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Bare Marriage

Sheila Gregoiretolovehonorandvacuum.com

Tired of Christian pat answers about marriage? The podcast that goes in-depth into marriage, parenting, and even sex--to see how we can live the passionate life we were meant for. Paired with Bare Marriage--the blog!

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Episodes

Episode 199: Jane Austen, Pride & Prejudice, and Marriage Advice!

Send us a text Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month and get access to our amazing behind-the-scenes Facebook group, and more. Our Great Sex Rescue Toolkit –help for you as you talk about healthy teachings to your friends and church Support the show Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com ! Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libi...

Jul 06, 20231 hr 11 minSeason 6Ep. 199

Episode 198: The 4 Ways Complementarian Marriages Can Go Wrong (Keith Takes on the Danvers Statement)

Send us a text Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month and get access to our amazing behind-the-scenes Facebook group, and more. Our Great Sex Rescue Toolkit--help for you as you talk about healthy teachings to your friends and church https://baremarriage.com/toolkit/ Keith's Danvers Statement posts--Start here. Emerson Eggerichs warns against wives following into sin (watch the first few video clips and see his emotional response) Our Power of a Praying Wi...

Jun 29, 20231 hr 2 minSeason 6Ep. 198

Episode 197: How The Power of a Praying Wife Can Go Horribly Wrong

Send us a text Links to things mentioned: Join our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month , and get exclusive access to our Facebook group--and even free merch! A Synopsis of all the problems in Power of a Praying Wife --with an optional download Gretchen Baskerville at the Life-Saving Divorce, and her book The Life-Saving Divorce . Follow her on Facebook and YouTube . Gretchen's articles with info on the effect of divorce on kids ; the ACE study; and more. Sarah McDugal from Wilderness...

Jun 22, 20231 hr 20 minSeason 6Ep. 197

Episode 196: New Research on the Effects of Obligation Sex! (It's Bad...)

Send us a text Links to things mentioned: Sign up for our FREE webinar on June 21! https://us06web.zoom.us/webinar/register/WN_odcOvC0uTzugaA7JvnUe1w Our book The Great Sex Rescue! Join our Patreon and support our work for as little as $5 a month. Plus gain access to our exclusive Facebook group, exclusive merch, and more! Our research methods for The Great Sex Rescue , with FAQs, and a Twitter thread analying our methods by someone we don't even know! Article from The Journal for Sex Research o...

Jun 15, 202358 minSeason 6Ep. 196

Episode 195: How To Support Your Wife in an Equal Relationship feat. Todd Korpi

Send us a text Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon ! Get free merch, access to our Facebook group, discounts on courses, and more! Todd Korpi's book Your Daughters Shall Prophesy: Amplifying the Voice and Place of Christian Women ( https://amzn.to/3MWkPtH ) Follow Todd on Twitter and Instagram Our new " She Should Know " merch based on empowering sayings from our book, She Deserves Better Support the show Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com ! Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserve...

Jun 08, 202350 minSeason 6Ep. 195

Episode 194: Male-Centric Sex vs. the Female Sexual Response Cycle

Send us a text Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon community! It's super fun, and it helps fund our research! Join us for as little as $5 a month. Our book The Great Sex Rescue , plus our two books that look into the sexual response cycle in detail: The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex . Emerson Eggerichs: His podcast where the clips were taken from , plus the podcast where we analyzed his advice to the woman crying the shower ; the post where we went into ...

Jun 01, 20231 hr 7 minSeason 6Ep. 194

Episode 193: Tell Her Story: The Forgotten Women of the Bible with Nijay Gupta

Send us a text Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon ! Join us for as little as $5 a month, and get access to exclusive content while also supporting our research. Nijay's new book Tell Her Story Our podcast looking at how Emerson Eggerichs mishandles Scripture , featuring Nijay Gupta The audio version of She Deserves Better is now available! https://amzn.to/43tbmkp Our new She Deserves Better merch ! Amazon Prime's new series Shiny Happy People (coming June 2) Support the show Join Sheila at B...

