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Becoming Whole

Regeneration Ministrieswww.regenerationministries.org

Relationships and sexuality are areas of life that can be beautiful or confusing, life-giving, or painful. Becoming Whole is a conversational podcast for men, women, and families seeking to draw nearer to Jesus as they navigate topics like sexual integrity, relational healing, spiritual health, and so much more.

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Episodes

We Need Apocalypse

Send us a text In this episode Josh delves into the concept of apocalypse, not as the end of the world, but as a revelation and unveiling of deeper truths. Relating the concept to ancient literary genres and pop culture references, Josh explores the idea that our current world is concealing important realities, particularly in the realm of sexuality. Drawing parallels between spiritual apocalypses and societal patterns, he emphasizes the need for a revelation to break free from distorted views o...

Dec 26, 202314 minSeason 1Ep. 291

Letting Jesus Touch Your Shame

Send us a text Do you ever feel that parts of your life are too dirty or shameful to reveal? If we are honest there are challenging aspects of our sexual stories that we often prefer to keep in the shadows. We all carry struggles and pains, but what if we could turn them towards Jesus for healing and restoration? As we reflect upon the story of the leper, a man considered unclean and cast out, we are reminded of Jesus's willingness to touch and cleanse him. This calls us to bring all parts of ou...

Dec 19, 202314 minSeason 1Ep. 290

You will be hungry

Send us a text Does becoming a Christian mean you've unlocked the key to full satisfaction in life? Let's explore that myth together. Our longing for God is infinite, and we won't find full satisfaction in this fallen world until we meet Jesus face to face. In this episode, we uncover a common error that may be holding you back from becoming whole. Recognizing your hunger for God can lead to true freedom and sexual integrity. We discuss how accepting our infinite thirst can keep us on course tow...

Dec 12, 202310 minSeason 1Ep. 289

Your Journey to Integrity Will Hurt

Send us a text Are you tired of the chains of sexual sin and yearning for wholeness? It’s time to step off the beaten path and confront the pain and suffering that often accompany the pursuit of sexual integrity. Drawing inspiration from the teachings of Bishop Robert Barron, we engage in a poignant conversation about the realities of life in a fallen world. It's not easy, but as followers of Christ, we are reminded that enduring suffering is part of our journey. This is not about dwelling in pa...

Dec 05, 202315 minSeason 1Ep. 288

Why Plucking Bad Fruit Doesn't Work

Send us a text How often do we truly examine the 'bad fruit' in our lives? In an honest and revealing conversation, we venture deep into this concept, drawing inspiration from Brother Lawrence's book "The Practice of the Presence of God". We discuss the temptation to quickly discard these imperfections, instead of tracing them back to their roots. We encourage you to invite Jesus into your life to not only confront these sins but to help bear good fruit. We then transition to the transformative ...

Nov 28, 202312 minSeason 1Ep. 287

Story Work - Part 2

Send us a text What does it mean to feel stuck in unwanted sexual behavior, and how does our personal anger factor into the equation? This very question is what we are unpacking in this episode with our guest Aaron Tagert. We walk with you through the profound insights of Jay Stringer, aiming to shed light on the six core experiences that characterize these struggles: deprivation, dissociation, unconscious arousal, futility, lust, and anger. In the midst of these conversations, Aaron urges us to...

Nov 21, 202319 minEp. 286

Story Work - Part 1

Send us a text What if we told you that exploring your past could be the key to unlocking your sexual wholeness and integrity? This episode is a powerful exploration of understanding sexual brokenness and the path toward healing. Join our riveting conversation with Aaron Tagert, a seasoned coach at Regeneration, as we dissect the insights from Jay Stringer's thought-provoking book, Unwanted. We'll confront our family dynamics, the effects of abandonment and enmeshment, and the pivotal role curio...

Nov 14, 202316 minEp. 285

3 Legs of the Journey to Sexual Integrity

Send us a text Are you ready to step up and take control of your sexual integrity? This episode will equip you with a blueprint to do just that. We journey into the first leg of this process - managing patterns and creating boundaries to shield ourselves from behaviors that lead us astray. From identifying your triggers to setting up filters, blocks, and time limits, we’ll guide you through creating yellow line and guardrail boundaries - a potent double barrier to ward off temptation. Then we ta...

Nov 07, 202316 minEp. 284

Does the Enemy Really Want You to Have Fun?

Send us a text Imagine a cunning enemy, a cloaked figure weaving a grand illusion, promising sweet pleasures and enticing favors. But beneath the guise, he's a true enslaver, pulling you into a web spun from deceptions and false promises. That's Satan for you – not the fun uncle he pretends to be but a true master of disguise. Through an exciting exploration of biblical stories and fairy tales, we unmask his cunning strategies, drawing parallels from Jesus's temptation in the desert and the Litt...

Oct 31, 202311 minEp. 283

Down the Rabbit Hole: Navigating the Joys and Pitfalls of the Internet Era

Send us a text Picture you're a 14-year-old growing up in the digital age, with a universe of information at your fingertips - thrilling, isn't it? That's the world my son and I explore in this honest chat, scrutinizing the marvels and the perils of the internet era. We dive into the advantages, like the ease of satisfying curiosity or troubleshooting issues, and the pitfalls, like the danger of sliding into a rabbit hole of misinformation. We even share personal anecdotes about treading the thi...

