BIG FACTS feat. KANDI

straight into what you what I'm saying? You know, the people, all the people be loving when we when we chop it up about just you know, saying real life ship and real life topics like throughout the weak people being the comments and having discussions amongst their sales barber shop talking all that. So today we are discussing something that's really interesting. What brings out the real person more? Is it poverty and being sucked up and being broke? Is

that when the person is showing their true colors? Or is it when that person comes up and actually gets money and becomes rich, wealthy, whatever you want to call it? Like, what brings out the true colors and the person more? What's your opinion on that? I think that the true colors come out more like when the when a person that's up. Because when you have money and when you're not stressed about certain things, your person, your real personality

and your character flaws magnify themselves. So everything that's in you, good or bad, is going to be more prevalent because you don't have to suppress it to get out of people what you're trying to get out of them, because you really don't need anybody. So you agree with the turn when they say money show your true colors, you would agree with that. What you think? I agree what she said. But at the same time, depending on the person to me, so you think I got them be

being his silf too, m with nothing but fail broke people. No, this is hold real quick. We put it on the scale. We're saying that is it more of the more of the person that they really are their true colors with over without the money. We know that a broke person could that's who they are when they're broke, you see what I'm saying. But when they become rich, or they come up, or they get money, can you maintain to be the same person? Can you do that? It's impossible

to stay the same person. You ain't gonna be the same person if you go from rich to broke rich. What if you go from broke to rich to back to broke, what happens. We're talking about character or just change, because you gotta change. You gotta change what you eat and once you drive and where you live, we know that's gonna change. I'm talking about the way you talk, the way you act around your people, the way you handle your people, the way that you treat people that

you don't know, just how you move. I feel like the people that have less sometimes are more pure. But like he's saying, it can go, it can go both ways because just like just like taking myself for instance, like me, I'm I'm not I'm not broke, but I'm not rich, and I like to help people. But I know, like if I got a real bag, like I'm gonna help everybody and I'm really gonna like make a difference

in the world, like with my ship. The same way a nigga who it's selfish, once he gets more money, he's going to be more selfish and he's yeah, like and do only for him. That's what I'm saying, is it varies for a person to person like you're speaking of characteristics, which that's a that's a very good point. But what I'm saying is just generally, Okay, you have a million dollars, you got fifty hundred thousand, whatever the case is, how you interact and maybe treat Koda and

Shine whoever. You know what I'm saying. With that change now that you're rich, like you're half a billionaire, can you still maintain to show people that decency and respect? Or when you just get on some asshole shot like she said, it's just gonna magnify. You can already see a nigga if he got nothing his m like, no matter what, you can, I can walk into the motherfucker with nothing to still act funny. Yeah, for sure, you get what I'm saying, But neither gonna be funny. You're

right gonna be. I feel like you can. Like she said, it just magnifies when you get the money, because opinion start mattering lessers, that's what she's saying. Okay, I say, yeah, yeah, yeah, you because you don't give a funk. Now, yeah, you don't have to give a fun Yeah, you know what I'm saying. But when the nigga but this is gonna be gonna be humble when he when he got live.

Ever done that nigger in the hood that was just broke but still didn't give an You know those particular characters that you'd be like that they could probably not gonna change if you get money. You see what I'm saying. Like, that's why you never know because it's some people still the same but handling the business difference. Like, so I like to clarify a lot of ship, you know what I'm saying, because we could be talking about one thing and I could be responding to something else. You know

what I'm saying, because everything goes different ways. If we tell abody character, then some people character be already what it is you just overlooking it. You just can see it more that he got something. Yeah, you get what I'm saying. Now that now that now that the nigga done got it bad, right, you can see all the funks did he do because you could take in them? So what is that watching them? What is the essence of that term when they say, oh, bro change and

switch when he got the money, where does that come from? Like? Where is what is the essence of that term? What did he stopping with him hating niggas, he stopped sucking with them niggas. And one thing about it, man, the days, man, is how you measure your friendship and lords is what's the last thing you did for a person. That's how you measure that ship winning hold. Look, I can know everything is still fun with me about game some of the land two or three months and it's been a year.

This nigga don't fun with me, man, right right? Am? I right wrong? That's how you measure friendship these days. But it's the truth. I'm just being real. So like at the end of the day, he could be someone saying anything that I'm saying. So it's just like once again, we gotta when you clarified, we gotta day. You never know what the fun is, the what the fun is the root of no problem, bro know nothing. So it's

people gonna say everybody change. But like I said, every some people, it's just like a fly nigger, a fly nigga be fly with nothing with some bullshit clothes on. So you can tell like that neig gonna get that money all he needed that money, He's gonna be turned. No, you get what I'm saying, Like you can already tell he win, he wining the little, the little the little. That ship looked good with that. You get what I'm saying. Like like a female like she probably needs some titted

she gonna be. You know what I'm saying. She already got the rest. We getting us some titted sheep. So hey, yeah, but I'm not gonna change you. So yeah, yeah, that's good change though, those are things that's good change. So I never her t done and go to the right people to do her makeup. She's gonna be just like the rest of the women. You get what I'm saying. You can already see that ship up under that. You get what I'm saying. Right with everything else, like you

can see that a nigga got bitch ways. Bro. You just it just it just don't appear to you as much when the nigga don't have nothing, because it don't affect you. But when the nigga got something and you know him, it's gonna affect you because he's, like, like you said, a selfish person. Like you've been noticed, nigga was selfish when he got damn didn't take it ball and go home get my ball. You know, we bring

it back the personal experiences. Have ever been disappointed in someone and the way they act when they got more money all the time. Okay, so we're not an example. They're got of got their own way of how they think. Yeah, you're how they do ship. So you know I used to be that way, Like I just can't believe that you're this way, right, Like that's everybody, but bro, you have to be cured from that because you know, I'm your day. That would consume trying to cutique another motherfucker

and what they should do. So I think it's circumstances though, because it's like if you if you if you go back to somebody that you're just an associate with or whatever the case is, and they changed what you get a bunch of money, you're probably not gonna give a funk. But you can't say that it just completely don't mentally affect you at all. If you everything folding should mentally affect you. That's that's that's shouldn't we shouldn't. That's what

I'm saying. That's strong we're trying to get there. What I'm saying shouldn't affect you because at the end of the day, you got already had that being ready to press. I agree, and it's life that we're living in. Yes, I won't be surprised or nothing no more. Okay, all right, big facts especially after right right, you know what I'm saying, Like, man, I'm not surprised that ship, like I should believe it.

