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BIG FACTS feat. PREMADONNA

Feb 23, 20211 hr 3 minSeason 1Ep. 63
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Can your spouse or mate have a best friend of the opposite sex? This question is a subject of debate on a new episode of BIG FACTS!


PREMADONNA joins the BIG FACTS squad to discuss her African roots, various hustles, keeping a spark in a marriage and more!

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Big Bank and DJ Screen bring you Big Facts, the hottest podcast in the streets. Visit the new website today www dot Big factspod dot com live for first class sounds. It's the voice of DJ Screen right here. Of course, it's time for another episode of Big Facts. Big Bankers in the building, Baby Jade is in the building. You know what I'm saying every day is blessed? What's up? People's everything good? Okay, bank, yep, that's that's what bank do. I'm back on that. Yeah that part, boy, that's park

A you talking that ship. Everybody Yeah, no yoga to day, Yeah, stuck yoga to day. But everybody good though. Everybody in good you know, I mean positive energy spirit. Got check on my people for we get to the work like everybody good. You know what I'm saying, be on the phone here you're doing today because you know how bank someday you're talking to you are of the day. Let you know, let you know, in real life change from hour to hour. You want to know why the real

it's a Gemini. I know he's sitting over there with that raggedy ass I phone six. He got two, all right, but show you she got an upgrade. She got an upgrades. Yeah, you know about my phone straight out. You got the iPhone. I got cricket service. She took that money from that party she hosted. Yeah yeah, yeah, I took the money from the party our host down. I got something my bad baby dog, oh Ship gifts and gifted sweet on big facts, oh Ship, the twelve pro Max Club Pink

because you might, you might. You know you're my favorite girl. You gotta get you know what I'm saying. You get the special treatment. You said all your bitches were spoiled, right, all my bitches boiled to open. I'm sorry for you, real nigger. I like it. I love you, Yeah, I love you more man, and I want I'm official now I got. I got my duct tape, hoodie, cruble game. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, that's Jake. I appreciate that. You know that, like you know whatever, screen, Mamma figure out

something to give you to and then white snow. But I gonna give us off the better. I appreciate that, man. So so tell our conversation for the day shots the Prima donna. You know what I mean, she's pushing up on us. All. Is it okay for your girlfriend? Your wife, your mother, the other person that you're in a relationship with. To have a best friend of the opposite sex. What's your thoughts on that? They're crazy? Inside it on Code

at one time shouts the Big Homies House. That's crazy. Yeah, so that bro different because you know what I'm saying, like best friend, Like what you mean? It's good she has a good friend, bestie. Man show, the crown show, the see cutty women Like, I don't know what men. It's different with men, but we need women see Jade. So you know what I'm saying, Like she different because this is my dog. You know what I'm saying, Like

we're rocking, rocking, you know what I'm saying. So, but you got some female that's so vulnerable that a shoulder to crown lead to be a dick the suck on most of the time, I'm just keeping it one hundle like you have been a damned food to say you my bitch best friend. Like in real life, I don't give a funk That ship ends now, that ends time though I wouldn't give a damn. He's supposed to be

respectable because I'm gonna get out of certain people. Wait, I got friends female friends too, But I ain't trying to be your bedfriend. Like every time you upset with your nigga, you called and I discussed this with you. How can I do that? But nobody said that's what you have to do with that male that. Let me tell you, if you get the best friends, I'm sharing everything with you, right. You don't want nobody outside of them to knowing all our business Like that nigga, I

really don't want you to do that ship with female. Right. So he's doing this ship so people slick. So the manipulation is all, oh yeah he did. Look, look I'm gonna play that was advocate for both sides real quick. Okay. So when it comes to like the female perspective or whatever, like from me, like if I at the nigga like my nigga having a best friend, bitch, Like, no, I'm not going for that because at the end of the day, I know me and I know like I know how

I am with my best friends. So like I know that line, that thin line is gonna get crossed every I mean, I'm not saying that it's gonna get crossed every time, but I know, like I know how I am about my best friends and about the guys that I love and that I care about. So I don't feel like if me and you are together that you

need somebody else that cares about you. What I'm saying, I get it, trust me, I'm not think I think the conversation or the I think the conversation of the debate is what if that best friend that was just a best friend existed prior to y'all getting together. But it's like, at the end of the day, what type of bit friend? Though, like y'all every day hanging together, y'all land at the house still, and that we're not

doing the best friends. We're not doing that because a lot of friends, a lot of best friends used to funk around. And you know what I'm saying, that's like, that's a that's like how That's why I agree. I don't think it's enough rule. You can be with the best friend you ain't got me with me can be ship all y'all talks how that bullshit. I just think that's bullshit because you have it. You have a close friend that she's talking to me but sound about my

being and Jay don't talk to me about her. Dude. I will say that I will those type of best friends that your your My opinion is your opinion about you. You get what I'm saying, Like if like how females is like when I see my cheek friends and I'm upset and me and my wife is going through some ship her friends don't like me. You get what I'm saying. Until we're back cool. They're not speaking to me a ship until we're back cool. So here come to manipulation.

Should imagine this ship being a nigger doing this like you're mad at me for me with me and my bitch going through how are you gonna do that with a man? You get what I'm saying, especially this right, especially because you're discussing screen y'all, discussing our a b ageness to the point of you feel her because you love her too. You love my bit just like conflictive and that's what I just said. But you love swepting my niggative as much as I love my nigga Like,

It's never gonna work. It's never gonna work, especially if you are talking about your relationships ship to each other. But the best friend you talked to about every everything that's ship. But does it change if the best friend. Okay, I think it makes it worse if they're trying to

have a single best friend. You see what I was saying, I wouldn't I wouldn't give it that the way where it was two best friends they both had a nigger in a bitch and they were still best friends and the ship still went left didn't go How So a single best friend and a fucking taking best friend, it doesn't matter. I don't know, though, to each his own perspective, reasons per perspectively, what no perspective? No for me? Right?