Oct 24, 202310 minEp. 282

Understanding the Root Issues Behind our Behaviors

Send us a text Have you ever wondered why we keep producing 'bad fruit' in our lives? What if the key to addressing these issues is not just to pluck them away, but to trace them back to their roots? Let's journey together through an exploration of life's root issues, inspired by Jesus' saying that a healthy tree cannot bear bad fruit. We'll discuss how to acknowledge our condition without shame or isolation, and how to seek guidance from Jesus. In our deep dive, we'll also reflect on how Jesus ...

Oct 17, 202312 minEp. 281

Examining the Theological Implications of Pornography

Send us a text What if there's more to our bodies than what meets the eye in the world of pornography? Engage with us in this eye-opening conversation as we expose the profound distortions in the portrayal of human bodies and sexuality in pornography. We dig into the theological implications, examining the chasm between the demeaning images presented in adult content and the divine design of our bodies. We've discovered a troubling narrative, where male strength and genitalia are associated with...

Oct 10, 202314 minEp. 280

Theology of the Body: Discovering How Pornography Distorts God's Sacred Design

Send us a text Prepare to be enlightened about the intriguing interplay between theology, our bodies, and sexuality. Ever wondered how our bodies reflect the divine image? Strap in and get set to unlock the enigmas behind theology of the body. We journey together, investigating the divine design of male and female, the sacredness in our roles as parents, and our destiny as human beings. We delve into the profound symbolism embedded in marital union, pregnancy, and even a woman's labor pain as a ...

Oct 03, 202311 minEp. 279

The Spell of Cultural Language: Navigating the Confusion of Our Sexually Dark Age

Send us a text Language wields more power than we often consider, particularly when it comes to sexuality. As we've noticed, the words we use to discuss topics like abortion - 'pro-life' and 'pro-choice' - carry substantial weight and can reveal underlying worldviews. We've also seen a fascinating evolution in how society talks about gender transitioning, shifting from 'sex change operation' to 'gender reassignment surgery', and now, 'gender confirmation surgery'. So, we're going to delve into t...

Sep 26, 202315 minEp. 278

Unlocking Sexual Integrity Through the Power of Your Words

Send us a text Ever wondered how the words we whisper, speak, or shout can shape our reality, particularly in our pursuit of sexual integrity? Prepare to expand your understanding as we delve into the astounding power of language - both God's and our own. Drawing from scripture, we explore how words can either propel us towards or pull us away from our quest. Ready to use this powerful tool to move forward on your journey to sexual integrity? Join us as we unravel this intriguing concept. Ever s...

Sep 19, 202318 minEp. 277

Becoming Someone More: We Are More Than Our Sexual Addictions

Send us a text This episode is not just a guide, it is an invitation to transformation, to becoming more like God in every aspect of your life. Imagine giving up unwanted sexual behavior, not just in the sense of refraining from certain acts, but in the transformative way that helps you align closer with God's design for your sexuality. This episode takes you on that enlightening journey, shedding light on how to not just become a non-entity, but how to recognize the goodness within yourself. We...

Sep 12, 202312 minEp. 276

Seeing Through Porn’s Illusions

Send us a text Let's pulls back the curtain on pornography and explore the truth about the men and women involved in the industry. We often see these individuals as people who simply love money and sex, but the reality is far more complex. Through real-life testimonies and research, we discover that those in the porn industry may be dealing with addiction, desperation, past abuse, and various other factors. Josh encourages us to see beyond the facade and recognize these individuals as whole peop...

Sep 05, 202317 minEp. 275

Battling Cultural Expectations: The Challenge of Vulnerability for Men in Society

Send us a text Are you hiding parts of yourself out of fear or shame, most notably in relation to sexual sins and insecurities? You're not alone. We'll venture back to the Garden of Eden, exploring the original concept of being 'naked and unashamed', and how our perception of vulnerability has been distorted since sin became part of our world. This episode serves as a sanctuary to inspect our fears, acknowledging that it's normal to feel endangered as we expose our truest selves, and how experie...

Aug 29, 202311 minEp. 274

Navigating the Intersection of Spiritual Needs and Human Desires

Send us a text Have you ever paused to consider that our sexual desires are essentially a longing for God's presence? In our enlightening conversation, we unearth the profound connection between our physical desires and our spiritual hunger. We discuss the concept that temptations, such as pornography and other sexual behaviors, are not mere urges but indicators of a deeper yearning for God. What if our sexual integrity is intertwined with understanding these signals and aligning them with God's...

Aug 22, 202312 minEp. 273

Beyond the Label: Exploring the Pros and Cons of Identifying as a Sex Addict

Send us a text Can calling oneself a 'sex addict' serve as a stepping stone toward healing, or does it become a stumbling block on the path to sexual wholeness? Join me, Josh Glazer, in an intense exploration of this provocative subject, where we dissect the benefits and potential downsides of adopting this potentially loaded label. Through the lens of my personal journey from sexual addiction towards sexual integrity, we address the humbling effect of acknowledging the addictive nature of sin a...

