BIG FACTS feat. TOKYO VANITY

anymore Shamas to walk like us for providing hats that banking. No, not everybody has you. I gave you a head and you let the NICA take. I got nothing to do with that. That's y'all smoke anyway. Tokyo Vantity, welcome the Big Facts. We're just having a family uh family stepped into a family discussion. She's gonna get the hair back and Tokyo might be the one that can get the bag and I'm I'm I'm gonna depend on that because other than that, I'm gonna choose violence and it's not

gonna it's not gonna turn out properly. You might have to redo this episode. I ain't even choosing violence this year. She's not choosing violence this year. Be clear. I'm gonna put on Hey Tokyo the first day. I want to. We're just having a good conversation, but I want to chop it up and make everybody clear about all your title and what you do. Because we've heard influencer, we know entrepreneur. You have many different hats, But what is it? Uh? If somebody asked you, who are you and what do

you do? What would you tell everybody? You all that? Yeah, I'm with because people are fans of me for different reasons. Some people are fans of me because of my music that some people are fans of me because of my personal at least some people, do you know what I'm saying. So I'm all that. I started as an influencer. Um, I made music, you know what I'm saying, got my little one played, but a lot of people got nothing. So it's cool, you know. And I'm a reality TV

star also, so I do all that. So what's the best part about all this ship? Like, what's what? What's what's the parts of it that you enjoying? What's the parts of it you feel like it's some bullshit. I like that I get to um touch so many people, like as far as women, you know what I'm saying, a lot of women look up to me. I appreciate that, you know, I give a lot of women confidence. I

appreciate that. I think that's the part I feel in love with being able to help people because I felt like, when I need to help you, when nobody to help me, you know what I'm saying. So I think that's what I like about it. What I don't like is it's

just be too many fucking pens. M Like, you know, like everybody just just you know it because you're a president and could be seen and make people feel like they know you more than they actually do, because I mean, for real, don't nobody really know anything about me personal?

For real? Because no, not even trolls, just like people like people just walk up to you and they think you know, you know you, especially like once I got on TV, I became everybody cousins, so people really feel comfortable like walking up to you and touching you and you know, ship like that. Yeah, that's it gets weird sometimes it's extremely weird. Like I don't I'm sure I

don't experience. I haven't experienced it on your level yet, but just like people kind of take no, the fans are good, and you know, we love the fans and all of that ship most definitely, but sometimes it's kind of like they go for they go past the boundaries a little bit, and you know, it just kind of becomes like kind of like, oh my god, what the fun I knew they started going for somebody like kiss

my nephew bro, Like I freaked out, like kissed him. Yeah, Like we're at the aquarium and it was just like, oh, he's so precious, I know him. He being on your story like wall so like my naturaliation with the Musta lady and just I don't know, she just went left. It went bad. But you know it gets weird sometimes. So you you somebody so yeah it kiss my baby in the face, muster like why would you do that? What she did when she had better dig move around?

I'm already feeling like you just really hold me, Like yeah, So you spoke a little bit earlier about having that record. You know what I'm saying, You got your record? Go back to that a little bit, like how did how did that record? Where was you when you made that record? Was it an accident? Like, talk a little bit about the best Friend record? Okay, um, Jesus all back, let

me go back. All right? So I had a host then at night and me and my best friend Brittany, we was getting ready for the host thing and she was dancing a little Ronnie throw that asks in the circle and like I just like because my best friend and he just it blew up on like um, Twitter then does smash, then Instagram, din Vine and then I made it into a song and the song just yeah like first and then there was some other best friend songs too. They came out. Did you and I get

a percentage of the majority of them? Oh? You you? You said you do? You get a percentage of the majority of them, of the majority of them. Okay, so we made the best friend record. You'll probably get say, go best friend, that's my best friend in French and we'll be holing at you. That's okay, all right? Yeah? So what about that's my dog? Yeah we like that now? I love him? Yes, I love him, like yeah, So

why you didn't get on that? You just get on the song the one that he made because they didn't go like that, like don't don't act like that's I win, because that's not I win. Like you know, like I have my ship, I made my ship. My ship came out, and then like they made theirs, then he was already staying stone and when it was gonna be and then like the cameraman just like, yeah, you know Thud made this version. We just gotta make sure we put you

in the video, like put me in the video. And that guy I don't even know nothing about the song, like not that don't you heard just hop on the remix of the ship that wasn't on. That wasn't the offer that was on the table. It was like, what's little in that girl? Can't get a video? Because you

know that's what indinget people like they like clouds. That's not me, Like this ship really happened on accident for me, Like this wasn't I wasn't like no cloud chasing as motherfucking celebrities comments all day, like posting shit about how to get on or trying to get noticed, like that wasn't what it was like. I literally my first ever video I ever made went viral. I made a vine video. It was a Snickers commercial. I don't understand the app.

