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Beyond the Self with Africa Brooke

Africa Brookeafricabrooke.com

Welcome to our unfiltered corner. The voicescapes you'll be taking in are created by myself, Africa Brooke.


In a worldly sense, I am a globally acclaimed consultant, mentor, writer, and artist. My deepest desire with this podcast is to remind us ALL of the power inherent in taking simple, consistent, and often uncomfortable steps towards personal integrity.

I'm all too aware that overwhelm and societal pressures make it easy to become fixated on external influences, tiptoe around potentially sensitive issues and cross our own boundaries in the process. And this kind of environment often leads to self-sabotage.


That's where Beyond the Self steps in to be your guiding light. In this house, we FOCUS ON WHAT WE CAN CONTROL.

I will be using all my intellectual property, training, tools and wisdom to help you in uncovering your own blind spots and learning to tolerate discomfort so that you can rekindle curiosity, creativity, deeper and more intimate relationships, pleasure, play, and a sense of groundedness.

In every episode I'll lay out encouraging insights about our shared human complexities, both messy and fucking beautiful. I really do value a nuanced understanding and more importantly, practical, evidence-based tools and resources to help you integrate the learnings into your life.

If you're looking for an uncompromising approach to personal development and life philosophy, you've found yourself in the right place. Here, we don't hold back. Welcome to Beyond the Self.

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Episodes

#032 - Dare to do things differently

SUBSCRIBE to my new YouTube channel! If you found this valuable - be sure to follow, RATE, subscribe, leave a review on Apple Podcasts, and share this podcast with your pals, family, and community - let's not withhold transformation from each other.⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣ You can also connect with me directly over on Instagram, I'd love to continue the conversation with you - @africabrooke or you can email me at hello@africabrooke.com with subject line 'Beyond the Self'. I can't wait to hear from you!⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣...

May 09, 202227 min

#031 - How to avoid losing your sh*t in a divided world - w/ Mark Groves

Last week I went LIVE with a man I've come to know and truly adore - Human Connection Specialist, friend, and fellow advocate for free expression, Mark Groves - who is also known for being the man behind Create the love and for being the co-founder of the world's first social emotional network - Mined . We left no stone unturned in this fantastic conversation which you can also watch over on Instagram by clicking here . We covered the different layers of self-censorship, censorship on a wider sc...

May 02, 202256 min

#030 - Why cancel culture thrives on you being a terrible communicator (let's talk solutions!)

In this episode (originally recorded LIVE on IG) , I covered: are you a more passive-aggressive communicator than you think?, why ASSERTIVE COMMUNICATORS are needed now more than ever, why communication is a missing piece in the cancel culture conversation, why labelling everything as self-censorship isn’t helpful, how to know when you’re self-censoring vs using your social filter (good thing)… …why risking peoples perception of you has to become non-negotiable, what happens when people start to...

Apr 25, 20221 hr 18 min

#029 - The gifts of being misunderstood

If you found this valuable - be sure to follow, RATE, subscribe, leave a review on Apple Podcasts, and share this podcast with your pals, family, and community - let's not withhold transformation from each other.⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣ You can also connect with me directly over on Instagram, I'd love to continue the conversation with you - @africabrooke or you can email me at hello@africabrooke.com with subject line 'Beyond the Self'. I can't wait to hear from you!⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ PLEASE NOTE : I do not give advic...

Apr 18, 202259 min

#028 - What are you willing to risk?

Playing it safe won't cut it. Let's talk about it.... If you found this valuable - be sure to follow, RATE, subscribe, leave a review on Apple Podcasts, and share this podcast with your pals, family, and community - let's not withhold transformation from each other.⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣ You can also connect with me directly over on Instagram, I'd love to continue the conversation with you - @africabrooke or you can email me at hello@africabrooke.com with subject line 'Beyond the Self'. I can't wait to hear ...

