S2 Ep20 - Your body is sacred

I'd love you to message me or jump on the website it's just emma-ritchiecom and send me a message , because this is just something that , you know , I've been witnessing for a really long time and I just want to speak up about it because I love women long time . And I just want to speak up about it because I love women .

I love all humans , to be honest , but I especially love women and I really really want to drill home how sacred our bodies are and I really feel like at the moment , I feel like there's this movement which is about empowered women and I think there's a bit of confusion about what empowered is , because there are girls out there going yeah , you know , my body

counts like 30 and I'm 19 , 20 years old and I'm just empowered , I'm just owning it , I'm just doing what I want and , you know , full power to them From my perspective . I look at that and I'm like no one who is feeling empowered and who isn't lacking in self-worth is sleeping with 30 people by the time they're 19 . And I'm not slut shaming those girls .

They can do what they want but I am saying like there is a either , like a lack of integrity , a lack of discernment when they're choosing who they're sleeping with . There is .

You know , it's all good to be horny and go out and do what you want to do , right , and I've certainly had periods in my life where I haven't been with a partner and I've definitely dated and had fun , so , but my biggest concern at the moment is that , girl , it's it's being normalized that you should just hook up with people all the time .

And I was with a friend of mine the other day and , um , he actually runs uh , uh , like a , a mixed kind of football team and uh , they all like 17 , 18 and all of them . He was saying all of them have hooked up with each other . And I was like what ? And he was like , yeah , they've all hooked up and , you know , nothing's come of it .

And I'm just like , oh , my God , it's . It's kind of terrifying . It's terrifying just because I just think girls and I'd love girls to come back to the sacredness of of who they are . So let me just talk a little bit about women's bodies , and I've been on a big journey this last year .

I've done a year long course which is called Journey of the World Feminine , which was run by my amazing friend Anki and yeah , you should check her out at Sacred Rising on Instagram . She's an absolutely incredible teacher and she teaches women's mysteries , and I , in the last year , have learned more than ever like women's bodies .

If you think about what we do , if we , if we do decide to , you know , have children and have a baby and that all happens naturally .

Like you know , our bodies receive , we'll choose the sperm that we want to , you know , go inside the egg and turn into a baby and we will grow a human inside of our body , right , and without us on the planet , there are no more humans .

Without women on the planet , there is no more humans , and so that in itself should add a huge amount of value to you . You are so valuable because without you , a man cannot pass on his DNA , he cannot have a child , he cannot reproduce . There is no way that a man can do this .

I'm not , I'm not paying men down , I'm just saying this is pure biology , right , this is pure fact . A woman you know there are sperm banks and stuff like that now , but you know we cannot men cannot reproduce without women , and so our bodies are a vessel for pure creation and that in itself is incredibly sacred .

And I just think handing our bodies over to guys who you know are don't deserve it or haven't worked for it or haven't proved themselves , you know , like way back when you know men would have to fight or provide , or , you know , try and win the heart of a girl and get her to see the value in him before she handed her value over when now it's just like ,

yeah , do you want to hook up ? Yeah , cool , let's hook up , and it's it's . It's just like , yeah , do you want to hook up ? Yeah , cool , let's hook up , and it's , it's it's . I feel like we're really losing the sacredness of our bodies and we're just handing our . You know that isn't being empowered .

We're handing our power over so , so easily to people that don't deserve it . I'm not bagging out men when I'm saying this . All right , right , I'm just saying a high . This is what people talk about when they talk about a high value woman . Um , this is one of the things .

Um , a high value woman is somebody that actually has that integrity to kind of say to somebody , even if they're showering them with compliments and they're doing all these things , a high value woman is the woman who gets to choose , who chooses , not the woman who's just like , yeah , cool , it's on , let's do it . So I'd love to know your thoughts on this .

I'd love to know what you think , because I'm just seeing it more and more . It's like , you know , really young girls are being sexualized . You know , tiktok , everything . It's all getting a bit . It's all getting a bit icky for me , to be honest , I'm a bit over it .

But working in TV and casting shows and things like that as well , you know , I get to talk to a lot of people in their twenties and , you know , get to hear their stories and some of them are so switched on and so smart and wonderful and I just love talking to them . But then I talk to other people and I'm just kind of like , wow , you are .

You know , this is where self-worth isn't there . It's kind of like this self-worth is is , um , resting on how many guys they can get to like them or you know , or sleep with . You know , it's not the feminine way , it's not , it's not the way that it's meant to be . And I'm not saying to people don't go out and don't have fun and don't hook up .

I'm just saying , like , if you know , when it comes to high value , this is one of the things , um , that it's . It's not about a guy asking you and you feeling like you can't tell him how many people you slept with , and it's not about the number , it's about why you did it .

Um , and if you're just handing your body away to anyone , then what value is it , you know , for ? Uh , down the track . I hope that makes sense . I really would love to hear what anyone else thinks about this , because I just feel like our bodies as women are so sacred . We are the CEOs of them .

We get to decide what to do with them , but the more that we just kind of .

It's almost like , if you think about it , like being a CEO of a business and just employing anyone in your company , right , just going , yeah , they'll do , they'll do , they'll do , they'll do like how in your company , right , just going , yeah , they'll do , they'll do , they'll do , they'll do Like , how is your company going to thrive if you're just accepting

anyone Tom Dick or Harry right ? How is your business and your company going to thrive if you were just accepting anybody into your company ? And that is what your body is like . If you were just accepting any guy into your body . It's like the value . How are you meant to thrive ? How is your value meant to thrive ? How's your brand ?

How's your reputation , company , as the CEO of your body like ? What's your reputation ? You know people only want to buy , people only place high value on things that have a great reputation , that are known for discernment , that are known for integrity , that are known for making great decisions and really good choices about who they have around them .

So yeah , just take that on board and let me know what you think I'd love to know . And at the same time , you know we're all sexual beings . I'm not saying you know you have to go and join the nunnery or anything like that . I'm just saying I think we're losing something really , really special here . I think we've lost touch with our value as women .

It's not just to have casual sex with people , it's . We have so much to offer and I really do believe this is like the battle at the moment with the masculine

and feminine . There's so much negativity between men and women and the masculine and the feminine , but actually really what it comes down to is the feminine is the receiving and the feminine is the one that ultimately makes the decision .

It doesn't come down to a man to make a decision whether he can have sex with you or not , and if he does make that decision , that's a whole nother word . But basically , a woman , that's true empowerment .

A woman deciding if she wants to have sex if this man has proved himself and his worthiness of you , that's true sacredness , that's true empowerment , that's true discernment when you choose and you decide when you're ready , if you're ready . So yeah , send me a message . I'd love to know what you think and , as always , it's a pleasure being here .

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