I did I call like if I'm dating a guy and something I'll call my ain't friends though, But that's he know mostly everything about every guy. Let's see, let's see another thing to that I had that I had

to realize, like put the camera right. But it's just like it's just it's just it all boils down to like when you are with somebody, or when you agree to be with somebody, and when you agreed to enter into a relationship or a situation or whatever y'all got going on, Like it's certain ship that has to stop out of respect. It's certain ship that hasn't stop out of respect, Like like it's a lot of just boundaries.

It's just like, at the end of the day, I'm not like I said, I'm gonna saying again, I'm not about the goddamn be seeing her discussing my relationship with no fund. You get what I'm saying, because the way I feel, I feel different. I got different feelings for this person, so I'm not trying to let you see the hurt through my eyes. You know what I'm saying. So basically're gonna treat her the same way, y'all, relationship gonna be funked up, and then I gotta choose my bit.

You see what I'm saying. Unless someone telling you, like man, I just can't stand ahead, then you treat her like that when you see her and she catch a vibe from you you're been friend or your friend and want some bullshit, then bitch fuck you because I'm I'm with this. You get what I'm saying. This is what my lord, So I ain't even I'm gonna keep that lying that

that ain't got nothing to do it. And I'm saying my niggas or nobody like, I'm not gonna be discussed with you like get what she said to get what we that's not your motherfucking bia, that's not your business. Like straight up when you see this lady, you utmost and well y'all have y'all don't what's going on? You know what I'm saying that I think I think niggle

gonna cross the line. If you've been out them laying on the pillar airtime, you get ready to cry your bitch calling in and my tripping and my wrong on this shot ship and my wrong if I said this, Yeah, it's bit you wrong for even calling me that. The same things change and then his words because they might not even talk to the person then with about the problem yet, so you get used to go talk to another nigga don't know how to work me. He don't

even know the problem. He don't show you. You You know, I'm discussion with him how to work me with. Now, this nigga knows where you're vulnerable at, so he knows how to manipulate you based off of what you're going through with the person that you claim to love. Biggest facts, the biggest facts, biggest fact, the biggest fact getting phones and ship. Yeah, so now I'm on that ship like just it ain't but we don't we don't know everything. We say that we don't know everything. I just know

the way I feel. Once again, a big fact, are a big fact. You can't be But people do this ship right, like people be having people be whole married and then their other can be out all night with somebody else. The food. I'm telling what happens. It happens in my life. That ship happens. I'm telling you you're right now smoking the best friend like. It's a difference with like, I guess, I'm just what they call it a different kind of like the wrong kind of need

to be in a relationship with. I guess because bet you can't even have no best mama against this ship. I know you don't call nobody to talk about my mother being about me like because you ain't doing them and making me. You know, when I see the folks be on something, okay, if y'all on it, I'm on that worser. Yeah yeah, it's funck y'all for life due to y'all doing this for her feelings, y'all trying to enlighten like y'all y'all trying to act like out me

and stiff on me. I punched one of y'all out for stright up, straight up, and sever people are putting what the more what it is, the more the story is. Quit putting people in your being, your best friends and your being because you're gonna get your bed friend fucked up. Okay, that was high fact that on that because damn that best friendship. Man. The rebuttal, the robuttal, and this is social media ship. I think this case. So the rebuttal is that the woman might say the man is insecure.

How you feel about the word what insecure? Yes, okay, you're saying you put me in a situation. Ain't got no trus It's an access. I'm not. You got the whole nigga, A regular nigga like me somewhere the blood you know what I'm saying, The funk out of here. Dog. Yeah you know I don't even try. You better have a but. I think best friends get different like with females though because I don't do that. What you mean

different with female? With its not like real ship. I think it's different for females when it comes to like the insecure word, because at the end of the day, it's not us being insecure, it's us knowing how we are in that same situation and how she goes so it's like it's too clotse for comfort. Different like you you really like a you a street nigga to a certain degree. Like it's a different like I'm talking about you know ready, you just got a buy friend in

twenty for twenty nineteen, first time in your life. So we tell about you know what we're saying, all I digress the girls who are there smoking? Who? Because all that you know, you know what somebody bro I got you like, who would do it? Yeah, listen that I'm gonna tell that that ship ain't gonna work. How it just ain't gonna work. That's that Callie ship. That's what I mean to say earlier. That's that call ship. She callie there a little more free and how all the time,

nigga gonna try that mount one night? Try to mount one night, you say your dad saying we we drunk? What else? Though? Yeah, yeah, come here man like that hook. I'm gonna hold it a little longer because you crying a little longer. But the bottle the back now like about this ship, big facts, but what I love. You're gonna say you're my best friend. I love you, like seriously for forward. If it's like that, why can't you just be with the best friends because you don't like

them intimately? Oh my good No, no, no, no no, no, it ain't. They already know each other, what's going on? Like and it ain't got nothing really like because you told your bed friend and all the whole story to like like bed friend really hold too, Like on that nigga that ain't got nothing to do with intimate. It's just like and she know this digging hell whatever he is. But we can do that. We can hook up and

do that and be bead freeing on another nigga time. Yeah, shot, trying to be bed freeing on the nigga time, Like, No, that friend need to find I'm a bed friend because you ain't it bit you got me fucked up, like for real, like no best friends on big facts. No, I'll say screens so you get that's what you need a friend? All you did every man? Every man? No, but I say I say something right and I'm gonna

say some real ship. This is important. Just watching social media, it's important for you not to fall off of being what the other person needs. Not once for the ones, but it's important for you not to neglect that person completely. But guess what, I'm the type of nega. But I get out your way. If you want a best friend, y'all go ahead and be best friends. You just said otherwise, I'm saying I would get out your weight completely friend.

