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BIG FACTS feat. TOYA & RED

Oct 12, 20221 hr 13 minEp. 138
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Newlyweds to be Toya and Redd talk to BIG FACTS about marriage, fitness, business, DJ Akademiks comments about Reginae and more ahead of their epic wedding! 

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Big bang. Don't be on nothing. I'll be okay. So let me ask this bring you big big fact. Now visit the new website today Big Facts. Paul dot com dot com Lie from the Blue Room Studios is d J scream big bang, baby Ja, this is big Facts. We have special guests today is here. Yes, family conversational. Thanks. How y'all doing? This is a very big week for y'all. Yes,

we are doing great? Are we are? We down to talking a little bit about that today because I've had a wedding so I know that wedding week can be a little so we appreciate you all joining us on your wedding week. That means a lot to us. So everybody, everybody's excited. Man, right, it is always tired, always just so nonchalant. So it is. It is so mentally because you work out every day physically mentally. Ever, it's her, bro, what talk to what she do every night? Bro? She

don't sleep? I sure don't up to three four o'clock because of the wedding. She's not going to sleep. No, But okay, let's press rewind. It's not just the wedding. It's the wedding we're selling the house, buying a house, kids, activities. Life still likes a shout out to that girl Rainbow in the building. Activity, kids, a full schedule like going on. It might not be keys activities. I'm saying running back one time. Yeah, you're okay, you still got one time

running it. You might run that one thinking about big taking on. You're just taking on the uh what you call it? Project of the project. She told you the type told you to type the stress about everything, like everything like some ship don't make sense, Like you don't have to stress about that. That's cool, like we got it. And then she want to be in. She want to be hands on with everything. She don't know how to just chill and let you hand that she has to

be hands on. Is that bad scorpio that I'm the same way, So it ain't bad, but it's stressful. It's stressful. You just said he nonchalant, right, Yeah, so if y'all it's both nonchalant, ship probably wouldn't get done. Somebody gotta make sure. And I'm the person that makes sure get done. But I'm nonchalant, but I'm gonna make sure ship get done. It might be late, no, no, not late, not late, but it's on time. But she did, don't get done. You're like one of those people that works good one.

I'm not like that. I like that. I'm very reparationized. I like stuff and to check this box off check. No, that's done, No, that's done. That He was like, it's gonna get done. One thing about It's gonna get done. But guess what, I'm gonna have to grow a few gray hairs like in the process. It just be dressed. Stressed me to hell out. Being on preparation basis. I love to playing ahead. Well, how about those Saints? How about them? I'm not about to see him game that.

You know we've run the city. You know that was a rhetorical question. It was a jokey joke with my family. It's just I'm looking forward to the next family gather like they'd be going and you look so distraught right now. Ain't that should really hurt me first game because we're supposed to want everybody. I ain't tired of being hurt. Yeah I didn't, but it was just the fact that we rebuilding. We wouldn't expect them much. But we know how that first game. You know what I'm saying. Falcons no,

it was that fucking song. Bro. No, yeah that on your Starry Team. It's like the whole move, the whole move. It really did, because like, how how is the city of Atlanta gonna take a nigger that's not from Lanta and have him do the song and he got smoked on power Like that doesn't even make sense. That's at the president. We lost that. Yeah, they had one of the future songs, one of them babies Babies different when we got a lot o bro, anybody body bro no

that that. We don't beat y'all future, We don't beat y'all. We don't beat ya. I mean I'm ready for now, like we now, Oh my god, in the baby or in the baby my family blowing them up to your high? Like what about them? Fast subject? J how do you start for y'all? How did y'all beat uh? Mutual friend Veas that's yeah. He introduced um after that like she was she was on the screen, she was on you chilling. So I we met and then we were trying to um. We tried to get them to go out and they

ain't go out. But the next day if you were on it, yeah, the next day we got like a companion ship at the pool and we chilled at the pool and shot that sh was crazy. She couldn't stop looking at me. Man was looking at me. He laid the red carpet out for me and my friends didn't want us to leave. Want to change flights. Come on, it ain't tricking if you got it like you wanted to change flights. I mean I did all that right. I caught the vibe. She was on me, so I

called the vibe. So I made sure we spent some time again good with rush life. He was able anyway, he was, you know, we was. I was telling my home my homebown when he told me, he was like, you know, my homeboy here a good dude. I was like, you know, Light skin was like, I was on the whole. I want to skindy. So you know, I got to know him. His personality very you know, it was very charm.

It's the weeks first sight. No, it wasn't at first sight. Yeah, because it's been kind of rough on Red Nicks ever since. Princes did like, I don't know about that. Can you never fall off? I hear a lot of that Light Skinship. We always a little at that moment you feel like this is my wife. M after after the whole after we went through the whole episode when she lost her brothers, when she lost her brothers, like because we were just kicking it and it was just like all right, you

know it's cool. I like and ship we you know, we're getting annoy each other. But when she went through that, just being there with her and the time we spent after that like that, that's when I was like, all right, this this is the one. What about you? When the time you feelt like, okay, this to be my husband, Um,

