BIG FACTS FRIDAY - FINANCIAL STABILITY VS. EMOTIONAL STABILITY

Not the insult shayn Man looking good to him? What we're talking about today? What we're talking about today. Would you rather have a nigga that can provide for you

financially but doesn't do ship else for you? Or would you rather have the nigga that falls short financially but he's able and available to you and to he's well, he's available to you, and he's able to supplement that financial shortage in other ways such as physically with sex, emotionally with fucking carrying and being a shoulder to lean on, and he's able to spend time with your kids. So so financial stability verse emotional and physical stability. Basically, basically

the women are long story. She said, So yeah, so how we what we talk about it? Yeah, we talk about I mean this, this applies or vice versa. Yeah, I mean vice versa. Would you rather have a woman? But see it's common, it's kind of men are supposed to be the natural So like that, do you want a woman to be able to provide? Or it's weird or yeah, it's kind of like whatever, But what you want? Ja? What would you prefer? Um? I want the nigga that

like might be falling short a little bit. But no, no, no, you said before we stop, you said one or the other. You got to choose one. No, that's what I'm saying. I'm choosing. I really love him, but he can hold you down financially. I don't want to nigga that I don't love because I can get my own money or I'm not tripping on He loves you two pieces, but he don't have no ambition and he can't know. We didn't see. We didn't say we said he falls short financially.

This is a versus a little short and come up versus one of them one or the other. Ain't you might come up that your life. That's the nature of the conversation. The rest of my life. That's what makes it worth for you seriously saying that. Don't flipping spread about me like it's a versious. Yeah, I get money, nigger, but I ain't ship, ain't never gonna be. Ship can't make you feel good? Is I love you to peachy?

But broke? No, we can't say that. No, not, No, he ain't broke, but he ain't doing the thing that the nigga with the money can do. Right, But the nigga with the money a doing ship but giving me money. Trust what I'm saying, can't do that? Women? Women go for that. You trust me. I want to go for that. That's what we're saying. Nigga with money, nigger with money. I got first. He might not, though, how are you gonna start loving you when I got three fomo bits.

You're doing the same ship too, I got paper. I don't do nothing for you. I'm gonna start loving you. You ain't need my bit I thought they were together, though you ain't. I don't have that choice. No, keep changing the stipulation together change now he got three other bitches, not cover first thing. Nigga want broke down, then ain't never gonna go nowhere? What the funk are y'all trying to do? To mean that comes with mr? Financial stability? Right? Exactly?

No faith, No, they're trying to make the nigga how they want to make right. Don't want to be a tough cover with the money. Let redo it, Let redo it. Okay. The nigga with the money, all he do is pull up, look out with the bill and fun. That's it. Okay, that's all he do. But she can take, she can put. You know, every female feel like when they they go with him. So so I'm just saying, not necessarily you can think whatever you want to. Thank this my spot

if I'm taking care of you. So nigga, really you my bitch? This my niggas getting sucked up at That's what I'm trying to tell you what y'all. The spot is in my name, so has your spot. You'll understand what I'm saying, bitch, But that's you don't get paid. You're gonna be homeless. So that's that's much spot. The hell did you talk about the name? What the name gonna do? You're gonna be a squatter, ship. Say what

I'm saying. If you're depending on this man to take care of you, you're gonna sad, okay, But if you put your feeling you depending on that man to take care of you, right right, I'm asking right, So you you just said, yes, which one is it? But I don't know what listening because that's not what we discussed. But that's stability. I'm talking about. The definition financial stability means you are depending on someone to stabilize your financial situation.

So you gotta have mr stability. I thought I thought we were to go to sant I thought we were to go too. You don't matter if you're together or spending time or whatever. At the end of the day, you you are committing yourself to that first age. They're trying to say, like if you had a nigga, if you had a nigga, that just like he loves you, but he just cain't got damn. They used to love each other, right, Yeah, but we're talking about off top you know what this Yeah, yeah, that's what that's what

we're saying. Now. This is a dupe I nigger with plenty of money man, stream been facts all the time and stream Yeah, we got clarified, clarified, man clarified. Okay, can you be with a nigga you know, don't really funk with you like that, but he gonna make sure you good? Versus a nigga that really funks with you, but he really comes short sometimes that's the question I'm answered, when day coming short? I want to, I want to. I want to nigger that folks with me. I don't

get about that. Court. That's what you're trying to ask. You trying to ask the most the wiggle no, you know, but wiggle yea. How we said financial stability in the shape about this nigger got three five the bitches this ain't got no said that is Mr Financial? But if you all he do is take care of you? What else is he you think he's doing? Like what else comes with that? No? But you because the question, the original question was we weren't together like financial emotional stability.