And you already all the type of when I met you, I told you he's going to be a problem, right, ain't. I ain't gonna try to deal with that. Hey, man, you're that ship no boat yeah today, and I'm gonna tell him right respectfully, that ain't gonna work. Bro. Hey, but I don't call my bitch no moreever respectfully. Y'all need free no mo bro, don't be like all back. I'm with you, yo, yo, be friend with Dave. Yeah,

that's what she's been free with. Take day like old playing that men even to goat this whole bad come on, go smoking talk to now. Let me ask you this screen one one last thing before we wrap up and get whatever. But okay, so, so how does it go if like the shoes on the other foot and it's the female with a nigga with a bitch best friend and the two bitches bump hands, is that like is that like to me, it's the same ship. Though. You

gotta respect that, you know, That's what I said. So you put to make these people if you gotta like me. If I got a friend that's a female such as Jade, and I got my wife, I'm gonna make sure y'all quadrant cool. Y'all be cool for sure. You know what I'm saying, because anything else is gonna become a problem any female, even with even with Jade Hannah. Should I tell you all my female friends, y'all need to be friends because we're not in the competition because I don't.

We're not doing that. You get what I'm saying, And it ain't a double standard, but it's it's it's how you presented. But there's no way you can present, no type of way for me to feel like you could be bes friend. No nigger. It probably a double standard or whatever, but it's probably be double standard. But there's no way you can convince me it was a business problem. Business cool, But you're not best friend. I'm talk about that two and two or three o'clock in the morning. See,

that's a limit to my friendship. I'm not talking to you know, three four o'clock in the morning. You're a female unless you call me about something. I'm not doing, certain ship. What you're saying is this this man is always there twenty four. No, I'm not doing We're always there for your wife or girl doing that. He's the shoulder to crown, you know, the shoulder to crow. Don't lead to Yes. Come on, you've been too you've been

too vulnerable as a friend. Yeah, right, A wrong, I love you, I ain't Yeah, I'm not with that ship period. All right, Well we over agree on this one. We have no statues, no debab what we're gonna do that? Yeah, I call that if you called me at two o'clock in the morning and you gotta need look, man o women, I picked up two and mother women. I'm trying to beat ship. Kodak A savage though, colda a savage though. But I don't got no female friends. About that. Well,

I'm just the girl got a bed friend. I'm pick up for them like that. Your girl got bed for you to about how they got a bad friend. But bad you're dude, got a big friend. I mean, what you got, you gotta do it or you got a situation like me, cash I always gotta cash locked in what cash from memphish, she'd be pimping, pimping. I'll just say that's that's that's the verdict. Cool Dot on the Way is a big fast go to the website now, Triple w dot, Big Facts pot dot com. Yep, the truth,

the whole truth and nothing but the truth. We have first class sounds. It's Big Facts, DJ screen, Big Bank, Baby j Special Guests in the building. She is an entrepreneur, hustler. She is getting to it. A lot of people wanted to see her on Big Fact. She is here. Prima Donna. Welcome, Welcome, Thank you all. Listen free you don't come in on

a real spicy discussion today we have been disgussie. Can your other girlfriend, your wife, your husband, whatever, Can your other have a significant situation, whatever it may be, have a person of a best friend of the opposite set. Now we have vetoed best friends on Big Facts up to now, but we want to hear what you're gonna say. The best friend a bestie that's a female. I mean that bestie was that before me. I don't have nothing to do with it, but if they can't after me,

then that's our bestie. We gotta share that best because that's the relationship that we're going it together. I don't know what she around you for us. She might be around you. You good because I ain't going I ain't going for it. What what what? What? What if they like it's different kind of best exactly? That's you gotta elaborate because bestie like they mad. That's the key word

you said. Work. Oh yeah, work, Bestie's is fine. I don't care about the work bestie best but telling this girl y'all being and she acting mad when he made with you that type of besh. No, I ain't going for no best friend. No, no, no, no, no no, because it's gonna be the gender roles switching. You know, it's only one room in the house for the alpha. Whether there's the male other female, it ain't We're gonna clash facts. I can't hire you on the phone with

him too through in the morn. I need him to through in the morning. After nine is naked time, y'all talk about Yeah, if she's gonna be that closer, come on, I'm saying, bitch, what's up? I don't understand that what they have in comment, you know, I mean like a sister you got, that's what your sister for. You want to talk to somebody, Go get your sisters some advice,

Get your cousins some advice, Get Auntie some advice. It's probably a lot of women, because these are the people that if we get into it and I beat them up, we're still gonna have to deal with it. They have your blood, got no blood period? Like, And I ain't trying to cash okay, So I ain't trying to be on snapp I ain't trying to do it already. I know I'd be five two or three seconds with civilized, so I can't do it. So we have still vetoed besties and best friends on big facts, and I love it.

Oh folling, we're falling off. What about you? You you let your girlfriend have a dude best friend? Is that she could talk to? Imagine lem say something like imagine yourself walking up with my bitch trying to introduce yourself as her best friend. That's what I'm trying to figure out. How you get this. I could better have a work best friend, male best friend already discovered. I don't even want you to have a bitch, daddy. I'm your dad and straight up that's just because that's not my husband.

Don't even who wait what it's like you have to give me the green like the text nobody and they'd be like, it's not it's just respect, go ahead to text the person. I'm like, that's what our texts of get comfortable because other than that, ain't me. You know, it's just I don't know. Oh my goodness. So I got the interesting conversation. Yeah, So basically like that's that's that's what we were talking about like before you came.

