In our journey of faith, we often encounter the challenge of raising spiritually and emotionally strong children in a world that seems to coddle and overprotect. This conversation delves into the importance of allowing our children to face and overcome obstacles, drawing parallels to how God allows us to face trials to build our spiritual resilience. Just as we're called to 'consider it pure joy' when facing trials (James 1:2-4), we're encouraged to view our children's struggles as opportunities...
Jan 23, 2025•50 min•Season 2Ep. 15
In this powerful discussion, we explore the essence of the Christian life and what it truly means to follow Christ. The conversation delves into the transformative power of encountering Jesus, emphasizing that Christianity is not about moralism or self-improvement, but about a radical change of heart through the work of the Holy Spirit. We're reminded of Ezekiel 36, where God promises to remove our hearts of stone and give us hearts of flesh, causing us to obey Him. This supernatural transformat...
Jan 20, 2025•1 hr 6 min•Season 3Ep. 15
In this powerful conversation, we witness the transformative power of faith and community. We see how a couple's journey from a life of motorcycles and worldly pursuits to one centered on Christ can radically change not just their own lives, but the lives of their children and those around them. The story reminds us of the biblical narrative of Paul's conversion - a dramatic shift from persecutor to apostle. Just as Paul's life was completely reoriented by his encounter with Jesus, we see how th...
Jan 16, 2025•54 min•Season 2Ep. 14
In this thought-provoking discussion, we explore the delicate balance between parental guidance and allowing our children to develop their own faith journey. The conversation draws parallels to the biblical story of Joshua and Rahab, reminding us that God's plan often unfolds in unexpected ways. We're challenged to consider how we can create a safe space for open dialogue about faith, values, and life's complexities within our families. The use of tools like conversation boxes and games to facil...
Jan 13, 2025•1 hr 25 min•Season 3Ep. 14
In our journey of faith, we often face transitions that test our resolve and challenge our relationships. This conversation reminds us of the importance of unity in marriage and family, especially during times of change. We see how open communication, vulnerability, and the willingness to seek God together can strengthen our bonds. The story of Joshua leading the Israelites into the Promised Land parallels our own experiences of stepping into new seasons with faith and courage. Just as Joshua ha...
Jan 09, 2025•54 min•Season 2Ep. 13
In this powerful discussion, we explore the transformative power of commitment in our spiritual journey. The conversation highlights how cynicism and skepticism can hinder our growth, while faith and perseverance can lead to profound spiritual experiences. We're reminded of the early Christian martyrs, particularly through the story of a 3rd-century believer in Germany who carried a scroll with scriptures, even when it was dangerous to do so. This parallel challenges us to examine our own dedica...
Jan 06, 2025•1 hr 16 min•Season 3Ep. 13
In our journey of faith, we often encounter moments where we feel God's presence in unexpected ways. This conversation reminds us of the shepherd's light that guided the way to Jesus. Just as the shepherds followed a divine sign, we too can experience moments where we feel God's guidance in our lives. However, it's crucial to discern between genuine spiritual experiences and our own projections. The story shared about misinterpreting a dimmed light as a divine sign humorously illustrates how eas...
Jan 02, 2025•39 min•Season 2Ep. 12
As we reflect on the past year and look forward to the new one, we're reminded of the importance of gratitude and perspective in our spiritual journey. The conversation highlights how easily we can become discontent with our blessings, forgetting that what we consider mundane might be a luxury to others. This echoes the biblical principle of contentment found in Philippians 4:11-13, where Paul learned to be content in all circumstances. We're challenged to see God in every aspect of our lives, m...
Dec 30, 2024•1 hr 5 min•Season 3Ep. 12
In our journey of faith and relationships, we often grapple with the question of timing - especially when it comes to marriage. This conversation delves into the biblical perspective on dating and engagement, reminding us that while there's no set timeline, there's wisdom in patience. The discussion touches on Ephesians 5:25, where husbands are called to love their wives as Christ loved the church. This powerful metaphor challenges us to examine our relationships through a spiritual lens. Are we...
Dec 26, 2024•53 min•Season 2Ep. 11
In our spiritual journey, we often grapple with the tension between biblical truth and cultural pressures. This conversation delves into the challenges of shepherding people through complex issues, particularly around sexuality and identity. The key message is about creating a safe space for honest exploration while remaining grounded in Scripture. Romans 12:1-2 reminds us to be 'living sacrifices,' not conforming to the world but being transformed by the renewal of our minds. This passage empha...