They say he just saw alien in his yard doing whatever with his long almost some ship, but drinking and drinking the gas out a long more. I believe that I'm just being one hundred like if this is a stream, if you call them like brothers, ain't gonna think screen are lost in mind, be like that. You don't fake time. Let me see because I can believe it initially. Right, that's what the world has done. We got a fucking pandemic. It's the word stop. We can't use the word surprise,

but can't we use the word disappointed? Are you disappointed in the person that you will give your last, that you that you will give your last, that you might have given your last, that you might have died for for them to get some money and be in a position to my be my brother's keeper. And they decide that they're not going to because they have money and they're disappointed and got them surprised. That's what I show you for show people. Guess what we get disappointment from

people all the time. Yes, people are disappointed. You shouldn't put too much faith. That's what your kids with, your wife and you whoever, like you know what I'm saying. She can cook some food, be mass here. You'd be disappointed by that ship. That's good. That's good that you bring that up though. And then and then well we'll get the candy shots to candy. She's on the way big fast. We're gonna chop it. Whatever. That's good that you bring it up. Because how do y'all think money

affects a relationship? Because that a lot of times they say Niggers lose their mind on their women. They day one down women at their peak. What's the ship? They'd be saying on social media. Man is loyalty is tested when he has all the money, and man's loyalty is a woman's loyalty is tested when she has nothing, but a man's loyalty is testing when he has everything. That's a perfect example of the money. So how they think that money affects relationships and ship? Did the money change

the person who wasn't getting the money. Can't always say it changed the person who was getting the money. No, But what I'm saying bank like, you could get so much money to run your own lady crazy double it back bro the when and the woman got they're just regular living right. I two situations. Now, the nigga has millions, meaning as in, he has all the cards, the jury orders of the ship. He can go play harder. Will he still be loyal? Now? The woman on the other

end is like, we don't hit hard times. We funked up. Now she's gonna sit through them hard times or she's gonna start thinking, I could be with this nigga and I have to go through this hard times but just passed? Right? What is going on in these years like you're talking about you're talking about beforehand or now I'm talking about today? My nigga man, the holds man, that bank road getting low? What they say, you damn if that? If that, if

that money get loaded? What they say nah? What she's like, Hey, don't see it? Sales? If the money, if the money go uh the money, yeah, if the money go this puts it going single? That shouldn't just come up out of nothing they didn't come up on old goddamn nigga. Them girls was expired by that. They see that going

on every day. We have got to the bottom of it. Yes, if you know, if if you if you become extremely poor or you become extremely rich, it shows your true colors because the woman wasn't never down with you in the first place. Because I'm not leaving my nigga just because he went broke. You're one of periods. You're unique. We're gonna figure that out facts what I'm saying. But what I'm saying half out of a thousand to be that's very important shot. But I don't say it to

be fair to the women too. Like if if if that woman was down with you, which you didn't have ship like clean draws, nothing, then when you get the millions of them billions, you're supposed to treat her as the queen she is that stood with you to become that. But I think if a nigga, if a nigga in that situation like that, right, nine times, would they married or just a boyfriend girl friend? If you're married and you, y'all was she was fucked up. You was funked up

before you came up. She diuldn't get some of that anyway because we no prenum me right right, no post, no pre no that real ship. So y'all already you already an old he had that money anyway. But if you just got a nigga, like I said, man, you gotta read the signs. Lady, you see, so you gotta be going up. We can't know ladies and gentlemen like if at the end of the day, what are you doing? Why this person is kiming a millions? But what the

funk are you know? That's what I'm said. I have to be real because I got sisters to teach me this type of ship. They could be supported and putting everything into bank and not doing that own ship because they just loved banks so much that I got to help you get the way. But if you're hipping me to get me what I'm going, I ain't got You're on the payroll. Ain't listen. That love makes you do stupid ship, just like love and all that ship love

making stupid. I feel like if if, if if I ever was to go separate ways when my wife whatever, you can deserve whatever you get. The reason why I grant for this ship was fun, my family, my kid. Well, so bit you can have half of that money, Like how do you need to be acting when they when need when he gets me to somebody getting that money. And there's been that now I can see now if I met you up, I met you up and then

it's all kind of knock tom. But we don't came from goddamn kids to goddamn sleeping on floes together eating sardines and ship and all that. You deserve this regardless. It's a situation and for female is down with a nigga for let's say, tend them better. But but you got some female we don't know the situation because you've got some females been with a nigga but holding her nuts on this nigga in the relationship. True, you know

what I'm saying. True, Like we were just talking about the other day about the okay, just because you did certain things for me while I was down, you still it was mentally abusing these people and telling these people not really believe that's a different one. Your person hold you down and that's yeah, that's something else. But if y'all just in a bullshit that relationship all the time

the outside, I just don't know. The relationship was no bullshit. Yeah, but it's like, Okay, there was something going on that made you stay in that relationship. So what did you do to this bit to make her talk down on your treat you however you did for all these many years and make you stay. I think I think people be frustrated with the other person's it's just lack of progression,

not even that. It's just, man, if you round a different person, I mean, if you round up another person like you and another person trying to be one y'all don't know each other, flowers, I don't know everything about each other. So it's certain ships you could do and say to that person to make them feel like you would exploit that. You get what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying. Looking at you like some bullshit because you just don't tell her the truth, vulnerability or whatever.

You get what I'm saying. It's like, man, that ship that's the hardest in the real trying to be like a relationship for a longer time. It ain't, but it is, you know what I'm saying, Because at the end of the day, how are you not going to agree with the person. I mean, how you how are you not gonna disagree with people? And some people take arguments too fun and some people take you know, what, agreement to fun? What do I believe you? What you think? I mean?

I think, like I don't know, Like that relationship ship, it just gets really tricky because, like Scream said, it's all about vulnerability, but like it's all kind of like

factors that play into that ship. Like if the people that are trying to be together have been through some ship, or if they've been cheated on a lie to before they got with the person that they went now and they got that in the back of their mind, like they're emotionally scarred and they can't they just can't, you know what I'm saying, get it together because of like other factors outside of like whatever's going on, Like that ship,

that relationships, it is crazy that it's really for the birth. Yeah, that's we're gonna We're gonna have a whole another show about that. Chop some of that ship off to as as you get money and you come up, just stick stick to um your morals, That's all I ask. If you're getting money, stick to your morals, you're gonna change, something's gonna money. Stick to your morals. But maybe people like this is what I keep trying to get y'all

to see. Sometimes people well display their true morals, their true value until they can comfortably and the money makes it easy. You get what I'm saying. So so you'll be looking at the moment like they actually change, but they actually was doing business being being who they needed to be to get where they were trying to go. At the same time, we're looking at you, looking at a person as a friend, and they're looking at you

as an opportunity. And it's a science that it's a sigence to coming up, but it's a bigger science to staying up, you know what I mean. But who's to say when that person turned into whoever then they is for real, they won't stay up. What I'm saying is like, you can never see a person change if you never really truly knew him. Yeah, that's true. The person where I thought you, well, I thought this because this may be the hand you showed me on the hand or put on the other shoot I made to show your

hand that I was this person. But I could could be this person on the inside. I agree. You know what I'm saying. I agree. Like so when we're saying the person change, oh, the motherucker might still be like ship, what chang fool? But he didn't change? What change about bank? What would change about Jade? If there was a billion dollars to your access? Access okay, access totally nothing else like And then you're gonna probably take that some kind of way because you can't just keep me on the

phone or whatever. You can't just do it that face. You gotta go through ten different people. The ninth person is gonna get you to someone. You know what I'm saying, because that's that's the only way you're gonna get peace. Bro.

If you just control the assets that the world have on to you, You get what I'm saying, Like if it because you think every time you try and get so rich, your phone ring and and it's never even though you up financially, it's never for nothing that not most times out of none that to help you is not to check on you, is for what they need at think and then if if if it's if it's

something that's if you somewhat the other importance. Get what I'm saying, you're gonna have the right people to get in touch with it, to get in touch with me. That's just how it goes. But if it's some I don't give a funk what you could be calling me about. You could be on fire, I wouldn't you You're not gonna be to get in touch with me. You won't saying so people will probably be like, that's some false

ship switch stuff. Yeah, any switch stuff. Can't get any on phone, Like somebody ere working on Instagram ain't knowning you can't talk to him unless you want to be talked to. How how How is that some funk? If that's how you how you at peace? If you get what I'm saying, That's what I'm saying. Like people gonna always have an opinion on whatever you do. How did that some funk? She could? That's the way I sleep?