But now that you're here, I want you to like go into detail about your lineage, you know what I'm saying, like where your family originated from, like your African roots, and then I want you to talk about how it was growing up in Overtown good. You know, my dad's from Africa, so guyana, I'm half. My mama from Carolina, so gichy and then African. Now the thing about it, you're like a gumbo. Yeah. My dad used to pick at me for years. He used to tell me how

americanized that was. I mean he used to force it. He's so I changed my assent. I don't think it was never there, you know, children grow up, they changed. But however the case maybe my family, my grandmother lives in London, my um, my father, my brother. Yeah, we're off the Accora. I'm a Fonti my tribs, font Cape Coast. Okay, okay, so we're off for Accura and my anti o'nique. Oh it's a lot of them. But shot out the gun

and shot out to my people. Yeah, my dad always get mad when I just tell you that he's said, I'm American. He was like, you just need to say gunna, you know Africa, I don't know about it, and you from because they're gonna say, spill it. Okay, I'm a Fonty girl. I'm a Fonty girl. So yeah, my daddy, you know, you know, everybody called him Africa. But however the case, maybe he always told me my roots. And I think that's really where the hustle just come from.

Because then that man is said, your car, they don't move differently from West Africa. You're different. He's different, man, It's just different. And then just to see my grandmother, she's ninety six years old and my daddy is seven years old, and he looked like he's thirty years old. Like these people. They eat from the land. They know how to survive. He's not really into none of this

stuff we eating like it's just different. But coming up from over town, now, ain't got your mama, and she's like, well that African I ain't in here, so you don't want to hear nothing. You're a queen to day. You got it going that clean that room. So you got the best of both worlds. Because she's a geaty. She come from another era of working hard Carolina and happened to be with her grandmother and all of them, and she raised by her grandparents, so they're very strict. So

my daddy believing freedom, she don't believe in that. She believing that we live in the hood, stay as the house. He like, no, she should go let explore up. But that's the difference of that. But just coming out from over town. What's the what's the first thing that caught you, like when you first thought and feeling like, yeah, it's telling me to figure out what I'm gonna do to

support myself and get money. What's the first I guess professional, whatever you thought you thought you was gonna do, Like when you your first very first thought of getting money, I was started gonna be a rapper since I was a girl. Yeah, they got videos of me like you're living until a rapping And I just thought I was gonna be a like a rapper, and that's what everybody else thought. And then when I got old and got some money, I'm like, oh, they really don't really count.

It don't matter last day earlier, like, because the talent is something that no matter what you know, professional career path I want to take in life, it's still gonna be there. So if I want to wrap ten twenty years fro now, I still can't because I could goes right whatever I want to feel like I want to do. So I left that alone because at some point you could chase your dream, but you also gotta wake up

and say I got bills to pay. Yeah yeah we said this, and and she like mean to cut you off inside, but at the end of the day, like she still get wrapped money though, right, what I'm saying, don't get it funked up, like you could be you could, you could any and who's to say it probably would have end up. But now you gotta go on to figure this ship out. Now, who got time? We got time? To be sitting around waiting on some ship. You can't be an eternal dreamer. This ain't ain't paying me, man,

paying that's what I want. And then when you start and let's get okay, and then let's let's keep all the way with hunting. And then when you do get really good, and then you do start making some noise in the rap game. Now you gotta deal with that paperwork. And that paperwork ain't talking to me because it's like I got that in my purse, Like it ain't nothing that's excited me about it. Are you just telling me you're gonna push me? I know the better myself. It's

like playing a lottery. I know if I put a hunted percent into wrap, I'll win, you know what I mean. I know I got a solid dude behind me. We're gonna run through these screeps. If that's what we want to do, the chickling markets, whatever it is we feel like we want to do, I'll do it. But I did that, like I've been doing that for years, and I'm like a right not saying that. That's not what's for me. It's just like working for me right now exactly.

So I'm not gonna invest my time and energy into something that's not giving me back what I want, what I need. So you have to do something, because I tell people all the time, if you do something you don't love and it's not your passion, you're gonna get bored, You're gonna be tired, you're gonna be miserble, you're gonna be aggravated. I don't have time to be running around him man at the world because you won't play my song scream. I know I'm hard, I know I'm harding,

but I'm not gonna compute myself to nobody. I'm not gonna talk down to nobody because just because the industry is not feeling me, that don't make me less of a rapper. Because I know I could out wrap in bitch that come in the room on the spot, but that's not what I want to beat or that's not what I'm trying to go. So once you know what you want, I think people are confused. A lot of rappers to be confused. They want to be rappers, But if you ask them why, they don't know. Don't know.

You have to you don't know what you want, bro, You don't you know what you want, but you don't know what you need. Yes, Like when I want to wrap, I don't want to tell my story. And then it's like, Okay, this ain't the genre or this ain't the error right now for what they want to hear my story. It's gonna be a time when they want to hear my story. And then when you get the time, I'll do movies and act. Now I want to be an actress, that's next, not want to be. I'm gonna be what you're doing with?

What would I do? YouTube? Since I got YouTube, but not do cooking YouTube and they love it and there's so weird. They liked my voice for some reason. I don't know why we do because you get cooked though. Niggas are still on recipes that sometimes he running and just hear that people get real money off ship like that though, saying exactly, that's the most comfortable ship and they can do. I got to you know what I'm saying, like,

I got you there. I'm gonna popping back up. I have a YouTube, it's YouTube dot com prem on the Cooks. Right now it's just focusing on me cooking and doing meals and everything. But I'm gonna get back into the podcast people are can cook with you. We are doing that. We are doing cooking show though we are working on that, and the Cooking show is actually for me to help people in chefs and women and just everybody's scale and leverage on cooking because I know when I came into

the cooking industry, it wasn't our resources for me. I still turned on the TV. I still see the same people on the cooking channels just fifty years ago. What you're gonna be cooking on? What? What network? Or what you mean? What am I going to be? I'm be cooking on PREMI like what you can't be sitting on a decker. We had the home passion like what fridgerator on the cookery Like I'm seeing big Like, man, how you how you choose what you like? What hustle you

want to get into? Like what's the good question? And I'm dance serious, this is the funniest thing that ever happened. I'm only saying it because he could vouch for man, my husband. When I'm talking about was gonna sell the pot? I told about the pressure cookie was like what what she's talking about? And I had a good song. Never was my song was he never was doing real good, like just keep working the record, keep working the back. I'm not hey, I'm going to come out with a

pressure cooker. Though, He's like what is that? And then he was just like if you know, because at the end of the day, when you're married, it's our money. So you're like, yes, yeah, you know what language of talking and he like it's don't sound like that. And then you know you've been gonna be you've been attract the trailer. Well you've been doing all these old yeah up. But let me tell you what he did. He upse he he's us. He didn't know. I don't think you know.

