BIG FACTS FRIDAY- Cognizant?

and cognizance is the act of being cognizant. And in the textbook definition, cognizance is knowledge awareness or formal notice. And in the urban German definition, cognizance is of the fact that it was getting late. This the urban that I'm not gonna read the urban definition because that shouldn't

make no sense. So in the textbook definition of delusion is an idiosyncred idiosyncratic belief or impression that is firmly maintained despite being contradicted by what is generally accepted as a reality or rational argument, typically a symptom of mental disorder. The urban definition of delusion is a false belief which cannot be explained by cultural norms, and the patient often holds strongly. Do that makes sense either, So I'm gonna

go straight into my example. So at the BT Awards that happened recently or whatever, um, there was a lot of talk all over social media and all over the internet about Diddy's acceptance speech, and people were saying, like, Okay, Karesha, you know him and Kareasia have a thing going on.

Karresia held up a sign that said go poppy. But in his in his acceptance speech, he didn't formally acknowledge her, but he did acknowledge his ex girlfriend Cassie, and he did acknowledge Kemporter, which is the mother of his children and another um former love of his life technically, and they were making a big deal on the internet about you know, she was stupid because she was doing all that. She held up a sign, He didn't even even acknowledge her,

whatever whatever. But in my personal opinion, I feel like she's cognizant of their relationship and where they stand as far as with each other in the total scheme of things. So her holding up a sign is just her supporting her friend or her nigger or you know whatever he is to her at that time. She doesn't really care

about other people's opinions. And as far as him not acknowledging her technically in the speech, I feel like this is a lifetime achievement award about some ship that has been going on for twenty or thirty years, and he acknowledged the people that helped him throughout that twenty or

thirty year period. Their situation is fresh and new, so I don't think it was a big deal that he didn't like give her the same shout out that he would give a Kim or a Cassie, because they have a way longer history in a way bigger situation than him and her have, and I feel like they have an understanding with each other, so it's not necessarily about the public ship. You know what I'm saying. Whatever they do on their own time is what they do on their own time. They enjoy it, they like it. We

should love it and mind our business. I don't know what y'all think. He gave her a whole show, right, a whole podcast, Give her a whole show. Yeah, he's given her a lot of ship, and she's also giving him a lot of ship, like maybe not material ship, but as far as like rejuvenating and you know, bringing a spark back to him or whatever. Like you know what I'm saying, And this a lot of ship that we probably don't even know about. But it's not our

business to know that kind of chick. So it shouldn't be a big deal to everybody about what's going on in somebody else's personal life. Definitely have been in man, everything I'm still don't have to be explained exactly. Shouldn't know what's going on, got going on they've been She should have hold up five signs you huh. Yeah, if that's what she wanted to do, supporting her nigga, Like you know what I'm saying, Like who like who doesn't

do that? Her friend like her nigga whatever, that that's her nigga, man, Like in an interviews, that's what's the word again, what's the name of the word. Cognizance versus delusion. She's not delusional about where they stand. She knows what's going on and what's up with them, and she's moving accordingly how she wants to move, as she should. But she ain't. She ain't the little she knows, yeah, like

and she don't care. And that's the most beautiful part about it, Like the delusion a bit to be that feeling, like like you can be in your feeling. Yeah, they hold up the sign and then see the internet, and then the next morning they got an attitude like I don't give a funk. I feel that people are mad because she don't care. Like they want her to care and they want her to feel some type of way, but she don't care. I don't understand she getting accepted.

She supposed to be here. She here, so how can't she care about? And then with everybody else saying they ain't right exactly? And if she won an award, but she's supposed to go up there and thank him like what people feel the same way if she thinks everybody but did he like nobody would care? Think. People just want to live your life for you. That's what I was about, what you should do that that needs to

be what we talked about, like other people. People be better at living other people's lives than live in there. I'm gonna tell you one thing you can't do, though, and sometimes you're hard to try to make you do that leave somebody else life that you live, like, you'll try your best to leave some that you know, ain't you? How are you gonna do that? Kail? You fail every time? Every time. You're gonna fail every time. It's like me trying to go be a truck driver. I never drove

trucks because my daddy drove trucks. Yeah, that ain't gonna do that for me? Right, but bring you down exactly. You gotta live in a purpose. Man, You can't live, can't spit nobody living how you want to live? Well? What what sparse that though in the person? Like? What is it that makes them want to live somebody else's life? Like? What kind of character trait? Like what's the jealousy? Insecurity?

Not definitely jealous insecurity? Jealousy and insecurity makes you want to live someone else's life because you don't feel like you can live yours. Now, Yeah, I guess I get what you're saying, but that ain't with all the time I was saying, like you're trying to up to somebody else's standard. Yeah, how you feel about a person like in a relationship, I know I may not be a thing that come home every night and do all that ship you live with somebody else standards, trying to live

how they the idea of your life. You can never do that. You should not do it and trying to carry out their vis try, but you can never do. Yeah, you fail unless unless not full life, unless certain parts of that life, if the main parts don't fit it don't fit right, you must You can't if they if they are trying to inspire you to do something, If they're trying to inspire me to do something, it's different. Then if you're trying to inspire me to do something

that you know I'm capable of. Right, you can't think for me. You can't think of something for me because you care about me this much. You think of something that you want to inspire someone to go on the fitness journey, but don't force them to be like you gotta if you're gonna. If you love somebody and you're trying to do it right, Yeah, if you love somebody and you're trying to inspire them, you have to inspire

them to be the best version of themselves. You can't inspire them and try to lean them in the direction of what you feel like they should be. Like black with saying like because it's never gonna work, and both of you all are gonna be miserable because you're gonna feel like they're not listening to you and they're not heating to your advice. And the other person is gonna feel like you don't truly understand them because you're trying to make them something that they're not. So be yourself

is the moral. Be yourself? But what funk with people that try to push you to be the best version of yourself? Do you like, don't be around the motherfucker already knowing I don't ready funk with you, right? Get what's because if I already funk you didn't don't trying to change it. I mean, if I'm trying to change the meaning the fun with you? Know what I'm saying, Like I keep on tell you, not like I ain't attracted to you or I don't love you. I don't.

