In our journey of faith, we often encounter the challenge of balancing our personal lives with our spiritual commitments. This conversation reminds us of the importance of prioritizing our marriages and relationships, even amidst the demands of ministry and family life. The biblical principle of 'leaving and cleaving' from Genesis 2:24 is beautifully illustrated here, as we're encouraged to establish healthy boundaries with extended family and invest in our core relationships. Just as Christ pri...
Oct 10, 2024•1 hr 5 min•Season 1Ep. 52
As we reflect on this journey of faith and community, we're reminded of the power of authenticity and diverse perspectives in our spiritual growth. The conversation highlights how a simple act of sharing our experiences can become a catalyst for transformation in others' lives. Just as the early church in Acts 2:42-47 devoted themselves to fellowship and breaking bread together, we see the importance of creating spaces where believers and seekers alike can engage in genuine dialogue. This modern...
Oct 07, 2024•56 min•Season 2Ep. 52
In this thought-provoking discussion, we explore the delicate balance of defending our spouses and maintaining personal accountability in our relationships. While the Bible doesn't directly address this topic, we can draw wisdom from Ephesians 5:25, which calls husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church. This love isn't about blindly defending, but about nurturing growth and maturity. We're challenged to consider: When should we step in to defend our spouse, and when should we allow...
Oct 03, 2024•47 min•Season 1Ep. 51
In this powerful discussion, we explore the profound concept of humility in leadership and ministry. The conversation draws parallels to the biblical story of King Saul and David, reminding us that true success isn't about personal glory, but about stewarding God's vision. We're challenged to consider: Are we building our ministries around a person, or around God's mission? The speakers emphasize that humility isn't about false modesty, but about prioritizing the vision God has given us over our...
Sep 30, 2024•1 hr 25 min•Season 2Ep. 51
In our journey of faith and relationships, we often encounter clichés that seem to offer simple solutions. However, as we delve deeper, we realize that true wisdom lies beyond these surface-level statements. One such cliché we explored is 'Happy wife, happy life.' While it may sound appealing, we discovered that making our spouse's happiness the sole focus can lead to unhealthy patterns and neglect of God's greater purpose for our marriages. Instead, we're called to seek a vision for our family ...
Sep 26, 2024•49 min•Season 1Ep. 50
Join us for a transformative episode where we reflect on our recent retreat experience with Young Guns and how we can learn to operate in the prophetic realm, as well as discern the difference between real and false prophets. Listen as Pastor Adam and Sammy give their prophetic experiences they received at Young Guns and how it changed their lives. Have you ever received a prophetic word that changed your outlook on life? Let us know in the comments! -- Connect with: Pastor Adam Mesa https://www...
Sep 23, 2024•1 hr 20 min•Season 2Ep. 50
In this powerful discussion, we delve into the sacred bonds of marriage and the importance of maintaining strong boundaries. While no specific scripture is directly quoted, the message strongly echoes the principles found in Ephesians 5:33, which calls husbands to love their wives and wives to respect their husbands. We explore how seemingly innocent interactions can potentially dishonor our spouses and compromise the sanctity of our marital covenant. The conversation challenges us to examine ou...
Sep 19, 2024•57 min•Season 1Ep. 49
In this powerful discussion, we explore the delicate balance between personal growth and organizational leadership in ministry. The conversation reminds us of the biblical principle found in 1 Corinthians 12, where Paul describes the church as a body with many parts. Just as each part of the body has a unique function, we learn that leaders must recognize their strengths and weaknesses, understanding when to step forward and when to empower others. This insight challenges us to reflect on our ow...
Sep 16, 2024•1 hr 6 min•Season 2Ep. 49
In our spiritual journey, we often grapple with the question of how to balance our individual relationship with God and our shared faith experiences. This discussion delves into the importance of maintaining healthy boundaries in our spiritual lives, especially when it comes to dating relationships. We're reminded that while praying together and supporting one another's faith is beautiful, there's a level of spiritual intimacy that's best reserved for marriage. The wisdom shared encourages us to...
Sep 12, 2024•52 min•Season 1Ep. 48
As we approach our upcoming Patria Conference, we're reminded of the power of coming together in faith. Like Gideon's army in the Old Testament, God often works through a committed few rather than a crowd. This conference isn't about numbers, but about creating a space where every attendee is there for a purpose. It's an opportunity to disconnect from our daily burdens and spend consecutive days in God's presence, much like the tent revivals of old. We're challenged to invest in our spiritual gr...