And I'm saying now he got on the phone like yeah, man, some pots or song, but I ain't man, she put him on to it. She don't go crazy with him. When he said that, I was like, oh, that's it that you said it, and and I just my sister it was green like like okay, well he supported it, like when we had that conversation you don't even remember. But just to switch the hustle up, it's that I know.

I loved cooking and then when I was doing waste training, Um, I got pregnant, pregnant again, so it's kind of crazy, right, but anyhow, it's pregnant with my daughter and I was, and people just you cain't promote your your waiste game business. I have waste shapers, I have reshape, and I have fitness. I have everything that I can't do pregnant. I can't put a wat shape on over a baby. I can't be drinking the meals supplement. I'm depriving the baby of nutrition.

So you know, what do you do? But I know what I can do. I can get in that kitchen. I could cook. I gotta cook every day for me. I gotta cook for these kids. So everybody's like, why are you making this? And it was so hard to explain. My mom and my dad Loki chimists on different levels. That's just what I'm gonna say. So I know how to men and mixed spices together, like that's something that was just given. So the season is that's why people go so crazy and they buy them because they're unique.

You're not gonna find my seasons on the market because I made them. We made them this family tradition, this DNA recipes here. So I said, okay, well, I'm cooking and I don't like to be in the kitchen all day. So what we're gonna do now? And that's how the pressure cooker was born, because I'm like, oh, what if I reinvent this? Because I was scared of the pressure cooker,

the old traditional one that wasn't electric. Oh no, I wasn't cooking with that because your grandmother know how to click in and do this, and I wan't doing all that the same one before. Well, I'm a shock. What they're gonna tank? Goddamn? What then were you thinking? Like on the shot you hole here to eat the whole pane of what that's what you want me to do? You know? The post got them go in all fut them.

I could go in and you know that's the thing about life and okay, pop your ship you have about me, I'm not a materialistic chick. It's nothing. Everything paid for. So at the end of the day, when I decided to go invest into something, I ain't losing nothing. I'm just saying you would think of right absolutely, So you what you said, your company right now? What you said the premiut the ship right now, the whole ship. That's what I'm saying, like, let me next to the next thing,

because yeah, but you gotta have fun. I like doing this. See I tell people money is the motive. Yeah, that's my motive. But that's not my motivation. You have to understand that I have a legacy I'm trying to leave behind. I got four children. Now, I got well aunties and daddies. They're gonna work my moment, you know what I'm saying. So this is for my kids, kids, kids, this generational wealth. A lot of times people do that and they sell real quick and then look at you and it dud.

Did he swing him? Now he has see million for using his name. You can't it too quick, That's what I'm saying. You cannot sell that quick. Don't do that because your passion you have, it's up to you. If it's something I love to do, and why why would I do it. That's like telling you I'm gonna sell my wife to this man because this man want to lay now with you love all right, So why would you do it? I don't care if it's like he's saying, I'm gonna give you a billion dollars right now. So

that's my baby, that's my passion. I'm not selling my children, selling it back and not down the road. Man, let's getting better because you you're in the music in this yet that's like your artists. That's like an artist, the same thing. Okay, you got a good pop artist, right, artist, ain't pop off? They get a hit out of the blue, somebody come you. They want to buy your artists, but they don't want to be the master. Yeah, but you they want the masters. There much thanking you what you

want than what it won't. Ain't never doing want. But do they ever give you what they want exactly? Ye? Never? No, don't feel you don't feel like something that's priceless though we're talking yeah, something that's postles, but not saying most things they have a price on. I'm just saying I come from that sold the car in list than thirty minutes. Bro, I went to Peterbird, bought a car from nickname Black,

came back to the hood. My nigga Richard lives. They seen the motherfucker Like, Bro, they'm motherfucker what he gave me two thousand over the value price I got out of it? Big ain't black. That's on the way back. I love this car. Yeah, two extra thousand to get me a nine exactly. Another one there you guys to go and I'm just saying, like no, but I get what you're saying and everything the play preu Mo motivational shoting like cause ain't no about out hustling you. Thank you,

but it's just knowing where you come from. Though you don't want to go back. It's the circumstances once you tell yourself money to motive is not my motivation. So it's like, listen, I know what motivates me in the morning. A lot of people don't have that in them. They don't even know why they're doing something. You want to make money, but why your bills only three thousand dollars and more? Why you want to be a man? Now you're cool, You're better than happen to me. And that's

out here, don't you know that? Like people don't understand that they are selling their sand, they sending their piece of mind of luxury to get this this book. And once you get this this, y'all know because you're on them levels to this, then what you're gonna do? What are you gonna do? Like I don't get it? So that's all they want to do. Being ready to put it on. Man, know we come from we keep look at you putting all right, now freight put up, y'all.

Just put out that that fine man, you know what we do this ship I'm doing all the time. You know what we do this ship, man ship thinking ready to put on. Yeah, you can put out that evening that you gotta put that you go back in the house, you're gonna be put out, but putting and the same things you put off on. You know, got you come out,

youre gonna be putting any man. The few they called on the phone, but I don't even fun that money look pretty speaking of putting on, My question and you is how did it feel when you got your first eight team wheeler versus when you got your first warehouse? Oh that's a good question. I think I think the warehouse feels better because I'm gonna tell you why. The trucks they moving all that. But you guys, you got a lot of maintenance and stuff you gotta keep up

with you. But the warehouse, let me tell you why. I respect this because it gives you the room. See, when you have room, you can grow a lot of times we held down in that circumstance and position because we don't have no room. So when you go on this big white house and it's like, oh, they're are empty. They are empty. Now I'm I'm innovating. I gotta find something to feel it with, because that's my mind, the warehouse. This is something that's supposed to be making me money.