But the type of you gotta ask yourself if this wasn't my brother, sister, husband, wife, daughter, son, mother, father, but I fought with him as a friend when I choose them to be my friends. To look at it, but like, what's the difference between trying to inspire someone to be better and trying to change them, Like aren't they kind of the same thing that change? I think if you come with some if you come to me and say I can do this, and I see that you can do it, Okay, I'm gonna hip you like

continue because I'm a friend. Like you're slipping on what you're saying you want to do. I can't inspire you to be a rapper when you're a nurse. I think the change thing comes in to the the example that Black always uses about the nigger smoking cigarettes and how like if you funk with a nigga and you know that he smoked cigarettes and you know that you hate cigarettes, but you're trying to funk with this nigga because you think that you're gonna be able to make him stop

smoking cigarettes because you do like certain parts. That's what people do. Like people are fun with you just cause okay, screen, because I do like the way he hounded the business when it comes down to our business. You get what I'm saying. He prompt but I don't like this. You know what I'm saying. Okay, No, I can't. I gotta either weed that out and set him for my man. You get what's in regards to what however, whatever it's

flaws them, it's flaws right. Unless I see it's detrimental to him just because it's an opinion of mine, then I ain't got nothing to say about it, right because it's opinion. But if it's if it's, if it's affecting us, then I gotta say something about dream. I can't. I ain't with that part of the game, right, you know what I'm saying. So what about what about somebody saying?

What if somebody say what if it is a detriment for somebody has chosen a detriment, Like, Bro, you really should be drinking that much liquor that ship gonna do this. That ain't a detriment to that's you. That's your choice. You can't be a detriment to the people around you. They always funked up or drunk or this, and that's what your drunk is. I'm not I'm I got friends

like that, but I don't go. I don't do certain things with those guys, got you, because I know that with them put me in a predicament where I'm gonna sunk myself up. So I just eliminate my involvement in those activities completely see each other, still love we still on the phone. I love you. You want to come to the spot and get drunk, and get drunk at the spot, but going in public and we gotta fight and shooting all that ship you al we got every

time somebody did something you ain't eat. Yeah, you picking on your drunk what you drunk too? I ain't drunk, twin. So you say you're just gonna let them be on their drunk ship. Body, you gotta be on that drun told nigger, you already told him. So it's clear, Okay, he or she has chosen to be on that drunk ship. It ain't nothing bad for you. You don't get on the boot. I mean getting some bullshit. That's a big that's a big fact and a big part of it.

Let people be themselves, and you gotta be able to remove yourself accordingly, remove yourself. And you gotta be able if you if you in it. You gotta be able to accept a person for who they is, not just saying you accept it like actually, and then once you accept who they are, can I deal with this person? What if it starts to the way that they want me to deal with them? If it starts to affect you. You tell you you got to evaluate the whole thing

though evaluation. Okay, I see that this is who you is, right, Yeah, I can't change that. I've tried. I can't change it. Okay, Now, let me evaluate who you are, the person that you is. Do I funk with that person? I funt with parts? If the answer is no, you gotta clip it. Even if the answer is I fought with parts, but I don't fought with this part. Okay, alright, this part do. Now let's put it on the scale. Let's see which way this ship like? Do you align with my destiny?

So if you don't allow my destiny, I can't be your friend or your whatever, companion, brother, daughter, father, whatever. I can't be none of that ship if it don't align the way you want me to be. Not saying I'm gonna say fuck you, you're a piece of ship or who funk? You don't want to know? I can't. I have to do what I need to do for me in any other day. So with that being said, and this is that everybody in here, are you willing

to change certain things for a person that you love? Yes, but that that person has to also recognize that they have to change things too. For I can't stay this nigger that I really ain't and you're staying the person that you really is. That ain't gonna work like that compromise Yeah, like like because okay, no, we are in the prize, you're not the prize. No person, I don't give jay Z with my friend. If you're saying, fuck me jay Z. Compatibility compatibility and relationship and friendship. But

I think everybody compatible to everybody. Once you starting with let's see certain ship, you're gonna find something that you like person. You'd be so stuck on that that you try to overlook the ship that you don't really like. And if this was the person that you wanted love or didn't love what you fought with that person, would you see them at some bullshit? That's what you gotta look at. Like what I'll be saying this some bullshit.

If I didn't love this person so much, or if you didn't love what they were doing for you, especially with your what they were doing for you, you know what I'm saying. It is what it is, man. You just gotta what's the name is? What's the bird is? Cognizance you gotta be about truth and everybody has a choice and anything you do, you know you're gonna you're gonna how long are you're gonna try to fix the motherfucking before you realize, Like day a lot of ship

we need to be saying, bro, that ship. Do you hear me saying anything like I just said, for what it is, because this is my man, whatever it is in the same way like they ain't called you with that ship you basically like you know you want some bush because already I told you did some bullshit. But I said that because I know you ain't. It ain't towards me or it ain't you know what I'm saying. It's just how you is. But it don't affect me or us. I just don't affect you. But it don't

affect you because ain't you know what I'm saying. So I got to look at it for what it is, like that that man business. I think I do think that though personality traits and habits kid shift that a little bit like it was a personality trait. That's one thing. Yeah, But like no nigga got now cosso but they got to the gym with the dad. I would about the niggas uh trail boot bad that they came one time.

That's a couple of times. Don't get drunk like I don't know about cool you let me say anything else about you know, brown console straight. But another niggas taken see could I do it though? Yeah? But another thigga take that ship in? Yeah? Yeah, you see you do trying to do I can't. That don't fit my life. Bank, you poke my phone going you ain't doing You're doing big facts and Jack Jack's you know you feel what I'm saying. It makes all the sense in the world.

