BIG FACTS FRIDAY - MARRIAGE IS A BURDEN BUT PARENTHOOD ISNT?

is now legendary, is now iconic pop? That motherfucker off in like, I gotta hold you up this ship right here. This is smoking Jada smoking. Jada smoking, y'all. I don't know what it is smoking the same thing smoking on Friday. He smoked out. Hey, we hope everybody's doing well out there. What do we do? What do we hold it? What we do when we discussing today, what we're talking about? How is marriage too big of a commitment, but having

kids together isn't so? How is marriage too big of a commitment but having the kids having a kid or kids? How is you? How is the nigga not marrying you a big deal? But you let the nigga stick your dick and you stick his dick in you and give you something that you're gonna have to deal with for life. Marriage is stretch, but that's deep, you know. I don't think it's about being married. Sometimes you gotta put something in the job. Do you just talked to the bank?

You gotta curse to that. Don't don't cry my lane no more. Keep Okay, I was I was just gonna say, sometimes when it comes to having a kid, it's not by choice, you know what I'm saying. You just get pregnant. With marriage, you'll kind of decide, like I want to be with you forever. Don't you decide to do an act to make a kid, you decide to have sex. Most people to just piggyback off of what I was saying. Most people don't look at sex like a major life

changing decision. When most people think about sex, they don't think about at the time like I could possibly get pregnant, or I could possibly impregnate this bitch and make or have a kid whatever whatever. They're just thinking like, Okay, I'm trying to get a nut, or I'm trying to you know, please whatever feeling I'm trying to get out of this from this person for whatever reason. Blah blah blah.

They don't look at it like a lifetime commitment, like how you should technically if you were a sensible person. But I'm not one of those people that is big on marriage because I understand how we just get off me right now. I can't. I can't. How long are you're gonna talk? So somebody don't you don't take you, you damn officer. I'm just I'm just putting you up on the big fat, fucking pop police when you pull your money out, yea, because what we're doing fast Friday.

If I say a particular word or jade or bank, then we're gonna put some money in the pot for criminal or something like that. Yeah, criminal man, y'all need to gonna cash. I'm gonna get y'all the cash we keep let people get away like shot away. Like you can't say, like my baby told me not to say that, say the B words or I ain't gonna see it no more. Well I ain't. If I do, I got a twenty, he prepared, he prepaid, that's I can spend

them all night. It's cool. I don't have to say like basically, the subject the subject is how is marriage too big of a commitment? But having a child with a person that you've had sex with not do you? Theay man, so commit the energy, you can't commit the then but you but but you you commit to parenthood,

you have a kid. Everybody don't commit you should now I said marriage is easily detachable because like when you got a human that you gave birth to or you were responsible to giving birth to, you know, that's something that you really gotta you really got to lock in with them. But like when when you're married, if I don't like you tomorrow i't like you, we can deal, yeah, straight up? But not some is the marriage? What's les let's talk about it that marriage. I just think married

still can get I get what he's saying. You still can check out that ship. You can't check out of me? And did my son? People don't their kids and they your son and your daughter. If I got a wife and not divorce her, she's no longer my wife ex wife wife, but she's not my wife, no your last name. If she wanted to, Hey, that's up to you. But you're not. I can say I disown you like you can still I do not acknowledge here, so you do

have to acknowledge her. Yeah, you saying y'all, y'all, y'all didn't get what I'm saying, and y'all cutting the nick off again. But I give what you're saying. That ain't smelling that. Yeah, that ain't the right way to guy in the right way to do. How does it not like if you have if you give birth to somebody, you locked in forever, if you if you can't look like people don't be trying to have a kid like some people do, some people don't. It's just the power.