So why is that spot empty? We need something right there? We got space, They're like, no, we're just clear that. I ain't no clear space. What we need clear space spot in business to make money, not just organized. This ain't Prema's organism, you know, but it just to have that leverage. And let me tell you, I only did that because the pandemic. We want to even have to get into logistics. If it wasn't for the pandemic, that's

because the shipments were coming in. And you know, when you want to be the biggest, if you want to be the balls, you gotta, yeah, listen, to be over the top, you gotta do some over the top things. And that's just how you're gonna maintain because it's always somebody gunning for your spot. You gotta understand, I created a lane. It ain't no traffic in my lane. So you know it's coming, just because you don't see traffic right now, you know it's coming. It's about ten cars

behind me. But so what do you do? I can't allow sit here and wait on these shippers because you lay my packages, to lay my orders to lay out. No, I gotta move on and we gotta make those investments. And that's what you do that real ship. One thing about creating a lane, that mean you automatic got a hit stought. Yeah, it's the same. Yeah, it's not that

nobody's gonna come in your lane. But you gotta know you and you got a head start, so keep going you That means you change, you change the path, you change which way the direction is going. But as soon as you let somebody pass you, now it's day lane. And now you got the jilts and go to their map which way they're going because they don't switch to pass you? Why because you just wasn't You ain't playing right? I don't know what's the what's the soundtrack to this hustle? Like?

What should be vibe into what you'd be listening to? What's on your playlists? What's the sound track to the ship? Oh? Man, I ain't gonna lie I'm stuck on Lauren Hell. They hate it. I'll be listening to here all day, like all day, all night to Zion, yeah man and repair. I'm telling you, I love Lauren here, like I listened to her live acoustic sessions. See how out you know, sometimes that's the hood stuff. See that's what my day said.

That's that you know, that's that over town. But um leah, I like listening to Lauren here and then yeah, I like listening to Noring here. That's really all I listened to. Like it's not repeat. I'm kind of stuck on it. I don't know. And I listened to myself sometimes and then I don't listen to nothing because if you sometimes when you're most a little bit, that ship cloud your job,

a house just bad. But like, yeah, I mean I just do a song one day, I swear I was looking at my nigger, like just listen to the words, like you know, it's just how you music. Like you listen, you change your whole path. I'm trying to make some money and I'm just listening to somebody over here cramback they ain't got no money. Or I'm listening to somebody saying yeah, walking to stow Smith fifty rags. I'm like, damn, I could do that, ain't you know? So it's just

let me focus. So I got it awesome time. I don't Yeah, I don't know, y'all. And it's like it's like on top of that, like running an empire such as yourself with the cookwear, the waste trainers, the athletic gear, like all that kind of stuff is a majorly stressful task within itself. So how do you manage to balance that between being a mom, being at home and still

being able to keep that spark popping with buck? Yeah, it's like it's the spot, don't pop, chicken, the light of just sho, I set your head, ain't feeling no, no, no, no no no, just just like you. No, it's hard, but to keep that spot, you know, you got a plan as cliche as a sound. I know this sounds like some with the kids and like everything now it's like a conversation or you know the good thing about it, I think traveling that's the only way we keep the spot.

You gotta get away on the move. Yeah, space time, energy. Then I don't even care to the grocery store. If I go to the start spining around the mother sometimes for hour just to make a miss to me because he's seen me all day with the kids. Ain't at work a week. You know, we all have to balance that. I think that too much personal with people, for anybody

is not good. Pandemic broke broke a lot of homes up, but nigh whoactly because now you get to see the true people you What if you were dealing with a woman be for the pandemic, you ain't know she's sleeping the bed all day to five o'clock. She tells you she going to work. You over there, you ain't seen I get up to my was home and be on the cook nothing. That's that's what you make it so easy for you. That's why I came out with him, recupes.

All you gotta do is open the book turning. It's easy, I mean anybody, but I mean that's why I haven't figured it out. I don't even capt like that. When people expert relationship advice, always tell them, listen, you're gonna have some good days, you're gonna have some bad days, and then you're gonna have to as some thoughts. What

is it that you like about this person? Because you it's a mature level, even when you're raising children, and even when you're trying to build a family, and even if no kids are involved, when you are intertwine with somebody and y'all love each other and like each other, y'all gotta figure out is this worth it? And if you know, then you could just dismiss any other thing

because you got to that it's worth it level. Once you it's worth it level, nothing can affect you like the aggravation of the like I used to, hey, how heat you? I don't even hamm you no more. I don't know when the last time I learned you. Because it's worthy. You gotta get to that level. If you're girling to that level and she's still coming at you yelling about this, yell, you're like, yeah, damn, I've been

doing this for five years, leaving the toilet up. But whatever the case may be, if you're still on on own and own about it, so it's not worth it because you haven't got to that level of it's not dismissal, it's not sleeping under the rug. It's just it is being go there you go. That's just what it is. And a lot of people Damn, that's the worst part. You feel like you're gonna change the person like that.

Why I say, like you can meet the day and see our smoke cigarette, but you like everything else, but you like, I hate the smoke cigarette. You're thinking in your head, he's gonna eventually stop no forever. You know what I'm saying, Like whatever, you don't know what I'm saying. That stopping no time soon, I'm gonna get canceled and that that's cancer. It's to the relationship right there. You see what I'm saying. But you gotta just that right now,

I meet See that's the problem. You're right, let's get on, let's speak on it. You will meet somebody at something you know you don't like and you can't never deal with trying to dismiss it for your That's that's really being selfish and thanking you for the change of person. That's just like you go meet a hooker. It's been to the straight hook sail plussy. Yeah. Like I said before, when you go bro, what you're thinking this bitch profession

is right? Yeah, that's what you know, because you can't take away something that somebody loves, you know what I mean? If you meet somebody you know they're toxic, they don't clean up, they don't get better, counsel and may help and may not know you, but you can call by the person so much that you'll try to You'll put yourself through agony trying to act like you can stop smoking cigarette, but you know you're smoking me in the cart box. Yeah you got them. I'm trying to try me.

