BIG FACTS EXTRA- Live Your Life!

I'm just saying. Man, I put on the top of my partners, what's what's the word, what's on everybody mind? What's on that? What's on everybody minding heart today? Man? That's on everybody minding heart today? I gotta love all over me. Love is the way love is, Dave, I got me too, man Alight. I was asking me, queen, Oh, that ain't love that ain't love him. No, that's that's that's the way you show your love. That's how people need to understand that. Some people don't understand that. Look also,

real shit, don't just something on my mind? Was talking about it a little bit before we uh crack the mic up and the ship. But I got on that golf polo. Yeah, you know, be playing golf. Turn up the top button, top, but you gotta button the top button. Make it a fish, she showed myself. And ship. There

we go, do a whole five. Oh yeah yeah yeah, next yeah yeah, But no, man, life is a precious thing, man, And I think that we should always be grateful for each and every moment, be grateful for each and every opportunity, Be grateful for the good, be grateful for the bad, because we learn from the bad. And that's just what some of my mind, in my heart, he was talking a little bit about how life is just precious. You know what I'm saying that you shouldn't take none of

this ship for granted because it ain't promised. Yeah. Like another thing, like one thing that I learned in life is you gotta goddamn you gotta let go of all the unnecessary, like all the unnecessary shit, all the unnecessary grudges, all the unnecessary anything that doesn't make sense. You gotta let it go because at the end of the day, it's taking your time away from the ship that you really need to be paying attention to. And you could look around the corner and be out of here. Like

you're on the clock. No, you're on the clock. Like everybody need to know that on the clock. We all on a different clock scale, you know what I mean. But everybody's on the clock, so you definitely don't have time to be fucking around with the fuck around. I just made up in my mind, man, you know what I'm saying. So much shit being happening lately. Man, I just like, man, I ain't gonna get to them gates and God ask me, did I do everything I wanted

to do it? And I'll be like, nah, because of this, No, I'm doing it real shit, Yeah I'm doing I don't give a fuck whathether it like the good and the bad. If I feel like I'm do want to do it, I'm gonna do it. That makes sense. Yeah, you know what I'm saying, Like search shit, we don't do it because of other people. But don't crash out though, Nah, I don't crack it. Ain't somebody the horrible You know what I'm saying. You crash out, You just don't crashed out.

You rushing your time somebody like just say Vincent, you know how niggas be like, shit, man, like I'm saving um this, I'm you know what I'm saying. It's cool to save, but bro, I gotta spend some of this ship too, you know what I'm saying, Like you just gonna crab on yourself. You're gonna crab on yourself and then you check out. God damn you ain't what you can't get the chain had no fun with that money.

You're right about that. Sometimes I might be in the mall out then and be like, man, I'm just gonna get this, and I know I can't get this, you know, you know, you know what I'm saying, like like basically being humble, But but now number one, what if it's what if it's just though? What if it's this shit you know you just don't need and you're not getting that because no, if I want it, That's what I'm saying.

I ain't saying that for somebody else. I'm saying if I want it, just saying that if you want it. But I'm saying, what if you what if what if you can get this thousand dollars thing, but you can get this six hundred dollars item and then still fuck with your faults? You might want to fuck. I'm talking about your sign like little one nigga groan. Bro, I did that already, Bro, I got you. I'm saying it tilling to live my life. No nigga need me. I

got you. I ain't finished safe. But but but if if he needs you, and I'm not saying we just figurively speaking and you don't suck it all up on what you mean? Who that's a different he neiga groan. I can see if I had a baby now, Riley is different. That's my grand baby. Um e rate that's different. Lorainer, that's different than my grandkids. Yeah, they're gonna be spart, but a grown nigga. Yeah, Bro, you're gonna have to see what it feel like to go with out so

you won't let yourself go without speaking fast. You know what I'm saying. Like we do thirst ship, we take ourselves out of put out seven situations, you won't have to be in too. Me. It's just like right now, if I decide my potting a wake up and saying, Bro, we've been to go to Jamaica. Got them. I knew you was the guys. A nigga be like nah man because I don't want to God damn hit fuck out, I want to go. I'm gonna That's just how I feel. Yeah, that is a that is a correct way of things.