Dec 23, 2024•1 hr 23 min•Season 3Ep. 11
In today's discussion, we explore the profound impact of understanding and appreciating our loved ones' love languages. Drawing from Dr. Gary Chapman's 'The Five Love Languages,' we're reminded that each person has unique ways of giving and receiving love. This insight isn't just about improving relationships – it's about deepening our capacity for empathy and selflessness, qualities that are at the heart of Christ's teachings. As we reflect on how Jesus demonstrated love in various ways – throu...
Dec 19, 2024•46 min•Season 2Ep. 10
In this powerful discussion, we're reminded of the importance of staying focused on our true calling as believers. The story of Jesus feeding the 5,000 in John 6 is highlighted, showing how success in God's eyes often looks different from worldly success. We see Jesus intentionally 'weeding out' the crowd, focusing on the 12 disciples rather than chasing after popularity. This challenges us to reflect on our own motivations - are we chasing numbers and recognition, or are we truly focused on obe...
Dec 16, 2024•1 hr 13 min•Season 3Ep. 10
In our journey of faith, we're often challenged to navigate the complexities of family life, especially in blended families. This discussion reminds us that building a strong foundation in Christ is crucial, whether we're newlyweds or bringing children from previous relationships. The emphasis on developing a voice of leadership while showing grace and patience echoes the biblical model of Christ's leadership in the church. We're encouraged to create intentional moments of connection, like famil...
Dec 12, 2024•45 min•Season 2Ep. 9
In our journey of faith, we often encounter moments that challenge our understanding of success and spirituality. This conversation delves deep into the heart of what it means to truly encounter God in our daily lives. We're reminded of Moses' transformation, from a man of great achievements to someone who simply desired God's presence above all else. This powerful biblical narrative invites us to reflect on our own priorities. Are we chasing accomplishments and spiritual experiences, or are we ...
Dec 09, 2024•1 hr 41 min•Season 3Ep. 9
In our journey through grief, we're reminded that it's not a process with a defined end, but rather a stone we carry in our pocket - always present, though its weight may lessen over time. This powerful metaphor invites us to embrace our grief as part of our ongoing spiritual journey. Just as Jesus wept for Lazarus, we too are allowed to grieve, even as people of faith. The story of Hannah in 1 Samuel teaches us about the importance of allowing others to grieve without trying to 'fix' their pain...
Dec 05, 2024•53 min•Season 2Ep. 8
In our journey of faith and leadership, we're reminded that true influence isn't demanded, but earned through genuine care and investment in others. The story of Jehoshaphat in 2 Chronicles 20 teaches us a powerful lesson: our first emotion doesn't have to be our last. When faced with overwhelming odds, Jehoshaphat's initial fear gave way to faithful action as he stood before his people and called for prayer and fasting. This narrative encourages us to acknowledge our fears but not be immobilize...
Dec 02, 2024•1 hr 4 min•Season 3Ep. 8
Happy Thanksgiving Beyond I Do family! Today we bring you a special episode as we briefly discuss bringing in new family traditions, the importance of rest, and tease a big milestone that will be celebrated in a future episode... -- Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below! https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo _ BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSE https://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do -- Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesa https://instagram.com/amesa?igshi...
Nov 28, 2024•9 min•Season 2Ep. 7
In our spiritual journey, we often face seasons of growth and stagnation. This discussion reminds us that true spiritual vitality comes not from religious performance, but from actively engaging in discipleship. The story of Moses, who spent 40 years as a shepherd before leading the Israelites, teaches us that God's timeline often differs from our own. We're encouraged to embrace the monotony, knowing it's in these seemingly uneventful periods that God is preparing us for greater purposes. The k...
Nov 25, 2024•1 hr 14 min•Season 3Ep. 7
In this powerful discussion, we explore the transformative power of forgiveness and reconciliation in our relationships. The story of Joseph and his brothers from Genesis serves as a poignant backdrop, reminding us that even in the face of betrayal and hurt, God can bring about restoration. We're challenged to examine our own hearts and consider how we handle conflict and correction. Are we quick to cut people off, or do we pursue reconciliation with patience and grace? This message encourages u...
Nov 21, 2024•1 hr 19 min•Season 2Ep. 6
In this thought-provoking discussion, we explore the delicate balance between our faith and political engagement. The central message revolves around Jesus' response to the question of paying taxes to Caesar (Mark 12), highlighting how He masterfully avoided political simplicity, vacancy, and supremacy. This teaches us that as believers, our primary allegiance should be to God's kingdom, transcending earthly political divisions. We're challenged to examine our hearts and ask: Are we more America...