Apr 11, 202234 min

#027 - A personal note: when life humbles you

Subscribe to my new YouTube channel: CLICK HERE NEW EVENT: Book your ticket for the private virtual masterclass I'm hosting (April 9th) on 'How to stop self-censoring in the age of cancel culture': https://africabrooke.com/events If you found this valuable - be sure to follow, subscribe, leave a review on Apple Podcasts, and share this podcast with your pals, family, and community - let's not withhold transformation from each other.⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣ You can also connect with me directly over on Instagra...

Mar 28, 202213 min

#026 - What happens when the 'toxic person' is you?

We can all agree that removing people who consistently exhibit toxic behaviours from our life is almost always a good idea. But what happens when that toxic person is you? NEW EVENT: Book your ticket for the private virtual event (April 9th) on 'How to stop self-censoring in the age of cancel culture': https://africabrooke.com/events If you found this valuable - be sure to follow, subscribe, leave a review on Apple Podcasts, and share this podcast with your pals, family, and community - let's no...

Mar 14, 202249 min

#025 - 5 reasons why I self-censor

NEW EVENT: Book your ticket for the private virtual event (April 9th) on 'How to stop self-censoring in the age of cancel culture': https://africabrooke.com/events If you found this valuable - be sure to follow, subscribe, leave a review on Apple Podcasts, and share this podcast with your pals, family, and community - let's not withhold transformation from each other.⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣ You can also connect with me directly over on Instagram, I'd love to continue the conversation with you - @africabrooke ...

Mar 07, 20221 hr 8 min

#024 - Why you don't have to speak up on every social issue

No mincing of words with this one. If you found this valuable - be sure to follow, subscribe, leave a review on Apple Podcasts, and share this podcast with your pals, family, and community - let's not withhold transformation from each other.⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣ You can also connect with me directly over on Instagram, I'd love to continue the conversation with you - @africabrooke or you can email me at hello@africabrooke.com with subject line 'Beyond the Self'. I can't wait to hear from you!⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ PLEA...

Feb 28, 202243 min

#023 - How to stop being rigid in your thinking

(Previously titled: How to exist in a complex world with a binary brain ). Black and white (either or) thinking is great if you need to cross the road or if you’re foraging and need to know whether a mushroom you're about to pick is poisonous or not...but when thinking in extremes (with us or against us, right or left, pro or anti, woke vs anti-woke, right or wrong) becomes the default in every situation - it can become cause for concern. This episode is already a TOP 3 of mine and I know it's o...

Feb 21, 20221 hr 5 min

#022 - What to do when change feels f*cking scary (LIVE Oct 2020)

An audience member reminded me of this fantastic LIVE I did nearly two years ago. It was relevant then, but it feels even more relevant now - for reasons you'll discover as you listen. Be it a romantic breakup, friendship breakup, job transition, career change, displacement, moving home, letting go of an old identity, entering a new relationship, discomfort caused by experiencing success, a shift in your health, or if you're feeling as though change is coming- but you can't quite put your finger...

Feb 14, 20221 hr 5 min

#021 - Are other people entitled to decide how you use your voice?

" Those who have accepted self-censorship as a part of themselves tend to work overtime to justify the punishment of those who choose to express themselves openly, and without fear. Often their outrage and calls for punishment won’t be based on the contents of what that person is saying, but the fury will be because that person is even DARING to say anything at all." - Africa Brooke I appreciate your time and attention. If you found this valuable - be sure to leave a review on Apple Podcasts, an...

Feb 07, 202249 min

#020 - The true cost of entitled behaviour

This is one you won't want to miss! I appreciate your time and attention. If you found this valuable - be sure to leave a review on Apple Podcasts, and share this podcast with your pals, family, and community - let's not withhold transformation from each other.⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣ You can also connect with me directly over on Instagram, I'd love to continue the conversation with you - @africabrooke or you can email me at hello@africabrooke.com with subject line 'Beyond the Self'. I can't wait to hear from ...

Jan 31, 202238 min

#019 - The truth shouldn't be controversial

Some juicy answers to some fantastic questions! I appreciate your time and attention. If you found this valuable - be sure to leave a review on Apple Podcasts, and share this podcast with your pals, family, and community - let's not withhold transformation from each other.⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣ You can also connect with me directly over on Instagram, I'd love to continue the conversation with you - @africabrooke or you can email me at hello@africabrooke.com with subject line 'Beyond the Self'. I can't wait t...

