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Be The Husband She Brags About

Kings of Freedomwww.kingsoffreedom.me
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\nThis podcast aims to end every man’s greatest fear that his best will never be enough to make marriage work, in the chaos of life’s overwhelming demands.
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\nJoin Masculine Mastery coach Mark Usher on a journey going from feeling frustrated, overwhelmed and incompetent  in marriage to being the confident, attractive and radically alive husband your wife will love, laugh and let loose with.
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\nBetter Husbands Today. Better World Tomorrow. 
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190: 3 Simple Steps From Conflict Avoidant Anxiety to Kingly Confidence in Communication Mastery

100% of men entering this work are conflict avoidant. Thus, 100% of men entering this work are not getting what they want in life and marriage. These three simple steps will help you unlock the doors to experiencing a married life of infinite expansion, connection and joy for you and your Queen forever more. A big, BOLD promise that’s backed up by the extraordinary results every husband who uses this simple process reports! Let’s begin….. To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and...

Jun 19, 20241 hr 5 minEp. 190

189: How To Master The Storm of Relating to Challenging Children and Criticising Wife In The Octagon of Husband-Wife-Children Conflict

Father-to-child relating is hard enough . Husband-to-wife relating is even harder . Husband-to-wife-to-challenging-child relating is a family man’s idea of hell! Here, Heroic Husband Men's Circle member Mike gets coached in how to begin mastering the art of becoming a grounded and heart-centred father in one of the toughest married life challenges. Let’s begin….. To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About? Find out more about...

Jun 13, 202419 minEp. 189

188: The Simple Conflict De-escalation Tool To Calm Her Irrationality And Have Her Love You For It!

GREAT NEWS! Arguably the most powerful communication tool to de-escalate your Queen’s irrationality is the simplest tool in the world for regular guys like you and I to use. It’s called labelling. It's insanely simple yet ridiculously effective in the Octagon of marital conflict. Let's begin..... To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About? Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here. Get your FREE ...

Jun 12, 202435 minEp. 188

187: "My Autobiography of Healing Trauma" with Dr Peter Levine

You meet the brilliant Peter Levine in this special guest episode. Mark recognises Peter as one of the most influential teachers on his healing journey to reclaiming his authentic voice and power in marriage and life. Sharing his personal journey to heal his severe childhood trauma, Peter is a river of insights helping you move forward with hope and courage no matter what has happened in your past. He reveals the mysterious and unexpected dreams and extraordinary life events that have guided him...

Jun 06, 202453 minEp. 187

186: How To Overcome Your Sexual Shame and Get What You Want in the Bedroom

Sexual shame in men is the most underestimated negative influence that kills intimacy in marriage long-term. Here Mark coaches Duane through his issue with sexual shame and getting what he wants in deep intimacy with his Queen. A short episode packed with immensely powerful insights and strategies to set your sexual dance on fire! Let’s begin…. To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About? Find out more about applying to join H...

Jun 05, 202420 minEp. 186

185: "Marriage Transformation Hero" Special Series with Tom Crate

In this episode we welcome in Tom Crate. Tom attacked his three-month Heroic Husbands 1-1 coaching deep work with ferocious intentionality . His commitment brought about an immense inner healing and reconnection with his radical aliveness and authenticity …..and of course a beautiful marriage transformation as a bonus! Here's the story of what happens when a regular guy commits to doing irregularly deep inner men’s work . Let’s begin…. To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and un...

May 30, 20241 hr 8 minEp. 185

184: How To Go From Marital Dead Energy and Overwhelm to Reawakening Your Radically Alive & Free Wild Man Energy

In this special episode, Heroic Husbands Men’s Circle member Andrew, brings a question every husband on the planet wants the answer of : “How do I bring a consistent energy of aliveness, cutting out the highs and lows , into my life and my family home for those I love the most on a daily basis ?” The answer is the Playbook you need to bring unlimited radical aliveness and freedom loving Wild Man energy back into your life and home for all to enjoy. Are you willing to pay the unknown and misunder...

May 29, 202422 minEp. 184

183: From Your Marriage Efforts Repulsing Your Queen To Easily Becoming Her King of Sexual Attraction and Masculine Leadership

Most husbands on the marriage transformation path are doing their best but struggling to make real change happen . Until you make this one crucial change in approach, your Queen will be repulsed by your best efforts. Making this one simple shift in your approach, you become like two magnets who endlessly struggle to attract, then one magnet turns round and BINGO! Radical attraction naturally happens! If your best efforts don’t seem to be paying off yet , this episode’s for you. Let’s begin…. To ...

May 23, 202442 minEp. 183

182: This Mysteriously Powerful 10 Second Practice Helps You Go From Stuck-in-your-Head Mode to Embodying Instant Trust-Earning Presence

Nothing in marriage is more common than a husband stuck in his head. Nothing in marriage is more repulsive to a wife than a husband stuck in his head. An over-thinking, stuck-in-his-head husband is one of the primary causes of divorces. This ONE simple practice, changes all that in 10 seconds flat! Virtually no other practice has a greater marital Return-On-Investment than this one! Let’s begin…. To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband Sh...