But that's the way you got them. That's that's that's that's helped in my health because instead of me just saying, you know what, I want to talk to you, bro, you got a negative vibe, I don't fuck you. Instead of me just saying that, I just do it my way and just hey man, I'm gonna control my piece I don't even I don't wanta talk nobody, so I want to talk to him. I check on not saying I cut you out to the point, but the access, Bro, that's what that's what I get. That's what I guess. Um,

I totally agree. Like he's saying you got a billion dollars. No, that's what I'm saying that. Like I know if I had a billion dollars, like a lot of places that

I go now, I'm not gonna be able to go. Um, And it's no like offense to the people that are in those places that I go to, but it's just like I just know I'm not gonna be able to do that, So I'm gonna have to figure out something else to occupy my time or you know, like you in knowledge on your way to being all all that, She's gonna changed anyway, Bro, you going on unless you like hit the lottery or something like that. It's over night ship. But if you yeah, if you work on

that ship. Yeah, like you said, that's gonna be changed anyway, because you can't reach certain others of heights without changing some ship like dedicate we're all already ever be Yeah, you can't go to the top. If I didn't get a bigion being banked, I would have been had that motherfucker right, damn show been thought my grand was a being all the grand Yeah, so I would already have it. Like certain ship, you gotta meet certain people that you just gotta do. Certain ship and that ship came on

a lot. So at the end of the day, how can you just how can you even though I get what you're saying, like, do it make a nigga just want to be like, but you gotta think some niggas is it's way they hold time and ship on niggas, you know, I mean the niggas it is like that. It's crazy when people think about that. You don't know what they think about. We'll never know what the nigga thinking about for all those years, Like I can't wait to get exactly they don't say. You never know, like

and it could be self country. It could just be just you know what I'm saying. It's like I say, anything you buy is just to say when I pull up in their mother and the body nigga faith when he holds he did who woo? That just that just I don't do a who you could be got them, whether the tree and all the corporations you could be got damn with the niggas. Who's selling them um testes

the ship? You can beat them. Niggas, they still when they pull their yalled up next to goddamn such and such and such and such corporation, they still want to be like, wait did they see them? And just human nature, you know what I'm saying. But some people just got it bad to the point of I just want to light on me at all time and showing the gas so and then the people. Some people go look at that ship as shit. But that could have been my motivation. That could be what keep me going, like I try

to look at everybody point man. That's what they told me. Wait till I get my money right right like Kanye West, who don't feel like that though, Yeah that's true, but I just that don't be my motivation. Don't be more so let me get it so I can shoot on people more than it is. Let me get it to help people. That's just man. Nigga is motivated by his haters. Nigga is motivated by the is motivated by his haters.

I won't give a fun motivated. You don't say as a man, as a man, you motivated to for I don't mean I'm taking to take care of your family, But that don't mean I'm controlled by them and they got to show them nothing. But see, the thing is like, that's cool to be motivated by your haters and everybody is true enough, But when you live your life based off of that, you're never truly happy because every time

you do something, you're not doing it for yourself. You're doing it for the applause or for the recognition of somebody else. Yeah, you're right, you're right, you're right, you're right about that. But what I'm saying is that might if that's your only motivation, then you don't never be happy. But if that's a part of your motivation, and you know what I'm saying, you know, you gotta get some money,

little because this is what I want this baby. But what I'm saying that ship is a small part of everybody. Though I don't give a funk what I need to say. You want to go, damn, It's just like it's just like a class reunion. You to find a bit in school back then you you're trying to them exercise always to attack because you want to look like what you look like in school when you go to your class reunion,

I'm gotta contact for I'm trapping your class reunion. All right, Yeah you want you don't want to go back to your classroom. You get sucked up. You want to go back like hey, y'all thought I want it, but I'm in for sure. That's what I'm saying. Ain't saying that

show everyday motivus. So all right, So when you come to your class union right now from high school and the folks see DJ screen pull up, you pull it up in your wieks, You pull up with your beautiful wife and DJ screen big facts, but rich, I'll know what it is you and the nigga say you change because you're coming in. Yeah, No, I get it, that I get I'm just saying that there are some people that wrong, No, that could be perceived as you. Hollywood

and TV. Now, if you put on stage and you got a luxury card and you look and you're know you're on TV, You're gonna have such a you have a TV back, want nia look at your back? They're back gonna be moving like you on TV And Nick and Nigga just gonna look at you like because they're gonna look at you different like, but gets on. That's on the audience though, that's not like, that's not on screen. That's just on on nigga's being insecure and niggas already

having act of jealousy. But you ain't gotta like of a pep in your step from your accomplishment. I'm supposed to fun. That's what I'm saying. That that could be received at some bulls. You'all gonna agree with this, right, And we're not talking about like some of the coolest most down the earth motherfucker's I've ever met are I'm not talking about rich people. I'm talking about the wealthy motherfucker's. Like I'm talking to them and it's like, this ship

is unreal. See what I'm saying. I don't think they're motivated by let me put on this chain because back fin a walking room, I'm talking about wealthy man when they go, when they go, because it ain't I can't flake on the screen. Nigga, shut up. But we're not going need board meetings. We need mother who got the same kind of manage me and been competing competing against me to try to buy pelps in we compete and

doing all this Now I'm finish. Niggas, when when this ship come out, when you noone's come out at the top of the year. Who's still standing up though? Facts beat what to do? Not the boy who just beat the man for the got the most money now, ain't got a chap pot that. Yeah, even though even though it's we still can do busines together, we're sticking whatever, but there's still a sense of competition and everything. And one could be looking at the other as he thinks

he is. But I do think I'm that because I am. I'm doing that. I can't argue with that. I ain't, but I ain't trying to convince you that. You know what I'm saying. Like what I'm saying is it's always it's perception. Is all this ship is perception? Everything is awful. But another person thing I could think I could look at this person get motivated by him, like yeah, what he doing instead of I could look at it like anybody that's in the same line as you, you damnit

in the competition with him. No matter what the niggle want to say, no matter what the nigga want to say, because it ain't never one number one spot facts, So trying to get the number one spot and nigga could receive any of this ship, I'll try to be Joe Rogan though, Yeah, number one. You get what I'm saying, like the real the real number one of all that ship, like the check number one, that that one, Like, you get what I'm saying. You don't play that, You don't

play the game. You don't play the game to be number two. So you think he ain't got his chess pope that is I run this podcast. What I'm saying is I think definitely is he wrong for that? Though didn't he work hardly man got them there? Two thousand episode? Yeah, but I think the I think I think sometimes the nigger chess poking is just much more irrelevant than the real chess poking. Meaning that's I'm gonna go buy some ship only when you live facts. You see what I'm saying. No,

but niggas ain't flexing on them. They're flexing on niggas and they leading. It's a different levels to this ship. Like you know what I'm saying. Yeah, nigger ain't even flex on a nigger like that. I don't even know them. I don't know them yet. You know what I'm saying, that's the nigga I'm saying acting funding because I conflict

