Big and DJ Scream bring you Big Fat Podcast in the streets. Visit the new website today www dot Big factspot dot com live for first class sounds. You know who it is. DJ Scream, Big Bankers, Sire Shot Jones and sid Shi Jones in duct tape, Dave and Pek Peek is here. How are you doing? Peak? I'd you decided to be on Big Fast Friday today? Okay, all right, so let's jump straight into it. Uh, we're gonna need to get the definition of acceptance the websters or the
regular definition, and of course the Urban Dictionary definition. So we can talk all about acceptance while Shot pulls that up. Dave you good, bank you good good? Sure they put you an Olympics ship. I think when the next one, I think it this year. Now I'm gonna need by phar more year. You're getting it right? Yeah, Ready for the for the jumping all heard of? Oh man, ready for the when they do their walk for that role race what we're doing? Alright? So the textbook definition of
acceptances the action of consenting to receive or undertaking something offered. Okay, that makes sense. The action of process of being received as adequent or suitable typically to be admitted into a group.
That's two different definitions. So it's kind of like trying to fit in, but also acceptance could be like how you deal with like in certain things like that really got the steps and should have been it is what it is, right, Well, let's see what the Urban Dictionary says, Um, this is a stage age of grief where you experienced death, whether from life, a relationship or job, a dream. The stage of acceptances where there's no ill will towards anyone,
no regret, no sadness, no desperation. You have to accept the fact that all that has come before in this moment um, what's to teach you something to propel you forward? It's all good man, that gene got in. So you want to talk about the acceptance as far as the internet before we talk about fitting in. So I guess what some of the steps to bring yourself to that place to accept things or accept yourself or accept yourself,
accept your others circumstances except the good the bad. Like I think the first step is just to accept that you won't accept the first step, man, except that you need to start accepting ship man. Yeah, yeah, that the first and foremost if you step didn't them choose, you need to win. So a lot of people would call someone who just kind of accept and shrugs everything off. The word for that would be nonchalant, and people are like,
you're nonchalant. Sometimes people get frustrated by nonchalant people because they can't be bothered by nothing. Well, that don't mean that they don't accept it. But that don't mean that they don't accept it. You could be nonchalant. It's still acception for what it is. It's just that it don't bother you. You know what I'm saying that, Yeah, he's saying. He's saying, like some people be bothered that you can't accept She Yeah, this is going on. I want to
do something. How you keep taking? Yeah, how you keep moving like because nigger don't move past it? Like when you I feel like once you accept, man, that ship really is like a healing It heals you piece like that. The everydictionarself. So you're gonna you're gonna like people. I know it's unfortunate delf and sittnals and everything, but what you're gonna do. You're just gonna stop right now. You can't the end of the day. Then what it is? It is what it is? Right, But how didn't turn out?
People will be such stuck in it? How do they usually they be in the bad They put them in a bad situation. Though they still put you in a bad situation though nobody want to be in a bad situation. So if you want to get out of it, she then what it is, you gotta move past it. You you can't control ship, can't control nothing, really, I mean yourself. But you can't control nothing. You can't control what's gonna happen. Who's gonna do it? Period? You can't ain't control ship.
You can't even control how you feel most of the time, like how yourself feeling certain things, like especially when it comes to grief, like some people, you really don't know how you're gonna feel when somebody close to you die. Some people may go smoke, some people may go drink. Another person may be sad and depressed for like a year or two years, three years, I think, but I think they're still a part of a septance though, Yeah,
grief and anything whatever. If you if you're trying so if you're doing that type of ship smoking and drinking and trying to like kind of like I don't know, fight the pain and everything like that. Is that really acceptance or that's another word we acceptance is like I can deal with it without trying to suppress. But if you already accept deaf, then I feel like you know what I'm saying, if you already got to understand that, like it comes with it comes with it, you know
what I'm saying. Like and if you know to me, if you know a person, if you got love on in your I when they passed away, you know why they was here. I gave him a hundred percent. I feel like they make it easy for you to be able to sip. But what I'm saying is if you if you if you don't accept it, and you start smoking and drinking or doing being out of character and doing a bunch of like self harm, self inflicting ship to create more, giving up on life, becoming okay, despair.
