How is it halfway through 2023 already!?! In this episode, we revisit the personal and professional goals we made in January and discuss the progress we’re excited about, the goals we’re changing, and the ones that need a little more attention! Obsessions Becca - You’re Losing Me by Taylor Swift, Always Authors podcast Olivia - Merpeople on Netflix What we read this week! Becca - When in Rome by Sarah Adams This Month’s Book Club Pick - Fourth Wing by Rebecca Yarros (have thoughts about this boo...
Jun 07, 2023•1 hr 7 min•Season 1Ep. 273
It’s time to discuss our May Book Club Pick: Happy Place by Emily Henry ! We had so much listener participation for this book (and some unexpected mixed reviews!) and we can’t wait to dive in. In addition to discussing Happy Place, we cover the Emily Henry cannon, play listener questions and comments, do some fan casting, and rank our favorite Emily Henry Books! Obsessions Olivia: Jewish Matchmaking on Netflix Becca: Joe & The Juice Joe’s Green Mile What we read this week! Becca: Fourth Wing by ...
May 31, 2023•58 min•Season 1Ep. 272
This week we’re speaking with friend of the pod (and previous guest!) Ayana Lage ! Ayana is a lifestyle blogger and freelance writer based in Tampa, Florida. She writes about motherhood, mental health, social justice, and everyday life, and she published a story titled, “ Postpartum Psychosis Landed Me in a Psychiatric Ward for 17 Days. Now, I’m Ready to Share My Story .” for Cosmo in April 2023, and we’re excited to talk about her experience with her today! Content warning: we talk about postpa...
May 24, 2023•53 min•Season 1Ep. 271
Summer is on our mind and we are ready to break out the beach reads! This week we talk about what characteristics make up a perfect beach read, share some books we loved reading at the beach and pool, and play listener voicemails about YOUR favorites! Olivia’s favorite beach reads Funny You Should Ask by Elissa Sussman Black Cake by Charmaine Wilkerson Project Hail Mary by Andy Weir The Paper Palace by Miranda Cowley Heller Romantic Comedy by Curtis Sittenfeld Remarkably Bright Creatures by Shel...
May 17, 2023•56 min•Season 1Ep. 270
We’re back with more things!!! This time we’re talking about A.I., time management, Nicolas Cage, our Barbie selves, NYC real estate, and our current hyperfixations! Olivia’s things Thoughts on A.I. Hyperfixations Nicolas Cage Becca’s things Time management You personal Barbie accessories NYC Real Estate Gawking Our Hyperfixations: Becca’s Music Hyperfixations: Stick Season by Noah Kahan , All Of The Girls You Loved Before by Taylor Swift , Eat your Young by Hozier Olivia’s Current Podcast Hyper...
May 10, 2023•56 min•Season 1Ep. 269
This week we brought on our friend (and past podcast guest) Amber Burns to talk all about journaling. We ask Amber about how she got into journaling, why bullet journaling doesn’t have to be fussy, her adult school supplies, tips for new journalers, and more! We also do a live reading from our most recent journal entries! You can follow Amber at @byamberburns on Instagram. Amber’s favorite journaling supplies include Stalogy notebooks in the b6 size , Midori notebooks , and Pentel EnerGel Pens ....
May 03, 2023•55 min•Season 1Ep. 268
We’re so excited to discuss Before We Were Innocent by Ella Berman, a 2 time BOP book club author! This book fits right in the venn diagram of Becca and Olivia’s differing book tastes. We discuss how we felt about the friendship between the characters in the past vs present timeline (and between teenage girls in general), if we saw the twists coming, the Amanda Knox parallels, thoughts on the ending, and ask ourselves the question ‘who would you go to if you were suspected of murder?’ If you lik...