If I'm funking with, if I'm taking care of you, we are together. No, I'm just saying like if not necessary, I'm just saying, I'm gonna be with Mr Dollars and while he out of town, don't he do I'm gonna call and you can't do that. You can't do that. That's what's gonna happen anyway. If you choose the fun, if you choose the money, that's what you're gonna What if they just say to me, I'm gonna be broke. I'm saying, if you choose the money, that's what you're

gonna do it. That's what you're gonna be doing anyway, he's gonna know that's what you're doing. But but but but you just you just told me I couldn't do that. But because you always say you don't cheat, So what are you're talking about? I don't have some watching what you do. But what I'm saying to you is this don't even make sense. You what what I've said prior to this doesn't have anything to do with what we're talking about. If you don't cheat, you don't cheat. What

are you talking about? So you're gonna get y'all with you rather have a niggle with money to cheating if you say you don't cheat. But what I'm saying, it's it's my character is not on the standing here. We're talking about you. It's not your character. We don't listen to what I'm saying. Like, do you get what I'm saying? Like in general, do make it real simple? We are we are? We doing this ship and state. We're not. We're not. We've been telling the truth. We said, can

you be with that? Angle said what I say, but listen interviews said, I just don't know. But it's not it's not about it's not about saying what. It's not about saying what shot does you're y'all? Y'all keep saying either or you can't have the niggle with the money and have a nigga to cheat with. Either you with the niggle with the money and you take what comes with them. You can't. You can't, but you can't because you say you don't cheat. No, I don't understand what

do you understand what I'm saying at all? I understand what she said, but I understand what he's saying. You your character is you don't cheat the niggle with money if you know you gotta cheat on them. How But if I pick the nigga with money, who says that I have to cheat? That wasn't a fighter that You need to look at it like this, If you wear nikes or is the rest of your life? What would you wear I'm gonna wear nikes and you can't wear ditas.

I'm not gonna want to wear didas. So then that's not you wouldn't cheat, you would be with Mr. No. I'm saying that cheating isn't even an option, and it's a conversation. That's what you're saying for you, the character you're talking about, the character that you. I said, how

are you gonna turn around and say I misunderstand. How are you gonna turn around and say that you could be with the nig with the money and have a nig on the side when you being facetious telling it so you cannot We're not jugging with these big facts. It ain't joke. So if you don't cheat, you can't even put yourself in the category. When she just put herself in, I'm not trying to because she's already said how how y'all say that the record? But but but

but but but. What I'm saying is when we first initially asked this question, it was the question black and white nose, shades of great or options available on the side. You see what I'm saying that what I was saying it wasn't I was saying for you, there's not because well maybe I'm just understand the cheat. I don't. But if if a person, if a person do peet the dude with the money just to take care of them, she got a cheat though for the rest of the ship, right, Yeah,

but you can't choose that option. If you're saying you're not a cheater, I'm not so I could you even think of that option there? When I initially thought of that option, I was being facetious. But what I'm saying is you're my daughter. Yeah, so I'm gonna let you go like you are to put out to all our followers that Jay don't cheat you. Yeah, so you're gonna come back and say on this on Biga you could

do what y'all do, which one is Jay? You feel like we've been bilboo No not like but I'm some real sh That's why, like I say from the beginning and off the top, like I'm gonna take the nigga that fox with me that falls short because whatever, if the nigga really sucks with me and if he's trying to whatever, then like will come together and figure out

how to make up that shortage. But me fucking with the nigga that doesn't really funk with me, isn't gonna work because I'm not even gonna be able to stand this nigga because I know for a fact that you don't really funk with me like that, So why would I even with you. I'm trying to say, if I had a nigga that slight with me, but get money but to be kind of busy, I can wait there because he might turn into something else. Know what, y'all going to try to switch, But nigga's like but niggas