Aug 15, 202318 minEp. 272

Jesus' Sacred Perception of Sexuality

Send us a text What if we've been interpreting Jesus' view of sexuality all wrong? Join me as we explore a fresh perspective on this topic: how Jesus saw people as sexual beings without objectifying them. We'll unpack how Jesus saw whole people, highlighting the divine difference between being sexual and being sexualized. Drawing from the ancient wisdom of Scripture, let's redefine how we view and value what it means to be sexual, applying it to our own interactions and personal perspectives. Th...

Aug 08, 202314 minEp. 271

Help! My Same-Sex Attraction Is Hurting My Friendships!

Send us a text In this week's podcast, Josh replies to questions from a listener who feels his same-sex attractions are getting in the way of forming new friendships. Perhaps you, too, have same-sex attractions and wrestle with fears of rejection or judgement as you try to build new friendships with other men or women. Or maybe you wonder how to tell if you're truly desiring friendship or unconsciously hoping to get closer to someone you find attractive. You're not alone, and in this podcast, Jo...

Aug 01, 202315 minEp. 270

Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity: A Journey Towards Integrity and Wholeness

Send us a text Join us for this heart-felt episode where we explore the arduous journey of rebuilding marital faithfulness after infidelity. This is a must-hear for those eager to regain a spouse's trust after being unfaithful. In this episode, we discuss the importance of focusing first on strengthening your character, rather than prioritizing winning back your spouse's trust. In the second half of today's show, Josh shares a story from Clinton and Charity Munoz, creators of Restored 2 More, ab...

Jul 25, 202316 minEp. 269

Facing Temptation: Fostering Sexual Wholeness and Growth

Send us a text Do you find yourself fleeing or distracting yourself when faced with temptation? This approach may actually be doing more harm than good in your journey towards sexual integrity, wholeness, and maturity. In today's episode, we explore the importance of acknowledging the underlying distress that often accompanies temptation and offer three steps to navigate through it more effectively. Listen in as we discuss strategies for feeling the distress, seeking help from friends and family...

Jul 18, 202314 minEp. 268

The Connection Between Confidence and Sexual Integrity

Send us a text What does it truly mean to walk in sexual integrity, and how can confidence play a vital role in this journey? Discover how our own sense of goodness and value can greatly impact our ability to love and be loved. In our conversation, we unpack the connection between our desire for goodness, the attractiveness of others, and the importance of cultivating a deep-rooted confidence that is essential for walking in sexual integrity. Embracing Jesus and recognizing His infinite goodness...

Jul 11, 202315 minEp. 267

A Journey to Understanding the Roots of Attraction

Send us a text Are you struggling with the magnetic pull of an idealized lover? Wondering how to break free from comparing your significant other to this seemingly perfect person? Fear not, as we reveal a powerful two-step process that will not only help you tear down that pedestal but also reclaim control over your thoughts and feelings. Together, we'll explore the childlike part of ourselves that's stunted, and dig deep into our past influences on attraction. We'll uncover the reasons for this...

Jul 04, 202313 minEp. 266

The Fantasy Framework - From Fantasy to Intimacy: A Journey of Self-Discovery

Send us a text What if our deepest sexual fantasies were actually signposts toward healing and connection? Join us for an eye-opening conversation with Drew Boa as we uncover the transformative power hidden within our desires. We discuss how our fantasies can point us toward safety, glory, and connection while providing the keys to unlock intimacy and healing in our lives. In this journey of self-discovery, we learn to face our fears, undo shame, and grieve our losses, bringing about personal gr...

Jul 01, 202312 min

The Fantasy Framework - Divine Restoration and the Secrets of Our Desires

Send us a text What if the secrets to unlocking our hidden qualities and traits lie in our deepest sexual fantasies? This episode invites you to join our captivating conversation on how interpreting these desires can help us reclaim our identity and discover the glory God has put in us. We delve into the power of the particularity of fantasies and discuss how they provide us with data that needs interpretation. With our guest, we explore how to tap into the original glory within us and seek safe...

Jul 01, 202314 min

The Fantasy Framework - Unraveling Unwanted Sexual Fantasies: Healing and Understanding with Drew Boa

Send us a text Have you ever found yourself struggling with unwanted sexual fantasies, attractions, or fetishes, and wondered how to overcome them? Our conversation with Drew Boa, founder of Husband Material, offers powerful insights and practical steps to help you heal and understand these complex issues. Join us as we discuss befriending our sexual thoughts and feelings instead of trying to get rid of them, and how God can speak to us through these different parts of us. We'll also explore the...

Jul 01, 202317 min

Understanding and Overcoming Temptation

Send us a text Do you know how to resist temptation and protect yourself from the enemy's lies? Join us as we explore the patterns of temptation and reveal valuable tools to strengthen your relationship with God. We dive into the story of Adam and Eve, uncovering how the enemy tries to divide us, exaggerate God's prohibitions, and downplay God's generosity.Learn how Sun Tzu's quote, "if you know your enemy and yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles," applies to our spiritual...

Jun 27, 202322 minEp. 265
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