that I knew you from somewhere? But would that be flirting? Is flirting because you look question? Damn? They look like somebody I know? But that's my damn okay, but look, my question is it was? It depends on because it's no because you you you. But I asked her in a way like you would make her feel some type of way. Father been like, hey baby, you already eat food. You're looking at me like you want to eat me. I'm crying. Yeah, flirting is advertising you

because you bought are you? If you don't mind me asking Sunday big. So yeah, I'll see and see. That's another thing. Two years your cat except some best friend. Yeah, we try a relationship, you know, women go out, we get Florida at all the time. I phone numbers. Oh keep guys, when you saw I don't let me ask you one question. Man, When you say when, okay, when you when you say phone numbers, that's not expect or

Oh you're just collecting the numbers. No, she's yes, she said, Oh, you mean like somebody slides you an unsolicited phone number while you're out, and you rip it up in their face and say, hey, Mary, she's saying, she saying she will take it for what it is and then I'm not about to use this. I feel I get the married years myself, but I have done things because taking a number and give you another two different things. But it's a difference exactly, she said. Different what she's sayingship

they have trusted and things that they know. In my relationship, I feel like I've done things that I'm not trusted. So if I'm not trusted, I can't trust it. So you can't can't trust yourself? You Yeah, yeah, because of what? Because of that you've done? Yes, it's like you're basically projecting your insecurity about your trust onto Schanta. No exactly, And I'm and I'm looking at it pestimistic and looking pestimistic.

You and another dude can't do that, but in the bad because you thinking about that's how I am if I'm working with a female. If yes, you're judging off the way that you think, So how else can I judge? Well, everybody like that, I get it. That's gonna saying I'm talking about to me, I can't say what nobody else relationship is. You know what I'm saying. Because she may get she may get flirted on and make her want to be with her husband in a different way. I

don't know. Yeah, I can't say that for everybody. Wasn't that was saying he'll watch the type of his wife getting sucked. And I can't say what other people do in their relationship. All I can speak on is Yeah, that's why I say it's it's situation by situation. We have boundaries, right, So that's just what it is. Man, I don't it's subjective. Let's go to another subject of conundrum.

So what's another conundrum that's not cheating because chea didn't seem to be the biggest, the biggest, that's the biggest, the biggest, they're just they're just the biggest to us. I guess it's some ship. Yeah, yeah, there's other conundrums, but I think cheating is a big if we we was in front of thousands of people, they all have something to say and a difference, something to say. There's no one answer to that ship. We just saw that fact,

no one answer to it. No. I respect that queen, I respects, but you have to be in a different space, like I said, you have to be in a different space in your relationship. Another conundrum is stealing. She just kind of well, not as grudge as stealing. So stealing,

what do you mean feeling from corporation? Yeah, that's that's what I'm just getting ready to a lot of people, a lot of people that still or that misappropriate funds or whatever, feel like if they're taking from a corporation, like the robin Hood syndrome, Like if they're taking from a corporation, the corporation can stand it as opposed to them stealing out of their grandma's person. Like that question. Uh,

it's more dilemma. It's a moral conundrum, yeah, I think. Yeah, so that that goes along with the moral compass that we talked about earlier, the moral conunction do you still do you not? Still? Who do you quote unquote still scammers? I feel like, if you're a scammer, are you scamming every average, everyday person? Scam the motherfucker's scam Bank of America? Well, Fargo, don't scan the motherfucker. That's that's trying to get back this make a batter guy ship. But he gave his

last ship to you. Now you're gonna take an info and take him everything he don't got. Don't be wrong and wrong? He said, wrong is wrong. Wrong. Wrong is a collunctive that's subjective, that's subjective wrong. Don't you don't you get that feeling with you're doing something wrong? Some people don't, like we just talked about land time. Yea, because what's wrong? Because somebody has been wrong? They whole life and it started the wrong life. That's that's that's

the ship that's been happening. I don't even saying that. I'm saying, like, what's wrong to you? What might not be wrong to me? Yeah, that's true. Based upon He may be wrong to me that you throw trash out the wonder because I might be what you call it environmentalist, but you feel like, man, get this out by car. That's mean and you don't think that that's wrong? Literally yes, right, or just dunking dough that ship, I mean more compass. We're not get big showing a cheat on that man.