I don't know what what this cognitie you gotta have because you can. You can turn yourself into somebody you really not. Yeah, but do you But okay, so let me ask all this. You can try to do that and turn yourself, but it is the person that you're being is the person that you're being the best version

of yourself. Deep down. He might feel like I really should be with Bank on this ship but on bullshit, But you're gonna click in click you really donna be like, I'll be bullshit And the time time you don't never click right, They click right. A couple of times through times. Yeah, but a lot of time you don't click. Right, Cob went to sleep or something three four in the morning, he gonna call me come. Yeah, but I don't take that. No,

that you can. But the other parts, you know what I'm saying, Like if I just felt like so you know so much ship, Like I keep telling you certain ship, we don't fit. Yeah, you're don'na be nothing. You don't be on nothing. I't beyond then. Yeah, okay, so let me ask how this in. Do you think that in order to be cognizant you have to have foresight into certain situations, into every situation. Yeah, every situation. Man, you gotta down there. Yeah, I trust you, good bro, everyway.

If it's just some won't get right, it ain't right. I always go by my first force. We need to look there was forced. You can't force nothing. I don't forceate, go with my first mind whatever. My first mind saways be the inside everything. If I do anything other than that, that ship don't be right. Want to force nothing. We can force out no motherfucking episode. Okay, this is okay.

This is the textbook definition of force um an influence tending to change the motion of a body or produce motion or stress in a stationary body, which is the magnitude of such an influence that is often calculated by multiplying the massive body. Whatever. Whatever, No, no, no coergent or compulsion, especially with the use of threat, use or threat of violence. Manipulation at its best force. That's a textbook would be doing when you forcing somebody to do something, Yeah,

they don't really want to do it. Yes, pushing what it is pushing? Pushing somebody to do something? I don't know, I just you know. Delusion, that's when you become to your heart would make you delusional, for sure, your heart and your emotions can make you delusional. But like, what's the difference between like forcing somebody and helping somebody, Because you can like help somebody, like you can't save a niggative don't want to be saved. That's true. Yeah, yeah,

if you put for effort, then I'm hipping you. But if you do but if I'm putting for more effort than you are, and then I'm for un forcenate you I see something that you don't see. Yeah, forcenate is like ultimatum, Like if you don't do this, it ain't some trying to be like that, all right, and in the beginning of anything, like with somebody, you will force them. I might see see this in the person with down. See so I pushed them towards it. If they don't want to do that, then I just fall back. So

I'm limit. Before you fall back, you pat run. Then you can't keep just keep doing the sathing. You can't keep saying the same thing, repeating, repeated. That makes you just depends on your patient. Like when your patient run out, you ran. Don't try to do something after you know your patient aroan, Now that's when you're gonna snap. Yeah, you're trying to do some ship when you knowing you Like I'm over this ship. Yeah that once you over you,

you can't even go back. Yeah, you can't force them, you can't ship that don't happen like that, don't matter what mm hmm, don't force it, be yourself. Let people be themselves and then hopefully they'll become the best of got always minds. Why do you think so many people again, I'll be trying to find the rout of ship? Why so many people involving other people's business because they don't got no being going on. We're not got big, but there's some people with ship going on. Yeah, yeah, that's

what I'm saying. We see and try to it's a lot of selecty about it and here and about it being that the way of the fucking world. Now, why social media make it too easy? Let's say everybody everybody's business that is on a platform and that puts the business out there. Some folks bring up they ain't got to do what I'm just saying. Like the blogs, the new the podcast they're telling everything everything, Everybody telling everything.

So it's a conversation. Being in the nigga business is a conversation, but trying to run a nigga business something different. Or getting your feeling about another nigga business is something different. Everybody acquiring about everybody. Man, we wouldn't have known the business if you didn't put it out there. That's another thing. Let out there. We know what we in, right, what's going on? In fact, that's the space I've been exercising this year. You know, you got the people that call

you allays, gonna tell you some ship. I don't want to know, but hold let me. I don't even want to know, bro, all right, But nigga told me I tried every goddamn died everything they needed to do. That's you start making me game more week, back to back, my regular ship. What I do, You can't you can't miss you know, no nigga back unless it makes sense what you Yeah, you can't wait that. I ain't gonna never push it away like a gonna add on already got going on, you know what I mean. Just make

you a stronger add on to your ship. It's such a peaceful, spacious mind of your own business. Though it just is for me. But some people came. Some people gotta have tame it. Bro. Something entertained that we made it to be them. So everybody's life is entertained. But I'm just saying, at the end of the day, somebody gonna like you just called me the morning entertaining. It was but media personalities. I'm letting you know, just in case you have to speak on the topic. We gotta

be nigga that the game. Yeah, but I'm talking about like, so it's our Next time you're saying, like, think about those it didn't like, Oh, they shouldn't have. They should have. They should They never got together because I knew they weren't gonna somebody's business and then insert your opinion. That's when it turns into something else. But ninety nine point nine is offering their opinion. That's all I'm saying. I'm

in that percentage. I want to hold it. Bro, I'm not gonna be somewhere in your being as if it's some beings that pertained to you. Something can happen to you, like can hurt you. You can go to but if you if I know you and your girl just got a di vorce, but like damn, they got a voice that's funked up, or it's problem, the problem, it's just what it is. Everybody. I feel like if you put your business out there, people gonna have an opinion. Like

that's how it is. We all had opinions on Lloyd Harvey. Huh what I mean? People had their opinions. They had their opinions about it was her, it's her fault, She's running through different days. These are opinions. We don't know for show. He could have just said fuckers. She could have just said we don't know for sure. But a lot of people just start offering their opinions. Oh I knew it wasn't gonna work because like people be creating the fate of a relationship before they even see it

through anything. But yeah, now they're speaking on that ship on their face and doing all that ship Like, woudn't come on this ship? No, no, myself looking at some ship or send a niggle somebody DM me might call, you might talk about it, but that's that's gonna go. Yeah, like I'm not offering my opinion to you or to the world. It's ship. I don't know, we said what we said. I don't care about it. No, yeah, you know, I don't know. Gossip and ship it's not it's not

gonna cover your whole day. There are people that would take somebody else life wapping with Kim and Kanye and the whole day. That's all they can talk about and they ain't got no business day. Yeah, that's what we all gonna have opinions on everything they go on. They're just part of our exactly. It's just like we programmed to do they If not, you're gonna have to be done there like a monk or some ship. Yeah, I see,