How can you not do because it end of the day, you're gonna be sitting around looking like, Man, I been Jamaica having fun with the nigga but now I don't got them. Not went trying to please somebody else. Yeah, I'm just saying, like, real shit, Yeah that makes sense. Is that selfish? No? No? But how you not gonna be selfish? And it's yourself? Like, who's gonna take care of you aside you? You don't feel like if it was supposed to just be yourself, it would just be yourself.

It would be just you. What do you mean on this planet? No, you're not understanding what I'm saying. I'm saying, Okay, I often to make you understand anything that Jessica want to need? Do you try your best? Supervise? Why you're not gonna do the same for you? Right? You damn show better be focused? But no. But but when you do that for yourself, it's called selfish. You just said this this. If she wanted to go to Jamaica, fine,

let's go baby, right. But if if RAJ want to be like bro, I want to let it go Jamaica me and you're gonna be like no because herd so who we on this? You know the word it's the word for you is conflicted. Conflicted is a word, but no, it's called sucker. I better eight years. You know what I'm saying because I'm just keeping it real. I was like this, let me get you an example. So come home, yeah right, sit down at the table and then eat her food. She does that and didn't ask you if

you wanted nothing on the way home. She at least asked you a text you bak, don't do that? Baby? You want son whatever? Whatever depends on the mood. She do what she want to do. What did you do that? What you're on the way home? You grab food? You got chante and being mindful that's what it is, Hollo. But how is that not being mindful that I'm wanna say it like I ain't saying you're a person that don't do what you're supposed to do? Yeah you do that?

Why you can't do what you want to do? So you should you if you're a nigga that do what you're supposed to do all the time. Why you can't do what you want to do sometimes? But the conversation is still gonna be like, damn, you know, I wouldn't want to want to Jamaica because it was the other way. Just went to Cobbo. But she want to go to Jamaica too. Okay, we might want to go, but we will.

So she say she already been to Jamaica. So say, I'm saying if she if she book a trip and just say, man, fucking I'm out, I'm gonna go to the Bahamas without asking you, not even bringing it up. Oh nah, that has to be discussed, That's what I'm saying. What do you mean I'm gonna discuss it. Yeah, I'm going to say I'm going with this, I'm going to Jamaica.

That's a discussion. What are you talking about? And then she may be like, okay, well when when you leave it, Okay, we're going in two weeks, all right, we'll make sure that we spend some time, some real time before you leave, okay. Okay. To me, that's that's that's just like, no, that's all that makes sense. Yeah, But but you would saying that I was a selfish life. I want to go to Jamaica. I just gotta go to Jamaica. It's basically the same thing.

You just don't like how that sound, But that's the same thing. If I say I'm going, I'm going. No, if you're going, you would like go when you leave here, you feel I will without telling anybody. Huh. I do that kind of shit, though, Bro, I call you when I get that because I don't want even want to hear it. I don't want my flight to be rough, right right, I want to go through a rough flight because I'm going. Yeah, they don't want to be swayed or nobody else shouldn't go there because I feel you,

But why we have to go through that though? When this is your life, it's your life, but you was put here. That co exists with a lot of other people. But how if me doing the right thing for me don't coinsist with you. Know, I'm just saying we were put here to have to deal with people. Okay, but think in my head when I was young, because I was like an introvert, like people man get on my nerves.

You know what I'm saying. But we gotta have what I'm saying, though, Bro, he don't understand what I'm saying that. How do you needna be snapping this shit like trying to live for other people continuously? Right like that? You obviously the nigga old men, all old men are angry, angry because them niggas been living for everybody all their lives, bro,

Like real shit, they're gonna be having no happiness. Like it's cool to provide for every about to do, but when you're gonna do something for you, nigga's gotta live the life. You know what nigga is like living life like to the fullest? Um, what's that nigga's name? Dan Bilzerian or the nigga he plays poker, the white nigga. He plays poker, but he got like he got like bitches everywhere. He's all over the every continent. He's fucking like this. Nigga's like his life is a movie in

real life. Like but it's just like he doesn't give a fuck, and he makes sure that everybody around him understands that he doesn't give a fuck, so he has to ensure that they don't give a fuck either. I'm like, a fuck doesn't come into anywhere in his atmosphere. I like it. My quote is I think that you should give a fuck about yourself the most. I agree, but we don't. But that's all I'm saying. But we don't. But does that mean just just hear me out? Does