some niggers up nder me. I'm saying ever about over me acting hunting, right, You get what I'm saying, right, Oh damn, I wouldn't do it because you don't always say you wouldn't do it like another motherfucker, because everybody, everybody got their own stories that said about telling me like all this she doing? Like, you can't say that ship ain't gonna work. You know, I start saying that, I'll be looking at nigga, i'd be right now, a lot of time, a lot of ship to be wacked out,

that ship wat where it don't work. But now I believe it making work benefit of benefit. If you just keep going and making work, I don't doubt. Hey, man, who am I to judge? Get your own thing? Who am I to judge? Get your money? Like? How can I judge you for being arrogant? How can I judge

you for being whatever you are? Like? How because I got my own ways what I'm saying like, and I might not You're gonna have a different attitude, but you have a different attitude when you get your hell cut you have you can not have a hell cuting you to be regular. You got your hell could you got damn acting different? The same way with that one where they healthy, they nailed up and all that that button on, they're looking they're kind of looking shorter, you know, get

head and they got that ship. Man, it's a perking that ship. Bro. You get what I'm saying. Oh, so you're gonna say, oh, you're acting different because your health now you are. You're trying to be seen like you might. You might catch a woman and strow when they ain't name the party, might have a hood on a mask, you know what I'm saying, And tipping in, tipping in, tipping off when they know they got that thing. You know what I'm saying is what it is you can

see them? So now you're acting different cause like I don't get that ship though, Bro, it's just certain ship come with certain ship. Yeah, tripping away, bro, as crazy as that sounds, certain ship come with certain ship and you gotta know what come with that ship exactly like you can't I get what you're saying. Like do people let search ships define them? Like? Okay, now you like search ship give you more confidence that the money gonna

definitely give you more confidence. You're generally happy, right, You're happy. You get really fucking rich, you're happy er right. I truly believe that. Let's not even speak it, but if you got extremely rich and they had to go back to it being extremely poor, you would still be happy. See what I'm saying. Some people depression this that we see it. We see what Hollywood stars they can't handle

the swings of the up to swallow them. They ain't better keep grinding, man, because that is a hard peal to swallow. To go from. It can happen like the third million all to nothing, that can happen. We see it. No, definitely it's happening. We've seen it. What you asked was does money or poverty to show your true character? I say both both. That's the answer. That's what we haven

say both. It depends on the person. You know what I'm saying, Because like I said, you could be dead ass broke with no money, no nothing but your thief at heart, but you never seen nothing that's worth stealing. You know what I'm saying. You could be a thief at heart. I ain't gonna show his hand to his worth stealing something like I can't believe this ain't never stolen fifty year? Didn't he just stole a five hundred thousand from me? Yeah, it won't work me exposing the

real me? You get what I'm saying, Like, you can never say what's the real person? And toil they show you who they is? You say all day, man, I know my girl won't never do this until you see it with a Johnson in them out real ship though you like, no, I hate like, bro, you don't don't say that, bro, Like just say you pray that never happens. Worswer my brother, Big Bank, we got Candy joined us today on Big Facts. You know she's gonna chop it up real good with us. Make sure your visitors online

Triple w dot Big Facts pot dot com. Let's go the whole truth and nothing but the live for first class sounds. It's time for another edition of Big Facts. Is the voice of DJ screen right here. Big Bank is right, baby, Jade, I'm just seeing it through recorner Man that billion dollars smile. But we have a special guest in the building. Oh my gosh, I can't even call you a hustle. I'm gonna call you an entrepreneur.

You have makeup, you have restaurants, you have a catalog of music, you have sex toys, you have acting, you have spinoff shows, you have touring, you have all the money. You're getting on it. Let's get up for candy facts. How you doing, Candy? I'm good? How you doing? Thank you for pulling up on us. We've been trying to get you for some time. You know what I'm saying. You know you're like family to us all especially you know what I mean. Bank you I got a history.

So welcome to big fact. I think we're gonna have some so fun today. Thanks for having me so so so give everybody. I guess let's talk about entrepreneurship a little bit. Everything that I said is it is factual. Like those are businesses that you have. You have makeup, you have three restaurants in Atlanta. Okay, you got sex toys? Are they like in the sex toy stores? And I gotta order them online? Um? Well, we used to be in some sex toys stores, but now you order them

online or from one of our consultants. So we have over five thousand consultants across the country and we kind of like on some merrication. Yeah. Ok so you either have like the home party consultants or now people have like online parties or you can get them, okay, and then you also have UM there was something that was crazy that you have. What's a party that you do? Oh? The dungeon, the candy dungeon? What what? What? What go

First off, what goes on in this candy dungeon? I don't know about this candy dungeon For starters, Well, it's just like wild over the top basically UM burlesque slash variety show. You know what I mean, dump it down. It's hard to explain because it's no sexually charged or sexually charged definitely UM and then anybody on some domination. It's domination, but it's like live performances, so we have artists that come and perform. But it's a mix of things.

It's not a party wingers party like it. See, it's alway's confused. A lot of people don't know what they expect when it comes. So it's like a concert slash um. How do you come dressed? Encourage all the people that come to the show to wear as little as you would like to win, okay, but then by that some

people come in their regular close. But it's more fun when you come dressed in you can come in, but jumpers you can come in, Lingerie, you can come in you know, uh Dominatrix and we come like this, We're gonna look awkward with our hoodies. And it depends like some cities, you know, everybody don't always participate, so you know it'd be something had to crowd being their costumes, has had to crowd b whatever. But then some kids some cities, people go all the way out. So everybody

we're in there dressed overtopping. Wow, and that makes it more fun, you know what I mean. Yes, I've told it to Yeah. Me and my husband we were have promoted a tour. We actually did um well when we toured across country. We did have just sharp on the last time. He was our co promoter. Um help. He just helped us get the venues because sometimes you know, when you are a new promoter, sometimes the venues be

hating on you. I'm sure you understand that. So um to locking in all the venues, we did have to bring in a big dog to help us get all the meanings we wanted. But um, yeah, we did everything ourselves. So yeah, the same thing with the pay you did to play yourself to right, we did that with the play. We did it ourselves just in Atlanta, and then we had signed it over to another promoter and that's when it messed up up. And that's what I learned my

lesson that first time around. And so the next time around when we did the Dungeons for we was like, we never wanted to do another tour again unless we were our own promoter. And so that's how we end up being our own some promoter for the Dungeon tour. But yeah, so anyway, can you know you was the first female like to be noticed, like one of the first females to be noticed as a boss, like real ship after real nip, like after you came, you know, because you brought it to TV. So it's like the

actual female boss like a hustler. You know. That's funny because it wasn't like it was in tensional. I know that I'm just saying you was already doing what you was doing, But it's like, do you feel like you inspired women? Though? I think well now looking back, yeah, I guess yeah for sure. Um, I get a lot of women who say that. So now I recognize that I do inspire women, and so you know, now I make it a point that when I do stuff on the show, I always try to be a person of

my word and I try to make it happen. Like I don't like to just be on the show just talking about ship. Like if I say something, I want you to actually see it happen. Like I hate when people be on TV talking about, Oh, I want to do this, and you never see it come together. You never see it come to life. Like I don't never want to be just on there talking about some stuff

and you don't never see it come together. Like if I start talking about something at the beginning of the season, I want to have something actually come together, whether it's a sample or something of substance, happened by the end of that season. Yeah, that makes sense because they used when you first came on show, everybody know Canny got money. There was all the girls just say you remember we went to the first the first the opening, Uh, when your first um, you know what y'all had had the

debut ship? When when your first season and then when they showed you everybody, Well, yeah, and the whole city like remember that ship. Yeah, the very first first season was yeah, yeah, that's funny. What you know what the funny thing is, Before I got on this show, I didn't really think that many people knew I had no money like that, like to be for real, because I felt like I was always pretty low key, like I didn't really like you buy a lot of big stuff.