I deleted that ship off my phone. Then a week later, everybody calling like you on world, so you want the news? You hear you there, Like you know what I'm saying, How are you not gonna make no more videos? Literally opened up the app. I had like a hundred thousand followers on fine like and then every video I was posting after that was just going viral, like um World, so Hi poppus a compilation every week? I was in

every fucking compilation. So it's like I never was like just a little internet person striving to be famous or for my fifteen minutes. Like it kind of happened for me organically and it just went well for me, you know what I'm saying. So when I was just offered like old, come getting a video, I understand that, No, there's a business aspect to this that's not being done and being in the video that's not enough. How you monitorze your situation, like what you did? Get a team?

You got your team? What you do? I already had a team, Like when all that stuff happened, like everything

was already in order, Like it wasn't nothing. Well I had to figure it out and play catch up, like everything was already like copyreatting trademark the first time after the first time you like you said, you made a mistaken the first time, right, so how did you well, I started taking serious like, well, I made a mistake and went viral as far as I just made a funny video and it went viral, But I'm talking about musically all my ship was already together when I went

viral that time. You get what I'm saying, because it wasn't like people was taking all my videos and making music out of it. Like I had dropped the song previously and it did well, and then I dropped best Friend, So you was already hustling before you got was already doing like music and stuff. I when when that ship happened with best Friends, I had already had a previous fan base, like I had already had hundreds of thousands of followers, Like I didn't get on from gold best Friend.

That's my best friend. I popped in two thousand and thirteen. Best Friend was in the beginning of six Team, so I had already been doing it for three years. So so my question is, like, as far as like the whole rap and the music game and ship, like generally and typically like when you see females that are doing music, especially rap, they either have like one or two like

certain ways that they look like. They are either like going with the whole sex appeal thing or they're either like on some yeah or they're you know, on something like Queen Latifa, em Cy light like Nigga looking, you know what I'm saying, type ship whatever. Whatever. So how do you feel or do you feel like it's harder for females in the rap game if they don't have like a certain type of look, most definitely, But I think, um, I think it's hard in female rap period, Like you

know what I'm saying. It's it's hard as a mother on us because it could be it gets to be a million dude rappers and nobody like you know, really like comparing them for real, like you know what I'm saying. But it's like when women, it's like they make it as if it's still like only one spot and only one girl can have this, but it's a bunch of different girls and a bunch of different genres or whatever

like that. But I mean, I don't really know about no certain look because I feel like my look is the look because I'm a bad bitch, So I don't even I wouldn't even know with the with the difference would be like because it's holds with forty thousand dollar bodies that be sitting on my college crying about how they wish they was like me. So clearly I'm not the problem, right, it's not a problem now. It ain't me for picking your brain a little bit. What's what's

tokyo vanities? What's your take on side pieces and side chicks? Never I think it never code me, no side I ain't with that. I just feel like even if it's not you know, even if it's not you though now I ain't answer that even if it's not you, do you ever think there's a situation that Warre is a side piece or so I feel like you get your karma because you don't have to be with that person.

Like if the dude I don't with, I feel like he needs a side chick, Like if she clearly it's something that's making you happy with her, like I love you, I want you to be happy. It's it probably it's probably gonna hurt me and I'm gonna get over it, but like, go be with that bitch, like, don't ever be torn and feel like you gotta pick between us because you don't, because then if I find out about the home, I'm gonna pick for you anyway, I'm pick

up for you. So I just feel like if you want to go over there, like go over there and be over there. Everybody know about it each other though, what and that's on them, that's what they into. I just feel like too often um men be trying to put women in poly relationships instead of finding a woman that's potly like they'd be wanting polly relationships with monogamous women. Yeah, Like, if you like know literally anything in life you want,

it's somebody who can who who compare with you? If you like to only funk at nighttime in the field of lizards, it's a bit that like to do that too, Go find her? Is not me, But it's a three of for the nigga to turn. What I'm saying, if I can turn a regular to convert, convert and I did nothing but what it is a lot of people don't understand the art of that, and too often relationships become potly not because it's three people who are equally

in love with each other. They become Polly because it's two bitches that been going back and forth, Shannon nigga forever beefing with each other, and it holds your tie and they ain't leaving this nigga, so NICs like, we're just gonna sham me. I beat the funk out both of y'all. I'm We're not We're not doing that. He's gonna look at this and be schlick is here because you just gotta be the slick as he can be, even about being slick, because you don't have to be

with me, Like I'm very understanding. Yeah, that's love me enough to let me go be with the nigger. They only want to be with just me that unless you go or whoever we say. I just felt like, just let me go. If I'm not making you happy, when do make him happy, well paying you make him happy, But guess what you may you may be one of the main pieces to the puzzle that makes them happen, but it may take more than one piece. I feel like, if you're a side bit like equal, just all walk together.