like that don't. That's just what it is. That's what I'm saying. That's what y'all trying to say. Yeah, switching anything, that was the question. But if the nigga don't got money, I mean, if the nigga got a lot of money and he don't like me, and then I got the nigger at home that really like me with all the money, I'm gonna just use the nigga money. That ain't that? That ain't that What we're talking about though, And what we're talking about exist you haven't both isn't even an

alternative or an option. You It's either or, like you gotta pick what I wear both now, y'all. That's how true, though, I mean, it ain't not gonna I wouldn't. Hell no, I wouldn't do that. Ship. You just say that jokingly earlier. Yeah, I was being seriously. I don't even know what that means. But screen, I'm gonna get you with a nigga, would you do? What would you do? We're curious? I thought cash I had a niggert though I do have an

she could still speak up answer the damn questionat like me. Okay, for real, though, you're just saying that because I mean, I would kind of be on like the down to come up type ship. Like if you ain't coming up, then it's like you have to have a come up. But if you carner down, what's the time living on this come up? No, he just aga that ship that don't work right, Yeah, he just he might not have the favor of the favor of being a great person. He's a great person, but at the same time, but

women but ever the same time. But at the same time, if you're saying, ship ain't never gonna go right for this nigga, like the stress of having to pull that additional weight is the same thing it's working with a niggat that don't funk with you, so you know what happens. Sometimes women get tired of that ship and go to Mr. Financial Stability and know he's sucking all the old That's why having let's see, having a nigg with money that fus holes and having a nigga with money that don't

really funk with you, that's too totally different. That's what I'm saying. That's why sometimes women get tired. I got tired of being with a broken nigger. He was a good nigga. Everybody don't got access to rich. These women are struggling. What I'm trying to say is what I'm trying to say, you got broke age nigga that give you everything you say you want from a man besides money. Okay, listen, let the float. I'm not homes Let's let's let's remix

it extra. Let's remix it a little bit. You're you're Let's say, let's say y'all have men, right, and these men are not financially able and they treat you great, but y'all keep saying financially able but not broke. So they're broke. Let's make them broke or close to broke. Right, all right, so you have that you love the man, right, he's got regular nine five. If you can pay his own bills, that's what I'm asking. And when you say barely, you have to cash happen sometimes to help pay his bills.

He's not financially stable. He's not financially stable. That's what we're going back to the word financially stable. Right. But he loves you, He fussed with you, he loyal to you. He had the crib you know everything, he said, you want everything? He said, you want everything you want and you won't let me finish. Yes, he's your he's your man. He's the one for me, but just not financially Okay. Now you go to the club, the Nigerian walks up to you with five bitches. It says, I'll sit in

the wire in the morning. I'm loyal. So that's not gonna understand. We're just that's not gonna okay. So you don't want the Nigerian, you don't want women, don't know what you're gonna stay with. It got to the cash af to Okay. If that's the real you, then that's the answer. That's the answer. There are women that were sitting this seat and be like the nigga at home, I'm going with the night. No random, I'm these people

that there's women feel like that. Why would I go like not even I don't know what because that's the conversation. And I'm saying that's the conversation. Could be a dud Bidge nig or whatever. I'm just saying, that's the conversation. But they're not gonna go with just a regular nigga. Man, regular nigga. Listen, this this is what this is what it is. You gotta nigga that no you know, love you to death, but he ain't just ain't doing it with with They got down with the money, but you

got this other morrow money hold up. But you out not no, not your regular nigga. You really been you kind of digging this nigga? He shoot this shot? Is you going see that is you're taking that ristal safe? That's what this might be. He might that's that's who she Okay, let me see what the hell about the going What I'm saying, that's they are here real quick, that are do what they do. They'll go try that to see then when she see there that's how I'm

coming back. Now you're trying, you're really trying to replace this nigga, but you're keeping this nigga for comfort. Let's see. But see this, But can I say something? Not y'all not say something that. Let me let me say something real quick. So with the nigga that loves you to death, right, if y'all are gonna switch it off and say that now the nigga is completely broke, Okay, Jake, that is gonna put a straight on the relationship, present a frock.