I didn't spend big you know what I mean, Like I had a house, but I didn't buy like a huge house, you know what I'm saying. I didn't buy a out of jewelry. I had a decent car. I wasn't buying big, big cars or nothing. So I remember even time he used to be like, Cann, if I had your money, I'd be bawling on these like that. So I never really when I would go to the club, I would always go with y'all. I would go with

people sitting in the section. It wasn't like I was buying my own section, buying it out of My point is like I never thought nobody thought I really had money like that. Understand we've had Cannon, like y'all need to be like niggles y'all got candy. Yeah, yeah, but I was like, y'all gotta understake Candy is candy that she comes from, all that she's she knows what's going on. What's going on Candy from Escate. Now you see what I'm saying, Like this is like people could just do

music and be successful. We looked on TV like, oh, she actually doing it. You think what I'm saying. So it's a different perception for some people. In fact, no, they was she's to be a tosh. Yeah, even like people people don't be feeling like like people on her level, like as high as she is and with all the ship that she's accomplished, they don't think that she knows how to come back down the same way like Monica.

Like Monica goes to all the same places. She'll pull up on me a crucial or you know what I'm saying, wherever, like the most down to our person ever in the world. But people just see the the glitz and don't understand that like these are real deal, real human beings. Feel like that's real Atlanta ship too. When you're really from Atlanta. You want to kick it in Atlanta, like that's what you work hard and got successful. I want to go kick it in the city. I want to be regular,

like ye want to go wherever I want to go? Yeah, back and then me and Monica used to ye in the wall Southside okay all the time? Right um yeah, man, I just feel like, you know, when I got on the show, I just feel like all that it's got put out there really heavy. There. Oh she got all this money and it is, but I feel like it got put out there real heavy because to me, like just being somebody that was just watching the show with you, in comparison to the rest of the wives or whatever.

You I don't want to say we're the only one that really had some ship going on, but you were like one of the only ones that really had some tangible ship going on that you could go touch like hey, I have actually done this, or I actually have this business, or hey, bitch, I gotta grammy or you know what I'm saying whatever, Like nobody, like everybody else kind of

was just like a wife like real ship. Like they started going up, though, Like do you feel like it was pressure you put pressure on yourself by people started saying like Kenny got this is doing this, doing that, you think you put more pressure on yourself after that, because it's like you had three different you gotta think him, uh, for the car handler had three different eras, like as a child, as a young adult, and as an adult fool. You know what I'm saying, Like each one, each one

of those times, like you reaventage yourself. Yes, well, I think that's the important though. To stay in the game. That's the key to Longevin. That's the key to Longevin. You have to readmit yourself, like, Um, you can't stay the same and stay relevant. You can't, you know what I mean? Um, you know, people stop caring at some point. And I always tell everybody, nobody cares what you used to be used to body cares, like nobody cared what

you accomplished before. Nobody cared what you did. It does not matter as soon as you did it, So you know what I mean, it's like something else now And it's so it's like, Um, I remember my cousin told one of my cousins on me a long time ago. We were sitting around. It's a lot of time ago. She said, Uh, used to bees don't make no honey, So don't nobody care what you used to be. Like, Okay, but that shi's stuck with me, you know what I mean? Because I was like, that ship is real? You know

what I mean? Because you know people always be If you ever really be around somebody that was super hot that ain't hot, no mode, they always man, we used to be blah blah blah. Man. Remember we used to be like a jail Yeah ye a thousand times. Yes, they just want to run back to how we used to be up. Yeah. Do you feel that once you fear that no, you always do something. Yes, you know what I'm saying, Once you fear being that person, like I listen, I have that fear. I have that fear, man,

I have that fear. So for me, I have that figure constantly. I am always trying to figure out what's my next move. Always when I'm in my current move, I'm thinking about what's my next move. And I'm always like, okay, this whatever I'm working on right now, like whatever's hot right now, whatever I'm being celebrated for today is what I worked on last year, what I worked on last month.

So is if I ain't got something that I'm working on right now, then I ain't gonna have nothing coming out next week, next month, next year, you know what I mean. I gotta consistently be working on something new to keep it going, you know what I mean. And so that's why I'm like, I'm always like Aunty, We're trying to figure out what's next, what's next, what we're doing, what we're doing with me, you know what I mean?

Speaking on some real Atlanta ship. How you feel about the Water Boys, Candy, Like when you see the water Boys, if you whip up like you do you contribute to their cause? Or are you scared on now because they've been on some bullshit like the water Okay, So at first I was like, oh, this is dope, like they're really, you know, entrepreneurs. And now now I'm annoyed. I'm like, find a new hustle, like shit is oh now, y'all they don't want this hut Like this ship wore out.

Y'all need to move on to the next hustle, like you know how when they wear that hustle out, and this time for the next move like this world, this hustle is well out, y'all need to move to the next. They don't mess it up for y'all, Like from the one I live off Cascade. What was it last year when they gonna shot somebody like y'all Come on, now, this is not it like we can't do it them all. But as an entrepreneur and hustler, what would you suggest

maybe that reinvent yourself. Reinvent yourself. Okay, don't say the water something else, something good, you know, not the water be hot. I don't even care. I'm over the need to keep the label on the water. You ain't even pretending no more. You ain't even trying to keep a cold like no. And so now like that, you're in the mind frame of always wanting to evolve and elevate and do something new and always happen to have that next thing going on. Were you in that same mind

frame when you wrote No Scrubs and builds Bills Bills? Um? Well, okay, back when we did No Scrubs, I was um I was a hustle over for real. Yeah, hustle mode for real because um our group was breaking up at the time. Okay, okay, so our group was falling apart. We knew one of our group members was supposed to be doing a solo album and um I had told Tiny we was working on a third album, but we knew that once that third album released, that was it. Yeah, we was gonna

be on a height all right. Yeah. So I told Tiny, I was like, Yo, we need to you know, will do it project. And and I was telling her less like, you know, write our own stuff and present it to the label so they can see the vision. Right. So, um, we had started writing with producers and stuff for our demotate for ourselves, and No Scrubs was one of the songs that we did for ourselves. So it was supposed to be a cat project Kiddy and Tiny, So that's

what No Scrubs was. And um, when we had so Shakespeare was one of the producers that we had worked with for ourselves. And I had just kept you know, at the time, like I said, I was on hustles. I was just like trying to stay in the studio. So I was like kept writing with them. I would call I be like, yo, let's go to the studio. When she'd be like, well, what we're writing is it for us? I'm like, okay, what's for Let's just go to the studio. And she was like, nah, you knowin'

for us? You know, like sometimes she would come sometimes, you know and be like, well, you know, let me know, you know what we're doing or whatever. And so I was just writing at that point, just to be writing, even if it wasn't for us. And um, he had just got a publishing deal. They invited him to go to work with Destiny's Child and he asked me to go. I went, and you know, and that's all she wrote

from there. Okay, cold speaking speaking of music, now, preservation self preservation, Tell we have you both here and talk talk a little bit about the process of creating. Try it out, like how did that happen? Did you hit her that she had shot together, like recorded the house,