my boy, my b Kany just inspired me. Man saying the next thing up this ship with the whole leather jacket and don't want to see a skin, no skin. This ain't me to tell a problem. I'm going to say what I want to say, y'all, which didn't do that anyway. This ain't me. Yeah, or it might be. You never know what I'm saying, but that's how you stand up like myself right now? Yeah, ain the one man I feel. Yeah, that's that Gemini ship. Yeah, I'll

be there if I sweated out breathe y'all. I don't see what I see though he couldn't see ship, saying I don't black out here, man, Yeah, here you bank what you're saying about my back. Ain't saying I fun with you. I'm saying that, ain't nobody in this room for the do what he did or where what he wore, because that's his business and that's you ain't but that's what makes him. Absolutely we were about to do something to do I respect that. Ain't nobody fron to do it.

We are individual and that's a unicorn, right yeah. Yeah, Why didn't he gotta be looking at It's weird when they when they be on that time, everybody on the stage was a unicorn. Understanding. Baby Face ain't really know for his time, he legend his time what he did different the baby Face ship, I'm saying that's that's that's accolades, a lifetime achievement. Once in a lifetime. Nigga. Who else was a baby face? Who did face did? He? Ain't

no baby face? What's due name from Motown on Barry Gordon. Oh that's the same blue foot bro all this same blue ain't no nigga kan yet. Never seem a nigga like that. Can't debate with that at this particular time. I prepared to debate. Do what you do? Then let's like, no nigga, it's like this nigga did he did? He went up there in saluted Bobby Brown for inspiring him, but he was for hell of a nigga. That nigga, you know, did ship that niggas probably not never do.

But we have seen a mobile before. Yeah, we've seen a mobil in the time. We've seen that. We've seen a nigga makeup billions and billions of dollar we've seen that. We seen no niggas that do on stage doing this ship. This nigo doing man and standing on it. It's somebody I can't think somebody. It's definitely somebody that's done things like that, not him. They ain't done. Like, there's only one there's only one Kanye, Bro. I could go for that.

There's only one Michael Jackson. And you've never seen hi nigga went from black to white and you love me the same white. Let's be one. You're the corn niggas man. Man just turned to a whole another nigga right in front of our face, pressing piece Michael rest in piece Michael. But name another nigga like Michael Jacks, Prince Prince one like Mike Prince state the same color, Bro, and then at the end of the day, Prince was still a nigger.

Yeah it was too I mean he probably did. But some statue beat you with you, bro, So you think that that? Yeah, So you think that's what when they say star or superstar, like when you take names like I've never seen another Mike Tyson, not just about his fight and ships the way he ain't no other box have been a nigga like Mike type or ain't another

nigga another nigga like Home? Yeah, okay, so we were not going I mean, so there's no comparison between him and Mohammad alle boxing wise, being outspoken, was an activist on he was an activist, was na from the streets that happened to make it boxing that we'll still crash out all of it, almost did a couple of months ago. Yeah, now boxing, what it's like Jordan's and Kobe basketball wise are similar niggas. There is no nigga that acts like

Michael Jordan's. The kids ain't signing them autographs like unique, one of a kind. But you got niggas that act like that too, though, that just just arrogant rappers just act like that, Like I don't sund autograms, I don't fun that I made it him. I don't like my talent got me here. Stop. You got niggas like that. You ain't got no nigga. They're selling clothes that don't even look like you're supposed to. Well for that's happening and doing anything. He really is just trash ship Is

he is it? And it works? Is it? Is he? I feel like he there's a Betho to his madness home. He went to the war show fully dressed for winter in the middle of summer, like, but there's a reason for that, Just like them shoes he wore when he performed, you know, the biggest space shoes like and then the next day everybody wanted them. But even if I'm selling that ship is not this me and nobody else is liking Nobody even understands people really because coolticize it really everything.

How am I weird because I'm not afraid to be nothing like nobody else being afraid. We're supposed to got them. We sped, try to got them get inside the folk man, Like, what is you thinking? Because the world need to think like this. We just said no, we're just saying be yourself. No, I'm just saying you need to get that fun because like everybody, we don't need everybody to have that button because ain't nobody trying to be like nobody? Then it won't be No what I don't want to be. You

want to feel? That's a great point our bad they leave? Yea, it is what it is. We need to get them be that shouldn't need to be starting installed in niggas that birth man, It is what it is. Yeah, that ain't gonna happen though, Ain't no nigga like you, bro? Yeah, scared to do ship. Everybody scared to do there, going there and tell it, say the truth, Like what's going on? Isn't like this is the truth? I don't care. Yeah, it's down like a superhero. Bro. Ain't no nigga telling

you the truth. I can't debate with that. Jim and I are very outspoken. Everybody's said, nigga real to nigga, Actually tell them some real shit about them. Then you can clear faith. You know what I'm saying, You really need on earth till you got them stand on some real ship that you disagree with. Yeah, everything I ever said was real. It's fun. Everything I've ever done was really as fun until me and you had a difference of opinion. Now we're gonna go back and erase all

that chop Boy erased that. You know what next you race it cleaning off. They're gonna say, oh, yeah, that's crazy now that nigga. Hell of with a nigga man ending in space like he don't even He probably cares, But I can't kill because I'm me. I can't even give a funk at this point. They are al must suposed on my mind, so I can't kill. I don't think he knows exactly what you're talking about exactly adding up to everything that y'all said, y'all want to be,

y'll gonna be. I can't hear that will be big in that that whatever it is in like the what's his name? This is the b that you're reaching for. He's that he's becoming for sure, peace wrap model, fashion, rap fashion. I don't think he hadn't done his play basketball, sports if you want to do it. But he has a sports academy. So I guess that I'm being like man, so I'm putting us through this ship do whatever they need to do. It's like ship. The niggas will trying

to write the write them, counting niggas. Why do you think niggas like that get wrote off? Ain't nobody shouting right off? Crazy to try to do? When he then up come tell yeah, they ain't trying to write them though they tried to say crazy. He don't lost his mind. He said he had lost his mind, he admitted at one point, and you know he lost his mind and good good man. So everybody was flying out the keep taking manage though he said he would take a madge.