Nobody's on the side. We are walking to the At the end of the day, I'm gonna keep you on humming. At the end of the day, every female is a side chick because if you walk with me, you own my side. I got side to the man. It's the man getting jugged in this side of shotting this side of something. Then then I'm doing too much what I'm saying like crazy, But you're gonna you know, I don't get what I'm saying that you don't give what I'm saying. I get what you're saying. I hadn't play it to

every person. Yeah, this side and this side, so somebody I'll be on the side because if I'm your woman, you love me, and I love you, and I'm a good woman, I'm all that. I'm all around you, I'm behind you, in front of you, onside of you, I'm all that everything you need. So that this is again Devil's advocate, I saying, I agree, y'all think that that

is naturally how it's supposed to be. Like if you think if you go all the way back like naturally like people, you think people were naturally made to be with one person or we just created as a society on the show like put that ship down. I think I feel like I feel like that's how it's supposed to be because if not, why only two people could like make a baby different people. Yeah, you can make babies with plenty different people, but not at the same time,

only one. Only one. Spin gonna get to the witch cause I'm gonna tell you it's a great conversation, healthy conversation. A female can only get get pregnant by one man at the time, right, How many women can how many women can a man get pregnant one time? So, man, these niggas are hold ship. I really feel like y'all should be the one thing get pregnant. No, I'm saying all right, listen, listen, I'm saying a female can only

get pregnant by one man at one time. A man can get twenty females pregnant at one time, right, So we're just going off of what we was raised off back in the times of ours ancestors, they took kings from different villages, and he had more than one wife because we are creating a culture. None of them was married to me. I did that, and I did what you're saying. But at the end of the day, some

people are just brain wayed. So everything that we everything that we learned coming up all this ship got damn liition to rash being all these other folks trying to wake up and ship bro. We need to learn this ship and that could be one of the things. I don't know. I'm not saying. I'm not saying that that's just so? What about other species of animals? Animals don't be having one. Animals don't pay bills, So I don't get no funk about what. No animals the only animals

that you know? How you know? Oh what about other animals? Don's going crazy? But that's what responsibility possible? So how you know he ain't having animals? Don't? Again, this is Devil's advocate. We're not saying we agree. We're asking the question, y'all losing What would you say under no circumstances ever, and I don't think that you should. You would never tolerate a man having a side piece, No, and I

would never be him an inside piece. I feel I funk with me too much, Like I understand that, like even though it doesn't always go like this, but it's no level that a couple does after marriage. What you think? So what you think? God forbid if something happens to one person in a relationship and long time incarceration passed away and they're married or some ship. Can they move on? Oh yeah, I feel like a real I felt like

a real man. All the real men I know, when they got like ten and fifteen twenty years, they'd be saying they bitch loose, Like, hey, look, don't even wait on me. I don't want a real man not gonna ask you to wait for him twenty years. He under he understand Nigga can't even be faithful by bit during an eight hour shift at work. You think he about expect her to be faithful for ten twenty years? Why

he's just off in jail? Like you know, the real men that I know that I've seen firsthand, when they get times like that, they because they go from your mate to your friends. Yeah, because you're gonna run a bit y'all trying to be in a relationship for real all the way you might will eight give me the

fault isn't huntleps here every month? Hold me now. But some people I feel like they'd be sucking up the meaning of hold down because some people, like I just feel like holding a man down just means if he calls answer, if he was taking care of you. Why he was out of jail. You make sure he's straight. Why he in there? Don't funding under this man partners, don't you know what I'm saying, don't the man family. If you go get your little boyfriend somewhere else or something.

You know what I'm saying. If you really want to still be with and when he come on, don't fall in love. Don't get pregnant. M how you control your No, you can't. But I'm just saying for the bitch that be like, No, I want to be who when you come home in twenty years? All right, don't fall in love, don't get pregnant. And that's just that's as good as

the kid. So I got another question. Say you got a home girl, right, and you got your nigger, but your home girl like funked around with your nigga before you and your nigga got together. Is your home girl obligated to tell you that she funked around with your nigga? And if so, which one of them has to go? The homegirl or the nigga. Yeah, you gotta tell me.

If you don't tell me, then that's the problem. So you're gonna you're gonna keep both of them, Like, yeah, so does I tell you what if I didn't, I didn't know you were dealing with this and know what's seen me and my friends. They asked me personally, I can't hypothetically speak about nobody else's me and my friends, Like I don't hang around like them type of girls. We're not. We're not women who be like trying to keep a nigga's secret. Then we all find out we

sucked the same nigga trying to be sneaky. We don't do that, like me and my home girls. Like he's like, oh girl, look I've been talking to such and such or whatever like that, and then you tell what you know, like if you you know what I'm saying, if you dealt with him before, Like but all that ship having extense because I got a friend that's about to get married right now to a nigga who I went on

like two or three days with. But I like I told her like when she first said like she liked him, Like oh yeah, we went on like two or three days. Friend wasn't bout nothing. I ain't never fuck the nigga kiss or nothing like that. We just went out to eat three times but I'm talking about like like if you if you fuck around, she's not that not me

personally the type of person I am. Like if you like fucked my nigga or like you had feelings for him, or y'all was in a relationship here baby daddy or something, I'm not gonna do that. I ain't gonna do that.