They broke because that's what the bitch launched when they saying this is what they won't from a man I don't want, Yeah, but care but y'all got somewhere to stay. Y'all just ain't doing No, we're not doing what if what if y'all nobody don't what nobody? What if you're well like I ain't able to pay if you if you if I'm well off, well off, I'm well off. I don't need his money at all. Yeah, and he just cool and he treats you like you want to

be treated. Now listening out now, seeing that I don't like that because I think it should because like if I'm well off and I'm well off and I'm a nigga, and he's like falling mahan a little bit like I don't have a problem with that. We're gonna figure it out. But I'm not finished. Sit up here and take care of No nigga, I'm not doing that. I'm not not doing that. We're not saying that. It is a ball trying. It just don't got said. He's trying. It's not the favorite.

It don't be working. I'm cash apping him. He's trying, he's tryed, he's trying to do photography, but it don't work. No, you a job. Yeah, this isn't what I signed up for it, this is not what relations on what you said that stands the argument I've seen nigga saying earlier this week, like women can women can dream. Nigga, bet and I have no dream. You better get your ship together while you you you can't nigga with no dream, true,

better get that ship together. That's why conversation that we're having the conversation that we're having on who's being totally honest here but sh shot lying. But the thing niggas, when the nigga do come up niggas. Remember these type of conversations like I can't be with no ho who ain't got nothing neither, Oh God, because you wouldn't funk with me? That why feeling like he thin like he all that he hadn't know to them, but you wouldn't

funk with me. While you see the niggas, the yall niggas that they ain't got their girl from got them yall niggas all way up, they're ridly, don't never work by the time, and let's I get a bit equally. Yeah, if it's not it's never going to be a pretty woman. You're not gonna trust her all the way. They don't care. That's what we get to. There's some women that don't care that Mr. Financially Stable ain't trustworthy as long as he paying my bills. In the city girls music, they exist.

I know for you, Jade, it's hard to accept because you're not like that. You don't come from that cloth. But we're telling you that they exist in a plethori. These women are dating for purvible, you know what I'm saying.

In a plethora. They don't give a funk what the nigga about if he can buy the birkenty he can buy the ship, and you ain't no nigga out here trying to God damn turn the home from zero to a hundred because he already know like how this is the typical way of everybody things like I can't be no nigga zero. You know what I mean, I mean a million. I'm in the beating as them being a zero though, you get what I'm saying. So when the nigga do finally get in money, it's like, who oh

want but something like equal to this? Yeah. But see the crazy part about it is is that a bitch, a bitch that's equal to that, got the same type of ship going on with. Niggas that are niggat is equal to that, got the same ship type of going on with. So we meet in the middle and everybody but us to that's rare, but it happens. I would rather that and then just have a hunter of them, a little ship that don't give a funk about me.

I might what you have a huddle on them and just calling when I want to calling fire hun bit the devil thousand go ahead before I got them take on a commitment. That is all after a while, But when you get old until you find the motherfucker that equally yoke And if you don't, then hey man, this was God put me here. I ask for this money, I'm taking everything to come with these meetings. That's real, real ship, Like how how are you gonna be with? How are you gonna be? That's just like how thes

be got damn married. They got them childhood friends and ship because at the end of the day, how the funk I'm gonna get to a place to where and believe that you really love me for me? How when I know you're the type of person they could love a nigga who was trying to make it in meat if you couldn't catch at him. Are you struggling? Get out of here, back to the streets right now. I feel what you're saying. No, I'm not saying what you're saying is wrong. Now what you're saying is right. No

woman ship data bomb. Yeah, I ain't taking money out of my daughter mouth to put it. But the thing about it is, you gotta people have to look at that seven, see what type of what the doctor sent me, say what type of together and build something. It's never gonna be nothing. Yeah, Yeah, if we don't start to gonna build something, ain't gonna never be that. I'm gonna don't feel the same. Yeah, I didn't say he was trying to be better himself, and then you're having bad luck.

He's a hunted short. He made for a hundred dollars, just a hunted short. Yeah you ain't paid this, Yeah short, it might not be finally hunted short. He just come up and hunted short. So but then, okay, something I gotta pay for it. Then I think about that if I couldn't give him, everybody depend with y'all in because he could be like trying to be making happy. I'm a hundred because I bought shot some shoes and some flowers, massages and ship. I'm still I met you at your job.