May 22, 20246 minEp. 182

181: The ONE Secret to Speaking With Your Queen About Sex With Natural Ease

Talking about sex with their wives is one of the toughest relationship challenges husbands face. Passing Hell Week in Navy SEAL training is easy in comparison! If you struggle with this, it’s not your fault and you’re not alone. This episode gifts you the one secret mindset shift every husband needs to enter sex life conversations with natural ease. To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About? Find out more about applying to j...

May 16, 202449 minEp. 181

180: Why 3 Minutes Is The Magic Number In Easily Becoming A Master in Conflict De-escalation

96% of the time you can predict the outcome of a conversation based on only the first three minutes of the interaction! Introducing the “Sinking Ship Back to Port” Game. Gamify your arguments to become a master in the art of conflict de-escalation. It’s easy. It works. And it’s available to you NOW if you've 5mins to spare! Let’s begin…. To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About? Find out more about applying to join Heroic H...

May 15, 20244 minEp. 180

179: The Easily Avoidable and Costly Mistake All Improving Husbands Make On Their Marriage Transformation Journey

On your road to being a better husband you will have THIS ONE distinctly uncomfortable experience with your Queen many times. If you do not expect it or understand it when it happens, you risk losing all hope in your marriage. If you are expecting it and understand it’s sacred meaning, you can navigate any storm and build an amazing marriage. Thus, expecting and understanding this one experience is pretty darn important for your sanity and marriage!!! Let’s begin…. To connect with Mark: Ready to...

May 09, 202435 minEp. 179

178: How To Use Your Eyes To Avoid Conflict and Get What You Want In Marriage

Our humble eyes can kill or cure our marriage struggles. One attacking or avoidant glance kills intimacy. One loving soft direct eye gaze reconnects and starts rebuilding her trust in you. This super practical 5-minute lesson will help you unleash the connection superpower that lies in your eyes. Let's begin..... To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About? Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles her...

May 08, 20243 minEp. 178

177: How To Apply The 3 Pillars For Consciously Parenting Challenging Children During Conflict

For fathers who find parenting difficult and challenging at times , Dan Peterson is the medicine to cure all our parenting woes. In Dan’s first episode on the podcast, he taught us the simple 3 Pillars approach to consciously parenting challenging children . It became one of the most listened episodes ever, so we had to get him back on! In this special episode, Dan coaches members of Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles how to overcome their greatest parenting challenges . Let’s begin…. Dan’s first epi...

May 02, 202457 minEp. 177

176: How To End Confusion and Have Focused Clarity as You Face Her Most Intense Storms

With no training of your mind and how it works , it’s almost impossible not to have major struggles relating with your Queen in deep intimacy. Thinking, talking and taking action are our universal life creating tools . The greatest skill you must develop is knowing how to consciously decide which thoughts to follow and which to disregard. This is how you develop Kingship level of mastery in this crucial life skill. Let’s begin….. To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecess...

May 01, 202438 minEp. 176

175: 3 Hacks To Stop Your Destructive Habit of Screen Scrolling and Become Your Queen’s Hero of Presence

Your mindless scrolling hurts your Queen’s heart. Your “just-a-glance” thinking hurts your Queen’s heart. Both kill your marriage . Marriages fly high with phones on airplane mode . Armed with these 3 easy-to-implement ideas , you will easily become her Hero of Presence again! Let’s begin….. To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About? Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here. Get your FREE “15 S...

Apr 24, 20245 minEp. 175

173: 5min Heroic Husband Habits: The 3 Pillars of Heroic Hope Save Marriages

This 5-min high flame episode empowers you to become an unstoppable force on your marriage transformation journey. The 3 Pillars of Hope add the nuclear power plant of energy driving you forward to get what you want. Let’s begin….. To connect with Mark: Last application calls being taken now for Heroic Husbands Men's Circle May intake. Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here. Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoff...

Apr 18, 20247 minEp. 173

174: The 4 Deadly Sins In Marriage…and How To Avoid Them

These 4 relationship sins haunt the background of all struggling marriages. No shame needed . The ancient root of the word “sin” simply means “to miss the mark”. This episode helps you see where you are missing the mark and how to re-aim so you hit the marriage bullseye! Let’s begin….. To connect with Mark: Don't miss the new intake into Heroic Husbands Men's Circles: book your free application call immediately. Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here. Get your FR...

Apr 17, 202446 minEp. 174

172: Heroic Husband Habits – Body Language Of A Friend, The Arguments End

Introducing Heroic Husband Habits! Short 5min blasts of high leverage habitual ways of thinking, talking and taking action to become the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship. Have you had moments in marriage when no matter what you say, nothing lands? Moments when your best intended words drive your Queen into worse moods? 90% of our messages are communicated through body language. More than 90% of husbands struggle with communication in marriage . See the link?!!! Let’s begin….. To c...

Apr 11, 20247 minEp. 172

171: Lead Her With Confidence With This Simple Navy SEAL Leadership Mindset

According to ex-Navy SEAL commander Jocko Willink, few leadership principles are as solid as High Ground. In a battlefield, High Ground literally refers to accessing the highest terrain available with view of the battlefield. As most marriages can feel like a battlefield at times , Jocko’s a good guy to seek advice from. This episode unpacks how you can use this simple perspective to become the trustworthy masculine leader she’ll follow into battle. Let’s begin….. To connect with Mark: Ready to ...

