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Be The Husband She Brags About

Kings of Freedomwww.kingsoffreedom.me
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\nThis podcast aims to end every man’s greatest fear that his best will never be enough to make marriage work, in the chaos of life’s overwhelming demands.
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\nJoin Masculine Mastery coach Mark Usher on a journey going from feeling frustrated, overwhelmed and incompetent  in marriage to being the confident, attractive and radically alive husband your wife will love, laugh and let loose with.
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\nBetter Husbands Today. Better World Tomorrow. 
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160: "How To Help Your Son Become a Man - PART 2" with Don Ross

After a sensational first guest appearance, the men within Heroic Husbands men’s circles demanded Mark would get Don back on for a Part 2! So here we are. Don goes deep into how to create a season of initiation for your son, systematically preparing him for entering manhood with confidence. If you want to know how to set your son up to know he has what it takes to be, do or have whatever he wants in life , this is a bloody good place to start! Let’s begin….. PART 1 of this special 2-part series ...

Feb 15, 202454 minEp. 160

159: Start Thinking Like A Shaolin Warrior During Conflict

Mastering marriage involving learning how to grab your mind, shut off the supply of BS, and turn on the wisdom tap. Period. Here's how. Let’s begin….. To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About? Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here. Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voi...

Feb 14, 202444 minEp. 159

158: How To Control Your Restless Monkey Mind During Conflict

The masculine practice in marriage is being the Mountain in the Storm. Your Queen’s unpredictable and untameable feminine core (the Storm) needs the spiritual medicine of your unshakeable presence; the Mountain. Heroic Husbands train to be Mountains in the Storm. Let’s begin… Access Your FREE Heroic Husbands Guided Meditations here! To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About? Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husban...

Feb 08, 20241 hr 2 minEp. 158

157: How Consciously Resenting Your Mother Will Transform Your Marriage!

If you release your subconscious resentment with your mother your marriage will thrive. If you leave resentment with your mother stuck in the recesses of your mind, your marriage is doomed to divorce or eternal struggle. It's that simple. No husband on the planet can afford to ignore this absolutely vital topic…. especially the ones who read this and think “but I don’t have any resentment with my mother” . Especially you guys!!!! Let’s begin…. To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswor...

Jan 31, 20241 hr 6 minEp. 157

156: My Most Powerful Daily Habit For Creating Uncommonly Deep Connection

This episode highlights the most potent daily connection habit a conscious King can bring to his relationship. Mark eats some humble pie as he discusses the negative marital impact of unwittingly dropping this one habit for during a recent period of outward life expansion. This episode is to remind you guys, and Mark himself, of the unmissable impact of this ridiculously simple connection habit. Let’s begin…. To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be T...

Jan 25, 202428 minEp. 156

155: Marriage Transformation Hero Special Series with Dean Hoag

We welcome in Dean Hoag, one of the many Marriage Transforming Heroes within Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles. Just two months doing this work, Dean tells his story going from habitually unconscious and hurtful ways of relating to rapidly being more able to make his Queen feel seen, heard and progressively safer in deep intimate relationship with him. If you’re looking for an exemplar of how to own your shit and turn the ship of your marriage around for the better , this episode is for you. Let’s b...

Jan 18, 20241 hr 22 minEp. 155

154: Marriage Transformation Hero Special Series with Anthony Marchese

In this special episode we welcome in Anthony Marchese. Anthony is one more regular man showing up with a ferocious willingness to do irregularly deep inner work within Heroic Husbands Men's Circles. Only two months within the circles at the time of recording, you will hear Anthony's story of how his has went from near separation to generating love, laughter and deepening connection with his powerful Queen once more. To connect with Mark: Don't MISS the next intake into Heroic Husbands Men's Cir...

Jan 17, 20241 hr 26 minEp. 154

153: Tibetan Wisdom To Help You Become an Unstoppable Heart Warrior

The most sharpened super-power of most men is their rational mind. It’s also simultaneously their own worst enemy in marriage and personal development. This episode places your awareness on a destructive rational mind blind spot that will screw up any chances you have of reaching your potential in marriage and life. With this awareness, spiritual unstoppability awaits the bold and brave men who have the courage to implement it’s wisdom. Let’s begin…. To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of g...

Jan 11, 202453 minEp. 153

152: End 2024 With ZERO REGRET Following These Simple Steps

“Today is a great day to die!” was the battle cry entering the battlefield of a certain tribe of Native American warriors. Yet, such a gloriously courageous engagement with life is not possible when you carry a lifetime of regret in your heart , like most people secretly do. Get ready for an intimate investigation as to where unspoken regret is weighing you down, and learning simple actions to course correct back to whole-hearted living. This special New Year’s episode will help you burn up all ...

Jan 03, 20241 hr 8 minEp. 152

151: 5 Simple Strategies To Dominate In Marriage & Life in 2024

Want no-BS, easy-to-implement, proven strategies to dominate in the arena of marriage and life in 2024??? Of course you do!! Let’s begin….. To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About? Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here. Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message ...