you recorded at her house? Okay, yeah, but I was I was over the spot with a j went back at your studio from the old house yet with the stud Yeah, yeah, recorded the song then was like until can come this and Ship like that's it whatever, went to password the next day and recorded it right ship m Yeah that I ain't smoking my blood. They can you to be crying with you to be running the vans and the front of the ship smoking. You know, I ain't smoking the blood. But you probably one of

the few people I'll put it out for you. Dropped me off, dropped me out. You've been drop me off smoking too, But I hate it. Well, you're so accomplished like yourself. You know what I'm saying. You already said what drives you? But what can we expect next? Like what what's What's some things you haven't conquered yet that you just like, I gotta conquer this ship. Yeah, I guess I'm going to do a book one day, but like, my story ain't done yet, right, I feel like my

story is dag it. But um, yeah, eventually I want to do a book. I really want to do the whole fictional series, though I think that would be dope. I'm really going hard at this acting thing right now. I was just about to say that you ain't being on bullshit you like you snapped on the shot that you know what I'm I'm had it back. Um actually in a couple of weeks to go back to Chicago to um start on season four. So I'm excited abous hard. Yeah,

So I'm going hard on that. I've been doing a lot of auditions to do more and um, actually my husband and I were trying to produce some stuff I can't wait to this damn COVID ship go away so we can do some more too. Yeah, you want to produce in the way, we want to produce some films and stuff ourselves as well. Um and man, take over this internet stuff as well. We have you have I haven't been, um no, but not yet. Man, it's just

too much. There's so much stuff that we need to be on now that it's something like, you know, I got a hundred advices. Let's tell you what happened on my white clubhouse experienced. So nobody told me what club house was, right. They just kept saying, get on clubhouse, get o clubhouse. So I kept getting these advices, and one person told me that if you don't accept it

that you may not get another invitce or something. So I was like, okay, let me go on to make my profile, my profile, because you know how some time to people take your names. Yeah, let me make my profile before somebody steal my name. So I'm making my name, and all of a sudden, I get all these damn texts like you need to hurry on mona. Yeah, she texted me, And next thing I know, I'm like here somebody talking to me, so I like, I said, like, you can't hear me. I didn't realize it was a

phone call and people was talking. Yeah, yeah, it's like I didn't know. It was like a whole phone, like a whole like three white call, but like with the masses. I was like, oh no, no, no, no, and it was like, yeah, we're trying to welcome you, and I was like, no, I wasn't trying to talk right now. I was trying to make my profile. I wasn't really trying to talk to me all right now. And it was like, no, we're trying to make it big, like we wanted to welcome you, and I said no, no,

I was trying to watch a movie right now. But I was just trying to hold my name. And it was like, well, we got to welcome you. Come back and we're gonna let us know we can welcome you. And yeah, okay, well we're gonna do this another time. So I had hungle. But I was like because I was like, this isn't what I was trying to do tonight. What this this? She was cool at first, though, hear me out, Yeah she got burnt quick. You ain't been made. No, I ain't go back say to go. I was like,

I don't want to be on there. Everybody could hear me, and then people was hearing me up later that was so funny. You thought she was like you didn't know was on the phone call? Like what it was random? People like can't hear me? I didn't know that, like or something. Yeah, that was too much for me. I don't want you to just hear me talking about you can mute it though you got five thousand and be moderators. Yeah that should be. Don't worry five thousand moderators, Like

who the fuck? Or you'd be like banking savage and I'm gonna take over people. Rooms ain't got mad. They get mad about that ship now they haven't mad. Rules like you can't like there to leach your ship if you do that now for really, like when when somebody invites you, they it'll pop up like these are these are the worlds for this room? Do you agree? And if you agree and try to do something, they'll get rid of you. I don't get it. Never mind. To me,

it sounds like it sounds like a free seminar. That's what it is. That's what that's what And you got a bunch of niggers on that line too, like you got a bunch of got good talk, good voices. Yeah, because we were on that other night. It was a nigga whose profile picture was like a four p F chain or some ship. So a little man was like you you work for baby or something, and then everybody in the room started looking at the nigga like like who are you? Who are you like? And then they're like, well,

who brought this nigga up? And then they got to the bottom of who brought this nig up? The nigga disappeared because he had in his bio he worked for Sony and R C A and he was this that and the third whatever whatever assistant the four PF blah blah blah. So goddamn, they got to the bottom of which moderator brought the nigga up and like made him able to speak and gave him a green being and all that ship. And they ended up holding court. Yeah yeah, that ship crazy try on a little man dash. It

was like a whole bunch of people. They held court for the for the moderator nigga that brought the nigga up, and they kicked the moderator Nigga off. It was just it's funny. That ship was funny, but it's like now it's kind of like give it out, greedy lady going in too. Yeah, okay, so listen, like reality TV, right, so most people who are relationships on marriages and reality TV, they probably don't make it. So what's your secret? Like, how are you able to be on reality TV and

have a successful relationship and marriage? Um, well we met TV that's number one. Okay, So it wasn't like we came in together reality We met on reality TV and he was a producer, so he knows how production works. So they can't mess us up. If we get messed up, it's because we missed the owners. You couldn't work your way up on the boards, so they don't cut you in it. Oh, I know you negotiating on the real houseband level ship. You've been on us a long list thing.

You are the chop brand, Like yeah, all right, please, They ain't never got to change that. Like Bravo is a machine man. If you say you was about to leave, you don't think they negotiate whatever you want them to negotiate? Absolutely not. Why not? Because they are a machine. They feel like they replace as quick anybody. I mean, I feel like they feel like they could replace anybody. Yeah, that's what I'm saying, you know. Um, I mean I feel like they probably could, to be honest with it's

so many people up and coming as rather. I mean, I got new girls on that right, Yeah, we got new people that. Yeah. I mean at the end of the day, that's been going for a very long time and it's and you know, they got a built in fan base that's gonna watch it no matter what. Yeah, you know, I don't. I don't feel like any of us are bigger than the show it is. They changed good, So I don't care to do should you be doing anyway,

there's the normal. It's not stripped it at all. The only thing like where people don't realize it's like okay, so we don't pick the restaurants or the trip, you know what I'm saying, So they'll pick that or like say, for instance, um, if you and I went out on a date or whatever and we was arguing and because you wanted to start your own business, then when I go and have lunch with him, then they're gonna be like, make sure you told him what which I was arguing about,

you know what I'm saying. So they don't tell me to tell us what we're gonna say, but they will. They want me to mention it, because how you're gonna keep the story going or consistent if you don't mention things that happened in the previous scene. You gotta see it play out. So it's no way you can if you just want to have random things have been all around and I think ever continuously goes on like it wouldn't make sense, so you have to have it something

be continuous. So but no, they don't tell you what to say, you know, you know as far as like verbat on, you know what I'm saying. But flashback a little bit to Tri Cities High School Candy. What was Tri Cities High School candy? Like, whoa, it's Tri City Kity like for everybody who don't know, Tri Cities popular high school in Atlanta worldwide. Okay, so wow, that was a long time ago. We know that. You know you

were singing, Yes, I was definitely singing. Okay, So Tri City when I first went and went there, it was a brand new school. They had put three rival schools together to make Tri Cities. So, um, it was a brand new building. Okay. So we had to fight every single week for the first two months, and our principal did the Joe Clark had suspend the expelled all the people at the end of the first month of school. And it was like we was on the news every week.