Apr 10, 202434 minEp. 171

170: You Will NEVER Lose Motivation Again Armed With THIS!

Marriage transformation can be a brutal spiritual dog fight requiring of you the deepest levels of resilience ever asked off you as a man. Imagine an emotional engine giving you an infinite supply of forward momentum to transform your marriage and life? Imagine no matter how black the situation feels, you had the constant power to drive forward to a better future. This episode tells you exactly how to access this power . Let’s begin….. To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and un...

Apr 03, 202432 minEp. 170

169: The Secret To Re-igniting The Fire Of Sexual Desire In Marriage

Sexual fire dies in the majority of marriages. So often that the most people assume loss of sexual desire is an unavoidable part of marriage. Yet in a small percentage of marriages, the fire burns brightly no matter how many years pass. This is their secret revealed. Let's begin.... To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About? Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here. Get your FREE “15 Simple Hab...

Mar 27, 202431 minEp. 169

168: The 7 Most Powerful Journaling Exercises To Save Your Marriage

If there’s one thing you need to know, it’s that journaling is your secret weapon in winning the battle to save your marriage. Regular journaling isn’t worth a damn. This episode introduces you to the World’s 7 Best Marriage Saving journaling exercises proven to bring epic results. Let’s begin…. Access Your FREE “The 7 Most Powerful Journaling Exercises to Transform Your Marriage” PDF NOW! To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags...

Mar 21, 202457 minEp. 168

167: "The Hero's Journey Beyond Absent Fathers And Sexual Abuse" with Andrew Briggs

Andrew Briggs came on to speak about his expertise in health and fitness. What then happened was one of the most inspiring conversations Mark has experienced since beginning the podcast. Andrew tells his captivating story of heroically overcoming the childhood experiences of not having his father present, having his face savagely mauled by a neighbours dog and experiencing repeated sexual abuse. This is a masterclass in embodying masculine resilience as you smile in the face of hell on your way ...

Mar 14, 20241 hr 21 minEp. 167

166: The Art of Setting Up A Super-Charged Sacred Space To WIN BIG ALWAYS!

Setting up a Sacred Space is the highest leverage action you can take to help you transform your marriage and entire life. CEOs, billionaires, social reformers, world leaders, military commanders rise before those in their world awake to set their mind and body up to win . Success leaves signs behind. 60mins every morning over 365 days gives you 9.5 WORK WEEKS OF TIME in one year to train your mind and body to excel in self and tribal leadership. It's your soil, sun and water time for feeding th...

Mar 13, 20241 hr 4 minEp. 166

165: "Marriage Transformation Hero Special Series" with Chris Williams

Get ready to listen to an early legend in the Heroic Husbands Movement , Chris Williams. Chris has faced and addressed issues of mental, emotional, and physical abuse, recognizing the harm caused by his actions . Through introspection and a commitment to change, Chris has embarked on a journey of personal growth and redemption. Despite his past shortcomings, Chris’s dedication to becoming a better man has seen him make massively positive contributions to his marriage, kids and community after ju...

Mar 07, 20241 hr 35 minEp. 165

164: 8 Questions From Ancient Mystical Mavericks To Make You Unstoppable

What if you had immediate access to your own super power by listening to wisdom from some of the world’s greatest ever mystical mavericks? Would you click play? OF COURSE YOU WOULD!!! So click play and let’s begin …. To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About? Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here. Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom...

Mar 06, 202435 minEp. 164

163: "Marriage Transformation Hero Special Series" with Duane Kennedy

We welcome in the impressive Duane Kennedy hailing from circle #3 in the Heroic Husbands movement. Duane details his process at overcoming years of his protective pathways emotionally abusing and gaslighting his Queen to carve out a spectacular transformation in his marriage in just three months. He shares the simple relationship strategies he is using to create massive change. His new approach has his Queen saying this is the most effective marital work he has done in over four years of trying ...

Feb 29, 20241 hr 17 minEp. 163

162: Why Heroic Husbands Do All The Work In Their Marriage Transformation Journey

The Heroic Husband approach to marriage transformation is exceptionally effective. Look at the wave of Heroic Husband circle members who are guesting on the podcast reporting how awesome their marriage transformation has been after just a few months. Yet, nearly every man has a deep resistance when they feel like they are expected to do all the work. When they drop this resistance, miracles happen . The episode aims to support you drop your resistance and start creating miracles in your marriage...

Feb 28, 20241 hr 3 minEp. 162

161: The Art of Defusing Atomic Bomb Arguments

Atomic arguments are those mundane moments that suddenly explode into a full-on argument. From one moment of peace to the next moment feeling flooded with righteous anger ready to fight tooth and nail to prove how right you are and how wrong she is! These moments destroy marriages. Period. If any of the above description sounds familiar , you gotta listen to this one! Let’s begin….. To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?...

Feb 21, 20241 hr 6 minEp. 161
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