So the nigga gotta go show we're not nigga. No, I ain't gonna get to say that because look like all right, because a lot of girls they'd be on some weird ship, like if a nigga holiday at them before and they curves and nigga, they don't down dow don't want that for not that's weird to me because like if I was at the club and you holiday at me and you know, I wasn't interested at all. Even if I wasn't, it just been going nowhere and didn't amount to nothing, Like I don't feel like you're

off limits for my hume girl. You might be her sould me like you know what I'm saying. I didn't people up with people that Like initially the nigga was like trying to talk to me. Man, it's ten years later. Who cares. It's three years. You know, he want the nigger for me, he might be the nigga for you. I ain't him, I ain't like him, I ain't you don't matter like so because he holiday at you, he's not supposed to find his soul mate. That's crazy. Her

philosophy is on point. Your philosophy is on point. What about all best friends? Right? Do you feel like your best friend or your friends should support your business, like if you got a business, or should always be hooking that best friend up, like we got a restaurant or whatever you got going on. It's your best friend is your dog. So my best friend wouldn't had to pay

for nothing in my business, but mine. Know the type of friends I have day was support my business like me and all my friends, we anonymously support each other business Like of course I'm a post show business. I'm gonna help your business in anywhere I can. You have a pop up shop, I'm gonna show up for free. That's a free celebrity. That's that's a that's me doing

something for you. Like you know what I'm saying. That brings an aspect to your grant opening that and make people come that wasn't gonna come just because they're a fan of me? What it was just two people that came, you know what I'm saying. So um, you know I would do stuff like we do stuff like that for each other. And like when my friends doing a Black Friday sale or if they're doing like whatever, I might just go randomly. You know, my friends all their businesses.

They're not sitting there package and the ship and the ship theirselves, but they might notice and somebody might be like, I think your friend bought a package? Is this a real name? And they'd be like, this girl and really just bought a thousand dollars worth the stuff for what? Like That's how we do so. But if you had a the runt and it was your dog, your dog always wanted to eat free, you good with that? I probably I probably win mine, just the type of person

I am. But in friendships, I do feel like your friendship support your business. You support all these other holes you don't know. You support all these other businesses you don't know. So why would you not want to come spend your money with your friend? My friend had a restaurant. I'm single, so I go on dates all the time. You know how I have my own personal booth. You know how many niggas they have to take me on the day at this restaurant, right, Like you get what

I'm saying, Like ship like that. I do feel like your friends supposed to support your business and come in with their money and buy and shop, especially if they have the meets not as different if you know they did as broke, don't have nothing, you know, Oh, then you know you can't focus on who not supporting you. Then you know how to handle them. You know, to handle this friend with a long handed spoon, because they're not that you know what I'm saying. They're I invested

in and you and your friendship and support you. But also sometimes things be missing true and people feel like because a person is not invested in their brand, is them? No one's ever gonna be invested in your brand? Is you? It's your brand. So sometimes a simple conversation needs to be had because you would feel like your friends not

support you. But your friends just got their own life and ship that they're going through and they're doing like they still got bills between the first and the fifth, they got children, they got a husband, like it ain't that time you're not supporting you, bitch. Time. You got a million other things in her life that she's doing. So you know, people always be looking at it from their side, and oh, this person don't do this, and

this person din't do that, and this and that. I had friends that was mad with me, feeling like, oh, she don't show up to nothing. But you know what I'm saying, No, Like I'm depressed, I'm sad, I'm upset, like I don't even think I want to live right now, bitch, I'm not worried about you, and no mother can pop up shot, like you know what I'm saying. So I feel like too often people don't communicate enough. It's not how you get out of it. Are you out of

it now? Yeah? I would say yes, Um, that ship hard because I think the hardest thing about depression is you don't actually know you the press. You don't be understanding why the fuck you got everything in the world. You could buy anything you want, go anywhere you want. You don't have to wake up and punch nobody. Clock, can't nobody really tell you what to do. You the boss, but you're just still unhappy. You don't really realize that, like it's from within, like it's something going on here,

you know what I'm saying. That's why you're not happy. None of this stuff could ever furnish your happiness for real, cause you're unhappy within. It is not an external thing. So transactional ship and material ship can't make you happy, you know what I'm saying. And being around people can only suppress it. So what what did you do to make yourself happy to pull yourself out of it? I went to mental health facility facility, not a therapist, like a facility like for two and a half weeks. So

you have a paper, No I did. I went to the mental health facility for um two and a half weeks, and so you basically just kind of removed yourself from this whole entire environment and you had to go somewhere where you could just completely and totally focus on you like you have. Did you have phones in there? Nothing? Yeah? Hey give us someone give us some of the um? What they what do you call it? What happened? The routine? What you call routine? Being in there? You know how

they give you what you call it? Now? When you exercise, exercise you're supposed to do in stuff because there's people out there watching right now to the depressed, I need to feel how you like? You know, they give you exercise, right Okay. So for me, I was ten thirteen there because I was suicidal. So um, mostly it just used to be like um, making lists like I used to make.

I got. I have so many, Like I got a whole notebook, like fuller lists, and on the front part it'll be everything that I'm happy about today, and then on the back it'll be everything that I'm sad about, you know what I'm saying. So I had a lot of those, and then even like I remember, like when I first got there, it was like so many things that I was like sad about, but then like it was only like a few things that I was happy about.