I would kind of say the same thing. Uh. During that time, he was very like on it, like when he showed up to my brother's funeral and I know he was even coming or even helping my friends get there, like made sure that they because their transportation person like poured out on him read took care of and made sure they got that. He can't even tell me he

was coming up. Let me can't pay this respect deal, just like it was with me, like took me away because I was having a really really hard time like brothers at the same time, so it's hard for me to just wake up in the morning, and he like stepped in and and like just made sure I was busy all the time. Just we was traveling, we was doing things and yeah, and I was like he's solid. And we wasn't even like really going together like for real fruits, Like we was like kicking it, like getting

to know each other and stuff. And then I was like he different like he and then I started paying attention to like how he wasn't like materialistic, he didn't want to care about like that stuff. It was always like family stuff and like making sure you're good and just just different, Like I experienced different kind of you know, ship. So I was like I just like the way he moved, like you know, he bought his business, but he moved so dope, and he cared about his family and he

just it just was different. So I was like, I don't think I don't get this light. Yeah, so how you how you asked to marry you know what you do? Um? We was, yeah, we would shooting. He was filming them. She was on the the show with Tippenham. So we was filming, and um, shift I was talking to production and I was like, ship before the season out, let's you know, let's do it. You know what I'm saying we had we was going through you know, not going through the bad stuff, but we was going through the

season and stuff. So I was like, I bet, yeah, I really I really like didn't want to do it, you know, yeah damn. So then um, you know it worked out. So we did a helicopter the other date thing. We landed and the ship was painted on the um where you marry me and ship. So we had the family, family and friends, the whole cast, everybody was there. But we had our moment up on the hell of Pad and then once we had our moment, that's when we went down and it worked that. It was perfect. It

was perfect. They say when you find your wife or your husband, like it's a feeling that you never got from nobody else. With a feeling you can say that is Yeah, I would say like just feeling like safe, you know what I'm saying. Feeling you know, like everybody that one, everybody you know about this business. You know, we just feel safe And I love what I love

the most, don't like for real, well, no bullshit. I have I raised my niece, like my my brother passed the way I took my niece and he accept my kids, my niece as if that's his own, like my niece was called him before me at times, like she literally like he's The way he stepped up from my nieces will really made me just be like, damn, this man

different aname my daughter like that's my niece. Have a love like he does everything like with my niece like his kids and retinnee like it takes a village and the village is definitely there. And I love how he loved my niece like that's our kids. Like every she's never left out, she's never feeling like the step kid. You will never think that's our niece in our house, that's our daughter, you know. And that's like huge because some men be like you know I got you know,

I had my kids, Like what's up? He really stepped up and like took my niece and as this as his own want and do and you know, teach your stuff like it will be little stuff, just anything like

how a father supposed to be with a daughter. He date them date as kids like that ship is just different nowadays, and we need that in our community more than what about you the question you come my wife keeping Yeah, I can seem typically it's to be I said, it was that one thing that you know, you never had another woman to be like you know what I'm saying, Um, honestly, like I wasn't really on like the celebrity thing, Like I'm a realist when they comes the ship like that

wasn't on the celebrity thing. I've been managing and you know, working with athletes like for over twelve thirteen years, so I haven't seen it all. I haven't seen it all the celebrity chicks and all that. And I always always, I always had reservations. I always was reserved about that. So I didn't want the the line like I didn't want that. So it was just that when I met her, like I'm not going front, I ain't gonna sit here in a love like all right, this toy, you know

what I'm saying. Nigger got a shot, you know, and then you got your homeboys like, oh ship nig you know. So it was just she was different, you know what I'm saying. It was it was different like she never moved as I'm toya. You know what I'm saying, She's ever moved as you know, um this I got this or I'm doing this anything like that, and like I said, the more and more we spent time with each other because we was we would we was. I guess you could say we were dating, going to eat, linking up

and ship like that. But at that point when she went through that, we started spending every day together and I found myself, like I found myself not wanting to leave her. You can relate to the point where you're not intimate, you're not having sex with a chick that you like and you just meet and you're not having sex with her, but you would her every single day. Now, you see, like that ship hit me one day, like yo, y'all ain't even doing them, but you you every day.

So it wasn't even and about that. So I think that that's what clicked. And I was like, you know, she different. She um, she takes care of family. You know what I'm saying that just you know, she checked all the boxes and it was just like, all right, you still running game to the day, but you got you stop the white bush. That's so sweet. But I felt that though, But what what what you what you say you feel like when y'all go through the rough

times in y'all relationship, who break first? She can't hold ship, she got breaking something bothering her. I could And it's funny because I know when it's coming. I could tell what she's on when she wake up. That's why I know. Like I can tell, like I told her outside of outside of like I guess her daughter mom. No one know her more than me, Like I don't give a

damn no, like, no one knows. So when she wake up, I can tell what the folks are, like, I could tell what she'all so she she absolutely breakfast because I sit back, and that's probably the fault of mine. That's the like I don't like, you know, no, bro, what's your sign? This is but ten years ago? Up the pallt and google it. Girl, that's bullshit. And you don't believe,

you know, still a statuty the symbistality. Don't believe none of I'm saying, Like, if y'all have an argument and you know how to be quiet intention now first that lets let's yeah, I learned how to be that person. Yeah yeah, not ever, but it's gonna be a couple. Damn. There you're gonna feel that he he that that got

damn yeah, that's Scorpio. Scorpio is gonna scorch you. I don't know though, because like we could it could be it can be ten, and I could leave and I can come home, and it's like that ship ain't happening. Like she started talking about some random stuff and it's like, oh, that's her way of breaking but trying to not be still saut Okay, I said, yeah, okay, okay, okay, they don't take it depends on what it is. Yeah, it's

simple ship. Yeah, I don't really honestly, I don't really like holding grudges and going to sleep man, and like, so let's communicate, Let's talk it out, you know what I'm saying, because life too short these things. I'm mad like them. Stingers come out and then I gotta say this. I don't mean to like get off subject or nothing, but I just want to let you know that, Uh, I've turned the whole entire room out on the sixth grapes.