May 25, 20231 hrSeason 6Ep. 193

Episode 192: How 'Every Young Man's Battle' Makes Everything Worse ft. Andrew Bauman & Zachary Wagner

Send us a text Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon ! Support us for as little as $5 a month and join our exclusive Facebook group, plus help support our research! Our new book She Deserves Better --the audio has now launched ! Our one-sheet download of the problems with Every Young Man's Battle Our podcast with Zachary Wagner , his new book Non-Toxic Masculinity , and his Twitter Andrew Bauman's book The Sexually Healthy Man and his Facebook Our Whole Story puberty course to tell your kids ab...

May 18, 20231 hr 19 minSeason 6Ep. 192

Episode 191: Finding a Healthy Church with Beth Allison Barr

Send us a text Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon ! Support us for as little as $5 a month, and get access to our unfiltered podcasts and more. Your donations help support our next big survey coming this summer! Our new book She Deserves Better Beth Allison Barr's book The Making of Biblical Womanhood, plus follow Beth on Twitter Our books that are awesome for couples about to get married-- The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex Support the show Join Sheila ...

May 11, 202359 minSeason 6Ep. 191

Episode 190: 'Pink' and 'Blue' Faith -- Plus we take a submission quiz! ft. Aimee Byrd

Send us a text Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month and get access to our exclusive Facebook group, unfiltered podcasts, and more! Our new book She Deserves Better! Aimee Byrd's book Recovering from Biblical Manhood and Womanhood, and her new book The Sexual Reformation Aimee Byrd's story of the bullying she went through in her denomination , and some more recent thoughts on the aftermath. Take the submission quiz yourself! It starts on p. 30 of this dow...

May 04, 202355 minSeason 6Ep. 190

Episode 189: Non-Toxic Masculinity ft. Zachary Wagner

Send us a text Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month and get access to our exclusive Facebook group, unfiltered podcasts, and more! Our new book She Deserves Better! Zachary Wagner's book Non-Toxic Masculinity , plus find Zachary on Twitter Our Hazardous Materials stickers to put on books you're concerned about The Instagram Reel from thatdarnchat Support the show Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com ! Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Be...

Apr 27, 20231 hr 19 minSeason 6Ep. 189

Episode 188: What We're Fighting For: A Glimpse 20 Years Down the Road

Send us a text Links to things mentioned: Our new book She Deserves Better: https://baremarriage.com/she-deserves-better/ Support us for as little as $5 a month, and get access to unfiltered podcasts, our exclusive Facebook group, and more. Join our Patreon! https://patreon.com/baremarriage The Instagram Reel from 247 Marriage: https://www.instagram.com/reel/CnetOgDhM1S/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link The podcast where we discussed "Girls Talk Too Much": https://baremarriage.com/2023/03/do-women-ta...

Apr 20, 202356 minSeason 6Ep. 188

Episode 187: 'Nice Guy' Syndrome & Drawing Boundaries: What Girls Need to Know

Send us a text THINGS MENTIONED IN THE PODCAST Our new book She Deserves Better Support us for as little as $5 a month, and get access to unfiltered podcasts, our exclusive Facebook group, and more. Join our Patreon! Article on the problem with “Nice Guy” behavior when it’s rooted in entitlement Our episode of Theology in the Raw with Preston Sprinkle (the interesting parts are from 30 minutes on) Support the show Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com ! Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She D...

Apr 13, 202359 minSeason 6Ep. 187

Episode 186: Shame, DARVO & Spiritual Bypassing - Let's get to the bottom of it! ft. Jasmine Holmes

Send us a text Things mentioned in our Podcast! Our Patreon! Thank you for supporting us and helping us fund our research. You can join us for as little as $5 a month! Jasmine Holmes’ new book Never Cast Out ! Plus find her on Instagram . Jasmine on our podcast a few months ago talking about her book Carved in Ebony. Our book She Deserves Better! Pre-order it and get access to our bonuses. Support the show Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com ! Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves ...

Apr 06, 202354 minSeason 6Ep. 186

Episode 185: Trauma, EMDR, and 'Himpathy' ft. Jenna Mountain

Send us a text Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon ! Support us for as little as $5 a month! Our new book She Deserves Better ! Send in your pre-order receipts for lots of pre-order bonuses. Study on Himpathy on what makes people sympathize with perpetrators rather than victims Jenna Mountain 's counseling center Aspen Haus Support the show Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com ! Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Gui...

