to holistic well-being. From confronting stress to embracing vitality, our hosts and guests share personal narratives of growth and the profound impact of balanced living. In this conversation, Adam and guests Will Chung, Nancy, and Phil discuss their paths to finding equilibrium in diet, exercise, and rest. Adam shares his inspiring story of overcoming health hurdles, shedding 50 pounds, and rejuvenating his life through lifestyle adjustments and fitness routines. Phil's remarkable journey of l...
Jun 10, 2024•1 hr 27 min•Season 2Ep. 35
In this lively and candid episode of Beyond I Do, newlyweds Colin and Eileen reflect on their first year of marriage, diving into the joys and challenges they've faced. Navigating new careers, setting healthy boundaries with opposite-sex friends, and learning to communicate effectively are just a few of the key topics discussed. They share insightful tips on balancing traditions during the holidays, the importance of pre-marital counseling, and how their relationship has grown stronger despite t...
Jun 06, 2024•41 min•Season 1Ep. 38
In this powerful conversation, we explore the depths of our own insecurities and the mental battles we face as we strive to live out God's calling on our lives. Drawing from the example of Jesus in Mark 6, where he had compassion on the crowds despite his own need for rest, we are challenged to find the balance between self-care and selfless service. The discussion also touches on the importance of perseverance and resilience in the face of criticism and self-doubt, reminding us that our signifi...
Jun 03, 2024•1 hr 22 min•Season 2Ep. 34
In today's episode we are answering a listeners question! This discussion dives deep into the importance of maintaining healthy boundaries and purity within a marriage. We learn that introducing external sexual influences, whether pornography, strip clubs, or other deviant behaviors, can slowly erode the intimacy and oneness God intended for the marital relationship. Just as detoxing from an addiction is a difficult process, removing these negative elements from a marriage is challenging but ess...
May 30, 2024•39 min•Season 1Ep. 37
Navigating the tricky waters of friendship and loyalty can be as complex as it is heartwarming. How do you balance your personal feelings with the need to publicly defend a friend? This episode peels back the layers of such dilemmas, with stories and insights that resonate with anyone who's ever been torn between allegiance and authenticity. Our little podcast journey, "Beyond the Letter," has taken us to places and connected us with people we never expected, and for that, we are truly grateful....
May 27, 2024•1 hr 27 min•Season 2Ep. 33
Hey BID Fam! We got an update on the rims lol but we also have a lot more in this episode (BID S1E35) In this heartfelt conversation, we explore the profound spiritual lessons that can be gleaned from the everyday moments and challenges of married life. From the seemingly trivial frustrations over damaged car rims to the deeper questions around gender roles and wedding traditions, there are treasures of wisdom to uncover when we view our relationships through the lens of faith. We are reminded o...
May 23, 2024•1 hr 6 min•Season 1Ep. 36
Welcome back to another episode! Today's episode is a little special as our table delves deep into the world of therapy, trauma, and emotional healing. Special guests Gage, Colin, and Sanaz bring their collective expertise from the fields of applied behavior analysis, marriage and family therapy, and educational counseling.Discover why mental health awareness has become increasingly important and learn about the transformative power of therapy. The conversation navigates through topics such as:-...
May 20, 2024•1 hr 38 min•Season 2Ep. 32
Have you ever been upset with your spouse? lol who hasn't! Our conversation this week mirrors the roads couples travel, with twists, turns, and the occasional need for roadside assistance. We open the trunk on the tools necessary for nurturing the long haul of relationships—listening, laughing, and learning from each misstep. Revving to the finish line, we park at the intersection of personal space and shared life paths, discussing how respecting each other's belongings is more than just about t...
May 16, 2024•46 min•Season 1Ep. 35
As the solemn notes of Israel's Memorial Day resonate, Adam's dear friend, Aviad, an Orthodox Jew, joins us with his companions to share a tapestry of narratives that often remain unheard amidst the turmoil of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict. Their voices echo the heartache of parents mourning their son, the valor in the face of tragedy, and the unyielding connection to a land etched with historical scars. Each story unfolds the complexities of existence in a region where joy and sorrow are int...
May 13, 2024•1 hr 22 min•Season 2Ep. 31
On this week's BEYOND I DO PODCAST episode, we discuss a QUESTION from a faithful listener: I’ve heard you guys talk about blended families. Could you talk about religions within families? My husband & I grew up Catholic his family very religious practicing Catholics. We decided to go out in our faith & consider ourselves Christians. We feel it’s where God has called us, but his family always has a lot to say about people who are not. In their religion they have never said anything direc...