that mean you just don't give a fuck about nobody else? Listen, not when it comes down to yourself, you should you prioritize yourself, just put your fire the end of the day. But the name of time that you just put you first, because you're not, because you look at it as if I feel you you know what I'm saying, Like, real shit, I'm the same way. Ain't just saying you know what I'm saying any man. It's like, but if a woman telling you, I always tell you about her feeling and

what she needed, what she did, who's she putting first? Sure? Thank you? There's nothing wrong West Do it say that a nigga supposed to be all he can be? So like the happy life, happy wife shit when it happened us happy life? To me? Yeah, now you're right, and if they love you should be that way. Yes, happy man put it in a can man man, happy man, shit your ass up. And I'm a man saying this though, but the man being happy. But let me get this out.

The man being happier to get on some bullshit though a lot of it, and to get us some bush what's bullshit? What's bullshit? It come to your head, you should be able to receive it. Bro, do you need that or do you want it? Whatever man want? If you listen, you wake up every day, take risks and chances with your life to live, to provide for another person. How you don't supposed to get what you want? Tim bitches ain't gonna make that better? Tim who won't? Ten bitches?

That too many? They say some men would abuse their privilege. But if that's what they want, though, want or need, If that's what they say, I want, you say need, like we need to prioritize ourselves for our mental and well health. I get what you're trying to say, but historically I felt trust me it it hits here like Historically, though, men have always felt inferior to women because they've always

complained about their birthday gifts, their father's days. You know what I'm saying, Their lack of their lack of acknowledgement on certain other days and holidays and all kinds of ships. I have always had a problem restaurant. I don't I'm a crown. I'm just saying, go to the restaurant on Mother's Day. We got a six hour weight. The ain't no way you're getting up in here. Go on Father's Day right over there, go ahead, Man, ain't need this shit.

Some hot dog, but he's some hot ug. What I'm saying is, at the end of the day, if you don't put you first, who is you should put yourself first? Who is like? At the end of the day, it's like, at least put yourself equal. You know what I'm saying. Niggas don't even put themselves equal. Real shit, the truth. So this whole year, I'm gonna do everything that you decide. Bait but bang, But because Jade is gonna be passed today, so I guess I gotta it's a woman's mind and shit,

So I'm gonna show some love time. Don't be shit that need be trying to people. Come on, man, when this shit gotta be gonna be earned? But what about what about? What about? What about? What about? What about the bullshit? So that's the bullshit we gotta go through. What you're saying is some bullshit. The fathers all that shit is some bullshit that we don't put ourselves. You don't get listen, bro, you supposed to be. If you're saying like shit, man, I need to got them do

something for me, you sound like a bitch. And the time a man speak on what he needs, like I need some space, not to space, whatever it is that you need a man, then I'm gonna just sound like a business. No. No, society tries to make you sound like if you got her, if you got a real bitch by your side, she's gonna fucking cultivate that need and help you do whatever you need to do to get you spend away, do this, do that, do this? Man, hey, it is anything you need, and really mean, is there

anything you need? Not saying it because I'm supposed to sit you know what I'm saying, like, come on, man like. But but the thing about it is a lot of women do it unconsciously because that's how they raised. What I'm saying, like, when you get it your environment. We talk about this all the time. That's a little girl, like everybody else, you're a girl, don't look that's a little girl, A little boy bugget your ass or you know what I'm saying, it's a different So that's how

it's just it just automatically trickles to that. Yeah, right, that's why niggas to be stretched the fuck out, not living life right, leading motherfucker ain't did then you wanted to do? Why did you live? Why were you living? If you didn't live? You're right, Oh that is right, that is facts existed. Yeah, you just existed like man, Hell no, bro, I got a little mind. Bro, I don't give a fuck what it is. Every day. If I feel like that's what I want to do, that

what I'm gonna do it. And if I got the right person with me, which I believe I do, shan tell you you're gonna have to understand me living my life. It has nothing to do with you. We did everything, we do everything I'm given. What's she named? Let's do it, baby, Yes, let's do it. Let's do let's do it, Let's do it. And she's the same way, but she just introverted. Don't won't you want to do certain shit? Don't want to do certain ship and be like the chill and do