But is that giving because I don't know, because I like, if you're trying to give yourself because you want to know more because that person you're trying to give yourself, you're giving up on life, m you're doing anything you it's just like add some then the murder like somebody absolutely that they like took some piers. They dropped too much and they went down and hit the pole. They ain't they ain't playing it, but they knew what they were doing. Just trying to see what this ship happened,
so they can go, I can die too. You know what you say. You're saying that a person that's an abusing drug us or something, because someone is something after time happened, they really got them. How do they go? They go, how have we going? But really suicide? Yeah, you're scared to pull the trickers stuff. You know what I mean? They're going there getting the gun. Did you want to if she take some piel, keep drinking, drinking, get in the car, drive thou mouth power? Yeah yeah,
yeah yeah. I think people don't know how to deal with their pain. A lot of people just don't know how to deal with their pain. Some people when they hurt, like they get angry because you're hurt your feelings, so you get angry. People just don't know deal with their pain. Everybody like it until you start learning. You start so another day, not the end day, end of the days. Accept it, just saying it is should you accept everything you got? You got to if that's what it is,
you want to be it, that's what it is. It can't be changed. That's the surrendered for right now. You're right, yeah, you know it can't be changed. It can't be changed. Give me the straight to control of the camera. Crying I was spilt milk. Yeah, what I'm talking to you do? I'll just think. I'm just thinking about them all. I'm just and I'm just thinking I might not have it. I'm just thinking about when you might be accepting something
that you shouldn't accept, Like should you accept defeat? Like if you're ain't going right, you want to make it better? Should you accept the fact that I'm at this place in life and this one I won't be my whole life? Should you? No, that ain't that ain't there ain't set in stone, and that's what that is. Where you gotta accept. Yeah, if you if you if your finger cut off, you gotta accept that exactly I got you. You might can get what they call it, but if you'll never see
that finger, it's yeah. So you don't have to accept up things you keep, you can change. So somebody's sad about the relationship, they got to accept that because they might be able to get that person back. That's not necessarily permanent. You're saying permanent things. Yes, that's how I feel. That makes if I if I can't change it, I gott if I don't reach out to this woman more over numerous times and cry my heart off, and she started showing me, fuck me. I have to accept that,
because that's what that is. Yeah, Like I can't. I can't sit here and keep trying and trying and trying and trying and try, like I can take your mind. She already told me what it is you stopped doing. Get the hell jail time, stalking to right right. You ain't accepted in fact that it's over with. Yeah, but I think sometimes you can accept um situ wife's there's
not temporary. You just accept Yeah, yeah, exactly like that, like what you were saying, like you're in a place in your life, like like what he was saying, Like you're in a place where you're in your life and you want to get to the next step. Why can't you just need that set where you wait right now? Set where you wait. You're saying like that's like content though it's not being content. That is if you accept that, if you if you feel like you want more and
you you set what you got, that's content. That's kind of giving up. I'll take it as you're just giving up on yourself. You ain't just gonna take it step first. If you want more now, if you don't want more, yeah, if you accept your position, like what you're trying to say, position at the moment, like what I always said, Like like what I always said. Then she trying to say, she's trying to say, like, Okay, be grateful, not accept. She really trying to put you saying, be grateful what
you got, want more? Yeah, but I'm accept who I am and accept the position than I am right now. Yeah, that's basically being grateful because gonna you're gonna continue to keep ground and get out of here. So I feel like a mother to accept the positioned and he don't want to go No. Forever, you get somebody growing up in the projects or some ship and they're like, I'm cool with this. I'm just I'm straight. This is it.
They're being complacent, complacent and like you said, content, Yeah, because at the end of the day, he could be worse. It could be worse, and out there you just don't want to take the other step to go completely. They might not even want to feel no shoes or being a boss or ceo, how them bills and how this card? Everybody loves us, suscess ain't the same. Everybody love her happens ain't the same. Like, that's one thing I don't
want to take in. I have to pay the light. Billy, you haven't seen anything on the street, happy baby like free man. Yeah, the stressing you want you and tell you like everybody happens is different, real special. When you got acceptance in accept who I am that I'm happy like this right right, So let me ask you a question. How do you feel when people talk about accepting other people like you have to accept people for who they are?