Sep 09, 2024•1 hr 10 min•Season 2Ep. 48
In this exploration of marital communication, we discover the profound differences between how men and women express themselves and process emotions. We're reminded of the importance of understanding our spouse's unique communication style, which reflects God's intentional design for complementary partnerships. Just as the body of Christ has many parts with different functions (1 Corinthians 12:12-27), so too do husbands and wives bring diverse strengths to their union. By embracing these differ...
Sep 05, 2024•53 min•Season 1Ep. 47
In this profound discussion, we explore the delicate balance between standing firm in biblical truth and responding to cultural challenges with love and grace. The conversation centers on Acts 3:19, reminding us that the purpose of the Gospel is to experience Jesus' presence through repentance. We're challenged to consider how we can impact culture in a Christ-like manner, focusing on individual hearts rather than waging public wars. The story of Paul in Ephesus (Acts 19) serves as a powerful ex...
Sep 02, 2024•1 hr 31 min•Season 2Ep. 47
In this engaging discussion, we explore the powerful connection between athletics and spiritual leadership. Just as great coaches know how to bring out the best in their players, we as believers are called to nurture and develop the unique gifts within our faith community. The conversation reminds us of Jesus' approach to His disciples - recognizing their individual strengths and challenging them to grow. We're encouraged to embrace a spirit of humility and coachability in our own lives, activel...
Aug 26, 2024•1 hr 16 min•Season 2Ep. 46
In this profound discussion, we explore the sacred nature of marriage and its connection to our spiritual journey. The conversation reminds us that marriage is not just about finding 'the one,' but about cultivating a covenant relationship that reflects Christ's love for the church. We're challenged to view our spouse as a gift from God, recognizing that the struggles and growth we experience together are part of God's refining process. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of prioritizing our ...
Aug 19, 2024•1 hr 19 min•Season 2Ep. 45
In this engaging discussion, we explore the challenges and joys of Christian dating and relationships. The conversation reminds us of Ruth's story in the Bible, where Naomi gave practical advice for finding a spouse. We're encouraged to be open to God's unexpected plans, just as Sanaz was when she met her husband Nathan, who didn't fit her preconceived notions. This teaches us to trust in God's wisdom over our own preferences. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of character over superficial ...
Aug 12, 2024•1 hr 30 min•Season 2Ep. 44
In this thought-provoking discussion, we explore the concept of authenticity in our faith journey. Just as Snoop Dogg has reinvented himself while staying true to his core identity, we're challenged to consider how we can be authentic in different spheres of life without compromising our values. The conversation reminds us of Jesus' teachings on integrity, urging us to be the same person in private as we are in public. We're encouraged to reflect on how we can maintain our true selves while navi...
Aug 05, 2024•1 hr 23 min•Season 2Ep. 43
In this powerful episode, we explore the vital connection between faith, family, and fitness. We're reminded that these three 'F's are essential for a healthy, balanced life. The discussion emphasizes the importance of supporting our spouses in their health and fitness journeys, recognizing that true support goes beyond mere words. We're challenged to create an environment that fosters growth, whether it's removing temptations from the home or adjusting schedules to accommodate workout routines....
Aug 01, 2024•51 min•Season 1Ep. 46
In this thought-provoking discussion, we explore the concept of obsession and its role in achieving excellence. Just as Kobe Bryant's obsessive work ethic led to his basketball greatness, we're challenged to consider how our own obsessions might be channeled for spiritual growth and Kingdom impact. The conversation draws parallels to Jesus' relationship with His disciples, reminding us that true leadership often involves 'makership' - the hands-on process of developing others. This echoes Christ...
Jul 29, 2024•1 hr 20 min•Season 2Ep. 42
Why is it important for your spouse to support you in your faith, in marriage, while dating, and engaged? In our journey of faith, we often encounter challenges in supporting our spouse's spiritual growth. This discussion reminds us of the importance of encouraging our partners in their relationship with God. We're called to create space for our loved ones to develop their faith, whether it's through personal Bible study, prayer, or attending church. Let's reflect on how we can better support ou...
Jul 27, 2024•58 min•Season 1Ep. 45
Welcome to Beyond I Do with your hosts, Adam and Ashlee! In this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashlee are on vacation in Mexico, but the conversations don't take a break! We explore the significance of building strong family relationships, touching on the importance of knowing key family dates and being actively involved in our children's lives. We also highlight the impact grandparents can have on family dynamics. Balancing work and family responsibilities is another key topic we cover, disc...