Dec 27, 20231 hr 6 minEp. 151

150: Eliminate Her Holiday Season Husband Criticism With This Strategic Masterplan

“Tis the season to be jolly, fa la la la la” …… and all that impossible expectations load of crap we’re bombarded with in modern marketing about this time of year. The unspoken reality behind closed doors in marriages, is that this time of year magnifies the crack lines ten-fold. The impossible standard to create the perfect holiday season for kids and visitors drive most wives to overwhelm leaving them lean in completely on their Kings for leadership impeccability….but what will his response be...

Dec 20, 202348 minEp. 150

149: Marriage Is Ceaseless Suffering Until You Build This Simple Practice

The great tragedy of men in modern society is the all-pervasive lack of felt permission to love oneself completely. Every man who enters deep men’s work comes to know he is not alone with his daily struggle of having his Inner Critic try to push him around in his inner world. So long as you are unconsciously dominated by this ruthless aspect of your Shadow, you will struggle in life and marriage . Today you enter an intimate journey travelling to the heart of where the start, middle and end of y...

Dec 14, 20231 hr 6 minEp. 149

148: "Decoding The Fantasy Of What Women Want" with Matilde Crocini

Join Mark and his Queen on a unique journey to decoding what women most want in their life partners by recognising the secret signs that lie in all successful romantic fantasy books written for female audiences. The male characters in the love relationships in these books embody with total clarity how the ideal masculine partner shows up in intimate relating. This provocatively challenging episode is only appropriate for husbands with the spiritual balls to get humble, and prepare the ground of ...

Dec 08, 20231 hr 52 minEp. 148

147: If Your Wife Is Jealous Then Listen To This NOW!

Nearly every husband has experienced his Queen giving him an earful at times for how he has been interacting with other women . This distrust can be overwhelming and at times and become a major reason for marriage conflict and breakdown. Most men have never radically questioned their ways of relating with other women outside of their marriage. This episode goes deeply into one of the most important shadow topics every husband needs to get real about in order to truly safeguard his marriage and t...

Dec 07, 202357 minEp. 147

146: "How To Help Your Son Become A Man" with Don Ross

This is a kick-ass conversation with Don Ross on the sacred topic supporting fathers take the guesswork out of helping your son become a man. Don describes simple and engaging ways you can start today preparing your son for adulthood. Get ready for a passionate, uncensored dive into deep masculine embodied spirituality challenging you to show up in the most potent way for your son. Let’s begin…. To connect with Don: Dad/Son Challenge (manhoodtribes.com) First Tribe: Path to Manhood (manhoodtribe...

Nov 30, 20231 hr 32 minEp. 146

145: Your Purpose Must Come Before Your Relationship

There exists a widespread felt destructive tension in marriages between a woman’s desire for a man to prioritise the relationship and his desire to prioritise his purpose as #1 in his life. Some spiritual teachings, or the interpretation of such teachings, add to the confusion and hurt this topic causes in marriages world-wide. This episode is a call to action to a deeper way of relating with purpose that fills up your Queen’s heart with love and sets the basis for her to naturally gift you her ...

Nov 29, 20231 hr 6 minEp. 145

144: "Conflict Resolution Made Simple For Rational Minded Men" with James "Fish" Gill

We welcome in the uniquely brilliant genius of Fish Gill and his beautifully simple recipe for creating connection out of any relational conflict . The greatest pain of every husband is feeling hopeless in transmitting their ocean of love for their beautiful Queen through their language and bodies in ways that she can feel and receive it. Fish illuminates a simple pathway and repeatable process to end conflict and plant incessant seeds of connection and love that actually land supporting both he...

Nov 23, 20231 hr 40 minEp. 144

143: How To Alchemise Marital Conflicts Into Hero Husband Status

Heroic Husbands learn to align their entire existence in support of gifting their authentic truth and love to their marriage and world . The only path that works is the initiatory path of claiming extreme ownership for everything in your existence….including a shitty conflict-ridden marriage!!! Here is a case study of how to use extreme ownership to turn conflict into the greatest opportunity for growth thus setting yourself up for Hero Husband status really soon. Let's begin.... To connect with...

Nov 22, 20231 hr 8 minEp. 143

142: The Most Stupidly Easy Strategy To Upgrade Your Marriage Experience

There exists one practice in marriage that lies as the ultimate King of high leverage strategies (when used!!!) to become the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship. No matter how good or bad your marriage experience is, this is your most direct route to reaching the next level and entering Hero Husband status. Let’s begin…. To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About? Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husba...

Nov 16, 202333 minEp. 142

141: 2 Steps To Stopping Your Inner Critic Sabotaging Your Marriage

There’s a part of every husband’s mind that secretly blames his wife and married life for being the cause of his lack of felt freedom and inner peace in life . In most cases, it’s a truly nasty voice that thinks of nothing at character assassinating the woman you love most in this world ….at least during and after conflict. Right? The key secret of marriage transformation heroes is bringing this voice from the shadows and alchemising it’s raw energy into love. Here are the two secrets how to per...