all of that. But I'm type of niggas. If they are, I'm saying they want to go to god Nam. Whoo whoo, I'm ready to go. Yeah, yeah, I got you. If it's if it's all right, we're taking our wives with us, then you know you coming. M I don't you know what I'm saying. I don't own't own. I don't know how they got then you know what I'm saying, like

real show not a weed through that. When I get big, just think, missy, you go buy used to cologne, right, yeah, you could have just bought like ten bottles, like like I might buy you and take ten bottles at the time. Yeah five at the least, just hill stack you up. When I get ready to buy me something I don't buying. Then I got a sneaking on my cologne dresser. Why because boy, you didn't think of me. But I just

bought you ten bottles two weeks go. I just seen a bottle that I know that that did that such a head that I went when when it when it uneas and grabbed it. Why is that j It's it's I think when it comes to ship like that, it's not well. In some cases it's the woman being ungrateful. But in a lot of cases, it's like a subconscious thing like spa yah, that's what we do. We spaw

women by. One of my biggest arguments used to be like, because you know, food is food for me, man, and I sit down and I got my food, and it would make my skin crawl. Maybe this is selfish, like can I have a piece? Because I don't women do that shit. It just made me want to go crazy to the point where I'm trained now, like you said, I'm a sucker, Like I'm gonna give you what you want, leave me some of my left, leave me some of my ship. But it was like broo only type of

nigga iu around. Had to eat times a day, Like you can't say you eight like something might be the baby eight. No, I'm no, hell no. Why is that though? Help us understand you're saying that? Is that? Is that a form of love? Because it's like it's like you want to It's like you wanna it kind of like it's like a team it's a team building exercise. Everything,

it's a team building exercise. What my food team? Looking at our favorite showIn say that, But I can't suck around and be gonna watch some shit already, Like that's a big deal because at the end of the day, this is our this is our time to bond. So if you go do it without me, then what the fuck else are you doing? Why are you doing it without the whole season? Be a myth? I ain't gonna give a fuck. I'm gonna watch it. When I watch it, just don't tell me about it. I can't watch b

a me whatever. But I can't even think stop it winning if I get up all this shit. Though. Yeah, I don't watch them every move it twice because I already be done watching the How To watch it again? They got to eat ten times a day, like come it Just that's what it is. I don't think it's malicious though, No, definitely not. It's like a it's like

because you gotta understand, like women are natural nurturers. So with that natural nurturing, it's almost kind of like a term or a sign of endearment when you guys do certain things together and for you to kind of like disregards No, but what I'm saying is it it comes off. It could come off to a woman as you're disregarding her feelings by doing a togetherness activity. Solo. But to giveness activity me like eating shows, you know, like anything,

that selfishness. But if y'all normally do it and you change the routine. But there's there's plenty shows, right we haven't watched it. Yeah, you got your own shows. There's plenty of my own shows. But y'all come on, man, y'all know what. Y'all know what, y'all know. Watch together, But it's it's a it's a higher chance, it's a higher chance that the woman's gonna watch our show, then I'm gonna want to watch her show. Like I ain't ever gonna watch no Housewives shit whatever, I'm not ever

gonna watch that show. That's cool. If y'all don't ever do that, then there's no reason for it to be a reason to catch feelings. But the ship that y'all do do, if you've already established that, Okay, this is a routine, and you straight from that routine, then that's gonna like present a problem. I got you that just can't even go get no man a cure about yourself. You do that like use that work even go together? You went yesterday, baby, I could have got him read it.

God damn, what's what should should some of that be flattery, like what does she an't give a fucking ain't never want to be around you? How do you feel that shit? We are bit you say that now, I'm just saying. But at the end of the day, we are. What

I'm saying, she change some of those ways. What I'll say it is she changed somebody what she What does she if she changed her routine and and just changed it like routine fucking anything, like if y'all normally fucking if y'all normally fucking fucking anything, like and she goes and does it on her own, or you know what I'm saying, she doesn't want to do it with you

this one time. Proud of you, a couple, proud of you man working new era with y'all camp ass man at the end of the day, all bush side, no cap at the beginning of the that you are capps. Flu'm just being real, no cap involved. I feel like everybody should be allowed to be by theirselves sometime. You have to have time to yourself, a solitude and ship. Now you should You can't always say all that to say what at the end of the day, bro, if you can't love you how you want to love you. Yeah,