So yeah, yeah, I made I appreciate you for turning me on all those years ago because now I was able to return the favorite. Yeah that should had me on the floor at Toya's house in her kitchen on the ground was so funny, but good grief. So many people be like that first chat, red cut me, Red Book Thugs, first show in Alabama through me like probably like ten twelve years ago. That's crazy, like saying I did my first show with Reading and such a suck. Yeah,

d first meet with everybody involved money. That's why so many people suing like thrill and he's like a good nig on top of that, like and did great business. Yeah, it's rare. And one thing about Read, he wanted them people. That's gonna speak his may head. Everybody ain't mad with him. He's gonna go against what everybody. If you're saying this and everybody agree with you, he's gonna be the one you're not believing it's not true, that's true. No, I just I don't agree with I don't. I'm not gonna

agree with it. Could be dead one, you know. If it's dead on, I'm gonna be like a you right, But if it's a loophole or anything, I just want you to explain any room, don't have the debate. Can't tell me anything right and expect me. And I'm not just gonna go with Yeah, I respect that. Six. It's fun because they it's always a debate. We're not get big. Ye'all was still on the podcast. Y'all still in the podcast Something Seen Anything. Me and my own girl got

a podcast called The Reality Table. Yeah, we we do the um. We do that UM twice twice a month. And toy just started the YouTube. Yeah, what's the name of the podcast? The Reality Table? And then you and um next year come on. Yeah, yeah, okay, we're talking about you don't have to bring your wife. They talk about the most on that one relationships. I don't know how that's because I used to have on this. She don't really know she w but she don't know what

to say. She's gonna say the wrong ship that because she's gonna say I real be it, like yeah, baby, don't do that. Yeah that's you scenarios this time but here, yeah, wing and I'm gonna bring them. I'm bringing them. You get that feeling good? They be talking about if I had look that will be so mad, Like I'll just watch. It's dope though I've seen a couple of clips. It's dope.

Going in how long y'all been? Like I want to say, a fitness journey, but like engaging in like fitness activity shout out of white no more because they just had us in the boot camp, had us doing the boss shout to you for the inviting bank, for getting me that I had to get him at that screen. They want to come screaming on this ship. Yeah, I know. I got this new ship called Jim hopping instead of club happen. Yeah, we do that. We gotta. So we have a team. I probably have UM about twenty people

core people in the team. And we were gym hop like we we brought with it because we got a lot of trainers and gyms we wrought with So we go to different classes. Like you know, it's gems on every part of the city. So we go to different classes, different days and ships like that. But we started UM two eighteen the end of two thousand eighteen, that's when

we UM. We did our first five k UM that's all. Yeah, we did our first five k oh four for and UM two and a half weeks, got like four people out there, and it was just like all right, I got something right, all right, I got something because I tried to. I tried to do the whole fitness thing. UM. Well. One of my clients we were in Miami, Piece of Spot. We always go through go to he got finished with shooting around. Kid came up like yo, can um can I take a picture? And he was like, yeah, let

me finish eating or whatever. So he when the kid walked off, he was just mad, like the kid was overweight. He was just going off like why their parents let him do this? Do this? And I'm just looking at him and I'm like, yo, on't you do something about it? He was like what. I was like, Well, let's do something, put some camps or fight obesity kids obesity. But I got back to Atlanta, I put some stuff together. We had a meeting, long story show that didn't work out,

ran through a couple of clients, didn't work out. So probably like five years later, um, I was invited to a five K with my home girl Jamie. So I went to the packet pick up and I saw what they was doing and stuff, and it just clicked. I'm like, I'm laying beside the perfect person to help get this message out and helped start it because her demographic, she loved. She had a great following this stuff. So I called our trainer, her manager, everybody. We we met, We met

in our living room. We met in our living room. I told him what I wanted to do. Everybody was gamed and we did the five K. The next year we did seven cities. The next year we had fifteen cities, but COVID hit and um, you know, we've just been doing it and I can't even like even like getting a call with bank, the revoke coming through and stuff like that. Like the stuff we're working on now is just it's amazing. I couldn't even picture Waiting No More

going whereas you know where it's going up now. Um, I see, like you have a bunch of different trainers that I know probably got their own ship going on, but how they just still can wait no more. Ain't no egos involved and ship that ship gonna be big. Yeah, that's the dope part part, Like you know with people and already established trainers, you know how people feel they

feel like, yeah, I got my own ship. The one thing I love about Team waiting No More, Like even the trainers that's out here popping, they still show up away. Fact because we're not a gym. Were just pushing people into a healthy lifestyle, right, helping to fight obesity within the community, be and be so dedicated and dedicated. Yeah, exactly each and every time. That's the that's huge right there. But that goes to show you the difference between Atlanta

and other places. Atlanta is the still takes special kind of people for you to even be attracted to it, Like it takes my like toy Red that you know people that Yeah, it's the energy, like Okay, I don't mind doing this because I don't get it. I know he don't mind me coming up if he's gonna come support my ship the same way. You know what I'm saying exactly. Everybody gets to the top, so we support you, you support us. That's that's how it's supposed to be.

So Red really big on that and there trying to show up and show I want he We send opportunities to them all the time, you know, like dope opportunities. Even having them a part of it was dopey. Yeah, I like that ship, glad I got that. Yeah, And we have kids stuff coming up, like we're trying to get in the schools like get wait no more in the schools. So yeah, we're really we're really excited about that.