Nov 15, 20231 hr 6 minEp. 141

140: "Unleashing Your Savage and Saint Self-Leadership" with Michael Holt

We welcome in Michael Holt, an absolute badass in the arena of masculine vitality, self-leadership and living in integrity with your highest calling as a man. His potent and passionate message of Savage and Saint masculine philosophy will not fail to ignite a blazing fire of desire to align your life with your highest calling to self-mastery. Get ready to integrate your light and shadow, your saint and savage, and become the King you were born to become!!! Let’s begin…. To connect with Michael: ...

Nov 09, 20231 hr 14 minEp. 140

139: Why Every Husband Needs To Experience A Mid-Life Crisis

The male mid-life crisis caricature is a man who drop kicks his wife and family life , buys a sports car, begins living in his local CrossFit gym trying to hang out with cool people and finds the nearest twenty-year-old girl with father issues who wants to f!ck while feeling safely held. In this episode Mark argues the case that society would be infinitely better off if every husband experiences a mid-life awakening. No need for crisis, but total need for a widespread transformational awakening ...

Nov 08, 20231 hr 30 minEp. 139

138: Marriage Transformation Hero Special Series with Ty Humphries

We welcome in our third Marriage Transforming Hero from Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles, the badass masculine heart warrior Ty Humphries from Circle#1. Lean in to this raw and radically honest heart sharing from a man whose practice of becoming at one with his inner demons has allowed him emerge powerfully into embodied masculine leadership in marriage. His embodied wisdom from the hard yards he has gained along his inner work journey so far, will open every husband up to a new world of possibilit...

Nov 02, 20231 hr 30 minEp. 138

137: 10 Marriage Breakdown Warning Signs Husbands Don’t Notice

The most catastrophic capacity modern husbands possess in marriage is the ability to minimise and normalise how bad things really are. Listen in and wake up to finally noticing the inarguable signs that the house of your marriage may be unwittingly burning down. All marriage transformation heroics starts with the hero of the story getting radically honest with where he and his marriage are truly at. All divorces stem from husbands sticking their heads in the sand avoiding the truth. Maybe it’s t...

Nov 01, 202350 minEp. 137

136: Marriage Transformation Hero Special Series with Andrew Grist

We welcome in Andrew Grist, our second extraordinary heroic husband in our Marriage Transformation Heroes special series. Andrew takes us on a beautifully articulated journey into the depths of his deep inner work journey from over-coming his inner demons and vices to emerging victorious in the arena of marriage and heart warriorship with his sacred Queen. Don’t miss his impromptu rapping performance of masculine spiritual poetry near the end. It encapsulates the depth of embodied wisdom the spi...

Oct 26, 20231 hr 31 minEp. 136

135: 16 Powerful Actions To Win Her Hurting Heart Back

A Queen with a hurting heart sets a formidable gauntlet before her husband . Everything her nervous system communicates says, “rise into embodied Kingship or you will never gain access to my heart again.” In the majority of such cases, both the husband and the marriage burn up in the fire of her ferocious challenge to his mediocrity in love and connection. Yet, the brave masculine souls who rise to the challenge become the Kings they were born to become and the husband she’s proud to have at her...

Oct 25, 20231 hr 12 minEp. 135

134: Marriage Transformation Hero Special Series with Brendan Savage

We welcome in real-life Marriage Transforming Hero Brendan Savage to share his radically authentic story of doing whatever was necessary to become a better husband and father. From his childhood cultural upbringing where emotions were savagely frowned upon and shamed to his learning how to face and embrace his inner demons and come out victorious in self-love, communication, intimacy and marriage. An inspirational story of a regular man doing irregularly intense deep inner work within Heroic Hus...

Oct 19, 20231 hr 24 minEp. 134

133: 3 Secrets To Unfu!king Your Marriage

Using inspiration from John Gottman, the badass revolutionary of marriage therapy research, Mark digs deep into three essential pillars to unfu!king whatever struggles you are experiencing in your marriage. The sharing went profound and deep into challenging you to reach deeper into your power than ever before as a husband and man . To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About? Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husban...

Oct 18, 20231 hr 11 minEp. 133

132: "Soul-Centered Leadership In Marriage And Career" with David Peralta

We welcome in David Peralta to tell his inspiring story of saving his severely struggling marriage by reconnecting with his soul-centered purpose in life. This is a true heart warrior’s perspective of what it takes to battle through destructive inner demons by learning to face and embrace them head on. An inspiring story of what is possible for us as husbands and fathers if we have the courage to find the solution to all our external world problems by looking within. Let’s begin…. To connect wit...

Oct 12, 20231 hr 19 minEp. 132

131: 3 Steps To Stopping Resentment Kill Your Marriage

Resentment is the ultimate corrosive acid in love , which if ignored, relentlessly gnaws away at the foundations of your marriage. This episode will help you recognise signs of resentment and most importantly, provide a systematic conversational platform to reveal and heal this deadly enemy of loving connection. Let’s begin…. To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About? Apply to Join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here. Get you...

Oct 11, 202357 minEp. 131
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