We welcome in the inspiring Thomas Pfanner and his heroic story of learning leadership in parenting under extreme circumstances . Having to seek legal aid to just hold his son in his arms two weeks after his birth to learning to deal with years of persistent resistance and kickback to his leadership as a father, Thomas would face an uphill battle to overcome all the odds and successfully be a great father. It’s a story every family man needs to hear . Let’s begin…. To connect with Thomas: Websit...
Oct 05, 2023•1 hr 14 min•Ep. 130
What kills marriages is poor communication . 99.99% of poor communication involves three classic steps that create nothing but disconnection and mistrust. Conscious communication involves doing these three steps in exactly the opposite order! This episode gives you the complete Heroic Husbands conscious communication approach that husbands inside Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles are using to totally transform their marriages. If you are serious about transforming your marriage, this is one episode ...
Oct 04, 2023•1 hr 23 min•Ep. 129
A positive mentality is essential to creating success in any arena. In the Octagon of marriage, mentality is crucial. Most husbands mentality in marriage unwittingly sets them up for inevitable and severe loss of love and connection . In this episode Mark reveals the single most effective mentality with which to approach your marriage…..but only if you truly want to become the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship!!! Let’s begin…. To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork a...
Sep 28, 2023•31 min•Ep. 128
Ignore what’s presented in this episode and your marriage is doomed to long-term struggle or ultimate failure. Integrate this episode’s wisdom and she’s guaranteed to open her heart forever more with you. Let’s begin…. To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About? Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here. Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery Call Here: Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband ...
Sep 27, 2023•1 hr 10 min•Ep. 127
Get ready to enjoy a truly passionate conversation with the legendary Joey Odom from Aro on today’s episode. Joey tells his heart-breaking stories of missed family memories because of getting stuck scrolling through meaningless stuff on his social media feed. Sound familiar? This is a much-needed no-BS conversation between family men on what is truly at stake if we don’t wake up to the damage of uncontrolled phone usage on our family and marital dynamics. Joey gifts us the #1 highest leverage an...
Sep 21, 2023•1 hr 13 min•Ep. 126
Part of a 2-part special series, this episode introduces you to ten epic techniques and strategies to get you out of your head and deeply into your animal body ready for wild sex with your Queen. Most men struggle to switch their heads off during sex resulting in women being the first to lose interest in sex in long-term relationships most of the time. Stuck in your head, the sex for her is dead! Armed with these super-simple ideas you are set up for the best sex yet to happen the next time you ...
Sep 20, 2023•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 125
Tons of men around the planet often have the sexual experience of either being frustratingly too soft or prematurely ejaculating too soon. Unnecessary sexual shame with our inner critic beating the shit out of ourselves ensues, with us forming a love/hate relationship with having sex with our Queens. This episode shares one simple breathwork awareness and practice that will support you mastering your sexual performance when it counts the most. Let’s begin…. To connect with Mark: Ready to end yea...
Sep 14, 2023•32 min•Ep. 124
Mark reveals his eight personal reasons why marriage therapy is the last thing he would ever advise a man or couple to start doing in the hopes to save their marriage. Blunt, no-BS straight talking on what could be one of the most important potential decisions of your adult life. To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About? Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here. Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery...
Sep 13, 2023•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 123
The #MeToo movement awakened global awareness of the extraordinary number of women who have experienced sexual abuse . Yet very little is spoken of the immense struggle this widespread wounding creates in the private lives of married couples around the planet. Husbands doing their best to love but feeling like their best is never enough , while their Queens often never feel seen, heard or safe in the relationship living with the secret cross of shame and alienation. In this special episode, Mark...
Sep 08, 2023•1 hr 42 min•Ep. 122
Four untapped super powers lay dormant within you. Lying dormant, marriage will always be an unending struggle. Reactivated, these four super powers will have you rise to becoming the marriage transforming hero of your relationship. These are your 4 Masculine Archetypes: King, Warrior, Magician, Lover. Do you have the spiritual curiosity to activate them and reveal your greatest expressed power as the Heroic Husband you were born to be ? (I know your Queen would be passionately curious to see wh...