Jan 24, 202256 min

#018 - Do you know what you stand for?

Are you really who you say you are? Let's find out... I appreciate your time and attention. If you found this valuable - be sure to leave a review on Apple Podcasts, and share this podcast with your pals, family, and community - let's not withhold transformation from each other.⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣ You can also connect with me directly over on Instagram, I'd love to continue the conversation with you - @africabrooke or you can email me at hello@africabrooke.com with subject line 'Beyond the Self'. I can't ...

Jan 17, 20221 hr 9 min

#017 - Why discomfort is good for you

Discomfort gets a bad rep despite it being a crucial component if you want ever to want to exist beyond the confines of your 'comfort zone'. In this episode I make an argument for why we need to embrace it, instead of making an enemy of it. Let's talk about it! I appreciate your time and attention. If you found this valuable - be sure to leave a review on Apple Podcasts, and share this podcast with your pals, family, and community - let's not withhold transformation from each other.⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣ You...

Jan 10, 202255 min

#016 - Do I need to apologise? And other thoughts

No words of seduction needed - this was a good'un! I appreciate your time and attention. If you found this valuable - be sure to leave a review on Apple Podcasts, and share this podcast with your pals, family, and community - let's not withhold transformation from each other.⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣ You can also connect with me directly over on Instagram, I'd love to continue the conversation with you - @africabrooke or you can email me at hello@africabrooke.com with subject line 'Beyond the Self'. I can't wai...

Dec 31, 202157 min

#015 - What you're not changing, you're choosing

This was a very personal episode and it's one I think will resonate with many of you listening. Those many layers of identity, huh? I'll let it speak for itself. I appreciate your time and attention, if you found this valuable - be sure to leave a review on Apple Podcasts, and share this podcast with your pals, family, and community - let's not withhold transformation from each other.⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣ You can also connect with me directly over on Instagram, I'd love to continue the conversation with you...

Oct 22, 202144 min

#014 - How to focus on what you can control

Book your ticket for the private virtual event (October 23rd) on 'How to stop self-censoring in the age of cancel culture': https://africabrooke.com/events _________________________________________________________________ This one was a lot of fun to record! Especially because this is a topic I think about often and love discussing. The idea that we are in full control of our thoughts and feelings is not entirely accurate nor is it something we should buy into without questioning... BUT, when yo...

Oct 08, 202151 min

#013 - How to stop self-censoring

Book your ticket for the private virtual event (October 23rd) on 'How to stop self-censoring in the age of cancel culture': https://africabrooke.com/events Read my open letter: Why I'm leaving the cult of wokeness _________________________________________________________________ Are we truly free if we’re constantly afraid of exploring and intentionally expressing our own thoughts and ideas? Let's find out. I appreciate your time and attention, if you found this valuable - be sure to leave a rev...

Oct 01, 202139 min

#012 - Why 'faking it till you make it' doesn't work, and what you can do instead

'Fake it till you make it' has to be one of the worst widely accepted mantras I've heard in my adult life. This approach to life messes with our sense of self (identity) more than we might realise. It even perpetuates things like imposter syndrome. Perhaps you think it's just semantics, but I believe there's more to it...lets find out! ⁣ I appreciate your time and attention, if you found this valuable - be sure to leave a review on Apple Podcasts, and share this podcast with your loved ones, fam...

Sep 24, 202136 min

#011 - Why you might be having an identity crisis

Who am I? What do I believe in? What do I want to do? Do I even agree with this anymore? Those are just a few of the common questions that pull at us when we're questioning our identity and the roles we play in the world. In this gem-filled episode we'll be exploring what identity is, what an identity CRISIS is, how it presents itself in your life, why I believe we're ALL experiencing it as a collective, how you can identify whether this is something you're actually going through- and what you c...