We're starting the Fulton County. We're gonna do like ten schools the after school program, what my um, what my girl gavy and waiting on more kids. So we're doing the after school programs. We once once a week we go do fitness class with the kids. So we're going Fullton County. Then we go go to the cab cops and just try to build it and you know, and that goes to the trainers to like we go be

stretched out. So I'm gonna have trainers that have already agreed to donate hour of that time to go do this because there's a nonprofit organization Wait No More Foundation and Fit to be Royal, So um. You know, it's dope though, and when you when you when you started working with it, though, you feel like that was like

a party of purpose. When you start really with it. Now, I do like now it's it's become it's become my lifestyle, and I really feel like it's my purpose now because when I did it, I got on the fitness journey because my dad had um colon cancer and I went I started going to the appointments with him and hearing the doctor talked about eating about working out by all black men. Eventually it would probably go through this. She

just got a boom boom. So that's when I started working out, and then when we did the five K and stuff, just seeing whether wait, no more thing was going and like it was just like wow, like some of the ship we pulled off. It's like you know what I'm saying, like wow from the testimonies. Nike, it from you like three hours and told me she changed my life. But I been that you saw me. I was on the mouse. He was coming out and I was going up. Like you know, I tell people like

why you don't say nothing about it? Ain't about me broadcasting it like this man let me know, like you got a big bank regardless of how you look at it. This nigg is a staple in our community of staple in Atlantic and a real nigga. You know what I'm saying. Outside of fitness, outside of just your regular person working out, I talked to this man for three hours. We talked about fitness, we talked about eating, we talked about health, we talked about life, we talked about this relationship we did.

We talked about this podcast. What you know, just his um, his whole level up, where he comes from to where he's at now. We did all this and that man gave me his word that he was about to get on this fitness ship and then look at let at him now. So if we're linking with people like and

we get so many testimonies. I have people in Arizona, New Jersey like people that work out on our app and everything like, So that that in itself gave me the initiative, like we're doing really transformed so many people lives, like all of the people that's part the team, wait no more, steady growing and growing and growing and growing,

and so many people have lost so much weight. And not only that, they're making it a lifestyle and work out each and every day, not you know, if they can't go every day, it's three or four times a week. Like they made a lifestyle that is like a community. Bro. When you're around it's like a community, like like some ship you you're drawing to. I need to be a part of this and it's like a community. Like ain't

nobody hate, ain't nobody doing nothing, nobody, ain't see nobody. Yeah, exactly that should be into fitness, Like what everything that we do. So I get people hitting me all the time, I'd be feeling so bad. They'd be like Damn. I wish i'all could come here. I wish i'all could come here. We need this, like I need that accountability, Like I needed events like this in different cities. So I'm like, okay,

let us get past the wedding. That's the truth. Like it's like if you planning these things and you put them together in these different communities, like you're gonna bring the people out with the energies unmanned. We're like red when we do the mountain. This man will go all the way down to the bottom of the mountain to get somebody. It's women that be coming to the mountain almost three hundred pounds read gonna wait and walk with

them up the mountain. He no man left behind. So I love her, love his draft board and how he really want to see these people like and like you know, it's it's really dope, Like that says a lot about him. And wait no more, it's gonna be out of here like this honestly, and that that'd be the elephant in the room. Like that's the I think that's the main component to why it's so successful and everything, Like I genuinely want to see people when I genuinely want to

people change their lives. And like she said, we're about to be a huge brand. It's going to levels I couldn't even thought of. But it hasn't been about the money. So you know what I'm saying, like when the money involved, and you gotta make this, you gotta make this dollar. Yeah, we sell merch here and there, Like we have my team be like we are we setting up what we're selling this I'm like, no, not at this one. No, not at that one. No, not at this one, because

wait no more. His our baby is like our foundation, but she's doing damn good business wise. I have my business. We're doing damn good outside of it. So wait, no more is not paying our bills, so we're not looking at it. So I can give you to this trainer and I'm not gonna make no money off that, but you're helping that training, and that's what we that's what we're into. So I think that's that's one of the big biggest reasons, like we're not out here trying to

break somebody's pockets or do this. We genuinely want you to be better. We genuinely want to see our community change. And you know what I'm saying all right, because I think, like just speaking like from personal experience, because I started working out too, Like after I saw what he did with himself, that ship pushed me like, Okay, if this nigger can do it, bitch, I can do anything, like whatever.

But I think another like stigma in our community when it comes to like fitness and weight loss is people feel like, and I know this might sound crazy, but some people feel like I'm too big to work out, or like I'm too big for anything to make a difference, you know what I'm saying. And that's where a lot of people get it sucked up at. And then when they feel like that, they feel like, Okay, I'm not I'm not gonna start because even if I do work out and lose a little bit, it's not going to

make a difference. And they just keep getting bigger and bigger on top of that, you know what I'm saying. So that's a lot of things like how you said he goes down and gets the three pound ladies and walks with them and makes them feel comfortable and all that kind of ship. That ship is a necessity because when you don't have that, you don't feel like you're making any progress and that can discover somebody to the

point where they quit. And that that's what we do, like as far as ship to that point over that at that point is we have all like I have so I have a partner right now that we're working on it. Were in transition way over five hundred pounds, like we we have people that we are work We have hundred pounds losers and everything like. And then we have different programs. We have different people. We got ted, We got ted, you know, um heavy set women and

the big girls. Yeah, the big girls move like you know, we have no prosper to draw a lot of different trainers. That's a part of the Way No More app. Like people can't make it to the gym. That's why we created the app. Download the Way No More app. You get to work out from the comfort of your home and just get active, getting active and just staying consistent getting active. And now you gotta do just find somebody you can buy into, like you have a lot of

dope trainers, trainers on this side. This side, all it is is about getting your mind right, getting active, buying into something like what I'm doing, train something Yeah, read is a good facilitator. I wouldn't work out with you, but I thought read well just training that other ship when you were doing walk around, I thought you everything. He would do that with me. Three more minutes on the bike. Man on that bike, on that stuff. Man