Sep 06, 2023•1 hr 16 min•Ep. 121
Enjoy this riveting conversation with Wayne Boatwright detailing his profound journey of rehabilitation and healing before, during and after his six-year sentence in the notoriously brutal San Quentin prison. From the depths of his hellish situation, Wayne tells his heroic tale of finding extraordinary ways to show up and father his children despite the obvious obstacle of being stuck in prison. This is epic healing medicine for the masculine soul. Let’s begin…. To connect with Wayne: About Me —...
Sep 01, 2023•1 hr 38 min•Ep. 120
The outer hell of a failing marriage invites us men to attain our freedom looking elsewhere. Some men will look outwardly gazing at all the potential freedom they could enjoy if they just got to fu!k away from their wives; some acting on this impulse, others leaving it in the unspoken fantasy realms. Others look inside into the true source of all their suffering: their mind. Great masculine spiritual practice in marriage involves looking inside to rediscover your greatest freedom and then sharin...
Aug 31, 2023•54 min•Ep. 119
In this episode we welcome in Michael Hegarty. After a successful 20-year banking career, Michael went from career and income ending uncertainty , to find his purpose building his bespoke leadership coaching business around his unique gift to ‘see the greatness in others.’ The challenge of pursuing this massive career change was met whilst leading his family including four kids of school-going age. Enjoy a beautifully open and vulnerable conversation where Michael invites us into his masculine s...
Aug 24, 2023•1 hr 28 min•Ep. 118
In this episode Mark shares on how a super intense conversation with his Queen would have classically ended in a marriage-ending style face-off if not for the practice of one key strategy: segment intending. This episode let’s you in on how to use this marriage transforming strategy to rejuvenate even the most subdued connection into an inferno of felt love and connection together . To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?...
Aug 23, 2023•51 min•Ep. 117
We welcome back in the amazing Four Arrows, guest speaker at the United Nations General Assembly 2023, to gift us sacred elder wisdom on how to show up more confidently as a man in marriage and life. Deep wisdom on harnessing the power of your mind to reach levels of performance and courage you never thought were accessible for you before. His ending story detailing his experience undergoing an appendicectomy surgery without medicinal anaesthesia is worth the entry ticket alone! Let’s begin….. T...
Aug 17, 2023•1 hr 16 min•Ep. 116
One of the greatest struggles in marriage for nearly every husband on the planet is trying to figure out how to create deep intimacy . This is especially true when, the further into marriage you go, the more disconnection and stagnation there is in most marriage experiences. So how is the well-intentioned regular guy in marriage meant to suddenly figure this challenge of creating deep intimacy in the moment? Here’s how, of course! Let’s begin….. To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guessw...
Aug 16, 2023•47 min•Ep. 115
Special return guest, Matilde Crocini (my beautiful Queen!), rocks the socks off us all in her in-depth surgical analysis of narcissistic mother-in-laws. Unchecked, narcissistic mother-in-laws can create havoc and destruction in your marriage. Enjoy Mark and Matilde's ring-side-seat experiences of overcoming the destructive narcissistic traits and behaviours demonstrated in Matilde's mother. Get ready to enter an uncensored revelatory ride of awakening awareness on this essential topic!!! To con...
Aug 10, 2023•1 hr 34 min•Ep. 114
Raw, real and delivered fresh from the octagon of my marriage today! Enjoy! To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About? Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here. Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery Call Here: Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clari...
Aug 09, 2023•35 min•Ep. 113
It's a fun title that speaks to one of the most transformative healing perspectives any husband can bring into his marriage transformation journey. This little known trick establishes a way of communicating that can burn up years of resentment in a surprisingly playful way leaving you the path of least resistance to creating the marriage of your dreams. Let's begin.... To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About? Find out more...
Aug 03, 2023•38 min•Ep. 112
Most husbands subconsciously think that exchanging marriage vows was the biggest commitment, yet that moment in the nervous system of our Queens doesn't count for sh1t compared with moment to moment embodied commitment. Deriving deep inspiration from a mountaineer's perspective on the miraculous powers of commitment, welcome to a direct challenge to up-level your commitment levels to a standard your Queen is irrefutably inspired by. Let's begin...... To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of g...