Do you feel like people can like do you feel like you have to accept people for who they are? Or do you could You can talk to them and they could change who they are, well, not necessarily change who they are, to change their perspective who they are until they're ready to be somebody else or a better person or worse or whatever. Just got to accept that ship, they said, else we'll not get big. What if what they're doing is like not good? That's who they are,
that's who they are. That what they do, what you mean, what you mean, what they're doing? It is not good. They're just not being a good person. Yeah, like they're just nodded like that's like if you know, Okay, for example, you and Dave hella close. If you see Dave start to change who he is and do some ship that's like not good. Do you accept the new Dave or do you now call Dave out and say, hey, I'm gonna bring to the attention to make sure heal, well,
what are he's doing? And then if he said, well, what are he's doing? Like, yeah, I know, that's what I'm on. That's what I'm on, then I gotta either accept it or remove myself. Right, Okay, it's one or the other. I can't got them and get mad at you for who you like, this's who I am. Always to people who out of Yeah, exactly, ain't gotta funk with you because that ain't who I am. Yeah, like, that's gonna got them. Fuck you know what I'm saying.
That ain't gonna be be right for me. So it sounds like lacking acceptance can create a lot of stress. But what about the other definition of acceptance, which is a lot of people basically trying to be something they're not to gain acceptance. So it's kind of like the other end of your question, like if a person is who they are, then David said, well, I'm gonna change it so everyone will accept me per se. You know
what I'm saying? What about that? What's our thoughts on that? Marketing? Marketing? Some of this ship marketed talking about entertainment, talk about I'm trying to get around the news. Yeah, but like I might not like your but they like Jerry in this rap game. If I'm a wrapper, they might not. I might not like the web drip. You see the ship I wear. I wear Bullshit comes traight. I may not like the web Drip, but this is what you need to have to be accepted. Let's take this for example, right,
shouts to Rage three and Jazz there in here. They are generally quiet people when they're around there themselves. Now they came in here. It was trying to be all extra and loud and it'll be weird. Right, They just themselves rather than trying to be something that they'd not to fit in. You see what I'm saying. That's not that's what's that called your face? Yeah? No, um, I think the marketing. No, I'll talk about you're not even listening. Three and jazz started coming to here being loud and
boisterous and being something other than what they are. It would be weird, right, thanks for Dave, it'll be weird. But it's like it really ain't got them. It's really it's really it's really more personal like this, I ain't got to accept that though weird, or it wouldn't be weird because I'm the type of person. I'm gonna tell you, like what happen? Do you? But it used to be cool?
So you're talking about But then you gotta also realize that people don't be they normalself trying to be other people and we don't accept that that you get on. Something might have came in quiet because they don't know us, but that ain't even them. They're being that to be accepted. Then you get comfortable, you start getting cool. Now being myself and we're looking at that is strange, but that's who they really is, like our extra voice. Now she used to be quiet, and now she we got down.
She got our own podcasts with a podcast. But that's who she is the right, you know what I'm saying. So comfortability is important, but I still think that it ain't. You should you shouldn't try to like be something other than yourself overall to try to feel it in. But I guess if you're a rapper, if you anything, or a character, if you're a character, you just gotta you're gonna blow it the leaves. You know what I'm saying,
You're gonna blow it the leaves. But if you just you, you just you, you get what I'm saying, But you can't. That's why back to the Southern we said the last time, we can't take an entertainer that's who they are when the cameras are because I could be in character, you know what I'm saying. I get the podcasts the closest thing, and the raps the closest thing until you probably first people being their self, giving the real open that people
and people lying, people are being characters. People are doing what they what they've following in or their fans pushed them towards. You know what I'm saying, all those comments you go to feed into that sh You might not never like Jerry, but when I put the girl on I made a hit. Yeah when I put the girl on my video, did a million of you? Yeah, you get want to say, so having the powder sit on to do this ship and then they become a part
of you. It don't be. It don't even be to be accepted in your mind because you're not thinking about you, just thinking about hurt defolks. But what about what what about? What about people? Let's take social media? What about people get too deep into that ship and do too much? Like you say, one person to do something like a girl might show her toes and then that works so that she keeps taking more clothes and more clothes and more clothes off for the acceptance of her social media following.