That's probably don't but you you point then king Tweak. I got a question though, So how come when Kanye West to be like wearing weird ship and doing weird ship, people think he's a visionary. But then if a regular dude do it here weirdo, they think is the weird though too. I mean yeah, but people like praise Kanye because he has money. I saw a tweak last night. You can't. But if somebody a fact, if somebody look like want you elevate, you gotta elevate to Now everything

is promotion. Now. You can't wear that ship like trying to wear some weird ship and that ship dirted or you stamp. But if somebody wants and you clean jumping out the whips the same ship, that's it. You take money. I'm saying, you get money, you gotta show that you but you clean. I see some little nigga that that fucked up, but shout got that he got something. He got the it. You gotta think, don't think, don't get it fun up. Do you? A lot of these rappers

still the little nigga sage. Little nigga come in the studio first. Little an't even clean the right way. But you're gonna see a nigga with some specif ship on win it just like that. That's just what they do. Niggas like everybody, basketball players, everybody get they sweared just for ordinary Joe Niggas man first shore, first shore again, Nigga is being expired by the just not getting you your props. That's what it is mean. Because you think he got it on somewhere. You think you got that

ship from somewhere. The should be. I think he saw some people do this, like the should he be wearing. You think he's seen that ship from traveling a lot of times on the seas. You see ship know what it is was he just want them just you know, is making them beat you, making ship restrass. So you just like see a visionary You could just see like super creative, see what they're trying to like even even designers and ship like, I see what the clothes trying to go. So I'm going and go there. He now

on gonna tiptoe with it. Okay, I see big Glow come back and make the biggest, biggest, the biggest, the shortest, why this ship ever in the world, Like big Man coach, She's gonna start looking for it. I only do we get a couple of niggas in it. Somebody is sent out a tweet when that ship came well saying we yeah, we need to get rid of fashion and seasons or some ship like that. People already talking that ship basically wear that in the winter and where this in the

something People are already talking about that ship. Man, I feel like, whatever you want or whatever. The two jackets over. But he was he youve been doing that ship for ten years. It was on Alaska time. Oh yeah, he would trip it. That's what you ain't seen on the a vest a coat and a skull cap with some drid in the summer. The only thing is you can do that, but you can't pull that ship off in

the winter. Some some fucking high shorts talking aboforability. Fact, it's about a pot nigger that's got to be outside. That's all I've been saying. You have money, you gotta still pull the weird ship off at the jet step, to the wheel, to the hotel. Whatever you want to inside the faults is not outside. That's what I'm That's

what she's been saying. Though. You gotta have money to do that, to jump out the whip and go straight to because otherwise you have the park walk through the parking out, you're gonna get frost bited, and that's my man, You're gonna be na. But I just feel like Nick's gotta let niggas be their self, and niggas gotta be their self and can't be afraid to be yourself behind judgment, behind nothing. You can't be afraid to step on into that ship because it shoot you set to step into

might be ship you should have been. Step be yourself, unapologetically be yourself. Try to be the best version of yourself, but be yourself. I think I think it'd be hard for people to make certain choices because comfort to Yeah, like I already know what I got or what this is, so I'm gonna be cool with this, Like I ain't already know Y got. Damn we do it a million, half a million a week, so I ain't gonna put forth no effort to do five attended, but step out

there like I'm chasing the cover's owners everybody's detriment. I'm saying, yeah either way, even with people like I don't want a god damn not call you or tell you how I really feel due to the fact of how you may take it. You know what I'm saying, But you may need to tell you this for you to take it and be like, shoot, I feel the same way. You know what I'm saying. That is what it is. You just gotta step on in them shoes, bro any

shoe league. Like we's word again, cogn You gotta have cognizance. You gotta be connoisance. You gotta be I don't know how to use it, see it in the sentence, but what I'm saying is whatever it is, because that means understanding rights with no resentment, no confusion, no delusion or no nothing that just like, okay, this what this is. It is right, That's what it is. That's with every situation, with everybody everything. I'm not going to get tall It's just what it is. I am. But before I know

became cognizant. Yeah, wait, has made me, you know, get a little bit taller. Yeah, but you know what I'm saying now that I know the word, that's what I'm not going to get any taller. I grew a beard, you came in. You came in with a whole one day. No, I can grow hair, but that ship just don't my Helline ain't right, So I ain't. I don't like that. I really I realized that I don't like my hairline copy. Okay, So I just skinned that ship off. But I'm not

about to grow a beer here. No no, man, how many um fruits and vegans and no vitam is like, it's not gonna grow. It just won't connect. It's not gonna grow. It's not like that. Ain't gonna sidbers. It don't growing. Okay, So what like was your cognizant of the fact that that don't happen? Okay, I can go for that. You know what I'm saying. And that's what I'm just breaking that down right now and just right when things not gonna happen, They're not gonna happen. You

just got accepted. Yeah, I'm not gonna be twenty five again, even though I may look twenty five again, I'm not gonna again. Right you're on? Yeah, man, like certain ship just you can't get around you can't wings. We can't get around these ship. People have problems, People have problems. You don't live in the past. Yes I do in certain situations. I do. Rescing and wanting certain things back

is different. Than living in the past. Living in the past, because I'm dealing with people that was in my past and still trying to love them through the new you. Yeah, and they're not understanding that that ain't need me. The motherfucker you mad at he don't even isish no more. It's real ship. So it's hard for me to get you to see that because of the things that I've done, you haven't exception my growth. Yeah, not even growth you You haven't. You haven't fully forgaven the person because me,

it's hard for me to forgive the motherfucker. So I can say I forgave you because I love you, but I'm still looking at you a certain type of way, and I have to have cognance in you have to be cognizant of I have to be cognizant of the fact that the way that I've done you or done to you puts me in a position to where I can never be fully who I need to be for you in our friendship, our relationship. I can never be it because I can't erase just like a person can't

erase what they did to me. If you did something to me, you can't erase it, no matter how much I want to erase how much it ain't going Nowell, I can't. It's always gonna be back here, And and I'm having what is it, I'm being cognitant, cognitant like cognitant, I'm being or I am cognizant stat I'm an unforgivable person. I don't forgive you accepted that. I accepted that fact that, no matter what it is, you don't fully forgive. I can forgive you, but I don't forget. I forget. I don't.