Aug 02, 2023•41 min•Ep. 110
The cultural shaming of desire has created one of the most destructive unspoken forces poisoning marriages in the modern era. Our primal body loves the radically alive feeling that desire in it’s broadest sense affords us, including but not limited to it’s expression in sexual intimacy. Yet, the culturally conditioned collective mindset of humanity has been indoctrinated into believing desire is somehow wrong. It's time to open our minds up to a spiritually centred perspective on desire that all...
Jul 27, 2023•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 110
A sad tragedy of modern living is that 99% of husbands are feeling lonely in marriage and life. We men are missing the spiritual nourishment of genuine deep connection with other men and often our marriages are unwittingly taking a destructive hit because of this . The subconscious boy energy patterns of neediness see our wives as the only source of love . This breeds the common catchphrase, “can’t live with her, can’t live without her”. Almost all men suffer feelings of resentment and rejection...
Jul 26, 2023•43 min•Ep. 109
The great feminine emotional wound is fearing abandonment in love. Unwittingly most husbands trigger this wound in deeply emotional moments with their wives by trying to suggest a fix or solution to the problem . The counter-intuitive trick to fixing a shitty feeling emotional moment your wife is experiencing is by meeting her there fully in that moment. In this episode I share a list of high leverage words to say that will be medicine for your Queen’s soul to relax into knowing her Conscious Ki...
Jul 20, 2023•39 min•Ep. 111
This episode comes off the back of an intimate relationship wisdom bomb dropped by Duey Freeman during my recent conversation with him. In these four simple words, you will have access to a high-leverage means to meet your Queen’s core feminine desire for union in love and sooth the core feminine emotional wound of abandonment. I’ve played with this four-word phrase with my Queen for weeks to extraordinary effect, having her chuckle in delight in light moments to softening into tears from feelin...
Jul 19, 2023•37 min•Ep. 109
In this episode we welcome back in Shea Fairbanks. Emerging from a childhood of immensely traumatising events, for years Shea would use alcohol to help numb the pain. Out of the ashes he would rise up to break free not only from alcoholism, but to create a life of epic freedom and uncommonly high levels of radical health and vitality. Shea is an Alcohol Free Performance Coach and passionate advocate for a sober lifestyle. With a background in human performance and a large focus on performance br...
Jul 13, 2023•1 hr 23 min•Ep. 109
I ate humble pie recently when parenting expert Dan Peterson came on the show. Entering the interview with Dan, I felt I had the parenting game in the bag. Dan’s reflections ripped this hood of arrogance off my eyes leaving me staring at major blind spots I had been unable to see. In today’s episode I share personal experiences in breaking up my arrogant ass parenting style immediately after I interviewed Dan. Dan’s three steps to consciously parent challenging kids has changed the game for me s...
Jul 12, 2023•46 min•Ep. 108
Few men have lived with such radical masculine inner and outer freedom of expression than Alex McAfee. Enjoy this rip-roaring ride through his inner and outer world adventures as he details his process of navigating life’s chapters while remaining true to his authentic self. It's the type of radical challenge we need set down to us as husbands to make sure we empty our fullest spiritual music into the arena of life while we are still here. Are you ready to pay the price to own your fullest, unap...
Jul 06, 2023•1 hr 22 min•Ep. 107
How you look is how you see. Marriage transformation can only happen when you bring into direct question how your mind looks on at your marriage. From one habitual perspective, it creates a loop of only seeing one possible reality, thus recreating the same reality. This is only an issue if you don’t like the reality that’s showing up for you in marriage. Most guys don’t like their married life reality so we all need to take a deeper look at our perspective. The simple-to-grasp paradigm shift pre...
Jul 05, 2023•54 min•Ep. 106
Jun 29, 2023•1 hr 20 min•Ep. 105
The experience of depression in marriage makes it a brutally painful and connection eroding experience for the couples involved. Yet, like every aspect of modern life, the experience we live out is determined by the social story we've been conditioned to believe . What if the story we've been told about our human experience of profound unrelenting sadness is the source of our cycle of disempowerment and hopelessness? And what if there's a fresh perspective that can support us liberating our hear...
Jun 28, 2023•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 104