Apr 26, 2023•1 hr 3 min•Season 1Ep. 267
Time for another episode of Three Things! Featuring Succession, living closer to friends, the romantic allure of Pete Davidson, our spring mood board, and a mystery guest! Becca’s 3 things The ‘Article Live Closer to Your Friends’ by Adrienne Matei in The Atlantic Response piece by Anne Helen Petersen: You'd Be Happier Living Closer to Friends. Why Don't You? The allure of Pete Davidson A Thing from a ~Mystery~ guest - the article ‘Is There Life After Influencing?’ in the NYT Olivia’s 3 things S...
Apr 19, 2023•1 hr 11 min•Season 1Ep. 266
This week we interview Bonnie Garmus, author of Lessons in Chemistry and overall delight! We talk about her path to publication, what inspired her to write Lessons in Chemistry, how it feels to have this instant success after years of struggling through the publishing process, and more! She also shares more about the Apple TV+ adaptation of Lessons in Chemistry starring Brie Larson. You can find Bonnie at bonniegarmus.com and @bonnie_garmus_author on Instagram. Obsessions Olivia: Olipop Root Bee...
Apr 12, 2023•44 min•Season 1Ep. 265
Time for us to answer the age old question: Is the movie ever better than the book? Our current selves have a very different answer than we would have had 5 years ago. We’re talking about our favorite and least favorite book to screen adaptations, and the adaptations we are excited for, featuring calls from listeners with their thoughts! Favorite Book-To-Screen Adaptations Olivia: Gone Girl ( Book by Gillian Flynn ), 2019’s Little Women ( Book by Louisa May Alcott ), Tuck Everlasting ( Book by N...
Apr 05, 2023•1 hr 9 min•Season 1Ep. 264
It's time to discuss our March Book Club Pick, The Measure by Nikki Erlick ! We discuss why we thought it would make such a great book club pick, if we would open our box, how we’d change our lives if we found out we were a short-stringer, our favorite storylines, thoughts about the theme of fate vs. free will, and the books we’d recommend to those who liked this one! Some books we liked that are similar themes as The Measure: Project Hail Mary by Andy Weir , In Five Years by Rebecca Searle Obse...
Mar 29, 2023•1 hr 1 min•Season 1Ep. 263
After a stroke of genius on Olivia’s part, we’re spending this episode reading snippets of erotica we found in the dark corners of the internet. In addition to reading the glorious pieces we chose, we also ask ourselves questions like Why??? How??? Can we ever unsee this??? We also put our literary hats on and analyze the best passages, favorite characters, and the best reviews of our picks. Want to read these books? Your choice! Conquered by Clippy: An Erotic Short Story by Leonard Delaney Get ...
Mar 22, 2023•57 min•Season 1Ep. 262
It’s time to break down our March 2023 Three Things! We each brought pop culture topics, nostalgic reflection prompts, and thought starters to discuss this week. Olivia’s Things The Hailey Beiber / Selena Gomez / Justin Beiber situation Our go-to Fun Facts and Ice Breakers Something your 16 year old self would be surprised about, proud of, and hate about your current self Becca’s Things Ben Savage’s Congress Run Podcast Milestones (This month is the 5 year anniversary of Bad on Paper, and the 1 ...
Mar 15, 2023•1 hr 4 min•Season 1Ep. 261
We’re here to bring you our best and brightest advice, responding to your questions about everything from professional jealousy to writing productivity to wedding planning to personal style and more. Some follows/reads we suggested during this episode @anindigoday @carlywatters @mrsdowjones Bird by Bird by Anne Lamott The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin Obsessions Becca - Anastasia Beverly Hills Soft Glam Eyeshadow Palette Olivia - Pedro Pascal What we read this week! Becca - Things We Hide ...
Mar 08, 2023•1 hr 14 min•Season 1Ep. 260
This week, we’ll be sharing a day in our life. We each picked a specific day in our past week to break down in EXTREME detail (including the dreams we had the night before). We talk about what we did when we woke up, the breakfasts we had, the candles we lit, the packages that arrived, what corners of TikTok we’re in, and what we read! After talking about our days, we cover how this day lines up with our normal days, what we’ve left out, and what we wish we did that day to make it “better.” Becc...