I thought I was gonna make some more money, but damn I can't short. But it's different though, because then we say he loves you, he do everything he's doing your short, love you. He gonna he's gonna try to make the ship work. Then whatever whatever he gotta do to make you won't even trying to make no kind of ever surprised me. Talked to my Niger and I want to surprise this African over here that got all this money. Baby, like, look, I'm gonna talk to him

his money and we're gonna put some investations. Okay, that's what I'm saying. But at the end of the day, hides that real though, So so okay. If he ain't got no money, and I ain't got no money either, and he asked me, you tell your dude, that's good to you that you're gonna gonna this African bring the money back you gotta you don't have that. But why you don't have chicken? Why you don't have the money? You don't have no money? You said, I don't have

no money. Here said the money. I don't have no money, and he don't have no money. But why you you have any money? You're right, you got me, You got me, You got me. If I ain't got none, that's the problems, right, that's the first problem. If I ain't got no money and my dude ain't got no But if you ain't got no money, why do you even have a dude, Because y'all gotta start together. Sometimes two people who don't have money starting together. I've got and I'm not talking

about about motherfucker start. I don't think that. I can't think about everybody trying to get back right if ever, you already off. So we already locked in, and we found we already locked it, and both of us fell off at the same time. You can happy happy. I could have called the case we all out with money. That's different. Yeah, that's different. Well, if that's the case, then shape we gotta we gotta figure it out, That's what I'm saying. But but you got something to be

like here, but you better figure that out. We're gonna figure it out. We got sucked up together because of extenuating circumstances or whatever, and we both up. Oh he was already sucked up, but then he needed your money to both of us up. You can't put that, you can't throw that, can't go. The only way he's gonna be this cases with your money. Yeah, she gonna do.

I ain't giving up a money. You ain't Yeah, you ain't want that ain't real because if you were sucked up and you just called me like they've put my ship out and it's my last I let you get put out. I'm a fun nigger. Facts, facts like which one is it? Like what make did you feel like that they're so superior over Nigga. They nigga supposed to do ship. Nigga, don't nigga take a broke asshole and make a queen Elizabeth that the real ship out of ship? Like what the fun give? What's what you here for

me to do? That? Now that is true because that's a woman when you first meet to do you want him to do. But that's a woman when we need to do. We ain't really trying to do that much for him at all because it's like, I don't even know you. But the twenty two twenty two it's just buying Nigga's laying and ship. Now this ship different the bit you're having money, they're showing you this ship different. So niggas ain't trying to take no man. We're trying to get that a man. I'm trying to get me one.

You look at that. Now. I don't dry against money, but said that the but in that instance and in that situation, that little hole is the nigga. Really you're nigga probably having the paper too, but that ain't got

nothing to do with it all. Like what like like a bitch that bought the nigga the lamb right for instance, or whatever a nigga is saying looking at her like saying like, I want a little hall like that whatever, whatever, what warrants you to be able to be in a position to acquire this little holiday, But I don't want to. I don't want the bitch land when I meet him. I want a bit who gonna eventually buy me some land?

And I'm a buy whatever? What? How how that different when you're saying how that's different when you're saying you're not even gonna give a nigga chance, like if he keeps falling off. Okay, if I meet the beach, both of us mediocre, I meet you, you got them, you do nails and I got them. Say a cause in twenty nineteen, Okay, who's to say this cock business has really got them? Some bullshit. I ain't get no money, but you're doing to two hands a week, but we're

paying our bills. Who'll just say next next year you won't be doing all the celebrity nails and I've got them selling the range rovers. Now, yeah, you get what I'm saying. But but during the time when this nigga was got nam, Hey, I know you ain't did but too nail this week, but let me I need that humble because I ain't sold no car. But this nig become a ball now. But then I'm not started selling the cars and ship and now you ain't doing no hands no week, and I'm looking like, oh, I think

the perfect? I think, I think want of the perfect examples is when the vessel came and he kind of kicked it to us, how he was in his relationship, like she used to let me borrow money just to go round. In fact, I look at it so it's almost like an investment. Do you trust this nigga investing