That's not forgiven then to me, even forgive a person you're given. We've been on this. If you know, you're not. If you forget, you're you're you're releasing whatever they did for your benefits, so that but you are, you're still cognizant, so that you won't get sucked over again. But at the end of the day, you're not. You're not holding it against them. Right now, to me, I feel like I'm holding against you because I could never trust you again. I can forgive you, but I can never have forgiven

the person. But that's what you haven't accepted the new circumstances of you haven't accepted the you haven't accepted letting go the past. You haven't let it go, That's what I'm saying. So to me, I thought that that was like I wouldn't forgiven a person. If I don't trust you again after you as I told you, I forgive you, that mean I don't. I don't an example, never look at it, if you never look at it, like right, you know if you know if somebody did are if

somebody did, I don't, I can't. You don't have to trust. You can forget somebody and no trust him. I forgive you, but then you didn't relieve. That's a difference. That's not for forgiven. Like forgiving is just saying this ship ain't for to be on my heart all day. I'm thinking what if you but whether they are still in your heart,

That's what I'm saying. Like you say, if you was in a relationship right with your wife and you did something, she did something that you just could not but you can't leave with neither right, And you're trying, you're trying to try and try and try, and you're telling her, I forgave you for a baby. You're gonna be saying that which you tell her you forgave her. She's expecting you to love her the same, love her the same, trust her the same. That could be a false expectation.

That's why they always say if I play, though, they always say forgive, but don't forget. I can tell you that's what you're to deal with again. I have to forget it. That's what pop. You're not gonna deal it again. If I forgave a lot of niggas that I ain't gonna never see no more fun y'all niggas, I forget it ain't on my hard of ship. But the motherfucker gotta deal with I gotta deal with you, Jake. Yeah,

so you do some ship and I forgave you. That means I mean, if you did some ship, I forgave you for it, but I don't trust you in that way. You're still for game. You can forgive somebody move on and don't funk with them. Don't trust him. Know you said you might not be never and see, I ain't never think about it like that, like like, I never think about it like that. And I'm with Black on

that I can't. I just definition definition. But if you forget, I feel I feel like if you forgive somebody, right, yeah, like my mama, my grandmama raised me right because my mom was young and my dadd was young and he end up on chain. Ain't all this, ohle ship? I really forgive them, like they still have my whole heart, my trust, everything, that they won't do nothing to me to harm me again. And like even though I back then I felt the way fully forgiven, I fully forgave them.

You get what I'm saying, like because I get it like shit, I get it as an adult. I get it like that y'all were young, y'all didn't know no better. I don't need ship to my kids that I hope they don't. You know what I'm saying all over my head like missing basketball games and all that type. Ship. Get what I'm saying so so for me to have

to understand not forget that. But what I'm saying is being in with somebody that you're saying you forgave because you just can't accept would come with not forgiving them. M You get what I'm saying, How did that work? We're not get big? Okay, So let me read the definitions real quick. Okay. The textbook definition for a forgive is to stop feeling angry or resentful towards someone for an offense, flaw or a mistake. Trust Okay, okay, read

it one more time. Stop to stop feeling angry or resentful towards someone for an offense, flaw or a mistake. Stop feeling angry or resentful. It's basically so all I'm saying, doesn't trust a person, but you're dealing with them, how you don't resent them? Yes, let's be real. Yes, good point, But it's saying that you can for gives. The trust is not involved in forgiving. Hold just asking you a question.

That's it. If a complete stranger, hold on, if if I'm with you, but I'm still tell about relationships, if I'm still if you're still my friend, but I'm still watching you, How am I not resenting you? How am I not really kind of angry? Can you trust somebody not resent them? And vice versus what you said? So now you're putting it now your way in trust and resentment. You could have resentment towards somebody and trust them. But if you got a wall up right in a friendship?

What does walls you can come from? Non trust, resentment, anger? Let's put everything getting together now, therapist, What does what does a wall come from? A wall comes from emotional wall? Yeah, if you yeah, from past trauma. Okay, So if you got a wall up with with a person, right or things, I don't even gonna say, like just say if you was trying, you try to go to school, but I ain't gonna go back to school because when I went to school that time, I kind of understand it. So

you got to wall up. So you don't even trust yourself to go to school. Trust still trust, trusted the key factor, toship, the foundation. Yeah, so if you don't trust them, ain't a way you forgave him. Damn, that's real ship. I can't even I don't even have an argument. I never that it like that. I never looked at it like that until today, Like just now, like you can't people people, it's people. It's people, it's people. But it's people that I don't forgive that I don't trust.

Don't say that I forgave or day off my heart. I don't don't. I'm not angry. You don't deal with them, yes, but they're off my heart. Yes, But I can see, let's say a relationship or a friendship or a family member, you don't be around them right, like, you're not gonna be but I'm not angry. I'm going back to the definition I'm not angry, but I don't. I say, that's not on my mind on my heart, That's all I'm said.

How's it not on your mind on your heart? Because they could do one thing to trigger it and make it right. There a very great point they can do. They can say something that they said, or they can we the perfume feel like facts, the facts, let's be one. I got started all over ship. I was just I was just saying, like, you can forgive a person and

put distance in between, that's all. But can't you forgive a person and still being understand still have to deal with them now because because I'm gonna just I'm gonna just be real. Like from like from a female perspective, I funked with a nigga and like a nigga did some bullshit and I was like, Okay, fucking I ain't I'm not thinking about this ship whatever whatever, And then

I see the nigga again. He had on the same outfit from the day that I found out about the bullshit that he did, and I like snap, like because it was because it was like, don't forget, you can never forget what forget? But but they what they would what emotional with that? That was angered anger inside of that very complex debate, right, very complex debate. I get

what you're saying, like I forgetting. You know, if you can tell you have not forgiven, because you can say want the nigga forgive you and don't have the folks, you'll be like, yeah, yeah, everything cool, but I ain't cool. That's what you're saying. Everything cool, but ween cool. That ain't really forgiveness. That's cordial. That's not forgiveness is full forgiveness you're talking about full wholehearted you're talking about forgiving that there a lot of land with you like erased it.