you're gonna be miserable, brother. Right. What he's saying is right, aname all the ship you want to do that you don't do jeck clubs like man, no, don't name it, but you know what I'm saying, it's like shit a nigga like I was just saying this. I was just saying, this is one of my partners. Like, man, I don't just I used to just and it wasn't. No, I don't know female ship, but nigga just might want to go to the flame. That's what I do. I go

to the strip club. That's what I did. But I could feel the energy from the other half that she was always cool, half fun. But it ain't that type of half fun. So I stopped ship cool. So I stopped doing it. Not to say that would make me happy now, but I stopped doing it. But you stopped doing it. On the point of uh, without proper communication, she didn't she she says, cool. I'm on the nigga. You said it was cool, right, right, you know what I'm saying. Don't say it's cool, say what it is.

We're gonna have a proper communication, right, because you may you may have a misunderstand it probably was cool. You just thinking she want to feel a way about it? Na, you know that voice baked. No, you know I know I'm gonna make a stand on it. Don't say it cool then? Yeah, like I said, I'm I'm gonna go to McGill and grand my son A. Well, I'm gonna

go to um. They told him thing. You know what I'm saying, They told you have h shouts out still he having her forty of coming up, he said, west night. I couldn't say that it was a wife ship because you go do light. So I eventually sit it to it like did what it is? We're going to this? You know what I'm saying, because like, how are you gonna go to that by yourself? Here? White there? Like it's his wife. It's a laated thing. Now I try to say, like zay, she said, what does he having something?

I don't know what to do? You just saying what is it? Bro? All right man, he's white turty forty? All right? Well you know I'm going to there. You know what I'm saying, like search shit, you can't just yeah, but you wouldn't want to go it out? Who you want. Yeah, because I go in there and get on the pout of that just in and out. You know what I'm saying. Yeah, like I can. You know, when you search shit, you can go pay what's up? But hey, how you doing

step give a gift? What a pu? Yeah? With her and I gotta she gotta go do it everything she gotta do as a woman to get together, put together. It'll take me that much. Yeah, Yeah, in and out right, I got you out and I gotta hell got them to drive. I'm a security I can. You know what I'm saying. I gotta do all that shit. You're right, you know what I'm saying. It's a difference. Yeah, you want to you on you on a different when you got your people out with you, you on you in

a different zone, all different. You're a different on a different type of time. Yeah, you on a different problem. He also saluted Nory. He was saying he liked to always be with his wife because he know he's gonna make the best decisions possible. I ain't in a different mind, so we're gonna be on the same type of time. What I'm just saying is like when I'm moving, we moved different when she out, of course when I'm out were regular, man, we can got damn. You know what

I'm saying, whatever we can't. Yeah, like seventh part. I took her the seventh part the first year he had to freaking me. But it was too much, got them bushling and bushling and bushing. You know what I'm saying, hold on, hold on, hold on, You're not going next year. I know you like it. That shit got them God child or whatever you call him whatever, but no, because at the end of the day, it's too much. You know what I'm saying, what ship she shouted this here,

I gotta keep on looking. Nah, all that bumbling and trembling and bumbling and bumbling, don't be bumbling. And I'm bumping into my bitch. I don't like that, you know what I'm saying. That crowd shit. So we ain't even gonna put that. You know what I'm saying. You get what I'm saying. But she'll understand that, Like, yeah, you're right.

But I still could have went. She told we said we do that, man, I got that's why we're stay Jay That red that I could have went like it was a lot of stuff going on, you know, that's coming. You know, that's like a moment. You know that's coming and want me to go. But you get what I'm saying. I understand the anxiety that the nigga have. Yeah, the super nigga shit go by myself like man, gonna let that go right, you're right here now, I gotta show

out right plus one. Yeah, But women just never understand me, and men ain't gonna never understand women. That's why I disagree on that. I don't feel like I'm gonna never understand one. I disagree on that. I'm not. I think it comes. I think it's a higher I think it's a higher percentage or ratio of women that understand men as opposed to men that understand women. I don't think

women really understand men. Women women understand me and that trying to be understood, if that makes sense, saying niggas who submit to like I didn't even it ain't even about submitting that. I just feel like, like you said,

women understand men that are trying to be understood. But if you're a man that doesn't know how to communicate effectively, and if you're a man that is closed up when it comes to your feelings and you bottle up your emotions, then of course, how the fund can anybody ever understand? But if you're a man, that's giving off your true feelings to a woman, right, But they hear what they want to hear. Most women hear what they want to hear. Then why are you with her? Most women hear what

they want to hear. Why are you with somebody that doesn't hear you most want you to? Every woman don't want to hear no matter what. Like you could tell a woman all day, well I ain't just like that whatever. You can meet a woman in the beginning to be like with shit, I'm just we're just dating. Like I've seen a post on Instagram and other day nigga Like, but you start kicking with a woman, y'all go together like nobody ain't ain't no abouty putting tights on the light.