Mar 30, 20231 hr 8 minSeason 6Ep. 185

Episode 184: Why do WOMEN also push the Modesty Messages? plus Why Churches Need to Recognize Date Rape

Send us a text Links to things mentioned: Pre-Order She Deserves Better and join our launch team! The Launch Team closes on Tuesday, March 28, so get your pre-order receipts in now! Help support our research, plus get access to unfiltered podcasts, an amazing Facebook group, and more, by joining our Patreon Last week's podcast where we looked at the problems with one of Shaunti Feldhahn's survey questions around modesty A podcast where we walked through another issue with Shaunti Feldhahn's surv...

Mar 23, 20231 hr 13 minSeason 6Ep. 184

Episode 183: What Modesty Messages Did to Us

Send us a text THINGS MENTIONED IN THE PODCAST She Deserves Better–our new book! Preorder on Amazon , or here are other places to get it (Baker Books has 40% off and free shipping within the U.S.!). Join the launch team if you’re willing to write a review! On Modesty: We shouldn’t sacrifice teens’ well-being for adult men’s comfort Support the show Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com ! Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy'...

Mar 16, 202359 minSeason 6Ep. 183

Episode 182: 'Do Girls Talk Too Much?' Another claim that was made up

Send us a text Links to things mentioned: Our book She Deserves Better! Pre-order it now (it helps us a ton), and then on Monday I'll give you information on how you can join the launch team. Sign up for my email list so you don't miss out on joining the launch team A study of gender differences in children and number of words spoken (hint, not much of a difference) An article explaining the issue of faulty claims , and giving the results of a study inspired by these faulty claims. The Mendelber...

Mar 09, 202352 minSeason 6Ep. 182

Episode 181: How Does Dating Affect Teens? Let's look at the data!

Send us a text Should we kiss dating good-bye? In purity culture, we made dating a sin. But what does the data actually say about how dating affects teen girls? In today's Bare Marriage podcast, we share our findings from our survey of 7000 women! Things Mentioned in the Podcast: Our new book She Deserves Better , which launches April 18! It helps us immensely when you pre-order ! Sign up for my email list to be notified about how you can join the launch team! Our book The Great Sex Rescue The U...

Mar 02, 202355 minSeason 6Ep. 181

Episode 180: Exodus Cry: What We Need to Know about Sex Trafficking

Send us a text Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon that helps support our podcast ! You can join for as little as $5 a month! There's unfiltered podcasts, our exclusive Facebook group (it's really active!), merch, and more! Exodus Cry . Check out the organization and see what they're doing! See how to get involved (it's easy!). Join the fight against PornHub, sign petitions, read their articles, and more ! Watch Exodus Cry's documentaries . They're so well done and hard hitting. Follow Benjam...

Feb 23, 202355 minSeason 6Ep. 180

Episode 179: Why Did a Church Put a Marital Rape Victim under Church Discipline?

Send us a text Today I want to tell you the story of an amazing woman who was the victim of her marriage AND her church that knew all the gory details, and yet chose to put her under discipline when she decided to end the marriage. TRIGGER WARNING In the first half of the podcast there is graphic descriptions of what her husband did to her. I did mention during the podcast when this was about to occur, so that people could fast forward if they chose to. But the description is horrendous. I wante...

Feb 16, 20231 hr 7 minSeason 6Ep. 179

Episode 178: Fixing Conversations Together! ft. Ngina Otiende & Philip Payne

Send us a text Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon! Our research relies on your support, and we're doing two huge new research projects this year. Join us on Patreon! Ngina Otiende: https://intentionaltoday.com/ https://twitter.com/NginaOtiende Philip Payne's new book The Bible vs. Biblical Womanhood ( available for pre-order now !) Other books by Philip Payne, including Man and Woman, One in Christ: An Exegetical and Theological Study of Paul's Letters , and Mutual by Design (where he has wr...

Feb 09, 202349 minSeason 6Ep. 178

Episode 177: The Bible vs. Biblical Womanhood ft Philip Payne

Send us a text Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon! Our research relies on your support, and we're doing two huge new research projects this year. Join us on Patreon! Philip Payne's new book The Bible vs. Biblical Womanhood ( available for pre-order now !) Other books by Philip Payne, including Man and Woman, One in Christ: An Exegetical and Theological Study of Paul's Letters , and Mutual by Design (where he has written a chapter on headship) Philip Payne's Twitter Support the show Join Shei...