But by the time I left, and now like it'll only be like one thing I'm sad about, and just like so many pages of things that I'm happy about. Sometimes you have to see things to to like remind you, like sometimes you have to really think about it and jot it down to see it, you know what I'm saying. I started saying goals for myself because when you become successful so fast and so young, a lot of your goals go out the window, because when you're young, your

main goal is I want to get some money. So once that's checked off, like what else is there to do? Like you know, you think you put pressure on yourself. Hell yeah, then I had to remember this too. All my friends is way older than me. So why are you feeling unaccomplished at twenty one because you ain't on no fucking house shack. These holes is knocking on forty that's what they're puposed to be doing. You say that twenty three about oh I don't have no family, but

you don't need no children at twenty three. These women is they got children, They got a man they go home to every day. They almost fought it in they med thirties, you know what I'm saying, Like, yeah, like you have to understand that, you have to understand that you can't live life on them. And that's what a lot of people don't understand. Everybody's not gonna be a millionaire twenty three. Some people not gonna ever be a millionaire at all. Everybody not gonna close on the house

at twenty five. You're not gonna be driving your dream call at five, and everybody not doing that. If you do, that's a blessing. We're so happy for you. You know, we're a part of the small percentile that did. But everybody else, like, don't feel like you can't chase your dreams of being a fucking designer because you're twenty seven. I remember times got now she's saying, that made me, thank you. I remember times like coming up used to be like ship when I get humble thousand, ain't having

no words to get that. You feel the same way everything everything that I thought that I wanted when I got it, I was gonna be happy when I got it. I didn't give a funk about it, like wheeps and cause the juror to whatever. Like, once you get it, that's this ship like it, don't take it, don't taking in them, you know what I'm saying. Like you thought grinding for that, once you get it was gonna take away,

get your feeling that you never felt before. Once you get that that ship just be like I got it and she ain't ship. Yeah, it ain't gonna make it happy. That's why they got to be. You gotta master yourself, that's what it is. You gotta master yourself. Like what's for me, like why am I here? Because you don't know that's the whole ship about this ship, bro, you're thinking, like she said, motherfucker to see him. Think I ain't

got no family. It ain't it ain't time, it ain't ain't whatever, you ain't got, whatever you ain't did, Bro, it ain't time to be there. Like two of my best friends, Judy and Super, we go viral all the time. Everybody knows us because they all knew us when we was pulled together. Now all of us like got these big careers and doing ship and we all got money now. And it's like Super is a multimillion multimillion they're offer

her makeup. You know she has a makeup behind. Judy is a multimillionaire off of UM, off of hair care, out of and you know me, I got money off of myself, like being an artist and being a reality TV star. So I had noticed at the point in my life people was pressuring me like, oh, while you don't have no business. And then I had to sit down and understand, Hold up, the bitch, I am the business. I am what I'm selling. Yeah, like stop playing with me.

They motherfucker's had me feeling like I needed to start selling something. I said, hold on, we sell me now. I'm booked Friday said Sunday. You know we we're on the road during the week. You know, I'm I'm on I'm on TV every Monday. So I mean, I ain't the brightest crowd and the block telling me so here and it ain't no fuss when it's me. So You're mastered a lot of your businesses, you mastered a lot of different social media is and correct me if I'm wrong.

Just be doing my research. You did your thing Instagram, Twitter, talk all that stuff. You know, Am I right or wrong? When they say you got the only fans coming, that's the word on the block, you should turn up the I have a fucking as snaked cookie show. I'm about okay, I'm okay, I'm playing. I'm not getting the only things where that comes from, because that's that's what's going out. Seriously, No, I'm getting the only fans. Believe, but I believe it now.

It might be music for a lady. I don't know. No matter what it is, you're gonna work. Yeah, it is just no, I ain't gonna be on that selling my soul on my body one thing about a brother, the thought come to your head. It can happen. You have a thought come to your head. Bro, you gotta do that ship like you know what I'm saying. You're gonna see what when you do it? If it makes sense of that because like you say, you you're the product taxes off. You ain't let me let me ask

this right quick? What do you think? Do you think them? Like? You know how we all have friends and ship Like you think you could judge your friend on how they treat somebody else. I don't judge anybody off of how they treat me, especially like strangers. I don't judge people off for how they treat me because of course you're gonna treat me nice. It's like you know, I'm a household name, a brand like it. It's not about your

original friends like not still you. I just feel like, yes, I judge people off for how they treat other people. Your character to me, it's who you are when nobody's looking. You see what I'm saying. So how you treat the homeless person who wasn't begging you for money and bothering

you when we come out the store. You know what I'm saying, how courteous you are to older people, you know, like things that matter to me, how you treat your children, how you treat your family, how you treat your other friends that's around you. That matters to me. Because if you're saying you're treating them like this because they made you mad, I can't guarantee that I'm always make you happy. So what happens on the day that I make you mad? You're just happy with me right now. So yeah, that's

that is how I judge people. That's hard. I agree. I think it'd be different every every two people gonna have a different type of relationship. No, that's that's that's absolutely. But if I'm saying ship, like if I if I I see you talk to your grandmother like ship, I don't give a funk how funked up your grandma? This is an elderly woman. I don't given if she tells you the ugliest motherfucker. She's an old woman, bro laughing,