You know, she just be kicking it. I don't cheat. Women don't cheat. Who kicking it's? Black women don't cheat. We sure don't. You're that's some bullshit, you know. I don't mean women don't. So the people with the black women that we don't see cheat don't cheat. They don't cheat. We see man, I see man like it just fucked up. Man like the world makes you kind of pestimistic man ship, you know, I seen it like that makes you know

she did that. I've seen a woman cheating a hard man in the cloud while man was in the cloud. I'm not saying. I don't saying can go both ways cheat like that man. That's an opinion. Women, do you think she cheated? They probably didn't already say like oh we're on some open ship, or he probably didn't do some dumb ships. Women cheat. Everybody cheat. You're making up something. Now,

Black women don't cheatin. Not to say that all the lot of everybody ever woman cheat than it does for I'm gonna say, I'm gonna say some is harder for for women, noted for women to go all the way. But I don't think I'm saying that It just take the right nigger. It take a lot more talk. She ain't met the right nigga. So you keep not allowing, but you keep accepting friendliness. What does she get friendly with the right person? What's she shots with the right person? Facts,

she's gonna cheat, She's gonna phoe school. There's there's a key to every lot, But there is there more than one that's different the more than when you start accepting dates and gifts and compliments overly, that's engaging, texting and sending pictures, emojis and ship Yeah, y'all got PTSD, y'all yack up, y'all beginning the relationship right? How does relationship starts friends? Is there more? Is there more than one key to every life? Is the more than one key

to every life? Is there more than one key to every lock? Yeah? It depends on what the lock started the lot making that ship if the story you can pick the lock on a locker, but I say that home crazy. It's hard to pick got a god dollar? What's your question? Show there's more than one. I feel like that the hen is bro. So you think I'm gonna be one hunter? You think your wife don't see her type every day? She wake up, especially type three thousand times. So you're saying you're a woman, don't see

her type every day? She was more than type though. The luck is open, open all the way. Like every woman definitely looks if they see a guy that's like they're gonna look. Every woman definitely gonna do that. What I'm saying the lock. The lock remains locked when it's not too accessible. Bro, when you make yourself accessible, that means you want to be paid. I give you that. Yes, yes,

I give you that. I get that. You can see your type and be still still like you're well married on me, but you still can't know what you're attracted to right and respect what you got by having up having your having your you know what I'm saying, your aura about yourself like that's she like you can see a woman she got had a ring going on there. You can tell she into what she got? She cool, she good? You can see a woman next she could

I see her opening? Right, guy? Yeah, you can the door like question to every look because all of us have a lot. This is the conundrum and all of us have a door. Yeah, I feel like it's the key to it. But it's the only way the key gonna get turned. Right, It's gotta be out there to get turned. That makes the world. It's the woman. It's the man and the woman. If you want to go, you're gonna go. If you don't, you're not no matter how you feel, like how you feel, but they're not.

But I feel like you can. You can treat yourself into into places by trying to be cool. M m. You can treat yourself into a situation when you fall in love somebody don't be intentional, right right, unless you just go out on a date with him. But like I said, you could be working with somebody. You could be around somebody every day and start to love that person as a friend and then depending on how they

treat you. You know, like you said, dude, you know that he wanted he wanna he want to take things to another level. But I'm just saying, you know, if he could he wants to Okay, cool, what if he say the right ship one thing or do the right thing that you can't overlook because y'all already I'm built the relationship right you're under staying this show, My boy. We are and I'm built that that we that we have a mutual friendship like this is a friendship. We

are friends. I catch you at the right vulnerable time. Who just say, what's gonna happen? How many times you think of this? Feel like that was a mistake? Wake up running because you don't drop this cost of me going there? Set on the nigga dick about why that situation? How did yeah my bad beat me up? I got yeah, we didn't trick some this ship. I don't some of that's rock. It's been tracking Sprinceles and everything. How you

you know what this ship gon leaves? I'm crying because don't lick her and Sprisser's and rock and daily on block, consume Goo snail, don't get that ship, make start throwing. Get your man? Where am I tripping? Liquor conundrum? Still on tripping man? You all got the well, got the revote studio. Now y'all got boozed like guy, y'all got lights and big as counting that even Nigga booze spirits whole other conundrums. Spirits is a whole other conundrum. Yeah,