But I mean, is there any other type of forgiveness? I thought forgiveness is forgiveness that can be full wholehearted. Still everybody by partial. Everybody want to have a conversation to be cordial. People want to have a conversation to be cordial because I don't want I want to let you know that I ain't on that need on that that's not forgiven. That's just agree to disagree, Like no, that's just agree to disagree like I don't folk with you.

You don't funk with me that whether it is win't got no smoke though, Bro, I don't want to see that. I don't with me. Why are we trying to hold a conversation because coexist places. I don't want to see you and exist without conversation, not not not all the time and not you're not talking about like you can speak or whatever and and say something I'll talk about like street ship, nigga, you don't know what it is. You need to get an understanding. It ain't then it

ain't that. But I don't funk with you. That's what I'm saying. Like you'll see each other out and then you'll try to strike up a conversation after. I'm saying, But she could be she could be taking like I don't want to feel like if you're a place and when I walk in that I need to grab my gun. You get what I'm saying? Or I need to be who do you? People called already saying you're still saying you haven't forgiven. In that case, you ain't forgetting. You

ain't forgiven. If you ain't forgave a person, bro, If you can't trust if you can't be back regular m I agree, being back regularly trusting him. If it don't go back to regular three, it don't go back to regular. You ain't forgave them to me. And I couldn't be tripping because once I forgave my mama, my dad, whatever, even though it wan'tover ship. But I don't even see them in that light, like y'all did nothing wrong as a kid, you know what I'm saying, But as a

grown man, I know, but ship happened. BRO could have been rached, right. I think it come down to what was done then, the circumstance in the situation for forgiveness and situational it can be. I think forgiven, like like we say with some words, I mean that it kind of has to be. But if you forgave somebody ship, go back. Your relationships should go back to what it was. I agree with that. I feel like you might forgo.

You might, you might have forgiven. You might have forgiven them, but you, like you said earlier, you know who they are. They can't help it. They're going to be who they are, and I can't coexist with Okay, see what I'm saying, But I know who you are and that's fine. Just keep that away from me. Yeah, yeah, you're saying forget, forgiving and acceptance to different thing. I forgive you, but then I accepting you by far. You said, I forgive you, but I'm accepting our situation. But you ain't on my

heart and on my mind. I ain't thinking about you. And if I see you, it ain't gonna like I always say, it's not gonna stir my day, no other way, because I forgive. I moved past all right, saying you're real when y'all doing this right and you found that some shady biding happened on ripping, and you'd be like, Bro, I ain't s donning that ship. I forgive you, and y'all stay in business. Are you gonna watch him differently if he did it? Or are you gonna think that's ever?

I think that if if you ain't for if you if you gave you bro Steve Green, so still watching your heir, but manage every every time. Yeah, that's that's a point. That's the way. Looking definitely like if it don't go back to normal, then you ain't forgave me. But that's what that's what females gotta recognize to it relationship they do what we gotta recognize. They gotta recognize that a nigga ain't I mean, you ain't forgave this nigga. What I just said that say you ain't forgave him?

You won't you you want to to spend his life proven to you that he should be forgiven for what he does and what because I feel like a bitch gott to prove to me forever that she not whatever she does, I forgave you or something, I really have

to forget the thing. It's like just like let me just like okay, for instance, with me, like if I feel like I'm gonna need for you to continuously over and over again trying to prove something to me that's gonna make me not want to funk with you, not prove you're gonna I want you to or sure assure me that this is never gonna happen again, but you

forgave me. You know it's not that, But that reassurance really doesn't mean anything because me personally, to me, I feel like if a nigga did it once, a nigga nine times out of ten is gonna do it. But okay, Okay, Okay, that's so I can't if I'm gonna shoose to be with you, I can't hold that because I know what you're saying. What's your name of the word? What? What the word is? Cognizant? Okay, so it's cognant. You're being cognizance.

If you accept the person for who he is. So whatever he done, and you say that you know he cameble to doing again, it shoudn't even upset you. That's forgetting the niggat. So you don't even nothing to forgive me for what I'm not. No, no, no, but listen, listen to what I'm saying. If what I don't make you upset, if I do it again to make you upset again, you're not a sept of me for who I am. So what are you doing with me? That's

for me once? For me twice too. If you already know your head, I hate this ship, this nigga did or whatever I'm telling him, I forgive him, but I know you just type of need to do it again. What are you doing? No, listen, that's the thing I'm not. I'm not saying that. I'm not gonna consider the question you since you want to answer the question questions, Um, it's for me once, for me twice things. It's like you're kind of trying to give people. But she said, Okay,

I'll understand what this is. What I'm saying. This is what I'm saying. I'm not gonna hurt Go ahead, That's what I'm saying. Don't switch it up. Go ahead. I'm not switching king give me sconds the thing. I'm not gonna if it's something that you did that upset me, and I know that it's gonna trigger me or upset me again, I'm not gonna come out of my mouth

and tell you that I forgave you. I'm gonna tell you, like I don't like this ship, but the love that I have for you is greater than this mistake that you made. So we're gonna try to work past. We're gonna try our hardest to work pass it. So we're not gonna put my So what's what's trying to work past it? Trying to work past it is? I'm trying to do the best that I can to not what not letting this ship trigger me? Should you do it again? What he needs to do? Though? Since what needs to

trying not to do this again. But how long is he not doing doing this? How long is he not doing before he's forgiven? Hold on screen? I can't forgive it, hold up screen hold. Look, you know he came with doing this. This is basically his character, right, Yeah, okay, So what are you What are you doing if this hurts your feelings, if it hurts my feelings, and I really you open, you're hoping that by your feelings be hurt, he see that your feelings hurt, that he's not gonna