that you know nigga really love you? We'll say, if you if you know what nigga really really really love you, Like we just played this nigga quting all his all in you, how to y'all gonna well, y'all gonna ventually excell off love exactly exactly eventually sell off of that. Gonna wait for that though? Are they gonna wait for that? How long is that gonna take that long? Don't want

to know how long you got? You gotta think how many women been with niggas, been with niggas and goddamn, he catch your break, like like the nigga said, and I don't take one good year. I don't take one good year or one stretch. I don't see nigga scratch it off. I'll see they get popped and got them ship changed everybody like around. You never know how nigga's gonna come back. God put you in situation to see the nigga see, is she the one that when my chick do, when I do find my purpose? You get

what I'm saying. So if you ain't that, then you ain't that. Move on out the way. Somebody's gonna be there. Bro. Like a lot of nigga don't get. They just do because of the people that they got with them exactly. Like because I know where you're herd at. But you you you you shot the hunter every week. But if you scratch all the scratch all you're gonna go take care this whole who ready to really saying fuck you

sucking this? Get what I'm saying, like real nigga ship like so the whole time you think you're looking down on to curse your damn said, because this nigga was setting hill by somebody for you. Yeah. Now that's the truth. Though I see so many niggas. I see so many bits you bro in ol time that the left they niggas alone, and they nigga might excel or they might they're still just going over their like found a better

bit that they but they still in them. But then I look at the situation like, you don't went through five of the same type of niggles. You get what saying you don't went through five of these same type of niggles that was worse than just saying with the first niggas, you got three four different kids and all this ship that's worse. But you feel like now you resent this man because he actually still the same dude he was with you, but that anybody having motion and

now you feel like you're entitled. Yeah, now you feel like now you he ain't ship I left because he we ain't no money like you is confused, confused, bro, like now that ship be bran seen this year having so many times like you thought that man, we're gonna never be ship. I think the fear have a sisters and ship. I think the fear be what if what if just the fear I ain't saying that's right? What if this is it, I think I wanted to sit

back and think about that too, But I understand that. Okay, But baby, at the end of they but don't don't. Don't got them get out of this situation looking for something else that's gonna help you. Bet, you gotta get out this situation. And do you know you're right? Don't get out that situation thinking you've been to find better than him, because that probably was your blessing from God. This dude to love you. Man, that's your downfather. So you want don't get your own money. That's the moral

of it. And that's what they're doing now. What they're doing the ship differently getting their own money, turn the niggas up and equally whatever, equally what y'all calling. Yeah, let's better man, niggas ain't doing all that. No, it's one waking up man. Ain't doing that. Man. It ain't like it's get lucky catching the cool. Other than that, but you catch the niggle some attention and then y'all might got their crew through like together. Other than that, man, niggas,

niggas ain't going for that. No more a distraction. But there's still a lot of ships for folk. Every day in my life. If I got two bitches, if I got a bit and I'm broke, that should gonna be eight for eight. I can't save folk. He focused on this. Yeah, either way, so what the world? What? What? What the question was? Again, Jake, I don't know the financial stability? Mr. Financial stability versus Mr Emotional How tomorrow to the story?

Is he hole? Definitely not loyal. That's the end, like it's it's it's like especially this social media where it's like you gotta instantly beat everything, you'll instiually be happy. Like if you get in a relationship with somebody and you ain't happen that relationship, that's some bullshit. Get what I'm saying. If y'all ain't y'all ain't got them looking all happened ship? Yeah, that ship don't fell off, But then you'll take it as it doesn't fell off, not

less we just went through something. So now you got to certify these people like I'm single, these people that don't give a funk about when you're single, and got them nigga going on, don't do they get a new bit? Now you're stupid for that? Kept in why she got them? Then with all these nigga like, you can't plead nobody, but you gotta go with how how that ship make you feel? Make you happy? That's the more of the story. Because I don't give a dam who you is. You're

gonna got them. They're gonna say you're stupid either way. Yeah, no matter what, somebody is gonna have something to say. Man, everybody make yourself happy. First Triple W got Big Facts Pot dot com. Y'all check us out online. If you want to submerge some Big Facts live tickets all that

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