May 09, 2024•55 min•Season 1Ep. 34
Did you hear?? Russell Brand got baptized! In this episode we explore the realm of online relationships, we highlights amusing misunderstandings and teases, while delving into deeper topics like the evolution of public personas through faith journeys such as Russell Brand's and Candace Owens'. We wrap up with reflections on faith, mentorship, and community, the episode encourages creating a more inclusive and supportive space for individuals on their spiritual journeys. Join this thought-provoki...
May 06, 2024•1 hr 14 min•Season 2Ep. 30
BID Family! Get ready to laugh, cry and laugh and cry some more!! In this week's episode, we delve into the captivating world of church planting alongside our friends Fuego and Tiffany, two dynamic individuals from Alameda. From the highs and lows of building a church from scratch to the heartwarming connections forged along the way, our conversation is infused with laughter, poignant moments, and profound insights that will leave you uplifted and eager for more. Our daily lives are woven with d...
May 02, 2024•1 hr 7 min•Season 1Ep. 33
Join us in this eye-opening episode as we delve into the significance of flirting beyond the dating scene. Discover how small gestures of love can fortify your marriage and serve as a guiding light for your children. From heartfelt compliments to spontaneous acts of affection, learn how these actions nurture the core of your relationship. But our conversation doesn't stop there. We challenge the notion of rejection and explore its potential to fuel personal growth, leadership, and spiritual resi...
Apr 29, 2024•1 hr 31 min•Season 2Ep. 29
Balancing the scales of work and family life might seem like a circus act, but with a dash of humor and heaps of wisdom, we're here to show it's not all high-wire without a net! Join us, along with the ever-charming Mrs. Pauline Mesa, Ashlee and Sanaz as we swap stories from the trenches of daily routines and giggle over the eccentricities of long-term love. Our conversation takes you through the paces of a day in the life of those juggling professional ambitions with the warmth of a family hear...
Apr 25, 2024•1 hr 2 min•Season 1Ep. 32
This episode is a little different than anything we've ever done before... Join us at the table with our host, Adam Mesa, along with his father Pastor Diego Mesa as well a familiar face, our co-host, Will Chung and our special new guest, Pastor Jimmy as they discuss the a momentous transition, a change in our church's name to......you'll have to tune in to find out! Throughout our discussions, we delve into the emotional and spiritual dynamics of leadership succession, exploring the delicate bal...
Apr 22, 2024•1 hr 26 min•Season 2Ep. 6
Join us in this heartfelt episode as we delve into the emotional aftermath of breakups and the complexities of moving forward into new relationships. We explore the tangled web of feelings and experiences that often accompany the end of a romance and the challenges of embarking on a fresh journey while still grappling with unresolved emotions. Through candid stories and reflections, we highlight the importance of self-awareness, integrity, and personal growth in navigating the delicate terrain o...
Apr 18, 2024•49 min•Season 1Ep. 31
This episode is one you’re going to want to tune into! Join us for this riveting table of leaders as we are joined by Brad Lomenick, the author of H3 Leadership. The conversation is fact and navigates different complexities perfect for any listener! This isn't your average leadership talk. Our conversations dance through the greens of golf courses to the smoky debates over cigars in Christian culture. Listen in and discover how saying 'no' might just clear the path for your 'best yes,' and how e...
Apr 15, 2024•1 hr 17 min•Season 2Ep. 27
Ever been stuck in the murky waters of post-breakup friendships or wrestled with the digital ghost of a past relationship on your social media feed? Adam and Ashlee share how they navigate the choppy seas of relationships past and present with humor and a bit of wisdom. But it's not all laughs — though we do love a good round of the latter. We wade into the deeper end when discussing the sometimes uncomfortable conversations necessary to set boundaries with exes, especially when they linger like...
Apr 11, 2024•37 min•Season 1Ep. 30
Join us as we explore the multifaceted world of faith and its interaction with youth culture, particularly within the Mormon church. We discuss the mission work that is a rite of passage for young Mormons, contrasting the experiences of men and women and their distinct approaches to service. Listen in as we navigate the challenges young people face when expressing and defending their faith, and how church culture and preaching can be complex yet accessible. This episode also delves into the prov...
Apr 08, 2024•1 hr 27 min•Season 2Ep. 26
Feeling comfortable in our own skin, especially in the intimate quarters of marriage, can be a complex dance of emotions and self-perception. Imagine opening up to your partner about the deepest insecurities that haunt your body image, or better yet, embracing those very insecurities to find a deeper connection. That's exactly where we venture in this heartfelt episode as we navigate the sensitive topic of body dysmorphia and its profound impact on marital intimacy. From the physical changes ush...
