Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of iHeartRadio. Good Morning, This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. Today's tip is to make time for you a habit. Even if you are not entirely sure what hobbies or passions you'd like to pursue, carving out time for yourself can help you start to figure this out. In my most recent book, Tranquility by Tuesday, I talk about my nine favorite time management rules that can help people calm the
chaos and make time for what matters. One of those rules, rule number seven, to be exact, is to take one night for you. I challenge busy people to spend a few hours a week on something that is not work and is not caring for family. It is just for you. Doing so can make life feel more sustainable and joyful. Ideally, this night for you involves a commitment to something you find energizing. I sing an a choir on Thursday nights.
Some people have a regular tennis game with a partner, or play on a softball team, or attend a painting class, or volunteer at a food bank every Wednesday after work. These are all great ideas, but sometimes people tell me that they are not sure what they would do with their night off. They don't have a particular passion or hobby that seems to lend itself to this, or if they do, there might not be great opportunities for that
thing in their community. I do think that in this wide world, and especially we consider all the virtual options out there, people can come up with something. But even if you are not sure what you would do, I'd strongly suggest committing to take a few hours a week to explore your interests in the hopes of figuring it out. Time for you can be a habit even if you're not totally sure what you will do with it. If you've got young kids, there are obvious logistical challenges with this.
So if you've got a co parent, one great ideas just too trade off. Each of you gets one night off each week and you cover for each other. On your night off. Just go do something. Visit a friend, go to a bookstore, sit in a coffee shop, take a walk, go to the gym, maybe go to a movie or anything along those lines. It doesn't have to be perfect, it just has to be reasonably enjoyable. The next week, during your time off, do the same thing
or do something else, see what you enjoy. If you keep finding yourself doing something similar, that might be a clue to your interests. If you always wind up in your town's museum or galleries, you might enjoy an art class. If you find you really enjoy a particular class at your gym, you can start thinking of yourself as a regular and get to know the other attendees. Or you can use this time to sit in a coffee shop and think about what you enjoyed as a kid and
brainstorm ways to do this now. If you don't have someone who can easily cover for your kids, this is obviously more complicated. I do think that having one night off a week might be a reasonable use of babysitting funds over the long run, getting one night off each week can make you a more present and have person. But if that is not going to fly, you might also be able to build up a community of other folks in similar circumstances who can cover for each other.
A friend gets Tuesday night off and you take her kids, and she takes your kids on Thursday nights. But by figuring out a way to build this time into your life, you will start thinking about what you'd like to do with it. You will start approaching your leisure time with more intention. You will start thinking about possibilities rather than assuming that there is no time. You do have time that one night a week you take for you. After a few weeks of trying different things, you might have
more insight into what you enjoy. Or you can start following the clues. You find your aerobics class at the GEM reasonably interesting, but a fellow attendee mentions that she started a tap dancing class at a nearby studio and loves it. You go try that out and just like that, you find a new passion that will have you looking forward to Tuesday nights. Make time for you a habit, and you will start to figure out what you like to do. It really is as simple as that. In
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