keeping moving that ship don't matter. Like you know what I'm saying, like, Oh, the homeless person that's coming in the dough behind you, because they're homeless, you let the dough slam on them. It was nothing for you to just hold a dough like you would me behind you, Like you get what I'm saying. I treat others how I want to be treated, because in life, nothing is promised but death. That is it. That's the only thing that you know for showing life is going to happen

for everybody in the world. You don't know where life may take you. You You could end up like that one day, and I know everybody be like, sh not me, because I'm a man. You don't fucking know. Somebody could anything in life, cab, but somebody can steal your Yeah, but definitely I watched my I watched one of my best friends lose their whole memory and forget that they ever even knew me. Like you know what I'm saying. No, like she have epilepsy. You get what I'm saying. I

got that ship too, but it's mine. Ayn't never do that. But like she forgot everything and everybody like she went almost I think, like ten years back. So she know you before him, TI she know you know, she don't remember none y'all been through. She don't know you. You get what I'm saying. And eventually it came back, But that was after about two or three years, Like that's

hurtful as fun. You know, my man is gonna come back though I know I know him still still yeah, some people don't come back still stuck in the party. Like my man, my ex bike. You see that still let the party dancing there, he stuck at the party. Who you're talking about? He's stuck at the part. I'm not camping, bro, I know a man he's stuck in a party right now from nineteen eight or two at the party in their mind. I don't think I'm playing who is the random? Yeah? You know like how you

know Jay's and ship. You know what I'm saying, that high and they ain't hot at the party. Brother, if you get high different parties. I don't know if he smoked dope or not. I'm saying. And like you know how you see people that stow talking to their seven ship. Yeah you know what I'm saying. Like you hear people talking to their seven ship. I'm gonna typing at the talk like trying to see if you can shnap out of Like, bro, what you're talking about? He just give

me a drink the party, crackhead, crack. I'm just saying that serious like a regular person, like I know you screen, yeah, and every time I see you, that's all you talk from. Big fact, Like bro, we're not at the episode. That fact that ship happened to peace of your mental illness to not laughing at that, but anything can happen that that's true. My ex manager her son, he's uh celebrity DJ, like he didn't been all over the world DJ and

for crowds of thirty thousand. He's on a dirt bike one day in the middle of the night with his friends. They're going to the trail. He gets hit by fucking pickup trucks. Now he's like para lies. You know what I'm saying, his memory three minutes long. He not all their no more, like you know what I'm saying, Like ship in life happens, and it happens like this, the ride to the grocery store. You can have a wreck, lose your mother sucking arm, anything like that happened. Then

you got them. I wish you can go back to what every movie, every breath, every step, every mill, every friend, every everything. I'd be grateful, Yeah, definitely, And that's what the mental health acility taught me to be grateful. Every day. It was so many people in there that when they get this charge, they don't even know where they're going. It was so many people in there that nobody's bringing them anything, like they're just in the same clothes every day.

Like you know what I'm saying. It was some people. It was so crazy because it was some people. Like initially, the first day I got there, I had a roommate dad. She was ceased real quick. But the first thing I got that I had a roommate and my roommate she had been up for four months but never talked before. But my roommate talked to me. That fucked me up. We're not waiting and I was like, what's going on? She just started talking about No. She just looked at

me and smile. She ain't saying so I was like, okay. So then like the next day or whatever, because I'm just a bubbly person. The next day she was sitting at the thing by herself, so I said, next, I was like, hey, rumy, ain't got no choice. She said, are you sure I'm happy? She said, were you sure I'm happy? She never talked. I'm like, hell no, I'm talk to Yeah. They probably like didn't um what's her name?

They probably and nobody probably ever like once they saw that she didn't talk, they probably just never tried to funk with her again, like trying to be nice to her, make or tall. They were just you know, I probably like draw all to the side, and you probably had like the energy and the spirit and the love. And she felt that. So she felt like, Okay, now it's time for me to talk. I feel like I had

a greater purpose. I feel like God put me in that space and put me there for a reason because even in there, like I touched so many people that that time. While I was in there, I donated so much. Everything happened for a reason. Everything so friends, I did God. It's two of them that called me to this day. Now I we don't see each other and ship, but they called me. I kick it win him. I talk to him on the phone ship. I was talking to him when I was in the facility, and they hand

nobody to talk to. So why am I not talking to something now? Ain't too good because I'm on the outside, because someone could click and I'll be right back for real life. Crazy. What's tokeyo? Vanity's weaknesses vices, addictions, your phone light on too, just let you know your battery, don't what's your vices? Weaknesses? Addictions? Weaknesses, addictions. I ain't no eddy like that and not say like that like I might drink too much soda, drink too much. I

don't know. I think my advices helping people, Okay, I really say that. I think that, like I really feel like that would be my own self destruction. Like because it's like when you come from a place to struggle in pain and you get to a place that's like sunny. It's like when other people is in a place that hurt and struggling pain, you just be like, damn, I remember when I was there, Like fuck, I know how

they feel, like let me just help. But when a person but I'm I'm why I'm mad because I didn't have nobody to like fall back on, Like you know what I'm saying. And when I said I didn't have nobody, I didn't have nobody and I voluntarily didn't hear nobody because I didn't want to be lazy or stuck up under my mama or my daddy or ship like that. Like I wanted to have my own life and my own everything and just figure ship out so that when my mama or my father close their eyes, they don't