Karina brote to go crazy. He dope. He does an R and B cycling like just dope, R and B vibes. Couple vibes. That's it. I need that. Yeah, yeah, that sounds like some ship that's like slow paced. They won't running to death. But on this stuff it's tough too. Though. You gonna get a work like. It ain't gonna be no easy ship. Like you go get whatever we're doing. You're gonna get a work. Who the cameraman was for that? He on the hoglight. He had me looking like I

really cycling like I just say bad. That's you baby. I had a great vibe. And that's the thing, like even the clip when you were dancing with your wife, yea and y'all to dancing. Our ship is to have. No you're not fun fun working out that's what makes people come back. That's what you have. You gotta have because when you have fun, you forget that you're even working out didn't feel like exactly, I'm looking around seeing ain't nobody stopping mis j over his They told my

mom there nobody stopped. You can't stop back, you can't stop back. I even threw up and came back. Oh yeah upstairs. Yeah, and like one of them classes because I didn't eat, like I was rushing. Yeah eating, Yeah, you gotta jump. I was like, well, I messed up this morning. I usually eat right us first before coming, but I was running late. So it gave me an extra push. To the people, you've been bullshit in the last week with his wind ship and you ain't been

to the gym. That's not yes, it is you've been out of my credit. Like did not throw up and come back and cap, So let's talk about funny. He check the truth. Why are you really starting up because I didn't eat, That was the truth. But I have not been going to the gym every day. I do go run and walk with everything with bront It the win and stretcht bro. You're gonna be about to be over, did we get it? I ain't tripping on the way

we had. I said this ship, I said, you're gonna They tried to do you ever heard of a first look? What's that? Yeah? I know what it is because I see what I mean told you he didn't do to the courthouse that she was started off first, so you don't see the bride before, you know, the night before you come down. They want to do a me and her go somewhere and take pictures before. No, I don't want to do that. I want to do the traditional.

So you put your feet down right now and be fact what you'll been talking about this in the cop Okay, reason for it is like, you know how you take it everything, and you know I don't taking picture, so when you do the first look, it cuts that out because you're kind of taking your pictures before. Yeah. It kind of prevents all the money yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah yeah on the pictures anyway. So we got to get this reception. Yeah, I think that's what I'm

looking forward to more than anything. No, you do it the thing you hear the first look screen did everything, whatever it is you had to do, you need it, whatever you got it. That's still strong on that solute and then the beat, the beat songs like they got all they got three songs. Oh yeah, yeah, that's yeah, yeah, yeah, you know, New Orleans we like bounced music, so we can music on top of popular songs. That's like a thing.

So you're not taking that, so he got about no no, no, no no, no, no no no no. You know you don't have a second line to you who So look, so bounce music is a thing for us. We love bounce me. We put it on everything. He's telling my friends and my family that we only we're not about to bounce them out of them, like y'all got three songs and y'all asses done ned. That didn't remind him of the

New Orleans family too much. They like they play that ship back to back, back, back, three, three and a half, you get three now, But that ship is like that ship is part of the case. No, I don't want to know what. You don't know whatever the bride of the DJ, she's gonna get to that DJ. Whatever she's we've been going over, you know what part of the culture cash money, no limit, no way, that's but it's it's deeper than that though, Like the culture culture are

some big fedom. Yeah yeah, that's just the surface like industry like whatever, whatever. The real New Orleans is the ship, like this ship when we go to the lake on Sunday. That's the ship that your off, yeah or something, bron need some gucci, some pastor trumble something. You know you got the stuff. Oh hell no, why y'all don't. Why y'all don't do it? Versus that, y'all, Now, that'll be crazy. Atlanta versus New Orleans, y'all should do it, versus that'll

be insane. That'll be insane. Running now you're talking, Yeah, when you you're getting away, you don't get away your song, you're doing the verses. No, I'm just no, he didn't already told the people. That's one of my favorite song, walking out out crazy crazy time like this? What you like? What you just saying? Some ship down out? We're not coming down, but no, that's the risk to run. I'm like this and had a shine like that and shine

like this. Yeah, that's crazy. That's that ship. That'd be crazy. That'll be crazy. And then we gotta perform the first person down a wet like that. We gotta we gotta perform. That sounds like crazy. No, y'all need y'all tripping? Holdok this, let's see, let's see hold up, rid how you do it? Let's see you hold up, turn turn the music on one time, and then you gotta look at her and say you ready. I'm not gonna be here when she comes down. Everybody got a ridiculous y'all. I think I

think that'll work. Now, that ain't it. It's the intro. Let's see dreams and nightmares intro that you're right, that's you're that you're ready. I used to pray for time out and then be shut up, and you're gonna be shot like this and out of also locked up ship comes like the wrist for let me shot you with the foot on type up while he coming out sharing here he go ahead. That's what you that's you're talking about the man. What are you voting? Not what's for him? Okay, okay,

moment for him. He's gonna play. This is what you're gonna him walking down to hell No, what hell down? It's gonna be once stretched out day. It's gonna be stretched out, y'all. If y'all get him to get a fast you can't walk down. Dreams and nightmare and at the rest he told the wedding. Are you talking about like that? Let me show you that. Don't go they'll go, you say, with the pis in the look. No, that don't go. So the song is supposed to the song is supposed to kind of meat. I need a d

C chang. No, you need to get me to walk you out like you've been to go to a fight. How Yeah, you need me to walk you up like this is anything? Drink, Yes, let go with it. Drinks made, don't overlooking the ocean. Yes, it does about dude. No, but I used to cry for time, like like y'all working up my water. Yeah, I'm working up my way to stop everybody. I know. I've been waiting to my whole life. That's that happy wife, happy life ship wife. Hap, No it goes. We both go be had broell them

you're gonna be happy. Then you already just said all this. You'll just say y'all really did y'all vows gonna be fat? That man you just told him you are. You can't take that back. So if he did play them intro one time, ain't gonna be that man. But I'm saying the be out there. Yeah, you ain't even gonna. Ain't even out yet. She in the back fixing her dresses. But nobody ain't over and performing with you. We're gonna run it back at the reception. You can't come down.