Feb 02, 202357 minSeason 6Ep. 177

Episode 176: Bring Back 'Vanilla' Sex!

Send us a text Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month , and you can get access to our awesome Facebook group, our unfiltered podcasts, and more! This is the LAST WEEK to get the ebook for The Great Sex Rescue for just $2.99 ! On February 1 it goes up to its regular price! The Orgasm Course! If this is a struggle for you, we can help. https://baremarriage.com/the-orgasm-course/ Our new book She Deserves Better is out in April! You can pre-order it now. My p...

Jan 26, 202351 minSeason 6Ep. 176

Episode 175: How Emerson Eggerichs Misuses Scripture in Love & Respect ft. Nijay Gupta

Send us a text Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month and get access to unfiltered podcasts, while supporting our work counteracting harmful messages of marriage in the evangelical church OUR LOVE & RESPECT ONESHEET: Download our new resource Nijay Gupta's upcoming book Tell Her Story . Follow Nijay on Twitter ! Our post on Baby Bibles distorting the Genesis account Our original Love & Respect post , followed by our Open Letter to Focus on the Fami...

Jan 19, 20231 hr 13 minSeason 6Ep. 175

Episode 174: Why You CAN Trust Your Emotions ft. Becky Castle Miller

Send us a text Links to things mentioned: Patreon: https://patreon.com/baremarriage She Deserves Better (our new book coming in April; you can pre-order it now!) https://amzn.to/3ZGFs2P The Great Sex Rescue (on for just $2.39 on ebook this month, and the paperback is on sale too!) https://amzn.to/3GV4aou Becky Castle Miller Website: https://www.beckycastlemiller.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/bcastlemiller TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@beckycastlemiller Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/...

Jan 12, 20231 hr 7 minSeason 6Ep. 174

Episode 173: The Strike at Putney: What Would Happen if Women Just Stopped?

Send us a text Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon! Support our work for as little as $5 a month , including all the amazing things that are coming in 2023, including two new big surveys, one sheets of harmful books to give to your churches, and scholarships as others continue the research! Our podcast on finding new church homes The Strike at Putney by Lucy Maud Montgomery Our podcast with Beth Allison Barr The research study finding that churches with gender hierarchy produce worse health o...

Jan 05, 20231 hr 13 minSeason 6Ep. 173

Episode 172: We Are Not Spiritually Homeless Anymore! A Personal Christmas Update

Send us a text THINGS MENTIONED IN THE PODCAST Our Patreon ! They’ve supported some amazing projects this year, and you can join us for as little as $5 a month! The original podcast on feeling spiritually homeless Last year’s update on feeling so disappointed by faith leaders (plus the podcast on how the authors we critiqued responded to The Great Sex Rescue ) Support the show Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com ! Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide t...

Dec 22, 202240 minEp. 172

Episode 171: Identifying Spiritual Abuse and Trauma ft Dr. Foluso and Johnna Harris

Send us a text Links to things mentioned: Our patreon community! Join for as little as $5 a month, and get access to our exclusive Facebook group, merch, and more! https://patreon.com/baremarriage The Bodies Behind the Bus podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bodies-behind-the-bus/id1601586078 and Johnna Harris' Instagram https://www.instagram.com/bbtbpod/ Me as a guest on the Bodies Behind the Bus podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/guest-sheila-gregoire/id1601586078?i=10005...

Dec 15, 20221 hr 23 minSeason 5Ep. 171

Episode 170: Does God Hate Divorce? plus The Women Carved in Ebony

Send us a text Links to things mentioned: Our Patreon ! Support us for as little as $5 a month, and get access to unfiltered podcasts, more merch, and an exclusive Facebook Group! Our Merch! Makes great last minute Christmas gifts, and check out our Be a Biblical Woman or our Love & Respect collection, or even our new Fixed it For You ! Winston Bosch’s Sermons: What God Hates More than Divorce (Mal. 2:16) : Jesus and Divorce ; and Paul and Divorce Jasmine Holmes’ book Carved in Ebony , plus ...

Dec 08, 202257 minSeason 5Ep. 170
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