be him. No, I can't do that. I can't do that. What you think purpose, No, listen to what I'm saying. That's what I'm trying to explain with a question. We're saying the same ship, So what are you doing if you know the same ship. I'm telling you we saying the same ship because you're saying you try, you're saying you you hope that y'all can work past it. I said, we're gonna try our hardest to work past it. That's him being him? What are you gonna work past? Essentially

that when does that happen? If it doesn't happen within a certain amount of time, Like you said, after my patience has run out, then it's dead. We overwit so. So but what patience? Though? Why do you have a patient for something that you already know? No, I wasn't how when he did it? You you know where you're from, and you know what you know. When the nigga do something,

he'll do it again. You just said that, Okay, So once he did it, why is that not a deal break up for your feelings because that's on him because you already know he gonna keep on to stay him in. No, I just need to build up the strip. That's what you said. Basically, That is what I'm saying. All right,

That's what I'm saying. Say that did so what I'm saying, this behavior that I don't agree with, I wasn't aware of in the beginning, But once I was made aware of it, I made the cognizant decision to try to work past it, even though I didn't like it, because of the love that I had for this nigga. Because I love this nigga so much, I wanted to try to see if I could get through it. That you the thing about the nigga that you choose and the

nigga that you deal with. When you're dealing with this person, you kind of already have an ideal the type of ship he's gonna take you through. Let's you kind of have an idea to what you are attracted to. You have chosen or accepted, are willing to deal with that ship. But you don't want to be what's the word? You want to be a delusional You want to be delusional. Facts like these are fact before I met how I met this nigga. When I met this nigga, how he was.

When I met this nigga, I knew that he was dead kind of nigga. I go for women and men too, though j like for women, I can't speaking trying to change people. They go back. I said that in the beginning open if I know that you are how you are, I have to stop being delusional and way and seek an ideal with how you are. But niggas be acting so who they are. What you be acting who they are is not who they really are. Like they're gonna

be a certain way too. Instead of saying what it is, he's being illusion because at the end of the day, once I'm sucked up and I care about you, I kind of I want to try to goddamn not make you feel fucked up. So I'm gonna say little ship and try to act you know what I mean. But you know that this is an act because I don't sucked up, right, because you know what y'all a nigga I am. But you know I'm mad. You know I'm I'm hurt because you're hurt. So I'm gonna whatever to

pat your heart up. But in reality of the ship, if we been what's the name of the word, if we're being cognizant, the reality is I wish he would change who he is nothing else. Because you know this is why, this is why don't keep it? Really like women women be on the eighth ninth timph of have a chance, like you've already accepted that ship. You know women like that, they'd be on the eleven chance. This is the eleven of time you've called about this ship.

This is who this nigga is. So niggas don't change ever, they can't change. I got what you could be so much to a woman or so much ship. Let me having a relationship. When you do change, it's not gonna be perceived a change. Let me perceive that you're acting that's the fund up party could be too late because I got some partlem I got some partners that have changed. Yeah, then you go out there, they could go do a whole another you know what I'm saying, Like have a

whole some most ship going on. This nigga really are different. Some bullshit. They're gonna resentment, but we're not seeing it for what it is. Yeah, but you but you ride no right, you're right. If you're right, you gotta have a total forgiveness. That's what I'm saying. You gotta forgive a person, even me, I know I have. I am cognant connest to of that. It's very rare that I forgive somebody, truly forgive if you've done something to me,

if I've made myself vulnerable to you, Yeah exactly. It's like because that was my choice, So THEMN the impossible for me to do that again. Yeah, because I don't do that for everybody. And the fact that I chose to do that for you, you mhm. So once that happens, and you know that happened, what are you still doing with this guy being loved? I don't know what are you still doing? Okay with saying, bro, figure out what you're gonna do, fuck me and nothing, and when I

needed we still locked me in whatever whatever. But I can't do the mental side of it because that's what those you are. Yeah, that's what's set up depression and all that other ship and resentment and all that. Because I can forgive you and that you're gone and and and forgive you. How do the rest of your folks forgive you over there? Yeah? So all the stories A, B yourself and B. I think that's going all the way back the accountability. You just had to have accountability.

Just had to note the girl at the beginning of My bad screen. The girls in the begin um Kasa women are looking at her like she's so stupid? How how is she stupid? She's cognizant. How is she stupid? Because of the ain't say her name? And that was her name? But who the fuck care about that? Nobody but other people, but some women do. Some women do look at certain ships like that's just wrong with him. No,

she accept him for who he is exactly. I said you, I gotta say my other bitches and we're not doing We're not doing that doing that. Did night of Gonna say one, who's the dark time with me and my truth? You know what I'm saying, anything anything about that? Man? Hey, and mall do all right? Rest of that ship? Man? Hey, man, y'all figure that out. We still what we was when I could come out this stage right right. But you'll

you'll you'll get a typical female. We'll get inside they mine listening to all these folks and start being what delusion on facts because you're being delusion on what you got and who you got. Yeah, it's certain things that you like about this guy. It's certain thing that you love about this guy. Love and like that. We're trying to get some more ship out of that. That ain't coming out of that. That ain't coming out of that

is because we started wanting that out of that. He's gonna start want somebody of your head, all right, what bet you need to be that thing? Right? And that ain't gonna work me this. Oh you women like like Pinky Cold Man and and and and and candy birds. You know what I'm saying, The kind of women have any business? So okay, I want you to be that. You won't go be that m Yeah, am I tripping. You're a lawyer, brom saying, but I'm just saying like tripping,

like like we can't ask you about to impossible ship. Now, yeah, these things are possible, but we gotta you know what I'm saying, Let's do this ship and we're gonna do it. Yeah, I agree. Agree, ain't trying to be fun and I ain't somebody pier situations and then any nigga bitch you can't won't so much out of nigga, but god damn gonna be super nigga. What the nigga? What's my oh man? Ship?

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