Apr 04, 2024•54 min•Season 1Ep. 29
BTL Fam, we hope you have your tissues ready because it is one of those episodes that will move your heart. We talk about the intimate threads of parenting, our discussion unveils the varying approaches to nurturing children in a world saturated with information and opinions. One mother's viral take on education and mental health strikes a chord, prompting us to reflect on the intricate dance of freedom and boundaries. We navigate through the sensitive terrains of trauma, intimacy, and the subtl...
Apr 01, 2024•1 hr 29 min•Season 2Ep. 25
Have you ever burst into laughter upon seeing a colleague's overly personal profile picture pop up on your phone? We've all been there! The fun doesn't stop there; we also swap tales about our most cherished pieces of jewelry and tattoos that celebrate family pride, diving into the emotional depth behind these tokens and the cultural expectations they defy. Imagine your partner consistently pursuing self-improvement and inspiring you along the way – that's the story Ashlee shares about her husba...
Mar 28, 2024•57 min•Season 1Ep. 28
BTL Fam! We have yet, another debate. If you could eat something all day, do you prefer breakfast, lunch, or dinner? LET US KNOW IN THE COMMENTS! Before we jump in to what this episode is about. We have a newbie at the table! Help us welcome Alyssa Cano, she is the Kids Director at Abundant Living Family Church, a wife, a new mother and a woman of many talents! Now, let's jump in to what this episode is about! Sure, you've seen the viral dances, but have you considered TikTok as a serious platfo...
Mar 25, 2024•1 hr 22 min•Season 2Ep. 24
What matters more when choosing a partner: someone you can build a life with or someone you are in love with? Have you ever questioned the recipe for a lasting marriage? Is it a pinch of love or a hefty scoop of practicality? We tackle this heart-centered debate head-on, challenging the conventional wisdom that suggests foundations of practicality might outweigh those of romance. We dissect this layered issue by reflecting on a provocative video that ignited our thoughts, and we weave in our own...
Mar 21, 2024•50 min•Season 1Ep. 27
When Tye Tribbett stepped into the studio with The Breakfast Club, he didn't just bring his music; he brought a storm of introspection and bold challenges to the status quo of faith and fellowship. Our latest episode peels back the layers of this impactful conversation, exploring the nuances of personal pride, the complex dance between hip-hop and gospel, and the striking dichotomy between God and institutionalized religion. Discover how Tye Tribbet's shift from traditional church to online mini...
Mar 18, 2024•1 hr 4 min•Season 2Ep. 23
Have you ever felt your heart skip a beat when your partner's gaze lingered a little too long on someone else? It's that uncomfortable cocktail of emotions we unpack in our latest heart-to-heart, where we tackle the gritty realities of marriage, trust, and the dreaded wandering eye. Your stories have touched us deeply, stirring a frank discussion on managing the tightrope walk of finances, trust, and personal boundaries within relationships. We're here to offer a shoulder, an ear, and our own ta...
Mar 14, 2024•52 min•Season 1Ep. 26
Hey BTL Fam! For the first time joining us at the table, the man behind the scenes, help us welcome, Phil Cota!! Phil is one of Adam's closest friends and he sits with us as he shares the landscapes of past identities, near-death experiences, and the embrace of a higher purpose. We weave through stories of personal evolution where the unruly threads of previous lives entangle with the golden strands of redemption and faith. Witness the metamorphosis of individuals from gang affiliates to protect...
Mar 11, 2024•1 hr 11 min•Season 2Ep. 22
Embarking on the quest for love can often feel like navigating a maze without a map, but fear not, for we've got some light to help guide the way! Adam and Ashlee open their hearts, discussing the intricate dance of Christian dating—a journey where 'game' takes on a new, more genuine form. They tackle the myths and truths about confidence and courtship, all while reflecting on the thoughtful strategies and faith-led boundaries Adam embraced in the pursuit of his now-wife, Ashlee. It's a candid n...
Mar 07, 2024•50 min•Season 1Ep. 25
Have you ever read something in the bible that did not make sense at all?? If your answer was yes, don't worry, you're not alone. We have Pastor Will, Pastor Aaron and Pastor Adam who dive into an invaluable conversation about engaging with the Bible in ways that transform routine reading into a life-altering practice. In this episode discover how simple strategies and innovative tools like the Street Lights Bible app can change your scriptural experience, regardless of where you are on your fai...
Mar 04, 2024•1 hr 17 min•Season 2Ep. 21
Ever found yourself reaching for the check at dinner, only to be met with a mix of gratitude and awkwardness?Adam and Ashlee open up about the delicate dance of generosity in our latest episode, where we tackle everything from dating faux pas to the intricate balance of giving without overstepping. Our conversation is a blend of humor and insight that takes you through the giving game, with stories of secret birthday meal payments and the silent 'dance' of bill-paying among friends that will lea...
Feb 29, 2024•55 min•Season 1Ep. 24