Mar 01, 2023•1 hr 11 min•Season 1Ep. 259
We’re excited to discuss our February Book Club Pick Before I Let Go by Kennedy Ryan ! We really enjoyed this book (as did many readers, it has a 4.49 rating on Goodreads!) We talk about our thoughts on this book, why it's so loved if we found the romantic storyline believable, our thoughts on the ending, the future of the romance genre and SO! MUCH! MORE! If you loved Before I Let Go, you may like Seven Days in June by Tia Williams , and Happy Place by Emily Henry (Out April 25), and November 9...
Feb 22, 2023•1 hr 7 min•Season 1Ep. 258
Today we’re pretending to be guests on our own podcast and letting YOU ask the questions! We fill you in on our thoughts about the pressures to be on social media, our long-term goals, thoughts on “deinfluencing,” Olivia’s house updates, If we’re book jacket removers, the books that changed our lives, our dream food court, traveling hot takes, the Wikipedia or Reddit rabbit holes we fall down, and more! Becca’s life-changing book: Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert Olivia’s life-changing book: Maybe...
Feb 15, 2023•1 hr 6 min•Season 1Ep. 257
Valentine’s Day coming up and we are rounding up our favorite romantic comedies (in both book and movie form!) On top of our recommendations, listeners called in with so many amazing recs, your watching/reading agenda for the weekend will be packed! We also share our favorite romcom tropes! Becca’s Favorite Romcom Books Who’s That Girl? by Mhairi McFarlane People We Meet on Vacation by Emily Henry The Royal We by Heather Cocks & Jessica Morgan One Day in December by Josie Silver The Charm Offens...
Feb 08, 2023•1 hr 8 min•Season 1Ep. 256
We have some THINGS to talk about today (3 each to be exact!) spanning from makeup, to movie casting, to a personal Pinterest renaissance, and more! Becca’s Things What is the smallest hill you will die on? (Becca’s: Friends with Benefits > No Strings Attached , Olivia’s: Chipotle is worth the tummy problems, Lululemon leggings are overrated) A personal Pinterest renaissance The “It Ends With Us” casting news ! Olivia’s Things The Mind F*ck that is Moving! Feeling weird about makeup "Guilty plea...
Feb 01, 2023•56 min•Season 1Ep. 255
It’s time for our first book club of 2023! This month we’re talking about The Villa by Rachel Hawkins . We’ve heard a lot from our listeners about this book, and we’re so excited to talk about it finally! We share our thoughts about the two timelines, our theories about the ending, and play amazing listener voicemails with thoughts and theories about the book. We also discuss what sets The Villa apart from a typical thriller, how it plays with the idea of the self-help guru, and how this book wa...
Jan 25, 2023•1 hr 5 min•Season 1Ep. 254
It's time for a 2023 book preview! We brought on some of our favorite book people on the internet to share 2 books they’re excited about this year, and boy has our TBRs grown! We also ask the age-old question: If you had to bring a book character to a chain restaurant, who are you picking and where are you going? Follow our guests! Megan Prokott - @the_spines Traci Thomas - @thestackspod Taylor Choi - @bookswithtay Jenny Jackson - @jennyjacksonpineapple Giselle Gonzalez - @hopelessbooklover_ Bec...
Jan 18, 2023•1 hr 11 min•Season 1Ep. 253
Time for our first Three Things in 2023! We have a fun grab bag of things to discuss! P.S. Does Anybody else want to crawl into a hole for the rest of the year already? Olivia’s Three Things WFH wardrobe philosophies Journal Prompts Embarrassing Stories Becca’s Three Things Purchased Movies on Amazon Prime Realistic Dream Trip for 2023 Emily in Paris Becca’s Movie Purchases: Love and Basketball, One Winter Weekend , Christmas Around the Corner , Chalet Girl , Beyond the Lights , After , Girls Tr...