So we know, Brudge that you start, you start kicking with a woman. D Day twenty twenty three, y'all sucking around, y'all start sucking whatever. And then she started asking what we eat tonight? Huh who side? Like we ain't no about to making it like that. I think that only applies like because see, here's my here's my thing with

what you're saying, right, that's cold and everything. You know what we're eating the night huh and all that all ship whatever, whatever, But at the end of the day, a lot of niggas be asking what we eat in the night too? Okay, but still I ain't put it. When the nigga feels like we ain't putting no tight on it, ain't then't yet We're just fucking around. We're fucking around. Yeahs already putting us tight on it in

their minds. Oh bro, listen, If we're fucking around and we're just supposed to be fucking around, then why are you asking me certain particular questions about certain fucking specifics. Because a nigga can be fucking with a wom I'm being real for the man who the woman needed to be and still want them to be exclusive and they do.

We just fucking around because that's that's the stick. Women nigga feel like, okay with you and you saying now, I can see if I meet you and you're saying ship, I'm a savage you like you, bro, and we bid it. But if I meet you and you say, well, I just deal one person at a time, who I know you would do what you do? You know women to do that. They do say that, Yes, they do say that, try to act like they play, but I don't when I'm dealing with one man, I'm dealing you know all

that shit. They can do that too, though, Who twenty twenty three. Yes, yeah, but that's why I told that. I'm saying shit, do your thing whatever, whatever, bitch who over there over A lot of these could be tripping me because they know what type of bitch they got that make her feel like I like her too. Okay, Eat, nigga, don't give no fuck for real, Some of these niggas don't. Some of these nigga do so Many niggas teller, but most of the time listen. Most of the time you

tell them. It's like, so, what the hell you was it? She liked that? Okay, he can't hang on the phone. They got you donna speak of saying it. You know what I'm saying. She walked musself to feel cared about a nigga when you start asking me while I'm at what I'm doing, I'm feeling like my nerve different. Yeah, if I right a wrong both of the time females find that cute. Yeah, so niggas it's accustomed to doing that. Yeah,

couldn't care less. The more the more you're I get it, the more I get what I'm saying, though, the more the more of the stories. You should definitely like, live your life, and if you're in a relationship, the man should live his life, the woman should live her life. And when do you exist somewhere in the middle. There are certain parts of life y'all lived together because y'all locked in certain parts of life, y'all gonna live together.

But what I just feel like me personally, bro, and I ain't even talking about with I'm talking about with relationship. I ain't tripping because we're cool, like and my sister sister wife, like, you know what I'm saying, Like we've been together so long. It just it's a different I'm just speaking for other guys. How real shit I can do it. You'll speaking my gun, get God to do what the funk I want to do. You don't give a fuck? So what if what if you don't give

a fuck? What what if? Okay, what if what if if she did? She don't? She don't she don't give a fuck, like bro, I she would probably say, yat now you So you mean, but she'll see it I get back. So you usually went all the way out here and got them and asked me how I felt about it. But you just talk, You hinted at it, and then you told me got them pack your back. That's how you told me. What's something you think? What's something that you What's something you think that one in

your in your situation that she does for you. What's something you think she does for you? I'm trying to think of my situation too. What you mean that she that she does for you? Like say, for instance, she gets her hair done for you, or she could everything for you? Everything? Yeah, everything? So what does she stopped doing it because her happy? But but she makes you happy, so it makes her hair. They don't make me happy because she she gotta call me and ask me what

color should get on? Nil baby? Getting them in the color? She getting upset. If I'd be like that, it don't matter, just surprised. How do you want my hair up and down? Like? I don't give a fuck. You're pretty either way, right, I don't care. Right, But what I'm saying, what if she stopped because people could plain in relationship doing it. If she stopped doing it, that means she's taking my advice.