I think once again, that's marketing. And is it is it okay to do marketing that goals? If I'm already selling toes, that's a part of my body. That the same ship. It's all she's making money. It's just it's marketing. It's all on my body. Reference Baker said, toes the same as they is if you, if you're show them it is, it's the same. I think wind gonna cost way more than you. That's what they love. Like, No,
I'm serious toe fetish is real. It's the same. You've got people that if you're exploring your body or in any part, everybody else, everybody in here would take their feet off, shoes off right now and show their toes. The women are not gonna feel comfortable show they're gonna feel comfortable. They know we ain't gonna feel comfortable. They're gonna bout showing them titties. They don't feel like they disrespected up. They want to wish they could have on
No church like niggles man. That's a big right now, that's a big women gotta right. It could be the other way around. The once I'm already selling something to ship getting show selling. We different in selling ara, Why are you thinking them for? It went from che Burger to beat Man to double Cheah, from g Bird and Double che Bird to the big Man to the Philate, to the make real to the quarterback. Yeah what I'm saying, Let this ship slow up like you see a bit
twigging fir with some jeans on. Then she realized the jeans it's not not. Then that ship wobbing a little sundressed like then we shot, then we pay it. Then we only paying them so I think gaining acceptance is a gateway drugs. What you're saying if you can't pay I think if you're getting paid off, it's not accepting. People ain't getting pay it on social media, they're just doing it for the attention that the attention. Attention has
became a new currency. So at the end of the day, Bro, once once I get enough attention, he didn't even turn around and have a book? You did, Bro, you like it different. I didn't understand it, and I don't understand it, but I see it happening. Yeah, you like the dude who's in the court got if you think I'm here to play with you, damning him nut that one little ship, he got a book, he got somebody about it just off of that attention he got. Yeah, something different. Just
think about it. Like people give people with a whole bunch of follows the everybody want to send them ship. They get free shipped by just having followers. You got everybody that want to be around you just because you got followers. They don't care about how much money you got. You got all them followers for let's hang out. But when they come to in a in a sense like that, I think it's most on the investment than asseltence, Like, yeah,
what what's the investment of them? Want to be around them people, y'all just trying to go viral, like yeah, exactly like changing your parents. It's all in investment. Ain't really about being in silthy investment going virus like a hit song. It really is, because think about when you need to go viral, you need you start seeing them just like what what they ain't like? He different now he's just no coming in nigga? Are you talking about
Drew Drew Desert banks and playing on internet? Playing around enough these the businesses. Now, yeah, you're out of here, right, So these ain't folks sending at home and ain't did nothing that man. They know. All that man did was got in front of the camera. That's what they're trying to do. That's that's like the new hit. Yeah, I can't argue with that once you know, man, Now you're gonna get to no man, and I got something to say. That's all these folks un live y'all don't got to
know y'all smelling my flame? Now I got something to say too. Now you see me. What it did is in the in the in the y Uh, I'm an entertainer. Ship different, bro, Yeah, I gotta agree with that. Different Like we never seen nothing like that, But it's different. You just gotta respect everyone the movie. They just working a whole nother movie. Got to accept every hustle. So are we telling people to push the limits to be accepted? No, you always got to be how you get. I'm saying,
that's what it's for. Clarity, no validating what y'all say. You know what I'm saying. If you're already doing it, why is you playing? You don't play with it? Why is you playing? You already doing ship for acceptance? Why is you're playing? Yeah, So if you're wrapping them, you're on one type of whatever type of vibe you're on, or you might a gonna go to that vibe. If you're gonna be the weed smoking currency with Khalifa, I live stoner, weed smoking rapper, you might as well be
the stoner. Don't play with it because you're already doing it. Whatever, come with that lane you're doing, Gonna come with that anyway, whatever it is that. You know what I'm saying. If you if you're saying you want to go to the Olympic light bank. You need to do you ten miles and five miles and the least five. You get what I'm saying. You gotta push that ship to the limit. You can't do nothing had weight, all right, because now you ain't even accept that yourself is who you really
want to. You want to put some little shit in Huh. Yeah, you don't even think it. You ain't even accepted that you're great yet. That's that's so that's something else with acceptance, Like what what about people who are not accepting the paint, who are not accepting their destiny, like not accepting their greatness, like kind of running from it. It ain't even net. Sometime they'd be fear And these can't even believe that