It's our thing song. Like, honestly, I think it's one of the greatest songs of the last I agree with this sentry like if you actually like and I've seen make a million times. I never told him, but I think this is one of the greatest songs ever. Big Red is dead ass change he said. He told me he was performing that at the I gotta change, ain't this is what they've been waiting for. Then what I didn't wait for real? They're waiting for. Man, You're ready, ready,

you're ready. I used to break the time to change. Say he's the prayer times like this that mean he's adore you. Yeah, I gotta I got an idea. How about that be the entrance song as husband and wife to the reception. Now that's dope. That's crazy. Now that's dope. And y'all, y'all, y'all ringing out goode's good, that's good. It's a really y'all. Lay on your home's good y'all. Yeah, y'all walk down the all and then fall out. Wait a minute, y'all, that's a good. That's a good cover.

That's a good one. That's a good real would be one that's out. That's that's you're doing that at a reception. That's gonna blow that bit out of water. Come about that guy down that's been that white. Y'all gonna be looking doing you're ready running back, running back. Oh yeah, we gotta drink on my phone. Yeah, y'all got to come out with the mix and everything. You're ready right, yes, sir, we rushed it out. That's it really yeah, and you're

gonna be going off the fireworks in this. They really really, we really been having issues about finding not issues, but we couldn't find fine, so we got rid of that. We got it really can you gonna said, we're not get big, so y'all get married. Where that's how y'all feel. Yeah, that's how she feel. I want to send up that picture too, so we can flash that picture when I just acted sending the screen you want to do at last,

said babe, we do Atlanta. It's gonna be out of gonna be crazy like that's just we gotta do sun Oh yeah, we're gonna do yeah, some kind of we gotta do something in Atlanta. It's gonna be my birthday the next job day. Oh yeah, o day. It ain't about your birthday, but everybody can comes to celebrate, but it's still my birthday. Birthday. Yeah, and then everybody can't get drunk. And then they start playing in music. She want to dive in it. She want to dive in it.

You ready, old bro, you gotta look aod after she read it and didn't wait. If we're coming out to this, that's the most niest ship. You gotta point at it like you ready. And then the whole want to be dropped, the whole crowd good. Then we're gonna slow it down with you. Gotta have confetti and everything. Yea, yeah, we got some we got with a lot of friends. You know, you've got celebrities and stuff. But I got some real things in there too. Now they might kick us out.

We might be on the crazy have a real thing, everybody. Now this is a holiday man, y'all. Congratulations relations beautiful thing. Thank you. That's a big things and nightmares. We are facts wedding consultants. You need to add that in the bio. You want your vows and ship down right, come to big Yeah, yeah, yeah, so I gotta ask this for clarity. Y'all a couple, so I don't want to know the DJ academic situation. Right. So when he said what he said, you fired back. He said what you had to say?

You know what I'm saying, And then I think he went to breakfast club and I don't know it's full response. I think the response was was it apologetic? It was apologized. I didn't see he coped? U he copped? So what kind of space does that leave you in? And does that irritate you to see your clean not happy when ship like that happens screen? You asked that ship like perfect right. I didn't see the interview apology. I just saw a little piece of it. It was he just

can't duce basically. Yeah, but it definitely wasn't the same energy. I don't play about my kids. I'm going all away in the water behind them. That would you like red that in them? You re right with? Like I ain't gonna say, but oh go do it, go do it? So but for real, um, you know, like I feel like my kid is a public figure. People are going to have an opinion about whatever's going on in her life. But like my issue is like she ain't really bothering nobody.

She kind of doing our all things. And that's the way she had getting her money. Let a live like to make like a whole little That ship ain't even funny. You're saying that she's supposed to be a joke, but that ship ain't funny at all. Like you're talking about a serious madam somebody having a reco case and bringing it back up and pairing my child with the ship. Let that be gone and let her live her life.

And and then you gonna call love bit like now my nigga, we're not rocking like that, so okay, well yeah, that's all it's about. You apologize it's gone, But like I don't really like that. And I know everybody is not gonna like how she rocking, and everybody gonna have something to say. I understand that that's the part of life, but it's like, come on, like she minded her own business, she happy, like, let of live a life like let

her do how she's not and nobody. Yeah, and then it's like you, it's like you you trying to be funny, You're taking shots, you belittle in a then you bringing up old ship like like that's that's like this ship. So that's why I had to really to say that, like I don't like man that do that, Like that's a whole Like you know, I'm here and talk about some real niggas and like you know what I'm saying. I know to you that's a little girl. So you know, just respect my my baby. Like I'm not saying you

can't have an opinion. But even though he did catch himself when he said bitch, but it's like why are we why are we even talking about that? That's that that that's the that's the bigger picture. Like why are we even talking about her old relationship when she in a new relationship, she living a life, she happy, she doing whatever she doing. Why are you come baring what she had versus what she had and whether it's a downgrade or not, it ain't your business. Like that ain't