Jan 11, 2023•52 min•Season 1Ep. 252
For our first episode of the new year, we’re talking about our 2023 goals! We reflect on what we achieved and what didn’t pan out in 2022, and we’re giddy to share our personal and professional goals for 2023! If you want to catch up on the 2022 goal lore, check out our 2022 Goals Setting Episode Becca recorded with Grace in January, and our 2022 Goals Mid Year Check-in we recorded in June where Olivia also announces her goals. If you wanna hop on the 5-year journal train, this is the one Olivia...
Jan 04, 2023•1 hr 1 min•Season 1Ep. 251
We’re finishing 2022 on a strong note by talking about our favorite books of 2022! We cover our favorite reads spanning 6 different categories, and play voicemails from YOU about your favorite books! Favorite Book Club Pick Olivia: Black Cake by Charmaine Wilkerson , Lessons in Chemistry by Bonnie Garmus Becca: Project Hail Mary by Andy Weir , You Made a Fool Of Death With Your Beauty by Akwaeke Emezi Listeners: Wish You Were Here by Jodi Picoult , Black Cake by Charmaine Wilkerson Favorite Roma...
Dec 14, 2022•56 min•Season 1Ep. 250
It's time for us to look back on our best of 2022! We’re talking about our personal best moments and also our best purchases, entertainment favorites, and more! Tune in for our favorite episodes of the podcast, hard-boiled eggs, and Temperature by Sean Paul of course! Personal Best Best Day - Olivia: Her Umbria Road Trip! | Becca: The Day she sold her book! Best Meal - Olivia: at Zahav in Philadelphia | Becca: A restaurant in Rhonda Best Trip - Olivia: Tie between Iceland & Alaska | Becca: Rhond...
Dec 07, 2022•59 min•Season 1Ep. 249
It’s our final book club of the year! Today we’re talking about The Cloisters by Katy Hays . We chat about which plot twists we saw coming in this atmospheric mystery (and which surprised us!), and also dive into our love for the historical mystery embedded in this book, which led us to talk about our feelings on historical fiction in general. Plus, we’re sharing our own personal clairvoyant experiences. If you liked this book, you may enjoy The Secret History by Donna Tartt , Ninth House by Lei...
Nov 30, 2022•45 min•Season 1Ep. 248
This week we’re catching up with friend of the pod (and former co-host) Grace Atwood ! Grace shares everything she’s been up to from buying a house to creating a shoe with Sarah Flint! We also share a few gift ideas for besties, coworkers, and more! Follow Grace on Instagram , thestripe.com , and her newsletter! Gift Guide For your work bestie - $20 Grace - A fun ornament from furbish studio or a nice mug Becca - Erin Condren custom notepads Olivia - A Today’s Garbage notepad from The Tiny Tasse...
Nov 23, 2022•54 min•Season 1Ep. 247
This week on the podcast we’re chatting with Nora McInerny! Nora is the host of the podcast Terrible, Thanks for Asking and the author of five books, most recently Bad Vibes Only , a collection of essays that came out in October. With Nora, we take a walk down Tumblr memory lane and talk about how she decided to be so candid in her memoirs (and why she’s done writing them) the difficulty of writing about topics like self-image and grief, cleaning out your notes app, making big life changes, and ...
Nov 16, 2022•1 hr 14 min•Season 1Ep. 246
This week, we’re sharing our reviews on products that have gotten a lot of internet hype and answering the question: IS! IT! WORTH IT! Our listeners requested items in various categories they wanted our opinions on, and we’re breaking down our thoughts from the cost of the item, how long we’ve used it, what we like/don’t like about it, and how it compares to alternatives! We’d also like to stress that things do not equal happiness, and recommend reading this article about how money really affect...
Nov 09, 2022•1 hr•Season 1Ep. 245
We’re back with this month’s three things—hopefully a new monthly-ish tradition. We each brought something fun, something productive, and we both wanted to talk about an album we’ve had on repeat. Becca’s Three Things -Making a plan to vote: Go to vote.org to check your registration , find early voting locations , see what’s on your ballot , and more! And for if you live in the state of New York, check out The Daily’s episode about the New York Election . And for a laugh, check out this McSweeny...
Nov 02, 2022•58 min•Season 1Ep. 244