that looks like alcohol. They say, if you blame it on the alcohol, out the real person. Really what's already there? You believe that, I totally believes. But they get drunk. But you don't want to say that. You shouldn't need that to look a courage Yea, you didn't want to say that, So I believe you. You can't change on my brow. Drunk boy, you yeah, you take your girl out. She gets drunk until you get drunk. She started acting different, that's her. But she did that around you, just the

real deal. That's her, bro, take a mental picture of that. That's how she when she's not around she controlled that, you know what I'm saying. Control that stiffness around you that look at make she loose. That's how she got with the with the girls. She'd be at the red lights working on the headlights. But ain't nobody the same away from the mate. I'm gonna give you here, Yeah, facts, how M right? Right, huh, well you say when you say same you somebody, you're not doing the same activities

that you wouldn't normally do. You're not as kind from walking down the street with goddamn three and see if fine bits on my damn walking down streaking my bitch, I'm looking at at that ship from the front holder. I'm not fitted turned back and look at You're different. You gotta imagine what this ship might look like your youth. You gotta figure out something to do. You gotta drop you just look oh ship right wrong? So you're different. You're not flirting in front of your man. You're not

accepting compliments period. You're crazy, like too crazy. You're mad when you do that round, you're like when I went right here, you know you'll be got there, jous. So the telund is how you acting around you? How you acting when you're at your shorty No but trust y'all women around freends, let them hang out that all night. Let's see you out because not how trust your woman exactly, Trust your woman, trust your heart, trash your woman, trust

your guard, trust your wanting. No, trust your heart, trust your woman, that woman in heart and listen to this what's going on. Listen to your woman. She's trying to set it up. She's gonna run off and do all types of crazy. You knew. I was like, that's when you met me. That was just sending it up. What did you go you sign? Where's the coda? Trust your woman? I don't sign that woman being innocent to improven guilty though it's definitely ship. It's proved me you're innocent, not

some good ship innocent. You know your girls like that before she became your girl. Now if you know she gonna fold. You know you just said before the show that it depends on relationship. Bro, If you're starting a relationship from the ground up, you gotta tr You gotta trust me to some extent to start building with them. To somebody, I'm kicking it and then y'all been six months that you ain't knowing him, but six months you've gotta trust him a little bit. Relationship, it has to

be some type of trust there. If you didn't want to have some type not ultimate trust is game. Do you think every relationship comes with insecurities? For sure? Yeah, because that's life. You're gonna have insecurity. Okay, due to human natures and the way we was raising the things we've seen women crying. I've never done this before, but she taking them boes off. I've never done this to him before, but she getting naked and got damn, you're

gonna suck it like that? Usually don't do this. You're special. I don't tell nobody heard that before, Like, come on, man, this is whole nundrum. This is a whole nun drum. First of all, I don't want I'll have a question before we before why is it that like men could be out here sucking and now here we go, men could be out here fucking and sucking I mean sucking and licking on whatever, sucking and licking on they want to. However, loan they want to and it's not a big thing.

But a woman she has to have all her sex. She got me the freak is the sloppi ist, all that ship. But she can't do that with more than one person. You know what I'm saying, Like if a woman, a woman can't say, oh, I've had sex with like you can't because it's something out there that except that I'm talking about this nigga that don't except that something

is cool with that. It's I mean, I guess. I guess like it's just been it's been like that, like from the beginning of time, Like the woman is held to a different standard than the man is held to, especially when it comes to marriages, relationships, all that ship because back in the day, like fucking women are supposed to be nurturers and women supposed to be nurturals. Man, that's what happened man, all the it's just hurn different. Like you gotta think a woman and a man could

be married for sixty years. What the grandkids gonna say, we're going over our grandma house, We're going over mom going on my mom out. You're another here to say I'm going to my dad's house and we stay together. Who else is it? Female? Who else is So that means who's the one to show morals and show teach that type of shoot your backbone on the phone and then not supposed to have them. They do, but they