your business whether she upgraded down grade. That she's happy and that's all that mad and a's a mom. That's all I really care about. So just a lot of live my life. I mean, I don't I don't get into all the internet ship My thing is like I don't I don't even care about that My thing is seeing my people are happy, seeing my people hurt, So my people hurt. Whatever the funk it is, that's that's

an issue. And she's saying she's going in the water, but she ain't go in the water like us, you know what I'm saying, Like at the end of the day, whatever it is like you know, and everybody has valid points. And I'm the one that always to sit back and look at ship. But the day say, you can have it one way and have it another way, but you tend not to hear ship. When is the mothercker land beside you? And they is like my you know daughter,

you know what I'm saying. I've always told Nate from the jump, like I'm never i would never try to be a dad, but I'm always here for you. So I'm always I don't give a funk if she right, I don't get if she's wrong, I'm gonna always be here to protect her. And if she's all in the way, I'm I'm gonna go in the water. She's saying, she go go on the water, she go curse yall out, But no, nigger, we're going in the water. It is

a difference. So yeah, so I wasn't really tripping, like I left the house, so she was mad as hell. But I left the house. Um, so you really want to punch the ship, like, Bro, I punching your ship playing with my people? Yeah, like, Bro, I punching your ship. That ship the funk up? Cause you really sucking my ship up, nigga. Yeah, my house ain't happened, you know, Yeah, like my house. You know what I'm saying. But he just caught up in the moment on some bloggers ship.

So I'm gonna put it out there like that. But you're playing with some people that people, it's crazy. That's just how you got looking. Like, bro, you can play with certain people my people crazy though he's already going to the water. You know what I'm saying. I'm just saying, like,

stop doing that. He's saying this because like you might do this with everybody, but it just might be don't Yeah, yeah, like that don't killed because I really look at brush shit like I I'm well aware of what the fund and what do you say in different things like that. I saw that ship and was like, what the fund this nigga talking about? Who is this? I don't like my people mad or her. And all I know is my daughter said me that ship. I'm like, who does that?

I don't watch none of that, so I don't know what would be going on, but I don't. You're saying I don't need this, saying about somebody saying it about That's all I know. You know, I ain't. You know, nobody do your thing, to do what you're doing, just respectfully, just leave mine out of it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you know what I'm saying. I have no issues with nobody. We my child is happy, she's doing her thing. Just let her be, like she could be on this bitch

popping off, cussing everybody else. You're going crazy doing this, doing that, whil and now she is an she's under the umbrella and she's yeah, just yeah. So anyway, wedding, Yeah, good energy because of the vibes. So anyway, can you tell your mom that I need some more stuff Bell Peppers, please you, lady. She made something for us, not long I need him in my life. What's the first thing you're gonna do as a married couple. It's a married couple.

What's the first thing we don't still be the first thing you do when y'all leave I'm nearby around everybody else. What you're gonna do as the code exactly that I ain't gonna lie. I probably want to sleep. I ain't gonna life. I have too many drinks. I'm gonna just fast out events. If I had like passed for a four drink too, I'm good. It's a big event, like this is a big event to when we're drinking birthday, birthday, somebody else think about it. I might just pass out,

go to sleep like that. I gotta catch you in one of the bathrooms with the reception dress off. You know she's gonna tap out my yeah, like that brot married in mine owned by a black man? Was you said to pay with it by thank giving me some good ship if we get to the room because when we need a reception, we're having another little after parts. Yeah, look, and it's need to go to sleep. She'll go to sleep. You gotta care should go to sleep on you in a minute. That's one thing I do. I'm gonna get

my rest. I'm happy for y'all. We went on a trip, stop telling business everything with the church, right, ain't gonna go to sleep, so we go to church bank. So damn were in church. First day we go, um, you know, the beach and all that stuff. So we get back, you know, we get back to the room at night. You know what I'm saying. We've been traveling all that ship, so you know I started kissing that ship sleep like wake up. But since that day I was like, damn,

Sharon was really ain't working with me. Like I was like, damn, Like, but that's her thing. She got of her think of feeling right, yeah, I mean, wake your motherfucking I'm like, you just can't go to sleep, wake up? Ready, water if I have too many drinks to give my head? So how long the flight is the where y'all going? They're just like, okay, how many people come back and going down? How many people going? I mean I heard the limit. I heard the limit was first started first

breaking it part when we first started. Then they jumped the one fifty and I don't know because it is a cap how many people we can have at the wind and I think we over that bounty, the bounty. I'm stealing people. I'm stealing people, my wife stealing my people. I'm talking about that or that's what you did know. But that's all right, let's be honest, we don't did you did you not steal my did I c I coming? But it's gonna be crazy. Gave me the people that

you don't know the hell I didn't. No, I didn't we coming his wife, that's crazy. She just lied to your screen. Now you're not about to do that. I say, send me your list of your friends and family. No, I didn't edit. He sent it over to me. And then I'm thinking done. There's people. You got some people left over? So the left over your had, like ty had like twenty more people. No, people we know together

as mutual not seeing you didn't say that mutual. We already had the mutual mutual means called mingos and intertwined. Add them down because there's some people on my list. It's some people on my list that's mutual too. That yes, we had all that ship. Okay, so that was no, it wasn't it was the mutual ship was already done. This is extra people that's actually to come to the wednes ship. I knew I had like twenty more people. And then when I started adding, like, yo, can you

send an email at these four names? What these names coming from? We over? We've done that I got t know. I said, your mama took your mama took on your mama four names, and she don't you know, Mama, do that this name really stole my people with uncle because I told I told my mother, like I told my mom, like, look you pick out the family and stuff. You know what I'm saying that you want to come and all that stuff. Mama. By the way, I didn't steal his people.