Nov 18, 2024•1 hr 29 min•Season 3Ep. 6
In this powerful discussion, we explore the transformative power of unconditional love and the impact of making difficult choices guided by faith. The story of taking in a troubled young family member mirrors the biblical narrative of adoption and redemption. Just as God adopts us into His family, we're called to extend that same grace to others, even when it's challenging. This experience teaches us about patience, perseverance, and the importance of community support in our spiritual journey. ...
Nov 14, 2024•1 hr 1 min•Season 2Ep. 5
In this powerful discussion, we explore the profound impact of Bible translation and its significance in spreading God's Word. The central theme revolves around the Illuminations project, which aims to translate the Bible into every known language by 2033. This endeavor reminds us of God's desire for all people to hear His message in their own tongue, echoing the miracle of Pentecost. As we reflect on this, we're challenged to consider our role in making Scripture accessible to all. Are we takin...
Nov 11, 2024•1 hr 7 min•Season 3Ep. 5
In our journey of faith and marriage, we often underestimate the power of community. This conversation reminds us that building strong, Christ-centered relationships isn't just beneficial—it's crucial for our spiritual growth and marital health. We're challenged to step out of our comfort zones and invite others into our lives, not just superficially, but in ways that allow for genuine accountability and support. The discussion echoes the wisdom found in Ecclesiastes 4:9-10: 'Two are better than...
Nov 07, 2024•52 min•Season 2Ep. 4
In this thought-provoking discussion, we explore the delicate balance between personal convictions and Christian unity. The conversation centers around Romans 14, where Paul teaches about not judging others for their religious practices. We're challenged to consider how our preferences in worship styles, holiday celebrations, or even dietary choices can sometimes create unnecessary divisions within the body of Christ. The key takeaway is that while we may have different convictions on non-essent...
Nov 04, 2024•1 hr 30 min•Season 3Ep. 4
In this thought-provoking discussion, we explore the delicate balance between personal interests and family responsibilities in marriage. While no specific scripture is directly referenced, the conversation echoes the biblical principles of mutual respect and understanding found in Ephesians 5:21-33. We're challenged to examine our own relationships and consider how we can better support our spouses' individual pursuits while maintaining a strong family unit. The dialogue highlights the importan...
Oct 31, 2024•55 min•Season 2Ep. 3
In this enlightening discussion, we're reminded of the profound connection between our finances and our faith. The story of Joseph in Genesis serves as a powerful illustration of how God can turn even our most challenging circumstances into opportunities for growth and blessing. Just as Joseph's brothers meant harm, but God used it for good, we too can trust that our financial setbacks or struggles might be preparing us for a greater purpose. This conversation challenges us to view our money man...
Oct 28, 2024•1 hr 12 min•Season 3Ep. 3
In this powerful discussion, we delve into the complexities of marriage and the importance of open communication. The central theme revolves around how misunderstandings can arise even in the strongest relationships, and how we must be vigilant against allowing insecurities to take root. We're reminded of the biblical principle found in Ephesians 4:26, 'Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry.' This story beautifully illustrates how addressing issues promptly and honestly can preven...
Oct 24, 2024•45 min•Season 2Ep. 2
In this enlightening discussion, we explore the profound concept of spiritual gifts and their role in the modern church. The conversation delves into the 'fivefold ministry' mentioned in Ephesians 4 - apostles, prophets, evangelists, shepherds, and teachers. We're challenged to consider how these gifts manifest in our contemporary context and how they can be fully utilized to build up the body of Christ. This message encourages us to embrace our unique spiritual gifts, recognizing that unity in ...
Oct 21, 2024•1 hr 18 min•Season 3Ep. 2
In our journey of faith, we often encounter the challenge of balancing our personal lives with our spiritual commitments. This conversation reminds us of the importance of prioritizing our marriages and relationships, even amidst the demands of ministry and family life. The biblical principle of 'leaving and cleaving' from Genesis 2:24 is beautifully illustrated here, as we're encouraged to establish healthy boundaries with extended family and invest in our core relationships. Just as Christ pri...
Oct 17, 2024•1 hr 2 min•Season 2Ep. 1
In this enlightening discussion, we explore the profound impact of humility and optimism in spiritual leadership. We're reminded of the power of staying grounded in our faith, even as we grow in influence. The conversation draws parallels to biblical figures who maintained their humility despite their elevated status. We're challenged to consider: How can we cultivate a spirit of humility and optimism in our own spiritual journeys? This message encourages us to reflect on our approach to leaders...
Oct 14, 2024•1 hr 31 min•Season 3Ep. 1