That's what I said, Dave. If you're up, is something wrong, don't never cross your hand trying to know what I'm trying to tell you. It's the power of when you haven't said the power of the trying to get that nick him or her. It's adrenaline. You're not thinking about nothing but that you don't any metal you come up about before me? What about before you do it before you even already going. That's al you're making a decision when you're saying, I ain't feel about no rubble, I'm

gon hit this ship row. That's what you're making. You can think about it then you think about even control that decision or can't even get to that point and make a sension. Some bout decisions are like weird niggas. I just think y'all missing the point. Raw sex definitely feels better than any sex when, of course, so I think you're so based onf for that, like I fail this wet let's see, want to What I'm saying is

don't wear your seatbelt. What it is when you have an accident, your ass might fly out of the current. You need to know that. But like even though even though true enough Ross Sex is the best ship ever in the world, but you still have to take into

consideration the baby, the fucking diseases. I mean that's like, no, I ain't saying people don't think about thinking all that before you think about all that before that come across your mind like that we're in front, like like she ain't got yeah, yeah, it broke down thinking about everybody a lot of people. You don't have to funk a lot of people. What are y'all talking about to day? What else? Like everybody's not like one person to get the break you can one person to catch some ship.

Two other niggas and three bitches that that stuff talked up. What happened. Yeah, that's all getting ready to compliment me. That the real definition of no. But I'm saying like she's saying, like, you know, you can only fun. You can funk with one person or whatever, but that one person that you sucked with might only fucked one other person, but that one other person that they fucked might two niggas and three bitches. That's why you should think about

that ship. Try not that nothing that's wrong if you want but again like yeah, if you want to, if you want to do that, it is really like the best ship ever. But at the end of the day, you have to be prepared for what comes behind that ship if it goes. That's all we're trying to say. Yeah, we personally, I just think a lot of funks. How people be explaining ship ship having a kid might be

less stressful than just getting married. But the way to look at it, like if they're saying, how you get married. When you get married and she like some folks don't like that, she will be married something, Yeah, a baby and that's my baby, mama. Yeah they're married, but I

ain't had no wedding. But that's where the bullshit comes in, because when you have situations like that and you said you want to have a kid with her, but you don't want to marry her, then that's gonna lead the problems down the line, because your emotions and your feelings are still involved. So even if you guys do go off and funk with other people and get committed to other people or whatever, you're still donna feel like, this is my bitch and I can do whatever I wants

to with her. But they'd be like, it'd be like, we're just not married. In your head, you might have an idea that you will if I don't have a baby. If I have a baby in my head, once upon a time that I thought I could marry her. But as we don't have history and head that, it's just broken up. It's over. I ain't thinking about that. That's the definition of toxic. I think we're talking about the motherfucker's that just randomly just go out there planning they see,

don't give a fuck. Ain't there for the woman just trying to trap. Trying to trap, that's that happens. And then on the other end to the women that just trying to trap, shout Brittany Renner. It's women out here trying to trap me. She trapped the NBA player. Are you talking about just not not Coop not Coop uh PJ Washington? He played for the Hornets. Yeah, she just got two hundred thousand a month allegedly. What does she

need with two hundred thousand dollars a month? And that's all you should think about before you go fucking road for show. You got to make sure she here for you two hundred thousand a month or more D paying more than that, right, ridiculous. Three D ain't no pushing in the world on this earth work. And she get she get that until she getting another marriage. So if the bees decides that, I never want the range marriages in the negative right now, like coming up closing, you're

talking about married baby. This don't concern me really because I've been with my wife for twenty six years twenty years married. So what about your homeboys out that planning seeds multiples? I ain't going new forbidding it, okay, you know what I'm saying, right because like that, it don't even make no sense. You know, the dynamic of things is goodness, You know what I'm saying, but I get it because I married. It's marriage tough. Though, marriage is

tough thought, right, Yeah, you can't answer that you're married. Yeah, that's the ship here, especially when you're being married to somebody like me, or to somebody like the person I'm married to, like two nuts and the bucket gonna shake it, right, you know what I'm saying. So it's like marriage or parenthood. I think I think I think the marriage the marriage is tougher than his parenthood because and the end of the day, if it's about the child, for really just

about the child, you know what I'm saying. So the marriage is about us, you know what I mean? You know what I'm saying, Like it's gonna be always our situation. I feel that, But in most situations unless you're dealing with two mature adults who mature though, like I tell you, try to tell you this at the time, but our relationship is really based on a sixteen year that's where y'all met. Yeah, I would see teams, she was I

think something. Yes, she won't yelling at me, So it's like we still have those childish values in this relationship. You get what I'm saying, Like, like there's no other way around it. Like because the same games that that you would play, it's kids, Like don't really give a funk about you a bitch, fuck you, a nigga fuck you or you know what I'm saying, whatever you're playing the same ship is sixteen years old, you know what