have to worry about me. Like you know what I'm saying, Because when people stay with their parents and crutch off their parents forever, then it's like your parents really never could be at peace because they don't know what the funk gonna happen to you if something happened to them. They spending their whole life slaving trying to furnish the lifestyle for you because they want you to be okay, and nine want that for my mom because my mama

already sees Yeah. So absolutely, finally we gotta ask you a little bit about love and hip hop, I think. So I have a question real quick for me to cut you off, so we know, like with loving hip hop, like a lot of times, you know, people fall out, they have like you know, the online situations or whatever way they go back and forth or be for whatever

you call it. So what is your take on involving kids and children and online beef, Like do you think that that's an acceptable like draw for or like talking about one. Lets just say that I'm just speaking in it ain't it ain't just but it ain't just dom, it ain't just it's not not. I don't give about either one of them. I'm just saying, like, what how it's been done with the kids first, Let's see what happened. What happened, give me the story. Who y'all. I'm just

speaking in general. A lot of times, a lot of times people going people from from the site, Well, I want Alexis, they had a little not Valerian. Alexis had some ship going on. Alexis, Okay, they had some they had some ship going on. They used to be friends, yes, too much. Yeah. So basically when they got the interview and I'm asking them ship, Alexis was like, oh, you need to be worried about your kids, let's talk about let's talk about something the kids question. I go back

to the question because you went somewhere else with it. Like, I'm just speaking in general, because a lot of times that's like the punchline that people throw in there, like okay, so this is my thing, all right, So of course everybody's gonna say, let's not let's not talk about people's children or whatever. So of course, off back, Yes, I would not talk about I'm back if I were nothing. Listen, listen, how very minutes let me leave my plane. I wint okay,

I win't talk about your child. But like, but once you start like to go in and go in like you know what, I'm staying like that your buts all like she hurt because you're talking to she. I don't look on the in the name and watch you fating on this fat ugly bits. So now I gotta tell you you're the girl fatting ugly and her thoughts rather together she shaved like a military as your kids know.

You're still not saying like you should just shouldn't have started with me, because I don't start with I promised to say no boundaries and war it ain't it really ain't. But you know, shut up, shut up. It's no shut up, shut up because I go down. That's how the internet, God, it's funked up. But that. But but but I think that even even if it can't even engage in this, that's what I say, even in war and smoking whatever, you don't want to get to that point where you

like man that took that ship, don't say that. I'm not saying because if y'all, if y'all a lot of people think about it. I said no, listen, old wrapping Beef and niggas right, even making records of ship more times than none, the niggas got cool with each other. So all right, we got cool. But nigga, that's out. Don't don't get uncol because I'm gonna say this again. The type ship. But I'm on that so letting. I'm not even go them. I'm not taking nothing back. Like

I said it. I meant it when I even if nothing, Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Like they're so so in y'all's opinion, nothing over there because it's ship type of person I am. I don't never start the ship. So if I had something to say about you, I'm not gonna. I ain't gonna leave with oh bitch baby not but once once you say something about me, something about fat or something about my mama, it's up like yeah, sure. Other people and to like you're being in a fight, Yeah, I

ain't gonna keep. I ain't gonna that's two people bite. You're gonna do whatever I can do to hurt you. That's two people being in the fight with somebody else to jump in like other people. The old baby if your baby was old enough. She's gonna come with you to do whatever y'all want to do to me. Yeah, she's with you. Your baby had an Instagram. She is gonna repost you just in me. So it's fun everything standing because listen, alright, I'm on all right, I'm on

a weight long shirt. Everybody know my ship fluction weights. Sometimes it's going it's going up. Okay, so with me, but on one of my real good kicks, I'm like thirty five, Like I feel good my picture. I've love my picture and this don't even follow me. Came on my ship and they say something about me. I like I was ugly or something I just saw. I went and come in. I said, you're calling me ugly? What

you need to be about that ug class baby? But no excuse me last god, because I ain't had no child here, but it's my thing, Like why would you mother? I know how I feel today, like you don't know how I feel today. I really can feel like funk, I'm at the bottom of the bear. I feel so ugly, and then you come and tell me I'm fair ugly. You don't even final you come volunteering that, So now I gotta tell you you're a girl uggly and like agreement.

See I'll be like me personally, don't like when it comes to the when it I'm I'm all for the everything's fair and war, you know what I'm saying, whatever whatever, But me personally, I'm I'm I'm scared of the kids, like like if it's the last, last last resort, then possibly, But I talked about a nigga's mama or like a nigga's grandma or it's like like like before kids like this is something if it's something, that's the thing like with with like and we're not talking about them, but

with her daughter, her daughter had um has a like has you know, a condition or whatever, and the other one called her daughter retarded, but they were but it's not even about that. The bigger picture to the ship is is that we're friends before. So it's like she knows the struggle of the child's condition and what I'm saying whatever whatever, it was just fucked up, like take care of your kids. You tell somebody to go take care of their kids, you pretty much staying there unfit pared.