Jul 20, 2024•1 hr 1 min•Season 1Ep. 44
Join us as we dive into candid conversations on a myriad of topics, from historical events and traditions to contemporary societal issues. In this episode, we delve into the rich and complex role of traditions in shaping church culture. Our episode dives into thought-provoking discussions on the balance between preserving traditions and embracing modernity. We share personal stories and historical narratives that highlight the importance of passing down heritage and educating future generations ...
Jul 15, 2024•1 hr 11 min•Season 2Ep. 40
BID Family, look who is back, our good friends Fuego and Tiffany! Get ready to laugh, cry and laugh and cry some more, AGAIN!! From the exhilarating journey of building a church from the ground up to reflections on boundaries within marriage and ministry, our conversation is filled with transparency and honesty. Join us to uncover how the loving embrace of a community can transform even the most broken spirits into beacons of hope and renewal, inspiring you to face life's challenges with faith a...
Jul 11, 2024•1 hr 3 min•Season 1Ep. 43
Before we get started, we had to jump in with some JUNE BIRTHDAYS! Pastor Adam on June 23rd and Pastor Will on June 24th! Aside from our wonderful vocals singing happy birthday, we had a profound discussion, where we explore the challenges of maintaining integrity in leadership and relationships. The conversation delves into the importance of transparency, accountability, and confession in both marriage and spiritual leadership. We're reminded that no one is immune to temptation, and it's crucia...
Jul 08, 2024•1 hr 38 min•Season 2Ep. 39
In this powerful discussion on marriage, we're reminded of the sacred covenant between husband and wife. The conversation delves into the challenges faced by couples, especially after having children. We're encouraged to view marriage as a lifelong commitment, not subject to fleeting emotions or physical changes. The message emphasizes the importance of selflessness, patience, and understanding, particularly during difficult seasons like postpartum depression. We're called to reflect on how we c...
Jul 04, 2024•57 min•Season 1Ep. 42
In our journey of faith, we often seek guidance from those who have walked the path before us. This conversation delves into the profound importance of mentorship in our spiritual lives. We're reminded that true mentorship isn't about casual friendship, but about intentional growth and accountability. Just as Paul mentored Timothy in the Bible, we too should seek out wise counsel to help us navigate life's challenges. The key is to approach mentorship with humility, transparency, and a genuine d...
Jul 01, 2024•1 hr 16 min•Season 2Ep. 38
In our journey of faith and marriage, we often face challenges balancing our personal ambitions with family responsibilities. This conversation highlights the importance of mutual support and understanding between spouses, especially when one partner has a demanding career or calling. We're reminded of the biblical principle of 'two becoming one' in marriage, and how this unity can be strengthened through open communication and shared goals. Ashlee demonstrates a Christ-like attitude of sacrific...
Jun 27, 2024•56 min•Season 1Ep. 41
In this powerful discussion, we explore the theme of humility and its transformative power in our lives. We're reminded of the biblical story of David, who despite his grave sins, was not cast out of the palace. This serves as a poignant reminder of God's unfailing love and forgiveness. The conversation delves into personal experiences of humiliation and shame, highlighting how these moments can lead to profound spiritual growth. We learn that true repentance isn't just about consequences, but a...
Jun 24, 2024•1 hr 5 min•Season 2Ep. 37
In this insightful discussion, we explore the profound spiritual lessons that can guide us in building strong, God-centered relationships. The key message emphasizes the importance of evaluating a potential partner's character, work ethic, and relationship with God, rather than focusing solely on superficial aspects like material provision. We are reminded of the biblical principles that define a true partnership - selflessness, commitment, and the desire to honor God through the union. The conv...
Jun 20, 2024•59 min•Season 1Ep. 40
First and foremost, HAPPY FATHER'S DAY to all our fathers and father figures out there! We have a powerful episode for you today! We explore the transformative journey of a man who overcame generational curses and discovered his true calling as a father and spiritual leader. Through his raw and authentic testimony, we witness how God's grace can redeem even the most broken relationships and equip us to break free from cycles of dysfunction. Dennis Powell, former Los Angeles Dodger pitcher, share...
Jun 17, 2024•1 hr 6 min•Season 2Ep. 36
In this inspiring discussion, we explore the profound importance of nurturing our marriages and making quality time with our spouses a top priority. Just as we need to care for our own bodies as temples of the Holy Spirit, we must also tend to the sacred bond of marriage, even amidst the busyness of parenting and life's demands. Through honest communication, self-reflection, and seeking God's wisdom, we can identify areas where our marriages need strengthening. By intentionally setting aside tim...
Jun 13, 2024•1 hr 3 min•Season 1Ep. 39