I'm net, you got something. They can't even believe that they for great, being the chosen on the pressure, the depressure, you know how much you know, how much you know how much you got they're realicule up. But but hold up what y'all just said. It is what it is. If you're the one you, if you accept, if you don't underscept that, then you could you could be you know what I mean. The niggas came out of high school better than Jodan the d damn can fight like
Mike Tyson. But they didn't accept it. They wouldn't. Ain't it accept it? Right? They accepted something else, They accepted their demise instead of now they chase something milk. Yeah, they changed it something else. Yeah, the wrong ship. Yeah. Oh god, I can say something I don't know? Yeah, how about to say something what you think? Think? Um, it can be a broad nigga like, but he has accepted that he's gonna be great, Like I'm that nigger like, but eventually I just know one day I'm just gonna
be there. Facts. Yeah, now that makes sense, that makes sense. But what else in relationship to acceptance? Can acceptance going? Like physical attributes as well? What you mean should you accept your physical attributes? What you mean? Should you just accept your physical attributes? Like if you if if somebody say, I don't know, somebody's not attracted? What of jade, did somebody say somebody is not attractive? Or they this or they that? You say? It kind of is what it is?
So should they accept that? What? Like? What if you know you something that could be ugly, it could be anything not because you can change that, Okay, how are you going to sell if a nigga said you just a f how you gonna set that? You can change it? You can change it. Okay, I got you. That's not one of the permanent circumstances. But you can't really change But the NEA say, black head Bank, I can't change that.
I got to accept that I'm a black head and I'm black and the most of the nigga that will be around me. Yeah, I got you. Yeah, all right, Ship, it is what it is. Except before what it is, we're talking about acceptance. What's the what's the what's the point of acceptance? I mean, what it like? What's the what are we talking about? Oh? We have to accept that every other episode j might be late. We have to accept that the change just got all the flight
and it's all good. We have to accept that every other episode maybe late. We have to accept that. Right, have you accepted that is what it is? You know what I'm saying? Well, we're gonna get in where we fitted that, So we have accepted that. I appreciate. I appreciate the acceptance abundantly that I'm learning a lot of words with this big ship were dropping. I'll be talking like tipping a minute. Yeah, I didn't know which one's wrong with which one Fast Friday. It probably our head
overs on the words. Oh no, no, then they was just saying, like, niggas, I feel like there's gonna be far off and what we're somebody. That's how niggas tell when nas get caught up and ship. That would make nega tell because they don't accept what they'd be undid came up with the word they don't. Yeah, they don't accept that I did this ship. Yeah yeah, yeah, Like you've been lying so long, like we've been lying to
everybody that's your own lines. So now you have an acsembly you're talking about are you speaking on niggas they get caught up and ship that weren't really doing ship but that we're just trying to be in some ship that really did it? Yeah? Who did it till? But till like it's like if I go, if all of us go rob the store and I get caught instead of me just saying they and they're like, shot, you rob the store, You're about to go to jail. I'm
like with ship, in fact, everybody else did it. How y'all let bank screen Pink Jay Dave, Dave wear glasses, get away like I didn't accept my pay even though I put yeah it is I got because we're I met with everybody you could be, so we're lying, like lying to yourself so bad that you'll trick yourself into a worse situation. You get what I'm saying, mine instead
of destiny? Yeah? Yeah, exactly. You around because you're not accepting like I did say, if if, if your wife's leave you because something that you know you cannot change within yourself. You have debate accept that right then and there. If not, you're gonna go crazy. You're gonna be sitting sounding like the nile who making excuses to everybody like cauld We see it too, but you know what I'm saying, like we see what she's talking about. But well yeah yeah, yeah,
yeah yeah you in your mind? You retarded? Bro? You you ain't accepting it. How many people know people like that be real? A lot of people like Nigga You ain't except didn't it? Bro? You laugh to yourself and Motherucker's will hate you and be mad at you because you ain't to believe a lot of I know, not this alive. Bro. You want me to accept so don't live. You said it is what it is. I can accept that you are liar, but man like when you're a liar,
you know you're a liar. We both know you alive, right, so I want me to believe you. Mad that I won't believe live and they tell me if they're telling the truth at one time, you're just not gonna bread. She's questionable. One time, the only believe you because they didn't so well. I did not know. I ain't gonna lie till today. This conversation is good because I didn't know how important and how peaceful acceptance. I didn't know