I say, baby, surprised me, But I stop. Now, I'm not talking about what you mean getting ye, I ain't get my hair done. I don't gut content. She will she have, bro I don't speak every side of the ship. You talking about that, so so I guess what I'm getting that. Yeah, you gotta ask somebody else. I don't

see every side of it. Yeah, I got you. I guess what I'm saying is if we're talking about habits and living your life and shit, if if she stopped loving me the way she won't say love but stops doing things she like I'm the type of person, then I'm like, you can throw on some sweats, put your hat on, let's go. I ain't gonna do that. You won't allow that, Yeah, I'm telling you that I will. I ain't telling y'all straight with no, I ain't gonna like it's almost like a trap, per se, you know

what I'm saying. So it's kind of like, what do you do? What if? What if? What if? What if Jessica Chatte? What if they just got on that completely and they do it for us because of who we are. Yes, okay, I say throw that on. She like you good with it. I'm good. She don't care, got you. This is my little buddy. It being real like shouted giving. So we're talking about being grateful for every part of life, so

we should be grateful for the effort. I'm like, will we'll go, We'll We'll got them just put on anything like Mitch Matt clothes and going to Stowe and just walk around like so we's be like banking, No fella, I want to go. We do that shit for jokes. She wore a nightgown where like a like a like an almost a nightgown from tennis shoe with her her her uniform, her nurse jacket, and I had on some shorts with just some crazy shit. Bro like I don't know,

so shit, they don't give a yeah. When I'm speaking on is not doing things because of other people feelings, And I guess relationship came into play because that's the main person I was just saying, like even friends, even even y'all, my motherfucking um, my partners and my co host is and shit like if just savings y'all be like, if y'all if we go to the when we go to the festival right shots to the Blackfect podcast, JA like I'm just gonna wear a hooded you'd be like,

she don't just gonn polo shirt. I like brother to put on a full suit. Yeah, I can't worry by how y'all feel. If I'm up looking like the peanut man, That's how I want to look. Yeah, yeah, you get won't say that freedom. I understand that you should be free. You should always strive to be as free as possible. Shit we don't do because of other people. To me, I feel like that only causes stress. You. Yeah, you gotta be comfortable in yourself. We always had those conversations.

You like, I might put on the suit. Hey bang, I've put on these jays. That's what it's gonna be. You know what I'm saying. So sweetheart, we're talking about you right now. But good Noah, it's horrible. You only say good things about anybody. Okay, what are you calling me for? Are you saying she would if she would stop doing? Hello? I've just been telling I don't lie what you've been to say. I was asking that you need anything from that's lovely said that though. Yeah, I

just said you don't be doing that. I'll just be lying like hell every day, right, yeah, but how many times have I told? How many? How many times I told you don't have to do that? A million times? It's just me, it's what I do. Okay, why you thought I thought I hands Now I'm just saying that were I was just trying to screen. So so if she you saying, if she stopped doing that when I feel away, you would how would I? Because because it's

y'all at this point, these are your tendencies. That's what you used to you'll feel weird if it ain't happen. If she ain't just call you now you might have been like, damn, she ain't hit me as if she straight it's tendencies. Yeah, it's tendencies. Yeah, alright, alright in times when I don't at you or something, if you will still do it situations, yeah, there's always queen I

call you in a minute, all right, perfect example right here. Perfect, But that's all I'm saying, Like there's certain things that there's certain things like it kind of just is what it is. Those are tendencies you know what I'm saying, and shit forbid that you couldn't get that tendency. You might not know it now, but na, but but like it. Like she just said that, say it's programmed, so she don't do it. I know she upset. Yeah, you know

what I'm saying. So when I know you're upset, I ain't gonna feed into that because I know you're trying to get a reaction. That's another thing too that I said too, Bro. We cannot allow people to automatically know our reaction to things. I think that's the way. That's what fucking the world look like a person know, Like I know, me being late today, go make scream, got them feels some kind of way now I started being late ere to day, Nigga, I want you feel I

know that. I'm just saying if I knew it, like like you know what I'm saying whatever, Like you get what I'm saying, Like, we can't let people determine our reaction, douse. That means they can and they control you. You're right, heah yeah, if you saw motherfucking your hand, they know how to play you. Real real, real life, real life. Great conversation. More of the story live your life. You

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