I'm saying. But you got if I think if I for sure, but if I just says about want of the relationship and I was grown at nigga already been through bitches and did all this, and dood I know how they got them. Like like now if I meet a bitch, me and a bitch bitch friends, because I already know what I want and I can shement it on you. I can shement it on you from the beginning, like nah, this ain't it ain't what I like. Cool bitches,

it's cool, Like we're gonna kick shit. You can. You can always see man, that other ship nine that ain't even for me, That ain't for me. You're gonna smell it on the nigga too, exactly. But the women, women being but women be naive and they because yeah they changing, yeah they think they can change, and they're like, he just ain't had me who said the same ship they just been done got they dick the never language. But niggas felt the same. Niggas felt the same way, like

she never had a nigga like me. And that's like every time you leave the house, you see your type on your Instagram, whatever you see, you see somebody that you like, no matter if you're in a where you're no matter if you're head over heroes. For me, I'm

not the only person you see. I see a bit and she fine, she's fine, right a wrong, you're right, I'll I don't care, like, but there's some truth to that, and see of truth to that, and see, you can't tell me how far to go, like women can't tell you what cheating is like, you can't tell me I'm cheating if I bust the nut and you lost for me what No, I'm just saying, yeah, I'm a nigger, yeah on the type of because they didn't get what not even just us. I'm gonna gona take us out.

If your girl, if they sat, if you, if you was in a relationship with a girl, my friend, girlfriend, married husband, white whatever, and you cheat on right, and she can't get over. But then but now hold on no that you ain't cheat on it yet she you caught this bit like let the first time. I said, but nobody, somebody got to call it for you to pay it. I don't say you can't call you. I

called myself. I go ahead. I say, if you and this nice young lady it's in a relationship and you have seen her, she's the type the dude cheat a rish activity act. You know you're right, man, who could juker? The girl? Who could juka? Who who could juker? Huh? She always in somebody's session with a hook in her mouth. Okay, Okay, you know what I'm saying. You ain't paying. You're the friend that the nigga can't pay, like saving your girl

until you let me. Actually, your girl can't tell you like deafinite gonna trip by fred her dude paying for it? You let your girl go? Fuck No, absolutely absolutely, but a woman thanks, a woman would thank you supposed to be okay with that and you got something that with see the pen. I wouldn't do that with my wife, but if I had a just him a little bit. Yeah, you say my girl, girl, you said, I'm saying, I'm saying my girl money should go out to the whoever

that calls it. Hell yeah, like criminal, that's it's just like it's just like we're playing just like overst over start over. No, she can't. That ain't my little my little, my little snack or whatever. You do. What you do, dude, what you do. Go ahead, And I said, with your girl, my girl, no baby, we didn't need racking like that. But if I don't even tell you that the na that's what I was just for to say, that's what

they do. If you ain't saying it's a girl. No, no, no, because I've done this before, like if somebody like I tell them they're good. Yeah, and you know what I'm saying, that different, Yeah, it is. Bro's different. Ain't gonna be there. I said, I'm now that's different, different because I got my friends. Then I've got my friend that so your girls are gonna be like, hey, roll ro on the roll on um she open you feel I say, girls trip it's the girl because it's really like my girl.

I ain't gonna stop on that. But he then he probably got one of his homeboys not playing on boy like they're doing it outside of boats and jokes. Boats the girl that all the boats with them big nobody smoking bloods but smoking pain on the campaign. I ain't never been on a jet ski. I pull you pull me the girl pulling the leg on the jet ski like drying. But you got dudes that up. You got some real dudes. I had to understand that type of stuff.