the importance of that word. But it's important, like any nigga, bro ever man fucked up, locked up anything when them need to be like bro that she was the best place for me because they reached acceptance. Like Okay, I fucked up. We find out how to live fit like and a dept. You get locked up. It ain't no way around that. But niggas who can't accept that they what you're doing. No, you gotta accept that it's time for me to live a different life Nowance will make
tell you. They'll make you telling because you have not accelf did it because honestly, you just find with yourself. You ain't find with nobody. You just find with yourself. Does everybody else have the he's gone? He's gone? Just how that ship be? Bro? I was like out of mind? So we go right back to the beginning. You got to accept yourself like haveing accept us with their first first tell anything, first, wake up because I'd be like that, Bro. I just need to be thinking like bro, they need
They don't give a funk about nothing I do. I can about everything, but I know when what me giving the funk about that ain't gonna help nothing. Period. Me giving the funk about this right here is gonna stop this. So that is what that is. God bless that situation. But this is what this is. We're not get big. People will be mad, but says you can accept with them. They just can't. They could be your own situations like and people will be like man or why y like
she is? What it is is that mother wants want me to be mad. The more the story it is, take it, how though, take out, come taking hard, don't come if you don't you put yourself in the situation where you very bad, always blaming the next motherfucker. Don't be the mothercker that always blame the neck. Motherfucker. You know what I'm saying. It's like because I don't accept that I didn't work hard for my ship. All, like
I said, is what Jay didn't do. If I had a better manager, I could have been drinking me saying this. Now I had one song, try that, but I could have been drink if I had somebody else hand to my baby. You ain't even recorded, but the whole life you have, No, it's been easy. Didn't believe that, like beat you on me back? How you do except this in the same family as accountability that ease you got, mother motherfucker's tell you everything that you didn't do. That's
all I can see is what you didn't do. I can't see that I only recorded six songs in my whole life, you get what I'm saying. I can't see that I've never been to a studio, to my old sex whatever whatever they come in to being that are did you try to be? I'm gonna blame it on everything I shouldn't have fought with dearl jam. I knew I shouldn't have them folk right, because what it was going on it was the greatest ship, the greatest shiver. You know what I'm saying, that ship hold you back?
What except I haven't kind of buil of it, bro, of your action if you kind of building that hand. Yeah, like if I ain't, I don't know, Bro, make it blessed, Bro, blesses just no, like it's on me. I gotta eat that that week up is like you could be in a situation where somebody really did something to you, but it's just like someone in there. I did something to put myself in this situation. I ain't gonna blame any person like, oh that you're wrong me, No, put myself
in this situation. Sign out some way to get wrong. I should have been my mind told me, like, however, whatever, how is it though first did something because you Yeah, just because you're a sept thing, don't mean you can't react to right. But you still gotta put yourself, hold yourself a kind of about the rip off the real See, you gotta be your biggest hater. You gotta be your biggest hater. Bro. That's the only way accountability and it's
up is coming into plate. If you hate on yourself, like critique yourself, like even if it's good, it's bad. Something could be better than that. The only thing is gonna make that ship whether it pold to be Listen, you listen to my music from a hater ear like then he came in that wrapped for real and he got let you know what I'm saying, that's ruth. So I'm not I would take accepted that I may not
be a rapper. You get what I'm saying. I may not, even though my niggas and everybody saying, man, hey not, you know I ain't. I have accepted that it ain't for me. I don't even like as I was doing shows and I don't. I don't want to do that, but me doing that and I get a panic attack on some ship. Now I'm blaming others. You know it's gonna be j So it's a kound of bentity first for real, Bro, you know you know, you know, you know, you know, you know you know. Because can't nobody to
make you do ship. I can't nobody to make you entice. You can't about to make you do you know? Do you know? People a lot of their self, Bro, I used to do that ship, but a lot of myself by ship, Like ain't they ain't even yes she did. But it's like once you learn the quicker that chicken self to take accountabentity and the self, the ship and Jimmy like it is what it is, I'll give a yeah, life easier like because bro, the quicker, you let it be what it is. If it is what it is,
that's where it be what it is. So whatever situation you try to go's trying to follow that. I get it. You let it be with it. It's gonna be whatever because it did g bro, you can try to hold that sheep, don't is that is that? I didn't catch up with that in her mouth? She did, buddy, that it is what it is? That show is that? But is that? You know how like phrases in turns sometimes like wear out, but that's one that don't never wor out. He's saying that ships just what old one because that's