You know what I'm saying, Like you get what I'm saying. Yeah, man, That's that's all I have to say. But there's a part of it where you want the person to that's growth. Everybody don't have growth, and that's what you know, stuck. Every having some people who they are you deal with it at because even if they're trying to stop it, they're still not gonna give you their hole because they're not happy. You know what I tell people. A perfect example of how you can look at habit and how

you can look at growth, it's find somebody. And I love doing this. You know why I do this so you could take the bullet off of me and start pop focus on people. You gotta find somebody else that they care about, right, stay gonna look at your auntie go look at your uncle. How long they've been doing that? You know, get you have to put that so they can really analyze your life. Damn really been out here planning for about that is some years, and you're trying

to change somebody in three days three years. So you have to know the power of habit. You seen your grandma are geting with your uncle for the forty years, and here you go with one man you just got with and you've been with him about three five years, and you are going with him trying to change them. The man grandma can't change your own son, and you're trying to change your niggers. Get your ass down and change yourself. You If you can't change somebody, you need

to change how you deal with them. You need to change how it bothers you. Or and and I and I know it's like, oh, I don't want to be the bigger and better person. It's not being a bigger and better person. It's the worth Like I said, is it worth it? If it's worth it, then you change your perception makes it worth it? Curious somebody else ask that I get it, But what makes it worth it? Worth has equated to you? I can't tell your worth. This pocket book maybe worth three thousand dollars, but to

you it may be worth nothing. That's so worth is what your perception is? What do you what do you value? Your spouse says, I don't know. I know what what my value there is in my heart, But what do you value your people? And you know your worth may be equivalent to Let me see how you take care of my kids, how he thinks my car, how do you get up and go to work, How you take care of himself? I take care of his mama, How you take care? You equival this worth to you? You

know how you take care has been this period. If that's something that adds stamps in your passport, then go ahead, baby, yeah real, you don't know? Yeah? When did you know what? Gonna call it? That? What did you know? It was time? Like this love of hip hop ship got to stop? Man, that moment when the chick stop coming? When check that won't because they don't never stop because they give me a check on that knows what I won't be that it was financial. It's not financial. It's let me tell

you something. I tell people look at reality like it's a job. I'm not gonna even lie to you. I'm getting paid to do this. I'm getting paid at a certain way, so you may never see me in that form shape energy ever unless you on this platform and on this show. That's just what it is. What does

it matter to you? I mean, but to be honest, I won't doing anymore because it's like I know exactly what the environment is based around, not the show it's saying we're going in the direction when he's saying you, well, when you're playing these games, you know then I think about it. But I know what it to go back to. I know the worth, I know what it's about. They fool me one that was shame on me. I went back again. Shame't on them. Think I'm gonna go back.

Third m I went from Atlanta to Miami. You think I'm gonna go back b l A. And they're gonna say, well, it's different. I don't know that's gonna That's just gonna be a risk you have to figure out. So I think you just get better, you know, you get to better understand that what it is exactly you're gonna do, because once you it don't matter, like it's just reality. I think if you got them just saw the podcast go to popping your ship. You're gonna get a big father.

It's just me being personally because you got something to teach the young girl. Thank you? Like real ship? Yeah yeah, I do like real ship. Like I ain't gonna kep you down, like because I like cause I follow you know what I'm saying. We follow each other on Instagram, so I see everything. Like the kids can really learn something that ship. Absolutely, you know. I try my best, and that's what I because there's so many people come

from where we come from. They can only understand it from us, and that's where I try to cry to you know, that's where my voice is for you know. I try to do that and explain to it. But it's you know what I know learned about people. People don't see you from where you from. They see you where you at, no matter how how hard and how much I preach and tell you where I came from, they see me where I'm at. Don't matter to them

no more. And then when I was at well, I was trying to tell you why to get you something. We're gonna try. Yeah you can you. I mean I did a couple of mentorships and it worked, so I'm

sure the probably would. But yeah, that's what I was gonna ask you, Like, what do you have like as a message to leave with like females and girls, because like, you know, you've had your runnings, you know, with certain situations and you know what I'm saying, whatever, whatever, but that molded you into who you are as a person today, and it molded you into the owner of this empire

and a multimillion dollar business entrepreneur. So what do you have like to leave with the young ladies that might be in the situation where they're stuck right now, they don't know what trying to figure it out. They you know, I've been there. I just tell them, you know, you, when you want something so bad, you gotta come to a place of dedication. And the only way you're gonna get to anything and achieve anything in life is you

gotta be consistent. Just like you consistently hate on the motherfucker, you gotta consistently chase your dream. You gotta consistently I don't care will laugh at you, I don't care who don't believe me you because you know the problem with chasing dreams and trying to start a business everybody worrying

about what somebody else gotta think of. Say, that's the only thing stopping you is another mother eff And once you can take that at your equations and get to the place where I don't care what you say, what you feel, how you feel, you invincible. And that's where you're consistency kicking, because now you're gonna start getting on your bully, getting on your game. Yeah it's hard. Nothing

in life is easy, you know. I tell people now when you go to work, I had a job I used to work, you know, that's why I don't work. I was working for a customer service rep. This lady told me how promise she was actual. I go to the bathroom. She told me, no, you had a bathroom break. And that's when I just told myself, I ain't know about tell me when I could use the bathroom. And I know I needed the money, but that I also know I needed a piece of mind. I needed a