What you say that a straight fast understand what you didn't have to ask you for the dough to pay for it. Oh you can see that broke that you're talking about. You're talking about the person. Yeah, yeah, go ahead, y'all. Yeah, tell about that. I'm telling my name. You have about it. No talking over he might you might. We were talking over each other. Bro, You wait, if you okay, if you like brother like some brothers already know, like my girl cannot let dint turn into a space conversation with

brothers already know, like my girl is a whole. I can't start that. Man, I'm living. I't even to pay for stop it, he said, He said, relationship with track. It's all he got. He's selling. Please planning nigger brightling, nigga setting like you know your girl the whole bro, true story. Hold on, hold on, hold on hold, that's sun. Think about the niggas they hole saying, they can say. They all say I'm going out. They don't tell you

what they're gonna be backing up. Ain't have fun in my car Like it's the niggas like that that exists, yo yo. Girl coming home late, she wish get to the Club's gonna come back that morning. He got a little attitude, what not going on, but they still go together. She eat it, bro man. She runs straight to the shower, were brushing the teath. She eat nothing she supposed to do when you come back from the club. She didn't get the band, don't speak know nothing. Straight to the

shower and brushing your team. You got her mouth wash, You gotta wash that sitting off. You know what you're doing. But I'm saying, just like I have to, but what kind of both of you doing? He might some night she comes home here, she already in the bad. He's doing the same thing. They are already locked then with going on like relationship that an't know that's a relationship. But I'm saying, but she know his wife is a whole his girl, that is a hold. She knows her

husband is the same ship, but he ain't. But she might be still saying push. She's been on that. She she's the one who's saying like, we don't win. The last she didn't want who saying open to get on the boat, and he said, cool, we don't. Went from a vacation. This hall was in a committed situation still something the same vacation. Said that all the same ship. He puts some mad. No, SHEI ain't skipping off wet.

What what are they doing? I don't know, but they all right, they doing They just they're just doing it. They're doing it in a different fashion. They're not not that they're not actually standing right, you know what I'm saying. But they adding up how much you to spin any time to get him a look some little pussy? Yeah, I always need something like that, you know what I'm saying. That's just how they do. They just always need laughing

because she knows the truth. They ain't the Nick ain't bought the Nick ain't bought nothing, And I ain't sucking him till he got ship, thank you. They like that. They definitely like that Nick ain't bought me nothing. This nick ain't bought me nothing, So I ain't sucking until he bought some shots ain't doing that. He got real. You don't ran out of credits. Yes, especially especially knowing like, all right, I like him. He then hit you with the text or hit you was saying like make try

to act you like he gave me. Then, what you're gonna do for me? What else they do you? I've never sent that text that's said, damn, I'm trying to figure out how to pay the bills. I got nails in my hair, deal dig hold whatever you wanna call it. Paper kid just said it. Man. The moral of the story is that if you go rolled up, you might have kids. That's the number one we were breaking it down, all right, Marriage he's overrated. Marriage is really marriage could

be tough. Kid. A lot of Niggers don't care nothing about just having a kid in the baby mama. They just that's my baby mama. You know what I'm saying, which I don't think it's nothing wrong with that. If that's y'all agreement, and you taking care of the kid, ain't nothing wrong with this. You should have no kid.

And and I'm gonna say this as a person who's happily married, but to the parting, others don't four that marriage ship if they don't want to do that ship, don't do that ship, don't feel pressure from the woman and this and then don't do this ship to you ready to do that ship? Well, I look at it, and it isn't marriage long time somebody that you want to like you said, isn't. Isn't it like somebody you want to get old with and take care of? Like

almost that type of thing shared the business agreement. Man, that's a whole episode. All right, Yeah, that's a whole episode. They check us out online Triple w dot Big Facts pod dot com. This is Big Facts Friday's salute. Salute. You're listening to get Big Facts with Big Bank and DJ scream. Fellow Big Facts on social media at Big Facts Pod, Big Bang and DJ scream bring you big back man. It's all with up that merch y. Yeah

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