And that that's standing on that. Y'all. Whoever come, come, whoever funny, what's what's the advice and what would y'all say to some of the young black couples out there that's trying to go through the same path and eventually come together in matrimony, trying to make it to marriage. I would say, the key thing, man, is just being friends.

For sure. What I'm saying like, just you have to be friends because sometimes you ain't gonna like each other, you know what I'm saying, each other, and that's your friend. You're gonna hold it down. You're gonna get you somebody that you could rock with, bill would grow with. Like that's your friend first. That's the key thing. Because we ain't perfect. We add each other's neck but it's worth it,

like we we we we each other person. I feel like I've found my even though it's mad, Yo, it's sucked up man, even though would it be what what if you do it? Sus? What if you do it? He just always right the most, ye you know how they do the most. But one thing red is solid like here, realist and I love it. So I can't do that. I'm gonna sit back and be like man when I'm wrong because see, I'm not a big person that and I take accountability all the time. Know, but

guess what, that's the ultimate kind of business. You just took that you sometimes you don't, Yeah, the first step, that's the ultimate right there, Like sometimes I don't because I just can't. But I realized that that's the that's like one of the hardest anounces. I don't heard the person saying, now you realize that. Goddamn it, you gotta start trying. Yeah, you know she's saying what I get from She's saying, like, I know I ain't, but I'm still me. I'm still standing on who I stand on.

So let me have this right quick. You get what I'm saying because I know, but I don't know, yeah, ship, but I think it's not performing to this fucking lifestyle of the social media and stuff like that, because you get so and you're worried about how people view you,

you're worried about that. Like, honestly, bro, I give a damn about what anybody think about me when I see every last one of my kids, my family and ship, like the joy I get when they face light up, like my partners that I grew, I got thirty years friendships and my people around me as long as they know I'm sorry. I don't care what nobody else thinks about Like, I don't care. It's nothing you can tell me, Like you can have the Internet ship, you can have

that whatever, whatever whatever she got going on. She a grown woman. She's been doing this ship for years. She can handle herselfs now. She in any kind of danger of anything, that's when I step in. But other than that, like, I think that's one big component of our relationship, just the balance of it. But no, what I also love about YEA, how you meet guys and you can pillow

talk crazy about stuff with them. Red is not a pillow talk if it's about any man, like any kind of gossip or madness, Like he really a dude that do not pillow talk, none of his friends business, none of that ship. You don't play up kind of games. I mean, I was I hear about something like Nick and you ain't sell me that that the like female Joe. They would literally sit there and talk like women. You know this, man, I'll be like, wait, like what you

gotta say about it? Some people business fact ain't got nothing, you know what I'm saying. So I got to do nothing. And that's what. No matter what I say that girl about girls, they're gonna try that ship. They're gonna be like they're gonna brings women. They'll bring some ship up to see if you were that kind of nigga. You read that that ship from the gate. I don't care what the people are going and I respect that, Like I love that type of ship. Man. That's like turn

on them. Yeah, that's one. Sound like you want the people that know the check for certain ships, like did he pass all the chicks? Did he? Did he pass all the checks? Like the whole nigga check, you know how you go through them. I'm gonna see if he's gonna go for this. I don't see if he go go for that. I'll see if he go go for this, let me see, let me you know what I'm saying, because I like like I like his swag and how he moved like he with the ry and the dumb ship.

You know what I'm saying. Don't even really like Mader than him. And then he's so nonchalant with it, like some ship i'd be wanting to care about. I'll be like Nigga, like you this ship, we got to wed the house, the kids, I'll be caring about this. I don't care. And ship a man's moms didn't talking about the list of the day, you know, the seating sharks for the wind. I'm like, so this's your people where you want to see them? I don't care in that

bitch see him, No, they can't see. Anybody's got certain kind of people who you want to buy, who you wanna win, like you, I don't want stressed the right nothing, how you just want to show up event boat myself Yet ship, that's the part that stressed, because what the ain't complaining for if you come to the wedding, if you come to the way and to be He's sitting over here, like what are you complaining, So you're you're gonna make this about you and I Now we're mad

times like this shot like this and the many time ship in the bank. I got this little lougo be there. I gotta get lou DC. They've been working at DC performed you ready is ready ready time you read. I used to break the times like this to run like put my other dress song for this part. Yeah, just like coming home. When the beat drop, y'all got to put that bounce when the beat dropped, stop, when the beat stopped, when the beat drop, you put that bounce on the beat. He want to dive in, He want

to dive in. It's there. So that my friends and family was like, so you gotta talk the red your man talking about we only get three songs. Ain't that's enough enough? So that you don't think that the sound right with that, with that bounce, that's you to go off. I would be so mad. No, no, no, no, we shut out, got you cleaning out up. If you do that, you're not a rusting DJ. We are rushing. Oh if y'all sent me a video with that that, I'm gonna

oh god, congratulations. Yeah, the big fashion Welcome anytime your family, and we can't wait for the next Wait, no more, Yeah, ain't coming this time. Oh yeah, I'm there. I'm definitely there. I'm definitely there as long as you got my stuffed peppers afterwards, in my six grapes. I'm there. No, j you can't go to you can't cars the calories right back off that work out. I can have one pepper, one pepper, Sunday night. One because that's the thing, Sunday night.

You still want to have you a day, not a whole day. That's the thing that we do. We have a cheap day, so we cheat pancakes and stuff in the morning. I'm cheating with my pepper. You need a cheap meal, You need a cheap meal. Well I'm cheating. I'm cheating with my peppers because you want to you want to give your body that you laughing. You ain't had these peppers, man, like the pepers. I won't try the peppers. Man. One time, it was seafood. It was

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