freedom like hain't and jail. You're gonna tell me we're not gonna go use So that's it's something I gotta kick into you. You gotta be tied to your situation, tied to your circumstance, no matter what it is. So I would tell them the first thing they gotta do is eliminate. Eliminate everything. Man, you gotta take a mental ship, just like you gotta go to the bathroom, and you gotta go mentally and ship your brain out, shoot out

everything you think about yourself. Because I could be telling myself I'm the baddest bitch, and I have one girl I walked out of doing. She just look at me like in that can turn my whole brain and then my mind gonna tell me, no, you ain't the baddest bitch. So now I got two opinions in my brain. But that gives me balance because it's up to me to choose which voice I want to listen to. I want to listen to. I'm the baddest bit, so I'm the

baddest bitch. So people have to just eliminate and just ship, like ship your brain out. Man, just sit there and I ain't gonna you know, but sometimesn't work. You better do something that girl yeah yeah, now, but you have to mentor I can't explain it easier. And if you like, if you're frustrated, because frustration would kill you. People don't know that y'all scared of cancer, y'all scared AIGs, y'all

scared everything, But you ain't scared of frustration. Moucker knocking down quick hall to tame like that because you're frustrated so mentally, ship bro, take a minute and just scream. I don't care. Just give yourself some time. Go lock yourself in the bathroom, find you a quiet place, because people, we still used the chaos and and the brain is just a function. It's it's a nerv system. It's a neuratic. So all your nerves bouncing off of each other. And

here you go over here crazed up. And if you just would have shift at that morning when you was in the bathroom, ship Ship, take your brain toid. There you go, because no, I'm like you all nigga ain't na it's niggles. Niggles just took that in just a female. We asked for something. Female. Ship on my way I need motherfucker. Yeah, take a mental light show, the ship show.

Imagine that's the one amazing. By the way, man, where you come, I don't know, I come to car coming the prayer that says the dude, hey yeah, turned up two shots. Yeah, saw that like all this ship hipopping, you know because seeing first, you know they doubt you. Now yeah, yeah stuck like that. We got over a hundred people already signed up contested, so they ship you know, Apolo ahead, we got like some golden ship on a lot of that's dope. Mean, that's like, I gotta colment.

I got a comment any time after the pandemic and you know, you know, I just don't want to hear no compete you're coming up? You like that, man, But it's yeah, it's to us. But you know, I like to go place this one. I'm free and right now I gotta you know, the person inside of me, they don't responsible. I can get you to the you know, I can get you right if you want to be fluid, you know what I'm saying, I can get you on the stage that I ain't what it is he got

me in want nobody around to breathe. Yeah, I enjoy looking at the clips on Instagram that it's like a show, so you should, like you keep telling me do my part to do that the show because I enjoy the whole plan. Like it's like a lot of people just catching up. Well, I ain't gonna turn into the ship very mind to see you. See. That's what y'all need to when you're trying to come up in the game. You gotta have a little modesty about your say, everybody here so big to the sky to who's gonna help you?

Gonna help you? But you all in the class. I'm still right here. You just told me I know that person. I know that person all right? So what I could do for you? Because you know every about it? You know everything? So what can I do for you? And I hate that because that's a big misconception Where people meet me. They look at me all the time and they're like, well, she got everything, she got a husband, she got this, she got mom. What I could do for you? And I'm like, you could do a lot

for me if you just ask. Hell, but I'm gonna tell you because and and that's the difference. You know. It doesn't mean that just because oh you're a milliona a thousand, that can't help me. No. Bit. You got marketing, you got hustle, you got something to me that I probably lost a couple of years ago. I ain't running behind her chase knees bank, but you still got that or you got something that you know how to do that I might not have tom exactly. And that's people

a lot of opportunities like that. Yeah, most millionaims being they don't know how to do nothing, nothing nothing with that company doing like they just got the vote that work for them, know how to do that ship they don't know how to do them and get up and say, yeah, you're nate. Yeah right right. I'm a worker boss. I getting that and I go to work sometimes I go pack packages like I'm a worker boss. I like it. I like working like I never got into being an

entrepreneur to be lazy. And that's why I go back when it kind of wrapping, when it kind of everything. Thats a lot of people feel like, oh I just want to be successful because I can be lazy. That's really what it is. They think if they have a lot of money, the money will equate from them to live a real life of doing anything. You do this, you do that, you this. They don't understand all that point the finger, what you do this, you do that.

You gotta pay somebody to do this and do that so and mentionally, your money gonna be gone either way. There's no way to keep the money, man. Money is not money. Don't like to be held on too I call money a nigga. If you hold that bitch too close, that bitch gonna hit it. You gotta give us some space. Money like to be moved freely, and you gotta share it. I'm I'm serious. Money is not an entity that one to be kept. A lot of people feel like a savings account. Yeah, do a little bit, do enough, do

some investments, but let the money flow. Money is a flow. It needs to generate if it ain't moving. This fuck and you stuck. So you keep calling you a little million in your pocket? You know nothing nothing? Yeah you really out there on the selling pots and seasoned right right, that is my memory. Oh yeah, black, I got your to care package. I got the air fighters out there for you. We got a deep prior, we got the

cord yeah everything. We got the cook book, we got the knowledge of for us, the NAK goddamn this detergent every two. Yeah yeah, like, and I just start excited because my next genre is baby food. So yeah, I hate all that baby food that's out there. It's organic. Yeah, we're gonna organic, y'all. So yeah, because I'm gonna turn back y'all into the phone the vegetables, but you know, it is what it is. We got about some land and grow some vegetables. But yeah, that's why I want

to go. It's like deep. Yeah, so that's a little free game for you. Beat you something, baby. Yeah, everybody in web site on web sites so they can check you slow the Prima Dona Cookware dot com, what's on Waste World dot com and yeah, Prema on the Seasons dot com or just go to Chase the Bag dot com and everything I'm about coming and what's your Instagram? And so my Instagram is at Prima Donna eighty seven in Prima Donna Cookware and Prima eighties seven Cooks and

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