Sep 17, 202151 min

#010 - Everything about you has changed

What a pleasure it is to be back with you. In this minisode I reintroduce myself and tell you what you can expect in the upcoming series which will tackle all things IDENTITY. As you know, I appreciate your time and attention. If you found this valuable - be sure to leave a review on Apple Podcasts, and share this podcast with your loved ones, family, and community - let's not withhold transformation from each other.⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣ You can also connect with me directly over on Instagram, I'd love to c...

Sep 10, 202123 minSeason 2Ep. 10

#009 - How to be f*****g patient! (& 2 other thoughts)

In this episode, I decided to unpack 3 THEMES that have been coming up as of late, and something tells me more than a few of us need to hear it. Let's talk PATIENCE, FEAR, AND ASKING BETTER QUESTIONS!⁣ ⁣ I appreciate your time and attention, if you found this valuable - be sure to leave a review on Apple Podcasts, and share this podcast with your loved ones, family, and community - let's not withhold transformation from each other.⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣ You can also connect with me directly over on Instagram...

Oct 30, 202033 min

#008 - How to move through imposter syndrome

I HOPE YOU (and your ego) ARE READY FOR THIS ONE!⁣ ⁣ In this juicy episode we talk all things imposter syndrome. What is it? Where the f**k does it comes from? Can you get rid of it completely? Is there some truth to it? Are you really a fraud? Did you get where you are because of 'luck'?, Do I (Africa Brooke) experience it? How can you navigate imposter syndrome, on a practical level? ⁣ ⁣ This topic is one of the most highly requested, for obvious reasons - and it's something I speak about quit...

Oct 16, 202042 min

#007 - How to break self-sabotaging patterns

Self-sabotage is a F**KER!!!!! This we know...but we don't always do it because we hate ourselves. It's usually out of self-preservation...⁣self-protection... ⁣ This has to be one of my favourite conversations with you yet. I got honest about some things that I haven't shared in such depth before. We're talking ABOUT BREAKING SELF-SABOTAGING PATTERNS...⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ I'll let the episode speak for itself!!! IT'S THAT GOOD.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ I appreciate your time and attention, if you found this valuable - be sure t...

Oct 02, 202038 min

#006 - How to release perfectionism

Perfectionism is something a lot of us experience. It's something many of us OVER-IDENTIFY with. It's something we sometimes see as a 'positive' thing despite it causing a lot of stress, procrastination, unfinished projects, self-criticism, over-analysing, personal/professional dissatisfaction.⁣ ⁣ In this episode I break down what perfectionism is, where it stems from, how to move away from it, what you can start to cultivate instead - and I also give you some practical steps you can start to in...

Aug 28, 202040 min

#005 - How to identify your own toxic behaviours

Is this REAL!? Is Africa really back with another podcast episode. YES SHE F**KING IS! In this deliciously expansive comeback episode we are diving into all things TOXIC BEHAVIOURS.⁣ ⁣ I must stress that finding out you have ‘toxic’ tendencies that are affecting you and those around you doesn’t mean you’re damaged or lesser, it just means there’s some SERIOUS inner work to do on your part...⁣⁣ ⁣ Have you ever had to accept that you were the toxic potato at any point in life? Or is that where you...

Aug 14, 202056 min

#004 - How to manage negative thoughts

Pesky negative thoughts! Something we ALL experience, but how we do actually manage them and stop being slaves to each mindset gremlin that decides to pop up? In this episode I shared with you my personal approach to negative thoughts and as Mental Health Awareness Week comes to a close, this conversation is nothing short of timely. Thank you so much for listening, if you found this valuable - be sure to leave a review on Apple Podcasts, and share it with your loved ones, family, and community -...

May 22, 202035 min

#003 - Why choosing yourself won't always feel empowering

WHEW! That's best way to describe Episode 3 of the podcast. I explored why 'choosing ourselves' doesn't always feel great and addressed how this happens. When it comes to asserting and exercising our boundaries, owning our worth, liberating ourselves openly - it can feel very unsafe. But why is this, and what can we do about it? This episode explores of all that and more. Thank you so much for listening, if you found this valuable - be sure to leave a review on Apple Podcasts, and share it with ...

May 15, 202037 min
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