It was like crazy, like we had all these like crazy fights and stuff. Yeah. But like when when I went to try City, Um, it was amazing, like in my first couple of years a Tri City because like when I was there, you know, KP was there when I was there, they weren't outcast. They now they was out casting. You know, they were figuring themselves out, just like Escay was. We was there, you know what I mean. Um, you know Windo man, we go with you know what

I'm saying. Damn near everybody lived. A lot of a lot of people lived in like it's on four in the Swaths and like East Point. So I was like, yeah, that's trust you. Yeah. So it was. And I had so I went to like white schools growing up. MENI I went to hers very rich view. So my mom had bust me. Remember the minority to majority program. So I was tired of going to white schools and I

wanted to go to a black school. I was supposed to go to Creekside, but my friend wanted to audition for the performing arts program and she asked me to audition with her because so she wouldn't be by herself, and I went with her. They end up picking me. So that's how I ended up going to try to Um but I'm saying one thing. You know, I feel like everything happens for a reason. But I thank her for that because it helped change my life. Yeah, shout out to her home girl where she is, But what's

she doing now? She went on to be a teacher and so yeah, so you know, everything happened for a reason for so anyway, I ended up going to try City and it was mistnay and for me, you know what I'm saying. Um, So I was in a performing ice program. You know, I met to Mika Tasha and um tiny you know I end up meeting her later because um, she ended up coming I I ended up meeting her, I guess the summer coming into the tenth grade through to Mika Scott. But yeah, and yeah, it

just was fun. So speaking of like escape and you guys all meeting like in high school and coming together and stuff. Once you guys formed and came together. How did Jermaine come into the picture? Oh okay, so Ian Burke. I feel like I just did this interview because we did a thing about Ian Burke not that long ago, but so okay, So I'm gonna rewind back. So in ninth grade, which was a great year for me, but I was when I met my group members. Like I said,

we were singing and stuff like that. Um, all performing arts. Everything was fun n grade year. At the end of summer, end of the end of my ninth grade year. Um, you know it started, I told you, I said, we started being a group, but not I had not met In yet. My brother introduced us to and berg Um.

Shortly thereafter my brother passed away, okay, and then shortly thereafter Tiny ended up being in the group which was like the summer like I said, after in tenth grade, and then shortly there after In took us this thing for Germaine dupri Um for his nineteenth birthday. So um then he was at the time, he was still working with Criss Cross, and he said, I'll come back and

help y'all. You know sign y'all when I finished working with this group and he was like, yeah, yeah whatever, thinking bullshitting us, but he wasn't, and we went on about our business and later on he saw us. We ended up doing the performance you know when they had that what was that Team Summit show thing. Yeah, so they had their talent show thing and we did hold on by a Vogue, but we couldn't do it with

the music, so we did it. Yeah, we had a compella ship box and he said that he loved us because we was the ghetto in Vogue signed us and that's hard. Yeah. So we were trying to figure out on big factors the Grammys. We don't always understand the Grammys. When we look at some of the nominations and all that ship, we didn't we didn't wholeheartedly agree with they left a little baby out some of the nominations and

all that ship. So as a as a Grammy winner, I guess help us out with the process of this Grammy ship a little bit, like what it means to you how they come up with this ship, who wins and all that stuff, Like give us your opinion on the Grammys or some information on it. Okay. So the Grammys, So basically you have to be on the Grammy boot Grammy Committee UM to be able to vote. Um. Okay, So anybody who who everybody who is a member? Are you on the board, Well yeah, I'm in the No no, no, okay.

So it's it's weird. Okay. So one year I was actually on the board. Who the people who actually got to vote vote? So basically everybody UM votes and then I think they narrow it down and then they have like this secret group of people who votes on the top sounds like some No, no, it's like you vote on the top five. You know what I'm saying. That is what I'm saying. It's like, okay, so let me ask you this before and I'm like going, and so save for instance, here's the thing. All the people that

as in the Grammy Association or whatever. Obviously it's way more others than it is black people, right, But if you are if you don't know these names, it's a popularity contest at that point, and you're just going through voting based off of the names you recognize. So you're gonna narrow it down to five people. So when it gets the five people that we that the secret Committee get to choose from is the one that the masses

of the got narrowed it down to. So if I'm like, how come it's only these people for me to pick from? What happened to you know, this person webbing app Why you'll only put these people in? Because the majority of the people in the Grammy Association are not people who actually listen to rep music. You get what I'm saying, the same way as if I'm voting, I may not listen to classical music, but may I put in my vote for you know, the top names in the cloud?

Just voting on the name I don't know who that is. You get what I'm saying. So my question is somebody was in my comments saying that you have to pay some sort of dudes, and if you haven't paid your dudes, then you aren't even considered to be a nominee. Is that true? I guess? But yeah, I mean, I guess, but I think the artists yeah, yeah, I mean, yeah

that and that may be true. I don't even remember, But I think the main problem, like I said, is that just like the majority of the majority of the association who votes, they do not listen to rap music. So if you know, if we go in, if I log in and all the names of the rappers that are there, I'm just if I see all these names, I see a little baby, a little this little dirt, little, a little something's little stung. And I see Will Smith, Oh, I know Will Smith, I see whoever. I'm gonna vote

for the popular name. I'm not gonna vote. I'm not gonna check the name that's really pop. I'm gonna just vote for the name I know I've heard of before you get. And that goes back to the type of people that are voting, Yeah, the type they know a certain type of right, So those names get narrowed down to the top five, and then it's a group of people that are picked up. Basically, rap don't even belong

with the grammar. Basically, well, I'm saying it's just a category now, but it's not even a part, really a part of the grammar. And it's not a fair competition. Why cann't take it as to like you vote, you're voting based on popularity as opposed to the art. So whoever had the hardest or the best album or even the highest selling album, but then again, the popularity is their definition of popularity, the the pop ularity of it.

You know what I'm saying that just that goes back to how like we always say everybody has their own definition of everything, like populate, like like baby was the most popular nigga out this year, but not to the pop you learn people that are picking the popularity disregard people who aren't black or who don't listen to round Because you gotta think, all of these people are still in the music industry. A lot of you still do their research and go through the charge and say, okay,

well this person is on the charge of project. So they still you know, you know, try to you know, check a name that's you know, popular. But when when it gets down to that group, that secret group, those people are voting based off of different things. So let me, I'm gonna just say from my experience when I got put in the secret group. So the secret groups are split up, right, so each group may get different categories.

I don't remember that year, I might have got R and B album with you, or I'm pop Artists of the Year whatever whatever. So in my group, I may have had a person who was an engineer, a person that was this, the person that was blah blah blah blah. We all different backgrounds, but we in this group together and we all trying to vote. But they're they're voting based off a different thing. I'm a vote because oh that was a badass out this person out of the

die or their vocals were so dope. And this person he's an engineer, so he's based off of the I can hear they use too much auto tune, they used blah blah blah. Everybody's voting based off of different things, you get what I'm saying. And so that was what happened in my experience, and i'd ever even I thought about how people based their votes. You know what I'm saying, Yeah, that's good information about the ground whatever, because it was kind of and they just stayed just black other ship.