what it is. Yeah, it probably go back yeah somebody ever, but somebody, yeah it is. But see something like that people like a lot of And this goes back to the whole acceptance thing. A lot of people say it is what it is, but I'll still be wishing that
it was what it was. For sure, you're gonna do that the human nature, I wish you, but it is, yeah, does until you just say it is what it is period and you know what I'm saying, cut it off right there, You're always gonna like be miserable and not happy. Not really you could be You're right by what you said, but not really you could it could be. It is what it is, But I wish you want to like that, because I got a lot of situations like that. Ye,
but but but it still ain't. But that that wishing that it wasn't like that still make peace the situation alive. Yeah yeah. And that ship man, that ship, it just get on time. It is what it is, but you wish you weren't like that. It's some ship that really it ain't what it is. A't it ain't. It's just sit your it's just the situation. And like like an edge friend, it ain't. It is what it is. But you're making it what it is because you can easy pick up the phone and say it's pride what it is.
Because if you wish, you want to like that, you can make that not like that. But if you wish, but I don't want to say that's just like it is what it is, but I wish you want to like that that's what that is. They ain't coming back from that. Yeah, But like with the friendship, it is what it is. But picking up the phone and saying certain ships like may not necessarily be pride. If you're the one that was sucked over. Everybody feel fun when
they got a disagreement. You think the person that you feel like that about don't feel like you suck them out because they have an accept They don't put something in the mind that it is what daddy is. Yeah, yeah, or you did something to deserve them to do whatever they did exactly. But you can feel like that one name, Yeah, she's tripping over nothing and waiting on you to go. Said, you know what they said about waiting broke the water wheels.
I think it ain't it ain't what it is when you ain't what it is you wish it was what it was. Yeah, man, it ain't when you wish it ain't what it No, it ain't not. It ain't what it is. If you're still wishing that it was what it was. Okay, that's hard, that's hard. But that fact though, because makes all the sense in the world. Yeah, but if you're still wishing that it was what it was, then it ain't what it is because they're still in
my mind. Can go back to what it was. It depends on the situation that now that situational Okay, what you mean, can't go back for the world, it can go It could be better than what it is. How could you could be broke rich and go back to being broke? You go back to what it was. No, back to being broke, and then go back to being um rich, no, not rich. You can go back to being comfortable comfortable. Yeah, yeah, so it wasn't what it was,
but comfortably is better than broke. Comfortably bro Hey, I'm not comfortable, ain't broke. That's what I said. That's what it sounds like. If you go from rich, if you go from pole to rich back to pole, you said, go from broke from zero running mind up to timmy fun it alway back up to zero, running back up the five five me or even a hundred dollars. I see what you're saying. Yeah, I'm talking about but it's not I'm not when do you fun? Right? It is
what it is. If you call negative from zero, that ain't it. It happens. It isn't what it is, what it was. What people get more money. People get more money sometimes they spend a whole bunch of un a lot of them. We're seeing all the stories. This is what happened to my ship. Might Tyson admitted it? I went admitted, But daddy is where that is. Come out of the hood. But you gotta funk up your fur bag. And unless you unless you got proper. That man didn't
have proper And I am not blaming nobody nothing. All I am is a box I'm not accounting. I'm not none of this ship. It was a boxer ready to fight. I want some, But I don't know his story. I'm just saying how I look at it, like just like athletes, like if you don't do the right ship Nia is learning through his mistake. He's backing on track doing what he do. Yeah, yeah, well helmed. Yeah he act like you said, he's probably comfortable. He's still hampering. He getting
paid on this song. Hey man, A lot of people don't Blue Tyson Dune did it. A lot of football player rappers don't did that ship. So it's better than what it is, but it's still ain't what it was, even if you go back to broke. But see, even if you go back to broke, when you walk down the street, you're not the same person you were. You might be broke, but you're now a celebrity. You said you're worse. But everybody don't know you broke yet. How they don't know? Ain't know you broke? When you broke,
it was like, because how to have you? How to have you still the sign name? You're walking down the street, don't even ad down the street. I felt like, just just like when you're coming up, there's a lot of fake it til you make it when you're up there. If you fall off, you could keep faking it to try to keep that image. No, that that ain't don't work like that, niggas. No, you ain't doing the same thing you used to do when you had that money.