kind of relaxed for me. That's your Like if you're riding down street, see nae, look at a nigga pistle, you right down street? Seal wanna look at that nashtay pissed? Am I right? A wrong ship? Different? We can't be woman. We gotta pull over, nigga, pull on side of the street and piss and then ain't that Yeah even though my I pull on, let my wife piss on the side of the spreadway. But I'm just saying she exposed, may could be exposed on higling that you come to

your deck up. Woman gotta squat do all that right? Yeah, which one little nash. Yeah, we can't act like motheruer's are saying now like ship different men and women of conundr the biggest you know what I mean, that's the that's the essence of a conundru female female. Yeah, well, I don't know about masculinity and femininity. It's just oh, I guess some people have different opinions on what a

man of woman should do or whatever the cases. But some things are just kind of understood, like the man is supposed to be the provider and then don't get it right, that's what y'all want, So the man don't want the woman to have it together and be the backbone. Naturally, it's different and differences. We come from a different era though, don't look at it like that. But they're trying to maintain a piece of that Wow, women do have more rights and ship and our any more than they were

back in the fifties and six. We come from an era where we wanted our women to be more like correcta. No matter what Correca did on King or whatever, nigga to look of it was she ain't remarried, she ain't di she ain't that. You know what I'm saying. That's who That's what we was modeled behind. They the rules have reversed, like the women taking care of these nigga's. So I can't do that but treat you like a bit. I should may have more than one nigga. You're a bitch,

right right, Yeah, that's heavy. But the we come from brand Dad ain't playing by grandmama. Man, We opened what he has or whatever. Grand Mama never stayed out period, right that of my goddamn not call home a couple of nights. You never seen Grandma sleeping nowhere else. He never really saying the house like that. No, I'm just saying like, that's when we come from. So those are more that we can't break, is man. But they go.

It all goes back to got said. Even with the toxic ship, it's all about what you came up on and what you saw, that's what we saw. But these the kids nowadays, a younger generation. But I can't say that they're wrong. Different They was raised by about different ships differ. That's what they saw. They saw maybe their mom having different niggas in and out the house or you know what I'm saying, whatever, and not having a dad present to ensure the household, to make their mom

the provider and the nurturer and all that ship. So they don't know about that kind of ship. But they didn't just start though. It's just it's just it's just just magnified more now. But it just didn't just start like it's been going on. But it was from the pond before. Except it's what you call sure not accepted, but it's praised. You wanna say it praised to be

you know what I'm saying, hot girl? Uh, you know what I'm saying, that's praise like because at the end of the day, if you look at it, how can they not everywhere? How can they not Niggas ain't Nigga's first priority. Ain't the household no more? It's some shoes called what it is that? So how can I respect you how them women usould respect the man no matter what. They ain't gonna got to make you them being paid. I don't even pack a cigarette and a paint on Friday.

The rest of this ship go to my wife. You know what I'm saying, That's just how it how it used to be. But it ain't that. No, but I feel like the role of the woman, the woman has changed, not since the role of the woman has changed his then too, Like they're not saying that like back then women couldn't get a bank account but without a due. Now these motherfuckers, some some of these women making more

than niggas on their own hold on exactly exactly. So like the road that like the traditional ship we grew up on, that ship ain't the same. No, no, so you can't. It's a connunity as to be seeing him trying to figure that out. You can't be asking what I feel like. You can't be asking a woman to be submissive if you're not taking care of the home's exactly, if you're not taking care of your your duties and responsibilities that may not provided, you can't ask a woman

to be submissive. And that, like as much of niggers hate that minute that comes with being an earner, somebody that's gonna take care of bills. Make sure your women straight. She shouldn't be. She shouldn't be, she shouldn't have to be exactly being kept. You gotta be worrying about what the light's gonna be on next month and next month or not exactly. We got to the bottom of the canunsdrums today on Big Facts Friday and the final words, um, all kylie women cheat? How don't cheat? Let's put that

out there. I don't cheat. The whole set is a hater, but I don't cheat. You should you cheated? I never told you? She was saying she cheated. She got dude, she got oh yeah, not now, No, not the one. You gotta get that one that you don't want, You don't She probably had one to want it, but this ain't that the keys of the lock. Thank you? There you go. Okay. Then we finished talking to the full of chick count what's upright? Look at these big somewhere else?

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