But now when you when you make it, when you when you the way you may broke it down made sense. Like de folks don't they know music? Okay, So so I might be listening for the snare, I might be a producer listening to you know what I'm saying, not get it. Everybody's voting based off of what it is like speaking speaking on what it did? They like, what's on candy playlist? Right now? Who? What you ride to? What you're working out? Oh yeah, she snapped, she snaps,

what I just taket? Y'all like we need to do a relationship episode with her because she went berserk for real, for real, Like y'all think the just that they're going on Instagram is talking about some ship. Go listen to Jasmin and Solomon. Go listen to Jasmin Soloman. Yes, oh no, I was saying, what made you decide to do? Why not? Screen kept pushing Now he confirmed it because we was

already talking about doing one. Because I just see, like, isn't making make that's it's uh yeah about now when you're gonna be turk you get what a lot of your ship be looking like? I thought you was already doing that though with to speak on it. Oh well, I mean yeah, through the sight and all of that. Yeah, but we're talking about oh yeah yeah yeah, say can they sit on can she about to cry? Well, it was cracking so fast. I can't control it, like she

could be talking about some regular ship. Just start cracking up like she filling that up. You know, it's so funny, like I cannot control it, and I don't know why I'd be doing it. It makes me so mad, man,

I don't know why i'd be doing it. My funniest, my funniest Candy moment was when you and oh girl were It was like, this was like in the beginning of the like the seasons or whatever, and y'all were have something like art gallery or some ship, and you were like, you better leave me alone before I ain't somebody that point I'm to my life. She could be

having a regular conversation. No, but she does that on the reunions, like and you know, like she's been a blow like blow you know what it was, Oh that,

I know what you're talking about. Though, to go back to that one, because that was that ship was like that was your first real blow up on the show, Like you know what it was for me though, I had gone the whole season without together any arguments or altercations, altercations, and you know, I had her and say little chokes and saying I was, you know, get over whatever, like jokes in here and there, and so I was trying

to like keep my cool the whole seasons. I was thinking like okay, so right at the end, she made me go there and I was like that I was I was man, I had my little popcorn. I was like, man, Candy gonna beat this bitch. Man. I was so mad at myself because I have my fingers crossed, like please, you're the last one and we can look up to

they don't do. I was so mad at my socks all like damn, Now she don't made me have down go to this other side on TV because everybody, everybody was like, don't be a part of that show and make black people look bad. They was saying black people look bad on TV reality. So I was trying to do my best not to go on there and I was bad for black Like now she got me over here acting a fool. I was like, damn. I was

so mad. It was a mess. Dude, do whatever you d got you do, got that goddamn on funk what you face though, like on them girls, like you got one of them faces right this ship until it go Like I'll be like, can go in getting into it with her because I can see she don't like her. Dame. When you get in your confession area, when you're getting your confession area, you say so she in the way you ship you laugh at I could offend on people. Yeah, I don't be trying to offend. Just say that. I

just said. I just know I deal with targes, so I already know, like it just unnnoyingly unnormally. Yeah, it's unnormally. I guess it's just it's just in them, like to be like some faces all this ship. We can't control it. It just happens it. I saw Instagram. It said it was like a little it was like a little girl and another little thing or whatever, and they said, I didn't the teacher was. The teacher was telling her, I didn't realize that you were this shady, and the little

girl said, yeah, I made all a's in school. I love to read. I know Kennie would laugh at me. I don't give it's okay. That ship was funny, but we probably gotta see it right, right, we probably have to see that it's okay, it's all right. But another thing that I wanted to ask to, like coming from a female perspective, and I know like a lot of females deal with this and you know have had experiences with this. I want you to speak on your experience

with the in vitro fertilization and the surrogacy. As far as like your pregnancies and stuff, we're concerned. Okay. Um, well, so basically, you know, obviously I had Riley without out even trying. Okay, so she just came on up. I didn't think I was gonna have problems get bregnant, you know, like, Um, I did have fibroid issues in my thirty Oh okay, okay, okay, so that's what like, yeah, okay, so later I did not know I had scar tissue from the fibroid surgery

and what does that like, what does that mean? Because I've always wondered about that. So fibroids are like tumors that and it's more prominent in black women. Did they hurt? Well, they can cause you to have serious cramping, heavier periods. Um. They can have different um effects effects and different women, you know. So anyway, Um, so I had fibroid issues in my thirties or whatever, and so I did have

them removed. Um, I did not know that I had scar tissue from the fibroids and that they were causing me to not get pregnant because I wasn't trying to get pregnant right until later? Right, So okay, So after Tid and I, you know, it was together and you know, we were got we had got married, and nothing had happened. And I noticed, I'm like, okay, we never had no mistakes,

no slip ups, no nothing. Okay, And we went and you know when they do that little test or whatever, and that's when I realized that I was the reason why we weren't getting pregnant, and so um, that's when we went and we decided to go to the IVF clinic and we went ahead. And so the so, the IVF ship is a procedure that you can get done

to basically your infertility. Yeah, basically they went in there, they basically give you medicine to make you produce more eggs, and then they go retrieve the eggs out, put your eggs in the dish, take his sperm and put the eggs with the sperm and the fertilized and then put the fertilized egg back in you. So, but but when you did your um IVF procedure or whatever, didn't you

have like some leftover eggs? Yes? I did, and like then you save them, so like you have like some little babies in a thing that you can make like whenever you want them. Whoa, that's what became a Blaze's Oh okay, okay, okay, that's how she got here. Okay, cool, cool, cool, cool, that's so interesting to me. Well, everybody don't have extra eggs. Sometimes, um it doesn't work out the same for everybody. So some people may get one egg when they try. Some

people get multiple eggs. So I ended up with four good eggs. I put two in. I only got one with ace um and then I had too left. And so you have Blaze and so yeah, we did so what you did with the other one, you scrambled it. We put wet, we put the we put the two in, and only um one development we got blazes. Okay, cool cool. And when only one made it, did they give you some say song on whether or not it's a boiled girl of twins and stuff like that, when you can

you pick the gender or no? Well no, well basically what happens is no, you don't pick the gender. Whatever you get. So we ended up out of the ones that fertilized, we ended up having two boys and two girls that ended up fertilizing. So the first time they put two ben it was two boys. The two boys, the two boy eggs they put in, and then they put the two girl eggs in, but each time only one made it. So just because they put them in

don't mean that they're gonna actually make it. So so that's why you hear people trying and it doesn't work out for them, and people be really devastated because they go through this process and they don't always work. So let me ask you this, like one last question, and I'm just curious, like, so what would happen, like if they put a boy egg and a girl egg in and you can put them both in and they can

both work. But like no, but I mean, like what if like like it was a situation where like she had two boy eggs and only one of them came about? Like could it be some weird like cross breed ship, Like okay, they just look come, they'll just be twins that come. They don't cross breed, they just you know, it's like you hope that they you know, find a space in the uterus that they attached and they grow, you know, But okay, you know, either they attached and

they grow or they don't. But it's not no in between. No, okay, I get it now and I understand information on IBF from Jade Canny was next. We we really appreciate your time, you know what I mean, like you're highly sought after. You know what I'm saying that everybody wanted you on Big Factor. You won't give any motive or some game to the young female hustlers or just hustlers out there are people like any final words, oh my goodness, Uh,

go get the money. Yeah, go get the money. Um never get comfortable, keep going and don't give it down when nobody had to say about you. There you go the biggest facts once we get our button. That is the main thing that I have learned in my career because over this long span of time that I've been around the people that you know, they'd be feeling like we had it'd be the next person come and take this. But it's a constantly change of events. So just keep

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