Pe you were doing something different. You humbling. Oh we all talk about characters. Yeah, mainly make you humble? He said that up. No, really it's not. It's not even money that makes you humble. It's the last that girl. Yeah, um black China, she get baptize that money get away. But yeah, you know what I I say that hurt. What I guess. So she on a boxing match too, doing a boxing match too? What she's doing with some some girl from Bad Girls Club? Natalie? None, No, somebody else?
But that ship crash. Funny when I see that ship mine never mind, I'm I'm never mind. What clock I came about this? Okay, that ship was funny here when I've seen that ship that they can't go to gud but I didn't. But and that was right after she lost a little lost. It was like a week later. You know, I ain't laughing about it when they get rokes, but it's like, but why is it like that? Though? You know what I'm saying, Like who else you're gonna call?
Right they get there? God on your knee, Talk of God when it's going great, it's going good, and it's going bad. Talking different when it ain't going good. Ain't to the higher power when they funked up, and then the higher power bring you back, and then you don't keep them promises, like I promise I get back up. I ain't gonna do that no more. I promise take
you back and not right there? Yeah, but not right then, like they let you go and let you think you're gonna do what you're gonna do, and then you just end up in the situation and come back to reality. Nigga lying, don't don't do that back what saying? What if I let's say, let's say a nigga and jail. I ain't gonna do that no more. God, I know you lie when you tell that lot of when. Yeah, he gave you that, He gave you, give you the mercy to heave. He know you lying right now. He
did give you another opportunity. He's trying you out. He know you lying. If you're gonna do it, how you gonna do it? Yeah, so you think he's gonna have mercy for you if you did it doing it? You did it how you done? But you ain't doing how you don't done it? But like I rob, like I was just rubbing nia just to rub nigga's but this time I had to rub the NIU chromatime. Like I just in a photo situation where I need to do something for my kids. Oh God, please the rolls not No, No,
I'm gonna do it. I O way it's going to the kids. That's a real conversation. Some people have got to do this up. Yeah, you give me a turn. But do you listening? Not to do that? Please? Like you, but you trying to treat guns show me? Should I go here? I'm almost here, gud. It's a stop sign right there. But you ain't the sign God that ain't be inside. I should go do this. Everybody call you ain't calling your grandma? Hey baby, how are you doing?
I've just been thinking about love you. I'm being no trouble. Okay, you wanna wait to elite? People called you thirty year said, whoever you call it? Staring right here? Yeah, I heard my man. She was giving him a blessing. She just blessed this leg. This won't just see me by blessing what I'm saying. It's to go through really clean, It's to go through. Grandma always bless you. I'm glad she called. I know this ship from the work. Do everything to
make yourself valid? Yeah, the valid. He reversed the week exactly. Yeah, what were doing the screen? Accept this will bring you peace. I personally today learned or accept and I'm fun to accept for you know why? Because it is what it is? Big Yeah Yeah, Triple w dot Big Facts pot dot Com Big Facts Friday. We out salute. You're listening to Big Facts with Big Bank and DJ Scream. Follow Big Facts on social media A Big Facts, five fine Big Fags and DJ Scream Bring you Big Facts. Hey man,
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