So if somebody tell me go take care of chance, and I'm like, what do you know? That was friends, so she know already personal when you know each other. Yeah, yeah, yeah con trolls like you had a troll so somebody came in the side. That was my whole point of people real paging. So there's not no troll nor most personal though, what y'all tell me that personal personal? Like

yeah that personally, I don't know. I don't know. I just feel like I just don't say nothing about me because I really don't want because you gotta understand, like, I'm young, I'm from the ghetto, I'm black, I'm dark skinned, and I'm fat, like what those Kim companies bitch, I know how m like, what's your were doing this gol? What I call it? John? Yeah, And I don't care what I say because I'm not saying I'm Layla. I leave nobody, but I'm really outside. Like we can fight

about it too. We're gonna yeah, you don't love you about Yeah? Watch the ship? Who she got in with us? The ranch? Yeah, spiceple lovely ladies. Huh y'all cool though, That's what I be trying to figure out because that love and hip hop. No, you can put the foot in Joe, I can't give me though, Hey, look, you know, but when it is within the out of beholder, So you see what I'm saying. We can't worry about that fight.

We can't worry about the present fight. You just gotta worry I win, making shore, you win the next fight. You love to see another fight. But um, yeah, I know like hip hop. Yeah, like when you're feminine, ship like you enjoyed feminine doing all that ship love and hip hop is good to me. I don't know what nobody else descriptancy is with it, but it was. It was a great franchise. I came, I did what I was supposed to do. I started assignment. I succeeded with

the assignment. I was a fan favorite. And you know what I'm saying, How real is it? Though? Okay, So what people to understand is it's not it's not that it's fake. It's that it's stage. So as me and you that had a problem before, and I don't like you and you don't like me for whatever reason it is, and we are both scheduled to field Thursday, and it's

just me and you there. We're not stupid. We know what we're supposed to talk about, right, So if we're trying to talk about what it is and I get so fucking mad out busting your head with it's a rock bottle. That's not faith. That really happened. We really have an issue. It just was staged. It's no stage for you guys to have that issue. No, it wasn't a stage for us to have the issue. But we both are a part of a TV show show. It stays for us to talk to come because you guys

are in such close quarters. No, but we really don't be in close core. It's not close, bro. It's a table that's longer than this table, and you on this end and they on that and it's six security right here and six right here. So like I mean, if you're in my light, if you're on my site and we got smoke like it's it's it's inevitable for that ship to go down. Sometimes it's two people that get in the room and they talk like sucking adults like

and smoke. I've done it before. Listen. A lot of the fights that go on, it be because people of an audience half of the ship that going on. If their people had got into in the room by themselves, they had their disagreement in the room by themselves, the ship would have never went past the room. They would have gotten to hash it out and whatever in that quarters. They would have even probably thought about it some people, and it would have been that everything be a ship show,

Like we'd had an argument on Instagram. So now everybody trying to see who the badest, and now you want to prove who the baddest. Thing. Sometimes that ship make you end up places that you don't want to be, like data and jail, because you're trying to prove that you're the baddest. So like with Love and hip Hop's

most definitely stage, but it's not real. Then you have some cast members who they don't really have ship going on, so they started linking on the side and saying ship like yeah, Jamie and you're gonna both pretend that we ain't gonna tell them. But when the network called me, I'm gonna tell them that your your boyfriend tried to talk to me, and and then motherfucker really with it and they really can't handle it because they don't even have the brain capacity for that. So then they go

try to play that ship out on TV. And then when producers started calling y'all, separate motherfucker start tripping, and now they really do have a problem because they weren't even built for what they created. Right now, you say they might come come with a play like they got them because they choose one out of the tool. Yeah, it's like when the hall agreed to a threesome to make a nigger happy and then y'all get in the threesome and now she now we didn't know what she made. Yeah,

you weren't built for it. And you know that, like you you put this ship together and you thought you was gonna on the network and then back with your ass and now it's just a bunch of bullshit. Now y'all really telling each other business and giving the network exactly what they need for viewers for no, not for free fun for a very small for the little amount. Can fight your friendship, No, most definitely, And like me, they couldn't do that with me on TV. I have

such a strong personality. I am who I am like in life, I wasn't the person who got peer pressure. People did things because they wanted to be cool with me, like you know what I'm saying. So yeah, for Shure Tokyo Manity, we appreciate you rocking with us. Okay, we look forward to this summer um music music. Yeah, this is my first year that I took this year off

from everything I ain't do nom but my music. This year I focused on consistently dropping music, getting the music in rotation, consistently shooting videos, putting the videos out and you got something on now. Um Yeah, I dropped a song called s b A. I dropped a song called um Fund Nigga Free, and I dropped um s O d D sit on Dead Dick with Tokyo Jazz. I'm

featuring on that. We dropped videos for all three of those and on all the platforms and on every platform, and a in rotation on well as s b A was in rotation on Revolts, t V and MTV jams and all the rest of them. Yeah, okay, cool. Oh and I got a song coming out. It's called collect Call. I'm dropping very soon. Video already shot. Everything's ready and yes it's about to be living, about to have a real highspital okay show, that's what it is. Big shots,

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